#if anyone has any advice

[squinkreblogs]

Say what you want about New Vegas but dear god is it fighting against my Windows 10 rn

#ink rambles #fallout #fallout new vegas #like good lord #unfortunately trying to add any mods that fix and patch things just made it worst for me #everything flashes in the distance #If anyone has any advice #plz send help #fnv #also this is NOT a diss against it #it’s just an unfortunate thing w/ older games #tbh I love all the games equally for different reasons #even 76 #tried it w/ my friends and I don’t think I’ve laughed that hard in months #this just poking fun + a ask for help

[docresa]

Today I had the best time volunteering for a teaching project (which is led by our chief vascular surgeon).

That is, apart from the fact that we ran into some of our abdominal surgery attendings, who gave me a massive (verbal) side-eye for technically hanging out with the vascular surgeons in my free time. (Some of them don’t really see eye to eye, both medically and personally).

And I’m soooo sick of it, can’t I just try to figure out what I eventually want to do with my career without having to navigate a social and political minefield?

#yes I am technically an abdominal surgery resident #but since we are a general surgery department we do both thoracics and vascular as well #and both have been pursuing me to switch to their respective subspecialties #it’s putting a lot of stress on me tbh #because there are a lot of expectations #and I’m a stupid little people pleaser and I don’t want to disappoint anyone #and also I get excited by so many things #I get excited by pancreatic surgery as much as aortic surgery #though I’m at a point in my training where I do neither #which is ok btw #but how am I going to figure this out? #especially if everything I dip a toe in one department the other two get offended #and also there are some co-residents who would be very happy to have less competition in their respective fields #so there‘ll always be comments there as well #if anyone has any advice #please let me know #this is stressing me out #(and yes I do realize that this a very first world problem) #it’s still stressing me out though #and there is sooo much to finding a good mentor #I probably overthink this wayyyy to much #but yeah #After two weeks of actual vacation #(like actually being on another continent doing something completely unrelated) #my brain took the first best thing to cling to #sigh #resa rambles #residency #medblr #surgery

[clockworkbibliophile]

is anyone else in their mid-20s and has no idea what to do with their life? graduated from college 2 years ago, was laid off from my corporate real estate job last year, have just been getting by surviving off my savings for the last several months…. I hated that job it destroyed my self confidence and mental health so I am afraid to start another corporate job for fear that my burnout and mental health will cause me to do poorly at this job and be fired and also be miserable still…. don’t want to go back to school bc high school and college truly destroyed my brain and I can’t put myself through that mental agony again just for the sake of another degree…. but afraid to do anything outside of a corporate job bc how will I be able to sustain myself or ever be able to move out of my parents’ place working a minimum wage job at a coffee shop or a national park, life is so expensive and I am so afraid and have never felt more lost and alone in my entire life. pair that with going through a breakup and losing most of my friends this year….. I don’t know what to do. i’m afraid this will be the year that I finally choose to end my life after so many years of deliberating about it. because this truly feels like the rock bottom to end all rock bottoms. I have no idea where to go from here. every single day feels exactly the same: I am nearly always unable to extract myself from my bed and spend the day counting down the hours until nighttime when I have the tiniest bit of energy to pull myself out of bed and onto the couch to watch tv when it’s quiet and my parents aren’t awake and fighting. I feel like i’m reliving my high school years, but at least in high school I was able to fight for myself and channel any energy I had into working hard to graduate with honors. I have none of that energy left. it has been this way for almost a year now of being unable to pull myself out of bed, every single day.

#god I don’t know why i’m sharing this here #over sharing on tumblr has always been my thing though #if anyone has any advice #or if anyone has gone through something similar and survived it all and overcame it #I’m so scared and so deeply alone #I start therapy again soon but i’ve seen so many therapists over the course of the last 6 or so years and nothing has truly helped

[ghostlune]

so uhh time to do some research on hero worship- for no particular reason definitely not

#hero worship #baby pagan #hellenic pagan #paganism #pagan witch #pagan #paganblr #beginner witch #whitchcraft #if anyone has any advice #pls pls pls

[jewishbarbies]

hi! sorry if you don't want to answer questions about antisemitism, but, im a writer and in my story there's a secret organization.

while they're fascists and im pretty careful to not fall in antisemitic stereotypes, im worried about the secret organization thing would be inherently antisemitic, can i ask your opinion on that? ty!

I don’t think secret organizations are inherently antisemitic, but you’ll definitely wanna stay away from language like “the elites” and similar dogwhistles. It sounds like a pretty thin line if they’re a group of fascists, I’m assuming controlling things? that already plays into some conspiracy theories. I’m honestly not quite sure how to separate the two.

#Asks #anonymoose #if anyone has any advice #pls feel free to add

[drama-dick]

not to be sad but today I lost my last living grandparent. What do you do. /gen

#if anyone has any advice #or like things to watch that don’t involve death/loss I’d appreciate that #it just sucks when I see grandparents all the time at work #I have to see people with their grandpa and I’ll never have that again #not looking forward to it

[jackdaw-and-hattrick]

Hey, I have psychological and physical disabilities, ranging from mobility issues to PTSD, and I’m looking to get a service dog. Does anyone have any advice, especially around payment and affordability?

#disablility #service dog #I have a potential site but it’s prohibitively expensive and I need advice about going forward #my main concern is looking for a dog trained for my psych issues #I’m also looking for a big dog #if anyone has any advice

[morgynemberisagenderfluiddaddy]

Please I am BEGGING for some artistic drive rn

#plss #seriously please #it's been like two months #I'm just out of ideas ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #it is what is it #might have to log off for a while #i don't think this toxic cesspool is doing me any favors #if anyone has any advice #its greatly appreciated <3 #izzy speaks but i really shouldnt

[groovylittleclown]

Ok, so planning update!! (and what i got from amazon)

Let's start with what I ordered.

