#gay fathers

[noonesgaylikegatson]

Happy Father’s Day!

#gmadi #gay men #trans men #gay fathers #lgbtq #trans fathers #trans kids #lgbt #happy pride month #happy pride

[violadea]

Purecacao 😇

That was the hardest art I've drawn in a while

#cookie run kingdom #dark cacao cookie #pure vanilla cookie #gay #purecacao #digital art #artists on tumblr #pure vanilla crk #dark cacao crk #fanart #gay fathers

[sonatadawn]

#Family #stardew elliott #elliott stardew valley #sdv elliott #neuvillette #neuvilette genshin #genshin neuvillette #ibuki mioda #mioda ibuki #tsumugi shirogane #shirogane tsumugi #be worried for my sanity #Neuvillelliott #Elliot x Neuvillette #Neuvillette x Elliott #Gay fathers #Cosplay sister #Scene heavy metal sister #All dramatic #gay dads au #/j #/joke #/j obviously #/silly

[lenbryant]

"Just five more minutes, Daddy." The playground in West Hollywood Park has this memorial to a little boy and his two dads who were killed on 9/11.

#david reed gamboa brandhorst #9/11 #september 11 #west hollywood #memorial #lgbt #lgbt+ #gay fathers #gay parenting

[yellowflowerartz]

Happy Fathers Day and Pride Month!!

I decided to put the two holidays together to draw one of my magical girl ocs, Unity Cloud, and her two dads. Unity Cloud, from my personal magical girl project, Mystical Unity, is the daughter of her two dads, Gavin and Arin. Gavin is her biological father from a previous marriage and is a book author and househusband. He’s very protective of Cloud and will do anything to make her happy. Arin is her stepdad and favorite of the two. He’s a bodybuilder and gym coach by day, and a cook by night.

#magical girl #magical girl oc #mahou shoujo #personal project #original character #oc stuff #anime #digital drawing #procreate #procreate art #happy pride 🌈 #pride month #pride 2022 #fathers day #happyfathersday #gay dads #gay fathers #digital artist #digital artwork #digital art

[noelledeltarune]

EVERY SINGLE DAY there are MILLIONS of characters in their late 20s who get falsely accused of being father figures to teenagers when in reality the description of "weird older cousin" or "step-sibling that moved out before you were born" is 1000000x more apt

#talk tag #IT KILLS ME. REIGEN IS NOT MOB'S DAD. HE HAS A DAD. INGO IS NOT AKARI'S DAD. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CAN ANYONE HEAR ME #(not even necessarily to say that ingo is in his late 20s but still) #(even if he was a 30-40-50 year old no matter how old he is no fucking teenager is gonna call some guy they met as a 15 year old ''dad'') #GAI IS NOT A FATHER FIGURE TO ROCK LEE HE WAS LIKE 13 WHEN HE WAS BORN! PLEASE!!!!!!!! #one time i saw that a ​person wrote a fic where mario was like a father figure to luigi. #they are TWIN BROTHERS. #not what this about but idk where else i can say anything about this. #just horrible #also sometimes someone is just An Older Friend like no familial relationship just a friend or acquaintance who is a lot older than you

[thisdadlife]

THIS DAD LIFE is an outlet to showcase our family, embrace our weird, and connect with people around the world. It's a channel for play, parenting, equality, creativity, and the occasional dance session.

#gay dads #this dad life #gay dad #two dads #gays with kids #same sex parents #lgbt family #twins #gay family #gay travel #modern family #family adventures #gay fathers #raising twins #family life #gay parenting #dad experiences

[bixels]

Learning that fans hated Applejack and called her "boring" is crazyyy to me because I genuinely, unironically believe AJ's the most complex character in the main six.

Backstory-wise, she was born into a family of famers/blue collar workers who helped found the town she lives in. She grew up a habitual liar until she had the bad habit traumatized outta her. She lost both her parents and was orphaned at a young age, having to step up as her baby sister's mother figure. She's the only person in the main gang who's experienced this level of loss and grief (A Royal Problem reveals that AJ dreams about memories of being held by her parents as a baby). She moved to Manhattan to live with her wealthy family members, only to realize she'll never fit in or be accepted, even amongst her own family. The earlier seasons imply she and her family had money problems too (In The Ticket Master, AJ wants to go to the gala to earn money to buy new farm equipment and afford hip surgery for her grandma).

