#and they sure dont care about male victims

[juanitasupreme]

To think that there was litteral text messages shown for the world to see between Johnny Depp and Paul Bethanny, talking about burning, drowning and r*ping Amber Heard. And general still sided with him sickens me...

#tw johnny depp #amber heard #its still angering to think about this trial #for some people it was just like entertainment #they dont care about it #and they sure dont care about male victims #they sided with a poor woman abuser and i hope that shame will find its way to them

[cumulo-stratus]

Protector

Pairing: spencer reid x male!reader

Summary: after an unsub tries to hurt y/n, spencer steps in.

Warnings: cannon typical violence, talk of not being able to breath, Lemme know if theres anything else!

flufftober day 17: protective

A/N: were gonna ignore the fact that im skipping day 16 (im a touch avoid et autistic and the idea of a massage makes me so uncomfortable and i just couldnt write guys im sorry 😭) also ik i kinda ghosted yall on fics for like a couple weeks buuttttt (haha butt) i just got super busy with school, but its started to calm down again, i got all the presentations and tests out of the way so ill have more time to write after school. thx for being understanding <3!

Y/n fit the unsubs victims almost to a T- and y/n knew that. He knew that with no other options at this point, he would have to go undercover to bait her. And Spencer knew this- but it didn't mean he was happy about it. Y/n knew Spencer had abandonment issues- and tried his best to comfort Spencer, reminding him that both, and the rest of the team would be waiting close by incase anything happens. 

"Spence- I'll be okay, I'll have Morgan, Rossi, and prentiss in there with me-  and I'm sure we can convince Hotch to let you go undercover in the bar so you can be nearby."

"Good- I need to be there incase something happens." 

Y/n sighed and looked at Spencer- his eyes full of care for his boyfriend, nad gave him one last reassuring kiss before leaving spencer on his own for. a minute and rejoining the team to go over the plan one more time, just to be safe. And to ease spencers mind. 

y/n was sat in front of the bar in the extremely crowded pub, wearing fancy clothes, giving the appearance of wealth. The woman they were trying to catch believed that men didn’t deserve money, and she was punishing them for having it by torturing and killing them. Y/n was hoping they would be able to arrest her before she gets to the torturing part of her routine. He zoned back into the present  when he heard someone approach him. She was dressed in a skin tight red dress that hugged her curves, and had a flirty look on her face. 

"So- what's a man like you doing at such a 'working class' place like this?" 

Her sickeningly sweet tone made y/b want to vomit, but he hid it well, glancing over at Emily who was across the bar, keeping a close eye on the situation. 

"Well, sometimes I don't mind getting my shoes a little dirty with the 'average person'"

Y/ns voice was flirty, causing him to internally cringe at his own words, hating that he sounded like a yuppie. But hid it and let the unsub continue trying to seduce him. 

"Wel I'd be perfectly happy to help you rub a little mud on those jimmy choos if you like..." 

Y/n almost grimaced, but held back. He threw a glance across the bar to spencer, hoping to reassure him that he was okay. And when they met eyes for a second,   y/n could tell that spencer still wasn’t happy about him being there. Y/n did the best he could to reassure him with his eyes from the other end of the bar, before returning to the conversation with the unsub. She was now starting to get hands y with, and y/n knew she had decided he was going to be her next victim. Eventually she invited him to walk her to her car. 

“after all, i’m a petite woman by myself at night…”

All y/n could think about was the major pick me girl energy radiating off her, but outwardly he just smirked and extended his arm for her to take.

“of course, i could never turn a lady like you down.”

And as the pair made their way to the front door, spencer was the first to lift himself from his seat, following discreetly as if he had received a phone, and needed to leave the bar. Almost immediately after the door swung closed she start feeling y/n up, and spencer could feel a green jealousy boiling in the back of his mind. And. he couldnt help himself from walking slightly closer so he could hear what she was saying to his boyfriend. 

“you know- i dont know if its safe for me to drive, maybe you should drive me back to your place, and we could continue this…”

Y/n smirks, which makes spencer even more jealous, but hold holds back for the good of the case. As the pair approach the unsubs car, she pushes him against the car, kissing him- no, actually it was more like she was eating his face. Now it wasn’t only jealousy coursing through him, but also anger. Not anger like the bright red, passionate, kind, more like a dark maroon simmering in the pit of his stomach, ready to boil over kind. But a warning glance from Rossi and Morgan, who had now joined him in the parking lot while Prentiss updated Hotch, told him to back off. And he did, but he wasn’t sure how long he could hold himself back. Now y/n wasnt enjoying it either, but he just closed his eyes and sucked it up, practically counting the seconds till it would be appropriate to stop kissing having his face eaten, and get in the car. But y/n lost count of the where he was when he felt a hand grasp his neck. He knew later that this is how she had been subduing her victims, as they would already be out of breath from making out with her, and she would have the upper hand. But y/n couldn’t possibly process that. The only words that had been going through his mind as his entire life flashed in front of him were ‘Air. Need air.’ 

And thankfully his wishes were granted when the feeling of hands around his neck vanished, and over the sound of blood rushing in his ears he could hear shouts resembling “FBI Amy Brockett your under the arrest for the murders of James leason, Christian Lanery, and Gregory Poultan!” 

But what grabbed his attention more was when a blurry face with the outline of a mop of brown, curly hair filled his vision- it was spencer. And he himself was now on the ground, coughing. 

As soon as spencer had seen the woman’s hand wrap around y/n’s neck, he bolted across the semi large parking lot with his gun raised. When he arrived he pulled the unsub off y/n with more strength then he knew he had, and threw her onto the ground, looking her dead in the eyes and saying “You ever touch him again, i wont hesitate to shoot you” in a low, almost growl. But what stopped him from turning and tending to his boyfriend who was now crumpled on the pavement, coughing to regain his breath, was a scoff from the woman who was now being handcuffed and read her rights by Morgan. But spencer didn’t care enough about the unsub to send more than a dirty look her way before turning his attention to his boyfriend at the sound of another violent cough. Spencer knelt down, taking y/n’s face in his hand, while the other one dragged lazily up and down  his back, coaching him through the coughing fit. And it was only then that spencer noticed the tears staining y/n’s cheeks.

“Oh angel its ok, im here, you’re ok.”

Y/n released a small hiccup, falling easily into spencers arms. Spencers eyes searched his boyfriends body for any other injuries other then the marks on his neck that were already becoming a maroon-ish purple hue. spencers eyebrows were creased in concern at the marks on his partners necks and when y/n noticed this he tried to reassure him.

“spence- baby im fine, i just needed to catch my breath..” 

even though y/n’s breathing he evened out it was still sounding a little weezy as harshly tried to rub away the tears in his eyes. spencer caught y/n’s in his own, preventing the harsh red skin y/n was leaving behind from rubbing his skin so strongly.

