#STRESS ET SPORT

[fitnessmith]

Surentraînement ou stress chronique ? Le TEST pour se remettre en forme

NOUVEAU : Surentraînement ou stress chronique ? Le TEST pour se remettre en forme

Vous venez de changer de travail, il est plus stressant ou plus physique et vous avez du mal à récupérer ? Vos entraînements se font de moins en moins intenses à cause d’une fatigue nerveuse ? Peut-être que vous êtes, comme il m’est arrivé il y a quelques temps, en période de surmenage ou de surentraînement sans le savoir. J’ai rencontré la difficulté de faire la différence entre un épuisement dû…

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[hillbilly---man]

A list of the specific chronic illness/disability-related things in Saiki K that resonate with me personally

(Your mileage may vary, my experiences are not universal, I recognize that some of this is kind of a reach etc etc)

The limiters

Saiki’s powers have grown too strong for him to control, and before the creation of his limiters they were out of control and causing a lot of damage. Some examples cited include accidentally destroying his house in his sleep and having telepathy that reached all over Japan (something I imagine was many many times more distressing [disabling] than his current situation) The limiters weaken his psychic powers and keep them somewhat in check. It’s not perfect, and he still does have problems, but the situation is much worse without them.

This reminds me of the medication I take to keep my immune system under control. Before I started it, my immune system (thanks to MS) was causing lots of issues for me: it took the vision in my left eye, made it difficult to walk and use my arm for a few months, caused horrible leg spasms, et cetera. My medicine helps keep things in check and hopefully prevents future damage... But nothing is perfect. Of course, it’s a monthly shot instead of silly pink balls on my head! So that's a plus 👍

The way he struggles to control his body after Nendo removed his limiter unexpectedly

After being hit with a shock to his system at the sports festival, Saiki struggles harder than usual to control his strength. We see him frustrated with this as he’s eating, his hand trembling as he holds his chopsticks. He tries to power through, but the issues don’t resolve.

I’m fortunate to usually be pretty functional most days (I do have my bad days though lol). However, when I go through significant stress - either mental or physical - it makes a lot of issues pop up that usually don’t bother me. Balance issues, vision stuff.. And hand tremors. Like, I was at a sushi restaurant after getting overheated at the pride festival last year struggling a lil with my chopsticks laughing at myself like “this is just like Saiki at the sports festival…”

Developing new powers unexpectedly

A major source of stress for Saiki is being unpleasantly surprised by a new psychic ability. In the series, we see this a few times. The most notable to me is the time leap ability. He wakes up having accidentally traveled 20 years in the past (soon after it is revealed that his limiter has a defective part). Afterward, we learn when he’s stuck in the time loops with Nendo and Kaido that this time leap ability has been coming back randomly since then “As unexpected and frequent as getting the hiccups”. He spends the entire chapter trying to get control over this ability so he can continue his day as planned. In another chapter, his limiter is malfunctioning and he develops a series of useless powers that he cannot control. Clearly, the limiters are preventing new powers from developing (see my first bullet point!!)

So, another thing about conditions such as mine is that you really can just wake up one day and have some weird symptom you’ve never heard of before! I remember not long after my first big attack I was at Walmart and I just noticed that my index finger was completely numb, and it stayed that way for weeks. One time, my upper lip twitched constantly for like a month straight. Of course, more than just the relatively silly symptoms can and do pop up like that, too. For example, I had these really scary, uncontrollable spasms on my left side (paroxysmal kinesigenic dyskinesia) that happened several times a day for about a week. For a LONG time afterward I would be terrified of them coming back. It's still in the back of my mind but I'm not losing sleep over it anymore at least. Reading those panels above re: the time leap stuff reminds me a lot of that time!

Neuroplasticity and the power remover device

When Kusuke is explaining how the power remover works, he talks about how the brain rewires itself around damaged areas to compensate. The device is designed to more completely destroy the areas of his brain responsible for the psychic abilities. Of course, the device ultimately did not work permanently. The damage it did to his brain was quickly compensated for, and the abilities returned.

When small areas of the brain are damaged (such as… due to a neurodegenerative autoimmune condition), over time the brain can often restructure to work around it. It doesn’t mean that those areas are healed, and the process is often incomplete, but that rewiring can (completely or partially) restore abilities and function that was lost in the damage. They don’t say that explicitly in the series, but that’s surely what is happening to Saiki in the final chapters! Except, you know, in a magical shonen manga way.

Resistance to the idea of needing help

After Saiki uses the power remover device, he loses his abilities and is suddenly much weaker and less capable than he was before. He was used to being extremely independent, but this change has brought him to a place where he cannot do everything on his own anymore. In the library, he struggles to get a book off the top shelf and in the process is reminded of his new limitations. He says to himself “What am I doing…!? Just get used to it already!” After the bookcase is tipped over onto him and Nendo protects him, Saiki is upset about having to be protected when he never needed it before: “I’m so useless now…” Nendo helps him realize that getting help from others is normal.

Helping each other out is one of the most fundamentally important parts of being human, but it can be hard to accept that support sometimes. This is especially the case when you’re thinking about the prospect of needing more help than you used to. I'm fortunate to be relatively unaffected most of the time so far, but I'm still grateful for when the people I love are understanding and don't make a big deal out of it. I hate the idea of being burdensome so I'm just gonna cross my fingers and hope things don't get worse lol

Conclusion: Saiki is just like me for real and I'm DEFINITELY not projecting my own problems into him at all...

we're ignoring the 20k word fic I wrote where I blatantly projected my problems onto him for seven chapters

thanks @justmagicalgirl for encouraging me last week to post this 👍

#this has been sitting in the drafts for almost a year so enjoy #been a little shy to post it because I've convinced myself that 'nobody asked' lol #saiki #saiki kusuo no psi nan #tdlosk #lmfaoo whooops I didn't mean to hit 'post' yet but i guess now is as good a time as any 😅

[freeuselandonorris]

F1 Ask Game

thank you @bright-and-burning and @goingxmissing for the tags!!

Who is your favorite driver?: i go back and forth between lando and oscar! i think lando has my heart the most though, honestly, goblin child that he is.

Do you have other favorite drivers?: i love lewis, i love charles, i still have a soft spot for max and daniel although definitely not to the extent i used to... but honestly i'm kind of fond of most of the grid and its peripheral characters (including the previous generation of ex-drivers like nico (i used to be OBSESSED with nico when he was driving for merc!), jenson et al) and the up-and-comers like liam, ollie, kimi. i just like drivers!

