#am I the villain?

[doriandrifting]

I bring a certain kind of “well actually I’m bisexual” vibe that “gay mike truthers are inherently biphobic” accusers don’t really like.

#am I the villain? #wait until y’all hear about my fat crush on anakin skywalker as a child #guess that means I’m a child murderer sympathizer /s #OKAY NOW IM DONE #stranger things #gay mike wheeler #byler

[scatteredlight1]

Am I the villain...?

Instead of 'Am I the asshole' it's just silm characters except they're going 'Am I the villain...'.

Sons of Feanor version:

Maedhros: I might have stolen a couple of jewels from my uncle. For context, these jewels were made by my father and then stolen by others. However, when I picked up the jewels they burned me and I jumped into a chasm. I am now stuck in the halls of the dead, thinking about my past actions, and the leader around here, Mandos, is accusing me of being a villain. I have committed many crimes while I was getting these jewels back, including mass murder, theft, kidnapping, arson, starting a war against the bad guy who killed my father, and perhaps a few more. But I also saved a few people. This place keeps making me think: am I the real villain here? Am I the cause of all the problems? Am I at fault for allowing my brothers to roam unchecked?

Maglor: Am I the villain? Yes. I am the villain. I kidnapped innocent children after killing their parents brutally, burned down ships when my father asked, didn't protect my lands when my brother asked, and then I abandoned those kids I stole to wallow in self-pity. I'm contemplating whether or not I deserve to be called anything right now.

Celegorm: I just got killed by the son of this girl that I liked. My dog abandoned me for her, and she stole my family's jewel and refused to return it. And now this stupid god guy is accusing me of being a villain for not respecting a person's wishes? Am I the villain when I was abandoned by everyone and accused of crimes I did not commit?

Caranthir: I was just minding my own business, scamming people and getting in the money needed to fund a whole ass war and then my brothers decided we had to kill a bunch of people and I had to participate. So I did. Now I'm dead and this guy tells me I can't get money because I was basically a horror story told to children. Would I be the villain if I killed him? (He's already dead btw.)

Curufin: Whatever anyone else is saying, I am not the villain. But apparently, it's cool to post 'Am I the villain stuff' or so my brother said. So. I might've killed a bunch of people and I might've made weapons that harmed way more people. Does that make me the villain? I think not. Those people were keeping me and my brothers from our birthright. We asked them politely multiple times, but it didn't work. Sadly, we had to resort to violence, although we were set on achieving it through peace. Additionally, those people tried to ban our language, eradicate our culture, and refused to allow our refugees to settle under their protection because they were sanctimonious, prejudiced, and stuck-up.

Amrod: Can I be the villain when I've been dead since the beginning?

Amras: My twin was killed by my father, and then my father died. I proceeded to do unspeakable things to get revenge on the guy that firstly made my father insane enough to kill my twin and then my father. Anyone else who was injured was just collateral and completely accidental. Besides, I spent most of my time listening to my older brothers and following their orders, but this random guy I bumped into called me a villain. Am I really the villain?

#silmarillion #am i the asshole #except it's not #am I the villain? #feanorians #sons of feanor #maedhros #maglor #curufin #celegorm #caranthir #ambarussa #lotr

[star4daisy]

why do I laugh every time people tell me they cried reading what I wrote while giggling and twirling my hair lol

#is it me? #am i the problem? #i don't think im the problem #am i the villain? #i dont think im the villain #daisy’s daily bs #fic: you hold my heart in your hands #ao3 writer #fanfic writing #ao3 author #ao3 fanfic #marauders #rosekiller #rosekiller fic #writers on tumblr

[xidklolbyex]

Am I in the wrong? What did I do wrong?

