#female husbands

[foxandcatlibrary]

32nd Book I Read in 2024

Title: Female Husbands

Author: Jen Manion

Notes: Bought this at Gay's The Word in London during a weekend trip last spring, but didn't get around to reading it until now. Such a great book though! Never knew about this part of trans history before and I am so happy I finally read it.

#Female Husbands #Jen Manion #trans #transgender #lgbtq #nonfiction #queer #queer history #book #books #bookblr #reading #2024 #english #engelska

[gabyabelhasworld]

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[haveyoureadthistransbook]

Female Husbands: A Trans History by Jen Manion

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Long before people identified as transgender or lesbian, there were female husbands and the women who loved them. Female husbands - people assigned female who transed gender, lived as men, and married women - were true queer pioneers. Moving deftly from the colonial era to just before the First World War, Jen Manion uncovers the riveting and very personal stories of ordinary people who lived as men despite tremendous risk, danger, violence, and threat of punishment. Female Husbands weaves the story of their lives in relation to broader social, economic, and political developments in the United States and the United Kingdom while also exploring how attitudes towards female husbands shifted in relation to transformations in gender politics and women's rights, ultimately leading to the demise of the category of 'female husband' in the early twentieth century.

Mod opinion: I haven't read this one yet, but it sounds interesting.

#female husbands #jen manion #polls #trans lit #trans literature #trans books #lgbt lit #lgbt literature #lgbt books #nonfiction #history #transmasc #nonbinary #trans man #to read

[transbookoftheday]

Female Husbands: A Trans History by Jen Manion

Long before people identified as transgender or lesbian, there were female husbands and the women who loved them. Female husbands - people assigned female who transed gender, lived as men, and married women - were true queer pioneers. Moving deftly from the colonial era to just before the First World War, Jen Manion uncovers the riveting and very personal stories of ordinary people who lived as men despite tremendous risk, danger, violence, and threat of punishment. Female Husbands weaves the story of their lives in relation to broader social, economic, and political developments in the United States and the United Kingdom while also exploring how attitudes towards female husbands shifted in relation to transformations in gender politics and women's rights, ultimately leading to the demise of the category of 'female husband' in the early twentieth century. Groundbreaking and influential, Female Husbands offers a dynamic, varied, and complex history of the LGBTQ past.

#female husbands: a trans history #female husbands #jen manion #transmasc #nonbinary #trans book of the day #trans books #queer books #bookblr #booklr

[genderoutlaws]

Harlem Renaissance singer/dancer and lesbian activist Mabel Hampton photographed alongside her lifelong partner Lillian Foster. During their 46 year relationship, they referred to each other as husband and wife. | c. 1940s

#op #photography #mabel hampton #lillian foster #couples #lesbian couples #lesbian #lgbt #female husbands #1940s #wlw #lbtq #idk what my tagging system is anymore i should fix tht sometime huh

[amarrymeinbostonwriter]

2023 Pinterest 50 Book Reading Challenge

50. A Book You Started but Never Finished

Surpassing the Love of Men by Lillian Faderman

#this is lesbian and wlw history/herstory mostly #a lot of the early years are harsh which is probably why I set it aside last year but I want to read the whole book #she's a great writer very informative #I'm at almost 200 pages and I'm starting from where I left off last year #lgbt history #lesbian #wlw #bisexual women #sapphic #there are some trans people in this and they are female husbands #female husbands #romantic friendship #boston marriage #surpassing the love of men #lillian faderman #just picked this one back up again after finishing the play #books #bookblr #20th century literature #1980s #reading challenge #this book was published in 1981 too #currently reading

[semper-legens]

35. Female Husbands: A Trans History, by Jen Manion

Owned: No, library Page count: 278 My summary: It happens time and again. A man, living a perfectly normal life with his wife, is found to have a far different history than anyone assumed. But were these men truly women, or something else? This is a view back on the female husband with a modern lens, examining the phenomenon from a new angle. My rating: 4/5 My commentary:

I am occasionally in the habit of sneaking down to the basement at work and checking out any books that look interesting from there. Am I meant to do that? Not technically. Don't tell the stock team guy. Anyway, this book immediately appealed to me. I'm interested in LGBT+ history broadly, and trans history specifically, which is such a weird subject sometimes. We can't always substantiate the idea that a historical person who was crossdressing or living as a different gender to the one they were assigned at birth would have identified as trans by necessity - particularly not people like the subjects of this book, designated female at birth and living as men. There were various social and economic benefits to passing as a man, after all, and someone who would otherwise have identified themselves as a woman might have passed as male in order to get better pay or better jobs. Nevertheless, there is a solid argument to be made for some cases that they were men, regardless of how the world viewed them, and that's what this book is here to explore - the trans history of the phenomenon of the 'female husband'.

Female husbands, as a group, were people who married women as men and were found to be designated female at birth. With our current cultural lens, we look back at many of them as possible trans men or lesbians - either would have a good reason for marrying women. For lesbians, obviously, they would have attraction to women but not be legally allowed to marry them as women. For trans men, being married to a woman was a factor that could masculinise them in the eyes of their community, helping them to pass. Of course, that's not to say that marriage for historical trans men was purely a defensive move to help them pass, but it was a benefit. There are certain trends in the cases of female husbands. The wives often claimed to not have known; though, after decades of marriage in some cases, I doubt that most sincerely. More likely, they were saving face in front of the community, attempting to escape scorn and ostracism by claiming innocence. The husbands were often living as men already when they met their wives, and had reasonably respectable jobs. Either they were found out posthumously, when doctors and morticians inspected their bodies, or they were outted, sometimes by their wives and sometimes by others in their communities. It's worth noting that every case in this book includes someone who was outted, which is how we know of their existence, but that's not to say that there couldn't have been female husbands who weren't outted and lived stealth their whole lives. Which was arguably true for those outted poshumously.

This book is interesting enough, though I did have some trouble with how it presents its information. The female husbands are referred to as 'they/them', which undercuts the point in some of their cases when it's noted that they continued to defend their masculine identity. The author is, by her own admission, a cis lesbian, and I got the impression that she wasn't all too familiar with transness by necessity - though that's not to say that anything in the book was bigoted, it just felt like it was written by a cis person from a generation above me. Which it was. She makes the choice to describe the female husbands as 'transing their gender', which I think is an accurate one for what she is describing - the people here made an active choice to, well, trans their genders, regardless of if they might have identified as trans if given the language and ability. Many of the cases were presented with similar language and hitting the same beats, which made it feel like I was reading the same information repeated. Overall, though, it was a good examination of the topic, and one I nonetheless enjoyed reading.

Next, it's time to end an era - the final House of Night book.

#Female Husbands #Jen Manion #bookblr #book blog #book blogger #4

[no1rosaliegarrityfan]

"male wife this male wife that" WHERE ARE MY FEMALE HUSBANDS AT‼️😤 FEMALE HUSBANDS RISE UP

#male wife #female husbands

[queeraroace]

Gender Dictionary Volume 5 zine compiled by Ky Greyson

#zine #zines #gender dictionary #enby #nonbinary #genders #two spirit #trans #sistergirl #brotherboy #female husbands

[writervblavender]

Thomas Gray tells the love story of his best friend, Emmet Bourgogne and the beautiful widow, Claudine. Thomas and Emmet were soldiers in WWI together fighting for France.

This short story was written in September 2022 for a writing contest. I picked a different story to submit which did not win. I think this possibly could have been a better choice.

This story is both Historic Fiction and LGBT fiction. None of these characters are based on real people or were ever real. This is all the author's imagination.

#Thomas is gay and talks about his best friend Emmet who is a female husband who falls in love with the widow Claudine #Emmet and Claudine forever! #There are subtitles available too! #short story #lgbt fiction #historic fiction #female husbands #wwi fiction #lgbt characters #2023 release #v. b. lavender #gay soldier #bisexual #bisexual characters #bisexual women #Youtube

[oh-dear-so-queer]

The Marriage Act of 1753, which required the calling of banns in local parishes or the issuing of special marriage licences, and the recording of all weddings, was intended only to prevent entrapping weddings by fortune-hunting grooms. The act was not against same-sex weddings for women, which continued throughout the eighteenth century. Indeed, female marriages may have quietly grown in popularity through this period. Certainly, the numbers of individual reports increase and the phrase 'female husband' is used without explanation as an everyday event.