“angel, come on lets go have a paramedic check you out..”

spencer helped y/n up, and only then did he notice how many police cars and ambulances had filled the parking lot with screaming sirens and blaring lights. The couples faces were basked in blue and red light as spencer lead y/n to a paramedic to get checked out. And as y/n sat there, the paramedic poking and prodding- spencer stayed planted next to him, hand in his. 

The End

#spencer reid #criminal minds #bau #bau team #fluff #spencer reid x reader #gay #flufftober #spencer reid x male reader #spencer reid fluff #comfort #criminal minds fan fic #spencer reid imagine #flufftober 2023 #flufftober day 17 #flufftober prompt

[aliceinborderlandsquidgame]

AIB CHARACTERS AS YANDERES

Includes: Arisu - Chishiya - Tatta - Banda Sunato - Karube -

Notes: Yandere themes - violence - emotional and physical manipulation/abuse - dub-con/non con/ use of drugs and alcohol -

BANDA IS A BIG RED FLAG AND TRIGGER

♤ Arisu: submissive + manipulative

Now dont get the type foul you. Arisu may do everything you ask him because he is so in love with you. He does not care if you are good or bad with him, whatever you give him he will take it.

However, as I said he will do everything for your love, and that includes killing whoever hurts you, bothers you or whoever he believes are getting too close to you.

Arisu may be the Yandere who plays a protector (obsessive) role in your life, he Will stay close to you, the only thing he cannot do is stay away. You may tell him to stop and to just let you in peace but he wont do it.

He sees you as his Angel and you must be protected.

However, as much as a protector he is, he will make you believe you need a protector and will do it using the worse methods possible.

♤ Chishiya: Insolating + manipulative

Chishiya Will use any method to prove to you how he is the only one you need. Will trash your name so your family and Friends start to get away from you.

Will fake to be you on social media so he can manipulate your Friends into hating you.

Work? Forget about it. He will ruin your resume so no one Will contact you, but thats fine. You can stay at home and play house wife while he works.

He wants you to relay only on him. Cry with him, laught with him, everything must be with him and just him.

♤ Tatta: submissive + manipulative

Did you really think Tatta Will just be your puppy and you his master? Yes Tatta Will let you do with him whatever you want and Will do whatever you ask him.

But he also does not want to be alone, so he will manipulate you with his innocense to keep you away from other people. That friend of yours who gets too close? Yeah he will play the victim card and make you feel bad so you will stop seeing them. He does not have a problem with your family (who loves him), its just....people in general who might get your interest.

♤ Banda Sunato: Eliminating + Manipulative

Forget about being subtle. Banda will kill your Friends, family, however its too close to you he Will make sure they never see the light of the day again.

And he will mock you and blame you because of it. Because you took his interes, because you are too pretty, because you are you.

His emotional manipulation Will go as far as show pics of your dead Friends and family, he then will hug you telling you how dumb you are and how you need someone to take care of you all the time and thats why he is here.

Is he an angel? No he is your personal devil who corrupts you in all the ways.

Forget about consexual sex or touch, the first time he took you by Force during the second night of your abduction, to mark you and make you see how weak you are. Will drug you on daily basis so he can have his way with you and touch you without you screaming at him.

Once you start to break down he will come as innocent and playfull so you start to trust him. You no longer try to scape, you obey the rules and you let him have sex with you whenever he wants.

♤ Karube: Manipulative

Karube wants you to himself but he also wants you to have a bit of life (maybe the less crazy of these).

Now the only people who he trust are Arisu and Chota, so he will kind of Force you to hang out with them. Forget about other male Friends, they are just bad and Karube will be sure to scare them off.

Karube will use alcohol on his favor to get you more careless, he will set you up with a drunk guy and when said drunk guy tries something Karube will appear and take care of it acting as your saviour.

While being drunk Karube Will use this time to get you on his lap, you will ask him what he is doing but he Will just say he is taking care of you. He will kiss you and if you resist then he will sweet talk his way on it.

You two may end together because Karube had sex with you while you were drunk and you cant remember if you gave your consent or not. Its not guilt what makes you end with him but how much he talks about being there for you all the time and how you alwyas had a crush on him (and thats true). Arisu and Chota Will also support Karube's words making you beliving them and ending with him.

#alice in borderland #chishiya #aib imagine #aib imagines #chishiya x reader #alice in borderland x reader #karube #karube x reader #tatta #tatta x reader #banda sunato #banda sunato x reader #arisu #arisu x reader

[chaifootsteps]

the gender reverse for stella and stolas is a bit more complex when it stops being about how viv writes them and more about the dynamic treated the same way. More specifically in the sense that it would be more noticeable how stereotypical the abuse is for a male aggressor. as the anon thats popped up twice mentioning that stellas portrayal reminded me of how i viewed my mother as a kid (not exact wording, more that it reminded me but anyone that cares enough should get it and if not i am a literal fucking anon it doesnt matter i just want to try and make sure my perspective is clear) who through chai talking about it sort of realized that part of why i didnt notice the red flags with stolas was part shitty writing part it being more similar to a stereotypical female abuser in my mind.

you flip their genders without vivs misogyny and it just turns into your average shitty (in terms of qualiy and messaging) abuse story in my opinion. especially since the arranged marriage aspect can easily be used to set up two people who hate eachother outright and are mutably abusive to one another before they even hit their one year anniversary of knowing eachother in person let alone being together as an actual couple. its just poorly put together in general, all vivs misogyny does is make it so its not going to be a relationship that everyone would immediately recognize as physically abusive behind the scenes off camera. because people dont like acknowledging female abusers physical or otherwise unless its spelt out in capitals for them and even then some will declare its impossible for a man to ever be the victim and pretend that a female abuser can only exist in a lesbian relationship.

the shortest way i can think to describe a genuine gender swap, not one tainted by "wOmAn EvIl", would be that it takes away the one thing that makes them stand out among other poorly written abuse story couples, which also speaks to the lack of willingness on vivs part to write them better as an exploration into the themes as well. its infuriating to think about.

Flip it around and it's your very standard "Girl is abused and sad, guy is monster" story, but even that would see a wrench thrown into the mix by the fact that it neither of them wanted this and it was planned since they were children. That throws an element of tragedy over both of them, even a hypothetical male Stella who's basically feathery Gaston.

But of course, Viv would never treat that male Stella the way she treats regular Stella. No sad man is ever completely to blame, not in Viv's eyes.

