#lesbophobia warning

[findingoblivion]

It's really funny that @staff says they're going to do better about their moderation and harassment policies, but I've reported 20+ posts of the #radblr tag and not one of them has been actioned after 2 weeks. It's really funny that @ basedjack can still exist after weeks of mocking and harassing trans users and LGBT users and make our tags unreadable but they're still up and still doing the exact same things. Meanwhile the trans people in their asks and mentions? Gone, gone, gone.

This site is a pathetic fucking joke.

#tumblr #staff #photomatt #hammer car explosion #if you go to that blog be warned it's not great #cw: transphobia #cw: lesbophobia

[lostryu]

The wild part about tr*ns*ndrophobia is how happy and quick people were to latch onto a term coined by a guy with a lesbian correctional r*pe fantasy who also loved the idea of r*ping butches into being trans men. Not to mention all of the perpetuators of tr*ns*ndrophobia all support Saint as well.

Like I dunno, maybe these guys do not have both lesbian's and women’s best interests at heart.

#lesbophobia #transphobia #serious trigger warnings on the callout post #tw rape mention #like seriously you guys support these people way too much #for men blogging about lesbian r*pe #actually this guy just loves the idea of r*pe in general #misspelled a word so i had to go back. Thanks autocorrect

[mexashepot]

מישהו יכול להסביר לי בבקשה למה לעזאזל כ"כ הרבה ביסקסואליות מגדירות את עצמן כלסביות?

מה הבעיה להיות בי עם העדפה לנשים?

בחייאת שאני לא מצליחה להבין את זה

מה זו השנאה העצמית הזו?

אני מזדהה כלסבית כבר איזה 9 שנים כי בחיים שלי לא נמשכתי לגבר אלא רק לנשים אבל אם זה אי פעם ישתנה (ואני כמובן בספק גדול), באמת שבאותו הרגע אפסיק לקרוא לעצמי לסבית

לא מצליחה להבין את השנאה העצמית הזו בכלל

זה רק פוגע ב2 הקבוצות (לסביות *ו*ביסיות)

#content warning for biphobia and lesbophobia if u want to read #i just don't get it

[floatingbook]

You really encourage separatism and hate the idea of women deciding lesbianism where's the logic

My gal. Seriously you try my patience.

Sexual orientation is a fact. Not a trend, not a choice, not something you decide on a whim, when you’ve tired of the alternative. You’re a lesbian or you’re not. No matter what your political values and beliefs are. You can’t “decid[e] lesbianism”. Suggesting that is homophobia. You’re implying that we choose our oppression.

Separatism is a political choice. Separatism means cutting ties with men and male-made institutions, and centering women. Centering, prioritising, interacting exclusively and primarily, communicating, building community with women. Separatism doesn’t mean being exclusively attracted to women, or entering in a relationship with another woman. Talking with another woman doesn’t make you a lesbian; sharing a house with another woman doesn’t make you a lesbian; going to a female doctor doesn’t make you a lesbian.

That’s the logic. Words have meaning. Don’t confuse sexual orientation and political choices. Not all lesbians are separatists; not all separatists are lesbians.

#anonymous #answered #yes i am aware this was most certainly bait #but i was raised on the 'there's no stupid question' philosophy #but let it be known here and now that there are stupid questions and the next ones get blocked #you've been warned #and then you wonder why i take so much time answering these #separatism #homophobia #lesbophobia

[thebestestdancers]

ok well mayeb i do wish people cared abt bi lesbians and thwir lesbophobia + biphobia as mucj as theyre able to care abt trasnandrophobia truthers adn ace exclusionsirs and wharever. maybe i do tihnk we should foster a comunity that shuts corrective rape advocstes down as ssoon as they crop up adn refuse to let them even begin to peddle thst shit. but no. isntead were makig positivjty posts for them. just die honestly

