#cuz i know they can be SUPER long

[musubiki]

how was playing hsr? was there anything that you liked in the game and the story?

ITS BEEN AMAZING AS EXPECTED!!!!!!!!! i actually havent played genshin in a while since starting it, i have no motivation to do the filler event while a perfectly good star rail is sitting there waiting to be played :')

but for mechanics, i love they have auto battle so you dont have to nessecarily sit there and invest in every little battle you gotta do....and i love that the resin (resin??) system is a lot more forgiving with a higher cap, lower cost, and allow for overflow...thats nice...i also love that the mc and starter units are very useful. im so emotionally attatched to the star rail crew so im glad they never have to leave my team !!!!

storywise im LOVING IT SO FAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i started playing it at the beginning of spring break 2 weeks ago and im almost all caught up!!! i went through belabog and penacony and now im just doing those leftover intermission main quests which im only now realizing i shouldve done before going to penacony LMAO

and of course.....danmarch....im so soft for them......and also i love sampo i cant wait to see what they do with him

#besides the star rail crew and sampo im not too attatched to anyone else #im very much a (what would happen in canon) type of player so the only units i REALLY want are himeko welt and imbibitor lunae #(and sampo) #everyone else i can go without #so this game is probably gonna be a lot better for my wallet #overall it just like it better than genshin minus the open world part #i like the story and characters...i like that you can play as bad guys while theyre still bad guys???? like blade and kafka??? #cuz in genshin you always gotta redeem them somehow first before theyre playable #not here hueheuhe #also i love that they actually kill off playable characters #(spoilers from here on out) #i know were supposed to be all sad for fireflys death but honestly.......i didnt care about her too much LMAO #i was actually a little annoyed for the secret base part because her base was SO FUCKING DEEP IN ENEMY TERRITORY #i was like (damn bitch how far away is this shit??!) #that by the time we got to the emotional part i was just mad #i never liked characters where the game tries to like....force you to care about them #and its implied you have some super close relationship ESPECIALLY when you havent known them long #now if march died that would be a whole different story #but firefly??? i mean rip but i didnt really know her #im loving the penacony quest so far though #any setting where its like a place of mind tricks and gambling and spending money and sin is always so scary to me #especially the dream within a dream within a dream shit #the mind fuck aspect is always a good plot that i enjoy #i also love that theyre not afraid to upgrade units #like we have dan heng and the dragon dan heng #so characters arnt stagnent forever #everyday i hope we one day get to see a 5-star secret power march #cuz that girl has some shit going on i swear #i just did her luofu memory quest #and those fuckers in the garden of recollection............

[lyriumsings]

genuinely considering making an IF when i’m done with school

#i’ve had so many ideas for years tbh #but i know it’s not something i can pursue the way i want to until school is over #which SHOULD be this year #i don’t think i’d even make a demo though until the entire first draft was done #then maybe update after each edit #it’s an idea i’ve been flirting with for a long time tbh that has now been super prominent these last few days #idk i kinda wanna make a game that has things i like #characters i wanna see and romance and then idk share that #lyriumsings txt #idk i’m think about it #it seems like such a dream rn ngl to have the free time to do that #and the energy ngl cuz even when i do have time homegirl is just plain tired sometimes lol #anyway lemme focus on art anyway #that would be the real test getting entire character refs done for the hypothetical ROs #i should focus on art anyway and advance so that im happy with anything i would hypothetically make #i’m so impatient waiting for IFs tbh like what better to do than make my own then i’ll never be bored lmao #people seem to like my character designs so making characters specifically for ppl to romance feels fun idk

[elegyofthemoon]

getting jumpscared by voice actors is so funny i was just trying to watch old dgrayman scene compiles and suddenly iAN SINCLAIR?????

