#idk how adults aren’t pissed

[allofuswantgwinam]

and I’m not tryin to be like a Debby downer when i complain about things 😭😭 it’s good to be positive and stuff but like shit is not right. In my state they’re trying to pass a law to not guarantee lunches for workers, plus so many other things in the world. Ya girl is not havin a good time and I don’t understand how everyone is just like complying.. I want out of this shit foreal. This is not living. I feel trapped in a world that I don’t want to be in

#i am not having a good time #I am so stressed about so many things that are out of my control #I do what I can #idk how adults aren’t pissed #they’ve been doin this shit longer than me #and they just like ‘ok everything’s fine’ #NOTHING IS FINE #like I’m doin my best and I’m not in a bad mood even rn #im just so over this ‘life’ #I don’t feel like I’m living #I feel like a fucking robot

[pub-lius]

Tell me your favorite fact about John Laurens and another fun fact about anyone of your choosing. <3 /p

oh man my FAVORITE?? hm. im pretty sure any of my favorite facts aren’t necessarily FUN but i will tell you my favorite laurens story since i think everyone should know about it

so towards the end of the war (1780 or something i can’t remember dates) he was chosen to serve a diplomatic role in france (again i forgot what it was) but his mission was pretty much just to get uniforms and more troops sent from france to the US. during this time he kinda had beef with benjamin franklin bc franklin’s whole thing was very gentle diplomacy since yk he’s working with aristocrats.

laurens, however, was an asshole. he kept causing problems and not doing things the way franklin wanted him to and this kept developing as he got more and more pissed with the french. eventually, some dumbass got him an appointment to present his petition to the king and his ministers. usual protocol was that you walk in, bow to the king, and present your papers to one of the ministers, and leave.

laurens didn’t want to do that. he presented his case DIRECTLY to the king, and- allegedly- drew his sword and said something along the lines of “if you don’t help us now, we’ll go to war later”. king louis was like 😀 like mf wasnt even mad he was just shocked. so he just. handed the papers off to one of the ministers and went about his day, while laurens stormed off and threw a hissy fit. he technically got his requests approved, but he didn’t organize it properly and left it in the hands of an incompetent person so it was a fucking mess. he didn’t want the job so like that was to be expected.

okay, as for the other fun fact, im going to retell a story about hamilton that one of my instagram mutuals told me, so i dont have sources for this one but i think its funny

so hamilton had a friend staying over at his house bc he started feeling sick after dinner and so he yk just stayed the night bc he didn’t wanna make the ride home. so he was sleeping in one of hamilton’s bedrooms and then like hamilton walks in, TUCKS HIM IN, and is like “gn little judge [the friend was a judge] what would we do without you 🥰” and just left him baffled

idk how true this is at all but i think the idea that hamilton’s sense of humor was talking to young children like adults (thats from a letter) and talking to adults like children. if anyone knows about that story, pls reblog with the dudes name if you have it bc idk it 😭

anyway ty for the ask!!! i enjoyed it :)

#john laurens #alexander hamilton #fun facts #history #amrev

[sword-is-bored]

A Change in Jobs

Link x Reader

(This is a concept for a new story I want to write? Idk)

“A Fathers Love” the prequel to this :)

Skyward Sword!

“Are you sure you’ll be okay helping me? I don’t want to put you in danger.” Link’s voice was weak as (Y/n) carried him. His arm was wrapped around their shoulder, their other arm holding him upright as they walked. Faron Woods had very few places for them to hide from the wrath of Ghirahim. Blood dripped down his side, and his face was messed up too. He was limping, one of Ghirahim’s daggers sticking out of his leg. (Y/n) dragged him to the Sealed Temple and set him down. “Even if I do get in trouble…” They said, propping him up. “I owe you the favor. You saved me. Besides, I’m more familiar with being in danger. I can handle it.” (Y/n)’s hand wrapped around the dagger in Link’s leg. They pulled, a cry escaping his mouth. (Y/n)‘s hand immediately pressed into the wound, applying pressure. Link hissed, his own hand coming to press the wound as well. “Good, keep your hand there.” (Y/n) said and tore off a strip of their shirt. They wrapped it around Link, keeping it tight but loose enough for circulation. Link released his leg and felt the ache begin to soothe. (Y/n) continued their work on patching Link up.

For a moment he didn’t see Ghirahim’s underling. He didn’t see the person who’d been tormenting him alongside the demon king. He saw the young adult who looked at scared as he was. The painted diamonds on their face to impress their demon lord. They worked hard to patch Link up, and even got him out of the fight. “Father! Stop!” Their voice had rang clear through the room, and Ghirahim was towering over Link. He did stop. His eyes flickered, and for a moment the red within them vanished. A soft blue hue hiding behind those eyes. (Y/n) had grabbed Link and dragged him out of the room as Ghirahim stared.

For months (Y/n) had been threatening to kill him all the same. Laughing at his pain, cheering on Ghirahim. (Y/n) pulled up Link’s shirt to reveal another wound. They began to apply a makeshift bandage as well. Link had watched as Ghirahim threw them in the way of a monster. One of his own monsters. (Y/n) had begged and pleaded for Ghirahim to save them, but he vanished. Leaving (Y/n) to die. Link had recognized this and saved (Y/n). Their face reflected the confusion and horror they were facing, but seemed grateful. They left to find Ghirahim as well. Link noticed they seemed more distant to the demon lord and well… now it made sense. (Y/n) was trying to repay him in some way.

