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618foxes · 4 months

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this might not be a common opinion but I legitimately fucking love emails. As someone who's really bad at navigating social spaces emails are an absolute blessing, there's a designated structure and vocabulary for it, there are templates available online for almost any type of email. It makes social interaction so much easier when the interaction fprmat comes with clear cut and well defined rules that you can google idk

#plus the fact that you dont have to come up with it on the fly like with phone calls or face to face comm #you can write it out #read back over it #make adjustment or rewrites as needed #and then deliver it when you feel like its ready #texting is too fast and theres no rules for it #like theres no tutorial articles online for how to hold a texting convo #and esp when u take texting styles into account #everyone texts differently so there literally Is Not a universal trick for it you have to adjust your own style for every different convo #which is so exhausting #emails on the other hand #there is a specific Way™ that emails are written #a format that everyone has to follow and that just makes communication so much easierrrrr #emails are great. actually #and im tired of pretending theyre not

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wingybunny · 5 months

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HEEEEELLOOO THERE.

No, i'm not dead (YET-)

It's just the holidays that keep me busy, like, WAY TO BUSY, I'M TIRED, that's also the reason of my absence.

But anyway, this was supposed to be finished WEEKS AGO, and now with christmas around the corner i just had to finish it. Enjoy and happy Holidays yall! ⭐

🎄🎁🎇

#five nights at freddy's #fnaf sb #fnaf security breach #glamrock bonnie #fronnie #fnaf ruin #fnaf #glamrock freddy #christmas #mistletoe #ship art #wtf its been like one and a half month #theyre married your honor #freddy x bonnie #size difference #cause why not #im tired of pretending i don't like it

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arom-antix · 15 days

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I bring to thee some quick late night Viktuuri sketches because I think we could all use some fluff

#some viktuuri for the soul!#my blorbos are always in my mind even if im not creating for them in that moment #they never leave <3 #their eepy leepiness is a reflection of moi and i love their eepy leepiness for them i hope theyre getting some great naps #just some calm and quiet #love that for them #also this isnt the first time i draw in like two months what are you talking about?#the last art i posted totally wasnt from the 14th of march shhhhh the date on the post is definitely wrong source trust me #no but like i have been so dead for months #dont expect to see much art from me before july when my break starts and i can stop being stressed out of my mind #now i can be one of those tortured artist types except i havent done any art to communicate how sad i am #tbh im just tired i just wanna sleep #am i gonna? youre funny of course not but now i can at least pretend my awake time was vaguely productive #yuri on ice #yuri on ice fanart #fanart #art #arom antix art #arom antix #viktor nikiforov #kastuki yuuri #viktuuri

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foursaints · 1 month

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i need to hear more about lucius and pandora. you are insane for coming up with this ship. it's amazing. did they ever actually date or was it just mutual obssession that never evolved in anything more, but they both knew and never got over it? did it affect his relationship with narcissa? did he see pandora in cissa?

okay i’ll take this as permission to yap because!! they’re always in my brain. i see the ludora thesis as: two characters who are entirely different, but who are both utterly convinced they’re Smarter Than Everyone Else Around Them. what conflict stems from that? what connection?

it was always just mutual obsession. sneaking around at the very most, but nothing publicly Real. to me, they end up married to narcissa & xeno respectively because narcissa & xeno are like… the socially acceptable versions of each other?

in my head xeno is a lot older than pandora (7-10 years), and he’s very kind, but too absentminded to be an attentive husband, and she likes him for a lot of reasons. but she’s also subconsciously like… Maybe this could resemble lu if i squint. meanwhile lucius has convinced himself that his rich lesbian wife is everything he’s ever wanted (she actually Obeys him!! unlike pan!!!) & it only takes him 3 years to realize he fucking hates this. they both got Exactly what they said they wanted, which is the opposite of each other. because they can’t stand each other. but they’re miserable.

like…. lucius should have been pandora’s ornery stay-at-home trophy husband she drags on expeditions for rare potion ingredients. they’re an Adventure Couple™️. him with his head wrapped in a mosquito net in a jungle wearing designer shoes, bitching at his beautiful wife at the top of his LUNGS, swinging a machete at vines (<- guy who has never been happier) (he is shouting: DO NOT TEST ME, WOMAN!!!!!, she is shouting: you are such AN INFANT !!!!!!!!, and they’re aggressively making out against a tree)

you have to imagine lucius at a posh ministry function being sooo smug about it too. he’s like “Ah yes, my wife, THE PROFESSOR, is publishing a book on MANDRAKES this month, arent you, darling?” while pandora is soooo thrilled to have a captive audience to subject to her rants about her publications. completely insufferable couple. united by thinking they’re better than everyone else (except? they are? i think they maybe actually are.)