#Anonymous #Helluva Boss critical #actual blog post

[sporkberries]

I’ve been thinking about the portrayal of SA and misogyny within fallout new vegas, from the Fiends and Caesar’s Legion specifically I think new vegas does a pretty good job at portraying oppression and abuse without seeming... for lack of a better term masturbatory. It’s by no means perfect obviously but i think its a solid attempt. The(living) victims of rape that we see within New Vegas( Pretty Sarah, Corporal Besty, and Siri) all have stories that i found pretty moving, relatable and truly heart wrenching. I think Betsy and Siri are the two that really stick out to me the most( sarah i struggled with getting involved in that quest line as it was too triggering ). Betsy is the definition of a “messy” victim. What Cook-Cook did to her left lasting scars, ones she refuses to acknowledge. And she’s angry she’s angry and she’s hypersexual and she’s lashing out at everyone in her life about it. She doesn’t want to be seen as weak and she doesn’t want to be a burden( i think her being a lesbian and very proud of that further bothers her as well, the fact a man was able to assault her weighs on her). Though her actions(especially her more pervy behaviour) aren’t excused by the narrative it’s very clearly a side affect of the severe trauma she experienced. I think it would have been really easy to have turned the Cook-Cook bounty/quest into a rape revenge story and I’m glad they didn’t. Sure she gives you some cash if you kill the bastard but the main way to help Betsy isnt (rightfully) killing her rapist but to help her get the help she needs, convincing her that her fellow soldiers care about her. It’s not common for more “messy” victims to be portrayed in media and personally Besty means a lot to me for that. Now contrast her with Siri, who is the complete opposite and equally strong because of it. Siri is a slave for Caesar’s Legion and given that she’s also a woman its not hard to guess what that entails. There’s been moments in video games where I’ve cried or felt disgusted and scared but when Siri warns a female legion courier about what legion men do and what they’ve been saying about her it makes me so... I dont even know how to put it into words(as my feelings on this topic are much harder to pin down and articulate compared to betsy). Even if you’re aiding the very men who are doing the awful things to her and the other women she doesn’t want you to experience what she’s gone through. She’ll warn the courier of what the legioners say about her of what they want to do and it’s just... god. I realize this isnt very well put together but its hard to know what to say about Siri other than she fucks me up. I realize there isn’t much of a thesis to this post but if there was it would be that I feel very seen by these women, and their stories and experiences manage to affect and move me greatly, while not being profoundly irritating and disgusting like so many other rape stories(especially written by male authors) are.

#i still dont think the fiends as a group are written that well #but yk #rape mention #tw sa #this is a bit rambly i havent had the heart to actually structure and make an essay in a good while #also yeah cook cook TOTALLY needs to die and I kill him every play through #just saying im glad his death wasnt ALL betsys story was about #this is probably fully of spelling mistakes but #this is a bit more personal and just me talking about my feelings so IDC i might even delete this later #slavery #should tag that too #maybe this just says something about how bottom of the barrel it is when it comes to SA stories #Fallout New Vegas #FNV #corporal betsy

[aita-blorbos]

my friends directed me to this blog to see what people would think about my situation. theyre fully supportive, but wanna see what tumblr thinks, i guess.

aita for killing the person who murdered my family, and then killing my rich abusive adoptive father?

hi. im like, 19. or 20. i lost count. i dont care about gender, but i guess im male and use he/him. anyway. when i was around 10, there was a break and enter into my house. we were getting robbed. the robber killed my mom and dad, while i snuck into the kitchen do grab a kitchen knife. i stabbed him in the back and took his gun while he was stunned. i was scared to use it, so instead i just kept stabbing him until he stopped breathing. great childhood, i know.

anyway, after that, i was all alone. i didnt know where my brother went, and my parents were dead. we didnt really have an extensive family, so there were no funerals, and there was no one to take care of me. so for a while i just roamed the streets. some random guy saw me, and seeing a kid covered in blood probably isnt the most normal thing, so he ran up to ask if i was ok. he brought me to an orphanage, where i stayed for a while. eventually, my second "dad" (i dont even want to call him that. hes a disgrace compared to my real father, even calling him a parent feels disrespectful) came to the orphanage to adopt a kid. said kid was me. i was happy, cause id finally have a home again, and he was rich! i would be spoiled, and given a wonderful life for the trauma i had to go through.

i was wrong, though. the guy who adopted me was a prick. he was a rich scumbag who only thought about others if it meant he could say bad things about them. he was negligent, and would sometimes hit me. he got drunk all the time, and usually i was left alone in his huge house, only having the occasional housemaid to care for me. whenever i see pictures of the interiors of huge houses or mansions it gives me chills. anyway, after all this bullshit, i finally thought enough was enough. i still carried a few knives on me ever since the incident, in case something bad happened again. at night when no one except the two of us were in the house, i stabbed him in the heart while he was sleeping. i took all his money, and figured if worst comes to worst, i could pay my way out of being punished for murder. fortunately, that wasnt even necessary. when i called 911 pretending like i had no idea what happened, none of the officers even touched me. no one had a clue i had the weapon. it was eventually ruled down to a robber that got away, ironically enough.

after all this, i inherited all of his shit. all the money, the whole house, and all his stupid rich guy bullshit (think yachts, fancy cars). it was all mine. i turned the house into a housing unit, letting anyone who wanted to to live in it (like the homeless or people who needed to get away from an abusive household), given how huge it was. seriously, it felt like a palace in a disney movie. i sold all the shit he had that i didnt care about, or gave it away for free to others. i donate frequently to charity. i make sure i dont keep too much money for myself at a time, and i dont buy stupid things that i dont actually need. i dont want to become like him.

alright, so heres the final question. i know some people think murder is unacceptable, no matter how evil the victim is, that my parents may be watching me from the stars with hatred, and that rich peolle are assholes. but im trying my best to be a good person.

am i the asshole?

#aita #am i the asshole #unreality #child abuse #child neglect

[scorching-earth]

Go Ask Alice: She smooths her gloves out carefully, making room for pen and quill. "In this purgatory all I get to do is watch and wait. They do not see it, but you are indeed the Queen, I need to ask before I arrive, are you sure you know which grave she is headed, what if it is yours and I take your place? Did I spot a wrinkle on your fair hand? Tic tic goes the rabbits watch, your time is near. What if first Alice has been making a path for you all this time...dont you see it?" The newest victim opens her fan wide. Smiles at her careful taunts and tease.

the third Alice: "How do I know that the First's grave is near?"

the third Alice laughs. at the shear Idea that they insinuate she didn't know.

the third Alice: "why I'm a phantom my dear sweet idiot, a ghost, a demon. It's been years since I have died, so what dose one do when no one sees you? Travel being a ghost has it's perks. one such perk is to pass through anything. so I would often look at our dear first Alice suffer, it was a grate way to pass some time."

