#grow up and block the person

[batwynn]

I’m seeing a weird uptick in people commenting nasty stuff on people’s non-cat/dog pet stuff again and not so gentle reminder:

Your phobia or dislike of certain animals does not give you the right to harass and bully people who love and share them.

Use the blacklist tag like a normal human being, and leave people who love rats or snakes or bugs etc. the fuck alone.

#pets #bully behavior #rats #snakes #bugs #stop being little shits Jfc #grow up and block the person #black list the tag #wtfever to curate your experiences online #but you don’t go after someone for sharing their fucking pet spider or whatever?? #it literally has nothing to do with you #phobias are NOT AN EXCUSE TO BE A SHITHEAD #I expect half of y’all not to see this because you’ve already grown up enough to black list words and hashtags #right? #we’re moving on from highschool behavior? #RIGHT?? #here we go #tw: spiders #tw: snakes #tw: rats #tw: bugs

[measuringbliss]

People are acting so weird and possessive of Markiplier for the whole OnlyFans situation. He's an adult. He's an adult who's been a celebrity for years. He knows people thirst on him. That's why he had this idea in the first place. He's not some naive kid you must protect. He's not some innocent soul that the evil sluts of Tumblr and Twitter will corrupt. He knows the Internet, he knows his fans and he knows his job.

He's an adult and he can make his own choices.

#Markiplier #I've seen quite a few comments expressing discomfort and like. You can just. Not subscribe to his OF???? #That's a possibility. You can block people too. #I think some of you really need to learn about parasocial relationships and reflect on it #He's not your dad #He's not your friend #He's just a dude #A dude who has a job and it just so happens that his job revolves around appearing personable #Don't forget that you don't truly know him and MORE IMPORTANTLY he doesn't know YOU #He probably has various ideas on xho his fans are as subgroups but he doesn't know you personally #Actually it reminds me of Maisee Williams in GoT s8 #People had seen her (the character and the actress) grow up over the years and when she decided she wanted to do a nude scene #A lot of people said they were uncomfortable #In both cases. They're adults. They can do whatever they want. #I guess that was a rant but sometimes I find the fandom really off-putting #Deactivated reblogs because the RBs were getting boring and a pain

[redysetdare]

Some of you will see a character that is actively repulsed by romance/sex and heavily non-partner coded (sometimes they even actively just say that they do not want a relationship!) and y'all will still respond with "But aros/aces can still date and have sex!!" like okay bud it'd be so much easier for you to say you don't respect repulsed and non-partnering aros and aces. stop beating around the bush trying to pretend to be oh so supportive when you obviously feel uncomfortable about our existence even in fiction.

#text #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #non-partnering #non partnering #nonpartnering #just admit that you don't respect repulsed and non-partnering identities buddy it'll be so much easier to block u that way #like do you realize how stupid you sound when you guys do this sort of thing? #all for what? shipping??? because being aphobic is fun to you??? because you dont like looking critically at your biases??? #because you're so set on believing your a good person that challenging that to actually be one is way too hard and uncomfortable for you? #'people can ship what they want' yeah and people can judge you for it too #people can judge who you are and if they trust or like you based off your actions #shocking isn't it? #some of y'all sound like children going “but but but if i cant ignore their identity then how will i have fun” like grow tf up #you have a million other characters that you can play with in the way you like #not having access to one is not going to kill you or ruin your life

[musicalchaos07]

No you don't understand Jonathan has to break the cycle or else what the fuck was the point

#like you don't get it Will wasn't parentfied that's not part of his story #that's why Jonathan has to go to college #or they've just fucking wasted an amazing character for no reason #he had to start living for himself that's his happy ending #and OF COURSE it includes his family but he deserves to be his own person #and want his own wants without feeling guilty #like he can't just d word that's so unsatisfying #ALSO HE HAS TO GROW UP SO THAT WILL CAN #like it's a dominoes #.... ok now I'm done #if i wake up haters i will be blocking #jonathan byers #stranger things

[bumblingbabooshka]

