SAY THEIR NAME!! They deserved to live, and so do all transgender and non-binary individuals. They deserve to love and grow in their identities and to fully be themselves without restrictions. Please listen to trans kids when they tell you who they are, and do some research and just support and love your kids. This world isn’t a safe place sometimes.
Rest in Paradise, Nex. 💜
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I am 5 years older, but somehow more full of life now.
It might just be because I know how sad that girl was, or maybe I really was visibly more ill.
Jaeda is dead. And I killed her. She was begging to leave this world. And from her flesh, I sculpted a home. No longer would I live inside of a body that I had to starve and poison to feel comfortable inside of. What was once a prison has become a tender and loving place to experience my time on earth.
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a word of positivity for my fellow men (and nonbinary ftnbs) who want bottom surgery
you don't have to live with bottom dysphoria all your life. go get that surgery. post-op dick is so cool. don't feel like you aren't allowed to get it, it's your body.
some media recommendations
I haven't read it myself, but I saw this recommended here: Hung Jury by Trystan T. Cotten. It’s a collection of testimonials from FtMs who have had bottom surgery, including their reasons, details about some of their procedures, and individual satisfaction ratings, and it includes testimonials from several trans men of color!
on Tumblr I know the user virgo-cocks posts about their bottom surgery.
on YouTube I know Jammidoger posts about his bottom surgery (and other trans stuff)
subreddits: r/EverythingPhallo and r/ftm_phallo
if anyone has any other recommendations please add on
(not verified by me), suggestions:
@ Answersfromtheshadows, dedicated to answering questions about their phallo
FinnThelnfinncible (Finlaygames) has a series of videos about his experience with phallo over the years
edit 2: another suggestion
finlay games wrote a book about his experience getting phallo titled "top to bottom"
edit 3:
r/Metoidioplasty is another great subreddit about bottom surgery!
edit 4:
tumblr user nyo-hoho is also post-op and accepting questions
edit 5:
r/phallo is apparently back up!
edit 6:
I just remembered phallo dot net and metoidioplasty dot net exist
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Improved Blog Directory - Find what you need
BLOG RULES: PLEASE READ
How to choose clothing/shoe sizes during transition - clothing on smaller feet and frames
Formal Wear - how to dress formally during transition.
Need to speak to someone? Do you need help with your legal name change? Please click here. Translifeline.org
USA Safe States for Trans-People (Constantly Updated by the website Owner)
What to Update After Legal Name Change
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Testosterone - storage, travel, and injection advice
Facial Hair Information- Tips and Tricks on How to Shave (HRT)
Frequently Asked Questions about Phalloplasty - My [personal] Experiences
How can one ejaculate after phalloplasty procedure? -ask answered.
Common Phalloplasty Misconceptions- Article
Male Mannerisms- help to know male gestures, wording, and attitude- (ask)
Beginning testosterone, testosterone hormone therapy
Testosterone Experiences That Caught Me Off Guard - (Ask)
Safe Binding and Packing - Articles Purchase Sites Also
Staying Stealth During Surgeries, Explaing Scarring - advice (ask)
Top Surgery (both ftm & mtf), procedures, and approximate costs.
Can I have top surgery and be overweight?
Keyhole Top Surgery Procdure- Outline and what qualifies you as a potential candidate
Finding a Top Surgeron in North America
So You Just Had Surgery (Top)- Advice on the best way to heal after surgery/ minimize scarring.
Is more time on the operating table really better? Operating time and infection information.
Metoidioplasty FAQ
My arm and upper thigh after about a decade after phalloplasty.
My Personal Surgeon and Their Clinic
Interview with Dr. Chen about Bottom Surgery
Penile/ Phalloplasty Erectile Devices
Expectations- Personal Advice on Setting Expectations
Urethra lengthening Procedure Information- Self written article.
Importance of Uriologist
Phalloplasty Website - Includes Parents Guide
Urethra Lengthening Procedure
General Surgical Risks
Plus Sized Surgery Risks
List of Phalloplasty Surgerons in the USA
Vaginal-Perservering Phalloplasty Procedure
Graft SiteCare for Forearm -Free Flap Phalloplasty
What Happens if Erectile Device Breaks?
Image of My Phalloplasty (wearing underwear) Educational Purposes Only
Phalloplasty Procedure Outline by GRS Montreal - (Link to Webpage)
First Every Phalloplasty Procedure - Surgeon
Michael Dillon- Trans Pioneer (First phalloplasty patient)
How to Find Proper Sources of Information in a World of False Information/ Online Safety
Why certain terms can be hurtful. Please respect my/others views.
Tattooing over your forearm skin graft -ask
Testosterone and Hair Loss Information
If there are any other posts/ other topics I should add to this directory, please send me an ask. I will never post your username without your expressed consent in the ask.
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Transition diary: Part 1
Decided to document my transition (ftm) on here a bit as I'm a few weeks on T now! So here we go:
I'm one month on T (12,5mg cream) and these are the noticable changes that have happened so far:
•voice/singing: my voice feels a bit scratchy (esp when i try to talk more loudly) and voice drop has definitely set in (i can reach lower notes more easily when singing and maintaining voice control has gotten a bit trickier)
•face shape: people have told me that my facial features have started to look a bit sharper! I can see it too, esp in photos, but it's veeery minimal
•bottom growth: the hypersensitivity is REAL. it's borderline painful (especially in the morning?? hello morning wood!) but not unbearable - this feeling usually wears off throughout the first few hours of the day. Besides that: when horny, you can def see the growth as well (very minimally but still! my clit is def turning into a cock which is pretty exciting)
•body odor: it's so different already??? i swear my pussy smells like a brand new motherfucker. Kinda sweeter maybe? That's the most interesting/'weird' change for me so far because I feel like I smell like a completely different person and I still gotta get used to my own scent, which is a strange experience.
Conclusion: So many changes have happened already! All pretty minor, but I totally didn't expect that so many areas would be affected as quickly as they are! Totally stoked about it.
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