#dating strategy

[alwaysbewoke]

a LOT of ladies failing this test. A LOT!!!

#dating strategy #accountability test #relationship compatibility #past relationship inquiries #screening potential partners #toxic traits #self-centered behavior #red flags #dating criteria #partner evaluation #relationship values

[oasisr]

That girl called Pick Me Pearl really is a sad case. I knew a few women like her in college. I hate to see self-hating women who preach Red Pill rhetoric.

#pick me #pick me pearl #tiktok #red pill #dating strategy #conservative #internalized misogyny #internalized sexism

[criogenica]

I thought this was gonna be a gag-worthy compilation of cliches about how "women have too high standards", or even about how "men bad and dirty and no women want that". But it was surprisingly insightful about the situation we find ourselves in: one in which human beings are though of as commodities instead of as humans. Some extracts: "The unfortunate coincidence is that the fine-tuned analysis of dating’s numbers game and the streamlining of its trial-and-error process of shopping around have taken place as dating’s definition has expanded from “the search for a suitable marriage partner” into something decidedly more ambiguous. Meanwhile, technologies have emerged that make the market more visible than ever to the average person, encouraging a ruthless mind-set of assigning “objective” values to potential partners and to ourselves—with little regard for the ways that framework might be weaponized. The idea that a population of single people can be analyzed like a market might be useful to some extent to sociologists or economists, but the widespread adoption of it by single people themselves can result in a warped outlook on love."

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"The logic is upsetting but clear: The (shaky) foundational idea of capitalism is that the market is unfailingly impartial and correct, and that its mechanisms of supply and demand and value exchange guarantee that everything is fair. It’s a dangerous metaphor to apply to human relationships, because introducing the idea that dating should be “fair” subsequently introduces the idea that there is someone who is responsible when it is unfair. When the market’s logic breaks down, it must mean someone is overriding the laws. And in online spaces populated by heterosexual men, heterosexual women have been charged with the bulk of these crimes."

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The idea of the dating market is appealing because a market is something a person can understand and try to manipulate. But fiddling with the inputs—by sending more messages, going on more dates, toggling and re-toggling search parameters, or even moving to a city with a better ratio—isn’t necessarily going to help anybody succeed on that market in a way that’s meaningful to them.

#dating #love #relationships #dating market #dating struggles #dating strategy #anti capitalist #commodification #algorithm #tinder #idk what else to tag this

[diaryofanenchantedprincess]

List of things to remember when u have a crush

1. Some girl has dumped him and never wants ANYTHING to do with him ever again

2. He’s probably talking to at least 2 other girls at the same time as you

3. His body count is probably uncomfortably high

4. There are other girls probably throwing themselves at him and he probably cannot resist temptation

5. He watches p*rn and is probably addicted

6. He’s most likely capable of looking you dead in the eye and lying for months on end. He will swear up and down on his mom, his dead grandma etc to get away with one pathetic lie

7. Lying about his height unnecessarily

8. Check his following on Instagram or TikTok. That is all

9. Probably has an ex that he fumbled and isn’t over her

10. He’s probably only talking to you because he wants to smash

11. Probably on a plethora of dating apps and is constantly searching for the next best thing

12. Probably listens to ‘alpha male’ podcasts and believes he’s the prize

#I’ll update this as I think about it but feel free to add more #this is about straight men but not limited lol #important reminders #self love #mine #it girl energy #it girl #dating #female dating strategy #relationships #crush #dream girl tips #dream girl #pink pilates girl #pink pilates princess #pinkcore #girlposting #girlblogger #hyper feminine #hyperfemininity #mental health #coquette #dollette #dark femininity #dark feminine energy #dark feminine aesthetic #feminine blog #divine feminine #sprinkle sprinkle #hypergamy

[gynoids-over-androids]

For me my first and biggest consciousness raising happened at the FDS subreddit. At first when I browsed it I was uncomfortable because I thought it was too misandrist (I was very much a libfem before). But I remember one day I was reading this long thread where women from so many different countries were talking about their experiences of male violence and it struck me how similar all the experiences were even if we had absolutely nothing in common:languages, continents, economic class, religion, age, etc. Except for the fact we were all female.

