#some of you need help

[vivianacht]

making an important announcement about some things i’ve noticed in the gwendoline christie fandom that really bug me.

disclaimer: read this at your own convenience and discretion. i am not responsible for any sort of hurt feelings and frankly… i don’t care. if you’re mad about this, you are probably the problem. /lh

to start with id like to begin on a positive note so that i’m not diving into negativity, i don’t want to be completely negative about my experiences because i’ve actually met some of the kindest people in the world through this fan base.

the gwen fandom, the gwandom, the gwendoline christie fandom , the lesbian cesspool, has been an incredible experience that i’m grateful i’ve had the pleasure of being apart of.

i went through a rough patch during november, and if i hadn’t found out about gwen, or met such wonderful people during my time here , i honestly wouldn’t be here right now. i owe my life to these people, gwen included. i will forever adore miss christie and what she stands for alongside the friends i’ve made along the way.

and while i know someday this hyperfix will end, it’s really disheartening to me when a fandom is what makes me grow distant from things i enjoy. it happened before, i feel as though it is happening all over again.

and no, i’m not taking issue with anything like the catrissa stuff or the brienne and larissa ship going around or anything like that. i like that we can all be weird together and enjoy aus like catrissa and crackships like bririssa (not sure the official name that was decided lol). my issue is the amount of content i’ve seen that either focuses on gwen herself, or the strange relationship with minors, or the odd artwork of gwen, and the absolute disgusting behaviour towards giles.

gwen would be absolutely appalled seeing fanfictions of herself that involve nsfw or just her in general, anyone would, it’s disgusting to make works of real people in that setting. it’s like you’re treating them as an original character you can mould and manipulate as you see fit and using someone who is real with thought and feeling and consciousness for smut fics is not okay, or any fic in general. i totally get the hype around her characters, i literally have “brienne’s princess” in my bio and i’ve had “jane murdstone’s bloodbag” (in reference to my vamp au) as a name in a discord server.

but i think the fandom has begun to blur the lines between fictional characters and reality settings when it comes to gwen and the personalities she portrays on the television screen. it’s not fair to her. it’s disgusting. i’ve seen a minor do it, i’ve seen a grown adult do it. it’s something i don’t see shamed and frowned upon often enough and it’s really not okay.

on that note i’d like to quickly mention the photos, we alllll know what photos i’m talking about. the bunny one, the nudes, the ones gwen has expressed regret towards and wishes to not have them spread. was there not a “fan” who brought her a book of her nudes and wanted her to sign it? that person who was blocked on instagram by gwen because they reposted her nudes on their story and tagged her???? how can you refer to yourself as a fan after behaving so abhorrently? absolutely disgusting behaviour. as a collective fandom we need to stop touching those photos (metaphorically speaking) and leave them in the past.

i’ve been told of numerous circumstances in which adults have shown their nsfw works to minors in this fandom and it has to fucking stop. it’s disgusting!! how can you do that knowingly? i constantly ponder terminating my account after a minor got ahold of my nsfw work, and upon realising they WERE a minor it was as simple as blocking and moving on. it’s truly not that hard, folks. and the minors on tiktok who fight with others saying silly things like “that’s my wife” or worse. i’ve seen it all, i feel like, and the more i see it the more sick i become. i cannot stand it.

i have seen and heard of fans who have fat shamed gwen for that one pink dress she wore to the met gala. she looked so happy in that dress, and the audacity one must have to fatshame that poor woman on twitter then turn around and continue to proclaim your ‘love for her’ as if you’d done no wrong? are you fucking serious? are you mental?

and the sexualisation over the porcelain doll look, gods some of you are sick. those were not real breasts, people. considering the fact she wholeheartedly regrets her nude photoshoots , what possesses you to believe she would actually flaunt her chest in that outfit?

the blatant mistreatment of poor giles is not fucking okay either. just because you’re jealous of someone who makes her immensely happy does not give you the right to post something so vile and cruel about him. shame on you. why do you believe this is okay to post:

????????

are you serious? have any of you stopped to consider how HAPPY giles makes her? or is her happiness the last thing you ponder when you look at her? have you even noticed how unhappy she looks lately? have you truly paused to consider how she would feel about seeing this on your page, random twitter user, or the rest of you who think this is okay? bless your hearts.

and some of the absolutely horrific things i’ve seen about her online and the hurtful behaviour towards giles makes me question the difference between a fan and just the general paparazzi. because if you truly loved her and you truly loved giles then i would not be ranting into the fucking void about it for no reason.

