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support · 7 years ago
Everything Okay?
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. There are many support services that are here to help. 
If you are located in the United States, consider reaching out to the National Alliance on Mental Illness HelpLine.
If you are located in the United Kingdom, The Mix is here to help you with any challenge you are facing.  Reach out online, on social or through their free and confidential helpline.
If you are reading this from in any other country in Europe,  Mental Health Europe has compiled a list of helplines and other resources in your country. 
For more resources, please visit our Counseling & Prevention Resources page for a list of services that may be able to help.
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strwbrrs · 18 minutes ago
ive only ever fucked afab ppl and god .... the craving for dick gets bigger and badder every day. i wanna be split in half
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leavingforevr · 21 minutes ago
it’s like i’m underwater fighting for air that never seems to come. and i’m screaming for help and i’m yelling to my friends and family on the beach but they just don’t seem to hear me. and i’ve realized why i like night. it’s not because it’s dark like my head or because it’s a good place for me to be. but rather because it’s comfortable. between my four walls there is no expectations, no words, nothing but the silence that i so desperately crave during the day. sometimes when i’m around people i feel like i can’t breathe and i don’t know what’s going to happen if i don’t gasp for air. but a small part of me feels like i want to know. because maybe in the end i will find comfort much like i do at night and between my four empty walls
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wingfinger · 21 minutes ago
gyaaaa still fucking DRIVING
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deydeydeyan · 32 minutes ago
This is actually my first time following skam real time and oh does it feels like i have no life
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cottonspotten · 33 minutes ago
had a cheeky little breakdown and my mom came to check on me which was nice but her go-to way of comforting me was to tell me a stressful story and, upon being told that she was making me anxious, guilt-trip me. bless ❤️
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technogender · 44 minutes ago
the au’s (probably) nicest character being a god milf tells you all you need to know honestly
it tells you the au is for gay people
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laurenshield · 44 minutes ago
About the Damsel in Distress
These last months, I found myself thinking about the so called damsel in distress- the trope where you a person is stuck in a perilous situation and doesn’t get out of it until somebody else comes to rescue them. More often than not, damsel in distress is a negative label: the damsel in distress is weak, is useless, can’t handle things with her own hands, is worthless because she didn’t fight tooth and nail to get out of the tower or escape the abusive stepmother or the cell she was thrown into. The damsel in distress is less- less of a character, less of a person, less of anything- because she has to rely on the help of others to escape the nightmare she is trapped into. If you’re a damsel in distress, you’re not strong. That’s the all point of this trope.
And it doesn’t sit right with me, because there are so many situations, in real life, when people are stuck in shitty environments- be it an abusive family or relationship or any form of economic slavery- and they get asked “what did you do to change your situation? Why did you just sit and wait? Why were you so weak another person had to come and save you?”
And it made think about the fact that people shouldn’t be judged for not having the means, and yes, sometimes even the strength, to escape. There are moments, in real life, when all you have the strength to do is pull yourself together, take breath after breath after breath, resisting long enough that you don’t lose the part of yourself that makes you you. Sometimes, people don’t have the money or a place to go or they have children to protect or they fear for the lives, and sometimes fighting isn’t the solution, or is not the solution that can save you, and sometimes it takes bravery just to hope, to keep on being yourself when someone else is doing their best to destroy you, and if a hand comes out of nowhere and says “I will take you out of here, all you have to do is accept my help”, why should they be judged for it?
People are not worthless because they are trapped. People are not worthless because they didn’t know what to do or were afraid. And yes, sometimes you do have to take the matters in your own hands and not rely on other to come for you, but life is far, far more complicated than most people know and maybe you should think twice about judging another person before you know what kind of circumstances they were in.
What I’m trying to say is this: sometimes, you can’t free yourself on your own. Sometimes you need help. It doesn’t make you worthless to seek it and it doesn’t make you weak to accept it. People are there to help each other as much as they can and there’s no shame in this.
The problematic aspect of this trope, in my eyes, is not that it’s about a woman, a person, unable to fight back against her circumstances, but in the fact that it’s often been used to promote an image of women as objects for the gratification of men. But the truth is, in real life there are damsels in distress- and they may be the abused wife, the abandoned child, the exploited worker, the chronically ill person who has no support but the same person or structure that keeps them trapped. People like that exist and they don’t need judgement. They need empathy and they need help.
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fruitymarblesoda · 54 minutes ago
To all the people who lost irl money on the Eye Vials update
You weren’t forced to spend that irl money, you consciously chose to take that gamble
So it doesn’t matter if you support the update or not, you gambled and you came out on the losing end. Take the L and enjoy the fact you no longer have to spend irl money to get special pixel dragon eyes
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sei-rene · 58 minutes ago
Have you seen my cat? Fluffy, lion-like ginger and white kitty?
Yes they mine naw UwU /jkjk
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mercxrial · an hour ago
i have yet to find a good medusa x blind girl story, there’s a lot but idk which one to readddddd
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autistic-raven-riot · an hour ago
Introducing my f/os! <3
Quickly I'd just like to say that I don't like sharing so please don't interact if our f/os are the same
1. Jack Mooney
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. He's from Death in Paradise and is the main character in seasons 6 to 9 :D
. I headcanon him as bi :))
. My self insert in the story is just an idealistic version of me and because he's dating me, he never leaves the island to be with his girlfriend, meaning no Neville unfortunately
. I like stealing his shirts and cuddling up to him constantly
. Very much okay with pda <3
2. Richard Poole
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. Also from Death in Paradise! Main character for seasons 1 and 2
. Having 2 f/os from the same universe is completely valid. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
. I don't have a sexuality headcanon for him but possibly demiromantic
. I do headcanon him as autistic though so :)) we can be autistic together hehe
. Again my self insert is just an idealistic version of me. But I can't see anyway the avoid his death so he does still die
. I like him reading books to me, I find it difficult to read so he reads out loud for me to hear :D
. No pda
3. Tormund Giantsbane
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. From Game of Thrones, I think from season 3 onwards
. Almost 4 years of him being an f/o of mine!! I love him <3
. He has no sexuality label, again, because I just feel like he likes who he likes and he doesn't think too much about it
. In this world my self insert is still an idealistic version of me but also I'm cis because it makes more sense with the universe
. Being north of the wall it is very snowy so we spend a lot of the time messing around in the snow. I also like cuddling him because it gets really cold (and because I love him but shh. His teasing. Aaa)
. Loves pda so much. So. Much.
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