And the perpetrators all acted the same and used the same tactics and language. These violent people didn't have anything in common either; except a dick and two balls.

#radical feminist #female dating strategy #Radical feminism

[lethalhoopla]

the couple that takes down red templars while exploring old ruins together stays together yearns dramatically forevermore together (...in dreams)

(Solas x nonbinary!Lavellan - they/them)

#dragon age inquisition #dragon age #solas #solavellan #inquisitor lavellan #they/them lavellan #nonbinary lavellan #been too long since I posted art TwT life has been insane and i'm literally painting a 300 sq ft mural on my weekends so #love the thought of inquisitors and their romance going on little trips only there's no time for vacation so it's just #date night Feat. Bad Guy Elimination #they're talking spirits and magic and whether little fancy cakes or a fresh loaf of bread and a fruit platter is superior #and whether or not a properly placed ice spike combined with a negated barrier could launch a red templar before they could bull rush #important strategy you know how it is definitely not just magical theorizing for two fuckin nerds #lethalhoopla art

[taffywabbit]

me: i wish someone other than intsys would make a good tactical RPG with Fire Emblem-style gameplay for me to enjoy

studio: look we made a cool new tactical RPG that fans of strategy games like Fire Emblem will enjoy

me: is the gameplay Final Fantasy Tactics or Advance Wars

studio: it's a good tactical RPG ma'am. fans of strategy games like Fire Emblem will enjoy it :)

me: *plays 20 minutes of it*

(it's FF Tactics or Advance Wars)

#buny text #no shade to either of those games but ff tactics is not really my thing and advance wars is EXTREMELY not my thing #and you would not believe the number of times i have been recommended something like Wargroove when i complain about the decline of FE game #i want more shit like FE Echoes #like literally i'd be overjoyed if i could just play ports/remakes of older FEs with modern difficulty balancing and QoL features #it's deeply frustrating to me that if i want an FE game without permadeath i have to also deal with dating mechanics and a persona calendar #i'm just really surprised i've seen so many indie devs and other studios play off of classic TRPGs but they never seem to do FE #i really thought fuckin uhhhh. triangle strategy or whatever was gonna be it. but i played the demo and it's FF tactics #anyways all the more reason for me to get into gamedev so i can make my OWN indie fire emblem. with gay nonbinary space furries or whatever

[compacflt]

Is Ice just as oblivious when men are hitting on him? I know you had him clueless and unaware he was on a dinner date with his female classmate but I wonder if there are some guys that clock him as gay and then flirt with him.

generally clueless (as in, simply not devoted to paying attention anymore) but not stupid. obviously if you beat someone over the head when you come on to them they’ll figure it out eventually. he might even figure it out quicker with guys because it’s more “out of the ordinary” so to speak

im imagining for instance him and maverick going out to a bar in the early/mid 90s and maverick is off putting the moves on someone else (because he’s maverick but also perhaps to make ice jealous [like a 25% success rate]) and ice gets clocked and hit on by the guy next to him… and his reaction is like 50% “not interested 😒🤨” and 50% “not interested 😌💅” his needs are already being met no WAY this guy could compare to mav 😋

#hes not horribly homophobic he’s just a navy officer in love with his bff #mav has all his boxes ticked ✅✅✅ #stick to what you know! #mav is a known quantity #pete maverick mitchell #icemav #tom iceman kazansky #he’s clueless bc he’s whipped. why would he be looking for signals from other people? hes just not thinking about it :) #then of course when they break up uh oh that was a bad strategy now i don’t remember how to date #brain sauce replaced by loving maverick juice… cannot compute external propositions or approaches #the above does succeed at making maverick wildly and sullenly jealous tho i would feel like #’who was that guy’ ‘some guy idk’ ‘oh.’ Tom cruise pout & sulk. ice is willfully oblivious.

[papirouge]

#the BrokenHawkeye comment is so real #i used to have this one sided friendship+ with a male friend and i realized I was just a placeholder #female dating strategy #FDS #important #femcel #papi watch

[theyellowhue]

They bring me so much joy. I am devastated 🥺🥺🥺

#phayu and prapai are my comfort himbos #post rain and sky i would trust phayu and prapai #pre rain and sky i would absolutely call the cops on phayu and prapai #their dating strategies are so bad idk how they pulled rain and sky #love in the air #love in the air the series #boss and fort is just the perfect persons to play phayu and prapai

[oasisr]

yes i am a prude, and hypersexuality is ruining friendships, relationships and society as a whole.

