#bottom dysphoria

[goblintelligence]

It is okay to not have bottom dysphoria. At all.

You are not less trans, you are not perverted, you are not your agab because of what's on your bottom half.

And it's also okay if you change your opinion on this later, but it's very valid if you don't, it's not a bad thing to be content with your bits.

#trans #trans man #transgender #ftm #transmasculine #mtf trans #mtf #nonbinary #genderfluid #genderqueer #trans umbrella #gender diversity #bottom dysphoria #bottom surgery #no dysphoria #no bottom dysphoria is valid

[fletcherthejester]

Can we please stop assuming that all gay trans men are vaginal bottoms by default? Can we please stop fetishizing trans men in general? Can we acknowledge the trans men with penises, whether surgical or prosthetic? Can we adress the horrible lack of NSFW representation for trans men who do not want to use their “original plumbing”?? Who are UNCOMFORTABLE AND REPULSED by the idea of using it? And NOT force them to "accept their pre-op bodies" PLEASE??(Because it's a valid source of dysphoria and doesn't deserve to be invalidated) (Or are you just against transitioning once the discussion gets past pronouns and haircuts 💀) (Also having a certain sexual organ doesn't mean you wanna fuck with it, so can we stop assuming it) (I mean we don't have a problem with sex-repulsed asexuals so this should be easy to grasp) (Can people please try and learn about sex dysphoria) There’s so much representation of dudes with top surgery but none of dudes with bottom surgery or even prosthetics. We need to represent all trans bodies, not just the ones that are easy to fetishize

#transgender #trans #trans masculine #transmasc #trans man #trans men #trans guy #transguys #transmasculine #ftm #ftmdysphoria #dysphoria #bottom dysphoria

[yaoiboypussy]

Me overcoming my bottom dysphoria

#transgender #trans #trans man #transmasc #bottom dysphoria #.txt

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Hey so with the barbie movie coming out mod is once again seeing comments like “I’m nonbinary and wish I could just have flat genitalia like a doll, it would take away my dysphoria”. Mod got a dysphoric culture ask about it like 2 years ago actually and now there are more so:

This is possible.

If your transition goal is to have a complete removal of all your internal and external genitalia, there is a real surgery that people get to do that. It’s called genital nullification.

It’s also called nullectomy or nullo.

It’s not a very new or super complicated surgery. Everything is taken out/taken off and you’re left with just a hole for your urethra (where you urinate out of). The urethra may be moved as part of surgery. If you research the procedure you’ll also probably hear them talk about urethral shortening, because nullification is mostly done on cis men/transfems/nonbinary patients who require a penectomy as part of the surgery.

Now don’t get this for an aesthetic or because you like how dolls look. It takes 6-8 weeks of recovery and is as serious a decision as any other bottom surgery. More info is here and here. This website has some info and pictures (graphic warning) of nullification along with phallus-preserving vaginoplasty, another nonbinary surgery.

Hopefully this helps someone!

#not dysphoric culture #resources #mod talks #nonbinary #gender affirming surgery #trans resources #nonbinary resources #bottom surgery #bottom dysphoria #genitalia tw #tw genitalia mention #transfem #amab nonbinary #lgbtq+

[forbidden-creature-snacks]

5 weeks on T.

Bottom growth is already more than obvious. My wife and I were in the bathtub, looking at it. She was inspecting it, feeling it. Reported it getting harder and thickening between her fingers. Like an actual dick.

I then looked at it, pulled the hood back, and was immediately thrilled by how much I could pull it back, how it looked underneath the hood, how it popped out. My Bun said it looked like the beginnings of an actual penis. I was grinning, happily playing with it.

And then it hit me. I've literally never felt happy about my genitals before. Ever. Never had a single positive feeling about it. During first puberty as a teenager, when the first sensations of arousal appeared, I only ever got angry and wanted to punch it to make it go away. I have always been so dissociated from it. I barely acknowledged it existed. I didn't masturbate until 21 years old because of this. If it wasn't pissing me off, I was fully ignoring it.

And now, I'm actually happy about it. About this little tdick that's growing and making me realize it actually is possible to be happy and feel at home in my body. It's been so long since my body has actually felt like home. Since before first puberty. It's feeling like coming home being lost for so long.

Y'all, this is why this shit saves lives. This is why gender affirming care is healthcare. It's so necessary for the people that need it. Everyone deserves to feel at home in their bodies.

