#i understood his frustration

[ushijaema]

unpopular opinion: i do think carmy was rightfully upset with sydney and marcus when shit hit the fan with the take out orders, thank you for coming to my ted talk

#glad he apologized bc character development <3 #but also they weren’t listening lol #like marcus was Not making those fucking cakes after carmy asked him how many times???? #i get he wanted to make donuts but still like now was not the time bestie #i also do have to kind blame tina and richie for pissing sydney off and throwing louie on her #but also i feel like for how hard sydney pushed for the take out idea she should’ve done a better job making sure it was actually ready #should carmy had thrown the donut in the ground? no #should he had yelled that loud at sydney? no #but Also #i understood his frustration #AND THEN THEY LEFT LMAOOO LIKE ???? #the bear hulu #the bear #carmen berzatto #carmy berzatto

[nobleriver]

The man who gave me this was the sort of man who'd know exactly how long a diary you were going to need.

#moffatedit #dwedit #doctor who #river song #twelfth doctor #doctorriver #scifiedit #riversongedit #scifigifs #riversongsource #timelordgifs #tvedit #when she said his frown was audible i've never understood it more than in this moment #the moment she says she doesn't love him #i can h e a r his hearts breaking #he's seen her married to another man; watched her make out with Ramone TWICE and he's confused and hurt and frustrated #bc where does that leave him #and he just wants to know am I special to you? do i matter? #and she stares right into his eyes and says no but you're terribly useful #she doesn't know it's him but that's what makes it worse bc what reason does she have to lie to a stranger she'll never meet again #and suddenly all those sacred memories - her laugh; jim the fish; all those nights he snuck out to see her; their entire marriage - #all of it was a con and he fell for it; and for her; hook line and sinker #but still he stays seated bc even if none of it was real to her; it was all real to him; and still is #do you think he loves her so little betraying him would make a difference? he died for her on the steps of berlin and he'd die again #bc she's the woman he loves and he'll never stop loving her even if she doesn't love him back #so when she confesses later that she loves him like the stars themselves his whole face transforms bc ITS REAL #and he's so giddy and relieved and in love; always madly hopelessly unapologetically in love #otp: please don't #rd edit

[sinnbaddie]

I’m starting to hate STSG so much solely for the fact that I cannot consume any content of my faves without them always being brought up or inserted into the conversation in some type of way

I just wanna hyperfixate on Hikara and Itafushi yet the most toxic and unhealthy ship is brought up more in their tags than them themselves

#jujutsu kaisen #anti satosugu #hikara #hakari x kirara #Itafushi #megumi x yuuji #I initially hated the ship but the anime made me appreciate the dynamic between the two more #however the fandom is absolutely ridiculous and I’m the most frustrated I’ve been at this ship ever #for the love of everything #please just stop tagging the other ships especially when it has NOTHING to do w them #we get it you guys love some shitty toxic cliche twink ship but please leave everyone else alone #what makes it worse is that the majority of the fandom is Fujoshi’s #leave it to them to completely ruin any bl y’all are gross #tbf tho #it’s not as good or romantic as y’all make it seem y’all love it for the tragedy and overdo it exponentially #Gojo was just obsessed w the one person who thought understood him and Geto decided to leave his lame ass I don’t blame him ngl #good for Geto I say I’d leave his dumbass too #Geto is more interesting and makes the dynamic but y’all ain’t heard it from me 😗

[dennisboobs]

my favourite thing about the always sunny podcast is listening to rcg all say something extremely neurodivergent and then agree amongst themselves and convince themselves its completely normal