Okay I don't know how to like start this off but I am really confused on why I am being blocked and hated on, so an issue happened with two ex friend's of mine, let's name them H and G. Here is a little background/backstory, I met them online through instagram and OB! We got to know each other, play Obey Me!, Genshin, etc. we've known each other since 2020 so during covid. I spend more time with G the estimate is 16+ hours of my day, everyday, even if I am really busy, I still make time for G to play video games, they don't like to role-play so I respected their choice, chat, laugh, talk about our future and when we get to see each other in real life, making sure they feel loved, sleep on phone calls together platonically, send gifts to another platonically. H on the other hand deals with strict parents so the estimate I get to spend time with them online is 3-5 hours a day, so I can't play games with them that much or be on call with them, I can text them or role-play with them, other than that nothing else. So time skip to two and half years of knowing G and H. G and I would talk about serious topics and they always assumed that the trio friendship will have a fall out one day, I always reassured them that it won't due to the strong online bond all three of us have for each other platonically. I would get upset with them saying hurtful words and deny my platonic reassurance, but they would take it the wrong way and think I am mad at them or it'll lead to a bigger fall out of the friendship, but I reassured them and was patient with them. So, time skip to a few months closer to the third year of our friendship anniversary, H was able to be more online due to school being over and summer break being around the corner, so I was able to spend more time on text and role-play with H more often but during night time only so like 6 hours, they still couldn't get on call or play games. I still spent more time with G, still that same 16+ hours, like always and my time with G never lessened. So..before summer break started, one night, G was assuming I was spending more time with H more than G, which was not true. So I reassured them that nicely, they kept denying it so one thing led to another and they wanted to be lectured, mind you..G hates being lectured, so I respectfully declined on lecturing them to respect them, but they kept pushing it to 'lecture them' and that G 'will be fine' so I was hesitant, I stupidly accepted to lecture them. While I was in the middle of texting my long lecture to them and how I feel about their assumptions, G changed their word again and texted 'actually I don't want to be lectured' then they changed it to they do want to be lectured out of curiosity. So I sent my long lecture to them about how I feel for them assuming I am spending more time with H than G. Then next thing I knew, I was blocked by G on every social media contacts I had with them and they never told me anything, but G sent three of their friends to me and each one was telling me different stuff, I wanted to talk to G privately but they never wanted to and would leave me in the dark, and I got hurt a lot but their action and I got confused from their action as well, I never was able to talk to them ever again and be left confused from this. I just want/need answers since I can not get a clear honest answer from my ex friends anymore. I am sorry for my English, I am not good at it. But I hope someone understand what I said above.. Continued, part 2 of this will be posted.

#am i wrong #am i right #bad friend #good friend #reassurance #i am confusion #am i the villain? #friendship issues #friendship problems #Friends #online friends #confused #what did i do wrong

[a-mnhia]

THIS BLOG HAS BEEN ARCHIVED,    you can find me over at @mnhia​

#am i the villain? #for moving my blog so much?? #maybe #m a y be #//

[nikayna]

Honestly kind of cracking up at the Bucky fandom having a meltdown because he’s in Thunderbolts. Y’ALL. You don’t even know the plot of the movie yet! And besides that: name me one actual villain besides Valentina. Ghost? Was just trying to live. Taskmaster? Controlled by her dad. Yelena? Was just trying to avenge her sister. Red Guardian? Is … kind of an idiot. Even John Walker is being manipulated. Breathe.

#mcu #marvel #thunderbolts #am i the villain? #I don’t think I’m the villain #james bucky barnes #yelena belova #ghost #red guardian #countess Valentina #taskmaster #us agent #it’s going to be okay #everybody be cool

[xkaiz]

Am I the a-hole for letting my girlfriend flip off my ex?

So the first school dance I went too was not too long ago and a lot went down.

