#and then gets gender affirming surgery

[bassiter2]

marvelous misadventures of flapjack is literally such a gay and transgender show but i can't tell for the life of me tell if it's actually on purpose or not

#the s1 finale is about a man so beautiful that he has to hide his face under a sack or else he gets bombarded #primarily by other men who just want to look at him. like so badly that they'll pay him #there was that ep i posted about last night where flapjack literally experiences transphobia and dysphoria #and then gets gender affirming surgery #k'nuckles expresses an extreme dislike for women's appearances and then claims to see the most beautiful woman in the world #and said woman is a mirror with a wig on it #in an episode that surrounds wishes from mermaids' tears k'nuckles wishes to be 'myself as a woman. just for a minute' #there was the beard episode where it's established that k'nuckles's whiskers are fake #and that tons of the contestants of the beard contest are women who grow beards naturally #the winner of the contest is a woman and her prize? a date with peppermint larry's daughter. who is excited for it #and just in general. flapjack is an extremely effeminate little boy who's established as the most likable person in stormalong #ntm it's made by the same ppl who later made adventure time and gravity falls and they like #genuinely kinda laid a lot of groundwork for modern lgbt rep in cartoons #ok to rb #WAIT JUST REMEMBERED ANOTHER BIG ONE- #in one ep flapjack gets a crush on a girl that makes him produce cartoon hearts that peppermint larry wants to harvest from him #bc they're like a delicacy #only for it to turn out that all along the floating hearts were 'blood gnats' that were hatching from eggs that got laid in his ears #and like. flapjack is literally being made extremely sick from the expectations of love for a girl being pushed on him by the town #and rather than being disgusted that there were blood gnats coming out of his head this whole time #flapjack is delighted to discover that this means he was never in love #and the girl - who was disgusted to think that flapjack was in love with her - is equally delighted #they end the episode bidding each other farewell saying 'bye i don't love you!!!! :D' 'bye i don't love you too!!!!!' #like it's just off the charts #but at the same time! there's plenty of plausible deniability that it's just the absurd nature of the show's comedy #so who knows how intentional it was

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Dysphoric culture is wanting a phalloplasty without a vaginectomy and not being able to find any doctors who've ever done it, and then crying because you know your ideal configuration apparently isn't a thing that happens.

I want to keep my vulva/vagina, but I still want a penis, and I can't tell you the amount of times I've cried because I don't think this type of surgery is even done or, if it is, done in the US at least. It sucks so much.

Dysphoric culture is!

Also anon, great news: this surgery is real! It’s called vagina-preserving phalloplasty or VPP.

There aren’t a ton of surgeons who perform it in the US but some (from the Crane Center in California) are listed here. There’s also someone in New York that talked about getting a vagina-preserving metoidioplasty in a news article but mod doesn’t know who their surgeon was. More info and some more surgeons are here.

More people are getting nonbinary bottom surgeries so there are slightly more resources around now. Good luck anon!

(For those wanting the opposite of this, phallus-preserving vaginoplasty exists too.)

#genuinely mod’s favorite type of ask is getting to give people really good news #because mod knows about some obscure stuff and so this is good place to ask if you’re looking for weird trans advice #so like. you’ve vented to the right place anon :) #dysphoric culture is #gender dysphoria #dysphoria #dysphoria tw #gender affirming surgery #bottom surgery #bottom dysphoria #medical transition #salmacian #afab nonbinary #trans #queer #lgbta #genitalia tw #tw genitals #phalloplasty #vagina preserving phalloplasty

