Tumgik
#ur probs overreacting anyways
how-gross · 8 months
Text
7:31pm — September 6th, 2023
Me trying to convince myself that asking my best friend if she wants to see my senior photos is not selfish:
Tumblr media
0 notes
getoso · 2 months
Text
user @/nixara (genshin smut writer) could be a racist? I've had my suspicions for a bit.
she likes and supports a racists character's actions (sparkle from honkai star rail). she answered an ask that called her racist for it. the anon said 'ok but i dont get why youd like a racist mad weird if u ask me ur probs racist urself' and nixara responded with 'u prob make racist jokes with ur friends behind the screen as well'.
Tumblr media
Now, I find it strange how she said 'as well' as if she herself really does make racist jokes. But then I remembered something from a while ago, which brings me to my next point.
2. This reminded me of something that used to be in her rules/byf. It used to state 'will have a chance of making racist/disturbing jokes on this blog'.
Tumblr media
excuse me? racist jokes? what the fuck is that supposed to mean. weird ass stuff. anyways, it seems like she has changed this now to just 'will have a chance of making disturbing comments on this blog' scared of being called out for being a racist??
Tumblr media
anyways.. maybe im just overreacting but idkkkkkk.. seems suspicious to me
9 notes · View notes
lavellander · 2 years
Note
wow that guys tags are rancid anyway i love ur taste keep being cool king
thank you bestie ✌️😔💕
ik I’m prob overreacting but tbh I’m not that mad at them talking shit about my Guys, I’m amazed by the fact that someone would just. put that on a stranger’s post and think it was a normal thing to do. lmao
5 notes · View notes
emotionallyoffline · 6 years
Text
how is it okay for a professor to miss the first 3 weeks of classes and make us have to teach ourselves from the textbook in the meantime with no lectures whatsoever, and then the DAY he comes back (already a week past the drop deadline) he’s gonna have a quiz on everything
2 notes · View notes
eitelle · 3 years
Note
Hi!! Congrats on 60 followers btw! 💗
I am a female and I’d like to matched up with a guy from Haikyuu. I am ENFJ, (but sometimes enfp). I’m outgoing and generally nice to everyone, but I have a very sassy, goofy personality. Naturally flirty and very affectionate, and my love language is physical touch. I have my moments when I get shy and anxious, especially around someone I really have a crush on. Yet at the same time I’m the person always trying to hug and cuddle my friends even after roasting them. My favorite colors are blue, red, purple and pink. I love some teasing. I’m passionate about acting and singing. I love to listen to all kinds of music. I have long curly blackish hair and I’m 5’2. I’m a Gemini Sun, Cancer Rising and Gemini Moon. I am a caring and adaptable person, and like to make people happy I always finding a way to slip a stupid joke in🙄( joking is my coping mechanism) . My favorite food is tacos. African-American, and I like someone that I can relate to. I don’t have a specific type, but I do like someone with goals and passion. I like someone I can laugh with and also have real conversations with. I’m so into the romantic lovey-dovey stuff, yet sometimes I act like a little boy💀. I can be loud asf, even just when normally talking cause I usually have a lot of energy.
As far as style goes, it varies from 12 year old boy with some joggers and a t-shirt wayyyy too big for me , to like a 90s baddie with some hoops on, to girly with skirts, sweaters and some knee high socks. As far as accomplishments go, I’ve won state in theater and continue to pursue acting. It’s something I’m very passionate about. Some flaws of mine are overthinking and my anxiety. Like I’ll overthink an entire situation before I really know what happened and assume that someone like hates me. Or I’ll assume I’m talking to much and that’s it’s annoying so I just kinda.. shut down. My anxiety can get kinda bad, i get all shaky and I care a lot about what people think of me (although I try to deny it). So I’ll need someone who can bring me back to earth every now and then. But it’s getting better with time and I’m trying to stress myself out less. When I’m out I’ve got such a big personality and I’m making dumb jokes and dancing, but when I get home I’m just chilling and watching anime. (Although I will dance and make jokes if I feel like it). And I’m a night owl!
Sorry if this was too much!! I really appreciate what you are doing 💗.