(Y/n) looked up and sighed, pressing a hand to Link’s face. “Not much I can do about that. I’m sorry.” They said, sitting back. “It’s alright. I feel a lot better. Thank you.” Link said, pushing himself to stand. (Y/n) watched and stood as well, awkwardly looking into Faron Woods. “I should leave now.” Link said, shuffling to the door of the Sealed Temple. (Y/n) nodded and watched him carefully. Link realized something. “Aren’t you going back to Ghirahim?” (Y/n) bit their lip and turned back to the woods. “Maybe. I don’t know.” They said quietly. “To tell you the truth… I’m worried. He’s not the same man I grew up with. I’m concerned he’ll hurt me if I go back after what I’ve done.”

Link was confused. “Not the same man?” (Y/n) nodded. “He used to be a lot more kind. When the ground started shaking his skin and hair changed. He changed. From my father Ghirahim to… a Demon Lord. He’s never touched me before, but I know helping you survive will royally piss him off. I don’t think he’ll hold back. I don’t know where I’m supposed to go.” Link could feel the hope of escape radiating off of them. They were nervous about seeing Ghirahim again. “Would you like to come with me?” He offered. “There’s a safe place for you in Skyloft, and if you’d like to continue searching for my friend with me I know you’re skilled. And you have inside information about how Ghirahim and his army works. You can finally be yourself.”

(Y/n)’s harsh demeanor seemed to crack. Link saw a child underneath the walls they had built up. Their eyes widened and their shoulders relaxed. Their once stiff and tall stature shrunk in on itself. “I don’t know how I can repay you. I’ve been terrible the entire time, and you’ve been nothing but kind.” They said quietly. “Think of it as… a change in pace. A change in employment. Work for good instead of evil.” Link held out his hand. They took it and looked into his eyes. A smile crossed their face, lighting up their entire body. Link felt a blush creep on his face, a feeling within him wanted to see this smile more. “Alright, yeah. That makes sense. I’ll help.”

#the legend of zelda #link legend of zelda #tloz #legend of zelda #link is a softie and i stand by that #x reader #i love him #link x reader #link x you #link skyward sword #skyward sword #loz ss #the legend of zelda skyward sword #legend of zelda skyward sword #reader insert

[strawberrysturniolo]

Honestly wish the fandom would just let the triplets be adult men lmao. When I was 20 I was definitely fucking 😂 and made a lot of inappropriate jokes. It’s like they’re not allowed to be anything but 17 to these ppl and it’s big weird. I’d hate to feel like I had to constantly censor myself and act all innocent for fans that don’t even know me. Idk how their content is supposed to grow with them if they can’t say whatever they want to say.

frrrrr idgaf if they’re fucking or they’re not but it pisses me off when ppl act like they aren’t allowed to do shit. you are not their mother. the ppl that are bothered by it are the 12 year olds who think they’re gonna be with them LMAOOO SORRYYYYYY

[unohanabbygirl]

Idk if in HIPS you're going to introduce Alyn and Addam

But Rhaenys being like I FOUND YOUR LOVER AND CHILDREN

Corlys:😥😢 Merlyn king protect me how tf am I going to gaslight my wife saying that they where Laenor's.

*Lucerys and Osferth are are thrown into the middle of the court*

Corlys: my prayers were answered it's just luke and osferth, close enough Rhaenys,close enough...wait a minute....LUKE AND OSFERTH 😦😦😦

Or the whole court doing that humiliation and the dragon seeds like...You are aware that there are four seeds here, right? There are four dragon riders in this enclosure...We pilot adult dragons....

Obsessed with the image of an almost 80yr Corlys who doesn’t realize Luke and Osferth aren’t supposed to be in the middle of the crown room for a good ten minutes while everyone else is pissing themselves in confusion. Just straight up vibing because Rhaenys didn’t find his actual mistress and side babies until he remembers that his grandson is meant to be dead and his great-grandson isn’t even supposed to exist.

His facial expression just slowly morphs from one to the other until it all kicks in like “😨😰😯😮‍💨😧🫨”

The entire court is bastard shaming and the dragon seeds are like “I thought y’all were progressive 🤨”

#asks

[rabidkoalasinmybloodstream]

i have decided to share some more of my headcanons about the golden era slytherins, so… here it goes! headcanons part two

(also these are mostly when they’re adults)

daphne is knows a LOT about sciencey things, and makes those informational things that have matching worksheets (if you know what i mean?) for muggle classes online

astoria is demi everything. demiromantic demisexual demigirl. (pronouns she/they) she could love any gender.

blaise really likes to embarrass draco by loudly calling him pet names in public, and draco absolutely hates it. (“well you didn’t mind me calling you super-mega-foxy-awesome-hot in bed last night,” “BLAISE!”) also they’re literally asexual. like they did not have sex. by “in bed last night” blaise meant when they were cuddling, draco was reading, and blaise was kissing draco’s temples and rubbing his back.

pansy owns a bookshop in diagon alley, and a lot of the time theo comes and helps her out. sometimes scorpius does, too.

draco and tori bake together a lot

pansy always calls luna “my favourite manic pixie dream girl” (disclaimer: i don’t ship them. sorry.)

after tori and ginny became friends, the other slytherin just started, like, flocking to her?? and ginny’s like “well i guess these are my friends now. ha, ron’s gonna be pissed.”

draco has fancy loopy cursive handwriting

the first time theo saw daphne’s handwriting he genuinely thought she wasn’t writing in english

draco plays piano, violin, and saxophone.

pansy plays the drums and electric guitar

theo can play (play? blow? idk. knows how to work) the trumpet

draco wears contacts, and absolutely refuses to ever wear glasses. one time in fifth year he lost his contacts for a week. he had to write schoolwork with his face two centimetres from his parchment and get someone to read the textbooks to him, but hey, at least he didn’t need his to wear his glasses.

contrary to popular belief, draco hates coffee. he doesn’t, however, hate being taken seriously, so he puts dr pepper in mugs. he doesn’t tell people it’s coffee, but he doesn’t not tell people it’s coffee. 

theo finds the boat scene from willy wonka and the chocolate factory terrifying.

pansy’s eyes are dark green. like, very dark. veeeeeeery dark.

and that’s all for now. sorry there aren’t that many, i’ll post some more later. :)

#harry potter #slytherin #draco malfoy #fuck jkr #harry potter headcanon #blaise zabini #daphne greengrass #headcanons #i do not support jkr #pansy parkinson #slytherin headcanon #slytherin squad #theodore nott #theo nott #luna lovegood

[sharedtrauma]

So, what do you imagine Lucas and Max in the future?