[trickstersaint]

elegy in which you are the creator in the laboratory // october 29 2023

#let's go babeyyyyy. getting my little queerness and horror poems in before halloween #need to commit to writing more of these at all times of the year. anyway #poems about being trans #poems about being nonbinary #another poem about frankenstein #did not mean this to seem so directly about gender affirming surgery. kind of supposed to just be an identity thing in general haha. #but hey. it is in the people's hands now #this is also technically about god and whatnot cause whenever i'm writing about frankenstein and the monster #victor frankenstein is a parallel to god and the monster is humanity. you can just take that as a given from me #so. y'know. us when we're god's creations but reforming ourselves to be the way we want to be :) #and that's transness in general babey not just surgeries #let's go girls! let's remake ourselves against god's wishes! his bitchass can't do shit about it now! #poetry #poem #poems #poems and poetry #poets on tumblr #poetsandwriters #original poetry #trans poet #trans poetry #trans #<3

[catwafers]

can i interest anybody in t4t crimsonfang... t4t crimsonfang anyone...

meme redraw (original under the cut)

#trigunrareshipweek #trigun rareship week #livio the double fang #elendira the crimsonnail #crimsonfang #trigun fanart #trigun maximum #trigun #artists on tumblr #my art #meme tag #if i don't get my other idea out by the end of rare ship week at least i can say i got this one done #sorry for not following any prompts #would livio be able to get gender affirming surgery…? like would surgery work on him at all??

[sergle]

I’m still not over how funny it is about the absolute level of Delusional Terf Sensitivity that makes them get upset about  (checks my notes) ... a cis woman getting a breast reduction?

#like that really has. absolutely nothing to do with anything. it says nothing about me. #it has no impact except that it's going to be a huge amount of pain relief and will make clothing suddenly more accessible #but because it's like 30 degrees of separation from someone getting top surgery for gender affirming reasons #all of a sudden they're mad abt this one too? pick a struggle

[edandstede]

wish some of you cared about poc and queer people as much as you cared about fictional white men

#if i so much as think a thought about izzy hands i get told i don’t deserve gender affirming surgery #and fucking spoken to like dogshit #and i’ve seen the racist bullshit being spouted too it’s disgusting #the canyon are the worst insufferable small minority of fans. get in the bin #quill to paper

[transingthoseformers]

Breakdown and Bulkhead being exes and there being so many emotions about that

Especially with me remembering the semicommon hc that Breakdown used to be an autobot, which considering how he's often a stunticon and the stunticons are in rid15 gives me the crack idea of

At the beginning of the war Breakdown left the stunticons to join the autobots because of his boyfriend at the time and him disagreeing with Motormaster, leading to MM saying he won't under any circumstances take BD back if shit with Bulk and the bots goes sideways

Shit with Bulkhead and the autobots goes sideways as Breakdown grows increasingly dissatisfied with his role in the autobots, leading to him breaking up with Bulkhead and him joining the Decepticons like he was "supposed to" in the beginning of this scrap

Well. Now he's an ex-autobot in the Decepticons and again the stunticons kept to their word as he burned that bridge, leaving him a tidge of a mess.

Enter Knockout, who's looking to take on an assistant with at least SOME medical experience. Breakdown fills this requirement because i say so and because i love nurse/medic!Breakdown. Breaky says yes because fr what the pits else is he supposed to do.

After a rough adjustment period, they grow close and the more familiar power couple KOBD we recognize and love ensues

In his wiki page tfwiki suggests that in aligned Breaky used to be a scout, actually, who was real super anxious before getting a frame upgrade in order to keep up his grudge with Bulkhead and this did wonders for his mental health from what i can see. This may be another reason why Breaky seeked Knockout out

THERE WE GO, TFP BREAKDOWN: AN EX-STUNTICON, EX-AUTOBOT, UNEXPECTED MEDIC, CURRENTLY KNOCKOUT'S PARTNER IN CRIME AND MOTHERFUCKER WITH A HAMMER

#maccadam #transformers #a bullshitted up mix of canon_ fanon_ and situations where you remember it's a continuity family rather than a single continuity #Breakdown deserves more love. ik he already gets a lot but like. more please. #breakbulk #kobd #tfp breakdown #tfp bulkhead #tfp knockout #knockout was glad to oversee his fiancé's gender affirming surgery (/hj) go well #unusual metaphors for dysphoria GO #how funny would it be if they actually do have the equivalent of courting rings but they keep them safe in their quarters #i saw the idea of courting rings being made out of a literal piece of their partner's plating and the symbolism is insaneeee #i love the idea of Cybertronian courting gifts and rituals that get practiced in a variety of ways or even not at all #some of this may be nonsense

[venusararara]

I just got my fallopian tubes removed!! :3 I feel really good >w< I'm also working really hard to get the game in beta testing before valentine's day!!