+ remind yourself that this ship could ultimately result in Draco & Luna being brother and sister. so perfect. except none of this ever happened because they never let themselves be together.

#lucius definitely STARES evan down at every death eater meeting #evan is tugging on barty’s sleeve and whispering ‘what is his fucking deal’ into barty’s ear #i love them so bad & i’m tired of pretending i don’t. don draper husband x miss frizzle wife.#ludora #a #long post #THEYRE SO TTPD IM SICK

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despazito · 10 months

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#theyre sick and im tired of pretending they aren't #frankly i should dress weirder lol

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variksel · 2 years

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have started to notice that podcast fandoms have huge problems with art theft and its nagging at me

i dont think fans of shows, especially podcasts, realize that when you save art from tumblr or twitter or whatever and then repost it without credit, youre still stealing art no matter if you claim its yours or not. its so incredibly annoying to spend hours on art that you really like, only to have it be reposted without any mention of your name anywhere by some tiktok or tumblr user making a meme collab or an aesthetic board or whatever. i get that these characters dont have canon faces that you can use but that doesnt mean you can just take other peoples work and pretend you dont know how reverse google image searching works.

if you dont have credit, then dont repost the art. its real fuckin simple. ive seen way too many edits or meme compilation makers try to squirm their way around this and i think its because they know its bad to do and they dont wanna steal art, but that doesnt mean you can still do it you annoying lil shits

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[ID: A two-panel meme showing two men at a dinner table. The first man, labeled "tma artists," sets down a plate labeled " 'please credit us when using our art' " in front of the other man, who is labeled "tma fans." The second man throws the plate away, now labled "art credit". End ID]

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ya-boi-haru · 29 days

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Enderien (Fable smp) and Diana/Ezaur (Seduce Me: The Otome series) are the same people in a different font, and no, I will not elaborate or take criticism

#im tired of pretending theyre not/j #theyre both powerful woman who think they arent worthy of love until a person who had a harsh backstory came along and loved them #fable smp #fablesmpblr #fable smp headcanon #enderian #ednerian fable smp #seduce me the otome #seduce me the otome diana

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acespacedweller · 7 months

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Me whenever Stede and Ed have a fight and people blame one or the other instead of acknowledging that both of them were in the wrong

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adhdandcomics · 1 year

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adding to my tags because i’ve been thinkin a lot about the post i just reblogged and have more thoughts:

i’ll be real, the more i saw ‘hey adhd influencers are so annoying’ the more i worried that i was unconsciously contributing to the spreading reputation of adhd folks as annoying and over-pathologizing every symptom they experience

and then i realized. i am not a goddam influencer or life coach or representative. obviously i have some obligation as someone who cares about myself and the people that like my comics to not spread harmful ideology or blatant misinformation but i never intended myself to be a “’increase your productivity!!’ blog OR a ‘if you have XYZ you have adhd!’ blog. and i do this for fun, and originally started this blog bc i had a lot of internalized shame and self loathing about my adhd and thought if i could make it funny i might have less of that. let’s get real! and it worked!

i’ve obviously done this kind of thing— (hey these symptoms might be adhd!) a lot before in my life & on this blog, but there’s more to it than trying to be an “influencer” or whatever. a term that didn’t even exist when i started this blog!

i felt very isolated trying to find out if i had any mental problems & what have you originally because of large advice (etc) blogs with staunchly anti self Dx views at the time

so i overcorrected when i DID get dxed and tried to validate everyone who was like me. and of course. not the best course of action always for the ol mental health. tried to be the source of positivity and jokes that i didn’t see because the online adhd presence was near non-existent.