Oohh good question !!!

Something I’m desperate to talk about and think up ideas for is how the ST characters would be in modern day. Max and Lucas currently would be 50/51. I think they’d be married by now. Lucas I feel like would probably be a science professor, like at a university level or maybe he’d be a writer. Either a non fiction writer or sci-fi writer. Max I’m a bit more unsure about. I could see her having a simple job like working at super market or shop or something since I honestly feel like she seems like the type to prefer doing what she’s passionate about as hobbies instead since it would be more freeing and just treating a job as just a way to make a living. I could see her possibly running a video game or comic shop or maybe even being a radio show host since I think music would become a very big part of her life after the Vecna incident. I really can’t see her working any sort of corporate job, I think she’d get too pissed off at her boss, the way all that fucking “trickle down economics” shit works & overall sheer boringness of it. She and Lucas strike me as the type to not “grow out of” their nerdy interests and would probably just kind of evolve with them. I can see Max (and Lucas) still being into video games and Lucas still liking DnD but in a more adult way if that makes sense. Like they’d be one of those cool older nerds in town that like the some of the same stuff as the kids around do as well as being around for the big boom in nerd culture which the younger people would find super cool and interesting as apposed to like, those nerds that never grew up and try to still act young when they clearly aren’t. Also this is really random but for some reason I’ve had this headcanon that they’d both be into Gorillaz for ages. Idk why exactly but it just makes perfect sense to me lol.

#this is so rambly sorry lmao #lumax #stranger things #lucas sinclair #max mayfield #st4 spoilers #asks #anon #headcanons

[shouta-aizawow]

[for the ask game]

T!

HI HI :D idk if you’re ok with me saying your name so I won’t, but thanks for the ask!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

T - Do you have any hard and fast headcanons that you will die defending, about anything at all (gender identity, sexual or romantic orientation, extended family, sexual preferences like top/bottom/switch, relationship with poetry, seriously anything)

Bakugou/Bakugou-Related

Bakugou is Not CisHet has to be the biggest one. That boy is queer I tell you!!!!

Uhhhh I don’t see him being romantically attracted to women at all as well. Like, maybe sexually ig but not romantically. He’s not into the girls in his class at all. I accept MomoBaku hesitantly, but I think his “crushes” on women are largely just celebrity crushes (like on pro heroes)

Also I refuse to believe he will grow up to be some sort of tank like endeavor. Absolutely not. He will be lithe. There’s no way he’d be able to do all those arial maneuvers otherwise

He’ll be the number one hero idc idc (unless he decides he doesn’t want to be. If he wants to be he will be one)

He’s good at stealth. Not even a headcanon, but he is quiet when people aren’t provoking him, and he’s extremely level headed in a fight even when he’s pissed off.

He’s not gonna be super tall as an adult. Look at his parents, that boy is not growing more than 6’ (tbh I can accept it but only if his partner(s) are taller than him) He gives “I got my growth spurt in middle/high school school” energy. If he has a growth spurt, I think he’d be really awkward in his body for a while until he grows more confident and has a high self esteem.

Mitsuki and Masaru are bad parents. It’s not “””confirmed””” but based on canon it’s clear that they aren’t, even if they love Katsuki.

He has PTSD, he’s neurodivergent, he’s insecure, has a superiority/inferiority complex, he has depression and anxiety

Bakugou pushes everyone to be better. His friends stick with him because they like him, not just bc he cooks for and tutors them, and he pushes them to improve and expect the best of themselves

Although Deku was Shouto’s first friend, he considers Bakugou his closest or best friend. The Remedial Squad is a healthier friendship for Shouto than the Deku Squad (I’d argue that they’re also healthier for Bakugou than Sero and Mina)

Disclaimer: Bakugou is not a toxic friend to Shouto. I think now Bakugou considers Shouto his friend and respects him based on his words in the manga, but before that, Bakugou has stated numerous times that they were not friends. He can’t be a “bad friend” if he doesn’t even consider them friends, and Shouto can believe they’re close friends (I think they’re close) even if Bakugou doesn’t think they’re friends. That doesn’t make Bakugou a bad person

If he‘d okay with sex, he is not a top or at least not a top-leaning switch IDC WHAT YOU SAY HIS NAME COMES LAST IN A SHIP

Kaminari

Kaminari isn’t some twig I will not stand for it. (Also the way he’s portrayed in fanon a lot of the time is a squick of mine) He may not be as muscular as some of others, but he has muscle and I think when he gets older, he’d either have the body type of Hawks or more buff

He’s an awesome friend to Bakugou idc idc idc he knows boundaries and doesn’t do things he knows Bakugou won’t like. At the beginning he may not have liked him, but he likes him now

Kirishima

Kirishima will be tall. Very tall. Tbh I think all the boys in 1-A would be pretty tall (mineta doesn’t exist)

He’s definitely mixed

He’s emotionally mature and would speak up if he has a problem. He wouldn’t just let if fester

He’s occasionally insecure like the average person, but he’s not depressed (he’d probably have PTSD based on this year alone, but at least beforehand I don’t think he was depressed) and definitely not suicidal