#ok i didnt stick w the eng dub for super long before alskjf #i mostly watched it in jp ! but i did try eng dub for a bit #i didnt get to when they switched travis willingham for ian sinclair though for yuu and that made me go :O #like tHIS close to picking up the anime but Q _ Q i dont wannaaaaa but also....i wonder if the eng dub is good #i dont like allens va #LIKE hes fine!!! as a va !!! but i just dont like him as ALLEN i think idk #LIKE i cant remember peoples performances well enough to recall whod be good #but like. someone who can manage that perfect balance of sounding gentle and grounded HRM #i will say though whatever they did for lavi's va good job cuz like. while it wasnt exactly the voice i expected it was Amazing from the #clip i saw LOL #this isnt me reading dgm but ill tag it anyways as so #snow reads dgm #i cant tell if i like or dislike lenalee's voice in eng.... i would need more i think... #BUT ian sinclair??? bro i would love to see him do the eps w yuu and alma... #i stopped midway through alma's arc when i was first reading trhough it so i dont know their full story but ; - ; #one of these days. ill make some fancast... #OH YKNOW WHAT i can see like. whoever id pick for jack's voice actor. id give to allen too.... idk if that says anything about me. #i wouldnt even say that jacks like gentle/grounded (hes not) but THATS THE FALSE CHARM HE GOT !!!! SO I THINK ITD WORK #i say gentle but what i really mean is like gentle-borderline-empty sounding #anyways. enough me blabbing sorry sorry lol

[marshmellowtea]

as a agere date, y/n and Actor go to build a bear then get some coffee/hot chocolate.

okay first of all i left this in my askbox for far too long given how much this appeals to me how did you know that build a bear is my weakness hgilaskdgji /j

second of all YES that's so cute......in my head actor tends to be really shy when he's regressed in public (at least when he's aware he's little, i think he regresses unknowingly sometimes and he tends to be less self unconscious in those cases dhglksdj) so i'm imagining him cuddling in to y/n's side as they enter the store, hiding his face in their side and getting all flustered when the employee says hi to him waaaa 😭

he's so thorough when he looks through each of the stuffed animals, considering each of them very seriously (he's choosing a new friend both for him and his other stuffies, after all!!) and once he finds one he connects with he lets y/n lead him to the stuffing machine, letting them talk to the employee and whispering his answers into their ear about what he wants.......it's so sweet he's not usually this shy at home or when he's out when he's big and it just MELTS them (also thinking about y/n putting a personalized audio message in.......hhh)

if y/n is REALLY planning on spoiling him they let him dress his friend up too and he takes that just as seriously (his new friend has to look just as good as he does ofc), and he's so proud of his work.......he keeps smiling at his stuffy as they're checking out and mumbling to y/n about their backstory because of course he's already writing one in his head, he's a storyteller at heart! and y/n keeps smiling back at him as they pay, shooting the fondest looks at their baby because he's so excited and happy about their new friend and they did that for him! they gave him something that's making him smile so big and so sweetly and they also can't stop smiling like an idiot because god he's so cute he's so happy this is all they wanted out of this trip :')))

and yessss......build a bears are often in malls so i can see them stopping by a starbucks or a little coffee shop they have in there, or maybe they decide to go somewhere a little more fancy and indie (i certainly love me a an indie coffee shop lol). normally, mark is a certified caffeine fiend but i think when he's little he jumps for sweetness first over that and honestly, he gets a little hyperactive on caffeine when he's small anyway so y/n probably steers him away from it as best they can XD but i'm also sure y/n gets a sweet coffee drink of their own though and lets him have a sip because he's spooooiiileeed let him have the best of both worlds hgldksajgklasdf

uhhh sorry i let this get long but this is just......this is perfect omfg i'm obsessed with this idea 🥺

#you actually got me on the build a bear website HLKFJSDKLF and for actor i'm looking at the pink cuddles bear or the red rose bear #i actually have a red rose bear and he's not very soft unfortunately BUT he is super handsome :) probably the best contender for him ngl #but i guess they can go to build a bear more than once......probably not too close together because Money but y'know ahlkgjdslg #ngl i know pink is a wilford color but i also associate it with actor a little cuz actor's color is red and pink is just lighter red jgkdsl #but that's off topic oops #yeah goddddd......i'm soft i kinda wanna write a fic about this......maybe.......i already have a huge to write list gjkladsjgkl #so we'll seee #who killed markiplier #actor mark #y/n the district attorney #agere #marshy gets asks #red-pillpop #long post

[echo-loves-flowerboy]

Part 2 of Echo‘s biased god portraits

In Greek mythology, the Keres, singular Ker,were female death-spirits. They personified violent death and were drawn to bloody deaths on battlefields. Although they were present during death and dying, they did not have the power to kill. The Keres were daughters of Nyx, and as such the sisters of Thanatos, the god of peaceful death. Some later authorities, such as Cicero, called them by a Latin name, Tenebrae ("the Darknesses"). 

