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transitionofdane · 6 years

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It’s that time again. Dane turns 3! It’s crazy that I’ve been on testosterone for 3 years. Happy, the best version of myself, with no regrets. (Bottom right- pre t, bottom left- 1 year, top right-2 years, top left- today/3 years)

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transitionofdane · 6 years

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I realize I never posted this, but I became a Dad! Meet Cora 💙

#shiba inu #shibadog #ftm dog Dad #ftm #ftm Dad #dog dad #Shiba Inu puppy #puppy #shiba #Danesbabycora #ftmdogdad #5.11.18

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transitionofdane · 6 years

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Been a while. Here’s an updated picture. 2 years and 6 months on T.

#ftm #transgender #transmale #ftm transman #transition #ftm selfie #trans selfie #hrt selfie #ftm hrt #hrt #selfie #danesblog #thisiswhattranslookslike #queer #queer dude #queer ftm #lgbtq #trans

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Pet sitting this guy for a week. Bromance. (2 years and 4 months on T)

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Philly Trans Health Conference

I'm pretty excited to go to the conference tomorrow (Friday) for the 3rd year in a row. I'm pretty stoked to see some familiar faces and some new ones. If you see me, don't be afraid to come say hi! Hope to see some of you there!

#philly trans health conference #PTHC #pthc2017 #trans #ftm #philadelphia trans health conference

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Today I am 1.5 years post top surgery with Dr. Beverly Fischer in Maryland. I’m also 2 years and 3 months on T.

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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I haven’t posted in a bit- here’s a small update. I have been working on getting into better shape and going to the gym regularly again. Here’s proof! (2 years and 2 months on T)

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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It's my 31st birthday today and I choose to be a wizard! (2 years and 1 month on T)

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Photos from random adventure last week that I forgot to post.

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Today is my 2 year manniversary! Left: first day on T, top right: 1 year, bottom right: 2 year.

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Apparently I've needed glasses. Here they are.

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Happy 1 year and 11 months on T to me!

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Just a random photo. New hat. Trying out a new look (1 year and 10 1/2 months on T).

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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HYSTERECTOMY UPDATE AND TIPS (POST OP)

I’m now two weeks post op- hysterectomy. Initially after surgery I was having very minimal pain. I’m a busy body so I don’t stay still or in bed for long (‘bed rest’ is a joke to me- never happens). Even with me running around and doing things, I still didn’t feel much pain. I had a laparoscopic surgery and went home that same day. Without a complication like mine, the recovery is pretty easy going.

I was healing pretty well at first and everything was going great until about a week after surgery I ended up having something called urethra spasms. I thought it was a UTI because it felt just like one and I couldn’t figure out why the UTI medicine wasn’t working- found it’s because I didn’t have a UTI. I was having these spasms that weren’t allowing me to urinate properly and/or without insane pain. It gave me some of the most horrible pains that I’ve ever felt- especially post op (I’ve had a pretty fair amount of surgeries).

Here’s some tips for a hysterectomy:

BUY MAXIPADS- Yeah, I know it’s a bit triggering for some of us trans guys to have to wear these things again if you’ve been off of shark week for some time. It’s more than likely you likely you’ll need them. I personally still (at 2 weeks post op) have to wear them because as my stitches inside loosen up and dissolve, I still bleed. It’s normal.

BATHROOM ISSUES-You’re going to have a hard time going to the bathroom at first. Your body is going to be a bit confused and out of whack. I always felt like I had to go and couldn’t. It’s super weird, but it gets better with time. It may even hurt for a little while. I had a lot of burning when I urinated for a bit.

HYDRATION- For most people and myself, pain medicines will make you sweat at night and make your body act all crazy, so hydration is always good to keep up with. Not to mention it’s pretty important after any surgery. Even better, fresh juices (especially pineapple) will help make your healing process.

CORE PAINS- Since this is basically an ab surgery, it might be a little tough on your core. You may not expect some things to be painful when they will be. I personally had a thing I called a ‘belly binder’ that really helped keep everything snug and less painful. It’s basically a long piece of stretchy fabric with Velcro on one end that goes around your core somewhat tight to help with movement with less pain.