"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory

#book quote #normal women #philippa gregory #nonfiction #1753 marriage act #bann #parish #marriage licence #wedding #records #entrapment #gold digger #same sex wedding #lesbian #popularity #18th century #female husbands

[teamfemaleledcuckolds]

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[youronlydarlin]

Loser! Simon who's unaware of just how big his cock is. It's so stupidly fat, and he doesn't even know. Clueless why you're pushing your face deeper and deeper into the sheets, saying shit like "s' just the base, love". There's plenty more to go.

He's always so horny too, a monster tenting through his slacks at just the sight of you. Immediately honking your ass, whining in your ear about how much he misses your hole around him. Moments later he'll be begging to put it in, "jus' the tip" he says. But no, poor guy can't help it :( bullying his weeping cockhead against your hole, he's so clumsy that it even slips out a few times :(

He's already too far gone though, thinking with the wrong head. Panting like a dumb mutt while his hips move mindlessly. Ends up just fucking your cheeks. Shoots his load everywhere on your back n apologizes about ruining your shirt. He'll do the laundry, if you let him clean you up with his tongue, promise :(

a/n: uhhhh m'back...? Kinda?? M' still pretty busy, darlings 😭 but have this as a consultation for being dead 😢 ehehe here you go @chnets . Remember to always drink water, and eat!!

Yours, truly,

–Dolly

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[ozzgin]

More of the yandere monster???? Like their married life, him being such a cutie cutie and the reader is a willing person to his yandere tendencies. Like him physically fighting someone for flirting with her for .01 second and her just being 😍🥰

Alright anon, seeing as this has once again resurfaced, I'll cover a little bit of marital life as per your suggestion. (I'm hoping you're referring to the older sibling monster)

Yandere! Monster Husband x Reader

A little change of plans and the wedding you've been kidnapped for continued without a hitch, except you married the monstrous sibling instead. Made for an awkward celebratory dinner, but no one dared to oppose the Beast.

Content: female reader, monster romance, mildly NSFW, saga of the monster hoe reader continues

[First part]

The next family dinner was quiet. You couldn't help but wonder if your horniness had gone too far, slowly chewing your food and occasionally peeking at the ex-groom with remorseful eyes. Poor guy, you thought. "Well, it's quite convenient, isn't it?" he finally said, breaking the silence. The cutlery sounds paused, and you lifted your gaze again. The man flashed you a radiant smile, which emphasized his handsome features even more. "I mean, we weren't sure we'd ever find a wife for my brother. He has a bit of an attitude, and even monsters are afraid of him. The only marriage attempt-" his speech was interrupted by a grunt, and you turned towards your monstrous boyfriend. The older sibling was frowning, visibly embarrassed. "Oh, I remember!" the mother of the siblings, a halfling herself, suddenly chuckled into her glass, taking a generous sip before continuing: "We'd arranged for a fellow monster to meet him, and the poor soul got so frightened she blended in with the background! Took us two days to find her! She came from a chameleon family, I recall."

Everyone at the table began to laugh and you joined, although with a mild annoyance tinged into your voice. So what, there was no reason for you to be plagued by guilt? You even refused a night escapade with your boyfriend until things "settled", as a way to be respectful towards the cucked party. All for naught. At least now you could be ravaged without further consequences. When the mother in law had pulled you aside hours earlier to make sure you weren't coerced into this arrangement, you had to hold back from crassly confessing you'd slurp her son empty of fluids at any hour of the day. Some things are better left untold.