Christina is the main character of Moral Orel...to Me

#Bloberta is also the main character #I drew these while dissociating BIG time -peace sign as I vanish- #moral orel #Christina Posabule #Bloberta #Shapey Puppington #Orel Puppington #Poppit Posabule #That's everyone! #moral orel art #bee doodles #thinking about Christina's brother going missing and no one around her caring #Shapey grows up to be an incredibly irritable and fastidious person due to wanting to be close to Bloberta #He gets into fights with Orel literally everytime they meet but Orel keeps trying #He's also like...a door-to-door bible salesman or something #Christina's arm gets hurt...parallel to Orel's leg #and yes her mom did it v_v #I didn't draw Block here but I think he'd calm down as he got older...not as attatched to any of his family (Posabule or Puppington) #Still close with Shapey but also close to Christina and Orel

[sir-ballister-boldheart]

Stop sending me DMs about ships you personally find gross, even if it is to rant. I have those tags blocked, precisely so I can avoid them and sending those to me defeats that purpose.

If the ship bothers you so much, then be an adult and block it instead of sending it to random people.

#grow up and act like an adult in fandom #or get your ass blocked #sorry i am angry but this has happened so many times #personal #nimona #<- target audience #because somehow i never faced this problem in musketeers

[moregraceful]

Photos: 1. Blossoms on I think the plum tree, taken on film; 2. Jake Oettinger grappling with Miro Heiskanen while Jason Robertson and Roope Hintz look on; 3. Flowers and shadows at midnight.

#having like eight different mental breakdowns rolled into one atm and like don't even know how to talk about them #like where do i start. it started eight months ago. it started two years ago. it started 35 years #ago. #i said i would have * done by tonight bc it would open up some job opportunities but every time i look at google docs i scream #i may need to handwrite it #and people at * being like oh you look tired. well i am tired. you people make me very tired. but you do not care #and it's like how much of this was preventable vs how much is just someone pulling out that last loadbearing block in the jenga tower of my #sanity and now it's all falling down #i made a list last night to compare things that would make me sad about doing * vs things that fill me with hope and curiosity and quiet joy #the hope/curiosity/quiet joys list was a lot longer #i swear every third text message i send beryl is like hi. i'm spiralling. again. but then i'll say to someone else and theyre like wow have #you tried not spiraling? #well i love to do that personally but every time i try something massively destabilizing happens #it's so interesting (it's not interesting) #angela sent a wonderful prompt about sleep deprived demon summoning #and being as i am on that shit i thought ok what if cale summons a demon due to sleep deprivation #but the demon is simply his younger self. happier #less ground down. more bright-eyed. easier to smile. doesn't feel the weight of expectation #voice like you hear in a recording of yourself five years ago and it's you but it's not you #it's him but it's not him because it's also a little evil. what if you hadn't looked the other way #what if you said something. what if you found your voice. what if you let your heart grow open rather than grow cold. #the demon of a cale who is less serious and more open less selfish and more giving #and he calls devon in the night and devon ends up at his house with two cales the one he loves and the one he always wishes he'd known #before the nhl ground it out of him #and then devon has to decide who does he keep the now cale he loves or the old happier gentler cale #and as i was contemplating thaf i thought hm. it's possible i'm sublimating some things there #like i am to be clear a way happier and more well-adjusted person overall than i was five years ago #but rn i'm also an animal with its leg in a trap growing increasingly desperate and frantic #fresno oilers.txt

[veshialles]

can't even find the post this ask was originally about and barely remember the context of what it even actually said at this point, but like.. since we're throwing up scenarios here, imagine policing the labels and experiences of random individual people you've never even met in 2024, and then projecting that onto me, an openly bisexual transfemme dyke on the tranny dyke faggot anarchy website, and getting mad because of a silly post that I vaguely remember reblogging from my trans lesbian roommate and best friend, and then deciding to block your decade-long mutual about it (and telling your partner to also block me about it) and telling me behind my back to kill myself because I didn't give you the cheerfully apologetic response you wanted in time, on account of me having a job and a social life lmfao.

hope you are out there finally touching grass somewhere. fucking bye I guess lmfao 💖

