#grieving father

[alwaysbewoke]

My goodness!!!

#incel #violence against black women #violence against black girls #Samyia Spain #brooklyn #new york #deli #stabbing #twin sisters #veo kelly #park slope #assault #murder #criminal possession of a weapon #rejection #aggression #tragedy #violence #investigation #search #criminal history #robbery charges #community reaction #vigil #grieving father #women's safety #pressure to give phone numbers #public gathering place #neighborhood impact #emotional toll

[jellyfosh]

MT X Undertale ‘My child’

Was listening to Undertale Musical while drawing, then i heard Toriel’s theme Heartache. And it made me think of Mango, of course theres also Asgore but let the man grieve here.

Mango Tango, dressed as the Caretaker

#animator vs animation #animator vs minecraft #avm #ava #avm king orange #avm king mango #Grieving father #avm mt #avm mango #avm MT as Toriel

[lillianforest22]

The vod is up and I’m watching the part of the stream I wasn’t there for and man this is emotional I miss Juana flippa

#Qsmp #Juana flippa #q!charlie slimecicle #grieving father #Charlie is an amazing actor #Juana flippa 😭😭😭😭

[evilhorse]

I am the Hammer, Weiss.

#nexus #Judah Maccabee #Judah the hammer #the hammer #grieving father #good #the future #space opera #Roger salick #steve epting #first comics #dark horse comics #comics #80s comics

[nerdpoe]

Little Zuko and little Azula love Lu Ten. They love Lu Ten so much, they successfully smuggled themselves into Lu Ten's baggage when Lu Ten left to go fight.

Lu Ten, meanwhile, finds out that his little cousins snuck along for the ride way too late.

He knows they're gonna lose the fight.

He isn't about to let a couple of little kids die like that, murdered by Ba Sing Se soldiers too hyped up by war.

He may have been prepared to put his own life on the line, but he's not sacrificing Zuko or Azula's. But he also knows that if he flees the field with them, then Ozai will absolutely use that as an excuse to "punish" his own children.

Lu Ten does not want to know what that punishment entails. He is, in fact, more terrified by whatever it may be than the literal war raging outside his tent.

So.

So.

He swallows his pride for his country, his love for his father, and his dreams of being a successful general.

He grabs the kids, fakes his death, and runs.

#atla au #atla #lu ten #azula #zuko #zuko and azula raised by a stressed and trying lu ten #iroh still grieves #but during his journeys he realizes that lu ten probably isn't dead #but he steers clear of where he thinks lu ten went because he doesn't want to lead ozai to him #he has the order watch over them from afar #ozai still had his father killed #but his meeting was interrupted by ursa instead #so he challenged her to agni kai #and scarred her #and ursa is the one banished from the fire nation in search of the avatar #iroh went along with her #but she intends to help the avatar destroy the fire nation #since it is the one that took her son and daughter #story prompt

[lolottes]

Bruce Wayne is the reincarnation of Jack Fenton 1

The trauma of losing his family so early in his new personal development has vaguely awakened some of his memories where he also lost his family in his previous life. He has to be better this time, not repeat his mistakes, not be so careless this time HE HAS TO!

When he sees Dick and picks him up, he feels like he's missing someone.

When Barbara joins their duo, things get worse.

When he takes Jason in, it calms down slightly… only to go to hell when he dies.

When Tim arrives he has to do it by force because he feels like he's failed once again and doesn't deserve the trust of a new boy…

After returning from the time stream, he meets Damian ... the green eyes… he feels like… he's seen him before? But all his behavior is wrong and the impression disappears… partially, he MUST help this his boy to be better!

It begins to have different nightmares ... nightmares White and Green Lazare

As Jason comes back from the dead, he feels like he's walking on eggshells, after all he's already failed once at accepting dead… he's not sure why

Things seem to be improving, he also welcomes Cass who seems right, then Duke who seems different but close to something he already knew good

Then comes an invocation of worship that he was unable to prevent, the circle breathes an icy breath into the room and the ice crystals regroup to take on a lazarus green hue… but strangely… he did not not afraid, he is nervous, he feels guilty, but he is not afraid… the ice takes on black and white hues and becomes a humanoid silhouette

Green eyes open

Danny: DAD?!????

Suffice to say that the still young king was not ready to see his father again, his dead father… just after a big argument with his mother after a revelation which made her flee, then the news of his death had him banished himself and all the ghosts of his home world from their land to the zone because the GiW had got their hands on their patent and they had to cut this reality from the multiverse to avoid the destruction of the latter. It was hard and…

For Danny it didn't last a week

tomorrow I will publish a version with fewer details

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dc x dp #dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #dc x dp crossover #danny phantom #danny fenton #batman #reincarnation #jack fenton #Danny doesn't know all the facts surrounding his parents' deaths #trauma and regret from a past life #buried memory #Danny and Damian look a lot alike #time does not unfold in the same way in DC and in DP #Danny has not had time to grieve #he recognizes the silhouette of his father in the bat costume #which is a costume no more ridiculous than his protective suit for him #but also his soul unconsciously #batfam #They are very confused #Cass whispers in the comms “new brother?” in an exiting manner #I hope you like this prompt #my #my prompts #prompts