Unfortunately, one detail couldn't be changed in time: the guest list. As this had been an event meant to strengthen the ties between humans, no one outside of the immediate family graced the venue with their monstrous presence. Many guests were intrigued by the outcome of the affair, terribly curious to see the famed wife-to-be of the gruesome, feared Head of the royal army. Even more so once they discovered it was a regular human by all means. "Fascinating!", the old ladies would occasionally cry out, clutching the plump, expensive pearls adorning their necks. You had to frequently excuse yourself in order to dodge the rather indecent questions regarding your relationship. Except when you did manage to sneak away, one of the younger men of names and titles you never registered would approach you for a dance. "Truly a pitiful matter", they'd whisper much too close to your ear. "You would've made a lovely bride for a fellow human."

"You're unexpectedly calm about this", the prince mentioned to his older brother at some point during the wedding night. "Are you not bothered by all the acquaintances flocking to your bride?" The monster shook his head with a sigh. He hadn't known you for that long yet, but one thing he was certain of: it's not humans he needed to fear.

Indeed, having a wife with a monster kink is particularly challenging when most of the husband's work involves similar creatures. The first months after the marriage were stalked by the insidious doubt that his luck was just that: mere coincidence. Would you have displayed the same interest had he not been the only beast at the table? Would you still pick him in a room full of monsters? Such questions followed him each day, feeding into an ever-growing jealousy.

"What are you doing here!", he exclaimed in despair once he noticed your arrival at his training camp. "You forgot your lunch", you explained, eyebrows raised in confusion. Oh, for fuck's sake. He quickly pulled you away, glaring at the subordinates startled by the commotion. They must've been eyeing (Y/N) like rabid dogs, he thought. Next thing you know, you'll be scooped away by some horned scoundrel. He can't have that.

Initially, the rage-filled, obsession-driven fuck you'd receive almost daily was welcomed with shameless begging. The way your monster husband would pin you down under his claws and thrust into you so hard, you could see its movement in waves across your stomach. The way he'd forcefully spread your legs, hungrily sinking his nails into the soft flesh of your thighs and gnawing your shoulders in delirious need. The tears that sheepishly formed in the corners of your hooded eyes would only incite him more. "Bite onto my hand if you can't take it anymore", he'd coo without stopping. As much as you liked to be left a limp, drooling mess, the soreness grew unbearable. Enough was enough when you found yourself carrying a cushion to sit down on any surface.

"Listen, we need to have a talk." You greeted him solemnly once he returned from his military duties. Oh, no. Absolutely not. The monstrous husband bit his lips in panic, immediately going through a mental list of all his subordinates. Or was it someone in the family that slithered their way into your heart? Is that what it was about, that you'd found a different creature? No matter, you weren't going anywhere. "I don't want to hear about it", he declared dramatically. "I have a bruised cervix!" you shouted in disbelief. "Huh?" He stared at you. "It hurts even when I lay down, man. You have to tone it down. At least for a little while."

Ah. Awkward. You noticed his flinch, and patted the empty seat next to you. "What did you think I was going to say?" The bench groaned under the weight of his gargantuan body. Hands folded in his lap like a punished schoolboy, your husband began to narrate the tale of his seething envy and frenzied passion for you. You must understand, he's never cared for anyone as much. To hell with duty and honor, he would kill his own father if his touch on you lingered one second longer than permitted. "Alright, but you must control yourself a little", you reminded him gently. "Never, my urge to obliterate any threat in my path is insatiable", he concluded with vehemence. "Yes, yes, that I understand. The sex, I mean", you gesticulated. "Of course. My apologies, I got sidetracked."

Somehow, he didn't expect to leave this conversation with a cathartic approval of his possessiveness. "Surely you must be upset by my fanatical behavior", he suggested meekly. "Oh no, it's part of your charm", you reassured him with a smile. "It's just not that sustainable in bed without the occasional break." You pat your stomach to express your misfortune.

Sadly, your monster fucking dreams must adhere to the laws of biology.