He doesn’t want to “fix” Bakugou at all. He became friends with Bakugou because he knew that that was how he was. Of course he wants to push Bakugou to be better, but he doesn’t think he needs to be fixed. Speaking of Bakugou, Bakugou doesn’t make him feel insecure in the slightest. He makes him feel stronger

Deku

He’s gonna be a tall tank like All Might (maybe not as tall but yknow what I mean). I guess I could accept if he’s short, but he will be buff

If he didn’t have OFA, then I think he’d be shorter and definitely have no muscle like his middle school days. Probably more on the lanky side, maybe awkwardly so, but maybe he grows into it

Deku isn’t a good friend to Todoroki

He’s lowkey but not lowkey an abuse apologist (Endeavor, Overhaul, I’d even argue with Kota’s parents although I don’t think they were abusive. He handled Kota’s grieving in an absolutely awful way.) I think this is Hori’s mentality being portrayed through Deku, but

He’s an unreliable narrator

He doesn’t respect boundaries, least of all the boundaries of Bakugou (again, not really a headcanon just based off of all the times Bakugou as verbally and no verbally expressed discomfort with Deku’s knowledge of him and actions yet Deku keeps pushing)

Teachers

Aizawa is not straight

Present Mic is not straight

All Might is an awful awful awful mentor and teacher

Midnight shouldn’t be a teacher of kids. She’s,,, ick

Nedzu is 0/10 and shouldn’t be a principal when he hates humans (if he’s a good… person… in fics that’s fine, but I definitely don’t think he is in canon)

Others

Mina is black

Miruko is black

Rock Lock speaks only facts. He’s always right

Inko is not a bad parent in the slightest. She’s may not be absolutely perfect, but she’s a good mom

I probably have more, but this is all I have at the moment. If I have more, I’d probably reblog this post with them 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

I like how I managed to squeeze in Bakugou in nearly every category. Go me!!! 🕺🕺🕺🕺💃💃💃💃💃💃

#thank you for sending!!! #🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 #this is my opinion #you won’t change my mind <3 #if you don’t come correct then I’ll block you #(this is for the ppl that sometimes come into my mentions) #wow! asks! #long post #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #bakugou katsuki #bakugou #bakugo katsuki #bnha headcanons #if you saw typos no you didn’t

[youcancallmenoob]

MEAT SWEATS

More of the pig man toughts.

SO I like like him alot. Idk how long this will last so ima try to throw up everything i have now. IF U READ AND LIKE THE MAN/HAVE OWN STUFF MESSAGE ME I WANNA FKING ARF ARF ABOUT THIS MAN.

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

There is self insert me. A furry who likes wearing tail and ears outside sometimes (i do. for real) Get mistaken as a mutant and mr MEATYMEATMAN kidnaps you to try to harvest your power. Realizes I’m just a fucking furry so pissed there is no power to leash. BUT he likes ppl and when people recognize him! AND I DO! TOP CHEFF RUBERT HOLY SHIT! 

End up staying around the little kitchen he had build in the subway! Wanting to stay. He is confused by this but lets you. It feels good to have someone “normal” to talk to !

(i keep messing up you and I but that all is same person now based on me just try to keep up)

There is a slow bond growing (and a crush).

He takes longish time accepting that someone might like him in his mutant form... BUT LOVE BLOSSOMS IN THE END!

i don’t have details on these ideas yet :C

Then there is a fight with the turtles at your little hideout! They think you are a victim and take you with them without any questions. Small screaming and drama there Rupert trying to get you back but nope you are yeeted out. No problem right? You can just go back? Turtles take you with them in hopes you know Ruperts plans! YOU ARE PISSED! I AM NOT TELLING YOU! TAKE ME BACK TO HIM! turtles are confused. You wanna go back?? YESSS!!

Maybe Meat Sweats is pairing with the Hipno hypno dud? And you indeed are hypnotised? They keep you in to find a “cure”. All you can do is sit there and wait. Think of a plan to run but you aren’t really a plan gal/dud so you are pretty much stuck. 

THEN THERE IS TWO OPTIONS.

A.

Meat sweats comes in try to just beg you back! The turtles are fucking confused but end up seeing that this truly is just relationship between two consenting adults. and they are indeed the bad guys for kidnapping you.

B.

HE BREAKS IN THE LAIR WITH HELP OF SOME OTHER MUTANT. Turtles are sure its a personal attack and fight! but then it comes clear Sweats is there for you! and this is indeed a saving mission! Same out come turtles feeling like shit about all of it.

#trotmnt #tmnt #meat sweats #meatsweats #tmnt meat sweats #meat sweats tmnt #rupert #rupert swaggart

[watanabes-cum-dump]

Ranting abt how my childhood is being MASSACRED

Man I hate how the live action films always butcher Transformers 😭like plz Optimus IS NOT a bloodthirsty bitch they don’t explore the characters outside of combat, that is reserved only for the human character. HUMANS in a series named after THE ROBOTS.

Idk it just pisses me off like why do the animated shows do more for the character than the live action movies? Like stop trying to force Transformers live action bruh I know that CG is expensive just animate all of it. It’s about the TRANSFORMERS my god.

Transformers gotta start taking more notes from the comics bc some of that shit is GOOD and I know everyone back in what, 2013 ish would have killed for a More Than Meets the Eye animated series. Listen, some things just work better in animation, giant robots that turn into cars happens to be one of those things.

Also I would just fucking explode from happiness if Transformers got some of that 2D/3D spiderverse-esque animation treatment a lot of recent animated movies have been getting. It’s soooo fitting because you know, Transformers is mostly comics at this point.

Listen, I just KNOW that Transformers has the potential to do so good in the modern age if the right people just handled it. The beauty of these non human creatures being so painfully human is exactly the sort of thing I think people would go crazy over nowadays.

