#both were toxic

[morinover]

I wish people would recognize better the difference between abusive relationships and toxic ones. I don’t know how much difference it makes, in practice, but maybe knowing they’ve hurt the other person just as deeply and that person is also still carrying that hurt years later, would make people feel less helpless, when that’s the case.

#vagueblogging #no one on this website #it's not you #but if you feel you can benefit from this perspective go ahead #I hope you hurt less #you deserve to heal #you deserve to acknowledge your agency and how you affect others #you deserve to feel your power #and use it for good #brought to you by two people who each wanted me to recognize the other was abusive towards them #but my judgement says neither was abusive #both were toxic #we're too old for this shit you guys

[ministarfruit]

day 20: chose violence ♡

(femslashfeb prompt list)

#minifemslashfeb2024 #danganronpa #kirumugi #shirotojo #tsumugi shirogane #kirumi tojo #salak: toujou kirumi #canistel: shirogane tsumugi #toxic yuri arc idfk #bros that execution still gives me the creeps #you can hear her scream. like. bro #anyway what if you made the perfect soulless servant out of a real person #and then tormented then disposed of her like a doll. and you were both girls

[achromaticegoist]

Not Good Enough

Envy. Hazbin Hotel Adam comic.

Eden Memories

#hazbin hotel #adam hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel lucifer #lucifer morningstar #hazbin hotel adam #art #procreate #fan comic #lilith #hazbin hotel lilith #garden of eden #eden #pre canon #eden!adam #fanart #i’m low key crying over this #it was a doomed toxic relationship from the start none of them were in the wrong 💔 #actually more accurately they both were #storytelling through fucking flowercrowns 💀🙏

[rottengurlz]

"I wanted everyone to look at her this way. She deserved that, and so much more. Everyone should kneel and worship her cruelty."

#oc: audra #oc: leona #mysims #sim 4 #ts4 #ts4 edit #the sims community #simblr #river I remembered to put the important tags first this time 🫵🏼🫵🏼🫵🏼🫵🏼 #marine if u see this yes this quote is directly from the unbeating heart #everything about the way leona looks at audra says ownership and they both love every second of it #needed to post my toxic lesbians for lesbian visibility week it was only right #the welcome wagon was hanging around outside while these 2 were being freaks in their driveway

[izzyhandsy]

me when i wanted to make him worse but not THAT much worse :(

#bro u were supposed to be the normal fun level of toxic why’d u have to make it weird #his face at the end here still makes me SICK btw thanks for asking #izzy hands #our flag means death #ofmd #ofmd 2 #ofmd 2 spoilers #ofmd spoilers #edizzy #this is both izzy about ed and me about izzy #actually. #also pls no discourse let’s be cool guys

[redrobin-detective]

Something I wonder about Simon and Betty's relationship is how long they were together before the whole crown ordeal. But they were engaged, you say. My aunt (in)famously met my uncle and had a ring on her finger in 8 weeks. We've seen that both Betty and Simon were both weird outcasts, crazy determined and a pinch insane. I would not be surprised if they decided they'd met their one true love and got engaged super quick.

My point being, Betty's shifting to revolve around Simon and Simon's rose colored glasses of their relationship feels very much like New Love. They're people who love each other and love being a couple but still haven't quite figured out how to coexist together, as two people in a partnership. I feel like if they'd known each other longer, lived together longer, some of the issues we're seeing would have probably self resolved.

I don't think their relationship is toxic nor is it totally perfect. It's two lonely, most likely neurodivergent people in a relatively early relationship still figuring out how it works. Everything that happened afterwards: the crown, the seperation, the time travel, the magic/madness/sadness just exemplified issues they had both as individuals and as a couple.

#fionna and cake #fionna and cake spoilers #simon petrikov #betty grof #in the tags its either #'oh they're toxic' or 'owo literal soulmates' #but i think its both more simple and yet more complicated #its struck me from the very start that they were eternally engaged #they never got to be married they're still stuck at this in between milestone #plus the way they act/talk around one another it HAS that new relationship vibe #If i were to guess they were each other's first romantic relationship #they loved so hard but they didnt really understand how it worked (mood) #if tehy'd had time and space like normal people yeah I think they'd have been fine #unfortunately all manner of bs got in the way and they never got to resolve some of these issues #it doesnt make one right over the other it just adds another layer of tragedy to their story #they only had time to get to know each other -to really feel understood- before it was taken away #Artists call betty 'simons wife #but its soooo important to me that they never made it that far #a flower that was plucked before it had a chance to bloom #anyway just my thoughts #petrigrov forever

[midnightdemonhunter]

Icicles don't soften when they die, so why should I?

#fhjy #fantasy high #mary ann skuttle #ruben hopclap #ivy embra #oisin hakinvar #kipperlilly copperkettle #buddy dawn #lucy frostblade #the ratgrinders #d20 #midnight draws #fh #caption from Icicles by the Scary Jokes. with the context of the last ep it is VERY MUCH a ratgrinders song #gang i think we moved on from the ratgrinders reveals in this ep too quick. THEY DIED? THEY DIED? THEY ALL DIED TOGETHER? #anyway these guys continue to drag me to my drawing tablet. GODDDDD #thank you brennan for giving me my cake and letting me eat it too. kipperlily is both the weirdest most toxic teenager girl and is #also DEEPLY SAD. #her and lucy were BESTIES. she liked her FRIENDS.

