#multiple different times

[dreamertrilogys]

making plans & hanging out with people is so complicated maybe i just want to kiss them have you considered that :/

#ARI IF YOU SEE THIS IT ISN’T ABOUT YOU I SWEAR #it’s about ummm. redacted guy from my school and also friend group #except we’ve never texted/dmed one on one and i want to hang out with him more often but the gc we’re in has 11 ppl in it so like. whenever #we hang out it’s with an insane amount of people. yes we DID go downtown with 10 ppl yes david DID have to turn around and do head counts at #multiple different times #.txt #god anyway. i hope i have bio with redacted guy next semester SO bad. i need it not only for crush reasons but also for idk anyone else who #has that bio class pls let me have someone i know there reasons #oh and he’s trans too. so like. frothing at the mouth sorry for being a t4t homosexual but like. have you seen him. god #crushposting

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X' #and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!'' #babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness'' #it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!'' #& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell? #you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse? #but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck? #your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross? #HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like. #anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

[bookwyrminspiration]

if I asked very nicely would you all be willing to take a one minute anonymous survey for my linguistics class. if the answer is yes, please click here. thanks :)

(sharing for a better response size would also be very appreciated)

#linguistics #quil's unholy underworld #i have no clue how to tag this #it is quite literally 2 multiple choice questions #keeping it real simple #it's a required project in an intro class #we didn't even get to choose the topic #anyway #it's less important the results #it's intended to teach us the scientific method in practice #which I have done. like 5 times now in different classes it feels #i literally studied the demographic of the library by age an entire summer once #anyway. here's hoping this is worded and structured well enough to do what I need it to #take my survey boy #please

[anghraine]

It's 11 PM, but one of my favorite little Darcy/Elizabeth moments happens while she still hates him and thinks he's a depraved monster, and I find it really entertaining.

It's during the Kent section, when Darcy calls at the parsonage and finds Elizabeth alone. During a longer, awkward conversation in which they both deeply misunderstand each other, they have this tiny interchange:

[Darcy:] “This seems a very comfortable house. Lady Catherine, I believe, did a great deal to it when Mr Collins first came to Hunsford.” “I believe she did—and I am sure she could not have bestowed her kindness on a more grateful object.” “Mr Collins appears very fortunate in his choice of a wife.” “Yes, indeed; his friends may well rejoice in his having met with one of the very few sensible women who would have accepted him, or have made him happy if they had. My friend has an excellent understanding—though I am not certain that I consider her marrying Mr Collins as the wisest thing she ever did."

So: they are in Mr Collins's house. Darcy tries to re-start the conversation with a polite nothing about the house. Elizabeth agrees about Lady Catherine's micro-managing, but can't resist the chance to make a sly jab at Mr Collins (who is not present) to Darcy (a genuine villain, as far as she believes).

Darcy's reply looks a bit like an attempt to redirect the conversation into safer waters (they can agree that Charlotte is cool!). But although his remark is only somewhat related to what Elizabeth said, I think it's a natural follow-up in his mind because he is also insulting Mr Collins, if more subtly.

He could have praised Mr Collins's judgment in choosing Charlotte or just said something nice about Charlotte; he doesn't. Instead, he suggests that Mr Collins's choice of Charlotte was a matter of good fortune—or chance, as Charlotte herself would say!—on Collins's part. Darcy and Elizabeth both know Collins is a fool and that his choice of a woman like Charlotte says nothing about his judgment, only about his good fortune. (Elizabeth has even better reason than Darcy to know how much Collins ending up with Charlotte was lucky for him, but Darcy can see it anyway.)

Darcy's phrasing gives him some plausible deniability, but I think he's generally quite careful with his wording and the implicit insult to Mr Collins is not accidental.

Elizabeth, I think, takes this exactly as intended. She's not at all confused about where this tangent came from or offended by it or anything. She readily seizes on the new line of conversation as encouragement to keep insulting Mr Collins and his appeal to women with functioning brainpower.

Elizabeth is pretty scrupulously polite in general, so I kind of love that she just starts venting about her absolute contempt for Mr Collins and the Collins/Charlotte marriage to Darcy in the middle of a tense and weird conversation in Mr Collins's house. And I love that Darcy, who is otherwise more or less dog-paddling his way through this conversation, is like "yeah, your friend seems really cool, that dumbass is lucky he accidentally chose someone with a brain."

Elizabeth: "Right? And, let me add-"

(Is it a bit of an asshole move on both their parts in the context of that scene? Yeah, I think a little. I also love it! Please trash-talk obnoxious hosts in their own parlours for the rest of your lives.)