I got a Luigi hat, which I think I need to put something inside to give it a bit of a shape, because it's a bit flumpy on me.

I also got these gloves. However, as you can see, they're too big. So I'm gonna see if my dad or stepmom has any ideas for making it for better. I like the stripes at the back and the fact that I can use my phone with them. ye

Ok, now for the actual Poltergust plans.

The bag came with this insert, I think it's supposed to sit on the inside for the cat, buuut, I had another idea for it!!

I'm thinking I can attach it to the front to cover the three holes at the bottom, and for the panel for the green light thingy and switches.

Like that. (I'd add the other images I took to see the other sides, but I don't remember tumblr's image limit, and I'm already at six.)

There's also these holes on the upper sides. I'm thinking of adding a clasp on one of the sides, using them to hold it. That way, I can put the vacuum hose there so I can go hands-free like this.

And then that leaves the pocket here. This is only on one side, so I have to do a bit more thinking for this, but if I make a wheel to use as a cover, I can attach it with magnets maybe and still have access to the zipper. I don't know how sensitive opening the top will be, with everything on it, so I want to try to keep the alternative opening.

That is all of my plans and ideas so far. I still need to get advice for the vacuum hose and the button panel, especially.

Oh!! I also have this cardboard box the bag came in, that I can use. So I'm keeping it. Big box!

#ax's luigi cosplay adventure #long post #disregard the mess #i didnt feel like cleaning my bed #im really excited to work on this #if anyone has any advice #its greatly appreciated #luigi cosplay #cosplay wip #cosplay plans #i also got this little 1up mushroom keychain charm thing with my hat!! its so cute!!

[brainwrongbutalive]

I don’t usually use tumblr for this but I need to vent.

I’ve been doing everything right. I’m in a routine, I’m eating, I’m going outside, and prioritising my own health over work.

But me looking after myself has made me lose my job.

Separate to that, I’m now feeling very low again. I say separate to that because I felt low before I got that news.

I don’t know what else I should be doing. I’m taking care of myself and I still feel like shit.

I feel completely defeated.

#brainwrong content #depression #bipolar #tw: depression #tw: swearing #tw: mental illness #if anyone has any advice #please please tell me #because I’m at a ducking loss

[henrysblake]

Sitting outside drinking water just eaten lunch spoken to my friends been places i liked and i still feel like complete shit it is possible ladies

#if anyone has any advice

[shrine-fr]

WOAH.. MAPS ARE HARD

im trying to recreate the map of sorienth but for my lore x-x things are a wip i think i need a more.. center.. to it all.. also wind is a little nugget rn but i might change the wind territory to a bunch of floating islands that just like. orbit around the world. that sounds cool right

shadow is a swamp mangrove thing, light is hot but otherwise barren, lightning is still a desert but fire is a rainforest (full of orange firey trees and lava lakes) 

plague and nature share a border now because i think its more tense

arcane fights earth for those islands

the southern icefields look like a dragon because it is cool

and waters territory is.. all..

#fr #maps #if anyone has any advice #HELP #PLEASE

[rowantreesandberries]

It's been one week since my sibling had top surgery and it has maybe been one of the hardest weeks. To be extremely clear, it's not because i think they were wrong to get the surgery or I disagree with gender affirming care or any sort of transphobic or bigoted reason. It's purely because they're in so much pain and I can't *do* anything to help

I'm helpless to stop their pain and sometimes I've caused it while helping to care for the healing incisions. And gods all help me it hurts to watch them experience this and watch them know that this was a pain they chose and have to work through those two conflicting ideas. And I wish there was some way for me to help take this pain from them, all of it and there isn't and goddammit it sucks

#If anyone has any advice #I would welcome it #Truly #If there's something I can do as a support person for them

[interstellarstorms]

Every time I think about having to work today I have to fight back tears and I can’t figure out why

#my mom says i should call off but i don’t know if i should #if anyone has any advice #let me know

[justanothergreb]

Things that have happened since Thursday:

* returned to work, team member calls me to say they have been diagnosed with cancer and its going to need a lot of treatment. Caused them to get upset when I asked if and when he wants to speak to his team

* lovely former work colleague had a leaving do, current colleagues were almost gushing of me to my newbie who liked hearing me be spoken about. Then had a strange conversation waiting for transport

* second newbie showed up an hour late to his 1-2-1 (well didn't even show up) after specifically requesting this time for his 1-2-1

* BIL announces his engagement via WhatsApp to a walking red flag after barely 6 months of dating, with no plans to move in together but planning a wedding for next summer...honestly never seen two people less suited to each other than these two, with no visible chemistry or spark. He's using his parents getting engaged in 6 months (in the early 80s) as a barrier to avoid criticism. Times are so so different my friend.

* said in laws appear to be putting on a very brave face and its clear to everyone that something is very wrong with this whole situation.

Term hasn't even properly started yet and I can already feel the breakdown coming.

#doomed by the narrative of my own life #this has all happened in 3 days #work thoughts #family drama #relationship feels doomed from the start #seriously what is wrong with men #if anyone has any advice

[spectermansion]

sooo an update on my computer if anyone cares

it's not the monitor, but the actual tower, that's displaying a no signal message. i'm literally fucked. i don't know much about computers and the nearest bestbuy is 30 minutes by train. like WHAT

i'm calling my one from home tonight to see if there's anything i can do but if not looks like i'm taking the train to best buy!

#rabbithole #if anyone has any advice #pls help