#and fear failure and rejection and

[serenityquest]

#shift your mindset #mental health #fear #failure #reframing #criticism #rejection

[itspileofgoodthings]

all the lyrics across Taylor’s past 5 albums about how she hopes she doesn’t lose him (hopes he doesn’t leave, hopes it never ends) only to arrive at her saying “you’re losing me.”

#the moment where it shifts in any relationship #where it goes from this fear of losing something to realizing that the loss is inevitable beCAUSE a person doesn’t want you #like. in a way her fears didn’t come true. because she didn’t do the losing. #it’s not like she had perfect happiness and it was just suddenly ripped away. it can’t be that no matter what people say #which was the fear #the absolute strangled fear in Cornelia street #because the coldness was there first and the distance and the apathy. and then it’s not about being left and feeling rejected #it’s about seeing the truth and saying oh. you’re losing ME. Because you don’t WANT this #idk if this makes sense but it is such a real life distinction to me #the difference between fears and reality #and of course that doesn’t mean it isn’t also a loss and a blow (a huge one) for her too #but it’s still not I wake up screaming from dreaming one day I’ll watch as you’re leaving #cause you got tired of my scheming #where the burden rests on her for the loss. as in the failure was innately in her #because you’re losing me still has ‘don’t read the last page cause I stay’ written on all over it #but then it’s seeing clearly too—you don’t want this enough to stay #this Probably makes no sense #it’s just exactly how heartbreak happens in real times which is. Yeah exactly what’s happening #the whole thing makes me so sad

[leschanceux]

not to be dramatic or anything but job applications and the way they leave you feeling emotionally scooped out and exhausted? fuck me.

#i was just an only child of the universe ( out ) #also the chronic fear of failure / rejection #one of the apps was internal for the company i already work for ( hate the company but don't mind the job so much ) #and i had to send an email just now for another app which was also just exhausting #so yeah #fffff #probably going to have to walk this stress off in a little bit tbh

[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

After two days of eating barely anything, I just had a calzone. Let’s hope the anxiety doesn’t forcibly eject it from whence it came

#exjw #going pomo #I dropped a solid eight pounds in two days from the stress-induced nausea diarrhea and projectile vomiting. Very fun /s #I love being born and forced into a set of religious beliefs I never had the chance to properly accept or reject #which will cause me to get penalized for choosing not to adhere to them #They set kids up for failure fear and lots of trauma #I’m not against raising kids with religion… I’m against religions that REQUIRE raising a child to have the parents’ religion #AND that actively encourage psychologically torturing people for not following their parents’ religion #Like if I were a worldly family member opposed to the JWs like my grandma was; they’d be fine with me and even support me #But because I was born in and later left; that makes me the traitor. I’m the bad guy #?????? #How and why?

[atonalginger]

If I could sit the me of just October of last year down and show them my daily routine now and the amount of creative energy I have and fun talking with wonderfully creative people, that I've made new friends, and discovered people do in fact really want to see my work...

Well Me of October would have laughed in my face.

But it's true and I appreciate you all so much! I was just sitting here looking over my stats on ao3 feeling humbled and blessed.

#just amazing really #I got so used to just being a little hermit and never putting myself out there for fear of failure and rejection but #I'm not failing #I'm going way better than I thought I would and I'm having a blast too #Like I'm waking up at more decent hours and feel like I have more energy and everything

[rwby-encrusted-blog]

Let me give example I am worried if I do a drama story it will get to me, because i will be too good.

I understood that.

Still, No.

I have the opposite.

I don't fear being too good. I'd love to start something and be great at it.

I have a some amount of Kakorrhaphiophobia; The Fear of failure that I earned from only being praised for when I succeeded and punished for when I failed at something.

It isn't clinical, and I have made improvements against it, but I still fear messing up and being bad at stuff.

#technically the phobia also covers rejection which is also an issue #but that's not relevant to the question. #Atychiphobia is the fear of failure #and just failure #asks and answers #anonymous

[crosswordgf]

i think im gonna try out dumb unwavering optimism cause thats probably the only thing that makes life bearable tbh. like maybe if i read a salted circus cashews, swear to god by raphael bob-waksberg i’ll be normal……. children of god by mary doria russell inspires the same thing in me oddly enough, like that thing of going i’ve been hurt a billion times before and nothing ever works out painlessly but oops here we go again. like maybe this time everything will work out or maybe it WON’T but i will keep my heart open to the possibility at least…

#says girl whose biggest fear is failure and rejection lol everyone point and laugh #SCREAM i realized now in context it looks like this is about percy jackson thats so funny 😭

[lesbian-gnf-archive]

I've been trying to get myself to draw all day

#WHY IS IT SO HARD #<- has a chronic fear of failure and rejection didn't turn in most school assignments cuz if they weren't turned in it meant i didn't fail #bc i got it wrong i failed cuz i didn't do it and somehow made sense to my brain #and now doesn't want to try to draw cuz it won't be ugly if i just don't do it #kore.talks

[catmint1]

We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is an eternal question you will never have the answer to.

