#I’m a fucking adult!!!

[scramratz]

Please be normal

#I’m an adult #I fuck #I PAY BILLS

[trash-goddess]

One of the worst things about being a teenager is being infantilized. You are expected to be (reasonably) responsible for yourself but do not have any of the respect, resources nor decision making power that comes with it such responsibilities as an adult.

Being an adult with a fully functioning brain, and the having the respect, resources, decision making power and responsibilities is a delightful experience. Taking control of my life and living on my own terms has made every aspect of my life much more manageable.

So. As a twenty four year old. Who works full time, and thus has saved and paid off my student loans. Who is capable of managing my finances, groceries, and living a healthy lifestyle. Who is by all accounts, a reasonable adult. I find myself frustrated by seeing myself described as a child who is incapable of making such decisions has become incredibly frustrating. It showcases a lack of maturity and understanding!

I refuse to be dragged back down into childhood by people who have never even met me and do not know what is best for me.

And you can take my voting rights from my cold dead hands.

#aaaaaaaah #I’m a fucking adult!!! #I go on trips to other countries by myself!!! #i went to college #I took care of myself #I can take care of myself #I know a lot of this idea of 18-25 are children is a mostly in the context of sex #which I didn’t mention in the main post for a reason #because there is so much more to adulthood than sex #to be frank you couldn’t ban 18-25 year olds from having sex if you tried #but the most important aspect is voter rights #I think most of the people who believe this are conservatives #who are trying to prevent you people from voting #the idea that a twenty four year old isn’t an adult #can be the used to argue that they also can’t vote #this is a calculated attempt to discourage young people from voting #and if anyone tries to agrue that I’m not an adult #in this post will be treated as though they are a conservative reactionary

[ewwww-what]

You are not a coward. You have a goddamn medical condition, alright?

#Adaine having an adult looking out for her for the first time in her life what the fuck #made this while watching the last two episodes of fy #cried twice #I love Jawbone and Adaine. ​this guy tried to kill her in a night club but he’s her dad now so it’s chill #I made her look so sad I’m sorry Adaine #I will always have a soft spot for found family where the family is just a whole bunch of weirdos /aff #(everyone in FH. literally all of them fall into that category for me.) #there’s a shaded version of this with a bg and everything I just don’t like it as much as the flatcolor #d20 #fantasy high #d20 fantasy high #dimension 20 #d20 fanart #fantasy high freshman year #fhfy #adaine abernant #adaine o'shaughnessey #adaine fantasy high #adaine fanart #jawbone o'shaughnessey #jawbone fantasy high #fh #d20 fhfy #undescribed #my art

[saggitary]

The Bad Batch Finale Spoilers

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It’s now CONFIRMED THAT ECHO TAUGHT OMEGA HER SABATOGE TRICKS ajshdiajdrbd

*Hears Zillo escaped*

Echo: (in awe) Omega

Emerie: how do you know?

Echo: because that’s exactly what I would do

Sjshdbajddjdbd

Wrecker, Cross, Hunter seeing Zillo erupt from Tantiss

Crosshair: is that Echo’s handy work or omega’s?

Long pause

Wrecker and Hunter: Omega’s

LIKE MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER IM ACTUALLY CRYING

#star wars #the bad batch #sag’s stuff #the bad bad spoilers #the bad batch season 3 #arc trooper echo #tbh omega #I’m actually sobbing #they all lived #and Adult Omega and Old Hunter had me sobbing #FUCK

[teehee-vibes]

Thinking of Gillion and Finn today…

#jrwi riptide #just roll with it riptide #gillion tidestrider #finn tidestrider #gillion jrwi #Finn jrwi #just roll with it #jrwi spoilers #just roll with it spoilers #riptide spoilers #jrwi riptide spoilers #the care they have for one another is so fucking palpable I’m insane I’m insane #and gill not being open about the fact that he wasn’t good in school #but seeming to have interest in academics in the past… but Finn leaving #Finn was probably the only adult who had the patience to help him UNDERSTAND and learn #no one else bothered to waste the champion’s time outside of the gods and combat #I’m insane #I have a lot of thoughts and no articulation #TV’s art