#the same peopel who will mock transandro truthers adn warn each other fo weirdos > #< turn a totsl blind eye to the bi lesbisn shit going on ehre. i wish i knew why [coughs] lesbophobia [coughs] #rape mention

[mogai-sunflowers]

thank god I go through my followers cuz someone just followed me and I checked his account and the first post was about how “real lesbians don’t mind getting raped by men” and I think I’m going to throw up

#🌌when the stars align ; reigns rambles🌌 #tw vent #vent tw #tw rape #rape tw #rape ment #rape mention #tw lesbiphobia #Tw lesbophobia #emetophobia #emetophobia tw #tw emetophobia #emetophobia warning

[opossum-dyke]

Certain parts of Stone Butch Blues has brought back memories that as a kid/preteen I was being called a he-she, a hermaphrodite, and a lesbo before I even knew what those words meant...

And it's like, I can relate to the experience that sometimes cruel people can tell you're queer before you even know you're queer and hurt you for it... Its quite fucked up...

#tw #trigger warning #tw transphobia #tw lesbophobia #trigger warning transphobia #trigger warning lesbophobia #tw queerphobia #trigger warning queerphobia #stone butch blues #Leslie Feinberg stone butch blues #tw trauma #trigger warning trauma #vent #Aqueertalksqueerly

[sgterso]

reminder post! 

do not interact if you ship obi.kin, rex.soka, ahs.oka/clones, or ships of that nature.

aph.ra is canonically a lesbian. do not ship her with men<3 that should be common sense because she IS a lesbian but apparently it needs to be said. 

i love lesbians. lesbians i love you so much. this blog will always be loving lesbian hours

#this is not about any of my mutuals ofc i love u all dearly #but just as a warning bc the swprc is once again exposing itself #as a cesspit of Disgusting Behavior! #will be updating my rules to make sure this is stated explicitly #also this is not an issue but if u ship rey.lo this is not the place for u either<3 #lesbophobia tw #ask to tag

[aliferousdreamer]

♡ happy bi visibility to all my fellow bis out there! ♡

i kinda want to share a little bit of my experience:

it's been 3 years since i've officially been "out" as bi!! 🥳 i've always had a really tough time coming to terms with my sexuality and self-acceptance hasn't been an easy journey at all. 2022 has been as especially hard year for me in that respect.

this year is the first time i've had some pretty nasty abuse thrown at me personally for my sexuality & my defending of the entire LGBTQIA+ community.

worst of all, it was actual friends - some who i'd known for years - tell me that i'm: "filthy", "unnatural", "disgusting", "not deserving of respect" and "deserving of god's torment". other things that were said include that apparently "no one loves you" and that they were "thankful filth like you are being removed from society". they then proceeded to send horrible, violent videos and other anti-LGBTQIA+ propaganda.

and yes, this all happened in june, literally in pride month. so that was the cherry on top of the shit cake, so to speak. i know, with some perspective, it's not the worst thing that could have happened and i'm incredibly fortunate and grateful for the support i have in my life. this particular and personal experience just shook me a bit i guess.

it's not been easy trying to process that kind of hate when it comes from people you like, respect and trust... but i'm glad i know it all now. it's better to just let those people go and stay as far away from them as possible.

i'm hoping that everyone has had a great 2022 thus far (if not then let 2023 be better) and i'm sending all the loves to my fellow bis out there today! ily all!! ♡♡♡

#if no one else sees this then at least i can document it a little & maybe look back on it in the future maybe?! #like hopefully i can look back on it saying ''it got getter & i got through it'' #also funnily enough i was ''friends'' with those people since i came out & was always open about being bi & supporting the community?!?! #i rambled sorryyyyy #personal #bisexuality #bi visibility #bisexual #bi #tw biphobia #tw homophobia #tw lesbophobia #tw bigotry #tw prejudice #lgbtqia+ community #lgbt community #long post #if i need to put any more warning tags pls let me know

[halalgirlmeg]

Ryan Murphy's 1 shining achievement is AHS season 1. Is it perfect? Not by a long shot but I like it and think it's a unique spin on the haunted house concept.