#Echos gg portraits #I drew her on paper really long ago and im happy with my progress #I used to be so scared of drawing dark skin cuz i never really learned how to #i started drawing in an anime club in middle school and u can guess how diverse the teacher taught us to shade skin #shout out to youtube tutorials <3 #related note the children of nyx are described as black in greek mythology sometimes #interpret that as u will but 11 y/o me instantly was like: omg nyx must look like my cool english teacher #She always wore super cool wigs and is the soul reason i know more than 3 black slang words #sorry for writing a novel in the tags every time #Art and greek mythology are just very dear to me and i like talking about it ^^ #greek mythology #greek myths #greek gods #underworld

[whump-queen]

AYOOO I highly encourage you to post your masochist whump drabbles, if they're nsfw you can add a ton of warnings or maybe create a nsfw side account, but then again only if you want to! your writing is sooo good

You know what anon, you’ve convinced me <3 last night I started editing the one I had mentioned in that earlier ask, it still needs a little bit more polish but I’ll try to get it posted sometime today!

The masochism whump crusade continues ⚔️

#rock flag and eagle ammirite #thank you for letting me know there’s interest in this!! #I can’t tag you cuz you’re on anon but just stay tuned or you can dm me your username if you want and I can send you the post when it’s up #:) #ily <3333 #it’ll actually probably end up being two parts cuz it is LONG #first part will have all the masochism goodness #second part is super heavy on the emotional whump I almost made myself cry writing it #so get ready for that ig :)) #answered asks #akias asks

[lesbian-gnf-archive]

I need and want a haircut so bad but I'm so scared man

#i also told me friend they can do literally Whatever they wanted with my hair but it's been so long and I feel so restless #I hate my current hair so much #and I hate not knowing proper words or what I want cuz it makes dealing with hairdressers so much worse #does anyone know what looks best with super straight hair and a chubby face #i usually do bobs and i think someone suggested curtain bangs ? but idk im so scared for some reason #kore.talks #all i want is to feel like i look good

[scaryhaven]

I, like many other kids grew up watching the Harry Potter films, and when Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2 came out in 2011, i had it spoiled for me that Severus Snape died and you know what, i didn't watch it. I didn't watch it for many years after i heard that, i figured if i didn't see it, it just wasn't real. He was one of my favorite characters in a franchise i really loved as a kid, and yet i didn't watch the final film, i let my fear of saying goodbye stop me from enjoying that film for years, and that fact makes me sad.

#im definitely not like normal i know that #i dont handle saying goodbye in any context well at all #and also for a long time i was ashamed of liking hp cuz everyone makes fun of the fans #but it makes me happy so i dont want to stop liking things that make me happy cuz life is really sad sometimes #and the thing is when i had finally watched it. it was super upsetting why would i willingly put myself thru that #severus snape #idk if anyone else can relate to this kinda behavior or if im just weird

[christianborle]

if your instagram story or reel does not have captions on it i am not watching it! hope this helps x

#ik i'm privileged cuz i can just turn on the sound and listen to what they are saying #but what if i don't want to turn sound on i don't wanna listen to anything rn #too much noise in the world already #and sometimes the audio is too quiet anyway and i don't understand u #and obviously for accessibility purposes! #some people literally can't hear! they can't turn on any sound cuz they won't hear it! #they don't know what ur saying! #like if there are no captions i am just gonna tap allllll the way through ur super long instagram story girl bye #whatever ur talking about can't be that important if u didn't bother to put captions on it #also if people are in public it would be rude to have sound on with no headphones