#transgender #trans #trans man #transmasc #trans nsft #transmasc nsft #ftm #ftm hrt #trans ftm #ftm nsft #nsft ftm #bottom growth #bottom dysphoria #gender affirming care #trans hrt #trans joy

[insaniquariumfish]

I want to be a man.

I did not want want to be a man when I was a little girl. I did not want to be a boy. I did not like being expected to act a certain way, or to like certain things, or to look how other girls looked, but I liked being a girl. I was happy with being a girl.

I started wanting to be a man when I started noticing how differently men are seen, how differently they are treated, thought about, how differently they are allowed to behave. I started wanting to be a man when I was old enough to understand that much of the pain I experienced as a girl was pain that men don't have to experience. I started wanting to be a man when I realized that to be a woman is to be inferior to men. I started wanting to be a man when I realized that to be a man is to be human, to be a man is to be normal, to be respected, to be taken seriously, to be regarded as intelligent and competent and whole, to be a person in a way that I was not. I started wanting to be a man when I realized that to be a man is to have power, power that I would never be able to have because I was a woman.

I started wanting to have a penis when I started to understand how connected the penis, specifically, was to the state of being a man. How crucial it is to the power that men wield over women. How important it is as a tool of violation and subjugation and domination and humiliation. I started wanting to have a penis when I realized that people with penises do not feel vulnerable and scared and sick when they think about their own genitals and their fertility, and the genitals and fertility of the opposite sex. I started wanting to have a penis when I started wanting to make men feel the way they made me feel. I started wanting to have a penis when I started to fantasize about acting out the things I had seen done to women in porn, but doing them as a man, and doing them to a man, because those fantasies alleviated the disgust and dehumanization and shame I felt from watching such things, because in such fantasies I possessed power over those who made me feel powerless, power that I would never be able to wield in reality.

I cannot be a man. I can take hormones, I can get surgery, I can grow a beard and cut off my breasts and get muscular and have my vaginal opening closed and have a flesh tube that vaguely resembles a penis in appearance constructed. But I cannot be a man. Because the male body, the "cis" male body, is essential to male power and to male privilege. Because I will never be able to wield the power that comes with being physically larger and stronger than half of the adult population, that comes with belonging to the ruling class, to the people whom most things in this world are designed to benefit. Because I will never be able to wield the power that comes with having a penis, a real penis, a penis that gets erect and ejaculates and can impregnate, that carries with it the significance of a real penis, this weapon which symbolizes power and authority and fear and violation more than guns or bombs. Because I cannot reverse time and undo the pain and trauma of girlhood and womanhood, because I cannot reverse time and live my life from birth with the comfort and confidence and blissful ignorance that comes with existing as male. Because there will always be a difference, a meaningful difference, a brutal difference, between me and people who are male. Because no matter how much I may desire to transform from prey to predator in order to spare myself the terror and harm of being preyed upon, a sheep in wolf's clothing is a wolf neither in substance nor at heart.

What can the trans movement do for women like me? I do not want to "pass." I do not want to look like a man. I do not want to be regarded by men as one of their own, or regarded by women as something other. I do not want a surgically constructed pseudo-phallus. I want to be male. Truly male. To have never been made to endure one second of existence as a female. And I do not want to be a man because I was "born in the wrong body." I want to be a man for the same reason that I want to be wealthy, healthy, attractive, neurotypical, liked. I want to be a man because to not be a man is to suffer for it, because to be a woman is to suffer for it. What solution to this problem, to these feelings, can the trans movement possibly offer me? What can the trans movement do for women like me? How does it suggest I alleviate my dysphoria, affirm my identity, live my truth?

My dysphoria is caused by misogyny. The solution to it is not hormones, or surgery, or gender affirming language. The solution is feminism.

#gender #dysphoria #gender dysphoria #body dysphoria #bottom dysphoria #trans #transgender #ftm #feminism #radical feminism #radblr

[ruthlesslistener]

Asking mostly because I'm a trans man with nondistressing bottom dysphoria (like, my brain is mystified that I don't have a dick but I'm never really upset about it) who personally finds trans bodies to be both aesthetically and sexually appealing no matter what, but talking about bottom dysphoria can be kinda awkward with how funky Americans are about genitals, so this is a way to sort of 'chat' about our experiences anonymously

(anyone on the trans spectrum/questioning their gender identity can vote! please rb so that it can get to a bigger audience, though)

#transgender #transitioning #transgender sexuality #bottom dysphoria #i would actually love to talk about the intersection of transness and sex but #im autistic and find sex/sexuality fascinating and so i am Terrible at identifying if someone is uncomfortable or not #or if its appropriate to talk about it #so! this is a comfortable third option #i want to see if anyone other than me experiences the Ghost Dick(tm)

[pymanderprosthetics]

FTM Bottom Growth

https://en.realprosthesis.com/blog/ftm-bottom-growth

What is FTM bottom growth?