I've only season like half of season 2 and with good reason, if that's your favorite series go see a therapist or come back and talk to me when you're not a 16 year old edge lord bc who actually enjoys that season

If Coven's your favorite season you either hate Black Women and or you are a white liberal in either case please go away

Obviously pose is the best thing he's ever bad attached to this name but I refuse to give him any real credit for that

#like season 2 is just so full of trigger warnings #like the ableism racism lesbophobia antisemitism like jfc RELAX WE GET IT #then three the way queenie is portrayed as well like the other black people not great #I mean some stuff was cool but overall *thumbs down* #random

[w0rld0flight]

I hate people who whine about gay/lesbian headcanons so much

"Why do you have to say they're gay/lesbian, why can't two men/two women just be friends :/" because gays/lesbians barely get any representation in media you idiot, please be quiet before I throw a rock at you

#ganessa says stuff #(warning for homophobia) #(warning for lesbophobia)

[faultsofyouth]

mom tried to get my aunt into Hannah gadsby but she made the mistake of starting my aunt off with Nanette, which is not for straight people o_o

#my posts #U see I'm clever I got my mom into Hannah gadsby by starting her off with Douglass and Then making her watch nanette #So by then she had a good rapport with Hannah gadsby and thought she was super funny And I Warned her that Nanette isn't funny #And mom must really like Hannah and Nanette to pick Nanette for my aunt to watch. It just wasn't the right choice #My straight american aunt from the boonies just does not care about lesbophobia especially against people she doesn't know #and she doesn't care all that much about misogyny either but my mom is all into talking about misogyny #and she had to get a little into learning about homophobia after she got calls from middle school about me being gay

[httpswritings]

ALE(xia): Average Lesbian Experience — Alexia Putellas x Reader

Warnings: lesbophobia, having trouble accepting oneself, angst.

Word count: 1326

Summary: A lie almost breaks your friendship.

A/N: Two things; Both Alexia and Reader are 21 years old, so this is set in 2015. Also, in Spain you use the word tía as a way of saying sis, same thing as tio and the word dude in English.

“C'mon Ale! Don't be a coward!“

She smiled at you, shaking her head. “I'm not going there, tía.”

You approached her, reaching for her hand, as you tried to convince her to get into the sea. It was a sunny and warm day in Barcelona. You were all wet from crashing against the waves, as Alexia had been looking at you, laughing when you were surprised by a wave that would push you, making you swallow some water.

Alexia shook her head again.

“Ale...Please?” Alexia dragged you by your left arm, pulling you into her as she began tickling you. Her hands touching the bare skin of your stomach send shivers throughout your body.

Your playful game was interrupted by two boys around your age.

“You both seem to be enjoying the beach. Wanna have some good company?”

The boys were particularly looking at you.

Alexia felt anger filling every part of her body. She was aware of how in love she was with you, and she also knew that she had to pretend not to be, as she didn't want to scare you.

She accepted herself but couldn't help but feel gross at the thought of her loving you.

She looked at the two boys, who were asking for your number, and compared herself to them. Was she better for you than them? «Without any doubt» she thought. You denied both of their requests.

With a timid smile forming on her face, she felt victorious, even if she apparently didn't have any reason to be.

What Alexia didn't know is that you've been in love with her since high school.

Always admiring her from afar, even when she was the closest to you.

You had to learn how to not react to the physical attention she showed you.

When you saw the two boys getting interested in her and began to ask her questions like her age, where she lived, and finally asking for her number, you wanted nothing but to punch them in the face.

It wasn't envy; you didn't mind Alexia getting attention from people. It was a deeper feeling.

Alexia looked at you, but your eyes were fixated on the two boys, who were smiling and checking Alexia out, looking throughout her body, making you want to throw up.