and anyway. i make a lot of fun of myself & the way m brain works in my comics obviously but it is not my obligation to... how do you say.... not be annoying online.

because if folks interpret MY little jokes as a strict guide to diagnosis. that’s on them, really, not me. i also believe “making adhd your entire personality” is a non-issue. so what if people find out they have it and get over excited with identifying as adhd. saying this as someone who DID do it. criticism of this gives the same vibes as people being annoyed that young queers make “being queer” their whole personality. im very obviously more than a guy with adhd, and id reckon other adhd comic artists are too. (im friends with a lot of them!) it’s fine to post about it online.

anyway. i just don’t take myself too seriously and i’m a comic artist for myself first! and you know what, i’ve been considered annoying my entire life. what do i care if a few more folks think i’m annoying. neurotypical or not

#i think the article did have some good points especially on the capitalism and marketing angle but i oft think it did venture into #being mad at individual folks who post jokes about adhd. which is literally fine thats what an opinion piece is for lol #i am just very tired of people pretending that a lot of reaction to online adhders is not in itself just an extension of the ableism #we already were facing #'adhd people are so annoying everyone does this youre pathologizing everything' ok and how exactly are you helping.#i hesitate to throw my hat in with hating on adhd tiktok because i am simply not on tiktok and have no way to back up my thoughts #that they may be annoying and oversimplifying a complex disorder on the 'drains your attention span' website.#and i think perhaps the value of each adhd resource varies widely depending on who made it and what theyre even posting.#sometimes its a joke made by a person with adhd. sometimes its sourced and cited research. sometimes its someone discussing their personal #experiences in depth. sometimes its someone talking completely out of their ass. sometimes its THINLY veiled ableism.#its up to the individual to research and determine the value of the memes and resources you seek #anyway. perhaps these points are tough to clarify on sites like insta and twitter. bless.#text #adhd #im punk now #oh and yeah i also agree lots of folks do not talk about the unsavory parts of adhd but rather the funnies and the sillies. but that is #once again a larger capitalism and marketing and ableism problem #r we not talking about them because we are actively trying to infantalize this disorder or is it because we collectively experience a lot #of internalized ableism and hesitate to talk about our worst symptoms for fear of the backlash #weve always gotten about them 🤔🤔🤔#much to consider #if youve read this far sorry for tangent number 56 about this. but also start being more unapologetic about your disorders. fuck it!#<3

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marsystars · 1 year

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robert smith walked so that gerard way could RUN. I just KNOW these 2 mfs would be absolute besties if they made music in the same era.

#the cure? to what.#im so tired of pretending like robert smith isnt literally the finest mf alive oh my fucking god #the cure #robert smith #mcr #my chemical romance #gerard way #not comparing either of them to each other btw! theyre both amazingly talented in their own respective ways and i love them both :)

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grimalkinmessor · 1 month

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SHUT UP ABOUT THE PERCY JACKSON VS HARRY POTTER DEBATE SHUT UP ABOUT THE PERCY JACKSON VS HARRY POTTER DEBATE IT'S BEEN MONTHS WHY IS IT STILL CIRCULATING MY FEED. IF I SEE THAT STUPID ASS TWEET THAT STARTED IT ALL ONE MORE FUCKING TIME I'M GOING TO START DRAWING THEM HOLDING HANDS AND MAKING OUT SLOPPY STYLE AND MAKING SWEET SWEET LOVE ON A BED OF ROSE PETALS I AIN'T PLAYING WITH Y'ALL NO MORE

#grim rants #percy jackson #harry potter #they would BESTIES and im tired of yall pretending they wouldnt #theyre not fighting theyre bonding over trauma your honor #percy cuts off voldemorts head and harry vanishes aries' kneecaps #they compare cool swords and percy lends harry medusas head to put in the dursleys fridge #harry lends percy his invisibility cloak so he can sneak around olympus and fuck with the gods #srsly stop using one of my favorite characters to bash another one of my favorite characters #its really making me start to not like percy on principle #DONT DO THAT TO ME #I LOVE PERCY #keep clowning and ill make it a foursome with added dionysus and dumbledore domt fucking test me #ill make new accounts every time you block one. ill post it under the tags thirteen times a day. you will not escape me

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bmpmp3 · 28 days

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