Who is your least favorite driver?: there's nobody i really hate, but i'm less keen on perez and hulkenberg. fernando annoyed me for a while when he was just waltzing into random other series, nabbing the best car and winning everything and then fucking off again when he was trying to catch the triple crown, but i find him pretty funny these days.

Do you pull for drivers or do you like teams as well?: i think @goingxmissing made a very good point that liking a driver generally means you end up liking the people around them too, but i'm generally a driver not a team person. i'm papayapilled currently because my two favourite drivers are with them, but i wouldn't particularly follow mclaren regardless of who drives for them (i'm also less than impresed with some of the choices they've made recently, but let's not get into that.)

If you like teams, what team do you pull for?: mclaren obviously, and i am very fond of mercedes although that's a deeply frustrating endeavour at the moment. but yeah, none of the teams are particularly meaningful to me.

How long have you been into F1?: well, i guess technically we're talking about 25 years lmao. i started watching when i was a kid because my mum loved mika hakkinen, so i have fond childhood memories of watching the hakkinen v schumacher years and being fascinated by it. but in terms of watching it by my own volition, this is the 11th straight year i've been watching. mental.

What got you into F1?: see above for the original inspiration! but i came back to it in 2013 because i started working as a subtitler for live tv and one of the channels we covered happened to be sky F1 (so yeah i basically got paid to watch F1. it was great.) a few months of covering the 2013 season - the fabled "multi-21" season of seb and mark nearly killing each other - and i was hooked.

Do you enjoy Fanfic/RPF?: oh yes lmao.

How do you view new fans?: having survived the wilderness years where nobody gave a fuck about F1 and many of the fans were middle aged "well actually..." men, it fills me with joy to see so many younger and more diverse fans coming to the sport. sometimes i see takes that make it pretty clear there's a lack of understanding of the history or previous context of the sport, but so what? we all started somewhere.

If you could take over as team principal for any team, who would it be and why?: oh my god, i don't think i'd want to, it looks stressful as fuck lmao. i'd quite like to be a strategist though, if only i had any capacity for it. maybe for merc. i'd like to work under toto (ahem).

Are your friends and family into F1 as well?: yes! my mum, obviously. a lot of my non-F1 friends (i.e. friends i didn't meet through motorsports fandom) are also into it to varying degrees, and i'm lucky enough to have forced quite a big group of people on here into being my actual real life friends now too. i'm very lucky.

Are you open to talking to other fans/making friends?: yes!! i am not always brilliant at responding to DMs in a timely fashion (i get very easily overwhelmed when i have lots of unread messages lmao) but i love the anons in my inbox and it still makes me so happy when people send me messages saying something (...usually piss related lmao) reminded them of me 🥹

i feel like everyone has maybe been tagged already...? if not comment and i will tag u!

#tagged

[alexar60]

Après la fin du monde

Lorsqu’elle se réveilla, elle ne se souvint pas s’être endormie dans un sarcophage de verre. Sa longue chevelure, ses ongles longs ainsi que son pubis touffu montraient qu’elle était ici depuis pas mal de temps. Toutefois, elle ne ressentit pas le besoin de manger.

Au milieu de cette immense salle éclairée artificiellement, elle se sentait comme la Belle au bois-dormant mais sans prince-charmant ni château. Elle respira à pleins poumons une atmosphère absolument seine.  Elle se leva et traversa avec maladresse la pièce contemplant les milliers de sarcophages, tombes ou lits ? Elle se sentait vivante.

Elle observa les autres passagers, hommes et femmes inconnus encore endormis. Elle ne savait pas combien ils étaient, tellement les couchettes étaient nombreuses. Elle remarqua quelques enfants. Leurs visages aux traits doux indiquaient qu’ils étaient heureux de dormir. En fait, chaque passager ne montrait aucun signe de stress. Ils dormaient juste…peut-être rêvaient-ils ?

Sa première réflexion fut sur son prénom, elle s’en souvenait. Elle quitta la salle en passant par deux portes qui s’écartèrent devant elle. Un long couloir aux murs blancs et lisses, se présenta. Dès lors, elle marcha ressentant une certaine chaleur imprégner la plante de ses pieds. Elle atteignit une seconde salle. Seules quelques tables et chaises blanches décoraient l’endroit. Elle s’assit et chercha à retrouver ses esprits. Elle ne se sentait pas vaseuse pour autant. Cependant, la perte de mémoire n’aidait en rien à trouver ses repères.

Après une courte pause, elle sortit par une autre porte automatique pourtant difficile à voir, à cause de sa blancheur. Elle marcha dans un nouveau corridor éclairé par des lampes invisibles. Elle atteignit enfin une nouvelle salle, occupée…cette fois-ci.

Certains faisaient du sport en courant sur des tapis roulants, d’autres se contentaient d’activité cérébrale et jouaient aux échecs ou lisaient tranquillement. Personne ne se soucia de la présence d’une nouvelle entièrement nue, en dehors d’un homme aux cheveux poivres et sels. Il posa une tablette sur la table, se leva et approcha de la jeune femme.

C’est déjà la relève ? interrogea-t-il.

Elle salua les sourires de bienvenue. Sa nudité ne dérangeait personne. Tout le monde continuait leur occupation. Néanmoins, une jeune femme aux cheveux courts l’invita à la rejoindre dans une sorte de vestibule où elle trouverait des vêtements adéquats.

La chambre blanche cachait en ses murs de nombreux placards et tiroirs rangeant une multitude de fringues. La fille aux cheveux courts proposa de l’aider. Elle accepta mais demanda avant quelques explications. Dès lors, sa future collègue se lança dans une tirade qui raviva sa mémoire.

Et la terre a finalement disparu ?

Oui, mais on peut encore la voir.

Elle observa le mur à tiroir qui se transforma en hublot ; procédé lié aux caméras filmant l’extérieur du vaisseau-station. Ses yeux obnubilés admirèrent les profondeurs de l’univers. Des milliers d’étoiles brillaient dans un noir absolu, comme des poussières sur une toile noire. Elle approcha, caressa du bout des doigts la fenêtre. L’autre fille indiqua un petit point à faible luminosité.

C’est notre soleil. Et bientôt, il va grossir comme celle-ci. Dit-elle en montrant un gros point brillant. Puis, il va s’éteindre et il ne sera plus visible d’ici une centaine d’année.

Et nous ? Où allons-nous ? demanda la réveillée.

La femme aux cheveux courts se pinça les lèvres tout en haussant les épaules. Elle poussa la vision du hublot pour ouvrir un tiroir et sortit une tenue identique à la sienne. Puis, elle l’invita à utiliser une douche dans la salle d’entretien.