OH MY GOD IM AN INFJ THAGS SO COOL!! MY ONLINE PERSONALITY IS LOWK ENFJ THO SO I THINK THATS SO SWAG SHSHSHS (if u recall me saying otherwise shhhhh thats when i trusted 16personalities) ALSO STATE IN ACTING??? UR SO COOL WTF?? ANYWAYS
ok i was actually just wanting to do a matchup w this character n it just so happens u seem to literally fit what id say is his ideal type so i have matched you with: semi eita
GOSH I LOVE HIM OK HCS: (also im so sorry for doing these so late shshs 😖)
forst of all hes def helping w ur lines
like hes such a good person to help prep u
hes also like lowk very lowkey shdhd and honest/blunt so if u ever get an anxiety attack i think hed tell u how it is like straight up n that ur overreacting but in the way that snaps u back to reality
n hes like ur anchor shdhd
i think thats so cute
and sometimes he gets stage fright so i feel like your presence would just help comfort him
OOH ALSO YALL WOULD PROB RELEASE SO GS TOGETHER
N HED LOVE SINGING W U 😫‼️
i feel like hed call u angel, his muse, or his bitch. no in between.
i also feel like he loves how hes so pale and his hair is gray and hes tall n ur lowk short n ur skin is darker and ur hair is like complete opposites and he loves that
like the opposites but fits so well together thing
yall def listen to ricky montgomery together idec.
and taylor swift.
ooh i know for a fact that mans had a hamilton phase but thats why hes so hot tbh
yall also make like photo/mood boards of yall or playlists lol i feel so lonely rn help-
if one of ur anxiety attacks comes in public u know this man is gonna pull the “im famous u want a photo?” to drag attention away from u shdh
oh u def call him suga by “accident” to make him mad HAHAHSJSH
prob the clubbing people but i could see him n u watching anime together and u accidentally hum the ops while harmonizing by accident sometimes shahsgdj
GOSH OK THAT WAS LONG SORRY OK ANYWAYS NOW ITS TIME FOR A ONE SHOT!! (also if u ever need to talk ab something my dms r always open!!)
Tumblr media
IS THAT THE TOUNGE N LIKE TEETH THING BUT IN ANIME??/7;6&3);&;7: I JEVER NOTICED THIS WHAT THE FUCK
on a normal friday night, a (your age) person would normally be out with friends, or maybe even going clubbing. but not you, no you and your boyfriend were sitting on the couch, howl's moving castle on your tv and your head on his chest.
it was a chill day to say the least, you and him both having a full day off and spending it like this the two of you too exhausted from the weeks events already. you had random music playing in the background. by random i mean random it went from ed sheeran to lil uzivert all the way to BTS; needless to say it was kinda a mess. but that was how you liked it.
all of a sudden ‘The Schuyler Sisters’ from the original broadway cast of hamilton: the musical started blasting interrupting the beautiful silence w background noise.
you turn to look at your boyfriend, your chests now pressed against each other to look at him staring just past you at his phone, a light pink blush tinting his ears.
“a hamilton kid i see..” you tease playfully noticing how he flushed even deeper.
“o-oi shut up, my- my mom set it for me ok?” he tries to say, his excuses unheard as you burst into laughter tired of holding it in.
“we- well at least pick it up,” you say between laughs.
“fine. hello?” he says as he answers the call. “oh- but today, no i understand. of course. ok ill be right there.”
as he shifts you look at him all of a sudden concerned, you didn’t want your boyfriend overworking himself afterall.
“darling is everything ok?” you ask afraid of the answer. then you notice how hes not meeting your eyes and how hes tapping his knee with his pointer finger. his little tell he was trying to hold in laughs. “oh haha very funny semi now drop the act can we please just go back?” you try to reason.
“oh but getting u annoyed like this is so cute >w<“ he laughs seeing you grumble about how he was ‘so annoying’ as you turn to ignore him.
“oh shut up.”