[strawberrytalia]

the fandom’s twisted takes on jack drake and tim kind of make me sad because i feel like its canon state is the most realistic, relatable, and ‘heartwrenching in its own way’ form of a parent-child relationship. jack loves tim, but fails to communicate that properly. he doesn’t understand tim. the lack of dialogue between two people who love each other, but physically can’t express it, especially from the parental side, is a pain that is so valid and one that i’m sure many people can understand.

making jack abusive also takes away so much of tim’s canon grief and devastation. tim loved his father! he gave up robin for him! in their very last moments, he was crying and telling his father how much he loved him and to just hold on a little longer. and then the utter tragedy of arriving just seconds late to the sight of his father’s corpse.

and the added context that jack drake wasn’t even murdered intentionally, it was a freak accident part of a larger scheme that didn’t even involve tim at all. can you imagine tim’s anger?? the bitterness???

anyways… i think the story of losing one’s parent and spending forever thinking about all the unsaid words, regretting what you did say, being angry at the circumstances, wishing for anything to bring them back, holds so much weight on its own and it really doesn’t need unnecessary non-canon details of jack being abusive or cruel when that wasn’t the case. you don’t need to vilify everyone. i know he was FAR from perfect but he did love tim, and tim loved him back and he will likely grieve for him forever.

#tim drake #jack drake #really hate the black or white thinking here #why does everyone feel the need to make everything solidly good or bad #also same for people who vilify dick in favor of tim #and love to ignore that dick was also grieving his father and thrusted into a role he didn’t want #like i’m so curious on why none of you can hold sympathy for more than one person lol

[spacedustmantis]

charlie slimecicle is like barbie in the sense that he too can be anything

#a fish. a god. a zombie apocalypse survivor. a grieving father. danny phantom but less misogynistic. #a pile of goo that consumes a hundred souls. a pile of goo that has a normal human amount of bones. autism incarnate (who also becomes god) #a gay little twink who fucked up bad. some guy. etc #slimecicle #buggy thoughts

[pookiebearsnookumsalicent]

the monster's gone, he's on the run

and your daddy's here

(@lawolfe you've been waiting for this one girly😘)

#click for better quality #his six-fingered son who made his palms itch and his stomach turn #was just a beautiful little boy with a kind smile #he was beautiful and darling and now he's dead #and he never knew what it was like to be loved by his father #and he would never know how he was grieved #interpretation far from what's canon #but i'm writing a fic so what i say goes🤷‍♀️ #team green #aegon ii targaryen #jaehaerys targaryen #hotd fanart #asoiaf #f&b #john lennon wrote beautiful boy and was notoriously a bad father

[frobby]

I think one of the funniest framings of the first ep of blue exorcist is hypothetically Yukio and bon met cuz they originally shared a dorm only for Yukio to immediately leave and not return until a week later and now he's his teacher

#I'm fully assuming Yukio went home for his father's funeral prep cuz it would be weird if he didn't #It's actually really weird we don't see him the day of but the funeral had already ended when we see rin grieving so that's prolly why #I get its a narrative set up so we don't see Yukio since he left until he's revealed cuz rin is the protag but still #Anyway that was prolly really weird for bon especially cuz it's never mentioned #I'm also assuming the exwires didn't know Yukio would be teaching cuz it was a sudden change since Shiro was supposed to teach originally #I'm just now realizing this would stress me the fuck out #I cant believe rin went to school right after his father's funeral like take a week off or something #None of these notes are actually about this post #Take all of this as you will #blue exorcist #ao no exorcist #yukio okumura #ryuuji suguro

[anthurak]

The dichotomy of Raven Branwen and Taiyang Xiao Long is that the latter is a generally good person but a TERRIBLE father, while the former is many bad things but a 'bad mother' is NOT one of them. Or at the very least, she's not any worse than her teammates.

Why?

Well for one, because when Raven left her daughter(s), she made sure they were left in the care of people she trusted to raise and take care of them because she believed she was unfit to raise them ("You're better at that life. Better than I was").

While when Tai effectively checked out of his daughters' lives to the point where BOTH have stated up-front and matter-of-factly that Yang raised Ruby, it's pretty clear that he DID NOT.

(Also please note that I am not saying that Raven is a 'good' mother. NONE of Team STRQ were 'good' parents. They ALL failed Ruby and Yang in one way or another. It's just that some people seem insistent on giving Tai a free pass just because he doesn't fit the typical/generic 'shitty dad' traits and also isn't a woman.)