CW; irl blood, happy trail if you want to see my surgery stuff

I bled a bit in my sleep, I'm waiting for a call from the ER doctor uwu now I just wait for my top surgery date!! It's March 19th, I'll be able to have the game mostly done during my recovery bc I can't work until May 1st LMAO

#tw blood #my pronouns are he/they/she!! i get afraid to share personal stuff ;w; #me irl #i feel on top of the world :3 #POV: weird reddit men don't consider you a woman anymore because you can't concieve :D #nonbinary #gender affirming surgery #i am on 6.75 mg of testosterone. i take a dose of it every 3 days. one pump of the man gel

[wild-moss-art]

GREAT NEWS

They have approved ME, a childless 27 year old afab, for a hysterectomy (: bye torture organ I've suffered enough ✌️

#gender affirming surgery am i right #i got less pushback than i expected i think they are happy to sterilize me due to my mental health history 😭 #ah well. im getting what i want #do youthink theywill let me eat it?

[quietwingsinthesky]

Trans Boy King Sam is very funny. Demons will do possession, torture, murder, all that jazz, and brag about it, but transphobia? Absolutely not. Not in their Hell.

Sure, Azazel will throw Sam into a demon blood hunger games, but he’ll use the right pronouns for him the whole time. He’s not a monster.

#obviously this is because Lucifer is trans and that spreads to all demons. even the ones he didn’t personally make #anyway. boy king as a weirdly gender affirming title. #Sam: yeah I don’t *want* to rule hell but. idk it is kind of validating that they want me as their king #dean (visibly alarmed): what the fuck are you even talking about???? #dean gets his gender validated by post-hell angel surgery. Sam gets his from his demon blood hrt. they’re so normalcore. #(fics where lucifer calls sam his boy king are already so. O_o but I mean add this and. O_o o_O O_o #when ur hell themed pet names are sooo gender…. #and I’m maybe he also calls Sam that during sex shutupdon’tlookatme it would be hot. getting railed by Sam’s strap and praising his king…) #trans sam winchester #spn #sam winchester

[mxwhore]

How close are you to boob nuking

1/4 of the way maybe

#fighting food insecurity with my comm money #also my health plan is ending in july #also one of my alternatives for top surgery was go get it in argentina but javier milei is making it very difficult #gender affirming surgeries in my country are expensive as shit sadly #i dont wanna set up a go fund me because its not that pressing and there are people who need the money more #cough palestine cough sudan cough el congo cough #so its. going. if you wanna commission me its very appreciated #thank you for your concern :) #tessa answers!

[charlieisacastle]

i need more piercings and tattoos...to affirm my gender of course

#this is a joke but also not #like obviously its not like getting top surgery (which id sell my osul to get) but it IS gender affirming #to actually customize your body and reclaim it as your own #transgender #nonbinary #agender #lgbtq #queer #charlie.txt #tattoo #piercing #chaotic academia

[justslowdown]

commune based on eating disorders?!? oh no i hope you’re okay now!!

Yeah. Yeah, Oregon mountain eco-cult

They brought me in because of the offer of housing out here on a limited timeframe. I thought we had base goals in common--a genuine passion for raising food, a love for animals, horror with capitalism and industrialized food production, a need to build real community

Turns out the leader is a textbook narcissistic disorder, paranoid, deeply mentally ill person who feels every problem in the world right now can be fixed by people eating different food. She believes she has a duty to intensely and harshly criticize and "educate" everyone around her and has even alienated her own family besides her husband and teen kids. Who all spend their time online, depending on the labor of people placed in a farmhand/The Help situation.