Trevor Noah, Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood

#quotes #trevor noah #born a crime #fear #rejection #failure #regret #regrets #text

[drsudhirarora1]

How BRAIN'S FEAR Stops You From FULL CURE Of Your Stammering?

Stammering, also known as stuttering, can be a challenging condition to overcome. While speech therapy can be effective for many, some individuals find that their progress is hindered by underlying fears and anxieties. Understanding how the brain's fear response impacts stammering can provide valuable insights into achieving full recovery. Here's how fear may be holding you back and how you can break free from its grip with the help of MindGuru's Dr. Sudhir Arora.

Fear of Failure: The fear of failure can be a significant barrier to overcoming stammering. Many individuals worry that despite their efforts, they will never achieve fluent speech, leading to feelings of frustration and self-doubt.

Fear of Judgment: The fear of being judged or ridiculed by others can contribute to anxiety and self-consciousness, making it difficult to speak confidently. This fear can stem from past experiences of negative reactions or teasing related to stammering.

Fear of Rejection: Individuals with stammering may fear rejection or social exclusion due to their speech impediment. This fear of not being accepted or valued by others can lead to avoidance of social situations and isolation.

Fear of Public Speaking: Public speaking can be particularly daunting for individuals with stammering, as it amplifies feelings of pressure and performance anxiety. The fear of stumbling over words or being unable to communicate effectively can trigger avoidance behaviors and further exacerbate the problem.

How MindGuru Can Help: MindGuru, led by renowned psychologist Dr. Sudhir Arora, offers a unique approach to overcoming stammering without speech therapy. With over 45 years of experience, Dr. Arora specializes in mind power techniques that harness the brain's innate ability to rewire neural pathways and overcome limiting beliefs.

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#stammering cure #overcome stammering #fear and stammering #MindGuru #Dr. Sudhir Arora #speech therapy alternative #speech impediment treatment #fear of failure #fear of judgment #fear of rejection #fear of public speaking #mind power techniques #stammering treatment #male stammering treatment #25 to 35 years stammering treatment #Indian stammering treatment #US stammering treatment #UAE stammering treatment #Canada stammering treatment. #Youtube

[agreenroad]

The Three Greatest Fears That Satan Uses On Everyone To Keep Them Enslaved, Trapped And Separated From God/Christ/Holy Spirit

Pastor Robert Morris The 3 Greatest fears; Whatever we are afraid of, we will be obsessed with that fear, or obsess and idolize on the opposite of that fear, and/or project it onto others. (These fears are often unconscious, below our awareness, but they drive our actions, thoughts and behaviors.) FEAR OF REJECTION; If we live by this unconscious fear, we will be willing to live with any kind…

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#fear #fear of death #fear of failure #fear of rejection #greatest fears

[burningfeathersx]

Do you not want to be in love?

.

The track record for love is...

Rook is an outlier. Some kind of glitch in reality. Some kind of cosmic fluke born of a cosmic fluke.

When I've ever loved. It's always been to my demise.

I always suffer. I always lose.

I am always not quite enough. Never do it quite right.

Destined for the Cold-Dark-Alone.

You don't understand how much Rook is a statistical fucking error.

#here's your sign #Anonymous #ic #voided voice #(( he still feels his 'original sin' was loving god too much #(( so that and Abandonment Issues o'clock #(( and there like a fear of rejection that comes with that #(( a conviction that he is doomed to failure

[hballinger]

Facing, not Avoiding

This is a challenging time for us. We have made commitments that stretch us thinner than usual and that challenge us daily, weekly and monthly in uncomfortable ways — yet we have made those commitments because we decided there as a family that they are worth it. Since making those commitments, we have faced many unexpected challenges that have tested our resolve and our commitment. And a few…

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#Abandonment #courage #death #failure #faith #fear #rejection #strength #victory

[cityandking]

oc asks: not-so-nice edition

alone: How does your OC deal with loneliness? Have they ever been completely alone before? How do they act when there's no one around to see them?

betrayal: Has your OC ever been betrayed by someone they thought they could trust? Has your OC ever betrayed someone who trusted them?

bound: Has your OC ever been imprisoned or captured? What happened? How did they get out? Did the experience leave any scars?

break: What would cause your OC to break down completely? What do they look like when that happens? Has anyone ever seen them at their lowest?

desire: What's one thing your OC wants more than anything in the world? Are they open with that desire? Why or why not? What would they do to fulfill it?