#and to be clear im not diagnosing them charlie said he wasn't neurotypical #like deadass i think. the reason some of their writers just completely botch the gang's motivations/dialogue sometimes is bc at their core #these characters are all. SO autistic. which inevitably leads to them being misunderstood by others outside their group #whether rcg realizes it or not they inject this very specific vibe of neurodivergence into the gang #and its why they will just. argue over inconsequential details bc they Need to be understood completely #they can't just drop it unless they are crystal fucking clear #imo the biggest mistake other writers make is thinking that the gang is completely desensitized when its more like #they just don't react the way you would expect #which is often... adjacent to that but still distinct. and its trauma that influences this as well #the gang does not believe they themselves are 'bad people'. theyre most often oblivious to the fact that the things they do are insane #rob saying he doesnt pick up on social cues and then going on to argue in circles with glenn #i dont think last week was anything crazy but i think. rob doesn't know when to let up. which is a problem that *i* have #and while it comes across as being confrontational in an 'im right youre wrong' way i dont think its driven by ego here #just like with how as they said mac and dennis are making up while chucking bread rolls at each other #on both sides its frustration at being misunderstood #but they are all similar enough that even if they disagree over small details theyre usually on the same page. and this can be beneficial!! #thats the conclusion of the ep!!!! whether its suggesting smoking to cancel out the toxic apple skin or suggesting words u cant think of #glenn said he was upset about feeling misrepresented and picked on #dennis gets angry for those exact reasons in.... ALL of his big rage scenes #its frustration that leads to anger because youre speaking to (another) brick wall and you can't adequately explain yourself #which. glenn is clearly more competent than dennis & i think a lot of the time in sunny the gang is WAY more obtuse for the sake of comedy #but its interesting to watch the dynamic because as charlie said last week #they are mac and dennis (especially when theyre fighting) #i just think.. they are in a semi-unique position to understand this because this is how they are. while several other writers do not get i #ada speaks #untagged

[icegoddessrukia]

And what do you have to say about Aang comparing Katara to Jet?

Oh wow, I don't want to get into TSR meta too much because it always goes around in circles and never ends well.

In his observation she seemed a little like Jet at first in how she was talking. From his perspective, she wanted revenge and there was some pure rage in her. I think he wanted to make her aware of how extreme he thought she was being and "snap her out of it" so that's why he said it, though he does empathize with her. Taking a life for revenge is a major deal for Aang and it is shocking for him. I could understand why Katara might have been offended when she heard that comment but I can also understand why he said the first thing that came to his mind. I'm not going to bash him for it.

Everyone in that conversation was only looking at it from their own perspective and that's why they were arguing so much. They all said some insensitive things in the moment. It's just that fandom only holds Katara and Aang accountable/practically demonizes them for their mistakes in TSR while giving Zuko (and Sokka, though he wasn't as insensitive as Zuko) a free pass.

Obviously, Katara isn't the same as Jet. It's a completely different context but he blurted out the first thing that came to mind. Was it the best thing to say to her? No. He's not perfect. I don't think anyone in the Gaang fully understood how Katara felt or how deeply her emotions run but I will say, Aang tried. Yes, Sokka was her sibling and Aang experienced the genocide but Katara had a different personality type and way of coping with her own grief.

I'm sure Aang didn't literally mean that she's completely the same as Jet and he still allowed her to take Appa. He didn't try to stop her in the end and he understood her need to confront the guy. He just hoped that she wouldn't choose taking a life but he accepted that he had to let her make that choice for herself. I feel like regardless of what he said at first, if Aang genuinely thought she was being another Jet, he wouldn't have put so much of his faith and trust in her.

Aang wanted to protect Katara's morality and at the same time uphold his own values, Sokka was siding more with Aang because he is not as emotionally invested in it as Katara and is not supporting revenge (and also he probably, like Aang, was fearful that his sister was acting in a way that would end up traumatizing her in the end), Zuko has a more grey morality and sees nothing wrong with revenge. He also really just wanted to make Katara trust him at all cost even if it meant getting said revenge with her because of his own guilt/insecurities plaguing him. Zuko, especially at that time period had a need to make people like him and it bothered him that she just didn't.

#ATLA meta #The Southern Raiders #The Southern Raiders Meta #Aang #Katara #Pro-Aang #Pro-Katara #atla #After writing this I just realized there are parallels between this and Aang having to make a choice about killing Ozai #Just like Katara Aang was frustrated that not one person in the Gaang understood his POV #Much like Katara it was Aang's own journey he had to take without his friends #I know Katara went with Zuko but what I mean is ultimately the choice came down to her and no one could decide for her #These were the biggest decisions they each had to make

[fictionadventurer]

All the tour groups in Springfield should be very proud of me for how well I refrained from sharing all my fascinating Lincoln facts.