[saudrag]

game!william and movie!william encountering each other for the first time!🥰

#fnaf #fnaf fanart #fnaf movie #william afton #purple guy #steve raglan #toxic yaoi ensues #my art #five nights at freddy's #yepp the bottom one is my game!william design #and so… they were both tops

[kagooleo]

johto’s champion and chronicler for the deity of the ilex shrine, it’s lyra!🌿

this one took me a while due to trying out different techniques (studying a Lot of art nouveau) and making a couple changes to her outfit (the details help), but I’d like to think she’s learned a lot in her journey and wanted to reflect her experience more in her champion fit

her specialty would be in fairy types and her meganium’s divergent evolution is grass/fairy 🧚🪷

and a bonus w/ the johto gang after the photoshoot!

#kagarts #trainer lyra #meganium #pokemon hgss #get ready for a bigass tag wall again HYAH #her team picks are meganium (grass/fairy + shiny!) azumarill togekiss alola ninetales gardevoir and clefable (mega evolves for fairy/steel) #terrains and high sp atk + statuses galore + her dino can cause a stronger confusion (like toxic w badly poisoned but its w/ Bad headaches) #i'll probably make changes as i go design wise for meganium but colors were inspo from sampaguita flowers #the flower's associated with true friendship and utilized in medicines or given as good gestures in various traditions and celebrations #and also bc she's 🇵🇭 babey!!!!!!!! i'm slapping all my favs w the pinoy beam and not even the dinos are safe >:] #since her dino is shiny a lot of the colors are just a few color diffs where the little orbs are + warmer tones. gotta make a ref sometime #not sure if I should tag the others bc the focus is on her. but the quartet always pulls thru for each other #i like thinking silver gets comfortable enough to be the friend that's “s'cuse you my Friend asked for No pickles” #silver in line picking up her food like “yeah yeah i know her and btw that’s CHAMPION lyra to you. YES she ordered a strawberry shake” #both of their meganiums are Best friends and silver likely uses his dino when you rematch him (and his would beee grass/dragon) #calling this piece Done though oh my god this semester has been nuts. don't wanna take any longer on a single piece or i'm eating tree bark #tumblr's gonna kill the quality on it but idgaf im Done. i need to tidy up my sheezy now

[shatterdome-underscore]

We've reached a new level of forgetting Hermie, friends, where Anthony gave him A Fact, declared him technically a toddler, and then had a huge Foster-Close Family episode where Hermie wasn't mentioned a single time

#tbh hermie being like 2 years old does make the Scam thing both way more tragic and also way more funny #like. he was with Jodie since the original kids were still kids #and then had Jodies som after being together for almost 20 years #and THEN dipped #worlds most toxic bisexual. love that for him #hermie unworthy #hermie the unworthy #dndads #dndads spoilers #dungeons and daddies spoilers #dungeons and daddies

[finalgirlsamwinchester]

1.01, "Pilot" | Stephen Adly Guirgis, "The Last Days Of Judas Iscariot" " | 5.22, "Swan Song"

#please consider!! dean as judas to sam's christ allegory #sam considers himself the judas between them!! but narratively speaking! it's dean!! i feel insane #yeah cain and abel were the first fratricide but have we acknowledged the first toxic yaoi. jesus and judas #yeah the narrative frames sam's blood drinking as the big Act of Betrayal but #if you consider...that it's sam sacrificing himself by bearing the weight of the actual devil. to save humanity #sam drinking demon blood in the first place in order to save possessed ppl without killing them...literally taking on the sins of men #dean is both judas delivering his kiss AND the authorities coming to arrest jesus in gethsemane when he locks sam up #dean doesn't believe in god but he needs to live in the light and grace and love of his little brother #his faith and love in sam. being his connection to his humanity. #j.edit #spn edit #sam winchester #dean winchester #comparatives #wincest #samdean

[cryptvokeeper]

don’t get me wrong I think the general interpretation of Leo being like “I put up a cocky front but deep down I don’t actually think I’m that great and that’s why I have something to prove” is good. It’s cool, plenty of drama/angst potential and probably what the creators were going for, I’m here for it.

But there is a distinct appeal to me of the slightly-to-the-left interpretation of Leo being like “it’s not a front, I know I’m that good/smart/skilled, but I also know I’m seen by others as just the goofball face man and that’s why I have something to prove.”