Créer un nouveau monde, répondit-elle.

Alex@r60 – août 2023 – 30 jours pour écrire.

#alex@r60 #30jourspourécrire #français #french #fantastique #science fiction

[perduedansmatete]

en vérité quelquefois je regrette d'avoir arrêté l'athlétisme, même si ce n'était pas de ma faute j'aurais pu reprendre plus tard, j'ai jamais été la plus nulle, jamais la meilleure non plus mais c'était pas le but, j'aimais mon entraîneur qui me le rendait bien (il me motivait avec des bonbons mdr privilège de chouchoute) j'aimais les gens et ce sentiment de famille, ça me faisait du bien de sortir de ma tête et ça me manque un peu d'être douée et reconnue dans quelque chose, ça me manque d'aimer faire du sport, d'imaginer que je tue quelqu'un que je n'aime pas avec mon javelot et de me jeter dans le sable le plus loin possible après avoir compté mes marques tant bien que mal avec quelqu'un qui chante dans mes oreilles pour que je perdre le compte, puis ça me manque d'avoir un corps plus fonctionnel, même le stress des compétitions que je détestais me manque, petite j'allais assez souvent m'entrainer à reculons mais le peu d'autres sports que j'ai pu tester ne m'ont jamais permis de me dépasser comme l'athlétisme et ne m'ont jamais fait autant de bien je crois, à part la boxe peut-être mais ce n'était pas pareil et je n'ai pu en faire que trop peu de temps car mon dojo s'est effondré à peu près au même moment que mon dos, puis ce que j'aimais dans l'athlétisme c'était que même si c'est un sport assez solitaire il y avait quand même une notion d'équipe assez forte, bref depuis je fais plus vraiment de sport (euphémisme, en même temps fut un temps on m'a dit qu'il fallait en faire le moins possible ou bien des trucs nuls genre nager dans une piscine) je n'arrive plus à courir sans avoir atrocement mal aux poumons (et aux ovaires mdr ou un truc par là) je n'ai plus d'endurance et ça c'est franchement un drame et une honte, j'ai le corps cassé, mon esprit ne peut plus se défouler non plus et j'ai peur de refaire du sport avec des gens que je ne connais pas (mais j'ai un peu envie quand même)

[homomenhommes]

saga: SOUMISSION / DOMINATION 54

Samedi :

Cours de sport avec le père de Jean. Pas le temps de baiser, ouf, ça commence a me peser de le niquer en 20mn chrono à peu près toujours dans la même position. De plus c'est pas grave, ça ne diminue pas mon salaire ! Je fais alors une pause plus longue au poste de garde. Nous manquons de nous faire surprendre par la visite imprévu de son chef. Heureusement son collègue de la société voisine, avait eu le temps de lui téléphoner et nous avons juste terminé de refermer nos pantalons quand il s'est pointé. Le stress avait fait débander le jeune gardien quand à moi, le cuir de la combi camouflait mon érection.

Je regagnais sagement la maison. Marc ne rentrant pas avant la fin de matinée, je cumulais 1 bonne heure de muscu avec une demi heure de crawl. Vers 13h Marc arriva. Il me rejoignit dans l'eau et à force que le titiller, il me " corrigea " d'une bonne sodomie.

Marc avait finalement décidé d'inviter Bruno et Arnaud avec Seb et le nouveau. Ce serait plus cool qu'avec le jumeaux plus " agités sexuellement ".

Vers la fin d'après midi, Seb arriva avec Nicolas. Marc mit un short et alla les accueillir alors que je restais nu sur une serviette à me faire bronzer. J'attendais qu'ils soient arrivés sur la terrasse pour relever la tête, saluer Seb, puis me lever complètement pour Nicolas. Je m'approchais de ce dernier et interrompais la mécanique de ses yeux passant sur mon corps de bas en haut et inversement en lui claquant un baiser sur le coin des lèvres ( pas si au coin en fait !). Je ne le provoquais pas plus et évitais de lui mettre la main au paquet. ;Marc annonçait que la piscine était nudiste et joignant le geste à la parole ôta son short. Seb fut nu en 30 seconde pendant que Nicolas retirait ses vêtements en nous tournant le dos. Nous étions déjà dans l'eau quand Nicolas sauta. J'ai juste eu le temps d'apercevoir sa bite qui n'avait plus l'air au repos complet.

Il apprécia la fraîcheur relative de l'eau, ce WE de Juin commençait chaudement. Bientôt, Bruno et Arnaud arrivèrent du fond du Parc. Arnaud juste vêtu d'un short, le laissa tomber sur la terrasse et dans une pirouette entra dans l'eau en éclaboussant tout le monde. Bruno plus posé entra à son tour dans l'eau. Arnaud avait déjà fait le tour embrassant chacun sur la bouche terminant en me roulant une pelle. Je le pris dans mes bras et le jeta plus loin. Il revint se coller à moi comme une sangsue, tentant de me faire couler. Comme il ne faisait pas le poids, je lui faisais boire la tasse. Il se calma dans une quinte de toux. Comme nous étions tous là, je proposais des rafraîchissements. L'idée convenant, j'allais à la cuisine suivi d'Arnaud. Pour économiser mes déplacements, je mis les différentes bouteilles dans un grand seau et le remplit de glace pilée. Pendant ce temps là, Arnaud se mit en tête de me faire bander et y arriva sans problèmes !

Nous avons rejoint les autres Arnaud portant le plateau de verres. Nos deux bites bandantes nous valurent quelques remarques sur le temps que nous avions mis à revenir. Je répondais en demandant à Bruno de refaire l'éducation d'Arnaud, ce dernier se comportant comme une chienne en manque.

Protestation de sa part et aboiements d'Arnaud courant autour de la piscine. Je l'attrapais au passage et nous faisait tomber tous les deux dans l'eau. Alors que nous sortions tous pour nous désaltérer, Nicolas traînait un peu. Seb voyant de quoi il retournait, lui dit que les queues raides, ici, c'était habituel comme il avait pu le constater. Je me penchais et lui tendais la main. Par réflexe il l'a prit et d'un coup de rein, je le sortais de l'eau. De mon autre main, je vérifiais le " matériel ". effectivement un belle bite bien raide avec deux belle couilles lisses. Surprit, il manqua de retourner à l'eau mais je le serrais dans mes bras et lui murmurant à l'oreille que tout cela était fort intéressant. Il était tout rouge quand nous avons rejoint le groupe. Chacun un verre à la main, nous nous sommes installés. Arnaud s'installa entre les jambes de Bruno allongé sur une méridienne. Je fis de même entre celle de Marc, Seb et Nicolas s'installèrent en face de nous.