“make me :p”
“maybe i will,” you say before stuffing a pillow in his mouth and leaning your head against it. “now enjoy the movie.” </3
Tumblr media
HES SO PRETTY OML 🤩🤤
ohmygod now its time for my last texts for this event ahhh
Tumblr media
OK I HOPE U ENJOYED SORRY THIS WAS SO LATE SHDGSH
6 notes · View notes
tenbees · 4 years
Note
I genuinely like ur posts and such but I have to disagree with the advice u gave that anon about breaking up with her fake lesbian larping gf. That's a big deal and very homophobic. Her gf thinks trauma makes a lesbian a lesbian. From what anon described her gf is nothing but a homophobic bisexual and u are telling her she is overreacting for wanting to break up due to that, that's awful to say. Anyway idk if u will post this prob not but anon if u see this u have every valid reason to break up.
idk i think you should be willing to give the person you’re in a relationship with the benefit of the doubt, unless they’ve proven they don’t deserve it in which case... why are you still with them lol. if this fits into a pattern of the gf being homophobic, then by all means break up with her. but also in a world where just about every major lesbian story involves a past with men and the majority of lesbian-identified women have pasts with men, it’s not impossible for someone to be misled into thinking they can be a lesbian if they hated being with men or if they’re in a longterm same-sex relationship (but them being misled doesn’t mean it isn’t still homophobic and wrong). a couple women have messaged me saying that i helped them understand why it’s homophobic for women who’ve been with men to id as lesbians, that they’ve been reflecting on their feelings about men, that i helped them figure out what their sexuality actually is, etc and i would hate for anon to end what might be an otherwise lovely relationship if it could be fixed with a conversation.
in general i think it’s just hard to make a call on many situations when the description of it is super short and has to fit in the ask character limit. has the gf been homophobic before? how does the gf talk about lesbians aside from this? what made her decide now is the time to id as a lesbian? what is the relationship like? where do you want it to go? knowing more about all of that would probably change my answer.
3 notes · View notes
weevil-underwood · 7 years
Text
@harpypunk
Ordinarily a lounge was not Weevil’s sort of scene.  In fact, today, it still wasn’t his scene...but it had the misfortune of being the first dimly-lit building in his path when the glaring late-afternoon sunlight had made it difficult to continue the testy discussion taking place over text messages. [Rex]:  UR OVERREACTING DUDE.  Y U BEIN WEIRD ABOUT THIS? [Text]:  You said you were coming home for summer break.   We made plans. [Rex]:  YAH?? WE STILL GOT PLANS!!!! WERE GONNA HANG OUT!!! PROMISE =P [Text]:  With your “friends”. [Rex]:  OMFG THEY JUST WANT 2 SEE THE CITY.  WELL STAY AT THE MOTEL MOST OF THE TIME SO DONT WORRY [Text]:  “We”? [Rex]: I MEAN [Rex]: UNLESS UR OFFERIN US UR PLACE??? Weevil scowled at the screen, gripping his phone so tightly that the casing creaked beneath his fingers.  When the prospect of Rex pursuing his passion for Archeology had led him to several dead-ends around Japan, Weevil had been the one to encourage him to branch out internationally, not truly believing anywhere would have him.    The joke, it had seemed, was on him as an American university had eventually gotten in touch.   Prior to Rex’s leaving for the states, they’d had touch-and-go discussions about how they’d keep in touch for the next few years.  Plans were made and ground rules were set - one of those being that summer and winter were to be set aside for the two of them to visit  No outsiders, no BS, no excuses.    That one had been Rex’s rule, in fact, which was why it boggled Weevil that he seemed to have lost all sight of it.   Even more offensive, Rex seemed to have lost all sight of him. [Rex]:  BTW MY BUD SIMON RLY WANTS TO MEET U.  HES INTO BUGS AND UR BOTH HUGE NERDS SO ULL PROB HIT IT OFF LOLOL Rule number five:  They would not try to replace one another with lesser people.  Weevil felt his teeth grinding in growing fury, plunking himself down into an unclaimed booth and slouching down in his seat like a curled-up cutworm to reply.   [Text]:  No.  Just forget it. [Rex]: ????? [Text]:  I’m sure you’d prefer to spend the summer with your friends.  I’ve got things to do, anyway. [Rex]:  I WANNA SEE U!!!!! =( [Text]: I’m not here to be your token sightseeing attraction for the tourists, Raptor. [Rex]:  WUT ATTRACTION WOULD U BE?  THE SHORTEST PILE OF SALT? QUIT BEIN AN ASS JUST CUZ I MADE SOME FRIENDS ASIDE FROM U [Text]:  You’re missing the point. [Rex]: UR MOM DIDNT MISS MY POINT ;)  OOOOO BURN He’d had enough.   With a frustrated noise, he threw the phone to the tabletop where it clattered loudly, bouncing into the empty seat across from him. That...idiot...!!