#ruby rambles #kinda hurtful that someone I thought was a friend blocked me over a tumblr post #instead of actually. you know. approaching me like 'hey i think this specific post you shared was kinda misinformed and here's why' #you know. like a mature adult person with communication skills might do for example #and yeah kinda sucks that I didn't even find out about this until checking my ask box like a month later #and had to do some fucking sleuthing to even realize it had happened at all #but then again if this is how you react to a post I can't even find anymore. grow up and get well soon I guess?? #anyways.. god this is so stupid why am I engaging with this at all lmfaooo

[thekidsare-not-alright]

hey maybe don't make mean-spirited memes about real people you interact with online. yes even if they did bad things etc. you don't have to be a jerk in return

#yes this is about fobtwt #just leave it alone!! #block and move on! #yall did your call out posts! #grow the FUCK up and get on with your life #you can't possibly claim to want this person to become a better person (which should be the goal) and simultaneously shit on them unprompte #just say you don't actually believe in rehabilitation. just admit it.

[altschmerzes]

getting real tired of people who are shitting on “found family” more generally as a narrative concept and specifically named familial dynamics in fan interpretation of characters in particular because it all seems to be getting painted with a really wide and really homogenous brush. “we need to take found family away from people because they think it all has to be In Nuclear Family Terms and do you know friendship exists and you don’t have to call these characters siblings to legitimize their relationship while making it clear you Don’t Ship Them Ew Gross and THEN you sneer at people who Do ship them” cool cool that is a lot of really intense characterization and assigning of motive to other people en bloc!

like sure there’s some meaningful critique to be found in a broad trend to label every single relationship directly and specifically with terms that have very specific contexts and roles but im waiting to be told when anyone IS by the standards of people making and reblogging these very sweepingly generalized posts allowed to call a relationship parental or whatever. is that Ever allowed. who is handing out the permits. sometimes a specific term for a relationship isn’t actually about wanting an excuse to sneer about your ship (and frankly there’s a lot of projection going on there imo from people who are actively sneering about other people’s interpretation of a relationship!) and it’s because there are very specific contexts and details about a dynamic that makes exploring it from the lens of siblings or whatever very rich and compelling and interesting because words mean things and assuming everyone is just being reductive and demanding conformity to a nuclear family is, ironically, really reductive.

so like. cool it. stop being really fucking mean about people having an interpretation of a dynamic you personally don’t like or makes you feel a little weird or uncomfy because you ship them.

#gav gab #im so tired of seeing people do this lmao #is someone actually being reductive and trying to get your ship labeled ‘basically incest’ #or did they just express on their own blog that they don’t ship something bc they see those characters as siblings #so it feels weird to them #you know #the exact personal preference and interpretation you’re expressing in the opposite #it’s all ‘UGH not every relationship NEEDS A SPECIFIC LABEL’ as soon as the label isn’t romantic lmao #like amazing of you to start caring about how friendship matters as is legitimate without anything else #as soon as it’s not about your fucking ship anymore :) #be real you do not care about friendship lmao you can just dismiss it more easily and comfortably #when people aren’t using terms that are more loaded to your ship #are the big meanie found family enjoyers actually harassing you for shipping fake incest #or are you just uncomfortable when it is not about you #and chronically unwilling to curate your experience the way you demand other people to #because fandom has always catered to shipping and why should it ever Not be expected to do that #bc I sure see a lot of shit talking of familial dynamic labels based on people who use those labels being weird to other people #and not a lot if any of those people actually being weird to shippers #and one or two isolated incidents is not indicative of a widespread problem #do what everyone who doesn’t like a popular ship does and unfollow and block lmfao grow up

[bandtrees]

sadly kicks a rock

#babbles #negative #dont check on ex friend you blocked for being secret homophobe worst mistake of my life #i was having a very nice night but i did that and now i wanna go in the ground #its been a bit over a year since that and apparently nothing has been learned. man #i have cool awesome friends presently i am far happier with than i was with the uwu wholesome Nice Christian but as easy as that is to say #still fucked me up preddy bad and i thought i was more over it than i was but it was pretty catastrophic to my mental health when it happen #(everyone say thank you mp100 for being the thing that took over my brain to get me outta that) #anyway (data expunged) Change and grow as a person. #i go to sleep now honk shoo goodnight all my friends i love you soooooooooo muches

[be-queer-do-arson]

My heart is wrung to heck and back every time i see someone be a complete dick to nora. Like being critical and not liking the books is fine but some people are outright ghoulish??? Which extra sucks because i see her posts and she seems nice :(

Yeah I'm with you anon. Every time I see someone directly being nasty to Nora as a person it makes me feel awful. Brief PSA! Thinking critically and thoughtfully critiquing lit is fine. Good, even. But some of people are literally behaving like middleschool cyberbullies. Empathy is free and so is the block button.