#anghraine babbles #deep blogging #i'm feeling a bit 'don't explain the joke' about ... well. explaining the joke. but it's still funny to me! #darcy and elizabeth are genuinely good people but sometimes they can't help statler and waldorfing it up #austen blogging #pride and prejudice #jane austen #elizabeth bennet #fitzwilliam darcy #otp of otps #sidenote: i don't think darcy and charlotte really interact 'onstage' #but i find it interesting that charlotte (who does not like men) sticks up for him multiple times #and is the one to deduce months before the pemberley scenes that darcy is generally different than she's known him #meanwhile darcy is oblivious to charlotte trying to further his romance with elizabeth but is like ... good vibes tbh #charlotte lucas

[goodtimeswithgrian]

at least the big dog doesn't have to share the single bed now, right? woof woof...

#:) #martyn inthelittlewood #itlwart #secret life #big dogs #secret life spoilers #i feel very normal about them mentioning having to share the single bed multiple times to different people #do you think they also slept back to back at baxter? #my art

[socksran]

a real conversation with a real person

#hlvrai #benrey #benry #dr bubby #hlvrai bubby #I chose bubby because my friend identifies with him the most :-) #also he’s made this mistake multiple times in multiple different group chats #it’s funny every time #tw sui joke #socksdrew

[californiatowhee]

x-men: first class screencap redraws (ace attorney edition), ft. phoenix/edgeworth from the rage and serenity scene

#phoenix wright #miles edgeworth #narumitsu #wrightworth #ace attorney #aa superhero au #citsiurtlanu art #// told you after i posted gambit edgey that i had more superhero AU nonsense in me #// there's at least like three other different ones i want to draw #// but also the cherik well is deep and i will definitely do more nrmt first class stuff #// but not for a while because wow i am way too slow an artist with way too little free time to be able to do multiple screencaps regularly #// i need to post something non-AA next #// “this is a multifandom blog” i screech as nrmt brainrot consumes me

[evanbuckleydaily]

Bonus:

#911edit #911 fox #911 #evan buckley #evanbuckleyedit #usermaripal #userdahlias #ours #gif #multi #buck #group #i thought of doing/adding all the times buckaroo or evan were used #but those have been done multiple times so here's a different take lmao

[junewild]

okay but do you understand? tula is dead. she’s been dead since the minute her husband died. like the bear, she’s a walking corpse, held together by strings and forces beyond her control. she is alive for her children. she has to be. she has no choice. she would not choose differently. but a scaffold is also a prison, if you look out instead of in.

#k talks #burrow’s end #d20 #dimension 20 #dropout tv #brennan lee mulligan #aabria iyengar #i am so normal about this!!! i did not cry multiple times abt both tula & my lich-love!!! normal! #& if i may venture a rare speculation about their personal lives. #do you think it hits different at that table with his wife sitting across from him?

[starfr00t]

moon’s definitely culling the pokemon populations for kithes

#definitely haven’t gotten my ass beaten by a misdreavus #and definitely not like over ten times #by multiple different ones #tbh this was originally one lil doodle but it Spiraled #moon dropping the switch at y/n’s feet like a cat giving its owner a present #also sorry if the legs look wack in the last one #i was fighting god with that #fnaf #fnaf security breach #sundrop #moondrop #sun x reader #moon x reader #y/n #fnaf sb #fnaf moon #fnaf sun #fnaf daycare attendant #daycare attendant x y/n #sun and moon x y/n #doodles

[k0uk0]

We all talk A LOT about how qCellbit is sooo smitten for qRo and how he's so in love and how qRo seems detached.

Yeah sure, go watch the last streams.

QROIER ASKS FOR ATTENTION FROM HIS HUSBAND and I mean A LOT, not constantly, but when Cellbit is around Roier follows him everywhere, flirts with him, jokes a lot.

Christ, the dude put on his husband's clothes.

You mean to tell me Roier isn't as in love as Cellbit? They have different ways of expressing it. Roier demands ATTENTION.

And if you are still not convinced, in the Nether stream you could clearly see how when Pierre tried to flirt with him, Roier immediately looked towards Cellbit for help.

When the elections were over and they went to see the fireworks, Roier was looking at Cellbit.

During the debates, he was always by his husband's side and AGAIN when Pierre flirted with him he CLEARLY replied with "thank you but I'm married".

These things get so overlooked because Roier tends to be more of the funny type of guy and not the romantic one as Cellbit is, but I can assure you this man is down bad as much as his husband is, they just have a different way of expressing it.

#Spiderbit #qroier #qcellbit #qsmp cellbit #qsmp #qsmp roier #im so done with the people saying #but roier doesn't seem to love cellbo as much as cellbo loves him pipipipipi #STFU #you are so fucking boring #go out and socialize and youll see how different the way of expressing things is #as roier said multiple times #STOP FUCKING CRYING BITCH #WEH WEH WEH #I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING HEAR IT

[echoes-lighthouse]

I’ve been seeing an increase in DNIs that list ‘freaks dni’ and it fills me with a visceral rage every single time. This is the freaks website!!!! It’s where I learned to be myself!! Fandoms and fandom conventions were made by freaks for freaks! 