i avoid interacting with pages i find problematic on here to keep from stirring the pot but tonight i chose violence and got reeeeeal pissy about how i felt about this place. it’s not okay what i see on here and it’s getting exhausting seeing the same cycle of content on a daily.

that’s everything i have to say, i think. i probably missed a lot that should be discussed in the comments but i’m done for now because i know if i go on i’ll probably cry.

before you post things about real people with real feelings , stop to consider how they will feel those real feelings towards the content you put out. chances are you’ll become less problematic and obnoxious that way. 💘

#gwendoline christie #gwendolineuniverse #sigh #announcement #i’m upset #this fandom is insane #some of you need help #seriously #like its not even funny #you guys are weird #please repost this everywhere #this is not okay #i’m really tired of seeing these things #and i understand i can block and move on but i feel as though it was important enough to be said #fandom #tumblr fandom #and specifically #the tumblr and tiktok fandom #instagram is becoming just as bad #and twitter has always been atrocious

[garfrigerator]

as people get their youtooz again please remember that these are NOT fictional characters but real middle aged men with seperate lives and families. most have twitter and at least two have tiktok. so. don't be creepy with your plushies.

#some of you need help #tally hall #tally hall youtooz

[bhinnninny]

us watching the marauders fandom cave to their internal homophobia and stereotypes by making every gay couple a copy paste version of hypermasculine bro and wimpy femboy (cough wolfstar cough cough)

#the marauders #remus lupin #sirius black #wolfstar #some of you need help #marauders fanfiction #stop being creepy

[makuta-kotok]

Cult of The Lamb fans literally created the most toxic, abusive, hypocritical, generally unpleasant villain x protag yaoi imaginable, AND VICTIM IS THE VILLAIN

Except for the people who actually try to make Narilamb palatable. Those fellas are kewl.

#cult of the lamb #narilamb #seriously what the fuck #some of you need help #the rest are fine #i’m not naming names

[sparklywaistcoat]

lol all the people in the ofmd meta notes going HOW DARE YOU TAG THIS IZZY HANDS ON AN IZZY-CRITICAL POST

my poppets, my piggesnies, this is what your good friend the block function is for

block the people and/or posts you don't like and move on

having that kind of tantrum in the notes is really unbecoming, and it isn't going to stop folks from criticizing a character who is canonically the villain of the piece

#ofmd #some of you need help #block and move on

[eddiediazswife]

The way people actively want Tommy to stay so Bucktommy can be endgame is frustrating me so badly.

Saying things like ‘he wasn’t actively racist he only watched!’ Like WTF is wrong with people if you stand by and watch people being racist you are racist too! Inaction is still an action. Just be honest and say you are racist.

He could have gone to anyone above the captain but he didn’t he chose to let it happen.

F*ck Tommy.

And if this was a women you would all be losing your damn minds!

I hope he’s gone asap, being pretty doesn’t excuse his bigoted ass.

I can’t believe people are dropping Buddie for this trash 🤦🏻‍♀️

#some of you need help #fuck racism #Tommy kinard #anti bucktommy #buddie #911 abc #eddie diaz #evan buckley

[xplrvibes]

If any of you on here truly thinks Colby owes you an explanation or an apology for anything he does in his private life, please take the following action:

1. Unfollow me immediately

2. Go outside

3. Find a therapist

#some of you need HELP #i have to go to work but i will be back later today to tackle some of this stuff in my inbox don't worry #corgi book

[na19love]

Anyone blaming KP can fuck off. They told her that Kate had abdominal surgery and would be back after Easter. She had every right to her privacy. She didn't even had to reaveal her diagnosis publicly. Cancer is something very personal. I've heard so many cases of people hiding their ille

The public didn't listen and the hysteria started. People were making conspiracy theories about Kate being dead, being in a coma, affair rumours, illegitimate children, accusing William of domestic violence and even murder. I feel terrible for the families of Thomas Kingston and Rose Hanbury for being dragged into this mess.

You can't reason with luntics like that.

Yes, the Mother's Day photo was a disaster but to everyone who contributed in those conspiracy theories, don't you dare now blame KP after you spent weeks harassing this poor woman online and making up crazy stories about her and her husband, even before the Mother's Day photo.

As I said days before, some people won't be satisfied until they get a divorce or death notification

Some of you won't see the gates.

#british royal family #brf #royal family #kate middleton #catherine princess of wales #prince william #princess of wales #william prince of wales #princess catherine #prince of wales #some of you need help #some of you won't see the gates of heaven

[pussypoptart]

#free palestine #free israel #aaron bushnell #some of you need help #libtards #liberals #democrats #progressives #let it burn

[sub-par-yakuza-memes]

#i said what i said #stop romanticizing him #some of you need help #jun oda #oda #ryu ga gotoku #rgg #yakuza meme #y0 #yakuza zero #yakuza #yakuza 0 #eww

[yuichiiusagii]

sometimes i look at peoples posts and the only thought in my head is what the actual fuck.

