#you guys are weird

[vivianacht]

making an important announcement about some things i’ve noticed in the gwendoline christie fandom that really bug me.

disclaimer: read this at your own convenience and discretion. i am not responsible for any sort of hurt feelings and frankly… i don’t care. if you’re mad about this, you are probably the problem. /lh

to start with id like to begin on a positive note so that i’m not diving into negativity, i don’t want to be completely negative about my experiences because i’ve actually met some of the kindest people in the world through this fan base.

the gwen fandom, the gwandom, the gwendoline christie fandom , the lesbian cesspool, has been an incredible experience that i’m grateful i’ve had the pleasure of being apart of.

i went through a rough patch during november, and if i hadn’t found out about gwen, or met such wonderful people during my time here , i honestly wouldn’t be here right now. i owe my life to these people, gwen included. i will forever adore miss christie and what she stands for alongside the friends i’ve made along the way.

and while i know someday this hyperfix will end, it’s really disheartening to me when a fandom is what makes me grow distant from things i enjoy. it happened before, i feel as though it is happening all over again.

and no, i’m not taking issue with anything like the catrissa stuff or the brienne and larissa ship going around or anything like that. i like that we can all be weird together and enjoy aus like catrissa and crackships like bririssa (not sure the official name that was decided lol). my issue is the amount of content i’ve seen that either focuses on gwen herself, or the strange relationship with minors, or the odd artwork of gwen, and the absolute disgusting behaviour towards giles.

gwen would be absolutely appalled seeing fanfictions of herself that involve nsfw or just her in general, anyone would, it’s disgusting to make works of real people in that setting. it’s like you’re treating them as an original character you can mould and manipulate as you see fit and using someone who is real with thought and feeling and consciousness for smut fics is not okay, or any fic in general. i totally get the hype around her characters, i literally have “brienne’s princess” in my bio and i’ve had “jane murdstone’s bloodbag” (in reference to my vamp au) as a name in a discord server.

but i think the fandom has begun to blur the lines between fictional characters and reality settings when it comes to gwen and the personalities she portrays on the television screen. it’s not fair to her. it’s disgusting. i’ve seen a minor do it, i’ve seen a grown adult do it. it’s something i don’t see shamed and frowned upon often enough and it’s really not okay.

on that note i’d like to quickly mention the photos, we alllll know what photos i’m talking about. the bunny one, the nudes, the ones gwen has expressed regret towards and wishes to not have them spread. was there not a “fan” who brought her a book of her nudes and wanted her to sign it? that person who was blocked on instagram by gwen because they reposted her nudes on their story and tagged her???? how can you refer to yourself as a fan after behaving so abhorrently? absolutely disgusting behaviour. as a collective fandom we need to stop touching those photos (metaphorically speaking) and leave them in the past.

i’ve been told of numerous circumstances in which adults have shown their nsfw works to minors in this fandom and it has to fucking stop. it’s disgusting!! how can you do that knowingly? i constantly ponder terminating my account after a minor got ahold of my nsfw work, and upon realising they WERE a minor it was as simple as blocking and moving on. it’s truly not that hard, folks. and the minors on tiktok who fight with others saying silly things like “that’s my wife” or worse. i’ve seen it all, i feel like, and the more i see it the more sick i become. i cannot stand it.

i have seen and heard of fans who have fat shamed gwen for that one pink dress she wore to the met gala. she looked so happy in that dress, and the audacity one must have to fatshame that poor woman on twitter then turn around and continue to proclaim your ‘love for her’ as if you’d done no wrong? are you fucking serious? are you mental?

and the sexualisation over the porcelain doll look, gods some of you are sick. those were not real breasts, people. considering the fact she wholeheartedly regrets her nude photoshoots , what possesses you to believe she would actually flaunt her chest in that outfit?

the blatant mistreatment of poor giles is not fucking okay either. just because you’re jealous of someone who makes her immensely happy does not give you the right to post something so vile and cruel about him. shame on you. why do you believe this is okay to post:

????????

are you serious? have any of you stopped to consider how HAPPY giles makes her? or is her happiness the last thing you ponder when you look at her? have you even noticed how unhappy she looks lately? have you truly paused to consider how she would feel about seeing this on your page, random twitter user, or the rest of you who think this is okay? bless your hearts.