I 14yr old female have a girlfriend 15yr old female. She is the best thing to ever happen to me. She is understanding and funny. Anyways my ex 13yr old male was at the dance, but I didn’t know until later. Since I am not on the same team as my now ex I had my step-brother 15yr old male break up with him for me. Apparently my ex didn’t take him seriously and broke up with me weeks later because I wasn’t answering my phone. I didn’t care and deleted him from my life. Not long after I got myself a girlfriend. At the dance my girlfriend brought up the idea of flipping off my ex, and I said go ahead. She did along with a classic “I’m better than you”. Not to mention my girlfriend is taller than me and my ex, so when she did that and walked away with me she told me she claimed dominance over him. But later into the night when we were cooling off in the cafeteria with some friends my ex’s friend group and another friend group from my team along with himself sort of gathered around us. No to obviously but still. I soon noticed that some of the people in the group were taking sneaky side glances at us and giving us dirty looks. This one girl was not being sneaky and blatantly kept glaring at me every now and then. Now I don’t know the relation of my ex and this girl but I was really uncomfortable. I told my girlfriend and we left the cafeteria clearly trying to avoid them for the rest of the night. Another encounter to take note of is when we were in the gym and sitting down resting. Well my ex’s group came into the gym and just kept staring at us, again we left trying to avoid them and have a good time.

So am I the a-hole for letting my girlfriend flip off my ex and potentially start a long fight?

Also does anyone want more context of what else happened?

And I will update if anything else happens.

#am i the asshole #drama #experience #am i the drama? #am i the problem? #am i the villain? #am i making sense #am i wrong #am I in the wrong

[jimisunsets]

am i okay?

i wanted to speak to my ex all last week.... he tells me today he will call me after work.... now i'm blocking him because why we gotta be on your time fool?!

#toxic #im the problem #am i the villain? #i am the villian #villain era #bad gyal #toxic exes

[thememoirofana]

Do you ever just want to burst like a body of water being held back by the weakest cling wrap? And that body of water is your mind and heart and soul? And that cling wrap is your own will power?

#words words words #heartache #trapped #parents #disasociation #ocd #control #am i the villain? #victim or abuser? #trauma #tw mental illness

[happilyghostlyarie]

Mc: here's this terrible thing this other character has done.

Me: okay, they're terrible people and I hate them

Mc: here's an even worse thing!

Me: damn, they're irredeemable. I pray they rot in hell.

Mc: but then...

Me: but then what? A fist fight? Public execution? Cuz if you-

Mc: I feel bad for treating them harshly

Me: Why?! Why would you feel bad?!

Mc: they're allies now!

Me:.....

Me: Am I...am I the terrible person?

#low empathy #books & libraries #favorite characters #irredeemable #redemption arc #am i the villain?

[loathsome-sickness]

"people show their true colours in life threatening situations" no, they show you what they act like when they're mortally terrified, an emotion notorious for literally turning your entire brain off to the point where people who go into those situations as a profession need to be literally trained on how to not have that happen

#am i arguing with random 'philosophical' type villains in my own head? #yes #it's a favourite past time of mine i hate every one of those 'i know the true nature of humans because i did horrible things to them' types #with every part of my soul

[aphel1on]

i have such a love for characters who descend into madness or villainy out of deep, deep empathy. characters who fundamentally cannot cope with the cruel realities they find themselves in and blow up about it in spectacular fashion. fallen angel type characters with tears of outrage in their eyes. characters who break before they bend, and break so badly they splatter blood all over their noble ideals. every variation on it gets me so good

#getou suguru #kaneki ken #abyss twin #i know there are others who im not thinking of rn #feel free to reblog with more examples #aphelion.txt #tropes #WAIT I REMEMBERED MORE #jaina proudmoore #dimitri alexandre blaiddyd #phosphophyllite #i just spent like half an hour trying to find this on tv tropes but it must be. Too specific of a thing i have in mind bc #I just kept finding similar and related but too broad categories #despair event horizon. fallen hero. well intentioned extremist. etc etc etc #like specifically i'm talking about when the character's EMPATHY is the CRUX of the problem. sosooo crunchyjuicytasty #edit: #also just know that i am reading every tag on this post #and enthusiastically scribbling down the names i dont recognizr #so i can check out their series later #edit 2 wow this post blew up 🫡 godspeed fellow villain likers #the amount of people tagging this as 'me lmao' is concerning to me #wwx #how did i fucking forget this was also yllz era wwx

