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Behind the Blog: Embracing Imperfection and the Myth of Having It All Together

Welcome to my corner of the internet—a place that some might assume is run by someone who has all their ducks in a row, their life neatly organized in perfectly labeled folders. But here’s the truth: having a blog doesn’t mean I have everything figured out. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. This blog isn’t about projecting perfection; it’s about embracing the messy, imperfect journey of growth,…

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menopause-diary · 1 day

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The Art of Disappearing: Seeking Solitude in Unconventional Spaces

Sometimes, the quest for a sliver of solitude turns us into amateur escapologists, finding refuge in the least likely places. For me, this often involves a tactical retreat to the bathroom or the sudden, pressing need to run an “errand.” And yes, occasionally, I become a master of silence, blending into the background with the stealth of a ninja. Here’s the twist: I never signed up for a…

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menopause-diary · 3 days

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The Quest for Patience: Adventures in Being a Bonus-Mom

If anyone finds my patience, please return it. It seems I’ve misplaced it somewhere between “Do I really have to?” and “But I did that last year!” As the bonus mom to my boyfriend’s kids, my days often feel like navigating a minefield of whining, dramatic sighs, and the occasional eye-roll symphony. My beautiful “bonus” family ♥️ Take, for example, the simple task of doing dishes. You’d think…

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menopause-diary · 5 days

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Parenting: Where 'One Size Fits All' Meets 'Yeah, Right!'"

Parenting can be a wild ride, and it often feels like every piece of advice out there is playing a game of tug-of-war with the next. It’s clear to me there’s no magic formula that suits every child—what works for one might flop for another due to their unique personalities. Family fun 🤩 Take, for instance, two kids: one’s a social butterfly, the other’s a bookworm. A reward system loaded with…

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menopause-diary · 6 days

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Why We Self-Sabotage Our Love Life: A Comical Confession and Guide

Ever find yourself playing detective in your own relationship? Yeah, me too. Welcome to my confessional, where I admit to transforming from a loving partner into a secret agent, snooping on my partner’s phone—even though I swear he’s as trustworthy as they come! Why do we do this? Often, it’s our old friend, Past Baggage. It shows up uninvited, suitcase in hand, ready to unpack all over our…

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menopause-diary · 7 days

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Three Strikes and Thriving: Lessons Learned from Marrying Mr. Wrong...Three Times

Welcome to my personal romantic comedy, where I’ve taken three swings at marriage and each time learned something new—not just about relationships, but about myself. It’s been a journey of unexpected twists, heartwarming turns, and more than my fair share of lessons in self-discovery. From navigating the ups and downs of partnership to understanding my own needs and desires, each chapter has been…

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menopause-diary · 8 days

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Navigating the Storm: Lessons Learned from Dealing with a Narcissist

We’ve all had our share of challenging relationships, but dealing with a narcissist takes the cake. It’s like being in a perpetual storm where every interaction feels more draining than the last. Through some tough lessons and plenty of missteps, here’s what I figured out on how to weather this tempest. 1. Avoid Taking the Bait It starts with the bait—those provocative comments meant to ruffle…

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menopause-diary · 9 days

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Unpacking Love (and Dirty Laundry)

Welcome to my blog, where I swing open the doors to my heart and mind, hoping you’ll walk right in and do the same. Today, let’s dive into the nitty-gritty of relationships. Achieving that fairytale ending isn’t just about weathering storms together—it’s about mastering the art of yakking without slacking and supporting without contorting. Let’s be real: love is a battlefield, and disrespect is…

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menopause-diary · 10 days

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Life Lessons from an English Bulldog: Wisdom Wrapped in Wrinkles and Slobber

Let’s face it: my English Bulldog, Snoozanne, is more than just a pet; she’s a guru in a fur coat. Here are some hilarious yet surprisingly deep life lessons I’ve learned from her quirky bulldog behaviors. 1. Mastering the Art of Negotiation My bulldog is not just my fur baby; she’s a cheese extortionist. Every time she steals something—a sock, the TV remote, my sanity—she won’t give it back…