I kinda like Earthspark, it’s a very interesting and new take on the series with the war having ended and shit, but I feel like it’s being held back by the restrictions of being a “kid’s show” and it’s kinda sad. A lot of cartoons and “kid’s shows” were beloved and enjoyed by adults.

I just wish that the Transformers brand just wasn’t super concerned with appealing to kids because listen, you’re DYING you have to understand that your viewers have grown. Almost no kids these days like Transformers. That doesn’t mean make more Michael Bay movies (it means anything but that) it just means maybe be a little more mature.

Like I said I think Transformers is just one of those cases where it can’t really help it like it just has to be animated in order to focus on more on the actual Transformers than the humans. (case and point Cyberverse) They should have the spotlight instead of the humans so there’s really no need for live action imo. I also think animation would be the safest so that you aren’t cashing out all this damn money for CGI and explosions. Animation is not just for kids, we have gone over this please I think a more mature animated Transformers series would go over well with the fans who let’s be honest, are for the most part in college by now. Even when I was a kid most kids didn’t like Transformers anymore.

Anyways this has been my delusions it is 1:45 am I should sleep soon

#Woweee that was a bit much #Time to not talk about transformers for another year and go back into hibernation #Transformers #kouryuu's shit

[symphonic-snapdragon]

fuck antinatalism.

• let’s take a look at the term: “i didn’t consent to being born.” consent implies a state of existence where action can be taken.

i.e, i [a living adult] consent to sex [an action between living adults], i [a living adult] don’t consent to sex [witholding an action between living adults]

i [a living adult] consent to this medical procedure [activity required for a living person] i don’t consent to this medical procedure [activity required for a living person].

i consent to this relationship, i don’t consent to this relationship.

the term “consent” only applies to a decision made by an adult in a state of being, or withholding a state of being after existing in a state of being.

friendly reminder that consent can only be given by an ADULT. children cannot consent.

even in cases of MAID (medical assistance in dying), the LIVING individual must consent to die first. consent always implies there must FIRST be a state of being where one can make an educated decision before making said choice.

- addendum: whether or not you believe in fetal personhood (im not going into a prolife/prochoice debate right now), these two fronts can agree that antinatalism is stupid.

• prochoicers: a fetus cannot consent because a fetus is not a person, and therefore doesn’t exist as a person yet.

• prolifers: a fetus cannot consent because that is a child and children cannot consent.

do you see where i’m going with this. antinatalism implies that a fetus can consent to existence, since the term “consent” can only be used for an adult in a state of being agreeing to change their state-of-beingness. so either way, antinatalists are saying that

A) a fetus is alive and can consent —> prochoicers disagree

B) consent is applicable to children as well —> prochoicers and prolifers disagree

C) the term “consent” which applies to people already in a state of being now applies to an embryo —> prolife and prochoice disagreement

it’s not every day when your ideology is so off the charts batshit bonkers that two opposing ends of the spectrum will simultaneously disagree with it (prochoicers and prolifers), albeit for different reasons.

ALSO the guy who popularized the ideology was an upper-class white south african man. put those pieces together. (silly goofy apartheid moment 🤪)

Also this same guy described shitting and pissing and eating as “suffering” so that’s pretty telling of how privileged this guy is 💀

not to mention that primarily white ecofascists love using antinatalism to get rid of the poor, the disability community, and POC.

procreating isn’t some inherent irredeemable evil, it’s the singlehandedly most morally neutral thing about human existence.

maybe instead of getting rid of humanity to solve the problem of suffering. we should like. idk. get rid of corporations and monopolies and hypercapitalism, work towards saving the environment, enrich our communities through local activism and grassroots movements. it’s about time that we treated boundless optimism & unfettered joy as a staunch act of resistance in the face of a cruel world. instead of. you know. deciding that some lives aren’t worth saving because “oh but they’ll suffer.”

on a personal note. my life shouldn’t be snuffed out just because i suffer from ocd. my ocd causes a great deal of mental suffering in my life. yet despite that, my life is still worth living. i would rather live with the fucked up intrusive thoughts and learn how to ignore them, rather than not exist at all.

we are responsible for saving us from extinction. we save us.

#i’m adding prolife and prochoice context because i saw discourse on antinatalism from both sides of the spectrum #prochoice POV saying that antinatalism sounded quote dangerously prolife unquote #because it implied fetal personhood #prolife POV saying that antinatalism is eugenics and ultimately hardcore extremist prochoice ideology #sorry for the serious post i just fuckin hate antinatalism #long post #my rants #my essays

[f4therfucker]

hi, the world makes me sad and the sex education a lot of people receive makes me sadder.

i work in an adult superstore. so i sell like sex toys and all that good stuff.

lemme give you a quick run down of some hygiene/health things. this isn’t everything to know, just some things off the top of my head.

piss after you have sex. you can get UTIs like that.

you should be cleaning every toy after every time you use it. preferably using a toy cleaner. water and soap is ok, but toy cleaner will be better for your toys. just wipe the toy down with the cleaner, and you’re good.

- some decent brands include; swiss navy (they also have body wipes and cleaner), cal exotics is a p decent brand in general, jo has a foaming toy cleaner.   - some toys, like dildos or strokers (or packers, i know they aren’t sex toys, but this info is relevant to them too), need a refresh powder. use cornstarch. it’s cheaper and basically the same thing as doc johnson’s ultraskyn - how to use refresh powder - clean the toy, let it dry, smother that shit in powder and rub it in until it feels nice and soft again.

be careful with flavored condoms and lube. a lot of them have glycerin, which can cause yeast infections and other bacterial infections when used vaginally. when used anally, it can still give you a yeast infection (yes, you can get a yeast infection your ass) or it can give you the shits (glycerin can be used to help with constipation, i think. idk how it works i know sex stuff, thats out of my realm of expertise.)