Rapidement Marc et Bruno se mirent à bander et je m'élançais le premier en embouchant mon mec. Arnaud fit de même. Un silence s'est installé, d'où ne ressortaient que les bruits de succions de nos deux pipes. Sur ordre le Marc je relevais la tête et avant qu'il n "ai pu réagir, m'agenouillais entre les cuisses de Nicolas et lui pompais le dard. Seb me remplaça auprès de Marc. Le morceau que j'avais dans la bouche faisait bien ses 20cm et la forme ovale de sa tige était amusante sous ma langue.

Rapidement j'ai du ralentir, Nicolas approchant très près de l'éjaculation. Je le tenais bien excité au bout de ma langue ou au plus profond de ma gorge. Quand il était totalement enfoncé, je parais au risque en serrant fortement la base de sa bite. Je mettais toute mes connaissances en fellation au service de sa bite, il devait trouver celle ci meilleur que toutes celles qu'il avait pu s'être fait faire par une meuf. J'alternais le suçage du gland avec passage de langue rappeuse en surface et sous la couronne avec des gorges profondes ou je le massais par des déglutitions répétées rapidement. Bientôt, il ne fut plus capable de se retenir et je desserrais les doigts pour libérer le flots. Il m'en mit plein le cou et le torse le tout dans un feulement rauque de plaisir. Alors qu'il allait se jeter dans la piscine pour se " nettoyer ", je le retenais (car c'est interdit question d'hygiène) et l'emmenais au sous sol à la salle de muscu, laissant les autres continuer à s'exciter.

L'installation lui tira un sifflement d'admiration. Je le poussais jusqu'aux sanitaires et ouvrais l'eau. Il se laissait faire. Je le couvrais de gel douche et entrepris de le faire mousser (le gel !). J'insistais surtout sur le gland et le prépuce mais mon autre main s'occupait de l'autre face. Collé à lui, je lui roulais une pelle et en profitais pour enter un doigt dans son cul. Effet immédiat, érection. 10mn après avoir juté, pas mal ! Sa main vint se poser sur ma bite et à tâtons fit sa connaissance. Rincés mais bien chauds, nous avons rejoint la terrasse où nous avons retrouvé nos amis. Seb se releva et vint se coller à Nicolas et lui rouler un patin. Je retrouvais Marc et lui confirmais que son petit trou juste défloré devrait bien nous serrer la bite. Je me mis en 69 avec Arnaud et devant l'exemple, Seb poussa Nicolas à faire de même.

Nous fumes rejoints par Bruno et Marc qui ne tardèrent pas à nous enfiler. Sans Kpote c'est vraiment trop bon ! Nicolas jetait de temps en temps un coup d'oeil au quatuor que nous formions puis se remettait à sucer Seb.

Bientôt nos enculeurs nous lâchèrent pour, une fois kpotés, sodomiser le 2ème 69. Marc, bien que le mieux monté de tous, tint à être le premier dans le cul de Nicolas. Il y alla doucement avec beaucoup de gel et finit par être totalement dans Nicolas, les couilles collées ensembles. La bite de Seb avait partiellement étouffé les gémissements de Nicolas. Après lui avoir laissé le temps de se faire au volume qui lui perforait le cul, Marc commença un limage en règle. De temps à autre Nicolas n'y tenait plus et relevait la tête pour pouvoir concentrer toute son attention sur les sensations qui lui arrivait de son cul et de sa bite fermement pompée par Seb. De notre coté, j'avais retourné Arnaud à 4 pattes et l'enculais en levrette. Mes mains serrait sa taille 36 et imprimait le rythme de la sodomie. Je nous avais placé de façon à pouvoir mater nos amis sans tourner nos têtes.

Nous avons pu ainsi voir toute l'évolution des sensations sur le visage de Nicolas. Il était subjugué par la bite de Bruno qui entrait et sortait sans difficulté de l'anus de son pote. De temps en temps, un coup de rein plus fort de Marc faisait apparaître une crispation sur son visage. Mais dans l'ensemble il avait l'air de prendre un méchant plaisir à baiser de la sorte !

Bientôt, les deux enculeurs, en accord, se mirent à accélérer leurs enculades et le 69 explosa ses foutres entre leur deux corps. Nos mecs sortirent vite des culs et dékpotés couvrirent le dos de Nicolas de leurs spermes. Arnaud entre mes cuisses se mit à éjaculer à son tour, me massant la bite par se contractions anales. Je ne tenais pas plus longtemps et éjaculais sur son dos.

Après une bonne demi heure de récupération silencieuse, nous avons migrés vers les douches. Je ramassais les draps de bains pleins de spermes et au passage les jetais à la laverie.

Je rejoignais le groupe sous les douche et me plaçant près de Nicolas qui se faisait savonner le dos par Seb, lui a demandé si ça lui avait plu. Un enthousiaste " oui " nous rassura quand à sa possible intégration à notre " groupe ".

La soirée du samedi était déjà bien entamée quand nous avons dîné. Bruno et Arnaud nous quittèrent après et Marc proposa au deux garçons de rester dormir pour passer le dimanche ensemble si ils n'avaient rien de mieux à faire. C'est Nicolas qui sans attendre Seb accepta la proposition !

JARDINIER

before the Xmas rich food, a sauna bath with my Doctor

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[chuuyascumsock]

i swear to god bro i think my delusions possessed me for a second when i called my friend chuuya 😭😭 ANYWAYS

let's talk about highschooler chuuya again because i hate school!!!

i don't think chuuya isn't much of a student-leadership (like student council) kind of guy in school. but then he gets recommended to be one anyway so he just goes along w it.....

me personally i feel like chuuya is quite a well-known student, considering he's probably on the school's team and participates in championships and leagues and shit... and he gets into fights often with a few people... (cough cough dazai)

NOW FAV SUBJECTS!! i think he likes science and pe!!! in pe, he is THAT mf who is a TRYHARD (but he's insanely good). this fucker will motivate his team to do their best and screams "CATCH THE FUCKING BALL" at them 🥰🥰 he'd def check up on them if one of them got hurt as well!!! if this was a team thing he'd def target said person who hurt them. (fighting fire with fire!!!)