#COULD BE INTERPRETED EITHER /POS OR /NEG #BUT??? #LIKE SOME OF YOU..... #SOME OF YOU NEED HELP

[sp1derw1re]

why did i just see a proshipper here 😰

#some of you need help #in jesus name #bc what is this #ewewewewew get off #<thoughts3

[wisebeth]

No cause i just had this toxic stan spamming my Sakura blog with anti sakura stuff & pro nh? And it is genuinely confusing me💀 i didn't even mention hinata there and for the matter of fact i actually like her. It was solely about sakura, how did you manage to make this about a ship where she wasn't even involved 💀

Does this fandom even understand the point of tags 💀

And they were attacking me like i killed their dog or something solely bc i posted something positive about a character they hate, that too without bringing down their fave? Then why are you mad at me?

Why are you insulting me, a real person, over some fictional characters? Get help

I blocked that person but god this fandom can be so scary.

#sakura haruno #pro sakura #jfc #some of you need help #it's just a fictional character CHILL #sakura ain't real #hinata ain't real #NONE OF THEM ARE REAL #why are you personally attacking me a real person over your hate for an anime girl #literally the person was throwing so much personal insults #but what was funny was they were defending hina like i didn't just post about sakura without bringing up hina anywhere #😭😭😭 #some of you guys are so obsessed that you forgot how to be respectful and decent to ACTUAL PEOPLE #like can you imagine? #i was getting insulted over a fictional girl a FICTIONAL GIRL #but anyways #what did they even achieve by bringing up shipping content of an other character

[akookminsupporter]

Do only people who have the exact same views have relationships? Is that what the leaf people are trying to say?

Like, Jimin is saying that he doesn’t care, JK can peel perilla leaves for anyone, and JK is saying he does care because in his imagination Jimin’s gonna fall in love over a perilla leaf and be married the next day. These are not actually opposing views.

Also, pretty sure that the last time they had this discussion they all simply decided to not eat perilla leaves. There, problem solved.

Are there really people who are arguing about this? And how it does or does not prove that jikook is real? This is not a discussion that I am going to entertain on my blog for the simple fact that I find it absurd. Jimin and Jungkook are different people even though they are similar in many ways. The fact that there might be a sentimental relationship between them doesn't mean that they think and feel the same way. Two different opinions about the same fact CAN coexist. They are not mutually exclusive. I don't know if some people know but sometimes dating is about compromise and respecting boundaries. Maybe Jimin doesn't mind if Jungkook would help a friend in that way but maybe he is also aware that Jungkook doesn't like it if a friend helps him in that way and prevents it from happening. Also, maybe Jungkook avoids being in those situations because if he doesn't like it when something like that happens with his significant other, why would he do it with someone else? Don't do what you don't like to be done to you.

#anon #ask #JM #JK #JKJJMP #fandom #shippers #some of you need help

[kochei0]

I turn to Ares.

Thanks to Tyler Miles Lockett who allowed me to draw inspiration from his ARES piece for page 2! Look at his etsy page it's SICK

⚔️ If you want to read some queer retelling of arturian legends have a look at my webtoon

#greek mythology #ares #athena #greek gods #dont get me wrong it aint athena slander but it sure is ares praise #on some level at least #man justly accused of bad things deserves some mid praise more at 11 #thank you romi for helping me with words though i duly noted you insisted on ares not being cautious rather than him not being careful #romi be like “i want him to care” and honestly good you should say it #also EPIC led to this and i just..... i want to draw some animatics man i just need infinite time now #my long lost love for greek myths just will never stop coming and they dont stop coming and they dont stop coming #i want some vulture design in here for ares but not sure about this one #kochei doodles

[jakeperalta]

letting celebrities think they can and should "use their platform" to speak on all current events and political issues regardless of how educated they are on them was a grave mistake

#i honestly think that's why half of these celebrities are just sharing around these same few wishy washy unhelpful statements #at this point it's a relief when i open an instagram story and it's just a celebrity posting about their regular stuff #like good thank you feel free to just be quiet #or just share some fundraising links if you feel a need to be helpful #but like ultimately if you have a platform of many thousands/millions #then frankly it is your responsibility to make sure what you are sharing is accurate and useful #and not just posting for the sake of posting #but instead somehow we're at the point where the more followers you have the more you are expected to just post something anything #talking