and some of the absolutely horrific things i’ve seen about her online and the hurtful behaviour towards giles makes me question the difference between a fan and just the general paparazzi. because if you truly loved her and you truly loved giles then i would not be ranting into the fucking void about it for no reason.

i avoid interacting with pages i find problematic on here to keep from stirring the pot but tonight i chose violence and got reeeeeal pissy about how i felt about this place. it’s not okay what i see on here and it’s getting exhausting seeing the same cycle of content on a daily.

that’s everything i have to say, i think. i probably missed a lot that should be discussed in the comments but i’m done for now because i know if i go on i’ll probably cry.

before you post things about real people with real feelings , stop to consider how they will feel those real feelings towards the content you put out. chances are you’ll become less problematic and obnoxious that way. 💘

#gwendoline christie #gwendolineuniverse #sigh #announcement #i’m upset #this fandom is insane #some of you need help #seriously #like its not even funny #you guys are weird #please repost this everywhere #this is not okay #i’m really tired of seeing these things #and i understand i can block and move on but i feel as though it was important enough to be said #fandom #tumblr fandom #and specifically #the tumblr and tiktok fandom #instagram is becoming just as bad #and twitter has always been atrocious

[petty-pumpkin]

Might be controversial but I've got to say this.

So we all know that the soukoku fanbase has a toxic side right? Right.

It was very talked abt how a big part of skk shippers were toxic and blah blah blah. How you would say you liked a ship nd they would come at you, right?

Well, I just want to say that ppl who STILL say this are dumbasses, honestly.

First, to prove my point, I just wanna say that EVERY fanbase has a toxic side, there's no way to deny it, there's always that one mf that ruins the harmony in a fandom and has to be a pain in the balls.

Now, ik that a big part of the skk shippers WERE toxic af, more than the average of toxicness in a fandom, not going to deny it.

BUT THAT WAS BEFORE BRO. I remember that in 2020/2021 it was FULL of toxic skk shippers. You litterally could not like any other dazai or chuuya ship w/o being attacked for it by a cray cray skk shipper.

Because of that, the skk fanbase has a really bad fame, and it's known for being 1- very fucking passionate abt a fictional relationship, and 2- very fucking toxic about said fictional relationship.

In 2022, the toxicness was becoming less. Of course the toxic shippers were still in the shadows ready to attack, but they were less than b4. Now why were they less? Bc ppl actually fucking complained abt it and stopped acting like the skk fanbase was a normal one.

In early 2023, other dazai ships begun to have more popularity, and it stopped being only dazai and chuuya. This was also the era when ppl actually started to understand dazai's character a little better than before and stopped being blind ass mfs. Thanks to this, a LOT of skk toxic shippers disappeared or matured to realize that ppl have different fucking opinions.

Of course the fanbase still had quite a variety of toxic shippers inside of it, but they started to eradicate fast.

Now we're heading to the end of 2023 and I had not ONCE in 5 whole months seen a toxic skk shipper ever again. It's like they rlly disappeared. And I gotta say, that there's obviously still a lot of toxic shippers out there, ik that, but I'm still really proud bro.

Like, it's so nice how an entire fanbase maturated that much in such a short span of time, the mha fandom could never.

Anyways, having said this, I just want to sincerely say, WHY THE FUCK DO PPL STILL SAY "oh i hate skk bc of the shippers" LIKE WHAT.

Ok, first of all, it's totally fine if you dislike skk, everyone has their own opinions (weird opinion, yeah, but I still gotta respect it bc I'm a normal human being (not rlly)) but using that lame ass excuse that litterally every idiot uses when they dislike a popular ship?? Yeah no. Just say u don't like the ship and move on. We, as a society, (a group of shippers) have maturated enough to understand that not everyone has the same taste as us, WE WONT JUDGE YOU IF YOU DISLIKE A SILLY SHIP FROM A SILLY SHOW ABOUT DEAD GAY AUTHORS, EVEYONE HAS THEIR OWN PROBLEMS BRO, WE DO NOT CARE IF YOU DISLIKE IT OMG 😭

BESIDES, why the fuck do you hate a ship bc "oh no the shippers are kind of really intense when someone doesn't agree with them" like ???? Bro, how the fuck do the shippers affect the canon relationship between chuuya and dazai??? Do you see them making a pact with the devil so asagiri could make their ship canon???? That's litterally a monkey's train of thought.