- there are a few flavored condoms and lube and are safe. sensuva is a good brand in that they don’t use glycerin. flavor is up to personal preference. i personally like it, but others don’t. - if the flavored condoms or lube in question are being used for oral sex on a penis it doesn’t matter so much. (note - there are always exceptions. if your dick has dry skin or something, you’ll wanna stay away from glycerin - it’ll make it more irritated. you’ll wanna use something waterbased, bud.)

please, please, holy fuck i beg of you never use glow-in-the-dark condoms. i know they’re a good meme but they are super fucking ineffective. just fucking worthless truly. they have the same issues as flavored condoms. they really don’t protect against std’s or anything. please stay away from them.

dental dams are good for performing oral sex on a vagina or anus. they can protect against diseases, are some are flavored.

- flavored dental dams are ok because the flavored bit doesn’t touch with the mucus membrane. that’s the part your/your partner’s mouth touches. - if you don’t wanna buy them but have condoms you can make a dental dam out of a condom.

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if any of this was unclear or your curious about anything, please lemme know! i will be happy to answer any question you may have. i do not mind awkward questions.

#sex education #sex ed #not the show #i wanna help you fuck good #but also how to be hygienic and shit about it #just a side note but there is some dude just tweakin outside my fuckin apartment #hopefully he doesn't do some fuck shit #idk if he fucked off #rip me if h doesn't #if you have any questions post related lemme know #also do me a favor and ignore my horrendous formatting

[danielfuckingricciardo]

Me and my friends went for a day out today, and I just wanted to share with you all the experience we had at a karting place. Trigger warning for Sexism in general and mention of Andr*w T*te. Gonna put this under the cut because it’s a bit of a rant.

Obviously I’m a big f1 fan, and I’ve gradually managed to drag some of my friends into being fans too. Because of this, when we saw a karting place for adults we were like ‘fuck, this is so cool! We can race each other and have fun zipping around the track together!’ So naturally me and two others, both female presenting, decided to give it a go.

We paid, and then headed to the track to get seated in our karts. At this point, one of the guys staffing the place (probably around the same age as us, maybe mid 20s or so) name drops Andr*w T*te over the tannoy system. I initially laugh it off, thinking he’s taking the piss out of him for his stupid comments on F1 he’s made in the past.

As my friends and I are getting into the seatbelts, another guy comes to check they’re secure and fastened, and as he does so, asks each of us ‘do you like Andr*w T*te’

I say no, obviously I don’t. He’s a fucking top tier douchebag with some of the worst opinions on the planet. He’s sexist, homophobic, transphobic and so much more. So naturally, to me and my female presenting friends who are also LGBT+ started to feel a little uncomfortable.

Nevertheless, we’d paid for the experience, so we get to racing. It’s fun. Really fun. I loved it, it was great to race my friends and go around the track. But I can’t shake what these guys had said from my mind, and neither could my friends.

We get out of the karts once finished, and return to the other three friends and tell them about what they had said to us. Naturally, they were outraged.

These weren’t just innocent comments. They were loaded in sexism because we were, to them, three women. Just three women wanting to drive fast around a track. And they thought that the most professional thing to do was to make us feel uncomfortable immediately before we had even started driving.

This is how harmful people like T*te are to society. The influence he has been able to have over men and their attitudes is really showing. Especially when we were doing something traditionally ‘male’ or ‘masculine’ like karting.

Idk what I’m really trying to articulate here, it’s late and I’m running on four hours of sleep, red bull, and spite, but I just cannot help but think this is really a reflection of the world of racing right now in general. Like is it any wonder that women aren’t able to do well in things like F1 when these are the attitudes women are faced with??

We see it in the grandstands, in the commentary boxes, on social media. Time and time again women are harassed, hated and teased for no reason other than their sex. And it’s fucking disgusting.

Anyway, this was just my experience at one karting place somewhere in England. But I can guarantee other places contain the same kind of staff who have been indoctrinated by the king of discriminatory attitudes presented in the media by people like T*te.

We were made to feel uncomfortable doing something we had paid to do, just because of the sex in which we were born which is just simply fucking disgusting.

I’m unsure how or where I would be able to report them, or even if they would face any punishment or reprimand for their actions today. Sadly this isn’t the first time I’ve been on the end of sexist comments and it certainly won’t be the last.

I just want to document this here to, I don’t know, maybe provide an extension to the bigger picture that mainstream sexists like T*te are having on societal attitudes, particularly those of young men.

I wish we could live in a world where people are not judged for things they cannot change. Things they cannot choose, and that don’t have any impact on the quality or worth of a person. However, that’s clearly just a dream, a fantasy world that will never be because in 2022, men like him are still allowed a platform.

Thanks for reading x

#trigger warning: sexism #trigger warning: Andrew Tate #personal #we really need to change shit because this just isn’t right #I’ve had a hell of a day but I needed to get this out somewhere #because I’m fucking pissed off rn

[kassiedaniele]

Odd little thing to bring up, ik, but why do ppl get so obsessed w/ trying to make you out to be the villain when you—quite literally—didn’t do a damn thing

Like why am I hearing from a certain someone that old drama is resurfacing bc..? Like, tell me, what interesting thing did I do this time? lmao

Anywho, idk who tf did what they did girl but it’s been 3 to 4 yrs 😭 I’m not the only person you’ve tried shit w/, I can grantee that given all the ppl that have tried talking to me abt you (not enough to piss me off, it’s just funny)

Which btw, you—or whoever—have gotta stop telling others abt me or some shit bc idk how they know what happened but it certainly isn’t the right version lmao

& what’s this abt wanting to fight me, again? Or am I mishearing that? Last time you (supposedly) tried doing anything to me it was a failed attempt at getting your besties little sister to push me up the stairs LMAO