#yandere #yandere x reader #yandere x you #yandere x darling #yandere monster #yandere monster x reader #monster x reader #monster x human #terato #teratophillia #yandere headcanons #yandere imagines #yandere scenarios #monster imagine #monster romance #monster husband #monster smut #monster fucker #female reader

[amarrymeinbostonwriter]

Hi! Just so you know it’s highly unlikely that photo you included in your book post on December 5th was Dr James Barry. According to Jeremy Dronfield and my own research, it’s of an Englishman called Joseph Barry who lived in the Cape around the same time as James. If you’re interested I’ve got a post discussing it linked in my pinned post. That aside, I hope you enjoyed/are enjoying the books you got! Female Husbands has been on my to read list for a while and I’d never heard of the Colonel so I’m interested to learn more about him

Oh, thanks for that! I think I saw other people citing that picture as Dr. Barry so I pulled from my memory to add to that post. I guess I'll add an amendment to the post since I can't unpost it?

Female Husbands was really good for information and to learn about hidden LGBT history but many of the stories were sad. I read it earlier this year and was very moved by the accounts in the book. Also Dr. James Barry is one of the people that Dr. Manion put in her study. He's briefly mentioned because he fell into her definition of female husband. The American Revolutionary War Hero Deborah Sampson too, notably, is also included. Their names were the only ones I recognized from somewhere else. The study includes female husbands from Ireland, The UK and The USA from the late 1700s until about WWI-ish. It was one of the best books I read this year honestly.

While I haven't read The Colonel's story yet- he's English, served in WWI and had a wife and a son. That's all I remember from the blurb. I hope to get to that book in 2023.

Good luck with your reading goals and research as well! :)

#dr. james barry #female husbands #colonel barker's monsterous regiment: a tale of female husbandry #books #bookblr #thanks for the ask! #female husbands: a trans history #dr. jen manion #rose collis

[yandere-writer-momo]

Author’s note: I am stuck in a slump so I’m going to write a guilty pleasure of mine… the body swap trope except this time, with a twist. And of course with the one that got away trope. I adore it so very much like black cherry ice-cream.

Yandere Head Canons:

The Husband Swap

Yandere Shapeshifter x Married Fem Elf Reader x Neglectful Drow Husband

TW: yandere content!! Mentions of smut, dubcon, tentacles, monster fucking, size kink, manipulation, voyeurism, oral, and unhealthy relationship.

Art from Veil Manga

You had been married to your husband, Nikolai Sokolov, for many years. An arranged marriage set up amongst your people as a peace treaty… you, a high elf, wed to a drow, dark elf. And Nikolai was often cold to you… despite how often you attempted to bond with him.

Nikolai refused to eat any of the food you made and he constantly brushed aside your attempts to get to know him. He cared little for this arranged relationship and treated you as if you were some mere commoner, a fact that only made your heart sting.

Nikolai would occasionally share a bed with you, but it was often out of fulfilling his needs. He cared little for your pleasure and only cared to satiate his own.

One day, Nikolai bought you a servant just to get you to leave him alone (outside of sex). A shapeshifter.

A magic collar was bound tightly around their silver neck as a preventative to their ability to shift. They were now powerless and subservient. A trait that most shapeshifters didn’t have since they were quite sly by nature. You wondered what this creature had done to have been reduced to a servant…

Their name was Lev Snegur and they were close in age to you and Nikolai. The shapeshifter was somewhat masculine looking with sharp features and pitch black eyes. A genderless species that never uttered a sound, what wonderful company to have.

You often tried to engage in small talk with them, but they remained as silent as the depth of night. Not a peep left their lips to ever give you input. It unnerved you.

You were very sweet to them and even offered to share meals, but they only stared at you. Talking to Lev was like talking to a brick wall that nodded at times. Lev was an incredibly good listener.

Lev’s company did little to satiate the ache in your heart and the all consuming loneliness. You were so isolated in this empty home filled with bitterness. And you started to accept that you’d never find any warmth with him. Nor would you find solace in your silent servant’s company.

Occasionally you’d wake up covered in a slight sweat, a puddle of dampness below you. The room would always feel of sex, yet you hardly had any of that… but you were always a bit sore between your legs when you’d wake up on mornings like this. Had you been having wet dreams due to your consistent loneliness? Or was there something foul at play?

So it was a surprise when Nikolai bounced into your room like a puppy one morning. His arms wrapped around your side while he inhaled your scent. What on earth was he doing?