FTM bottom growth refers to the enlargement of the clitoris and the growth of the labia into a scrotum-like shape. This occurs as a result of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) with testosterone. Testosterone promotes the growth of the clitoris and labia majora, causing them to increase in size and change shape to resemble a scrotum. This process typically begins within a few weeks or months of starting testosterone therapy and can continue for up to several years.

It's important to note that not all transmasculine individuals choose to undergo hormone therapy, and some may opt for alternative methods of bottom surgery. Additionally, the rate and extent of bottom growth can vary widely from person to person and may be influenced by factors such as age, genetics, and dosage of testosterone.

What to expect

Experiencing FTM bottom growth can be a positive and validating aspect of physical transition. It is important to have a realistic understanding of what to expect.

During the first few weeks or months of hormone replacement therapy (HRT), you may notice slight growth and increased sensitivity. You may also experience a tingling or itching sensation, as well as some discomfort or soreness. As growth continues, changes in the appearance and function of your genitals may occur, such as an increase in girth and length of the clitoris, and a decrease in vaginal lubrication.

Over time, this growth will become more noticeable. The labia majora will continue to change shape and flatten, and the clitoris will continue to grow. It is important to note that the rate and extent of growth can differ greatly among individuals, and some may experience more rapid or extensive growth than others.

Self-Care and FTM Bottom Growth

When experiencing FTM bottom growth, taking care of yourself is essential. Here are some tips:

Maintain good hygiene to prevent infection. Regularly wash your genitals with warm water and mild soap. Avoid using scented products or harsh chemicals that may irritate your skin.

Use barrier methods during sexual activity to prevent STIs. Condoms, dental dams, and other barrier methods can help reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections.

Explore different forms of stimulation to find what feels good for you. As your genitals change, you may find that different forms of stimulation feel more pleasurable or satisfying. It's important to experiment and find what works for you.

Communicate your needs and boundaries with your sexual partners. As you undergo FTM bottom growth, it's important to communicate with your sexual partners about your preferences, boundaries, and any concerns you may have. This can help ensure that you have a positive and fulfilling sexual experience.

FTM Bottom growth and Stimulation with Pymander Packers

One of the most common questions we receive is: can I experience pleasure using the stimulating mouths on Pymander's products?

If I am not yet on testosterone, are the products only suitable for individuals who are taking testosterone hormone replacement therapy (HRT)?

The short answer is that everyone can experience pleasure using our stimulating mouths, which are designed to provide maximum pleasure for any body type.

However, it's important to note that having an enlarged clitoris means having different needs and sensitivities than someone who is not on HRT yet.

Our suggestion is to purchase multiple rods with different mouthpieces and determine which works best for you.

How to prevent bottom growth?

If you are a transgender man who has started hormone therapy, you may want to prevent or slow down bottom growth. One way to do this is by adjusting your testosterone dosage. Talk to your doctor about lowering your dosage, as this can help prevent testosterone from converting to DHT androgen, which is responsible for bottom growth, darker and thicker hair, and a deeper voice. Another option is to take dutasteride/finasteride, which can also block the conversion of testosterone to DHT androgen. However, it is important to note that these measures may also have some unwanted effects, such as the return of menstruation and decreased hair growth. It is important to discuss the potential benefits and risks of these options with your doctor and make an informed decision based on your individual needs and goals.

How to get more bottom growth?

If you are not satisfied with the results of your testosterone therapy in terms of bottom growth, there are some effective options that you can consider. One of them is the use of a clitoral pump, which is a non-medical, simple, safe, and temporary way to improve the size of the private area.

The FTM pump operates by drawing blood to the intimate area through suction, resulting in increased size and sensitivity. This method can be used both before and during testosterone therapy, but it will be more effective after starting the therapy.

If you're considering using a clitoral pump, there are a few things you should keep in mind. First and foremost, be sure to carefully read and follow the instructions. Proper use of the pump is key to avoiding any discomfort or injury.

A helpful tip is to begin slowly and gradually increase the suction strength over time. This will allow your body to adjust to the sensation and prevent any discomfort or pain. Additionally, it's important to use a lubricant to ensure the pump moves smoothly and doesn't cause any irritation.