I don’t CARE if you mean weird kinks or weird ships or weird clothes or weird obsessions, that’s all what tumblr is FOR!!! This is the one place where I learned to find community as an autistic, obsessive, queer teenager and I will be GODDAMNED if you shame other people like me into thinking they’re dangerous or broken. 

-last photo pose source- 

#i know i keep saying this in different forms #but DAMN #i see 'freaks dni' like multiple times a day now #what is happening in people's heads??? #proship #tw vent #kink mention #sebaciel #(mostly for blacklists if people care) #my art #hark i say nothing #tw caps

[tilions]

Do you ever think about how none of the Hobbits died in the Shire? They all left it when their time had come, as if they couldn't bear it to face death in the land they all went through so much for.

I mean, imagine how those goodbyes must have been for them and for their families. We know of Sam and Elanor but what about Pippin and his son Faramir? Or Merry and his potential children? How did they say goodbye to them, presuming that they knew this journey east would be their last one? That they would never see their loved ones again? Had they made peace with that?

Also the way how their final destination mirror eachother: Frodo, Bilbo and Sam's last destination, the undying lands, the west, the home of immortal heroes from ages past; and Merry and Pippin's last destination, Minas Tirith, the east, the home of mortal heroes of the present.

Just thinking about the fact that none of the Hobbits stayed in the Shire until the very end

#tolkien #lotr #the hobbit #frodo baggins #sam gamgee #merry brandybuck #pippin took #bilbo baggins #i keep coming back to this thought from time to time #and i can't put my feelings into words properly (trust me i tried in multiple different languages) #this is the best I've got

[lazycranberrydoodles]

woe mundane monopoly headcanons be upon ye

follow for more of modern au hua cheng’s outfits

#mostly completed this a month ago and then procrastinated the final touches until now lmao #its. so low quality. i also switched to a new brush for lineart and now this is kinda 🥴 #i wanted to draw my modern au designs :3 #fun facts: #hua cheng has a glass eye but he still covers it with his bangs #modern HC shops at prada btw #MQ is described as looking more like a civil god than a martial one so he has a goth academia type thing going on #FX wears sports team shirts everywhere sorry #mu qing’s mug has 3 different level markers #“fuck off” “i can hear you i just dont care” and “ok what were you saying?” #i think mu qing would hate that sort of mug but feng xin and xie lian keep giving them to him #apologies to anyone who doesnt know the rules of monopoly this is incomprehensible without previous knowledge #so: do i believe these four would actually voluntarily hang out post canon #yes actually. fxmq and hua cheng mutually tolerate each other for xie lians sake #imo after like a LONG time hc could actually be friendly towards fx (in book 2 fx admits how courageous hong hong’er is) or mq (bitch2bitch #but i dont think thatll happen there is way too much resentment that goes both ways #remember that theyve canonically fought multiple times ‼️ #tgcf #art #tian guan ci fu #天官赐福 #heaven official’s blessing #hualian #hua cheng #xie lian #fengqing #feng xin #mu qing #xianle trio #my art

[kicktwine]

WE FOUND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE FOUND THE LINK

#IT LOOKS SO DIFFERENT…. IT LOOKS SO PRETTY #WHAT DO YOU MEAN MULTIPLE ORIGINAL NPCS. LIKE KH DOESNT DO THAT OFTEN LIKE IN. YOU KNOW THIS WAY? #im excited. Im excited to see what happens when we just go full-forwards into original world stuff and I’m so glad the least-Disney game #Is the mobile game you know?? You understand? Yes #can I please be in the closed beta this time #another beta? Can I please #kipspeak

[vlindervin7]

so interesting how mitski called her album ‘the land is inhospitable’ when all throughout it, however alone she feels, the land is there and present. there’s the mosquitos, there’s a bug at the bottom of her glass, there’s the snow, the frost, a bird, the moon, the darkness as a living, breathing thing. and more importantly, every one of these elements is a manifestation of her feelings; the loss she feels, the love she feels. like a love that’s haunting the land. and then we get to the second part of the album name, ‘and so are we,’ we understand that it’s bc she is also being haunted by love. it’s the only thing she has, ´my love mine all mine’. except it’s everywhere. the land is inhospitable because it’s being haunted by this love, meaning she belongs, meaning in the end she can say she’s ‘king of all the land’ bc it’s her love that reigns, meaning no matter how ‘inhospitable’ it is and how much it hurts, she could never let it go

#idk if this makes sense 😭 and i do think there’s more to it or that it could be seen different with the land as a metaphor for smth else #or multiple things but this is what i’ve gotten from the two times i’ve listened which is ofc not a lot #have thoughts abt heaven as seemingly taking place outside of the land? and how the presence of another person kinda alters the mood? but #thats for another time #mitski #the land is inhospitable and so are we #jasmine has thoughts