[soullessjack]

a collection or mood-board of sorts

#cal.txt #glitter text #animated text #shitpost #autistic characters #autism representation #jack kline #spn #autism #your fav is #ID: your autistic favs do fuck! me. I’m fucking them. die mad about it #image posting #image collection #autism memes #autism stuff #blorbo tag #your fav #every day I remember that jack is literally a grown ass romance-feeling sex-wanting autistic adult infantilized for his autistic traits #and then I die a little bit inside #but will that stop me from carnal posting ab him? absolutely fucking not. he’s pretty and I want him and that’s never gonna change #sexualizing autism is actually crucial to beating ableism im so serious

[sin-sidejob]

alright, we’re hunting down Netflix executives

#I’ll continue writing #but im absolutely going to need a while #my asks are open for anyone who wants to cry along with me #I’m so sorry to be the one to tell some of y’all or whoever sees this in this way #inside job #I’m as gutted as you are #but I’m hoping in some arcane way that another provider like Adult Swim may pick it up like they did for tuca and birdie #I love you all and REALLy My asks and dms are open if you wanna cry about it with me #inside job Netflix #fuck Netflix #reagan ridley #jr scheimpough #brett hand #glenn dolphman #andre lee #gigi thompson #myc #robotus alpha beta #personal inside job #my inside job

[custom-emojis]

One day I’m gonna snap and start being so much more fucking annoying about my sexuality and being pan and gay at the same time until all the stupid 14 yr olds who I’ve been queer longer than they’ve been alive trying to tell me what definitions mean stop following me entirely.

#someone was fucking annoying on one of my posts. big surprise #for every person who tries to TELL ME I’m omnisexual im gonna add a new contradictory label #next time someone does this I’m gonna start identifying as a pansexual gay lesbian girlboy #I will make my gender worse and more incomprehensible and I will be more messily queer until the annoying people fuck off #i don’t have time for exclusionism I am an adult with a life..

[osachiyo]

You adults need to grow the fuck up. I am a writer myself and i think minors should be allowed to read and interact with smut. I don’t understand what the issue is?? What’re y’all adults even “protecting”? Minors from smut? LMFAO please, I know you all watched/read porn when you were a teen, so why are WE the problem when it comes to interacting with nsfw??

i was not expecting this kind of ask today but 🤡

listen child, your first mistake was assuming that i want to protect you from porn/smut on the internet because i don’t ! i don’t know who the hell you are and it sure as hell isn’t my responsibility to protect you from these things — that’s your parents job. i could not care less about you, you are a random stranger in the internet to me as i am to you so let’s just get that out of the way 💀

secondly, you assumed that i watched porn as a teenager to which my response is absolutely not. i grew up in a very religious and strict house and wasn’t even allowed to have my own phone until i was 16 so that’s that. and i didn’t even LIKE porn, and i still don’t to this day. seeing naked women and men is not my thing, that’s why i READ it ! and honestly, you should not be proud to watch/read porn at a young age, that is not anything to boast about. especially if you have a porn addiction.

when i was a teen, i thought fanfics were cringe and nerdy as fuck, that’s why i didn’t read them 💀 and my mindset has definitely changed since then !! i didn’t start reading fanfics till i was 17 and my go-to was wattpad :) i was reading haikyuu fluff and heavy angst series’s because i wasn’t interested in lemon/smut.

thirdly, you think you’re so mature but you can’t even comprehend that people have boundaries, and you should follow those boundaries. not letting minors follow me is my boundary and im sticking to it. i couldn’t give a shit if you feel attacked or left out because of a simple boundary that a random ass stranger on the internet has ! and wanna know the funny thing? you could always read the fic and not interact with it so you don’t get blocked 🤯 shocking, isn’t it? now go and do your damn homework 💀