[gewbxr]

My friend got mad at me for sending TOTAL DRAMA PICTURES. “ Stop forcing your fandom on me!1!1! “ That was not my intention. I NEVER MENT THAT. I WAS JUST SHARING MY INTEREST. HES ALWAYS STARTING ARGUMENTS OVER THE STUPIDEST SHT. HE KNOWS I GET MAD EASILY. HE DOES IT BECAUSE HE THINKS ITS “ FuNnY “ … This he tries ticking me off more by fixing a simple area. BECAUSE HE KNEW IT WOULD MAKE ME MAD.

I LOVE HIM SO MUCH PLATONICALLY. BUT IM GETTING TIRED OF HIS SHT. Like… Just.. I dont know what to do. I blocked his number. I didnt want to argue anymore. We have been friends for 6 years. Hes changed so much. I hate it. I ACTUALLY HATE IT. HE PURPOSELY ALWAYS TRIES TO START AN ARGUMENT TO PISS ME OFF. BECAUSE HES BORED. LIKE WHAT THE FVCK. Im tired. Am I in the wrong. Please tell me. ( I have another older post about him ) This is the 2nd time ive had to block him.

#am i the villain? #total drama island #drama #someone help #Whos wrong

[xidklolbyex]

Am I in the wrong? What did I do wrong? Part 2

After what G did to me. I was heartbroken and sad for G leaving me and H. Me and H started to try and grow a bond with each other with G being out the picture, since G left me and H, but I would always miss G and the trio friendship. One day, one of G's irl friend DMed me about what happened since G told their irl friend and their mom, I stupidly told G's irl friend that issue and G's irl friend told me to move on since it took a heavy toll on G from what I said to G. So, I started to get busy with my personal life, H already knew and I had to move on even though it pained me. So while I was busy with my personal life and texted H here and there. I one day had a gut feeling that something is wrong. I brushed it off thinking I am being stupid. But as the days went by my gut feeling was getting more and more, so I did some research and I found out that G and H are friends again and had closure, then made a server for them to be in without me in it. H did not tell me about this, H told me more than once that they have no contact with G. So I confronted it to H and they were in a fit of "i am sorry" but they never gave a clear answer as to why they had to hide that and lie. I asked them "what did I ever do to both of you for you to be like this to me?" H just responded by repeatedly saying "i am sorry i won't lie to you ever again" I felt more hurt, I was still hurt from what G did, then finding out what H did hurt more, it made me mentally distance myself from them. H told me that if I needed to take a mental health break from this then I can, so I thought about it and I did not..yet. Time skip to three days after, I got messages from random people that i don't know. I was confused on who these people are, later I found out it was G's other friends. G's other friends were telling me different stuff about what G has been telling them. It started to turn into a childish drama, unnecessary people trying to hear 'both side of the story'..I stupidly told them the truth, but then degrade me for being in the wrong or to move on. It took a huge toll on my mental health from the situation, and being in this crossfire, so I thought back on what h said about taking a break. Because I couldn't take anymore of the childish drama and I still couldn't even text to G maturely and privately without them bringing another one of their 'messengers' to talk to me. So I took in what H said about taking a break and so I did..I took a mental health break.. Am I still in wrong? Even in this part 2? I honestly want to know. It's long I am sorry! Continued, part 3 of this will be posted.

#am i wrong #am i right #bad friend #good friend #reassurance #i am confusion #am i the villain? #friendship issues #friendship problems #Friends #online friends #confused #what did i do wrong

[aita-too-long-for-reddit]

AITA FOR RUINING THINGS BETWEEN MY EX & THE GIRL HE CHEATED ON ME WITH?

WARNING: Very long

Let me start off by saying I (26F) and my ex (26M, who we will call Mark) had a toxic relationship. We both know this and tried to remain friends/friends with benefits even after everything that happened. I know, stupid on my part, but I was hopeful both of us could possibly change and work it out.