I was worried when a friend visited and had a fast food bag in the car they could see. I felt guilty for keeping my trailer above 50 degrees or showering for more than 5 minutes. I felt guilty using my energy to take walks and runs, even though that was waking me up to aliveness again. I was "helped" by her telling me if I wanted to build muscle I needed to stop doing cardio and use their exercise equipment instead. But not too late at night! Because I was harming the community by going to sleep at midnight. So of course she had to tell me in detail how if I changed my diet, I'd behave just like them one day 🙃

It took me a long time to realize, no matter how often and clearly I spoke up, the patterns weren't going to change. I did learn a lot about advocating for myself.

We had The Big Talk and I realized I couldn't stay. I am so thankful that Thax was there on speaker phone, not participating but hearing what came out of these peoples' mouths. That's what it took, someone else finding their behavior genuinely disturbing and inhumane

It was really scary for a little while, though, not knowing where I'd go. I'm relieved and safe now living at the kennel i work at. And am appreciated for my strengths finally! It's just that with 4 dogs, even most options to park an RV (a generous gift of some kind of security) were a immediate no. That's why my options were so limited in the first place and why I was so grateful to them.

#it goes #again #far far deeper than this and so many things were a lot more concerning #but they would take too much context and even trying to put myself back there mentally is leaving me feeling small and stupid #like... even on health insurance and able to finally theres no way id have felt comfortable getting top surgery there #because even though everyone was queer and mostly nonbinary #they felt gender affirming surgery made you complicit and perpetuating the gender binary so it was inherently oppressive

[tigersorange]

thinking about how ive medically transitioned twice because of being intersex (forced to take hormones at puberty onset bc i was going through the “wrong” puberty) and no one told me what I was being made to take were hormones that would physically change me in a way that i didn’t consent to

#intersex #its so fucked up that this is ok to do by most medical professionals #and dont even get me started on surgery. i got lucky but a lot of my intersex siblings didnt and it makes me so angry #anyways i had to medically transition again as an adult bc of that #and get surgery later on also bc of that #and i wouldve likely developed in a gender affirming way if i had been left alone

[pansyfemme]

hm. i fucking hate how round my face is and I know i have a few years until t changes slow down but im starting to think about facial masculinzation despite it probably being the one surgery my family would disapprove of

#my parents are anti non gender affirming plastic surgery #and they’d probably see that as not as gender affirming as top or bottom surgery #but like. idk #it’s mostly that i’d like to go clean shaven sometimes and not be immediatly read as female #im babyfaced as hell and its very girlish #but i can get away with it with facial hair #all i’d want is to remove some fat around my jawline #nothing else. #but idk #i know bc im fat its realistic that i’d have a round face #but it really bothers me that my facial hair is the only thing about my face that’s masc

[razzek]

Okay artists drawing trans men, here’s a ref of top surgery scars that are years old (at least 6 years). Please stop drawing your guys like someone took a chainsaw to them. Most trans men don’t even have visible scars, I just didn’t do anything to make mine less visible cuz I didn’t/don’t care. Men who had smaller chests will have even less scarring (I had tubes running from the center of my chest that exited behind my shoulders for drainage but smaller guys sometimes don’t have to deal with that).

#top surgery #queer #nobody tells you all your hair will migrate to your torso when you start T XD #double mastectomy #surgery scars #tagging this #pickles the drummer #cuz t’all are killing me with these drawings #where it looks like he’s did it himself while high #fellas if you get top surgery it looks way better than that #and if it doesn’t you get to sue for medical malpractice :D #razz rambles #haha I have no nip nops how ya gonna censor me now tumblr?! XD #agender #neutrois #I’m not a man but for the sake of my bros out there I’m spreading the word #you’ll look great and I’d like artists to represent you better #I had to have surgery twice to get everything #and also mine was not done by a trans specialist doctor #so the guys who get gender affirming focused care will look even better