as for science, i think he finds some topics super interesting and some super boring. science g ets hin confused a lil but he enjoys it!!! esp doing practicals and a bit of physics!!!! (dazai makes fun of him for enjoying it and ehm not me remindinf myself i'll have to take physics for my course soon to become an architech.... fuck no way am i becoming a doctor.) least favorite subjects, i think chuuya just hates everything LMFAO. it's just boring and doesn't interest him that much unlike science or sports. jhe doesn't like writing or just listening to take down notes and is much more of a practical person!! (he's a bit fascinated w art but he isn't that creative and his works usually look a bit poorly done despite his hard effort)

I AM ALSO A FIRM BELIEVER THAT CHUUYA'S STUDY HABITS ARE VERY INCONSISTENT!!! (same chuuya same) like he's a good student (despite getting into fights and forgetting to keep himself tidy...) and gets good grades but i feel like sometimes he just doesn't give a FUCK about studying (he finds it boring) but does so anyway because he knows that theres no way he's gonna remember all these shit equations. (hc he forgot he had an upcoming test and pulled an all nighter just to study and somehow got an A despite his lack of energy and focus to answer the questions) OH YEAH his notes are messy but as long as he remembers the important bits and can read his handwriting then he's good to go!!! (i hc chuuya's handwriting is rlly messy cursive handwriting)

when doing exams and tests i think chuuya is like. chill but STRESSED. it looksl ike he doesn't give a fuck but then u see his scrunched up sweating face when doing his paper and it looks like he just wants to rip it into shreds!!!! (he's probably done that before, though.) he's doing his best g.uys......

OVERRALL he's a good student guys (almost) !!!!!!!

(DID YOU NOTICE I BARELY SPELLED ANYTHINF WRONG IN MY ENTIR E PARAGRAPHS OF HIGHSCHOOL CHUUYA HCS OMG)

-lili/anon that cant spell

I feel like Chuuya would be the type to go “idgaf about school” but then try his best to get good grades. Nerd in disguise of a jock type of beat. Bro just wants a good education 😩

AND SPEAKING OF CHUUYA, DO I HAVE A LITTLE SURPRISE SMUT FIC COMING UP FOR Y’ALL??! Here’s a lil sneak peak 🤭

#casual asks

[winterrose527]

for robbcella?

1. Describe their first date.

5. Do they argue often? If so, what do they argue about?

10. Do they share any hobbies or interests? How do these things bring them together?

27. How do they say “I love you” non-verbally?

42. What’s their relationship like with each other’s friends/families?

oooh thank you for the ask my loveliest one

their first date was a loooooong time coming, so it was one of those things where it's not really a first date, they are just fully with each other and loved up and then Robb is like "I should take you on a date" and she's like "... oh... yeah". They have a dinner date though and everyone has lots of opinions (about where he's taking her, what she's wearing). They go some place they've never met before, so consciously trying to make this A Date, rather than a dinner. They keep slipping into easy conversation though before they realize that they are meant to be on A Date. And finally Myrcella just like scrunches her nose and is like 'but I'm in love with you and you're in love with me and I know every vacation you've ever been on and you know all my brothers and have punched two of them so can't we just eat this food and have our millionth conversation and isn't that better than having a perfect first date?' and he just smiles because he realizes he's going to have her by his side and across the table from him for the rest of his life and is like 'yeah sweetheart, it is'

5. no they don't argue often. they definitely go through patches where they are arguing more but that typically has to do with something larger they aren't talking about, usually a milestone that should be coming up in their relationship - getting married, having kids - that one of them feels strongly about and isn't entirely sure how to handle. their tried and true arguments though are that Robb is seemingly physically incapable of closing the kitchen cabinets after opening them & Myrcella doesn't always indulge him if he is feeling jealous - her behavior has never done anything to cause him concern and she refuses to be held responsible every time someone thinks she's hot. that one goes away pretty early in their relationship though because they grow up and get over it.

10. I think their shared hobbies and interests are really the people in their lives, that's how they come together and really mutually enjoy something. They both have their own hobbies though and are definitely supportive of each others. Robb basically follows along with whatever book she's reading because when they're lying on the couch together she's always reading him passages, and he'll be up to date with plot twists. She could not care less about sports, but will go with him to games if one of the guys aren't available, and doesn't mind having them on in the house while she's reading or doing something else because she can tune it out. She's somehow absorbed a lot of knowledge against her will though and so all of a sudden something will happen in a game and she'll just spew something out and Robb is like 👀 and she's like 'what?'

27. oh what a sweet question! they have thousands of ways of doing this. Robb will get up early with the kids on Saturday morning and let her sleep - which she actually can't do but will lounge in bed and enjoy her peace for a little while. Myrcella will organize a low key Stark et. al. family meal when Robb is particularly stressed, knowing that his people recenter him. He'll call her mother, because he knows if he doesn't it's something Cersei will throw at Myrcella (even though Cersei never wants to talk to him actually). She'll spend hours with him in home improvement stores. Favorite dinners and back rubbing and shared gazes and a whole lifetime of taking care of each other.

42. Robb is super close with Gendry (brothers in law twice over) and fully adopts Tommy as another younger sibling. Robert is OBSESSED with Robb and Robb thinks he's basically pond scum but indulges him when he's not upsetting Myrcella. Cersei hates Robb, like HATES him, but will begrudgingly admit he takes very good care of her daughter and grandchildren. Tywin respects him, but wouldn't go so far as to say he likes him. Jaime was going to like him but then saw Robb grab Myrcella's ass one time and has never forgiven him.

Myrcella is a Stark, full stop. She was long before her and Robb got together, and his parents were long praying they'd come to their senses and get together. His siblings are her siblings. Sansa is her oldest and best friend, and Rickon is insanely protective of her, but she's got great relationships with Bran and Arya.

They get along really well with each other's friends, though Jon and Sansa are their go-tos for everything. Jon and Myrcella are just as close as Robb and Sansa so it's very often that some combo of the four of them are together.

Myrcella adores Theon (he thinks he's her favorite which makes Jon and Gendry cackle, but really pisses Tommy off I've just decided), but has very little patience for his antics. Robb has learned not to intervene there and just let them play through whatever side plot they have going on.

Marg has long been the third in Myrcella and Sansa's trio, and she and Robb have a very silly, sometimes flirty relationship unless someone has crossed Marg and Robb is like NOPE NOT ON MY WATCH and she's like dude I've already eviscerated them and also I have three older brothers you weirdo.

I'M SO SORRY THIS GOT SO LONG

#long post #robbcella #head canon

[opiatemasses]

Normality or Reality?