DHT cream is a topical medication that contains a synthetic version of testosterone, a hormone that plays a crucial role in male development.

DHT cream works by increasing the production of dihydrotestosterone (DHT), which is a stronger form of testosterone. This can help stimulate growth in the genital area and promote the development of male secondary sexual characteristics. However, it is important to note that not everyone will experience the same effects with DHT cream.

It is important to keep in mind that while there are many options available for FTM bottom growth, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Each individual's body is unique, and some options may work better for some people than others.

Therefore, it is important to consult with a healthcare provider to determine the best course of action for your specific needs and goals.

#transgender #pymander #ftm prosthesis #ftm products #female to male #ftmpacker #transmasc #ftm packer #non binary #ftm #trans man dysphoria #bottom dysphoria #dysmorphia #bottom growth #ftm bottom growth #ftm growth #ftm dicks #ftm penis #ftm metoidioplasty #phalloplasty #dht #hrt #testosterone hrt

[fletcherthejester]

I know that I CAN top as a gay trans man. I know it isn't unheard of. But seeing so little nsfw representation of dom-top trans men, seeing how no one considers our existence when writing erotica or drawing it, it makes me feel as if I'll never be desired sexually unless I fit the "ftm bonus hole bottom" trope that everyone seems to prefer. I'll admit I'm repulsed by it, that it's triggering to see a representation of a trans man that I feel so pressured to fit when I really don't want to, and I feel so guilty that I'm repulsed by something that brings so many others joy. I just wish people had a desire for partners like me too. I wish I didn't feel like I have to use a body part I'm uncomfortable with during sex. I wish people desired what I want to be. I wish I wasn't so invisible, seen as a "waste" of what a trans man can be. Feeling like I'll never have a loving partner who will accept me as a top and never pressure me into or prefer me to bottom just because of how I was born.

#bottom dysphoria #trans #ftm #trans guy #trans man #dysphoria #transgender #trans ftm #female to male #gender dysphoria #trans male #trans men #transmasc #transmasculine

[aroaceconfessions]

Cw sex negativity, suicide mention

So I've been identifying as ace since I was 15, I'm 19. I'm sex repulsed. I know most aces have sex or are at least horny and kinky, but I've literally never even been horny. No libdo or sex drive whatsoever. My brain literally doesn't compute sex. Is that a thing or am I just broken? Am I allowed to call myelf ace or is that damaging to the rest of the community?

Like i'm a virgin and a total prude. Like it's awful but i can't even find sex jokes funny, instead I think they are gross! I'm so sorry to have to say this because I know it's wrong of me and I feel so guilt about it, but I can be a little sex negative. It's partially due to trauma, but not thekind yoy're thinking (I was raised by a non religious and liberal family, I'm not a puritan) so I don't think it's valid. I don't know what do, I feel like a freak. I've been wondering if I should try some sexual or kinky actvites, but 1. I'm such a freakish prude I wouldn't know where to start, 2. I have massive bottom dysphoria, 3. It would probably traumatize me more basically but i probbly deserve it lol. Sex is just not a part of who I am. There is so much to me, but sex just does not compute. I feel so out of place everywhere, especially in the lgbtq and ace communites. I want to be an ally to the rest of you so much but

What should I do? Should I go to a doctor and find out if there is a reason my body doesn't get horny? Am I allowed to be in the ac community? Should I just kms because I'm a terrible person for reasons such as sex negativity which is one reason everyone hates me and i have no friends?

Submitted July 11, 2023

As always, I encourage anyone in crisis, or who otherwise needs support, to reach out to those who are qualified.

The Trevor Project is a hotline, textline, and chatline available in the US and Canada. If you’re not in a country where it is available, Befrienders has hotlines for different countries. 

#asexual #ace #aspec #acespec #sex indifferent #sex negativity #internalized aphobia #internalized acephobia #impostor syndrome #sex repulsed #bottom dysphoria #lower dysphoria #gender dysphoria #dysphoria

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Dysphoric culture is wanting a phalloplasty without a vaginectomy and not being able to find any doctors who've ever done it, and then crying because you know your ideal configuration apparently isn't a thing that happens.

I want to keep my vulva/vagina, but I still want a penis, and I can't tell you the amount of times I've cried because I don't think this type of surgery is even done or, if it is, done in the US at least. It sucks so much.

Dysphoric culture is!

Also anon, great news: this surgery is real! It’s called vagina-preserving phalloplasty or VPP.