#𓏲 ๋࣭ ࣪ ˖ 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐈𝐕𝐄𝐃... ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 #𓏲 ๋࣭ ࣪ ˖ 𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐝... ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 #I got 5 fucking asks about minors complaining like WHAT THE FUCK I’m not the internet police #read wtv u want but don’t disregard my boundaries the fuck #if u wanna act like an adult u get treated like one #and if you’re a minor who feels offended by this then boo hoo I don’t give a fuck 😭

[driftingballoons]

Day 2: Evolution

it may not evolution in the typical sense, but they can’t dwell on that right now

@heropartnerweek

#Serperior #empoleon #entei #pokemon doodles #original art #heropartnerweek #heropartnerweek2024 #I’m sorry partner I was a human like three days ago #So excuse me if I’m grappling with not one but TWO drastic form changes #They didn’t even get to go through poke-puberty just straight to adult form #For 5 minutes #Tbh I don’t really remember the plot relevance of temporarily evolving #Was it just to show the scarves were special? #Or they just thought it was cool? #Who knows #not me #Actually the main thing I remember was how awkward serperior’s walking animation was lol #It’s always a joy seeing how the pokemon company tackles that #Also reminds me of how in let’s go for ekans it didn’t even “move” properly #Just scraped across the ground fully coiled 😭😭 #Anyway fucked up snake pokemon animations my beloved

[macbethz]

The whole idea of the “redemption arc” has become such a charged and specific phrase in fandom spaces for no reason to the point that like it doesn’t even really mean anything as a concept anymore. like once you get into conversations about who “deserves” a “redemption arc” I’m automatically like oh we are entering a territory of internet discourse I don’t give a shit about and also you are probably talking about cartoons for 12 year olds

#like does Alex clockworkorange have a ‘redemption arc.’ does Renton Trainspotting #they become changed people but the idea of the redemption arc is this thing fandom holds up but doesn’t actually apply in most cases #I don’t care if these fictional people deserve a redemption arc sometimes life is just people improving slightly #LIKE THESE ARE MOVIES FOR FUCKING ADULTS SO IT DOESNT MATTER #I cant fucking out into words what I’m thinking but yk #warlock wartalks

[helloimtired]

never being anyone’s best friend or the most important person in anyone’s life, ever, can really fuck you up emotionally

#like throughout my life i’ve had people that i’d call my best friends #but I guess I was never theirs #like they always had more important friends that would always take precedence #and then now as an adult people’s partners always take precedence #which is fair and valid #I just can’t never find that for myself and always end up as an afterthought and it really really fucks you up #hence me sobbing rn #bc a friend and I were supposed to call tonight and had scheduled it a few days ago #aaaand they just told me they can’t because they’re still on a call with their partner who’ve they’ve called basically everyday this week #oh and this friend won’t be able to call anyone all summer so I just can’t talk to them on the phone again until fall #and yeah i’m sobbing rn #rants and rambles #friends #long distance friendship #lonliness #friendship #no friends #friend jealousy #never had a ​best friend #friendless #how to keep friends #i dont know how to make friends #friend yearning

[alliumdykes]

The fact that when I came back from the cinema wanting to see some cool art and people talking about interesting stuff after something so flipin awesome and the first thing i see was the dream team being so fucking rude during a CHARITY EVENT for their DEAD FRIEND is honestly so disheartening.

My grandfather was so lucky to get cancer twice and survive both times, I knew someone who lost her dad to cancer. I know someone who survived childhood cancer. One of my great grandparents died of cancer, my family on both sides is extremely family oriented if he never died I would have met him. The fucking disrespect that they showed should not be laughed at, it shouldn’t be encouraged.

The fact they were playing airhorns during Technodad’s speech, one that should have been respected and really quiet durning and no one interrupting is the fucking worse. I don’t care if dteam fans say that it’s funny and Techno would have laughed because it’s not the fucking point!!!