Some believe that racism no longer exists, that the society we now live is post-racial or colour-blind. However, it is clear racism is an ongoing issue both here in the UK and globally. For example, 95% of young black British children have witnessed racism in school. According to Delgado et al. (2017) many people of colour choose not to speak out about it, as they feel it limits their futures. 

Because racism exists in society it also exists in sport. Black people do not have equal opportunities and do not receive similar rewards for equal or better performance when compared to their white counterparts. As a consequence, their desire for a successful career beyond sport or any other profession is dismal. 

Racial abuse does not just affect children, it affects adults, athletes, teachers, police officers, lawyers and so on. Anyone who is a person of colour can feel as though they are at a disadvantage because of the colour of their skin. It is something they face and challenge every single day. 

Examples of Racism in Everyday Life

It has been argued that race is a social construction.                       

Within the police force, at the end of March 2020, 92.7% of police officers were White, with only 7.3% identifying as BAME. Between April 2020 and March 2021 black people were over 3 times as likely to be arrested as white people. 

These statistics provide evidence to their reasonings of why they are at a disadvantage, simply because their skin is not white. Racism can occur anywhere and to anyone, what is important is that we are aware and report it to the police, or if you are at work to your workplace management. If you or someone you know is experiencing racial abuse you can report it here: https://www.report-it.org.uk

Image credit: Getty Images https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-myth-of-systemic-police-racism-11591119883 

Defining Racism 

Racism in sport is defined as any form of discrimination against people based on race, ethnicity or nationality. This includes, and is not limited to, discriminatory acts, comments, policies and practices that exclude or hinder the ability of people of certain racial backgrounds to participate in sports. 

Racism In Sport 

Racism in sport is a reflection of wider prejudice and inequity that exists in both our societies and institutions. Athletes experience racial harassment on a regular basis, whether that be in person or online through social media. 

Racism has been found in sport for a long time in European sports, but this has intensified during major international sporting competitions where players of colour are put on centre stage and under pressure.   

In 2020 the men’s England football team lost to Italy in the UEFA Euro final.  Instead of admiring the skill of Italy’s goalkeeper or congratulating the fact England had succeeded in coming so far in the competition, three players – Bukayo Saka, Jason Sancho and Marcus Rashford – were subjected to floods of racist abuse. A tweet was published in response to this harassment encapsulates this phenomenon: “When you score, you’re English. When you miss, you’re an immigrant.” 

Furthermore, racism in sports can often have serious consequences for those subjected to it. Research has shown that in addition to physical and mental stress, athletes of colour often struggle with feelings of powerlessness, depression, and anxiety due to the constant discrimination they face during their sporting career. This can not only affect an athlete’s performance, but can also have lasting impacts on their mental health and well-being.

Image credit: Reuters https://metro.co.uk/2021/07/12/euro-2020-england-players-bombarded-with-racist-abuse-14912944/

What is Being Done to Stop Racial Abuse?

There are several organisations working to combat racism in sport, which include:

The Institute for Sport and Social Justice

The Anti-Defamation League

The National Association for the Advancement of Coloured People (NAACP)

Additionally, many professional sports leagues, such as the National Basketball Association (NBA) and Major League Soccer (MLS), have established policies and initiatives to promote diversity and inclusion in their leagues. 

‘Taking the Knee’ was a major movement - a globally recognisable protest against racism, but it was prohibited for football players to do this before every match. This was only just the beginning. If we are to make progress in combating racism in sport, it is important for everyone to take a stand and speak out against racism whenever they see it. 

Various important initiatives have been launched to tackle racism in sport, such as the #BritishAthletesUnite campaign across the UK, which aims to create a platform to end racism in sport. Initiatives such as this are important, as they provide education and awareness of racism in sport. 

Additionally, organisations like Kick It Out are taking action to fight racism through their campaigns, educational resources and alert system. This ensures those affected by racism are provided with support and the issue is addressed.

Below is a short video on the backlash players received by ‘taking the knee’ before games. 

What Can YOU Do?

Sports are a microcosm of society. So to end racism in sport we need to recognise that the idea that society is post-racial is wrong. We must also focus on eliminating racism in our wider communities. 

This includes actively supporting organisations and initiatives that promote equality and racial justice. Additionally, we must continue to have discussions about racism and engage with communities to create change. 

Finally, it's important to remember that sport should be accessible to all, regardless of race, gender, class, disability, etc. Encouraging diversity and inclusion and ensuring that everyone has a seat at the table is critical to creating a more equitable sporting environment.

Racism in sport is an issue that we must take seriously and address. We must take steps to ensure that all athletes, regardless of race, are given equal opportunities and treated with respect. This is our reality but let us not make it a normality. YOU can help end racism once and for all. We all need to do our part and take steps to ensure that all athletes, regardless of race, are given equal opportunities and treated with respect. We must also take steps to ensure that those who engage in racist behaviour are held accountable for their actions. Only then together will we be able to make progress in our fight against racism in sport and end racism once and for all. 

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#BLM #make a difference #end racism #equality #inclusivity #equal opportunity #discrimination #sport #athletes #social injustice #abuse #harrasment #black lives matter

[jalenmcnairy]

Blog 1

mes moyens de soulager le stress sont de jouer à des jeux vidéo et d'aller à la salle de sport. Les jeux me distraient l’esprit et la salle de sport me donne plus d’objectifs. Je vais au gymnase depuis environ six mois et je joue à des jeux depuis environ 13 ans.

[emsylcatac]

15 Questions 15 Mutuals

thanks for the tag @ladyofthenoodle & @cakemousse ♥️

1. Are you named after anyone?

No! But my 2nd name is after my godmother

2. When was the last time you cried?

I’m sure I cried more recently, but the most memorable cry was 2 months ago in April. I had gotten a pretty bad email amongst other things at work after a few very stressful months and my emotions were all over the place 💀

3. Do you have kids?

No

4. Do you use sarcasm a lot?

I think I do a little to some extent? But I usually make sure you can tell it’s sarcasm - and I very rarely direct it at someone except for teasing, mostly I use it when retelling a story

5. What sports do you play/have played?

Nothing at the moment. I did gymnastic a couple of years when I was a kid. And in my last year of studies I did a bit of Jujitsu for a few months before going abroad for an internship, which I really loved & would love to pick up again. But they don’t do it in the city I currently live in :(

Otherwise I love hiking if that counts

6. What’s the first thing you notice about someone?

Uuuhhhh no idea, their general attitude? I’ve never really thought about it

7. What’s your eye color?

Blue-grey

8. Scary movies or happy endings?

I’m like Marinette when it comes to scary movies so happy endings all the way hahaha