9 notes · View notes
organictaeyong · 7 years
Text
nct as dads [johnny]
• okay so lets b real johnny is the stereotypical fun dad • constantly throwing them at least a little too high • ur blood pressure is through the roof   • (as r the kids tbh) • honestly u weren’t even sure u trusted him to hold them at first • convinced he was gonna drop at least one of them, at least once • luckily he never did but like there were some close calls
• the type to let his kids get out of punishments u’ve given them • “listen I know ur mother said ur grounded, but how about we go get ice cream instead ?? :-)))” • makes them promise to keep it a secret • u find out anyway • (bc he sending pics of the four of them in the group chat) • sometimes u get mad bc like ?? how r they gonna learn if he undermining u ?? • but johnny thinks the “good cop bad cop” approach works better • nd he knows when to rein it in nd actually b serious • probably was crying internally the first time he actually yelled at the girls • like they had drawn all over the walls • but mayb he yelled too much ?? • mayb he was overreacting ??? • he was so stressed • convinced that they hated him • even tho u assured him that if they didn’t hate you yet, the one who actually tries to discipline them, he’d b fine • didn’t believe u until ur youngest asked him where he was going at bedtime • bc ?? usually bedtime meant story time ?? • nd as much as she loved u, johnny did funny voices ?? like ?? • honestly the relief that johnny felt in that moment was unreal • ((nd if that night he let the girls stay up a bit later as a treat, u didn’t say anything)) • mini fashion evaluations when the girls get old enough to pick their own outfits out • tries to make them funny nd not critical • mostly bc the first time he jokingly criticised ur eldest’s outfit she cried • nd johnny was freaked • bc like he didn’t mean it ?? • like the bright orange dungarees over a bright pink shirt were not a look but still • “no no sweetie I didn’t mean it !!! nd I think it looks gr8 with that blue hat, I promise !! :-))))” • tbh wants to b the kind of dad that they rn’t afraid to go to for advice • gets kinda sad when they come to u instead • but its just bc johnny is the fun parent ??? how can he b trusted with advising u know ?? • sometimes u get kinda sad that ur seen as the serious one but like • lbr it was to b expected • how can u compete with johnny seo, human embodiment of a dad joke • but back to johnny • tbh sometimes he gets kinda overwhelmed being the only male in the house • like he felt so blessed when ur first daughter came along • but like when u found out u were pregnant again, he couldn’t help but to hope for a boy • just to even it out, u know • (also bc he wanted a mini johnny running round) • felt just as blessed when it turned out to b another girl • u guys wanted to try one more time • ur third nd final daughter was born • nd like ur third kid in was where u put ur foot down • told johnny that there was no way u were gonna b having any more kids • “if u wanna go through the birthing process for me, be my guest :-)))” • he loves all his girls tho • nd like its fine when theyre young • nd love !! spending time !!  with their daddy !! • but then they start to get older • nd before he knows it they’re all teenagers nd johnny is suddenly crying bc ?? when did this happen ?? • freaked out when his eldest got her first period • nd u weren’t around • tried calling nd u just weren’t picking up • ur daughter was crying • he was crying • but then he got a hold of himself bc that’s his daughter ?? nd she’s freaking out ??? • probs searched up what to do • “siri what is a pERIOD?!??!????!” • nd tried to help her as best as he could until u got home • nd u laughed at the mess he’d gotten himself into • before taking over nd relieving him of his duties • tbh he needed a lie down after all the emotional trauma he’d gone thru • loves tryna give them makeup tips • they rn’t as open to it as they were when they were like six, nd letting him give them makeovers • “I did hyuna’s makeup once u know :-))) I don’t need this disrespect :-)))” • often reminisces about the #olddays • nd sometimes misses how much they used to depend on him • nd how much time they all spent together • but like they’ve grown up into such beautiful girls ?? nd honestly he could not b prouder of them • or u • the two of u • for raising them as well as u did
Tumblr media
244 notes · View notes
Text
Being Nice and Taking Ls
I’m on this cuz when I talk t my friends bout my problems there’s no empathy. But when I’m listening to their problems if I don’t understand then I’m an asshole.