Anyway, it litterally makes no sense if you dislike something bc of it's fans or creators. That's like saying "flashing lights" by kayne west is a bad song bc kayne is a son of a b1tch. Like, kayne is truly a dumbass, but the song is fire. BESIDES, IT'S NOT EVEN ASAGIRI HIMSELF IT'S LITTERALLY THE FANS, AND NOT EVEN THAT BC MOST OF THE TOXIC SHIPPERS ERADICATED FROM EARTH MONTHS AGO.

It used to make sense b4, but now it doesn't. Stop attacking skk shippers for litterally nothing when they stopped being THAT problematic a while ago.

Like rlly. It makes zero sense.

#skk #bsd #bsd soukoku #soukoku #chuuya nakahara #dazai osamu #you guys are weird #stop causing problems and fights and let ppl ship whatever they like

[plagiarised-passion]

I seriously hate this fandom sometimes

BSD is one of the only anime's with focus on platonic relationships over romantic ones and somehow y'all are in here shipping Dazai with the man who abused him or Ranpo with the man who is for all intents and purposes, his father.

#i despise you all #okay not all of you #but some of you #fukuran #morizai #this is a PSA #you guys are weird #bsd dazai osamu #dazai bsd #dazai osamu #bsd dazai #bsd mori ougai #bsd mori #mori bsd #mori ougai #ranpo edogawa #bsd ranpo #bungou stray dogs ranpo #ranpo bsd #fukuzawa yukichi #bsd fukuzawa #bungou stray dogs fukuzawa #i find mori and dazai's dynamic very interesting #but let's be real guys #it's weird as fuck to ship them #like so weird i actually cannot #why are some of y'all like this #seek help #and don't even get me STARTED on shipping Fukuzawa and Ranpo #fucking yuck

[bl00dst41ned]

if any of you old girls write jobe smut when he just turned 18 watch wtf I do to y'all predators

#jobe bellingham #don't play with me #you guys are weird

[buckttommy]

block one anon and 5+ messages disappear every single time. lol

#You guys are weird #I did actually screenshot one of their messages to answer later if I feel like it. #But I... seriously broke my vow last night. And I don't want to get caught up again in how ugly and impulsive this fandom makes me feel/act #because 1) that's not how I am in real life 2) we're all here to have a good time 3) that doesn't spark joy #So. Let me just organize my thoughts. Wake up a little. And see where to go from there

[whaleofatjme1920]

Yeah what the hell is up with white straight couples being OBSESSED with calling each other slurs as cute pet names

#‘we have dark humor’ ok but calling each other ??? that??? #you guys are WEIRD #fish out of water convos

[mal3vol3nt]

why tf am i seeing accounts dedicated to saraugust…. like omg this fandom is literally falling apart and grasping at straws with the lack of news for season 3 😭

#yes i am judging #you guys are WEIRD #in this house we hate august AND sara #young royals #prince wilhelm #simon eriksson #sara eriksson #august horn

[madmutts]

Hey there, Mike, how’s Tumblr treating you so far? Also, did you and your bros get a chance to meet your younger selves yet? If so, what was their reactions when they first saw you guys? And did you guys give them any advice or comfort?

You randoms know a lot about my family's situation! :D That's weird! :D

But yeeeaahh you caught me. I'm from the future 😔 (tho given what's been going on, that's probably not the craziest thing you've heard) and for sure we met them. I mean, it would be weird if we haven't, we live with them lol

I think they were kind of blown away, I definitely would be. Them from 20 something years in the future suddenly show up and save the world from interdimensional aliens?? That's bonkers crazy, dude

My boy Mikey definitely had a lot of questions for me haha. I've been intending to help train his mystic powers up... but a bunch of life stuff got in the way. You know how it is

#Angelo txt #inbox answer #you guys are weird #hgdshfdsf #hea au

[deepestloverducknerd]

BOB VESLEB IS AN OFFICIAL TUMBLR SEXYMAN LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOO I KNEW HE COULD DO IT

#what the heck is wrong with you people though #like he's a murderer and a cannibal #he won't hesitate to kill you #dating him would be a terrible idea #stop it #wtf #wth is wrong with people #you guys are weird #bob velseb #spooky month #spooky month bob velseb

[violetproxima]

When y’all say Claudia doesn’t care about Louis, just her own interests? Exactly what interests would that be?