9. Any special talents?

depends what ‘special’ means but if it’s ‘weird’ then i’d say I can imitate cats & chickens’ cries pretty well 💀

10. Where were you born?

Somewhere in France

11. What are your hobbies?

music / photography / I guess drawing a little bit but I haven’t done that in a while, it kinda rotates depending on my mood

12. Do you have pets?

yes i have a cat at my family’s place

13. How tall are you

166 cm (roughly 5’’4)

14. Favorite subject in school?

It used to be biology & English (note that I’m French so it was learning the language, not the literacy classes haha)

15. Dream job?

Wildlife reporter maybe? idk

Tagging (feel free to ignore) : @ladynoirist @amimons @yeet-noir @little-mari-on-a-roof @2manyfandoms2count @fortuna-et-cataclysmos (yes it’s not 15 people but idk who hasn’t been tagged yet and i’m lazy ok 😭)

#tag game #not ml

[phant0m-l0rd]

thank u @minuutti for the tag <3 (finally getting around to it :D)

what book are you currently reading?

I'm still reading Moby Dick even though I started it months ago, simply because I unintentionally took a big break from it at one point (and read a few other books). also reading Agir et Penser Comme Un Chat by Stéphane Garnier and Le Voleur d'ombres by Marc Levy.

what’s your favourite movie you saw in theatres this year?

I went to the cinema a few weeks ago for the first time in over 4 or 5yrs. therefore, the only movie I've seen in theatres in all these years is the new Mario movie so that's my pick by default (it was fun though).

what do you usually wear?

jeans, shirt. + a hoodie if it's cold.

how tall are you?

175cm/5'9

what’s your star sign? do you share a birthday with a celebrity or a historical event?

cancer! my 11th birthday was the day Michael Jackson passed away and I remember how depressing that was.

do you go by your name or a nickname?

just my name, it's too short to nickname. some friends try to give me nicknames but they almost always end up longer or the same length as my name lol

did you grow up to become what you wanted to be when you were a child?

I think so yes, I don't see how it could've gone any other way tbh!

are you in a relationship? if not, who is your crush if you have one?

no, and I do have a crush but will not reveal it publicly like that lol

what’s something you’re good at vs. something you’re bad at?

cooking vs. stress management

dogs or cats?

both are amazing but I love cats sm and desperately need one

if you draw/write, or create in any way, what’s your favourite picture/favourite line/favourite etc. from something you created this year?

so far it has to be the most recent digital art I made of Kyo just cuz I feel like I've finally started getting the hang of digital art even though my comfort zone still lies in traditional art.

what’s something you’d like to create content for?

nothing specific, just anything I'm interested in in the moment.

what’s something you’re currently obsessed with?

this is really fkn random coming from me but. watching baseball. I've never been a sports person, never watched sports except during world cups or the olympics. but ever since a few days ago I've found a new hyperfixation I guess, completely unexpectedly and out of my control 😭

what’s something you were excited about that turned out to be disappointing this year?

idk tbh, can't think of anything rn. I haven't been that excited for anything lately.

what’s a hidden talent of yours?

I can mimick trumpet sounds well? 😭

are you religious?

not really, I don't follow a specific religion

what’s something you wish to have at this moment?

for all my anxieties to be alleviated so I can finally live a normal life again.

tagging @ranuunculus , @cupofteaandstars (no pressure ofc) and anyone else who feels like it :D ~

#i realised a few of my answers overlapped w yours minuutti lmao- jeans and shirts ftw!! #something i truly didnt have on my bingo list for 2023 would be that id become a sports fan of any sort... who am i anymore #just baseball tho- it's very relaxing yet incredibly engaging imo #did watching hot stove league a few months ago unconsciously influence the emergence of this subsequent obsession... perhaps #tag game #personal

[22leonie14]

LE STRESS

Je sais pas si vous connaissez se stresse pour rien, quand tu stresse pour un truc pas grave du tout ! Et c'est chiant t'as une boule au ventre qui t'empêche d'être fluide, t'es comme bloquée ! En plus tu sais que c'est pas grave ! C'est ce qui m'arrive en se moment, je vais donc vous parlez d'une très bonne technique pour le faire moins présent.

Premièrement la fuite

Pour un stress qui demande de la patience comme attendre la réponse à quelques chose la fuite est la meilleure option. Ayé toujours un film, une série ou bien un livre (plus complexe car il est dur pour certains de se concentrer) afin de vous plonger dans une autre histoire que la vôtre. Toute activité peut être la bienvenue, sport, ménage, cuisine, art, avec un peu de musique vous vous concentrer sur autre chose que vos problèmes et puis en plus ça peut être utile.

Deuxièmement relativiser

La relativisation est une méthode que j'utilise pas mal, cela consiste à dédramatiser une situation et de la rendre moins grave. Celà sert surtout à se calmer. Il faut respirer et prendre du recul sur la situation, est ce que c'est vraiment grave ? Est-ce que avoir eu une mauvaise note te fais complètement changer ? Est-ce que tu te souviendra de se problème dans dix ans ? Est-ce que ça change totalement t'es envie ? Si cela est arrivé c'est que ça va te permettre de rencontrer quelques chose, c'est l'effet papillon, rien n'est du au hasard !

Pour moi le stress est toujours là cependant j'arrive à ne plus lui accorder d'importance jusqu'à la confrontation qui doit arriver plus tard. Je sais quand elle va arriver d'ici là je l'ignore car je n'ai pas le besoin de lui accorder de l'importance

Si se stresse est du un évènement ayant un besoin de préparation, c'est conseil ne sont à appliquer que si tu est sur de t'es capacités, ne révise pas à t'en rendre malade fait des pauses ! Mais ne fuit pas et n'ignore pas la situation, prend simplement confiance en t'es capacités. Je ferai sûrement un passage sur les cours une autre fois

#motivation #home & lifestyle #french blogger #new blog #new life #stress #blog #french #francais #conseil #glow up

[viviangohcn]

What is Social Gaming?

Social gaming refers to online video games that are widely played and available only through social media platforms (Bernachi, n.d.). These games are made to promote social interaction and conversation about the game both inside and outside of the game. They usually have multiplayer gaming mechanics and gamification systems.