“Accidents happen” like cmon 😭

Also, you’re notorious for not being a fighter, either, otherwise you would’ve actually done something 🤷🏻‍♀️ you are, however, known for one (1) blitz attack slap fight…which isn’t something you wanna be known for lol

& I can promise you trying to get me jumped or some shit isn’t gonna work. I will shoot whoever actually tries that shit…given it would be in self-defense & I am no fighter either

Like we are in America 😭 act like it

Plus, we are adults! You aren’t just gonna go “she started it!!” & get away w/ assault & battery lol or attempted assault

Think w/ your brain & stop talking out your ass, it’s embarrassing

[whumpacabra]

[personal kvetching below from a person frustrated that they’re a flawed human being and not immune to systemic societal bigotry - do not patronize me or act like this is some pity-me cry baby schtick I’m just talking myself through my own bullshit like I’m a fucking toddler]

This is a personal vent post that I’d normally keep to my main but it’s too entrenched in the whump community and how we specifically treat characters of color and white characters to post there so. Here it is.

Recently (within the last year?) I had it pointed out to me that a) a lot of whumpee’s are ‘innocent white boys’ and b) a lot of caretakers are patient and protective POC. There’s a lot of meta I’ve read around this and it’s important as a community to address and grow from these racist and (and often times sexist) stereotypes.

But jfc it makes me so frustrated with myself for not noticing it in my own writing before like. idk I guess I thought I was better than that?* It’s part of the reason why TBK hasn’t really been updated in so long - the plan was to introduce a caretaker of color for the sad broken white whumpee. And I had it justified to myself in ‘oh well he’s the white Black Knight and Bors is the Black White Knight’ but realizing that this is a symptom of a greater pattern in my writing and whump writing at large throws that bullshit in the bin.

Like. I want to fix it but I don’t know how/the only way I could think to fix it feels tokenizing - rewriting BK to also be a POC character OR erasing Bors and Percy’s race and how it impacts their characterization both feel like putting a bandaid on a bullet hole.

And I know that stereotypes aren’t inherently a bad thing and they can be handled with respect and such in writing - but the greater patterns around those stereotypes are still enforced by writing them. You can kill off your queer character in a way that serves the narrative and their thematic role in it but you’re still burying your gay and need to remember that your work does not exist in a vacuum.

And I know that I need to get over myself and I will and I’ll keep trying to unlearn the systemic bigotry we’ve been marinated in our whole lives but like. Fucking hell man I know there isn’t a quick fix for two decades on this bitch of an Americanized earth but I wish there was. Being progressive and anti-racist and a dozen other labels doesn’t mean shit when your behaviors are still informed by the very systems you profess the desire to dismantle.

All I can do is move forward and try to be better in my future writing and try to fix what I can in my current writing but that doesn’t stop me from being annoyed with my past self for things they didn’t even realize were a pattern until it was pointed out to them.

Anyways if you’re still reading and I’ve pissed you off be normal about it and like. Put gore or a good ole KYS in my inbox. If you can feel free to find me irl and we can have a fistfight behind the Walgreens (don’t worry you can beat me I’ve got a bum leg and poor eyesight). Or you can be extra quirky and pop into my DMs so we can hash this out and discuss how I can be a better person like adults.

#not whump #bean speaks #personal #vent post #not turning reblogs off but. you know. this isn’t some fun quirky hashtag relatable post #so if you do reblog it best be for opening a dialogue/reflecting on your own subconscious bigotry #if you’re gonna be weird about it I’m turning off reblogs and blocking you #let me bitch in peace and get over myself after being dramatic about it first

[self-loathing-angel-of-thursday2]

Beautiful Spouse Rewatches SPN 02x02 

Wendigo

“Where did Wendy go?”

Laughing at the recap

🎶daddy’s gone🎶

“OH YEAH! (KoolAid Man Style) How did I not realize that before?”

“Why is the S1 title card blue? Sam has demon blood so shouldn’t it be red? Or is it because the blood isn’t activated yet?”

“This makes me laugh. As a Boy Scout, we sneaked in our DS to play Pokemon at night just like this guy. You’d stash the gameboy as soon as you hear the adults coming. They must be playing Metroid or something. Idk”

“Oh this fkn thing. I’m so amused by the technology. I can’t read the model number on the phone thing, but that looks Nintendo for sure.”

“Tell Nature to call back. I’m going to have to remember that for the next time someone tells me that”

“If I know anything about weird noises outside at night while pissing, you wrap that shit up as quick as you can. You don’t want to get stuck or surprised with your dick in your hands and have a bear rip your junk off”

“This whole time, the guy has his dick in his hand. Its obnoxious. He’s rockin’ a piss, he hears a noise. He still has his dick in his hands and trying to figure out what the noise is but his dick is in his hands and he’s not wrapping that shit up. (This is being said very emphatically) He’s literally being caught with his dick in his hands. I didn’t count how many seconds he had his dick in his hands, but come on dude. No way are you still pissing at this point because you’re too scared. Wrap this shit up and put your dick away. I remember hyperanalyzing this part in the original watch-through but this really bothers me.”

“This guy is an idiot. Go into your sleeping bag and slow your breathing. He’s wearing that dumb shell necklace so I guess whatever”

“Is her name important at all? Anything about her family or whatever?”

“Sam’s crying choices. He says he’s not going to cry, he looks up to the sky and bites his lip LIKE HE DOES EVERY SINGLE TIME, the camera pans away, and then someone puts eyedrops in his eyes.”

“Going to talk slower and flex my jaw because I care so much that I’m going to grind you up with my teeth”

“Dean has dimples. Dimple Dean”

“I’m not paying attention to what they’re saying. We need to rewind”

“It’s just woods? You watch enough TV to know better. Daddy is a secret vampire hunter and it’s just woods? Herp derp”

Laughed at Dean looking at the bear

“It’s no nature hike”

“I’m with Dean on this? Why does Sam think Dean is looking for a hook-up?”