the third looked at her right hand, no longer dose a green club lay on it. A frown crossed the third Alice's Face. no wrinkles, but the third always loved the club. as dead though that "perk" was no longer hers. she struck the parasol onto her hand.

the third Alice: "I'll have you know not just anyone can take my place only the green club can. even with that I know my daughter struggles to keep peace since she doesn't hold the Green club."

a tsk escapes the thirds lips.

the third Alice: "and for that comment on the first carving the path. she may have made way but that path is now unkempt and overgrown. and it dose not matter who made it it only matters who uses it"

Forth F twin: "what did I just listen to?"

the second is seen slowly waling towards the two.

second Alice: "whats going on here?"

third Alice: "nothing got another letter this time it was given to me."

the third gave the second the letter. the second huffed.

second Alice: "we all know every part of this small world. you know this wonderland is small right? A Ghost can travel the whole world in three years. it's remembering anything that's hard. it's why the first only knows about these woods. she hasn't even had enough time to look at the other contraries that we made. and I think we would know at least our own graves."

third Alice: "and for us we know everyone else's grave. the male twin the second and me are all well travelled. well the male twin perhaps not as much as me and the second."

#character #original character #ask blog #originalcharacter #ask my ocs #alice and the human sacrifice #alice of human sacrifice #ask me anything #mostly the third #a bit of a lore dump #second alice #third alice #forth alice #the third is a lot more bold after dying #when your death day is a holiday you kinda stop fearing withering away

[staggersz]

What are your headcanons for the girls? Gwen, Amy, and Donna. What's their sexualities? Crushes? Attitudes? Reactions to life post the basement? Anything else you can think of that you wanna share?

i’ve been WAITINGGGGG for this question YIPPEE

Gwen

I feel like she’s only like. Almost a year and a half younger than Finney so she’d be in the grade below him. She’d be one of Griffin’s best friends. She protects him (Amy does also) when it’s just them in 8th grade.

I headcanon her as a lesbian, because she seems like the type to be in a tiny bit of denial, even though she makes her girl dolls kiss. She has a crush on Amy but she isn’t really willing to admit that. (GUYS DONT WORRY. WLW GET A HAPPY ENDING IN THIS AU I PROMISE)

Gwen is really sassy and sarcastic and she’s just winning tbh she seems like the type that would just get up and leave the room if a teacher denied her asking to use the bathroom. Gwen is winning the IDGAF war yall!

When Finney escaped the basement, Gwen was REALLY worried about him and like refused to let him walk alone anywhere like she wants to go with him every time. If Robin can’t walk home with Finney on Fridays then Gwen will walk Finney home first. Gwen is like bffs with Griffin so she learns sign language for him pretty quickly and is always making sure he and Billy are okay at school.

Amy

Amy is around the same age as Gwen, so she’s a bit younger than Bruce. She likes being the instigating younger sister. She’s also best friends with Griffin, but she’s also really good friends with Billy. When Billy admitted to his crush on Griff, Amy was the one who basically told Billy how to impress Griffin and win him over.

Amy is Bi (With male preference) She had a crush on a guy for a bit, but when she got to high school she started having HEAVY feelings for Gwen like she is WHIPPED folks.

Amy is ALSO incredibly sassy like atp her and Gwen are like “they asked for no pickles” and with Billy and Griffin behind them like they’re Amy and Gwen are the two doing the talking. Amy also doesn’t care if she gets in trouble but she still has good grades and stuff. She’s competitive like Bruce but is less cocky. And if she has funny blackmail about the others, she gets them to buy her silence with barbie dolls and/or candy. (Vance and Bruce fall victim to this the most)

When Bruce escaped the basement, Amy was literally overjoyed and so emotional. She was literally so happy that she could see Bruce again. When she was visiting in the hospital it was literally just all tears. She didn’t have to feel like she was grieving a brother anymore. She has her brother. If Bruce has a baseball game, Amy makes sure he has someone with him on the way home. She helps him put concealer over his scar if he wants to cover it. She helps him feel more secure. Amy also got closer to Billy, because they also bonded over a lot of things. (Silly bi4bi bffs!!)

Donna

Donna is Billy’s twin i’m not taking feedback on this they would be fraternal twins. Donna got more of her mom’s traits while Billy got more of his dad’s traits. I feel like her best friend would be Robin (fuck all of the people that say they would hate each other) and she’ll hang out with him sometimes.

I feel like she’d be bi with no preference but she didn’t really know until high school; she was kinda confused when she started having a crush on a girl in her class. In my opinion I think she didn’t have that much of a thing for Finney. (but again thats just my opinion) She told only Billy for a while about her crush since she knew Billy was with Griffin.

Donna is probably way less sassy than the former two! She’s super nice and I will literally hunt down anyone who says she would be mean she wouldn’t have a single mean bone in her body. She’s always doing nice things for the others and she doesn’t judge any of them. I feel like she’d be honest but not in a blunt way, she just is nice about what she thinks.

When Billy escaped the basement and Donna reunited with him in the hospital, she didn’t even try to stop herself from crying. So much had happened since Billy went missing and she felt horrible that Billy had to deal with it also. Their parents had divorced while Billy was still missing, so Donna was upset seeing his reaction to that. It felt odd when Billy was back home for the first few days though; she felt like her brother was frozen in time and just came out with scars. It’s odd standing next to him now when he’s noticeably shorter from malnourishment. She feels like she has a little brother from how childish Billy acts now. But she loves him all the same.

#tbp fandom #tbp #the black phone #let me have fun making headcanons #cigaw #this is for my story #can i get a witness? #tbp headcanons #tbp hcs #gwen blake #amy yamada #donna showalter #showalter twins #yamada siblings #blake siblings #gwenamy #WOOOOO GAYS FOR THE WIN #IM NOT NETFLIX YALL DW LESBIANS WIN 🙏 #donna is the only mentally sane out of all of them but that doesnt mean she is 100% okay #we need more donna recognition #DONNA AND ROBIN BFFS #ITS REAL TO ME #finney blake #bruce yamada #billy showalter #griffin stagg #robin arellano #vance hopper

[aftonfamilyvalues]

I genuinely need therapy, because my mental health is so bad like I trauma dump a lot and I don’t mean to and have a lot of compulsions and addictive behaviors and lack community… i act compulsively a lot. I need to sleep but I’m scared to and don’t really know how to let go/don’t feel safe enough to sleep, I’m constantly afraid of being violated, but it seems like for good therapy you need to pay out of pocket. I’ve never had a therapist in a clinic that wasn’t mediocre and project misogyny onto me and stigmatize me and judge me and make me feel worse, some have flat out been malicious and when I gave them feedback they didn’t like, they will blame me for their bad behavior and gaslight me. A lot of them have invalidated or even minimized my experiences being abused, even sexually abused. They’ll be distracted. I’ve spent a lot of time doing emotional labor (I think a lot of therapists are codependent.