failure: What's your OC's greatest failure? Have they been able to move past it? Does anyone else know about it?

fear: What is your OC's greatest fear? What do they do when confronted with it? Are they open with their fear, or do they hide it away?

future: What's the worst possible future for your OC? Are they taking steps to avoid that outcome? Are they even aware it's a possibility?

ghost: Who or what haunts your OC? What happened? How do they live with their ghosts?

guilt: What is your OC guilty about? How do they handle their guilt? Do they try to avoid guilt, or do they accept it?

hate: What does your OC hate? Why? How do they act towards the object of their hatred?

heartbreak: Have they ever had a relationship that ended badly? Experienced some other kind of heartbreak? What happened?

hide: What does your OC hide? Why do they hide it?

hunt: Who or what is your OC hunted by? A person, a feeling, a past mistake? Is your OC able to let their guard down, or are they constantly alert?

mask: Does your OC wear a mask, literally or figuratively? What goes on beneath it? Is there anyone in their life who gets to see who they are under the mask?

midnight: What keeps your OC up at night? Do they have nightmares? Fears? Anxieties? What do they do in the small hours of the morning when they should be sleeping?

mistake: What's the worst mistake your OC ever made? What led to them making it? Have they been able to fix it? How have they moved on?

monster: Is your OC monstrous in any way? Is there something that makes them monstrous? Are they aware of their own monstrosity? Do they accept it or reject it?

nightmare: What does your OC have nightmares about? How do they deal with their nightmares? Do they tell people, or keep it to themself?

pain: What's the worst pain your OC has ever felt? Do they have a high pain tolerance?

secret: What's one secret your OC never wants anyone to know about them?

skin: How comfortable is your OC in their skin? Do they grapple with anything that lives inside them—a beast, a curse, a failure, a monster? How do they face the smallest, weakest, most horrible version of themself? Are they able to acknowledge it at all?

torture: Has your OC ever been tortured? Would your OC ever torture someone else?

wound: How does your OC handle being wounded? Are their wounds mostly physical? Mental? Emotional? What's the worst wound your OC has ever experienced?

#whump #whump ask #oc asks #oc ask game #oc ask prompts #oc ask meme #ask meme #ask game #character asks #character development #mine; ask meme #meme resource #please feel free and encouraged to reblog! or to send asks but I probably won’t get to them til next week #now with minor edits for clarity!

[mx-lamour]

Just volunteered to work on two different online magazines.

50% This is a great stride and I'm entirely capable of doing these things and it'll be great for my career and I might even love it.

50% Dear lord,what have I done it is against my personal code to make any promises because what if I fail horribly and everyone hates me and I burn out again and--

#anxiety through the roof #fear of failure #rejection sensitivity #i don't want people to rely on me #but i also want to do neat things

[imastoryteller]

20 Emotional Wounds in Fiction That Make Readers Root for the Character

Abandonment: Characters who have been abandoned by loved ones or caregivers can evoke sympathy from readers.

Betrayal: Being betrayed by someone close can create deep emotional wounds that make readers empathize with the character.

Loss of a Loved One: Whether through death or separation, the loss of a loved one can be a powerful emotional wound.

Rejection: Characters who experience rejection, whether in relationships or by society, can be relatable and evoke empathy.

Abuse: Physical, emotional, or psychological abuse can create complex wounds that shape a character's personality and behavior.

Neglect: Characters who have been neglected, especially in childhood, can evoke sympathy from readers.

Failure: Experiencing a significant failure or loss can create emotional wounds that make characters more relatable.

Guilt: Characters who carry guilt for past actions or decisions can be compelling and evoke empathy from readers.

Shame: Feelings of shame can create internal conflict and make characters more relatable and sympathetic.

Injustice: Characters who have experienced injustice or unfair treatment can evoke strong emotions from readers.

Trauma: Characters who have experienced traumatic events, such as war or natural disasters, can be sympathetic and relatable.

Loneliness: Characters who feel lonely or isolated can evoke empathy from readers who have experienced similar feelings.

Fear: Characters who face their fears or struggle with phobias can be relatable and evoke empathy from readers.

Self-doubt: Characters who struggle with self-doubt or low self-esteem can be relatable and evoke sympathy.

Identity Crisis: Characters who are grappling with questions of identity or struggling to find their place in the world can be sympathetic.

Addiction: Characters who struggle with addiction can be complex and evoke empathy from readers.

Betrayal of Trust: Characters who have had their trust betrayed can be sympathetic and relatable.

Unrequited Love: Characters who experience unrequited love can be sympathetic and evoke empathy from readers.

Isolation: Characters who feel isolated or disconnected from others can be relatable and evoke sympathy.

Fear of Failure: Characters who struggle with a fear of failure can be relatable and evoke empathy from readers.

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