Look at Dean’s stupid face.

“Dean is just making faces to give Sam shit from his earlier comment”

“ZOOM AND ENHANCE”

“Idk how to use a Mac, bro. Just forward this to me bro. I’m more of a PC guy”

“Did you now????”

“If Sam could have just tabbed through the frames, why watch the video at normal speed? You gotta be an asshole and make Dean ask the question?”

“Douche”

Spouse always has called Sam a douche 

“That’s no bear. That’s a space station!….Idk”

“No one would ever say that. you wouldn’t believe me anyway. You would naturally ask a question to the question”

“The man is describing you PeePee!!!” (One of our cats is named PeePee)

“Aren’t there circus bears that can do this kind of shit? It’s improbable but possible.”

“Dean is all jealous. He’s thinking fuck yeah I want a scar like that. You saw how he looked at that scar”

“Look at my street drip. Look at that pussy drip. They’re just swaggering behind the way they are; it’s such a 2000 thing to do. They gotta make sure they look cool while looking cool”

“You’re just now getting pissed off?????”

Laughed at Dean punching Sam

“It’s kinda funny - this guy is acting like he’s a hitman but he was kinda hired to do so?”

“I don’t think that would happen nowadays. They’re making fun of his wardrobe, but I think people are more aware of not saying shit about that. These days you’d actually have appropriate clothes and feel like you’re not being made fun of wearing their street clothes into the woods. Fuck yeah they wanna wear their street clothes, but I think they’re pointing it out since they’re trying to point out how cool Sam & Dean are. I do think they should have dressed more appropriately, but idk if it’s a real safety concern.”

“Juicy”

“The guy has his gun strap half off his shoulder. Why carry it like that? Shoulder weapons are easier to hold and navigate when properly slung”

“I’m way more honest with my men” impersonating Dean “can’t trust those damn girls - they’ve got cooties”

“IT”S A GARMIN!!!! And yes I had one of those. You can write that down. Let your besties know.”

“That’s a lot of wax”

Laughed at the blood splatter and damage and shit

“That would be why everyone ran in that direction…”

“What kills them again? I don’t remember.”

Laughing at Sam and the hitman arguing

“They make the hunter guy look so stupid.”

“With magic!!”

🎶cultural appropriation🎶

“There should be a cartoon sign that indicates the offense like the Sexual Harassment Panda from South Park. The sign pops up then the sign leaves later. There’s also the “we didn’t mean it to be this gay” song at the end of some episodes”

“They moistened up his eyes a little bit and then they had Sam whisper a little. ASMR with Sam Winchester.”

Spouse is laughing at his own shitty jokes

“They gotta have the Big Brother / Little Brother moment? That’s a weird place to have this moment, because he’s giving advice then smiles like that? That soooo wouldn’t happen right there”

“That’s no grizzle bear” said in a rough manly man voice

“Just shoot in whatever direction you hear movement. That’ll go well. You could’ve just randomly shot the guy running from the wending.”

🎶sitting in ethereal fog. Trying to look all sexy and shit. But it didn’t age well🎶

“I wonder how many minutes of air time there are with the brothers convincing people that monsters are real.”

“This happens what? Every 4th episode?”

“Not a woman? Just a man?”

“Why is the brother there? He hasn’t done anything except throw funny looks at people. He just has a look of dissatification”

“That must hurt the wending to have such bloody claws unless he’s just wiping blood off onto the trees. That could be a thing I guess”

“Is this straight out of alien or something?”

“OH YEAH!!!! I think it’s so funny that we’ve seen the drippy blood like 3x already”

“Oh this is why we have the brother character. It’s for this exact interaction with Sam.”

“I’m just going to take this and throw it over there. I don’t need to gather it or anything”

“How many days out in the woods are they? I wouldn’t be throwing away M&Ms like that. What if they needed that emergency food later? I know it’s dirty, but it’s better than cannibalism.”

“Let’s just shine light in our faces. That’ll hide real good. We’re over here buddy. You can see the glint in our eyes and everything.”

“I’m gonna grab your mouth and make you real quiet then you’re going to stomp your boots all over while we’re trying to be quiet like a double standard. Gotta be quiet! Nope! Double standard.”

“Is he dead or gonna wake up? I don’t remember. Oh. He’s awake. Gotta have one little jumpscare. Predictable but that’s what they’re going for”

“Gotta show how cocky Dean is. Safety always off (Trailer Park Boys reference)” 

“Come get me bitch. I gotta be a big man. I’ll be your bait, daddy. Come punish me. Babygirl needs punishment. Come slap this ass”

“Sam is running, and the other people are just standing there looking at him. You’d think they’d run too”

“They already shot one, right?”

“And kaboom??? Fire???”

“There goes their whole budget. Splooge. Gone. Outside some of the flames isn’t that the full CG flame?”

“Dean even did the girl hair shake. If he were a girl, his hair would be getting his hair out of his face”

“We can’t actually talk about our shit. Let’s make a believable lie to the cops”

Babygirl stupid cocky face my beloved

🎶I’m an awkward plot device🎶 “the brother was there for Sam to explain the situation for like 4 minutes and that was it.”

“Camping might be better than some of the shitty motels they stay in though. Gotta be completely honest”

“That was a really creepy stare, Sam. 8 seconds dude. Holy fuck”

“Let’s rev it on a cold start and spin those bearings right off. Fuck warming it up. Fuck giving a shit.”

“I feel like the car revving noise was added post-production but you wouldn’t want to do it on a cold start anyway…………”

#beautifulspouserewatchesspn #supernatural #supernatural s1 #supernatural rewatch