[cinnabeat]

i love reading media all at once and going yeah that makes sense and then seeing people talk about it extensively and realizing i didnt retain shit

#its so funny to me bc i have a bad havit of like binging things without like. actuall retaining anything or even analyzing it #when i consume something for the first time especially if im binging im very reactive and dont think too hard about things #also cuz most of the time i honestly dont trust shit of anything that im being told #like so many times its like oh turns out this character is lying or it did happen but i dont have the full context #so i never really take things at full face value anymore #fucking jack vesallius comes to mind lmao #so usually it takes me a second read through after im aware of all the plotpoints or at least what has been released so far #and then i can like calmly look at shit with like full knowledge of these characters personalities and i can analyze the themes and symblism #and shit like that #which is terrible for me bc i hate reading things again unless im either really into it or its been so long and i suddenly remember it exist #especially if something is super long like omg 😭 #i guess thats why i kinda look thru tv tropes cuz its like doing ur homework right after class? like the mnowledge is in ur head and then u #use it immediately after to retain it better #ill be reading the tv tropes like 'that is absolutely not what thag meant' or 'your opinion is wrong bc so and so' #i mean im ranting in my head but you know #i conpletely forgkt where i was going with this oops <3 #michi tag

[steampunk-raven]

just say bigots just say bigots just say bigots please I’m begging you don’t say __phobes. Or say the particular type of bigotry you’re referring to (even if it takes longer to say/type out. If referring to both homophobia and transphobia — JUST SAY THAT! Please!! If you don’t have the option of taking that time JUST SAY BIGOTS!!)

#Like. Personally? I think stopping the use of phobia to mean bigotry would take a very long time and if rushed would likely badly interfere #with a lot of activism but like. Phobias aren’t bigotry? Phobias are anxiety disorders which in many cases can be quite disabling?? #why the fuck would you use a disability to indicate bigotry. and it has a pretty damn noticeable impact if you have a phobia! #I know I’m super biased about this particular thing because I have gotten pretty damn unlucky about certain people’s reactions to my phobia #and half those fucking reactions revolved around this topic in particular #so like. please. as someone with two different severe phobias (and a moderate one in recovery) just stop it. it’s so easy #stop using a debilitating condition to mean something completely different and then be cruel to people who have said condition cuz of that #actually phobic #(also yes lol ik I’ve made this post or similar like a million times before. i’ll stop making it when i stop seeing it) #(also everyone who uses __misia instead of __phobia please know that i appreciate you taking that extra step so so much)

[choface]

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#friendly reminder that you are not immune to your oldest most cringiest of ships #l m a o #I wanted to know what aaaall the fuss was about #an extremely popular and well loved fic for a ship I used to enjoy back in the before times #and have spent about 500 out of 1000 pages #fighting against the tide #I wasn’t too sure I was enjoying the fic for a long time #but then the narrative shifted and yeah #it’s taken a turn around page 600 for me #suddenly my heart is aching for these two like it hasn’t in decades #suddenly I want them to make it against the impossible odds that are stacked against them in this verse #all this to say #sometimes popular fics are popular for a reason #do I think it needs to be over 300k? probably not #but that’s just cuz super long fics tend to exhaust me #and I’ll surely be exhausted when this one’s done #it’s definitely the darkest fic I’ve read in this particular fandom #anywayyyy if you can guess the fic im talking about I’ll kiss you on the mouth #real time fic reactions from yours truly

[keets-writing-corner]

Thinking a LOT about Lucifer in the latest Hazbin episode. Idk what I was expecting but not this??

As I was watching my immediate thought was just "huh... Lucifer is kinda of weird..." but as the episode went on I realized the issue

the dude is off the chain depressed, like he says it as a joke but holy cow it is SO BAD

He's manically just creating rubber ducks cuz his daughter really like it that one time but it's empty, it's never good enough but he keeps doing it, maybe cuz he doesn't know how to pass the time otherwise.

like I get the feeling he HAS better things he SHOULD be doing than making rubber duck after rubber duck. At first I was like, "Bruh why isn't the king of hell doing anything?" aaaaand then it became clear...