#rwby #rwby analysis #Raven Branwen #Taiyang Xiao Long #Ruby Rose #Yang Xiao Long #Raven is NOT a bad mother #Tai is NOT a good father #when you effectively check out of your kids' lives to the point where they can BOTH state matter of factly that the older RAISED the young #it doesn't matter WHAT your reasons were or how bad you were grieving #you have unequivocally MASSIVELY fucked up as a parent

[autisticredhood]

i dunno i kinda like how bruce deals w his grief about jason. like as a jason fan at first i hattteeddd bruce’s reaction but its compelling im not going to lie!! ppl sometimes see it as he doesn’t love jason but i see it as a sign of how MUCH he loves jason. like guys!! That is his little boy!! His child!! his son DIED and he didn’t get there in time to save him. Batman was created to make sure no child loses their parent and Robin is created in relation to Batman, and jason dies in his Robin suit. Becoming Batman to cope w his loss of family doomed him to losing future family. It’s all his fault!!! Don’t you get it??? This little boy who was brilliant and so full of potential and his son!!! His family!!! DIED because of BRUCE. Bruce tried taking Robin from him to prevent this and by doing so he sealed Jason’s fate! He killed jason. He killed his family.

Now how the FUCK is Bruce supposed to go on living with that stone sitting inside his ribs every second of every day?? Your parents die, you become Batman. Your son dies BECAUSE your Batman, what do you fucking do?? another kid forces his way into the mantle how do you live with yourself seeing another child in the suit that will forever be marked by death in your eyes?? you think he can cope w seeing a kid in that suit and not hate himself for it??

Bruce’s love for jason will kill him if he thinks about it. His grief broke him, keeps breaking him. The mind will do anything to find a way to cope, to twist things to make things a bit more bearable. So maybe jason was always destined for tragedy maybe there was nothing Bruce could have done to stop this, jason was too headstrong and brash for Bruce to have prevented it. Like these are just desperate prayers to me!!! To me it’s Bruce screaming PLEASE PLEASE tell me there is nothing I could have done PLEASE if he was too angry maybe it won’t hurt so bad maybe I will be able to sleep maybe I can live with it please please I can make this okay if he was a bad robin I don’t know what I believe anymore I just know I can’t believe in a world where my amazing kid is gone because of me <- he is a little child with his eyes shut and covering his ears refusing to look at what is in front of him because he thinks he’ll die if he does

that being said his coldness in utrh is a bullshit lol. but before hes confronted w his son resurrected i think his grief makes sense

#like does it suck ass to tarnish a young child’s memory? yes. but does it make sense for a grieving father only a few years after the death #of his young child? also yes #it compels me!!! grief is messy and ugly and doesn’t make sense and can be unkind #um lol did not mean to go this long #my very correct opinions

[sadboyjacinter]

sometimes when im feeling emo i like to think abt dracula and the agony he felt in hurting alucard but then ALSO look at how alucard who had to try and stop his father also saw that he was just grieving and Sad and it makes me insane. how do u hate someone u love and how do u stop someone in pain? how do u grieve someone u know did wrong but they were still ur Father?

#i will never be able to articulate the pain of having a father and the torment that comes with him being a fully fleshed human #dracula oh the grieving man you are #dracula castlevania #castlevania #agony agony agony #alucard #alucard castlevania

[stagefoureddiediaz]

Currently feeling a bit feral over the fact that Natalia means Christmas Day - as in the birth of Jesus Christ and Bucks story is so heavily leaning into the birth death and resurrection of Christ - the saviour - as a central part of his narrative arc. Her presence is literally about the birth of buck - as in processing his grief about why he was born - as a saviour baby.

#Buck hasn’t processed that trauma that dates back to his birth #he was never allowed to grieve the brother he didn’t know he had #and then he was in a coma where he created this version of Daniel - a deep rooted trauma response in itself #but that’s brought the Daniel of it all closer to the surface of his concious #and he needs to process and grieve and allow himself to move on from that #and I think Natalia the death doula is a key part of this - because she is ideally situated to help him process that specific trauma #this isn’t so much about his own recent brush with death (although it’s part of it) it’s about going back to the beginning and processing #he needs to deal with the Daniel of it all before he can deal with everything else #in the same way we had Eddie going back to his own root trauma - with his father - and processing and dealing with things #via frank. this is just Buck taking a different path which will have a similar outcome #yes Buck May date her as he goes through this process but ultimately he’s attracted to her metaphysically - because she can help him #not because he’s actually attracted to her romantically #also the show has doesn’t too much time recently showing us the buddifer family - to ensure we can see where things are heading #before it continues to process their trauma #thinky thoughts #911 spoilers #911 on fox #911 fox #911onfox #evan buckley

[tojisun]

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#thinking about biblical stories outside of sanctified scripture again #god had asked that abraham sacrifice his son #do you think he knew that one day he was going to have to sacrifice his own son too #that he had his first most faithful follower show him what it must be for humans to grieve and to obey - because was it truly inevitable? #this thing that fathers must do for the 'people'? #or maybe he didn't know - that his powers actually cannot grant him the ability to foresee #do you think about how as he sat there on his throne while his son was brought onto the cross he felt abraham turn to him in silence #''do you feel the ache?'' abraham doesn't ask but he doesn't need to #sun rambles

[gears2gnomes]

Even after six years I still miss you Papa.

#daily comic #me #gnome #color #graveyard #tombstone #grieving #6 years #father #dad