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alostlittleriverlotus · 2 years

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I think the one thing I like about learning about my disabilities is how I can help others. MA has stomach problems too, probably IBS as well, as well as an intolerance of some kind of icing used (I forget what it specifically is, but they know what I'm talking about.) I not only helped them see they had an intolerance to that and know to avoid it on cupcakes and cakes, but I've also given them some safe foods that work for me and help them with certain triggers. As well as helping them know other coping mechanisms.

Like my friend is like me and has a neglectful dad and so they don't know too much about their own health, mental or physical. I'm a bit more experienced in that regard and have more information stored and I'm constantly learning from the disability community as well as having friends with disabilities too. I've helped her to see her personality and mental disorders as well as help her with her physical stuff.

My friend is 20 and she didn't even know about PMS. But I can't talk, my friends had to tell me what a pap smear was so- neglected kids things, yay (/sarc)

But I just really like that I can use my knowledge of myself and others to be able to help my friend that is also in a position like me, but not as able to do research and not as knowledgeable about things. By neurotypical standards, I'd be considered "smarter" but that's only because I tend to absorb more info and be more observant than her. She's plenty smart. So having this knowledge and experience and advice and being able to help my friend literally makes me so happy. I love MA so much. I love all my friends so much and my gf (she's included in my friends.) I help MA the most since the others are better at taking care of themselves and Ray and Cass have families that take em to the doctor more often than mine or MA's does.

But this was just something I thought of that made me happy. My friend is becoming so aware and knowledgeable too thanks to me and it makes me happy. I'm glad I can help her. Honestly, she wouldn't have realized she was bi, pan, ace, a demigirl, go by she/they, go by she/they/he, are disordered, that their dad was neglectful and abusive, or learn how to say no and work on their people pleasing without me.

MA, I know you'll see this. I love you so much and I can't say it enough. I'm proud of the person you've become and I'm glad I was able to be beside you on this journey. You matter so much and I'm glad you're becoming more confident and independent. You've come so far and have been through so much and I see you. You're an amazing friend. I've helped, but you've also done a lot of it yourself and managed to better yourself because you worked hard to. One day, we'll both be away from our parents and have a much more peaceful life. And even if I'm scared of it, I am super proud of you for knowing what you wanted to do and standing by that. Even if I can't understand why beauty school is appealing lol, I will always support you. You are my number one, boo. So you go and be great even if I get super needy and lonely and anxious. Cause I know you'll be an amazing hairdresser. You've done all the work for college, beauty school, and finances yourself. I hope you're proud of yourself for that. You've become more independent than when I first met you and seeing how much you've changed makes me feel genuinely happy. I love you, MA. And even if I don't understand or can't see it from your perspective, I'll always encourage you as long as it's a safe thing to do!

Ahem. That was cheesy and it's embarrassing, but I'm disordered and express love weirdly so- that's just how I function :3

Anyway, just wanted to celebrate something I was happy about. Learning about disability, my disabilities, and everything has given me so many opportunities to be able to cope even if I'm not diagnosed and I'm just really happy about that.

#disabled #disability #food intolerance #chronic fatigue #chronic pain #chronic illness #spoonie #actually disabled #love for my bestie #positivity #actually traumatized #actually neglected #best friend #celebrating my accomplishments #celebrating how far I've come #proud of myself #proud of me #we've come so far

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hurglewurm · 3 days

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me: we are Not going to worsen our life while in a minor depressive episode

the brain: :/

#two things i will now overshare about in the tags:#the number and severity of symptoms i am exhibiting that indicate uhhhhhh #an anxiety disorder that i Don't have. don't want to have please. i fear this.#anyway I'm getting outnumbered. but i am still convinced I'm making it up so anyway #2. bro when u catch a glimpse of ur friends on social media #and the lives they're living and their successes and accomplishments #and ur like damn. yall living out here ?#(and also like. damn. yall feel like u deserve to celebrate yourselves?)#(yall don't feel like a horrible dessicated corpse most of the time emotionally?)#yall is not part of my vernacular i feel the need to say this #hurgle says things #2024 was supposed to be my mentally well year. who the fuck is this #like my depression we are chill i know her. we talk we discuss. we're okay #this new beast though who has been festering in here. i want her to move out............#but i think she might have already set up all her furniture...... and I'm hiding in my room #do u get my metaphors #anyway I'm fine bc I'm used to living like this but i am. unwell.

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akirenhell · 11 days

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You ever just see Trent back in the 90s, like, during a concert or some shit, and you just want to,,,hug him?

Like, telling him that it's all going to be fine? That he will get through this? That he will survive?

Or that's just me being weird?