#there were so many school groups! #a giant one came in RIGHT AFTER i entered lincoln's cabinet room #part of me was screaming 'children i NEED to tell you about all these idiots and their insane drama!' #a smarter part of me understood that would be super weird #so instead i regaled different individuals of my own traveling party after we had the room to ourselves #then at lincoln's tomb we lucked out in getting there during the ten minutes of the day when school groups weren't there #which meant we got a personal tour from a guide who seemed thrilled to have grown-ups to talk to #he and my dad chatted about fishing for a long while in the entry #it didn't feel disrespectful because it totally felt like the kind of conversation lincoln would have understood and joined in on #and then we went on our way but the guide then chased us down to share all the fascinating lincoln stories as we went along #(shout-out to lefty you were great) #and then a school group found us so we made a graceful exit #but outside a teacher was explaining to a different group about how robert was significant in his own right so he's buried at arlington #and the RESTRAINT i showed in not immediately informing them that he was present at three presidential assassinations! it was rather heroic #and then when we toured lincoln's house the guide (who accidentally made it clear he was a revolutionary war buff) #(which made it a bit hilarious he was stuck with lincoln) #asked for questions before we started and someone asked about lincoln's 1860 election campaign! #aka one of my SPECIAL NICHE AREAS OF OBSESSION! #you cannot imagine how desperately i wanted to tell him ALL ABOUT seward and thurlow weed #anyway it was fun to go back now that i actually know stuff about lincoln #but it was also a bit frustrating because now i know how much they leave out #(though there was cool new info and artifacts) #(the blood-stained piece of laura keene's dress was very morbid and very cool) #also it reminded me that i still have that book on the 1860 election i've yet to read and the hype is so real #presidential talk

[smol-soop-spoon]

i literally look so so so pretty and for what? Not a single woman is looking at me longingly from across the room, fiddling with her pen because this is a boring meeting, and i look up at her and my heart skips a beat because oh, you just caught me stealing glances, and we start talking, and she makes me a little bit insane and I fall in love with every piece of you, and you for every piece of me, and we've been friends for a year now, and one day you're walking me back home and the sun is setting on this flamboyant backdrop of vivid pinks and oranges characteristic to Autumn, and I turn around, I want to say something, but I see you and the only think I can think of is how much I want to kiss you, and I die a little bit inside. But I think you do too, because you're just looking at me in that way, the way you've always had really, and we kiss, and it's the most beautiful thing I've ever done.

But nah all I get are catcalls and creepy dudes hitting on me fml

#you cannot imagine my frustration when i dress up to the nines for the girlz #and all i get is fucking creepy jeremy passing a note with a shitty drawing of his own eye and “i love you” scribbled on it??? #before you try and go “but that's kinda cute!” #well sure except i've met jeremy exactly 4 hours ago and he's been staring at me the whole time with the most blank expression #and started trauma dumping on me and my friend when we had a cigarette break #and now i fear for my safety because something about the guy felt EXTREMELY off-putting in an uncanny valley kind of way #also note that he wrote “i love you” in english which is. not my first language?? i mean obviously i understood but idk #it just added extra weird point #so obviously the best thing to do to cope is to imagine my little sapphic scenarios #i would do anything to meet fellow queer people in this shitty little town #like WHERE ARE THEY???? WHERE ARE MY PEOPLE #sapphic #lgbtqia #queer #queer community

[akagamiko]

thinking agian about how shanks wanted to see roger cry and that he tells luffy he should cry but that shanks himself takes after roger in that regard and won't cry in front of people !!!