The dude is disassociating so bad he can barely hold a conversation let alone remember information. He clearly WANTS to, he wants to be involved with his daughter so bad, he wants to care about the things she's doing so bad, but his depression keeps interfering. It's like he can only hear every other word and he grasps onto the ones he does hear semi-out of context. Like you can see every time he catches something that he hadn't before and he just "well shit I didn't catch that part"

and that's why he reacts so weird when people talk to him. He is struggling so bad to engage with the conversation he's only getting 50% of it

does that look like the face of a man who knows what the hell the conversation is even about??? he is STRUGGLING

like Charlie spent so long telling him about the hotel, and he STILL didn't understand what she wanted. Yeah it comes off as ditzy but literally I've been in that position where your brain just "nope, not doing this right now" and nerfs your conversation comprehension. So as someone who's BEEN in that position, to me it feels exactly like what he's dealing with. He's sorta engaged with the conversation, but only as much as his brain will allow

For example, when I'm dealing with this, this is what someone talking to me feels like this where the crossed out parts are what I missed and bold is what I catch, "Hey! You know I was thinking for dinner we could either make some chicken with rice? But if you don't feel like cooking, pasta is super easy and you love that right? What do you want to do?" you can kinda get that someone is trying to talk to you about dinner, and towards the end you get the impression that they asked something that needs your input so you can decently put 2 and 2 together and try and pass off, but crucial bits were left out, I would have no idea that either chicken or pasta is in the conversation only having heard "rice". When someone is just talking at me, I can decently pass off as being engaged but the second I'm required to participate in the conversation I'm screwed. Seem familiar? At which point I have 2 options, try to give a bullshit answer, or admit that I missed what they were saying and ask them to repeat

Lucifer, unfortunately, is trying so damn hard to hide that he's dealing with like 24/7 dissociation, so he can't admit that he's missing entire chunks of the conversation, hence his really weird replies. He does eventually get the full picture and then he and Charlie start having the real conversation

Also, the Alastor/Lucifer rivalry was hilarious but also really indicative of more of what Lucifer is dealing with

Alastor is, unfortunately, really good at picking up people's insecurities, and thanks to Charlie's description earlier and watching Lucifer clearly trying to overcompensate, he immediately picks up on the fact that Lucifer KNOWS he struggles to be a good dad (we know cuz it's cuz of the depression, hard to be engaged when your brain keeps turning off) and decides to rub salt in the wound by pretending he's been acting as a surrogate father to Charlie. Now why Alastor decided to pick a fight with the king of hell is beyond me, I do not understand Alastor (and I LIKE IT) (maybe it's cuz Alastor thinks he's hot shit and was expecting Lucifer to at least have heard of him but Lucifer just treats him like a nobody? who knows)(why would Lucifer listen to radio anyways when he can't even pay attention to a conversation it'd just be white noise)

But yeah I just was expecting someone who oozed either charisma or presence and instead I got a depressed dad who's dissociating so bad he can barely function and be present in his life. The only thing it seems he CAN do is make rubber ducks cuz his daughter really liked it that one time

Idk Lucifer is tragic to me. Whatever the full details of what heavan did to him absolutely broke him and he can't deal with it. He's aware of it, and he doesn't know how to fix it, so he tries to over compensate and sorta makes an ass out of himself but no one says or does anything cuz this guy is supposed to be THE king of hell

Suddenly it's making a lot more sense why he just rolls over and lets heaven do what it wants and even told Charlie to go in his place the start of the show. He's not in any headspace to hold a basic conversation let alone negotiate! He didn't even know who Alastor was, he's been so out of touch

idk I like him, he seems sweet, I hope Charlie brings some light back into his life. He really needs to get out of that rubber duck room