#cyberbulling a whole REAL person on line is not the answer please grow the fuck up #i assume i was sent this ask due to my aggressive 'i will block you if youre genuinely nasty' psa s and i appreciate it

[joyridingmp3]

i have been doing this thing where i have been accidentally eating nutritious meals, not drinking caffeine, not smoking, not drinking alcohol, and not eating any junk food and holy shit i feel amazing??? my mood has just increased so much and I'm NEVER tired and I've been having rare if no negative thoughts. has anyone heard of being healthy this is insane?

#to be fair i smoked like 4 times in the last two weeks #bc those were stressful days #but also considering everything else I've given up im fine with that #the fact that i #a guy who struggled with body image and anorexia and bulimia and binge eating and has an insane sweet tooth #bought a block of chocolate #over two weeks ago #and I still haven't eaten it #because I've been like. eating proper meals #is HUUUGE #i can't believe it! #my skin is glowing! a bunch of my coworkers complimented me earlier this week #i know what I'm like and I'm not going to completely cut out chocolate or anything #but the fact that i haven't even Wanted it is just insane to me #I've also been setting so many boundaries at work and in my personal life #not doing things that i don't want to do #this last month has just been amazing #ever since my naming ceremony ever since november i feel like I've literally physically (as well as figuratively re singing lessons) #cut out all of my shit that I've accidentally let grow #guy who recently discovered eating 3 nutritious meals a day: hey has anyone heard of this? #i do want to do more strength based exercise for my longevity just in case I'm fortunate enough to make it to old age #so I'll buy some weights later on but I've been doing yoga for now which has been cool #never thought I'd be this kinda person #I just kind of assumed I'd be living off monster energy zero and cigarettes for the rest of my life #I've also been enjoying logging all of my food that I eat into my phone app #because it breaks down how much of which vitamins and other nutrients you've eaten #and shows you where from #mine #anyway. this is the most sober and heslthy I've perhaps ever been in my life and holy shit this is transformative for me #feels weird to say it but I'm so glad i got sick that one week and went off food and coffee and cigarettes

[shinesurge]

that thing where you're sailing along in your little boat and a very very big shadow passes underneath you and you both go on without interacting but you are suddenly aware it's there,

#i just got recommended an 'anti-radqueer' blog and scrolled passed this while i was blocking everybody lmao #i have no idea where the poison in the well water is coming from but i guess it does #have the benefit of growing my blocklist every time this shit comes up lmfao #it's fucking WILD that this same person who posted this is a fan of a blog supporting purity culture #furries make jesus sad but yandere is a term to be reclaimed by borderlines i think i will walk into the sea today

[mechieonu]

idk if this problematic in some way but i keep hope for a free palestine alive by being mad

#the people i put in power are denying w genocide snd smiling at me the whole time #the supreme court is going to take on a case abt whther the unhoused deserve blankets and pillows #medicine and food get more and more expensive and the rich continue to get richer #the commander in chief that I VOTED FOR bypassed congress #—not for student loans‚ or to stop building the wall (WHY are we still fucking building it!) #but to fund millions to israel. to kill innocent men women and children. #and i'm 21 and im wondering if the world has always been like this or if i'm just opening my eyes and growing up #so many things i've been taught by the US that i have to question #along with being angry a lot of my hope has been in ordinary people #from those blocking freeeways and airports and boats to the person who's been writing free palestine on my uni's white boards #in any case this is just a really long rant. i don't think any of us will be the same. #as always #free palestine

[sillysadduck]

yeah I understand some people get upset by the way I draw the main trio but have you considered I don't give a fuck and I'm too old for this shit

#still blocking annoying ppl since they cant seem to grow the fuck up and unfollow me if I make them so uncomfortable #personal