#was about to go to bed but saw the emotions thing and started spiraling into my shanks thoughts #the boyish want of needing to see your dad figure/mentor/hero/favorite person show those emotions #because shanks was such a cry baby as a kid but thinking about how he didn't see roger cry and started internalizing it !!! #and wanting to see roger cry because he cried when he was sad or frustrated or angry or ANYTHING AT ALL #but then he grew up and learned the weight that's carried as a captain and #...probably understood roger a lot better #because you want to be seen as put together of course but you also don't want to worry your crew #they look to him for comfort so he doesn't feel like he CAN boohoo all the time (unless he's being totally silly) #even though his crew would be totally fine with him crying and would simply love on him !!! #but him still wanting luffy to cry #wanting him to know that it's okay to cry !!! #YELLLLLS #he wants luffy to be so much better than he is in literally every way #like his crying is definitely a private thing when it happens #beck probably being the only one #maybe yasopp and roux too since those are all his fellas <3 #i'm fine #once again i am saying roger really did a number on him lmao #(intentionally or not sorry roger) #<3 #now i'm going to bed fr #OOC. #honestly this half belongs in the hc tag even if it's a mess of me rambling sorry #HEADCANON.

[applecherry108]

Eughhh… 😬

I think I just encountered one of those middle schoolers operating at a fourth grade level that tiktok teachers have been talking about.

#Like he’s clearly trying his best but it’s like basic instructions leave his brain after 5 seconds #he’s not getting frustrated or anything but I sure am. he may be holding it together bc his mom is watching over him #I was performing a pre-test at a medical office that involved a camera and he just…. could not stop moving #and I’ve dealt with kids. little baby kids. all ages of people with different things going on but this one just felt different #it’s hard to explain but I’ve been doing this dang test for long enough that I know the difference between behavioral issue and adhd #but the way this kid was felt like neither. like he understood the assignment but it was like that understanding wasn’t being comprehended #the instruction was ‘look at the x and please don’t move’ and the camera takes 10 seconds if that to take a photo #but he’d always move at the last second. like he’d look around or move his jaw (which unfocuses the camera) or he’d straight up just #shift his whole body before settling back in. like. it’s like he couldn’t comprehend that ‘look at the x’ meant don’t look away from the x #that ‘don’t move’ meant ‘don’t move at all even if you come right back’ #like it takes all of 10 seconds and his inability to follow directions made the process take like 5 minutes. #and his mom said NOTHING! most parents will repeat my instructions (bc let’s face it. kids listen to their parents more than a stranger) #they’ll gently scold there kid with a little ‘hold still buddy’ or ‘don’t look away’ but she did NOTHING #and maybe that’s part of why this felt different. why it felt like one of the kids the tiktok teachers talk about. idk man #apple talks #to the tune of spam

[rosemary-bells]

may be remembering this wrong but that one scene post-five yrs when smj was worrying abt mr not being as considerate to him anymore.

bro u literally cut his heart open. he was probably worried abt the flower not working or smth like that and not like. mr not liking him anymore (didn’t he admit that he didn’t even like mr that much??) but bro. knife. heart. if he doesn’t pay attention to you anymore he has ever y right to do so sir

#buzz #erha #2ha #the husky and his white cat shizun #erha spoilers #2ha spoilers #also when smj was like no one ever understood me. ok they could’ve tried harder but you literally did not give anyone a chance #you did not open up. yes they did not ask you abt things but they didn’t even know you HAD problems. you did not let yourself be vulnerable #which. is honestly completely understandable considering his situation but damn he was pointing fingers #like bro. u r as much at fault as they are when it comes to ur failed relationships. shakes fist #yes ur life didn’t allow for it yes they could’ve been more considerate maybe but like u were not vulnerable. u did not let them see those w #weaknesses. it is not their job to understand u as a person and consider someone who spends so much of his time ensuring that no one ever co #considers him due to Circumstance #i may be remembering this wrong also don’t take me too seriously #it’s like 306am and smj is frustrating me in this fic i’m debating writing so i’m like #spewing my thoughts #i like smj. hate hbn. love their complexity and their goal is as noble as any #do not agree w smj’s methods and disagree w hbn’s Vehemently #also hbn was an arse so there’s that. homeboy was under NO flower influences when he tried what he did. also genocide! lord in heaven #like they r complex characters and i appreciate their writing #i also want to throttle hbn. complexity and a noble goal does not make you any less of an ass #also like that was probably the point of their characters. we don’t see much of smj bcs he doesn’t allow himself for that. we only see hbn’s #cruelties and barely any of his kindnesses save for his dedication to the bbbs. #limited povs are Real. still tho. wanna throttle hbn

[fandoms-writings]

i think my coworkers are finally starting to understand how frustrated i get when they don’t fucking listen to me the first time or give me all the info i need in the first place to do what they want me to do. 