I think a lot of women are socialized to give care but there’s a lot of misogyny in mental health. I was searching for feminist therapists on psychology today, just to see if maybe I could vet out someone who focuses on women’s issues because my trauma is a woman’s issue… I don’t need a therapist gaslighting me as to why I can’t get over my trauma and trust men, that’s not why I’m in therapy to heal so that I can jump into a relationship, I get so panicked when therapists do that because it’s so devaluing.

A lot of them aren’t grounded in reality, like when it comes to male violence and how the system works and ironically a lot I’ve had to explain how narcissism works… and one had never heard of negging; j feel like these are things a therapist should know. It seems like their only purposes is to label and perscribe medications and a lot actually don’t know how trauma works it’s bizarre?

I search and I see “kink positive.” This shit makes me want to die, like kinda feels hard to heal and find connection in a patriarchal system. I feel like I’ll never get out of poverty. Im going to be 32 in April and just now going to school, kinda feel like it’s hopeless hoping I can heal and have the life I want like it’s endless 😅

I’ve only found radical feminist spaces and actual feminist spaces helpful but I try not to trauma dump, sharing trauma in therapy is weird.

Since I’ve been around 4 I’ve wanted to die, I’d be terrified telling my mother I wanted to go home. She hated me for being a victim and denied any sexual abuse and acted so clueless; I blacked out most my childhood and she laughing shared with me that when I was 4 I was crying about wanting to go home. Like I was suicidal at 4 years old and I always hoped that would change but it only gets worse the older I get but then I’m also scared of dying.

Not sure what the point is when things keep getting worse; how do you find “your people” like sane people? I miss when feminism meant something, most people are untrusty.

It’s always felt like hell on earth and Tbh sometimes I miss being delusional and believing in god and heaven.

im sorry youve had those experiences. i think theres a strange over saturation of therapists nowadays. maybe not directly, but of people who really shouldnt be therapists. im thinking of the types of people ive seen want to go into/have gone into therapy and really, so many are not the types of people who should be trying to help others with their issues. i mean, my friend was forced to go to therapy in high school and the only feedback the therapist ever gave was "yeah, your life sucks, id hate to be you"

a lot of them dont really focus on healing but rather "fixing" especially with women. they dont want to validate you, they want you to be "normal" per se and to go back to be useful patriarchal cogs. i think theres a problem on therapists not recognizing where peoples trauma comes from. how can you help someone whose problems stem from poverty if you dont understand how poverty works? from misogyny and patriarchy? from racism? from homophobia? from the establishments which are built upon and utilize these oppressions? the worst are the ones indoctrinated by these systems, that work to strengthen them, like the "kink positive" ones you mentioned. all theyll do is push traumatized individuals, mainly women, back into traumatizing situations.

but overall, i dont really know how to answer your question. ive always had a sane dependable immediate family to fall back on. but there are people out there

#ask

[femingrab]

Ok so i want to ask a genuine question here, i am being as sincere as i can and im wondering what the answer to this may be:

In what world, is siding with nazis and fascists a normal thing to do when upset about a group? (In this case trans people). In what way does siding with genocidal monsters make sense when you're "enemy" are people who just want to be treated with baseline human respect?

I mean look at Rowling, she's gone and sided with matt walsh, a literal self proclaimed fascist, the organization he's apart of is spewing genocidal rhetoric, hell they defended kanye while he was being openly antisemitic.

I just wonder why theres never any introspection here, surely you must be aware that what you want will lead to genocide. Surely the knowledge that your beliefs are shared by people who want you dead as well should be some kind of giveaway shouldnt it?

(I was going to anon this but fuck it ig, i dont much care this has been on my mind for a bit now)

Damn, you're obsessed, aren't you? You just can't handle women disagreeing with you and try to guilt-trip them and act like you're oppressed for being a GNC male with a fetish when everyone is now kissing the asses of you people and you get more protection than actual women do. You think people disgreeing with your lifestyle means they want you dead? Oh please. Spare me the tired old narcisstic whining. At least more people are waking up slowly but surely because of the nonsense going on, lately, with so-called "transwomen" and their activists. I think people should be able to defend themselves from violent misogynistic males regardless of their "gender identity". If they're going to prey on and threaten women, then they deserve the consequences. If they're going to attack gay men and lesbians for their same-sex attraction or try to force them to have sex with them, they deserve the consequences. Being "trans" shouldn't be a free pass to get away with shit, but it is, now. "Transwomen", especially violent ones like sex offenders, don't belong in women's prisons.

I bet you can't even cite any of those claims. J.K. Rowling never said she hated trans people and said she accepts them, but not predatory transwomen and that she thinks their female rape victims shouldn't be forced to address them as female. Everyone who claims she hates trans people in general can't actually give any proof.

I've already shown you how conservatism aligns with trans identites, but you ignore and keep deflecting to protect your misogynistic porn brain rot fetish, Mr. "horn-meister demon trans lady" (BTW, "meister" is masculine). Go bother someone else. 🖕

#rape mention

[lostandfem]

so i'm a trans teenage boy. not sure if i still want to identify as that when i'm questioning trans ideology recently. i think I can take my time in how I want to perceive trans ideology. please hear me out. the trans community rejected my concerns and the libfem community i'm usually in also rejected my concerns. so, one of the trans ideology is trans men are men and trans women are women, right? i believed that at first. i also love making friends with many trans boys, enbies and trans girls my age in the trans community. in the trans community, they encourage people to go to toilets of their preferred gender. i know many adult trans men go to the men's bathroom for the gender euphoria so my peers who are trans guys also do the same. my friends who are trans girls talked about feeling gender euphoria for going to the girl's toilet. trans people do go to unisex toilets but they prefer going to toilets that affirm to their gender identities. so i also go to the men's bathroom cause i identified as a boy, in school and in public. however, not long ago, in school, a male teacher sexually assaulted me in the men's toilet and got me pregnant. jsyk i'm not at the age yet to medically transition ftm. thankfully i got an abortion but that experience is traumatic for me. i couldn't believe i'm one of those pregnant teenagers. that's when i start to question trans ideology. i warned my afab peers against using the men's toilet for their safety and told my amab peers against using the women's toilet but they all disregard my concerns to protect afab people who haven't gone through ftm medical transition. they call me a transphobe. i told them about my rape story but they say that i'm victim blaming and guilt tripping them. i felt invalidated. i talked about this issue with the libfem community i usually interact in but they say i should let people do whatever they want as long as it's not harming me. but it's not about me, i care about minimizing people from not getting harassed and potentially getting pregnant and lose money to get abortions. i care about people not getting sexually assaulted. i think that people should go to public toilets based on their sex for safety, which is rejected by the trans and libfem community. do you think my idea is right? i like how radfems care about female oppressions which aligns with my beliefs but I'm not sure if i want to be a radfem since i'm still learning about other different types of feminism like intersectional feminism, socialism feminism and the list goes on

oh my god im so sorry, anon. i really hope youre doing okay. please seek professional help if you need it. i know shame can be a huge factor in not seeking help, so please know that you have nothing to be ashamed of. the only person feeling shame should be that vile man.

