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oasisr · 4 months
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yes i am a prude, and hypersexuality is ruining friendships, relationships and society as a whole.
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gynoids-over-androids · 8 months
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For me my first and biggest consciousness raising happened at the FDS subreddit. At first when I browsed it I was uncomfortable because I thought it was too misandrist (I was very much a libfem before). But I remember one day I was reading this long thread where women from so many different countries were talking about their experiences of male violence and it struck me how similar all the experiences were even if we had absolutely nothing in common:languages, continents, economic class, religion, age, etc. Except for the fact we were all female.
And the perpetrators all acted the same and used the same tactics and language. These violent people didn't have anything in common either; except a dick and two balls.
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papirouge · 1 year
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is-this-really--life · 5 months
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"I think a form of gaslighting that tends to come up a lot, especially when it comes to men and women, is gaslighting women into believing male depravity in relationships is not only normal, but women should be okay with it and actively encourage it. So we see things like with BDSM, or you know, allowing porn in relationships, where women who speak against porn in relationships are deemed to be crazy. Even though the porn in society is objectively having a negative effect on the male and female dynamic."
-The Female Dating Strategy, "The 25 Tactics of Male Power, Part 2"
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sarahoctavie · 20 days
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"Pursuit of Okayness" is a webcomic that covers topics such as :
Abusive relationships, trauma, PTSD,...
as well as themes related to adult relationship.
Viewer discretion is advised
"Pursuit of Okayness" est un webcomic abordant des sujets tels que :
Les relations abusives, les traumatismes,
et contient également des thèmes relatifs aux relations entre adultes.
Ce contenu s'adresse à un public averti.
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drinkaglassofwater · 1 year
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If you think r/femaledatingstrategy is anything like incels or mgtow clearly you cannot comprehend that women have literally lost thier lives fucking murdered meanwhile some women who are sick of men say mean things on the Internet.
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merf-maid · 2 years
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https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum/general-dating-discussion/real-life-stories-of-50-50-relationship-part-1
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quotesfromall · 1 year
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Me, I suspect everybody 'till the last minute
Agatha Christie, Murder on the Orient Express
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thisisasideblog1 · 1 year
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I don't understand the female dating strategy subreddit. They admit that men are inherently depraved, but still want to date men? What the hell is wrong with them?
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oasisr · 5 months
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When men neg you by putting down your talents, run. Things will not get better.
Even if you aren't good at something and are just a beginner, he should not be mocking you or bullying you for that.
I'm not a great singer or painter, but I enjoy singing and painting sometimes. My ex would mock me and tell me that he wanted to marry someone who could actually sing.
I gave him another chance after he hurt my feelings. He was good for a couple of weeks, and then went right back to mocking me and putting me down.
Just run. You are beautiful even if you aren't good at everything you try. You don't need someone to put you down and try to harm your self-worth.
You are worthy of someone who will treat you like you are a special and beautiful woman. Because you are.
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Why does FDS constantly get called femcels when actual femcels loathe FDS and attack them? Lol
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papirouge · 22 days
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petitabricot · 1 month
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phil dunphy and "innocent" incompetence
Rewatching modern family and it's shocking to me how Phil Dunphy for a very long time was pushed by MF fans as the ideal husband. At first glance, he is a goofball, kind husband with childlike wonder who helps counterbalance Claire's uptightness and seriousness.
But in reality, Phil is like what many men are expected to be in their married relationships : useless. He is completely useless to Claire, which she brings up all the time : lets her do all the chores, all of the home rearing tasks even though he works so little he might as well be a stay at home husband. Him being so childish and refusing to enforce boundaries with his own children by acting like an adult is a very funny joke for a sitcom, but if it were real life it would make Phil a terrible husband, father and a complete burden on Claire who now has to take care of her husband's incompetence on top of raising her 3 children. If you've ever been in a situation where you had to work with someone else, but the other person doesn't know how to make themselves useful, so you have no choice but to micromanage them, then you KNOW how exhausting that is, even more so than doing it alone.
And before people "it's just a sitcom, it's not real" I KNOW. But there are so many people who watch this show and genuinely believe that Phil is great. I read a post raising the same concerns as me, and people were like "Phil is clueless, so he's harmless" and honestly something sparked in my brain. Women are always expected to forgive men's complete incompetence because they are "clueless". Running a household is after all a woman's task, and men can't be expected to ever learn how to do it, even if they're married with 3 kids. So women need to just happily accept the heavy burden, and accept to deal with a manchild as a husband. Not only do they have to accept this burden, but they should be grateful.
As if that alone wasn't enough, Phil constantly disrespects Claire. The fact that people (and that includes me on first watch), think his behaviour towards his own wife is funny is telling. He is constantly disrespectful of her, openly flirting with other women and openly crossing the line, such as staring at other women when his own wife is talking to him or hesitating when others flirt with him. And people say "oh but it's normal to still be attracted to others when you're married!" but there's a complete difference between attraction and his sleazy behaviour. That's what annoys me so much, not Phil Dunphy who is a gimmick character, but people who are insisting his behaviour is totally acceptable and that's just what a normal, healthy marriage looks like. The whole show, Phil belittles Claire, jokes about her uptightness even though she has to be strict because she literally gets no help, even makes a "marriage is prison" joke (which Claire does call him out on it), he has the most divorced dad energy I've ever seen. And yet people expect women to see him as a perfect cute baby husband who is harmless, and not what he actually is, a grown fucking man.
I keep thinking about how many of my girlfriends dated incompetent, lazy, dependent and pathetic men and excused their behaviour saying "oh no he just doesn't understand thesse things!" "yeah he forgot my birthday for the 3rd time in a row but you know how he is!" "oh yeah i hate it when he does that but you know how guys are!" Women constantly give men the benefit of the doubt (while never offering women the same benefit) and they use it to get away with being more useless.
This just sums up a big problem I have with dating. Women from birth to adulthood are raised into being the perfect wives and eventually the perfect mothers. I mean just look at the women in MF, Claire, a perfect household leader who takes care of everything that needs to be done for her family while her husband gets away with being a disney dad, and Gloria, the hot trophy woman who giggles and makes snarky replies when her husband throws racist or objectifying comments at her. They have created fantasy stereotypes of what a woman should be like that caters to men (all while denegrating said fantasies), but have never done so for men. Men are not, and have never been taught to be good husbands and fathers. The few advice they get on this does not come from women, or with women's needs in mind, but from other men, with the idea of impressing other men down the line.
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sarahoctavie · 21 days
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Cyril always have what you need in his pocket ;)
It's not some condoms >_<
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elfyprincess · 3 months
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Why don’t men my age have real fucking jobs ?? 💀 It’s always Bitcoin or DoorDash.
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merf-maid · 2 years
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