The whole festival was a charity event in honour of their friend, and for Technodad his fucking son. No one should have gone though this. I don’t care if this comes across as rude or overreacting because the dteam need to grow the fuck up and learn that their actions have fucking consequences for once.

This isn’t supporting a brand that’s actually a scam, this isn’t saying something offensive by accident. This is being rude and disrespectful.

And it even hurts that none of their fans are going to care a single bit because I don’t fucking know maybe they’ll say “but it was a joke” or “dream has ADHD your being ableist” because none of that shit matters when you realise that neither of those things matter when it’s about respect.

These are the same fans who will defend these mother fuckers to the grave but when someone like Niki Niahchu accidentally uses avae because she doesn’t know about American history or what avae is because she lives in Germany(or any non American country because the world doesn’t revolve around you fuckers) and is called overreactive during mcc and having a lot of stress put onto her and BREAKS DOWN ON STREAM it’s ok because they think it is.

I want dteam fans to see this post and be uncomfortable, I don’t care if I’m being mean to your pretty white boys because they have been allowed to do anything with a platform that is way to big for them for too long. I’m allowed to be angry as well, I’m allowed to be mean, I’m not apologising to you if you feel sad that I’m being mean about them because they need to grow up.

Charlie had every right to tell dream to shut up during that stream.

Edit: I’m not going to be answering anymore asks about this post, I want my blog to be a personal space for me. This post wasn’t supposed to get as big as it has and just for me to rant. I’m only going to be accepting art requests and general asks and nothing about this. I’m 14 please leave me alone.

#dream situation #george not found #gnf neg #dream neg #dream #festival of voices #Technoblade #cw cancer #I just want to be clear how fucking angry I am about this #this is adult men who need to realise that the world isn’t them for once #they can’t keep getting away with being immature rude fucking bitches #the charity money goes to people who need it #making a joke about how you a rich person who could own multiple mansions talking about people who need that money to live #I don’t know if I’ll be able to own an apartment when I’m old enough because the housing market crashed #and Australia’s iron industry cannot find any more iron #I’ll be lucky to be able to get a shitty apartment

[toron0]

man I’ve seen a few posts now about wesper being an example of the hypersexualization of queerness and, idk, it sort of doesn’t sit right with me that showing a queer relationship as explicitly sexual is being called inherent hypersexualization? Like in general obviously queerness IS hypersexualized and that is an issue, but as a queer person it was such a lovely thing to have a show not just hint at a queer relationship, not just say ‘these two characters are together and you know that because we said so and maybe let them kiss once’, but allow a queer relationship to take up space and never shy away from making it clear that they ARE together and this IS a sexual relationship *as well as* a romantic one. One of my favourite things about the grishaverse is how queerness is just accepted without being talked about, like I don’t think there’s even one instance of homophobia at any point? And I love that we got to see this relationship on screen, it was such a balm to the soul to see queerness openly depicted and go unpunished. Yes, it’s not at all a slowburn, but it’s good in its own right, and there are definitely still things to explore that could create and maintain tension in the relationship (Wylan’s identity and back story is a big one, but the show also hasn’t gotten too deep into Jesper’s gambling yet, and I feel like they will they’re just saving it; plus the parem storyline could complicate Jesper’s relationship with his Grisha identity in new ways) so that they don’t become boring/irrelevant. It’s safe, it’s lovely, it’s so fucking tender it drives me insane (kit young’s physical acting - Jesper’s hands are so GENTLE with wylan it kills me every time they are so soft.) If you didn’t like it that’s completely fine! You’re allowed to dislike a piece of media lol. But many queer people - and don’t forget these are queer adults not teens - have sex, and it isn’t inherently fetishizing or hypersexualizing to let viewers know that. Esp in a show that explores sexuality in ALL it’s main relationships, the rest of which are between a man and a woman.