Personality-wise, she's a total people-pleaser/steamroller (with an occasional savior complex) who places her self worth on her independence and usefulness for other people, causing her to become a complete workaholic. In Applebuck Season, AJ stops taking care of herself because of her obsessive responsibilities for others and becomes completely dysfunctional. In Apple Family Reunion, AJ has a tearful breakdown because in she thinks she dishonored her family and tarnished her reputation as a potential leader –– an expectation and anxiety that's directly tied to her deceased parents, as shown in the episode's ending scene. In The Last Roundup, AJ abandons her family and friends out of shame because believes she failed them by not earning 1st place in a rodeo competition. She completely spirals emotionally when she isn't able to fulfill her duties toward others. Her need to be the best manifests in intense pride and competitiveness when others challenge her. And when her pride's broken, she cowers and physically hides herself.

Moreover, it's strongly implied that AJ has a deep-seated anger. The comics explore her ranting outbursts more. EQG also obviously has AJ yelling at and insulting Rarity in a jealous fit just to hurt her feelings (with a line that I could write a whole dissection on). And I'm certain I read in a post somewhere that in a Gameloft event, AJ's negative traits are listed as anger.

Subtextually, a lot of these flaws and anxieties can be (retroactively) linked to her parents' death, forcing her to grow up too quickly to become the adult/caregiver of the family (especially after her big brother becomes semiverbal). Notice how throughout the series, she's constantly acting as the "mom friend" of the group (despite everything, she manages to be the most emotionally mature of the bunch). Notice how AJ'll switch to a quieter, calmer tone when her friends are panicking and use soothing prompts and questions to talk them through their emotions/problems; something she'd definitely pick up while raising a child. Same with her stoicism and reluctance at crying or releasing emotions (something Pinkie explicitly points out). She also had a childhood relationship with Rara (which, if you were to give a queer reading, could easy be interpreted as her first 'aha' crush), who eventually left her life. (Interestingly enough, AJ also has an angry outburst with Rara for the same exact reasons as with EQG Rarity; jealous, upset that someone else is using and changing her). It's not hard to imagine an AJ with separation anxiety stemming from her mother and childhood friend/crush leaving. I'm also not above reading into AJ's relationship with her little sister (Y'all ever think about how AB never got to know her parents, even though she shares her father's colors and her mother's curly hair?).

AJ's stubbornness is a symptom of growing up too quickly as well. Who else to play with your baby sister when your brother goes nonverbal (not to discount Big Mac's role in raising AB)? Who else to wake up in the middle of the night to care for your crying baby sister when your grandma needs her rest? When you need to be 100% all the time for your family, you tend to become hard-stuck with a sense of moral superiority. You know what's best because you have to be your best because if you're aren't your best, then everything'll inevitably fall apart and it'll be your fault. And if you don't know what's best –– if you've been wrong the whole time –– that means you haven't been your best, which means you've failed the people who rely on you, which means you can't fulfill your role in the family/society, which makes you worthless . We've seen time and time again how this compulsive need to be right for the sake of others becomes self-destructive (Apple Family Reunion, Sound of Silence, all competitions against RD). We've seen in The Last Roundup how, when no longer at her best, AJ would rather remove herself from her community than confront them because she no longer feels of use to them.

But I guess it is kinda weird that AJ has "masculine" traits and isn't interested in men at all. It's totally justified that an aggressively straight, misogynistic male fandom would characterize her as a "boring background character." /s

At the time of writing this, it's 4:46AM.

#mlp #yeah i wrote this last night during insomnia. #yeah i know an embarrassing amount of crap about this kids show #but whatever it's my hyperfixation i'll store as much useless information as i want!!! #i'm gay and neurodivergent i have an excuse #in case you needed more proof that aj's my favorite character #personal #delete later #unless you like this analysis stuff #i get why they didn't reveal aj's parent's death until way later and why they didn't do much with it but i wish they did #cuz narratively there could've been so much material with aj's grief. like. i feel like we gloss over the fact that she lost her #mother and father as a teenager #i tried keeping my personal hcs out of this to keep it unbiased #but i'll put some in the tags #involving rarijack –– i think aj can be (but not always) very self-conscious about her relationship with rarity #anxieties that she's not the right fit or that rarity will move away and leave her some day or that another woman will take her attention #(like in rollercoaster of friendship?? nudge nudge??). basic seperation anxiety stuff #long post #regarding applebloom whenever i think about her and her parents i think about that scene in steven universe where steven looks up at #a portrait of his mother and openly wonders what kind of sack lunches she would've made for him. that episode still fucks me up