#hazbin spoilers #hazbin hotel #lucifer #lucifer morningstar #analysis #dissociation #look idk what to tell you all #I watched the episode and everything makes so much more sense #when you realize he's only intaking like 50-60% of the conversations #he's not bad at listening his brain is literally preventing him from getting everything #literally I've been there #the difference between him and me tho #is that he can't show it #he's the king of hell #he has to bluff his way through conversations #but yeah literally rewatch the episode with this in mind #and watch him reply to the things he DID catch #anyways #NEW BLORBO???? #who'd've thought I would go into Hazbin Hotel #and come out with freaking LUCIFER as my favorite character #I love him #he's so sad

[pizzapizzadickz]

:/

#why was i upset again??? #diary #personal #i had like a meltdown last night. and i sorta just sat there sobbing for like an hour. then i went to bed. #when i woke up i was just like #anyways. i now am trying to eat breakfast. very unsuccessfully bc i am not eating currently. #id like porridge. but we dont have the one i like rn. so i have to settle for something else. its taken me 40 mins to decide #anyways now i have to MAKE the porridge. and im so burnt out from the meltdown its like. not gonna go well :/ #like. ur telling me that while i feel like utter shit i gotta be around people????? and stand at the stove for GOD knows how long???? #im gonna make the quickest porridge i can but still its not my day #i rly hope i dont have another meltdown today. bc im already like primed and raring to go for another. #god i hate them so much tho. bc i gotta be quiet i dont want anyone to hear me crying. #and like. honestly i generally get super agitated and lose my mind for a while. so like. if i was alone id probably be super loud n shit. #theyre very painful tho. internally that is. probably in part bc of how much i need to be quiet #cuz like. since i cant cry loudly. i just hold my breath! like!!! i probably sound like im hyperventilating!!!! #and honestly!!!! i have before!!!!! soley bc i cant breath enough when crying. #yeah. but you really can only cry for so long. so generally i eventually get tired and fall asleep. #or my mind sorta blanks out on me and i decide fuck it time to sleep. #so yeah. idk. meltdowns are very painful. its been a while since ive gotten that bad tbh? #whats more hilarious is i was perfectly fine until i tried to sleep. well. i wouldnt say perfectly i was stressed n tired #but nothing to indicate i was gonna meltdown or shutdown. i probably just got so overwhelmed that it sorta broke on me #and like. before i was in bed i had a task to complete so i had to focus on that and not how im feeling. so yeah. #idk. ill try to take care of myself today. but theres not much to be done. im gonna feel like shit for a while. #of course unless i get high or something. id feel a lot better instantly bc it sorta erasses the rough edges on things for me #so rather than feeling like my skin is pricked up and on edge (like i do now). id probably be just focused on food or vids #idk. its weird. and im tired. imma go eat. #drugs tw

[familiaanteomnia]

all the reasons gabriel wears sunglasses so often: -obvious one, hangovers and comedowns -tendency towards migraines after getting his memory fucked with for years and years of his life (likely made worst any time he tried to fight against it/or remember things) -his eyes are naturally very light, bright colored (lighter eyes are more sensitive to the sun etc) -just the aesthetic of it+obviously easier to use them when needed if he has them on his head or already covering his eyes

#♥ i can’t breathe. 》 mun post #(he has the energy of if it gets worst so be it) #(plus i mean he's been beyond responsible for himself and then some since childhood) #(he's only 19 of course sometimes he will greet his problems with I know what I should do but that's not so fun) #(but also genuinely the migraines are literally worsened by dark rooms etc) #(so it isn't all recklessness when he's like well i guess the solution is to go clubbing until the bright lights and loud music fixes it) #(and he really wouldnt share the information with anybody cuz of how sucky people can be etc) #(of course solution varies and sometimes nothing works so after going through the cycles of solutions he just takes the edge off as he can) #(sometimes he just curls up listening to unhinged music super loud and cycling through self medicating) #(100% has some solution related to his power that's likely a mixture of helpful pain easing solutions that he uses to dull like 1% of pain) #(also like them just hitting randomly sometimes due to his subconscious seeing something and unconsciously reacting) #(which him in the middle curled up in a zip up hoodie smoking with music blaring and his sunglasses on) #(just chilling and light conversation pretty often he'd probably encourage lots of talking like i enjoy ur voice and passionate rambling) #(which he loves in general but is also helpful when his head is just violently hurting) #(especially if his hair is gently played with though depending on severity he might not like it so much-sometimes no contact at all is best) #long tags cw #headcanons #(he doesnt like addressing it i imagine even after it's just knowledge between the three of them especially if its memory fuckery related) #(can get really touchy about it for lots of reasons plus certainly had people who meant well make him feel worst or treat him poorly ovr it) #(and just being extra moody unable to help it which only compounds if say it's pointed out) #(people have no doubt in the past outwardly pointed out when his eyes were watery and teary due to it and in non gentle harsh ways) #(which him+things like vulnerability is also an lot) #(the ability for his problems to compound and him to just be like xD today is really fucking terrible im going to go sulk is common) #(i just want to talk about him so much and my characterization of him+what i'd give to write him at all let alone in his source material) #(im going to try another tag experiment by not tagging this with his tag until much much later even though its likely fruitless) #(aka when i do so i will probs delete these few tags lol)