second, dont rush too fast into choosing a type of feminism. learn as much as you can about feminism in general, and then you can narrow it down if you want. get a wide array of knowledge like youre doing. the point is to be able to find communities that align to your beliefs, not align yourself to a community’s beliefs. (but a lot of radfems are socialist or marxist, and were all intersectional. different feminist schools of thought overlap and individuals usually subscribe to a few of them)

and yeah i agree with sex segregated bathrooms. we often talk about the potential dangers of having males in the womens room, but rarely about the dangers of having females in the mens room. i dont think its worth sacrificing safety for the sake of validation. when it comes to trans activism, validation is one of the most important things you go provide for a trans person, but i really cant understand how it’s more dire than physical safety. someone feeling positively cannot be more important than the literal lives of females.

it’s pretty narcissistic of your friends to hear about your trauma and somehow make it about them and their feelings, too. im sure youve put a lot of effort into accommodating their feelings, but they didnt even make an effort to understand yours. like you were the victim of rape and somehow talking about it is victim-blaming them? what are they a victim of? it implies you telling your story is an attack on them, and thats a huge red flag imo. especially because you didn’t even invalidate their gender, you just said it might be a better safety measure for bathroom policies to be different. why is their euphoria more important than safety? and heres the thing about “as long as its not harming you”— it has. like for example, even if youve been to the mens bathroom many times and it hasnt harmed you, all it took was that one time. same goes for trans women in the womens bathroom. an individual trans woman might not hurt me, but it does open the door to a male (trans woman or cis man) who might. individual actions dont exist in a vacuum. heck, even if im not hurt by any individuals going to the bathroom based on gender and not sex, i know that the action of letting it happen on an individual level sets a precedent for what should be allowed, and someone somewhere else might get hurt from it. why should we only be concerned about things harm only us directly?

youre not alone in being trans and being uncomfortable in the mens bathroom btw. i know of another detrans blogger who made a post about being scared a male might look through the bathroom stall and find out she was actually female and do something to her (cant remember who tho). and myself, even on testosterone, chose to go to the womens room because it felt safer. my one time in the mens room was terrifying. there were so many dicks just Out, it felt like a threat.

regardless of identity there are realities to biological sex that need to be addressed. it cannot be sacrificed to the idea of identity, and i dont see why it has to. why cant they coexist? why is there such heavy emphasis on choosing one over the other? are they incompatible entirely or is there a narrative being pushed for some reason?

i really hope youre doing okay, anon. wishing you the best 💜

#asks #im sorry this was super long #tw rape #rape

[manie-sans-delire-x]

i agree with you every time you speak about how its so incredibly important to acknowledge female oppression based on sex, but why is it so hard to not call trans men "women"? like i don't get why so many people refuse to do that. both trans men and women have uteruses and vaginas, so why do they insist that it erases female oppression or harms women? it doesnt? the same thing happens with trans women. i think it really isnt that hard to speak about certain types of oppression while at the same time acknowledging that they very often overlap each other. like trans women and cis women both suffer misogyny, theyre both targets of sexual harassment and assault, and they both are the main victims of prostitution. trans men and women both suffer from sex-based oppression, obstetric and medical violence. trans men who are cis-passing dont suffer sexual harassment though, and they can navigate society with a considerable amount of male privilege (and so many radical feminists forget this, there ARE trans men who pass completely, most trans men who have used testosterone for a long time do, and they dont have to suffer misogyny in their daily life. it feels almost a bit insulting to hear people speak about them like they suffer the exact same oppression cis women do) trans women usually can't do this. people are diverse, and i dont get why its so difficult to speak about these things without excluding certain groups of people or just being fucking rude or disrespectful to them, many times on purpose. (sorry if i didnt explain myself well btw, english is not my first language)

Hi anon, your English is fine! Its super good actually. And thank you for acknowledging that female oppression is based off sex. But you should have stopped at "I agree with you every time you speak" lol! Jokes aside...

Transwomen (I think thats who you meant when you said transmen) are able to get surgery to have a sort of vagina, but no, they do not have uteruses... Not sure where you got that misinformation. Even if they had a uterus surgically transplanted, it would be nonfunctional and ultimately pointless to everyone. As they do not have eggs, they would be unable to have periods or get pregnant. I suspect there would be serious health risks involved too. In the same way, a transman would never be able to produce sperm even if they had a dick or balls surgically transplanted.

Girls, women, and boys are the main victims of prostitution and sex trafficking, simply because most of the "clients" are straight males. A smaller percentage of them are also sexually attracted to males, but as many of them are pedophiles, they prefer boys over grown men. So passing/not passing/extent of transition also has a lot to do with it. Traffickers of course do not care if someone is trans or not. If someone looks like a young female, they are a potential target. If they are not "passing" and look like an adult male, traffickers are likely uninterested because they are not sexually attracted, the clients are not interested, and a male is harder to physically fight and control. Or if they are smaller and young, they will happily traffic boys too- whether or not they identify as a girl. I guess what Im saying is that they do not purposefully look for transwomen, they look for girls, young women, and boys (and sometimes young men that are small/look way younger than they are). Basically anyone who looks young and vulnerable. Aside from sex, age is the next largest indicator of risk. It may even be number 1. Its not gender presentation. A female could identify as and present as a male but it would not matter to them if they can tell that they're female.

Transwomen are definitely victimized as well, but it is on incomparable scales, partly due to the vast difference in population size (1% to 50%), and usually for different reasons- transphobia, (which may or may not be mixed with misogyny). To say they are "both the main victims" makes it seem like its an equal amount, which is very much is not, luckily for transwomen.

All populations- including boys and men- experience sexual harassment and assault, but obviously that does not mean we might as well put them all in the same sex category because sex is not defined by level of oppression. Its not like, "oh you've experienced x amount of oppression in your lifetime, you may as well sit with the ladies" lol.

Transwomen are not oppressed under laws that only apply to females. Women are denied equal legal and social rights for being female, and as transwomen are biologically male, they are given equal rights from birth. As long as their birth certificate says "male", they will always be given these rights by the government.