DON’T ORDER A BIG MAC WITH FRIES!- Eat small and light at first. Your stomach won’t be be able to handle a lot of food or anything heavy or greasy for a few days. Take small steps. But still make sure to eat!

BELLY BUTTON INCISION- Yeah, I was weird about it at first. I reached up too far too soon and opened it up. It’s normal for it to open up again and again (I only did it once). The belly binder helped me not to do it again.

HAVE HELP-Getting up out of bed is a challenge for about a week or so, so having someone around to help you in and out of bed is always helpful. Reaching around to grab things isn’t easy on your own either, maybe get something to help grab things far away (sounds fun, right?)

POSSIBLE MENOPAUSAL SYMPTOMS- Some people get off their testosterone for a little while before surgery and some don’t. It all depends on the agreement with your doctor. I know personally took 2 weeks off just for my own safety and sanity. I wasn’t taking any chances for issues due to T. I definitely ended up having some hot flashes at first, but they didn’t last very long. I got back on my T a few days after surgery and it hasn’t happened since. If you aren’t on T, you’ll have a much higher chance of these symptoms happening.

TAKE YOUR MEDS!- Certainly we know we should listen to our doctors, right? Haha. At least for the first week take your painkillers when advised. The pain will come shooting if you don’t. I always say don’t get too dependent on them. Wean yourself off of them as soon as you feel you can handle it and switch to something OTC. Your bowels will also thank you for it.

GET OUT OF BED- Don’t stay in bed all day. Walk around some. Do what you can. You recover faster and better when you are active. Not to mention, you get stronger faster, too.

SLIP ON SHOES- You aren’t going to even want to think about tying your shoes, let alone bending your core at all. Save yourself with this one. Everything I write here is my personal experience. As we know, everyone is different and reacts different after surgeries. I want to help anyone who might need it or wants to know more. I never realized my ask box has been closed, but it’s now open! If you have any questions or anything, shoot it my way. (I know this is long! Sorry, not sorry. The more you know, the better)

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility. This called for a comparison. Pre T vs Today (1 year and 10 months on T).

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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Tomorrow I'm getting my hysterectomy. I'm pretty nervous and freaked out. I actually didn't plan to ever get one. I'm having a lot of pains and it's time to put a stop to it. Fattie (my sloth) will always be my surgery buddy. He was there for my top surgery and now for this. It may seem childish, but I love him. He's the perfect size and so soft. Almost that time...(also sort of an update for 1 year and 10 months on T)

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transitionofdane · 7 years

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HAVING LOWER PAINS WHILE ON TESTOSTERONE?

YOU'RE NOT ALONE! This is not as uncommon as you may think. Today, the day after my one year post top surgery, I find out I need to have a full hysterectomy. I'm scheduled for March 28th. A month and 4 days away. I have been on testosterone for a year and 9 months. I've been having miserable and horrible pains in my lower abdomen on a daily basis. The pain is like menstrual cramps but worse. This pain has me feeling paralyzed- I can't move or function. It's really awful. They've been happening for months and had been occasional, but have gotten more frequent over time. I went to my endocrinologist to get some input. I explained these daily episodes and I was told I should see a gynecologist. Of course I'm NOT wanting to do this, but I do because the pain is THAT bad (I would put it off another 5 years otherwise). The gynecologist then sends me to have an ultrasound done to check for cysts and found that I don't have them. The ultrasound was definitely a hard experience for me since they have an internal procedure as well as external. The internal was NOT fun. I definitely don't wish this experience on anyone- especially people with bottom dysphoria. They also had to do some blood work to rule out some other things (honestly don't know what). The doctors say that there doesn't seem to be anything else really wrong other than the pains I have and no way to really tell what is causing them. I am done with this pain and told them that I will agree to get a full hysterectomy because my body sucks and will find a way to put me under the knife again somehow. All of the doctors have treated me the way I would want to be treated and have been very supportive. I feel I am in good hands. The article below helped me feel less alone when I thought I was the only one having these issues. While I understand that it might not be fully accurate, it still helped. I'm putting this out there so others don't feel alone. We don't seem to talk about this stuff. It is happening to a lot of us on testosterone. If you have any questions or want support, contact me. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/virginia-soave/the-pain-that-most-transm_b_11283858.html

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