“Nikolai?” Nikolai placed a finger on your lips, a mischievous look in his crimson eyes.

“Shh, I have a surprise for you!” Nikolai gave you a bright grin that made you do a double take. You’ve never seen your grumpy husband smile in his entire life. This had to be a dream… you gave yourself a pinch and hissed at the pain you inflicted on your poor arm. Nope. Not a dream.

Nikolai lead you out of the room to where a grand meal was set before you consisting of all of your favorite delicacies. You had no idea your husband even knew you adored such food…

“Do you like it?” His face was hopeful as he took your hand in his. “I’ve come to a realization that you genuinely care for me… so I will treat you better.”

And from that day forth, Nikolai was more attentive than he ever had been. He insisted you should move into his room and he often cuddled with you… it was so odd. This entire situation was bizarre, almost as if this was another person and not your husband.

It was when Nikolai went down on you for the first time that your mind truly began to believe he was another man. When did he learn how to please you and why did he eat you out like a man starved? This wasn’t your husband… this was an imposter.

When ‘Nikolai’ made love to you, he felt bigger. You swore he was nearly two to three inches than he used to be, which made your stomach protrude like you had a baby bump. And his hands ardently grasped at every bit of your body as he could.

It wasn’t too uncommon for you to find your husband sniffing your hair like some sort of animal. You were so scared…

The longer you spent time with ‘Nikolai,’ the more paranoid you became. There were less and less drows around now and your servant was missing… you were starting to become afraid.

But you never were able to get much time to think about it too much since ‘Nikolai’ was always dutifully by your side. There was never any time to ask questions… until tonight. You decided to ask him… for you feared you’d fall off the deep end into insanity if you didn’t.

“Where’s Lev?” You softly asked Nikolai whose fingers paused their dance over your scalp. His crimson eyes glanced over to your face.

“And why do you care so much about a shifter when your husband is here?” Nikolai asked in a bitter tone, but you could see a bit of excitement in his eye. And it made your heart pulse in your brain.

“Well, I miss Lev.” You softly whispered. It wasn’t a complete lie. You did miss your servant who always listened to you, but you preferred his silent company over the overbearing presence of your changed husband.

“Hmm… well, we can go see him if you’d like.” Nikolai rose up from the bed and wrapped a black robe over his bare chest. “He’s in the dungeon.”

You were a bit shocked by your husband’s words. “What do you mean? Lev never did anything wrong-“

“My wife is too kind for her own good.” Nikolai held your chin to pause you from rambling on even more. His eyes were filled with so much emotion, it froze you in place. “It’s what I love most about you.”

You gulped and averted your gaze, your cheeks felt hot.

Lev lead you down the hallway and down the winding stairs to the dungeon, his hand gently held yours. You felt dread creep up into your stomach the closer you went to the dingy dungeon. Your nerves felt as if they were on fire…

And the sight before you terrified you to your core, the angled corpse of Nikolai laid sprawled out on the brick flooring. His lifeless eyes turned toward the door and his mouth agape in a horrific scream forever frozen on his rotting face.

You tried to flee but your ‘Nikolai’ began to shift, slender hands now held you firmly in place while your captor’s face slowly morphed into the bewitching creature named Lev.

“It didn’t take much to overpower him. Your husband was too cocky to notice I figured out how to disarm the collar.” Lev’s voice made your blood run cold from how raspy it was. His voice low and monotonous despite the various emotions that hid beneath the surface of his eyes. “To whack him over the back of the head with a sword hilt and drag him down here. It was child’s play really.”

“Are you going to kill me too?” You whimpered when his grip tightened around your arms. His face filled with concern.

“Kill you? Nonsense, I’d never kill my wife!” Lev began to pepper your face with numerous kisses while his arms snaked around your waist. “I mean it when I say I love you, I love you more than that bastard ever could.”

You try to protest, but you feel something slimy wrap around your legs and give them a squeeze. Your eyes are wide in terror at the black tendrils that snaked around your plush thighs. What on earth?!

“And I can certainly fuck you better than he ever could… I can show you things no other monster could ever show you, so won’t you indulge me? I promise I’ll blow your mind.”

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