My ex and I were together for about 6 years. We got together right before graduating high school. He even moved states with me and my family since we couldn’t afford to remain in our home state. It was only a few months before we moved out on our own after moving states.

Mark has always been a flirt, but even at the worst parts of our relationship he never physically cheated. I had forgiven a lot of what he did, even though he would gaslight me as though it was my fault even when I asked for the bare minimum of honesty and to not flirt with the girls the way he was. (i.e. receiving nude photos, telling them he loves them, etc) I was stupid to stay, I know this.

That is until he gaslit and pressured me into trying out a polyamorous relationship, which at first he was being very honest and communicating. That is until he met this girl (20F, we’ll refer to her as Liz). He began being super sneaky and going to see her all the time after work. He would say he’s “going over to comfort her” because of Liz living with her mom and stepdad. According to them her stepdad would pray on her so she didn’t feel safe and he would be there for her. I told him I became increasingly uncomfortable with their friendship because my gut feeling told me something was wrong. I asked him to stop seeing her or to at least distance their friendship and that I wanted a closed relationship because my trust in him was fading along with my insecurities from past events was flaring up significantly. I even spoke to her about it and both said that “You’re being crazy, we’re just friends.” Fast forward a bit when one day Liz was hanging out at our house. I went to work and returned home that evening to find them in our game room that is attached to our bedroom, hooking up.

I completely lost it. I started to scream and I threw my shoes at him because I was devastated. Liz stood there after getting dressed, looking guilty. I was the one who ended up driving her home because I didn’t want him to get to sweet talk her on the ride home. She admitted that they had been doing things at her mother’s when Mark would visit her and that he told Liz that he was going to leave me.

We ended up breaking up and with the economy I couldn’t afford to just up and move out. My other mistake was building him up without building myself too. So we shared a car. I relied heavily on him, through out our relationship and even now. Mark and Liz got together, which is when everything became a lot worse. Mark moved to one of the spare rooms and I remained in the master so that I would have privacy and didn’t have to venture out of my room often. After about a month or so after them getting together, Mark bullied and gaslit me into allowing Liz to move in. I hated them both at this point, but they were making my life such a living hell I just rolled over and kept to myself.

That was until Mark wanted to be friends again. Unfortunately, I tried to be due to still harboring feelings for him and just being the stupid person I am that tries to fix anything she can. We stared getting a little close again and he would flirt with me. Liz never cared that he flirted with people because she did it too. However it escalated to him wanting to cheat on her with me. I told Liz and while she was mad she still forgave him. It ended up happening again where we got close and him wanting to cheat, to which he begged me not to say anything to Liz. I did so anyway. She broke up with him and left.

Liz ended up dating this other guy and rubbing Mark’s nose in it. However, Mark and Liz still talked via Snapchat all the time. Eventually Mark and I started to sleep together again (yes, stupid of me). Mark would never admit it to Liz, though. I honestly wish I knew what he told her about me because he’s always made me out to be the villain.

After Liz and her new boyfriend split up, her and Mark began to hang out a lot again. I would always ask him about it and he would tell me that they are “just friends. Liz doesn’t even like me like that anymore.” That is until I did find out they were sleeping together. I told Mark I was uncomfortable with her being at our house if that’s all she was there for because this is a woman he cheated on me with and left me for. I also expressed that I don’t sleep with people who are sleeping with other people because it makes me feel gross and I have an irrational fear of STDs so if he was going to do that then we needed to stop. Mark made it seems as though he and Liz had discussed it and set boundaries, saying “Me and Liz won’t work. We want different things out of life.” He would also talk about her like Liz was starting to get on his nerves or that he simply wasn’t interested in her anymore. This is where I get even dumber because I believed him. We continued to mess around, until I found out they were still messing around too. So I messaged her and asked her what was going on between the two of them since I couldn’t trust what he said.