#grace yelling #like dude #i don't know what is it about this guy that makes me have so many feelings #i just see everything he has accomplished and compare it with what he went through and I just go like- “Damn...”#(I just hope this isn't coming out like I'm idolizing him)#(cause you know don't idolize celebrities or all that jazz)#but yeah I just wanted to say this before hitting the hay #it's pretty late so maybe that's why I had this thought anyways #trent reznor #nine inch nails #nin #my dumbass NIN posting

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poison-uwu · 5 months

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Making my yearly dandelion cupcakes 🥰

#i only make these in decemeber at the end of the year #they're my little witchy way of celebrating end of year and my accomplishments

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medievalraven · 17 days

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as of this evening i am the proud recipient of a very expensive piece of paper :)))

#aka i got my masters’ degree!#very fancy oh la la :D #haven’t been to a graduation since my high school diploma which was 800 years ago #but we are leaning into celebrating my accomplishments and being proud of doing things #we are learning lol #it’s been a fun couple of days #saw hozier live and then graduation #now a new job #wishing manifesting etc #personal

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animalinvestigator · 11 months

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here's a collection of some art fight pieces that i at least dont outright hate

in order, they are for (on art fight) juniperro, hammercorn, dreampopplio, tazmily, dropadragon, ghasterr, 123456heaven, bloodocean, and coolattaslab

#im burning out super hard so i wanted to celebrate what ive accomplished..even though its all kind of repulsive to me #my art #thank you so much to everyone who drew me pictures

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feytouched · 2 months

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"should we throw a party? should we invite-?" yes! yes we fucking should. i want my cake bitch

#i deserve to celebrate my accomplishments i will kill the cynical voice in my brain that claims nobody cares #ką sako lapė

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monkeymeghan · 2 months

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I’m feeling really off today. Blank. Kind of sad. But mostly empty. I just want to cry, for no particular reason. I did manage to brush my teeth this morning and take out the recycling this afternoon, so at least I accomplished two things today. So far. Maybe I’ll accomplish more. There’s so much I want to do, but it’s hard to even move. Depression flaring? Grief? Both? Who knows. And it’s only 3pm, there is still so much day left. Ugh.

#small accomplishments are still accomplishments #celebrate the small victories #depression #grief #losing a parent #i miss my mom #mom #personal

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pettyprocrastination · 3 months

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a silly little note from my last therapy session that maybe somebody else needs to hear to.

#tj talks #been doing lots of self reflection as of lately and being really hard on myself and my therapist helped me take a step back and realize hey #I'm full of love. there is love all around me. and I should celebrate the little accomplishments in my week not just the big life-#-stepping stones I'm worried I'm not reaching fast enough #anywhoo. yeah #hope y'all are having a great day and if not I hope tomorrow will be better

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mueritos · 1 year

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The fact that i got accepted into boston university and new york university for graduate school kinda makes me realize i shouldve applied myself more when i was looking for undergrad but at least i dont have as many loans and i still met cool professors ^-^

#not to be an elitist but after spending time in my shitty pwi racist undergrad uni i just like #i need some prestige for once #so im glad they accepted me like thats cool #grad skool is expensive tho 🥲#wanted to celebrate my accomplishments tho because i rarely do that #like yea i actually am good enough for nyu and bu like wtf #being at this lame ass school has warped my sense of intelligence yknow #all the courses have been fucking easy #and i couldnt tell if it was because i was too smart or if i was regressing lol #anyway #:)

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starryluminary · 5 months

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THANK YOU AND GOODNIGHT

#18 years. 18 years of owning this game and it’s finally finished at 100%#I feel so accomplished. the mario brothers themselves should be shaking my hand in celebration and gratitude #YAY. THATS IT #mario bros #Starry speaks

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mulbruk · 7 months

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oh by the way i slapped a big alien on a ygo 5ds motorcycle with a whip until he esplodied last night

everyone is very proud of me

#cookie clatter #this is about la-mulana 2 btw. please celebrate my video game accomplishments.#he had like three guns. i had zero guns. please clap.

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jattendschaton · 11 months

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holding back tears when your 47k fic hits 80 kudos but you cant like celebrate with anyone because thats literally not even an accomplishment but you thought it would never actually reach 80 kudos and you're being an emotional little baby :') :') :')

#it's literally only gotten 5 kudos and 2 comments since it updated a week ago so i know this is what it's going to cap out at #and i just didnt think it would actually make it to 80 kudos and ive been very emotional the past few days so i'm just #actually holding back tears this is so fucking stupid akdsjkld #other actually good writers are like wow! look my fic hit 1k kudos!#and that's such a cool accomplishment but like. i will literally never write something that gets that many kudos #so if i waited until i hit real accomplishments i would just never celebrate anything! i'm sorry i'm so bad at things 😭#so anyway clearly we are not made of the same stuff and you folks are all lightyears ahead of me in terms of ability #so i will politely take myself out of your airspace because i am not worthy to be around y'all #but i will privately celebrate my stupid little milestones :') <3

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plump-lips-imagine · 1 year

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Y’all I’m

So, I was just sent this by my teacher on my final essay!