#i quote parts for a metal warehouse #and one of the guys on the sales team has me do all his quoting #which is fine when he actually sends me all the info i need. #but today i had a question about some hardware cuz it looked like two separate pieces of hardware #but i went to ask and he did NOT understand what i was asking and tried to hand me off to the other girl in sales and she was so so buried #she tried to help and she did and he tried getting sassy with me about how the hardware was called out on the other print that was on my des #but like #that wasn't the fucking question #it was is this one or two pieces of hardware #i snapped back in front of the girl and the other guy that happened to walk in at that point #but everyone says it was justified #he even came to my office like twenty minutes later saying #he understood why i was frustrated and that next time i need to just #tell him to shut the fuck up and listen to the question #so yeah #that's my day #remi works

[omegamoo]

i have lots of. thoughts about like why the wp as a project has turned out the way it has and lots of those thoughts are really good sweet ones about community and then lots of frustrations too i think

#ramblings #not gonna get super into it i don’t think #but i think the good stuff is really good #like it’s been absolutely bonkers amazing to get to see so many people #participate in making something so dear to them yk? #like we each brought a piece of ourselves to this and wove it in #in ways that are so intrinsic to the project that you can’t get them out #and then. i’m frustrated too #because of high school drama and how that splintered stuff #but also like. failure to communicate between parties waxing and waning interest #stepping on each others toes without regards #what ‘ownership’ over the project looks like and should look like #like i still want to write it. i feel like i am still writing it! #i want to do everything in my power to make it come true #but how much of that gets conveyed? how much of my narrative power #and power over decisions did i lose due to initial anxiety about getting in the way? #and then again. failure on all ends to really properly communicate what we were looking for #leaad to lots of varied conflicting and overlapping arcs that were never fully understood #n now some ppl r showing interest in writing it again which is GREAT! hi guys!!! #however i feel bad i guess? because we’ve spent time quite literally reworking all kinds of things #to make it fit because people stopped seeming to care? #so how do you say hey yeah ur character well i’ve just gone and developed them #and i want to give everyone the space to write because i want to hear everyone’s ideas and that really matters to me #and i don’t want my friends to see the finished project and be like hey wtf #this isn’t right #but like. hurgh #ANYWAYS SORRY #whittled pantheon #i love wp community. i miss thé wp community #‘not gonna get super into it’ GETS INRO IT

[titsthedamnseason]

me tuning out every time the darkling is on screen p

#LIKE GODDD I DONT CARE #so frustrating bc ben barnes is actually such a great darkling but it made even MORE people like him somehow #darkling stans MY ENEMIES #hehe they just used a look of good quotes this conversation kind of rules #she said they weren’t alike AND HE GOT SO ANGRY THEY UNDERSTOOD THE PLOT SO WELL #he said ‘you live in one moment i live in a thousand’ #‘you’re already dead’ WAS SOOOO GOOD AHAHAHAHA #HIS FACE TWITCHEd #mine #juli watches s&b

[willowfey]

ignore this i just wanna ramble in the tags for a sec i’ll probably delete it in a bit 🤪