“I'm not interested either; I'm sorry.”

Those words brought you to life, and you finally looked at her.

“I have a boyfriend.”

Your world fell apart right after hearing those words come out of her mouth.

The boys finally got a no for an answer and left.

You didn't realize they did, though.

“Are you alright? It's okay; they had already left.”

You couldn't look at Alexia properly.

The girl who had your heart had given hers to another person.

Your mind was so loud, despite you being so quiet. Not a word left your mouth after hearing Alexia's statement.

“You're worrying me. Please, answer me!”

You couldn't hold it anymore and eventually broke down crying.

Alexia hugged you, and you enjoyed your time in her embrace, knowing it'd be the closest you'd be to her.

“Did they scare you that much?“

Still no words.

“If you don't answer me, I'm going to call someone.”

Someone.

You don't know why, but that word triggered you to the point where you snapped.

“Someone? Like your boyfriend?”

Alexia laughed, and that broke your heart into more pieces, if that was even possible. Alexia thought you were teasing her, as she didn't think you had believed her to have a boyfriend, when it was just an excuse to get out of that previous situation.

“Alexia, I have to go home. I'm late.” You stood up quickly, as you couldn't bear the embarrassment you felt about yourself anymore.

Alexia grabbed you by your right arm, but you harshly shook her arm off you.

You heard her whine, and it was enough for you to stop and approach her.

No pain was worse than the slightest hurt to Alexia.

“What the fuck is wrong with you? Have you gone mad?”

Alexia was hurting, but because of your actions, not because of a silly shake. You had changed the way you behaved towards her when, not even ten minutes ago, you were laughing and begging her to get into the sea with you.

She couldn't understand the way you were behaving.

“Listen, if it's because of the boys, I'm sorry that they've asked me out too, but I swear I didn't—”

“God, Alexia, why can't you see it? It's not because of those boys; it's because of a boy. Your boyfriend. When were you going to tell me that you were with someone?” Alexia tried to speak, but you didn't let her, as you kept ranting.

“You want to know why I'm like this? Because I'm in love with you. I thought I was okay with only being your friend, but when you said you had a boyfriend, I wanted to die. Yeah, it's that dramatic because I've loved you since high school in a way friends aren't supposed to love each other. I'm sorry if this hurts you, but I can't do this anymore. I can't pretend to be okay now that I know someone else is in your life. Because, as dumb as it sounds, I had a tiny hope of you being in love with me.”

 

Alexia jumped into your arms, not letting you pull out of the hug. “Please, let's stay like this for a few seconds. Please. Please.” and you gave up on the idea of getting out of her embrace and enjoying her warmth.

Alexia looked at you. Her eyes were filled with tears, but she didn't seem sad but relieved.

“I don't have a boyfriend. I don't even like boys, silly. I like girls, especially one who's looking at me quite confused right now.”

You were shocked. Too much information in such a short time. “If I told them I had a boyfriend, it's because I knew they were going to back off. Men respect other men. If I told them I was a lesbian, they'd probably insist on going on a date with me because many of them believe that lesbians haven't found the right man. It's quite sad, but it's what they believe.”

 

You've been there too, so you get what Alexia means. Even if Spain were one of the most LGBT-friendly countries on earth, no one would be 100% safe, far less as a lesbian.

“So, you like me?” You said this as you looked down at your hands, needing confirmation of Alexia's feelings towards you.

“Yes. I've liked you since we met in high school, but I never said anything. I was scared of losing you, so I had to learn how to put my feelings aside. You didn't notice how in love I was—I am with you. But it hasn't been an easy task, especially when people would come at you and ask you out, like those boys before, but you always rejected them, no matter if they were boys or girls, so I was scared of being rejected too.”

“Why do you think I rejected them?” you asked, laughing.

“I know. Now I know...” Alexia laughed too.

“Maybe you should try now.”

“Not here.”