So today there was a Wiz Khalifa concert with lil skies and Rae Sremmurd. I bought tickets early in the week to go with this girl I been talking to and we mutually like each other. I think. I hope.
But anyways I talked to my friends bout where we were gonna sit. They said lawn. I bought lawn. They didn’t by their tickets till the last day and bought seated. So I paid for my ticket and this girls ticket that I’m going with. Now the girl I’m going with is my ex best friends little sister. My ex best friend had given me permission to move forward with her sister and I made sure with her cuz at the time I respected her feelings about it. Down the line she gets mad and it’s too late her sister said she likes me and I like her. I don’t get that much I’m the nice guy and for once I wasn’t getting shit on. She actually realizes I’m nice and will treat her right and be there for her. She doesn’t manipulate me or use me because I have a weak spot for her. So I let my guard down and I’m hoping... I’m praying that my heart doesn’t get broken again and she doesn’t turns out to be leading me on to get what she wants out of me.
Back to the concert. Day before the concert(yesterday) I find out that my ex best friend is going. We’ll call her Felicia. We’ll call her sister (the girl I like) Molly. Now there was two options I could go with. I could either go to the concert and molly would stay home. Or i could give my ticket to Molly’s friend and they could go.
I’ve never been to a concert before. But I told Molly she was gonna go. Instead of having her stay home I gave it to her friend and drove them to the concert and picked them up. The friend is really grateful but Molly is giving off a different energy. I’m not gonna ask for anything but like even when I talked to my best friend about it I get hit with “you can just go to another concert”.
I’m like whatever if everyone is saying it’s not that deep then it prob isn’t and I’m just overreacting. But ya know.... I paid for the tickets, I’m a big lil skies fan, and I wanted to do this because I wanted to go with Molly and I wanted to have a good time. The truth is I don’t think I’m overreacting i think I have the right to be sad about it and angry.
I just do the most for everybody but myself, and I think that’s my best quality. I don’t ask for anything but I would like to be recognized for some of the sacrifices I make.
Like even if someone would by me a balloon on my birthday or ask me how I’m doing or just say “dude ur a good friend”
Some type of recognition.
I don’t do what I do to get recognized and even if I never do get recognized I still will be who I am. Even when everyone tells me I’m too nice and nice guys finish last. I’ll still do it cuz I think it’s right. But it would be nice to be noticed for it.
I’m super fucking depressed and at the end of the day I just want to be loved that’s all.
If you read everything and have anything to say at all please tell me.
Thank you for those who did read 😁🤪
Tumblr media
0 notes
suspicioushowell · 7 years
Note
so this girl i kinda like(she's an internet friend) is supposedly going to be inactive on social media for a month(according to her twitter) and i'm a little panicked cos idk if that includes tumblr(where we chat) bc we've been messaging for the past couple days and she tweeted that ab a week ago. but i'm worried if she does stay off tumblr for a month, she'll forget ab me or not care to message me anymore :/ i'm prob overreacting but oh well.
Dw! You are not over reacting! You remind me of me. Anyways, keep messaging her within that month, not too much! If she doesn’t reply that obvs means she’s gone inactive due to something. But when she comes back she’ll see all ur messages and it will Spark something in her memory section and she’ll remember you and seeing all the messages she’ll know you missed her and she’ll be like aww and then she’ll message you and you’ll live happily ever after!
Today’s topics are:-phan-dan and phil-friends -childhood stories -embarrassing stories -bests moments of ur life -facts about me -if you want hugs and kisses -dares -advice (I’ll try)-anything ur going through -the fact that we’re almost at 500!-my birthday is coming soon -literally anything this is just to give you some inspirations!
3 notes · View notes