[honeytonedhottie]

getting it together⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍡

it feels GOOD to have all ur assignments done. to actively pursue ur dreams and goals. to be consistent and in turn -> see results. it feels good to give meaning to ur time and experience sustained satisfaction. this post will give an overview/guide of the BASICS of getting it together. that way whenever u get off track (cuz we're all human) u can easily reference this and get it TOGETHER.

SLEEP SCHEDULE - how does ur sleep schedule look? is it all over the place? fix it. the plan is to get between the range of 8-10 hours of sleep every single night (yes even on the weekends) and to wake up no later than 8 in the morning.

i recommend formulating a "get ready for bed" routine. mine is set with a soothing playlist, a cup of tea, and copious time for self care and meditating on my manifestations. ur night time routine is customizable to YOU, however the goal is to get away from screens or anything that'll tempt you to stay up at unhealthy hours.

THE MORNING ROUTINE - i think that the most influential and important time of the day is the morning. bcuz for me that sets the mood of my whole entire day, so i take my mornings SERIOUSLY and i think you should too.

for me in the morning, i do a light pilates workout/stretch to get my blood pumping, and i feel like it gives me such a boost of energy and sets the mood for the whole day so if u haven't tried i rly recommend working out in the morning. however since this post is for when you've gotten off track start SMALL. a short 5-10 minute stretch or pilates routine is more than enough.

THE IMPORTANCE OF GETTING READY - and i'll STAND ON THIS. even if ur not going anywhere at all that day, make an effort to get ready. make casual glamor a HABIT. getting ready is like, the best part of my day. its so therapeutic, something about the meticulous attention and the amount of time that i pour into myself it feels AMAZING. when u look good -> you feel good

A TO DO LIST - plan out ur week, plan out ur day, ur month. make a super cute calendar or agenda so that way you can get ur tasks done. im someone who needs super detailed instructions of what TO do, so when ik what im supposed to do i can get it done and i can get it done well. and instead of thinking of it as a to-do list, think of it as like a quest or something. tasks that u need to do and then -> you get something in return

ik it sounds rly dumb but sometimes when theres a mundane task that i know i must do, i imagine that im like a SIMS character who has no choice. or i imagine myself as a video game character who is doing it as a task cuz its part of the game. the point of me sharing that hot tip is to make it FUN for yourself. give urself something to look forward to afterwards too. like an episode of ur favorite drama, or a sweet treat.

CLEAN UP - a cluttered space = a cluttered mind. take 20 minutes aside everyday to tidy up so that then u can avoid the day-long cleaning on the weekend and actually enjoy it. when ur space is neat and organized, so is ur mind and it translates to how u view/respect urself. u show that you respect urself when u dwell in a place that it is neat and tidy.

PROPEL YOURSELF - when i've been rotting for a couple days, my go-to routine to propel myself back into my usual swing is : shower (an everything shower is a bit ambitious so go for it if u want) -> drink a COLDDD large glass of water -> do the process of getting ready and then do at least 3 tasks and 2 smaller tasks)

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