[testoster0ne]

ken

#scruffy #masculine #gay #male #dad #bear #father's day #hole

[sphor-art]

ok yall im tentatively back

#hermitcraft #zedaph #absolutely not gonna watch every pov but ima sneak in a few episodes here and there #EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING THIS IS SLUTTY I DON'T MEAN IT TO BEEEEEEEE #FATHER FORGIVE ME FOR DRAWING HIM WITH A GAY LITTLE HIP THING #😭 #EDIT 2 : HE HAS HANDCUFFS BECAUSE OF THE INVENTORY THING GUYS PLEASE #YOU CANT DO THIS TO ME im never posfing again #stage 5 acceptance

[bestgaydragondads]

The child was just about cold to the touch, and she fit in Venn's hands snugly. He wondered if he was holding a stillborn until the baby reacted ever so slightly to his movements.

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first: https://bestgaydragondads.tumblr.com/post/702464353609334784/firsthere-next-tba-archive / previous: https://bestgaydragondads.tumblr.com/post/706540529008164864/it-had-been-about-a-few-months-or-so-of-venn / next: https://bestgaydragondads.tumblr.com/post/707004254800560128/venn-increased-his-body-temperature-in-hopes-of / archive: https://bestgaydragondads.tumblr.com/archive

Vitani belongs to https://www.deviantart.com/cryptidghost / Venn belongs to me

Deviantart version: https://www.deviantart.com/oniondragon/art/Hang-in-there-story-945607204

#staxies #staves rest #literature #original story #original characters #digital painting #dragons #magic #newborn #gay fathers #oc

[frecklenog]

#sorry. no i’m not #shut up emrys #finn mertens #farmworld finn #fionna and cake #fionna and cake spoilers #fac spoilers #f&c spoilers #anyway i’m gay for his traumatized lumberjack father ass #fav

[thehealingsystem]

It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.

You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.

It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.

#they treat these people as abnormal when really shoving anyone into categories of non-women and non-men is fucking #completely out of touch with how identity works #like i saw a demiboy lesbian flag and the comments are just FILLED with teenage queers getting so mad for no reason #saying shit like im in your walls or your father left you or whatever #please this is so CHILDISH grow UP #multigender #genderfluid #gay #lesbian #lesboy #turigirl #queer #lgbtq #just a he/they transmasc nonbinary boydyke lesbian VERY tired of this nonsense #actually erasure of multigender experience and that one of our genders will cancel out the other #made me very resistant to the fact that i may still be connected to feminity and girlhood #even though i am undoubtedly am #transmultiphobia

[neo--queen--serenity]

What do you mean this isn’t what happened

#buddy daddies #rei suwa #kazuki kurusu #miri unasaka #shigeki suwa #kazurei #he sees right through you rei #you can’t hide the gay from him #miri buddy daddies #rei buddy daddies #kazuki buddy daddies #never beating those gay allegations #neo queen serenity’s memes #buddy daddies spoilers #bd spoilers #like i know rei calls his dad ‘boss’ & not ‘father’ but it was better for my joke #sorry lmao #buddy daddy spoilers #buddy daddies memes

[circusinarun]

Our fav grandpa!

#my art #traditional drawing #rottmnt #nail art #rise of the tmnt #sketch #rottmnt leo #rise leo #bad future leo #future leonardo #leader #gay grandpa #my father

[star-rie]

canon merthur is so special because they’re ACTUALLY the only one who gets to accompany the other meeting each-other’s deadTM parents.

we saw arthur meeting ygraine only through merlin lens (+ the whole sigil thing????) and the only one who get to see merlin and balinor spend time with each-other is arthur

#oh and the villains lmao because they needed to kill said parents #because theyre dead and they met them in one scene/experience??? #plot was horrible though #theyre so gay its kinda funny #dead mom #dead father #when you put them together…. #ygraine #balinor #bbc merlin #merlin #merlin bbc #arthur pendragon #merthur #merlin emrys #arthur bbc #merlin x arthur #arthur x merlin #merlin prompt