#Rottmnt #Wild metaphor incoming but it’s like the difference between a hersheys bar and fancy Ghirardelli or something #At the end of the day they’re both chocolate. But ones got a bit more depth. #where was I going with this again idk I got caught up in food metaphor #It’s like. With the first one it boils down to character A (in this case Leo) going “I’m useless because I’m not good at [thing]” #Resulting in those around him either going “of course you’re good at thing! Remember the time you were good at thing?” #Or sometimes “it doesn’t matter that you’re not good at [thing] we love you regardless of what you can provide” #And again THATS GOOD THATS SOME GOOD SHIT #I LOVE THAT #but with the latter it’s more like “I know I’m good at thing *but I don’t know how to prove it to you*” #And that gives you the best of both worlds where you CAN get character A feeling bad but not for their lack of thing #But because if no can see it surely they *must* be doing something wrong right? #And ALSO you get the characters around them getting all sorts of feelings of “we didn’t do enough to show we believe in them” #Or “we didn’t notice how hard they tried” #Cuz you can get that a little in the first one but it can come off as kinda meh cuz they didn’t actually do anything wrong #It also has more opportunities for emotions besides straight sadness #You can have anger and conflict of “why am I not good enough for you?!” #That straight sef deprecation doesn’t always allow for #You can also have jealously and envy that feels less toxic and more justified #Not that it strictly needs to be justified mind you #Sometimes some toxic feelings stemming from perceived inadequacy are fuckin *chefs kiss* #But again it’s abt the VARIETY yknow #This isn’t even about Rottmnt anymore I’m just rambling #It’s my post and I get to choose the bullshit tags

[bimyself06]

I personally believe that Briar Beuty and Raven Queen should have become the best of friends after the Thronecoming fiasco. Raven knows to an extent how Briar feels, I mean we don't even know if the people trapped in the mirror prison can die while in there or if they are forever trapped, and now that Briar has expressedly voiced her thoughts on following your destiny and signing the book I think that Raven would have understood her point of view.

#also imagine the vibes both girls bring #extriverted party girl and her introverted musician bestie #eah #briar beauty #raven queen #also them becoming and staying friends makes more sense than raven's and apple's friendship or briar's and apple's both wich were in a way #toxic to both parties #could juat be me though

[paceysjcrewsweater]

Watched a double bill made in hell - 'Anatomy of a fall (2023)' and 'You're killing me Susana (2016)' - in the span of a few hours and now I don't ever want to get married in case I get stuck in a toxic marriage or rather stuck with a toxic man as my husband/partner

#you're killing me susana #anatomy of a fall #me estás matando susana #two wildly different films and messages #but the toxic masculinity in both phew #the women in the movies were not saints #however the men were straight up demonic #you're killing me susana had some comedic moments though which was fun (as was Gael's comedy acting) #also realised the title of Susana has killing in it and anatomy revolves around a murder mystery

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

“y'all want toxic ships in media but you couldn't even handle c//a!!”

hate to break it to you but you're not thinking of the same people.

c//a antis aren't the ones who want toxic relationships in media. most of us want to see healthy relationships that are built on mutual trust and understanding.

and let's just say, even if we do want to see toxic ships in media, we want to see them as they are. not romanticized, not sexualized, not framed as anything but a toxic relationship.

#like yeah it's good to explore these themes in media #but you have to do it tactfully #i really liked malachite (jasper x lapis) from su because they were a toxic relationship #(and also because of the fusion character design holy fuck) #ofc there were still some issues with it bc while they were BOTH toxic to each other„ jasper was heavily villanized #while lapis was victimized #but the show does make it clear that they are extremely harmful for each other and should just part ways #“what we had wasn't healthy” #while i wish they had addressed lapis's actions as well #i still overall like how they handled that plot point #spop critical #spop salt #spop #spop criticism #spop discourse #she ra #anti catra #anti spop #anti catradora #anti c//a #antic//a #anticatra #anticatradora #anti stans

[dyketubbo]

i think before joining or making a minecraft roleplay server every creator needs to either have played at least ONE campagin of a ttrpg of their choice (doesnt have to be dnd) or they must have spent their entire childhood roleplaying with people on any social media/forum/chat app their tiny hands could get a hold on. i want these minecraft roleplayers to have backgrounds in doing roleplay with actions written out *like this* in their friends text messages and getting into insane drama as teenagers in discord roleplay servers

#if you really want to get into it. there needs to be more mcrps with members who got in trouble for having mary sue ocs on roleplay forums-- #for the record i did in fact do both of the things mentioned at the end here #shout out to my bestie in middle school who would do underfell bone brothers rp with me #we texted each other roleplay and also sent each other voice messages. and also did it irl . #mcyt #mcrp #qsmp #and. to be mean #dsmp #yes i know this would possibly disqualify tubbo because he hasnt played dnd before now #but. he knows what kinning means. i KNOW he knows what kinning means #and he knows the spiritual definition. and hes a creek shipper #im sure that man has SOME sort of roleplay history before joining minecraft smps ok #on the note of things ive gotten into though i have in fact gotten into insane drama because of discord roleplay servers #shoutout to the rp server that ended because one of the main writers partners cheated on them . that server was a pit of toxic waste #but boy did 15yr old me really enjoy working on the story except for all the times i got suicidal about it #but thats the magic of roleplaying as a teenager ok #if you didnt come out of it traumatized were you REALLY roleplaying.