#hypersexual #hypersexuality #sexualization #brave new world #relationships #fds #female dating strategy #feminism #tradfem #christian #conspiracy #freeblr #bible #conspiracy theory #truther #truth #christian woman

[leggerefiore]

If Ingo ever encountered Mew, there’s a high likelihood he’d want to catch and keep it. A strong, cute, playful cat Pokemon? He’ll take 20 of them.

“Ingo, honey, I don’t know if having another Pokemon in the house is a good idea. What if it can’t get along with Erin and Taffy?”

“That’s a perfectly valid reason to be concerned, Darling. But have you consider the following? It’s name is literally Mew, please do not deny me my birthright.”

If they all get along, you now have a dozen pictures of Ingo and Erin side by side with their respective cat Pokemon.

Mew floating Ingo away from his paperwork when they've determined he's done too much and want his pets. Ingo cannot escape the psychic energy floating him out of the office.

Taffy and Mew play all the time and even do the rare cat thing of napping on each other. Ingo snaps many, many photos when this happens. They simply look too cute in a purr pile to not do so.

Erin and Mew get along well. His pure heart and playful energy make the psychic feline really happy, and they love floating him around or just curling up in his lap and letting him delicately pet them. There's also many photos on Ingo's phone of Erin being slept on by Mew and Taffy.

Mew follows him when he gets Hisui'd and probably gets in a cat fight with Lady Sneasler, though. Mew might just be playing in a way Sneasler isn't used to.

#ingo.ima #ingo lands mewtwo at a later date and they probably drink coffee together while debating battle strategies

[yourlocalgrass]

Does anyone know if there’s a limit to how many Lonley Devil you can visit at once?

I have a problem and now I have to get 20 demon vouchers by 2 days and the best way is using pop quiz rewards (Nighmare wasn’t playing nice for Beel’s birthday)

Plan is to open every LD I haven’t started yet and grind until the 4500 mark which gives 2 DV (so I need to go through 10 LD to achieve this) but really depends on wether there is a limit now

If not I’m saved if there is I’ll go crying in the corner and never open the OG app again /j

#obey me #obey me swd #obey me shall we date #I mean I think there’s not a limit… or there is… #well never gonna know if you don’t try #also if your wondering why I can’t just use Devil Points that would take 540 for 20 pulls #If I used this strategy it should use nothing over 200 at least #100 for using the LD and the rest for additional AP #refuse to just accept this or pay to Solmare I WILL get something after saving for so long #do I make sense here or do I sounds gibberish #I SAID SOUNDS INSTEAD OF SOUND IM DONE FOR

[larphis]

#our flag means death #ofmd #ofmd meme #ofmd season 2 #I pray to god that this meme ages like milk #drop the trailer besties #we talk it through as a crew #don’t be shy #i will sell my soul #if necessary #and even more important GIVE US A RELEASE DATE #I’m praying that they are just waiting out of respect for Good Omens season 2 #in the sense of ‘people should watch Neil’s stuff first and not get distracted/lose viewers due to us’ #but if thats the strategy it’s really not working #because I’m a fan of both and the wait really feels like an eternity #yeah I know I should be thankful because both will drop soon (more or less) #but let me complain a little my heart needs it :(

[triangle-strategy-notes]

Okay quick question because I was thinking about timeline stuff again:

#triangle strategy #polls #non canon ts notes #not sure if these are the best delineations but!!! there you go #mostly just wondering whether there was a popular consensus as far as how much time passed #bc the lack of hard dates kind of just lets you assume whatever while you're playing #do you ever think about how the game never once talks about the calendar system #the closest we get is the different log entries where they have stuff like 'day xx of month xx of year xx' #(that is verbatim I didn't add in the 'x's) #but we never get any hard values as far as what the year is; what the months are named; etc #it haunts me. keeps me up at night

[papirouge]

#papi watch #FDS #female dating strategy