(On a slight side note I’d argue that wesper in the books aren’t actually a slow burn anyways, it just feels that way because it takes like one and two thirds of a book to get there, but the actual timeline from strangers to moving in together is like. 3 maybe 4 weeks tops, depending how long the boat journey back from the ice court took - and they didn’t even talk on that journey, just pined. Helnik is established first but they have like a year and a half of history at least, and Kanej have what, 2-3years of history? Wesper canonically speedruns a relationship too it just feels drawn out as readers bc the books themselves only cover 3-4 weeks of time.)

#I’m sorry but meeting as a ons and Jesper not remembering is so fucking funny to me #they’re adults and it felt very in character to me personally #but more importantly it’s just so fucking funny #they also did an amazing job with showing Wylan’s agency #which hopefully will help counteract some of the uwu baby cinnamon roll characterizations out there #and just generally the fandom tendency to infantilize wylan #here we have: two consenting adults #wesper #wylan van eck #Jesper fahey #grishaverse #six of crows #sab s2 #sab spoilers #sab s2 spoilers

[sittinginsunflowers]

the thing that really gets me about Ylfa and Pinocchio is how badly they want the adults they respect and like to also really like and respect them. we’ve seen Ylfa do this from the beginning, her world has been rocked by losing or being betrayed by the adults who loved and raised her, so it makes sense that she’d do things like take half of Tim’s damage and guard Rosamund when they first meet someone new. and yeah of course Pinocchio was gonna go out on his own once they got to toy island. he was always going to try to reclaim the joy his old home brought him and I think that used to be enough for him. but it isn’t anymore, because now, these people have shown him that he’s not morally deficit for making the choices he had to make. so now it’s not enough to go play with Candlewick because he also wants to make Gerard like toy island. because Gerard was the most annoyed they had to go there in the first place and when you’re a kid, you want to show the adults in your life that the things you care about are cool and fun because you need them to validate those big feelings you have about it. he wants these people to like the things he likes and have a good opinion of him, because for so long everyone he cared for just told him he needed to do better, and he can’t process that they don’t like him because the things he does are cool, they like him because he’s him, because before now, no one ever has.

#neverafter #dimension 20 #neverafter spoilers #lou wilson #emily axford #I’m concussed and these improv comedians playing d&d are the only things getting me through alright #I just have a lot of feelings about all these characters and I want them to be good and safe and happy #not understanding when your a kid that the adults who don’t love you the way that they should are fucked up and it’s not your fault #it’s so hard #me talking

[hamable]

Hey I just finished Hilda season 3 and I am forever changed.

I joke that I could write a thesis about some media but I could really truly talk for hours about how fucking good Hilda is.

It’s core strength, which tears at my heart and soul so earnestly, is that it is not just a story about child adventurer, but equally a story about the MOTHER of a child adventurer and it’s just so beautiful. So impactful.

I think Johanna may be one of my favorite characters… ever. I think she is Absolutey Incredible.

Season three was just so amazing, the whole series is. I beg y’all to watch it because it’s so so good and deserves all the love it can get.

#hilda #hilda netflix #hilda season 3 #Hilda is so so important to me and I think it always will be #I’ve had a fear for a long time that as I get older I will no longer see myself in adventure stories bc I’ll be too old #bc they’re all written for younger demographics #someone once said something on here about how young ppl are easier to write bc adults get… specific… as they get older #and that’s so true and I was scared I’d lose my sense of adventure in the stories I read #but Johanna proved me wrong and was everything I’ve ever needed #I see so much of myself in her and she means so much to me #I’m gonna be sobbing about this the rest of the night #that and nursing a headache bc I straight up was either hunched forward or actively on my feet jumping while watching this season #god it’s so fucking good gang #and what a send off #that final goodbye. it’s been a year and we’re back and the raven festival and back to sitting on that wall #god it’s beautiful #my ONLY critique is that they fucked up woodman. I’ll expound later but they fully messed up woodman.