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menopause-diary · 12 days

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Our Sitcom-Worthy Escape to Puerto Rico: No Kids, No Bulldog, Just Pure Shenanigans

So, we did it! We ditched the kids (temporarily), left our snoring bulldog with my bff, and decided against anything as mundane as skydiving or bear chasing this year. Instead, Rick and I jetted off to Yabucoa, a hidden gem in Puerto Rico, an hour south of San Juan. It’s this quaint beach town where tourists are myths, and the mojitos are strong—definitely not sipped but perhaps gulped! Roof top…

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menopause-diary · 13 days

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When Self-Care Meets Parenting: The Unseen Benefits of a Child-Free Getaway

Have you ever come back from a kid free vacation and been made to feel guilty you prioritized your relationship? Coming back from a fantastic 5-day escape to Puerto Rico, we were greeted not just by the usual post-vacation blues but by remarks about our choice to not include the kids. Here’s the thing: not every trip needs a kid’s menu. Taking a short break isn’t just a luxury; it’s essential.…

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menopause-diary · 14 days

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The Great Movie Misadventure: Life with a Younger Boyfriend and His Kids

Living with a younger boyfriend and his kids is like being on a sitcom where you’re not sure if you’re the star or the comic relief. Yesterday’s episode? A trip to the movies that proved why Netflix and chill should sometimes be taken literally. After endless nagging, we decided to brave the cinema. I teamed up with Millie, who’s nearing her seventh birthday but acts like she’s auditioning for a…

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menopause-diary · 23 days

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Sea Glass and Self-Discovery: Navigating Life's Tides Together

My best friend was well aware of my passion for sea glass hunting, evidenced by the numerous jars I had filled with these treasures. I even ran a craft business aptly named “Sea Glass Etc.,” underscoring my affection for these ocean gems. However, it wasn’t until our trip to Puerto Rico, after over 25 years of friendship, that she fully grasped the extent of my passion. My mobile craft shop…

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menopause-diary · 25 days

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Guest Blog: Embracing and Exiting the Cougar Life: A Tale of Discovery and Self-Acceptance

By Shannon @shaninmass on instagram & threads When Stacey first told me about her much younger boyfriend, I thought she was nuts. What could she possibly have in common with a single dad 10 years younger than her. He isn’t worldly, he didn’t check all the usual boxes. What was she thinking?!?! Then, I got to know him, I got to know them as a couple, and I got to know Stacey with him. Wow!! I…

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menopause-diary · 27 days

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Stitched Together: Reveling in Life's Absurdity and Sorrow

As I sprinkle a few heavier blog posts in about some of the sorrow I’ve experienced, I felt it was important to share the moments that shaped who I am today. I’ve discovered that the real adventure lies not just in skydiving or chasing bears but in the seemingly mundane moments that stitch our lives together. From the chaos of family gatherings to those impulsive midnight Amazon shopping sprees…

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menopause-diary · 29 days

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Beyond the Honeymoon Phase: Embracing the Realities of Love

In every relationship, there exists an unspoken expectation of endless sunshine and rainbows. However, the truth often unfolds differently, revealing that love is not just about the easy, blissful moments but also about the resilience and strength required to face the unforeseen challenges life throws our way. My boyfriend and I experienced this firsthand, a test of our bond that came early on in…

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menopause-diary · 1 month

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Adventures in Babysitting...Oops, I Mean Parenting

Welcome back to another episode of “The Unfiltered Chronicles,” where life with my boyfriend’s 6-year-old daughter is like walking through a minefield of innocence mixed with a complete lack of filters. Strap in, folks, because this ride gets bumpy. So, picture this: It’s girls’ craft day, and we’re all gathered around the table making bracelets. I’m feeling creative, so I whip up one that says,…

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