Liz didn’t reply, instead she ran to Mark and who knows what she said. All I know is he texted me about not causing drama and telling me if I message her again that he would cut me off. Which probably would have been for the best, but being locked into my lease I couldn’t just up and leave nor should I have to abandon my home because of him. I’d even told him multiple times to get out and leave, but as his name is on the lease I couldn’t force him to leave either.

They stopped talking for a bit and stopped seeing each other until the events of yesterday. Liz came over to hang out while I was gone at work (thank you cameras) because Mark was on vacation and wanted company. I’d warned him that I don’t want them hooking up in the house and because we were sleeping together. He’d ignored all my texts, leaving them on delivered as he does when he’s with her. Eventually he did tell me they messed around and I got angry because he knew from what had happened before and had said he understood how it made me feel after the last time. Though, looks like he didn’t care as he repeated what caused the conflict between us and keeps doing so.

Anyway I was upset and told Mark to get her out of the house. He kept refusing and so I told him, then I will tell her everything as I knew he had been lying to her and feeding her whatever sweet words he had. I probably shouldn’t have done so, but I was running on anger and hurt feelings. So I hopped on the living room camera and used the talk feature to tell her that he’s been lying to her and messing around with me even when he’s telling her he wasn’t.

Liz ended up calling someone to come get her and leaving. Mark started telling me how awful I am, that me doing this is why he never thinks I’ll change and never hesitate to “rip his life apart”. He also commented on how she’s gone for good this time because she actually blocked him ending it with “thanks for running Liz off again.” Mark also told me now he has nothing.

So I know I’m probably the dumbest person on the planet, but Am I also The Asshole in this situation?

Note 1: He even tried to control who I was hooking up with or going on dates with while he was dating Liz. I only slept with 2 people in the span of a year of being single. One of which was a friend I trusted. I even cut this friend off later on when Mark said it made him uncomfortable since he knew the guy. Also I never have friends over unless they are here to help me with something or when my best female friend would come over during my suicidal episodes because of how Mark and Liz would treat me. Yet he has always fought for her to come over after they broke up, yet I was wrong for wanting friends over because my friends don’t like him for everything he has done. I also spent many nights drunk out of my mind to escape the pain as I have always been hopelessly in love with Mark and seeing him with someone else was devastating. Again I’m very stupid and tend to think with my heart over my head.

Note 2: Our lease ends at the end of next month. We ARE parting ways. I hate this is how it ends and wish things could have worked out.

Note 3: There is a TON to this story, but it would be even longer than this to get into detail.

#am i the villain? #am i the asshole #relationship #ex boyfriend #ex girlfriend

[egophiliac]

LET THE BOY HAVE AN EDUCATION

officially at the point where we're starting to see where it's all headed and I am just going NYEEHEEHEE in delight at it all. ahhh...next week can't come soon enough...

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #stage in playful land #stage in playfulland #leona: (devises an actually somewhat clever plan to take out the staff-puppets without breaking any rules) #leona: (taken out two seconds later because he sat down in the wrong place) #at this point i'm half expecting the ssr boys to actually bust in with a big sandwich platter or something #a cake with 'please don't kidnap people :)' written on it in shaky icing #kalim isn't good at plans but he DOES throw a good shindig and by god he's going to play to his strengths #also IT WASN'T SHINY TICKETS IT WAS GIDEL?! #MY BOY #MY BEAUTIFUL MAGICAL FELINE BOY #i mean i'm assuming at this point but that seems to be the implication #genuinely kind of shocked that they actually WERE being magicked into being extra gullible #it was ✨foreshadowing✨ all along... #the blot though! what about the blot! #is that going to be an issue or are we going to have enough to deal with already! #i have rocketed from 'i find these villains entertaining' to 'i am suddenly incredibly invested in them as characters' #LOOK there is one thing better than characters with sort of unhealthy codependent relationships #and that is characters with sort of unhealthy codependent relationships but TWIST IT'S NOT THE WAY YOU THINK #nyeeheeheeeeeee