-

Alexia brought you to your old high school.

It was closed as it was mid-July.

“I should've done this here five years ago, but now that we both know how we feel, I wanted to ask you if you would give me the privilege of being your girlfriend.”

You smiled, and before jumping into her arms, you accepted.

Memories of you and Alexia in high school came to your mind.

Gossiping in class, drawing on each other's hands, helping each other with studies.

The love you two shared was always there; it just needed a little time and another place to flourish, and now that you were adults, you weren't scared anymore.

#alexia putellas imagine #alexia putellas x reader #alexia putellas #woso #woso imagine #woso x reader

[genderkoolaid]

hey i’m sorry to bother you but what are some warning signs that someone is a terf? i would very much like to be out as gender-fluid at my small town southern school (surprisingly supportive) but the school nurse had that “fallen sisters” book on her desk :( i don’t want to put myself in danger and i don’t know if she was reading it because she’s a terf or because she was curious about what was in it. thank you for your time!

Quick note: a lot of transphobes are not TERFs; they don't subscribe to the movement of radical feminism. But especially right now TERF ideas have become more widespread, since a lot of transphobic people turned to TERF speakers and authors for support. But that's also because a lot of TERF ideas meld very nicely with traditional patriarchal ideas (like the idea that the gender binary is required for safety of women). Things like "trans men are manipulated girls suffering from misogyny!" has gotten really popular recently, but in the past your average transphobe would probably be thinking more along the lines of "huh what a freaky dyke" than assuming it's the patriarchy's fault trans men exist.

Anyways! That's all to say that someone might use transphobic or radical feminist rhetoric without being a radical feminist themselves. Here are some things to watch out for:

Use of "female" and "male"; in medical contexts I tend to give people more grace, but if she's really insistent on sex language that's a red flag.

Highly concerned with pushing womanhood on students AFAB; if they're a TERF this is less likely to look like "pink and bows" and more likely focus on Female Power, uteri and menstruation, and identity with womanhood as a feminist act itself. Comments like "remember you can dress/act however you want and still be a woman!" can be well-meaning but they can also be a subtle way of trying to prevent GNC students from thinking about transitioning.

Fearmongering about the effects of HRT (especially T); educating about all possible effects is important, but if she focuses on negative effects, treats them as horrifying or more dangerous/common then they actually are, that's a red flag. Especially when it's tied to reproductive ability. Same when it comes to surgeries.

If she believes ROGD (rapid onset gender dysphoria) is a real thing, she's transphobic. If she doesn't use that term she might talk about transness/transmasculinity being a social contagion or trend, something young girls are pressured into (esp. by misogyny/lesbophobia), even if this is dressed up with "obviously SOME trans people are real but there's just too many now!!"

Of course, any kind of weirdness around trans people in locker rooms/bathrooms is a major red flag

If she does end up being transphobic, since you mentioned your school is supportive you might be able to tell the admins about that and have them back you up. If there are other trans people at your school, definitely ask them if they've noticed any transphobic behavior from her (you can ask cis folks too although they may be less aware of what subtler transphobia sounds like)

#m. #ask box

[realasslesbian]

Thought I'd post about the latest lesbophobic hate crime since it's looking like a lot of powerful people are trying to make this go away:

In Hong Kong on the 2nd June a lesbian couple were brutally stabbed to death by a man in a shopping centre. The couple, 26yo Fang Xiaotong and 22yo Liu Jixi, who had recently moved in together and were on their way to dinner with Liu's family, were accosted by the 39yo man.

Fang Xiaotong (left) and Liu Jixi (right)

The man snuck up on them from behind and began repeatedly stabbing Fang Xiaotong with a 12 inch long sashimi knife. Liu Jixi tried to intervene, repeatedly tackling, hitting and kicking the man and trying to drag Fang's bloodied body away from him. He would slash at her with the knife and then return to stabbing Fang's prone body. The footage is extremely disturbing. Both Fang and Liu died from their injuries.