She was a 14 year old orphan who’d experienced abuse and almost died in a fire. Louis saved her, asked Lestat to turn her and raised her as his own.

They had a father-daughter relationship until she ran away (teenagers, amirite) and came back older, wiser and wanting to find vampires outside of Lestat.

She helped rehab him after Lestat brutally attacked him and has been his overbearing, super protective baby sister ever since.

Where in this story has she shown she don’t gaf about Louis? Even in real life and not gothic horror, the relationship you have with your parents as an adult and as a child changes. She is a shining example of that.

Say what you mean to say. (Or whatever John Mayer said. ) You can just not like a character. But I’m really confused by the “Claudia doesn’t care about Louis” takes. Also the “Louis is just as abusive” takes; but that’s a whole other post.

#iwtv #iwtv series #claudia de lioncourt #louis de pointe du lac #interview with the vampire #you guys are weird

[fandomwe1rd0]

I'm scared, (Oh-oh-oh) It feels like you don't care (Ooh-ooh)

Enlighten me, my dear.

Why am I still here?

In the back of my mind, you died

And I didn't even cry, no, not a single tear.

(...) In the back of my mind, I killed you.

And I didn't even regret it

I can't believe I said it, but it's true. Why don't I hate you?

~ Romantic Homicide d4vd

#Again #can't believe this needs to be said #But this is PLATONIC #Rickortys FUCK OFF! #You guys are weird #rick and morty #morty smith #rick sanchez #rick c137 #rick #and #morty

[gearslips]

i'm as pissed about watcher's streaming service hellscape as the next guy but the way i've seen people shift the blame entirely onto steven lim feels really, really weird. these are 3 grown ass men who are all equally responsible for tanking their own company, as far as i'm concerned.

#darb.txt #get mad about it if you want i'm upset too but acting like shane and ryan have nothing to do with it? grow up #you guys are WEIRD

[softandwildx]

Maybe I'm just a prude or whatever but it really bothers me that people photoshop or otherwise depict characters like Disney princesses and other minor characters in sexual ways, and how much of a supported trend it is, especially here.

I understand all of these animated characters are fake, but if you're making weird porn out of Alice in Wonderland or making sexy cosplays out of Velma, who is canonically 15 years old, you have issues imo.

No I'm not taking criticism at this time. I'm right.

#also the obsession with jennifer's body on this website? #people going on and on about how hot megan fox's teenage character is in that movie? #it's weird #you guys are weird #sorry bout it

[jordanbarnes-23]

hi. why is there raging fan fictions of my mother Natasha? are you guys okay? like mentally? you all sound.. delusional in the most unhealthy way possible. maybe you should all seek psychological help. Please and thank you

(I lost my cat Milo, if you see him, tell him I sold his favorite cat toy on ebay. 😒)

#natasha romanoff #adopted by Natasha #peter parker #you guys are weird

[feeshies]

here are some tags i was going to add to that previous post, but they went on for way too long and they centered my experiences and community more, so i decided to make a separate post

i saw a post by a transmasc person that was like 'it's unfair that trans mascs have to be manlets when they transition, but trans femmes can be sexy dommy mommies (their exact words) when they transition'. and i feel like anyone (with a heart) who spends 1 minute hearing a trans woman with height dysphoria talk about her experience wouldn't say that. idk if the transmasc community is ready to talk about how often trans women are objectified in some of our spaces. there are better ways to achieve gender euphoria than being a fuckboy to women. you can't complain about the 'smol bean trans prince' stereotype, then turn around and view all trans women as 7ft dominatrix succubi. it's weird.

#also re: that post i'm referencing #the comments were filled with trans women saying things like 'my height makes me uncomfortable; can you not please?' #don't get me wrong i love tall women #but the 'tall = hypersexual/dominant' mindset #or implaying that tall trans women have it easier than short trans men #it's weird #you guys are weird

[tdtimebaby]

Goncharov is some wild shit and I confess it might be converting me to a Tumblrist

#goncharov #twitter immigrant #you guys are weird #in a fun way #goncharov 1973 #unreality