#did an escape room with the fam on my sister’s birthday two days ago and my brother made me feel stupid the entire time #wouldn’t listen to me wouldn’t share or let me help and then act like i wasn’t helping (??? let me then) #and because he’s Loud my whole family was following his lead and ignoring me #but in the end i was the reason we won bc i was the only one who immediately understood the word riddles AND the one who wrote down #all the numbers he said we wouldn’t need. i was the only one who could connect the past information with the current problem #the only one who listened fully to the cd and decided to write down the locations without it being relevant yet #the only one who thought the tiny details might be relevant and the only one who automatically fixed his mistakes bc i noticed a pattern #and in the end still got no credit for anything (except from my mom) even tho if they had listened to me from the beginning they would’ve #been less stressed and finished sooner #then at the restaurant he didn’t listen to me again and we ordered too much even tho i told him we wouldn’t need it #THEN after dinner my grandma started texting me all frustrated telling me i need to keep my aunt updated on what’s happening thru the day #so she doesn’t feel left out. bc she’s having a rough time lately. bc it’s my job to make everyone feel better #FIRST of all this woman ignored me for years when her ex husband decided i wasn’t worth it #and now suddenly it’s my job to keep u informed on my every move so u don’t feel left out?? text me urself. ask what i’m doing. #ask HOW i’m doing??? do u even care beyond a ‘what colour is your sturdiness today namaste’ #every time my aunt complains about the tiniest thing and starts crying about it it my grandma blames everyone else #no one even knows or cares if i’m having a rough time #she came to ‘help’ when my mom was sick and i did everything for her instead. and then she threw a fit when i wouldn’t eat her salad #when i was too exhausted from staying up all night with my mother to go on a run with her the next day #my mom finally got mad at her for implying i’m lazy all the time and told her i’m ‘neurodiverse’ and do things my own way and she didn’t #even know what that meant so my mom was like ‘on the spectrum ‘ and my aunt just got mad that she had never told her #would it have made a difference at all? would u have expected different from me? #meanwhile i’ve done so much for my cousin… including taking care of luca the entire time she stayed with us. i had him all the time #i didn’t mind. i love that kid more than anything. but everyone expects everything from me like it’s just a given #i talked her through every problem every breakdown walked on eggshells to keep her happy and then what does she do when she leaves? #ignores me. doesn’t come back when she said she would. complains that i don’t include her in things #bc sometimes i have quiet conversations with my sister so i don’t bother everyone #and then gg wants to know why i won’t come see her? why i won’t drop everything to fly there? my aunt wants to know why i don’t call? #because despite loving me u have made me feel inadequate my whole life. some of u more than others #and i’m tired. and it’s time for me to Be me For me without justifying it to everyone else.

[paeonie-s]

oh im gonna scream

#constant misinterpretation of my emotions by ppl is worse then anything else ive ever experienced it’s so draining #was asking for help from a dude in the group i usually do my astronomy labs w #and i was confused asf and just didn’t understand his explanations #and i wasn’t upset w him at all i was rly grateful for his help i was just frustrated w myself for it not clicking in my brain #but he stopped mid sentence and was like it’s rly sucks when im trying to help you do things and you get angry at me #and i truly had not noticed any change in my voice or tone or body language and i had definitely not meant to sound angry w him #and so when he questioned why i was so confused and stressed out that i literally started crying. #and i tried to explain to him that i wasn’t upset w him at all and i was rly grateful for his help #and like ik why these misunderstandings happen (autism it’s always the autism) but they’ve been #happening my whole life and i’ve never understood how im supposed to express to ppl when im upset w them or upset w smth else entirely #and in this lab period alone it had already happened 2x where my TA and another of my group members thought i was angry when i was just #Asking a Question and Confused. it’s so fucking frustrating it has fr kept me from developing decent relationships w my classmates coworkers #family etc for my whole life and i Don’t Know what i can do to try and help ppl understand. god #🌸.txt #and now im posting abt it on tumblr.com for a grand total of like 2 people to skim bc im scared if i tell my (very nice and understanding) #friends they’re gonna criticize me and not understand that the only reason im even mentioning this is bc it’s been happening my whole life #and it has never changed. it has never gotten easier

[ilostyou]

i am so sorry to the people who don’t realize my main is. me. it’s not a random weirdo liking every one of your posts it’s ME i’m the weirdo

#thoughts #guys my main is ssa-m-187 i’m SORRY having a sideblog is hard #i never understood how frustrating it is until i started. pretty much exclusively using this blog and not my main #oops #anyway. it’s me hi i’m the problem etc etc etc