Following the attack the man stood over Fang's body as she bled out and just waited calmly for police to arrive. During this time a random man picked up a stool and stood in the murderer's proximity, so naturally he's being proclaimed the hero of the situation instead of Liu Jixi who literally threw herself at the knife over and over again trying to save her girlfriend.

Initially local Chinese media outlets reported Fang Xiaotong and Liu Jixi as a couple (see these archived links for evidence, it's in Chinese but Google translate will help you). However Chinese authorities have now released statements that they were 'just friends' and so all evidence of their relationship is currently being scrubbed from the media. Western media has followed the lead and in the very few stories on the case the lesbian couple are always referred to as 'friends'.

Additionally the police seem to be trying to garner sympathy for the murderer by framing him as mentally ill (lol who cares) and that the attack was just random and not a lesbophobic hate crime (which if you watch the footage, that is absolutely not the case, out of the whole crowd of people he picked the butch lesbian and just kept laying into her and only her, this was definitely a targeted hate crime).

So in conclusion; as is often the case with lesbophobic hate crimes this is being made to disappear. However in this instance there is plenty of evidence and footage of what really happened. Authorities are urging people not to watch or share the footage because it's disturbing, and that's exactly why you should watch and share it. This is the disturbing reality for most lesbians around the world. It adds insult to injury when these types of lesbophobic hate crimes are covered up, watered down and made more palatable (i.e. non-existent) to the heterosexual masses.

The deliberate erasure of lesbophobia is why we have a LGBTQIA2SSP++ movement that thinks the letters are arranged in order of societal privilege. They have to erase the experiences of lesbians to maintain their fantasy world, and we gotta start making it harder for them to do that by shoving reality in their face. Even if that reality is gruesome.

(as an aside the TRA movement is already getting their meat hooks into this bc Fang Xiaotong's English name is Daniel, but it's common for Chinese butch lesbians to choose a male English name, and it's not necessarily an indication of 'trans', especially when all of Fang's friends and relatives know her as a lesbian woman, but TRAs gotta narrate the lesbophobia out of this somehow🤷‍♀️)

In any case, I think it's important to share the truth of this hate crime and the lesbian couple who were targeted. The footage of Fang Xiaotong and Liu Jixi's murders is difficult but important to watch, if only to see how this man specifically targeted Fang Xiaotong and to witness Liu Jixi's bravery in trying to save her girlfriend when no one else would.

You can see the footage of this hate crime here (at least before some heterosexual gets it scrubbed from Twitter). Do be warned though, this ain't no dude getting misgendered at a cafe, this is what an actual hate crime looks like.

#lesbian #lgb #lesbophobia #pride month #hate crime

[glassknee]

Do you really believe Wildbow is Deaf? You don't have to be all that perceptive to realize that he made it up to distract from the racism, homophobia, misogyny, lesbophobia, ableism, classism, Sinophobia, anti-Semitism, fatphobia, genocidal rhetoric, neoliberal faux-centrist bullshit, Americentrism, Gamergate-style geek anti-feminism, bog standard MAGA tough-on-crime right-wing sentiment and general incel shittiness. Before repeating something, think critically about the source. You don't need to do the man's work for him. He's not Deaf, just a typical lazy and entitled overgrown little boy who won't even put a trigger warning on his own garbage.

Uh. Do u think they will just like. Put a cochlear implant in someone’s head with no tests? Or like do u think he is that committed to the bit. This is honestly just kind of a batshit thing to say. Also do u think Deaf people,,, can’t be racist and homophobic and all that stuff ?? Also kind of insane ngl. Also the no trigger warning is just. Factually untrue. You can go to the first page of any of his web serials and see the trigger warning Right There. What.

#wormblr #worm parahumans #worm web serial #twig web serial #twigblr #twig #twig wildbow #pact web serial #wildbow