There aren’t a ton of surgeons who perform it in the US but some (from the Crane Center in California) are listed here. There’s also someone in New York that talked about getting a vagina-preserving metoidioplasty in a news article but mod doesn’t know who their surgeon was. More info and some more surgeons are here.

More people are getting nonbinary bottom surgeries so there are slightly more resources around now. Good luck anon!

(For those wanting the opposite of this, phallus-preserving vaginoplasty exists too.)

#genuinely mod’s favorite type of ask is getting to give people really good news #because mod knows about some obscure stuff and so this is good place to ask if you’re looking for weird trans advice #so like. you’ve vented to the right place anon :) #dysphoric culture is #gender dysphoria #dysphoria #dysphoria tw #gender affirming surgery #bottom surgery #bottom dysphoria #medical transition #salmacian #afab nonbinary #trans #queer #lgbta #genitalia tw #tw genitals #phalloplasty #vagina preserving phalloplasty

[transenbyconfessions]

Cw: bottom dysphoria

I recently saw what an actual v looks like (I haven’t shaved down there since starting to grow hair four-five years ago because of dysphoria, and before then I wasn’t exactly aware of what it looked like before I was a child) and… oh no. My bottom dysphoria has been steadily growing over the past year as those parts have developed and I’ve started to recognise a v as being it’s own form of genitalia and not just a ‘not p’ (I’m nonbinary and having that would be absolutely terrible for me)

I don’t want this… this thing. Why do I have to suffer with this for the rest of my life. Why the fuck did I have to be born like this. It’s fucking disgusting to have these genitals and the idea that I’m never going to fix it… just, fuck

Submitted July 16, 2023

#transgender #trans #enby #nb #nonbinary #non-binary #non binary #enban #dysphoria #gender dysphoria #bottom dysphoria #lower dysphoria #genital dysphoria

[cuppa-chai-chatter]

having bottom euphoria but not having bottom dysphoria is really fuckin weird. do i feel dysphoric about this? no. do i also feel amazing when i pack? yes. is this just really mild dysphoria that i don't really feel? maybe. who knows

#trans #transgender #ftm #ftnb #trans ftm #bottom dysphoria #bottom euphoria #gender dysphoria #gender euphoria #packing #ftm packing #gender #gender is weird

[screaming-static]

#ventcore #mental health #mental illness #liminal spaces #transgender #trans ftm #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #trans guy #gender dysphoria #dysphoric #dysphoria #top dysphoria #bottom dysphoria

[homo-taylorsversion]

Me: trying to go to bed.

My brain: so, about your sexuality... You might like men. But your not a man because you don't have men parts. And mostly everyone sees you as a woman, or thinks your just trying to excuse yourself being a lesbian. Hince- your a cis woman who's straight.

Me: wtf braaaain, what?! NOOOOOO!! THATS NOT HOW THAT WORKS!!!

#transgender #transmasc #nonbinary #transmaculine #demiboy #trans #trans masc #trans man #trans masculine #trans mlm #mlm #trans t4t #gender dysphoria #gender dysmorphia #transgender problems #trans problems #bottom dysphoria #body dysphoria #god i fucking hate it here #i just wanted sleep and look where i am #lgbtq community #sexuality #bisexual #i think? #gay #sexuality crisis #again.

[forbidden-creature-snacks]

Warning: Vent Post

I see so many posts about ftm subs and ftm gay content and that's so lovely and all but...

It's so hard to find content relating to my specific interests as a ftm dom/top that is pretty much solely attracted to women and feminine nonbinary folks. As a heterosexual-ish trans man.

Just so I don't feel so alone, sometimes I just wanna see someone also experiencing the deep rage and disappointment and envy that I feel because I don't have a dick that I can pound into my precious bunny and get lost in the euphoria of being inside of her like that. I have a hella breeding kink, and it's infuriating that I don't have the hardware to cum inside of her and watch it leak out.

Feels like I have the software downloaded and ready to go, but I don't have the hardware required to use it.

I never felt gender dysphoria as badly as I did when I realized how much I craved to be inside of my beloved. I've looked at dick pics solely so I could more accurately dream about it, because that's the closest I can get.

Bunny and I are pretty good at using our imaginations, but sometimes... I just wish it was the real thing.

#bottom surgery scares me but i want it so bad #ftm nsft #ftm dom #primal #predator #creature #dom stuff #trans ns/fw #gender dysphoria #bd/sm breeding #breeding k1nk #bottom dysphoria #trans nsft #vent post #tw vent #nsft ftm #queer nsft #nsft vent