I definitely agree that transmen who are cis-passing dont suffer sexual harassment (as much) and that they can navigate society with male privilege. But they can still be denied legal rights for being biologically female though, or be discriminated against anytime it says "female" on academic, professional, or legal paperwork. (And then transphobia can mix in with the misogyny when they see a male passing person). I also agree that they dont suffer the exact same oppression as cis women and that transwomen are not given this same luxury, because unfortunately as transwomen come to learn, misogyny is real and its a monster.

Why do you find it insulting to hear people say that passing transmen suffer the same oppression cis women do (because you know its not completely true), but you dont think its insulting to say that passing transwomen do NOT suffer the same oppression cis women do?

I think your whole argument boils down to "transwomen are oppressed just as much as ciswomen so should be considered women". Not only is that clearly not true when you look at laws, but again, sex is not defined by levels of oppression or life experience.

#asks #trans #gender critical

[cyverrieee]

A/n: this is my first time here and uhh i dont really know stuff but here i am ! Also before we get started i do make:

Grammar mistakes

OOC (out of character)

Laziness

Yeah thats all- ig-

From Akihito!

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Genderbent Genshin Au x y/n

y/n mostly likely will be a male but i cant stick into making gn but that will be for another time!

Character - [ Venti ]

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Older times

[ Venti ] - Female

You ment Venti in 8th grade, and the first time you met her; you were a nerdy loner! But since Venti is Venti, She decided to befriend you. Since she technically knows everyone around the school, she was one of the school's pranksters! And since you being a boy inside a circle; you never actually made any pranks in your previous years.

"uhh.. are you sure this is alright venti?"

You said as you looked at the prank venti was holding, honestly you didnt wanna join but you gotta look out for her; if she gets in trouble of course.

"This is going to HARMLESS, so you dont gotta worry about it!"

She confidently while you meekly nodded as a response, she goes closer to you and put her arm around your shoulder

"you dont need to worry [ Name ] im good at these type of things!"

She said smiling to you, you softly smiled as the female felt her heart beating like thunder. She takes her arm away from your shoulder and went to set up the prank.

after a while of waiting someone finally went over it, and it was your sister; Yoimiya! You rushed to help her as Venti tried to stop you but failed.

"are you okay sis!?"

You said, Yoimiya looked up to you and nodded, she stands up wiping the dirt off of her skirt

"im okay big bro you dont need to worry! That was cool but i would rather not be the victim.."

Your younger sister said, you nodded as she left; Venti comes from behind "Uhh.. sorry about that [ Name ].."

She guilt-fully said, you turned around and put your hand and your chest.

"its okay Venti!"

Your smile lead a mark on the young lady's heart and brain, and she felt heat rising through her cheeks.

"thank you.."

She softly said as the bell rang, you perked up and grabbed Ventis wrist and began to run to your classrooms..

That was the only memory Venti has until you switched schools, she was lonely and sad when you werent around but.. she has to deal with it, shes in collage now and she got back to that misery highschool memories again.. she was minding her business until the door knob twisted and turn.

She looked as the door opened by itself, revealing a person.. no a man wearing a oversized hoodie and a black mask with some luggage on him, Venti stood up and went to that man.

"hello sir, are you looking for the dor-"

She said, she was interrupted by the man,

"Are you Venti De Carmen?"

(Its a made up name i made involing ventis constellation in game)

"A-Ah yes thats me! Why do you ask?"

The lady said, tilting her head looking at the mysterious man, until they spoke up

"ah.. i missed you so much.."

The man revealed himself, taking off his hood and mask. Revealing what Venti missed the most.. [ Name ]..

"i-is that really you?!"

The woman jolted and immediately hugged the person standing infront of her.

"Yup its me, i missed you alot.."

The person nodded at he pats the short female's head. As her sobs were heard from him, as the taller male shush her cries..

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I honestly hope you like my first work <33

Drink some water, eat well and if someone is being mean to you, dont care for them! They are just nothing but a waste of your time!

#genshin x y/n #genderbend #male reader #venti x reader #genshin venti

[menalez]

You being a woc doesn't exempt you from being a really awful and heartless person, I hope you understand that. So quit using it as your sheild. I'm not even gonna stoop as low as to actually insult you. You probably get a lot of that already and there's no point in immaturely attacking aspects of you that have nothing to do with your hateful rhetoric. You should probably try to seek therapy since you're so deathly afraid of entire genders and kinds of people, life must be hard being surrounded by us nasty trannies and big scary males, I'm sure a professional could help with that. And maybe connect with some LGBT groups and actually speak with trans people and trans women in particular. Trans people were cis once too and had to learn to accept eachother and themselves. It is a journey of human compassion, something you clearly lack a lot of. Get better soon, genuinely. Because hating your queer neighbors brings nothing but pain for all of us. 😔

erm since when was i deathly afraid of "entire genders" (not afraid of social constructs luv, but i am afraid of my oppressors) and "kinds of people"? also telling women that theyre irrational for being careful around our oppressors esp when we're rape victim is not a good look. telling a woc that talking about how someone enabled racist harassment such as being called a brown whore is "using it as a shield" is not a good look either. fun fact but pissvortex was called out by several woc especially black women for being racist. doesnt seem like u care about that more than u care about making ur weird presumptive comments about me!

as for connecting with lgbt groups, im very connected with lesbian groups and other groups for gay people :) my friends are primarily lesbians, gay men, and some bi people.

ive spoken to trans women and dealt firsthand with them telling me very vile things, sexualising me knowing im uncomfortable with it, and trying to pressure me into having sex with someone with a penis (+ trying to pressure me into conversion therapy. very nice!). so dont worry, ive spoken a lot to trans people. i was very big on trans activism for years until facing lesbophobia from other trans activists which put me off of the movement.

also dont call me homophobic slurs thanks <3

[corvidares]

as per your last reblog i’ve been searching for advice and i don’t know who to ask so you’re my victim (/s) my partner recently came out as a trans man and i’m so happy and excited for him and i love him very much but i’m so committed to the lesbian label. i love being one, i love calling myself one. i still like girls, but i also still love him. what do i do here??? does it even matter??? you seem like you’re so wise with this stuff. could you help me out?

well i can give you my input, at least! its a pretty personal matter, but i am flattered you deem me "wise" enough to ask LOL

but yeah, i wanna make clear that this is ultimately up to you, and your partner. it could definitely be worth having a conversation about; for example, would he feel uncomfortable with you identifying as a lesbian? would that feel invalidating to him? 

im sure i dont need to tell you there are plenty of good adjacent labels like sapphic, queer (a personal favorite), just plain ol vague gay, and of course bi pan etc. or no label at all! but you know that, and i know how hard it can be to let go of a label that provides you a lot of comfort and joy. 

in the end, queer ppl in irl spaces care waaaaaay less. you could continue to call yourself a lesbian, and likely most people wont bat an eye. (again, assuming your partner is comfortable with that)

yes, lesbian is most often understood as "someone who does not date binary men" these days but like that post says.. our history and terminology is fluid and we, as humans, are too!  labels are tools for us to use and signifiers to find community. in the end, despite what online queer spaces will try to tell you, no one but YOU can determine how you label. and if they do, fuck em. block and move on. 

i have a friend who went through a similar experience - he at the time identified as a lesbian, and ended up dating his then (male) best friend. so he switched to pan, only for said partner to come out as a trans woman! (theyre engaged now :) ) my friend has realized since that hes attracted to men / masculinity as well after all. case in point! we're complicated creatures. 

i know it's a bit of a non answer, but i cant make that choice for you! i wish you and your partner all the best tho, and congrats to him figuring himself out :D 

#ask #anon

[avenger-hawk]

(submission by some idiot who had nothing better to do I guess)

Gotta put my reply first because your submission is too long. Also because I don’t like you.

First of all did you think I’d read this long ass shit and reply to all of it for real?

Cause I read the beginning and the end and it’s enough to see you’re an idiot, and your little brain wouldn’t be a problem if you didn’t come to shit in my blog.

You see, I write in my blog and I don’t come into yours to tell you you’re a delusional dumbass with little understanding…I do it in mine. I discussed N*ruto stuff when I started this blog. Then I got tired because it’s useless, no one’s gonna change their mind and the majority of ppl are too stupid to even think properly.

In my blog my word is the law. Not to mention I always say it’s my opinion, anyway.

My opinion is based on canon though. Ofc I like to stretch canon and write extreme headcanons…but certain things are canon.

Like yin and yang. Yin, Sasuke, passive/receptive element. Yang, N*ruto, assertive/dominant element. This is what kishi wrote.

N*ruto always chased after Sasuke, Sasuke either escaped or let N*ruto do whatever with him. N*ruto acted possessive and dominant with Sasuke, to an extreme point. He always imposed his will on Sasuke.

But you know what, I wrote about all this many times and you read my posts anyway since, I guess, all this submission is a confutation of my opinion.

Dude you sound like an idiot N*ruto stan who should use their brain before engaging in a discussion with someone else. Try to do this next time. But not with me cause I’m gonna block you.

Sns

You don’t seem like the type to engage in discussions that oppose your opinions but I’m gonna send this anyway, I was going through your sns tag and some of your points are confusing to me. How is naruto losing his shit over orochimaru talking about Sasuke like he’s an object proof that’s he’s like, super possessive of Sasuke? I do agree that naruto is assertive but how is Sasuke passive? They both have dominant personalities, if they didn’t they wouldn’t have fought as much as they did. If sasuke was as passive as you like to say shippuden wouldn’t exist. Both sn and ns are written ooc in that regard as well. I agree that genin Sasuke was selfless but shippuden Sasuke who didn’t care who he hurt in order to achieve his goals? Where’s the selflessness..? Naruto can also be selfish but saying he’s not selfless at all is the actual ooc take there. Not only is being selfless your average mc trait but the naruto who let himself get beat up rather than rat out his international criminal friend and constantly puts himself in danger so his loved ones dont get hurt, isnt selfless at all? Also the whole naruto chasing and Sasuke escaping therefore Sasuke is the bottom..?? And that one point about the war arc, I’m pretty sure they were both leading and following the other, not too much offense but you kinda sound like an articulate version of “Sasuke is the bottom because his name is sasUke" 

Yes naruto told Sasuke he’d break every bone in his body but like..Sasuke was willingly walking into the lair of some creepy guy who everyone knew wanted to possess his body?And Sasuke was willing to risk it purely for the power to kill itachi. This was also after Sasuke was putting serious effort into killing naruto so the kid gloves were def off 💀 naruto was also running on demon fox chakra which we know makes him more violent? And naruto saying that they’d both die if they fought all out was just facts they literally blew eachother’s arms off,Idk you don’t have to like naruto which I think you don’t but a lot of your points seem to ignore context and take it simply as this or that which is weird with how many deep analysis posts you have. 

Sns is also already toxic without your added layer of naruto dominant controlling possessive imposing ultra alpha toxic male and Sasuke the poor passive submissive docile victim who does whatever naruto says. Naruto was weirdly obsessed with Sasuke and Sasuke tried to kill naruto several times for the sake of solitude and power. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone portray their bond as the healthiest thing ever then again I kinda just watched naruto so I haven’t been exposed to the fandom for long. 

Idek if im remembering these correctly but sns first meeting after the timeskip naruto was just saying what about our bond, orochimaru wants your body etc etc and the only time they met up after that was at the bridge where naruto was like i get it now and not to attack the village but fight him instead cause he’s the only one who can handle all that hate, and finally after the war where it was just “let me cut you down” “no” and sasuke seeing into naruto’s memories and something else about what it means to be hokage. which sasuke was very obviously wrong about so the whole imposing beliefs is just..?

The Sasuke that wanted justice and revolution didn’t need to be saved but the Sasuke who was willing to and did hurt anyone and anything to achieve his goals and thought being hokage meant being hated for the sake of peace, absolutely did. The problem with the story was that they put those two together cause I find it hard to believe all the Sasuke was right crowd genuinely believe he was making God honest sense there at the end. Whatever “imposing of beliefs” done by naruto was most def to the sasuke who wanted to run into the arms of a dangerous enemy wanting to use his body, trying to kill his best friend for trying to stop him and get the ms, trying to kill his team again for idk, shits and giggles after their first encounter post time skip, running to attack a bunch of kages, joining but not really joining the akatsuki and trying to take out killer bee, an innocent jinchuriki, trying to destroy a whole village, nearly sacrificing a teammate he recruited himself to kill danzo by shooting a lightning blade through her, trying to kill kakashi? for some reason.. then trying to kill naruto( again) and the tailed beasts because he thought that was the path of #power and #peace 

You trying to pass Sasuke off as this super selfless submissive victim who can’t think or stand up for himself and gets pushed around easily by everyone and never did anything wrong in his life he was just desperate or whatever else is in your bio is probably the most confusing part of the posts I’ve seen and I’m a naruto stan who really only cares about him, as it relates to naruto you sound just like every other Sasuke stan who cries about his mischaracterization then turns around and mischaraterizes naruto, like you can pull for canon material all you want but still misinterpret it or just…choose to see it in your own negative way and run with it, saying this because you always emphasize canon in your posts as if what you say is the real and only truth and everyone else is delusional 

#anti-sns #I guess #gonna shut down submission I don't want to receive long shit anymore #fanon and fandom stuff #blocked. stay in kingston and don't bother me anymore