Types of Games:

Card games

Board games

Mobile games

Social network games

Alternate reality games

LAN parties

Miniature wargaming

Live action role-playing games

Tabletop games

Massively multiplayer online games

Four Types of Play of Roger Caillois

French sociologist Roger Caillois developed four basic categories of play to characterize the roles in games and their intricacies:

Agon: This involves competition and is characterized by the presence of rules and the desire to win. It encompasses activities such as sports and board games

Alea: Games of chance fall under this category, where ability is not as important as luck in determining the result. Lottery games and gambling are two examples.

Mimicry: Role-playing, pretend play, and simulation are all part of this kind of play. People can take on several roles and identities, which encourages imagination and creativity.

Ilinx: Disorientation and vertigo are symptoms of ilinx. Activities that cause vertigo or changed perception, such spinning or some amusement park rides, fall under this category of play.

Caillois further divided these categories into two types of play:

Paida: This type of play is more spontaneous, exuberant, and unstructured. It corresponds to mimicry and ilinx and is associated with Mead's concept of pretend play.

Ludus: Ludus play is highly regulated and consists of structured, well-defined activities. It is translates to Mead's category of "games" and includes contests (agon) and games of chance (alea).

Are gaming communities becoming less about play and more about monetisation?

According to (Daniels, 2023), the conventional idea of play within these groups has been impacted by the growing tendency of commercialization in gaming communities. More and more gaming communities are concentrating on monetization techniques in order to leverage their user base and engagement. This shift is evident in various way:

Impact on consumer behavior

Sponsorships and advertising

Web3 and game monetization

Social gaming marketing

Diverse monetization models

Source: https://youtu.be/ARV5QCDb2UE

Has the Covid-19 pandemic changed the public perception of gaming?

It is true that the Covid-19 pandemic has had a variety of effects on how the general public views games. The consequences of the epidemic on gaming behavior and players' well-being have been clarified by research and studies. Here are some key findings:

Increased gaming activity

Research has shown that during the Covid-19 epidemic, young people's gaming engagement increased overall (Haug et al., 2022). Due to the epidemic and its accompanying constraints, people spent more time at home and played more video games for amusement and social connection.

Concerns and Public Health Initiatives

Concerns over young people's lack of physical activity, poor mental health, and sleep issues have been highlighted by the pandemic's increased gaming participation (Haug et al., 2022). It has been suggested that public health initiatives stress the promotion of physical exercise and create practical plans to stop harmful gaming habits.

Perceived benefits of gaming

Online gaming may enhance young people's psychosocial development in cognitive, motivational, emotional, and social domains, according to some research. Furthermore, it has been discovered that social gaming during social separation significantly but modestly lessens the experience of loneliness.

Negative perceptions

Negative themes have surfaced surrounding the belief that playing video games was a way to pass the time during the pandemic, notwithstanding any potential advantages (Barr & Copeland-Stewart, 2021).

In summary, the Covid-19 pandemic has caused a rise in youth gaming, and opinions on the effects of gaming on wellbeing are beginning to take shape, with both positive and negative views being expressed. Public health activities are necessary to address the challenges of physical inactivity and mental health disorders, even as other research emphasize the potential benefits of gaming.

Source: https://youtu.be/vL4W2zdWL9k

References

Bernachi, M. (n.d.). Social Gaming: What it is, benefits, and examples of platforms. https://www.cyberclick.net/numericalblogen/social-gaming-what-it-is-benefits-and-examples-of-platforms

Daniels, B. (2023, April 13). 10 tried & proven ways to monetize your gaming community in 2022. StriveCloud. https://strivecloud.io/blog/monetize-discord-communities/

Haug, E., Mæland, S., Lehmann, S., Bjørknes, R., Fadnes, L. T., Sandal, G. M., & Skogen, J. C. (2022). Increased gaming during COVID-19 Predicts physical inactivity among youth in Norway—A Two-Wave Longitudinal Cohort study. Frontiers in Public Health, 10. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpubh.2022.812932

Barr, M., & Copeland-Stewart, A. (2021). Playing video games during the COVID-19 pandemic and effects on Players’ Well-Being. Games and Culture, 17(1), 122–139. https://doi.org/10.1177/15554120211017036

#mda20009 #digitalcommunities #week 10 #social gaming #Youtube

[thoughtportal]

By Hurubie Meko and Wesley Parnell

Published Aug. 8, 2023Updated Aug. 9, 2023, 8:53 a.m. ET

In the days after O’Shae Sibley, a Black gay man, was killed during an altercation outside a gas station in the Midwood neighborhood of Brooklyn, the picture that emerged suggested an explosive combination of homophobia, religious intolerance and racism.

A witness said a group of men that included the teenager charged in the killing used homophobic slurs and told Mr. Sibley that they were Muslim, and he should stop dancing. Some initial media reports picked up that account. Mayor Eric Adams and the police held a news conference at which the mayor stressed that the killing was not evidence of Muslim hatred of gay people.

Now, it appears the man charged with Mr. Sibley’s murder is not Muslim at all. The suspect, Dmitry Popov, 17, is Christian, his lawyer said, altering at least one aspect of a killing that has drawn national attention.

Mr. Sibley’s death had raised concerns about how the charged accusations could hurt relations between two marginalized communities, gay people and Muslims. In fact, the two groups stood together.

At the news conference on Saturday, Mr. Adams, joined by leaders from the city’s gay and Muslim communities, said that both L.G.B.T.Q. people and Muslims have been victims of hate, and the two communities “stand united against fighting any form of hate in this city.”

Mr. Sibley, a dancer and choreographer, was returning from New Jersey to his home in Brooklyn on the evening of Saturday, July 29, when he and his four friends stopped at the gas station, the police said. As the men filled up their car, they played music by Beyoncé and danced, and a group of men approached and told them to stop.

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The men yelled homophobic slurs and anti-Black statements at Mr. Sibley and his friends, according to Joseph Kenny, an assistant chief at the Police Department’s detective bureau, at a news conference on Saturday.

Summy Ullah, a 32-year-old gas station attendant who witnessed the encounter, said one of the young men said, “I’m Muslim. I don’t want this here.”

Within minutes, the heated verbal altercation had turned violent, according to the police. Mr. Sibley was stabbed once in the chest, Mr. Kenny said. He was taken to Maimonides Medical Center, where he was pronounced dead.

Mr. Popov, 17, a high school student from Brooklyn, turned himself in last Friday and was charged with second-degree murder, second-degree murder as a hate crime and criminal possession of a weapon. He was denied bail in State Supreme Court in Brooklyn on Monday and is being held in detention.

Court documents said that a witness heard the group with Mr. Popov say, “Stop dancing here, we are Muslim.”

But at the court hearing and in an interview on Tuesday, Mr. Popov’s lawyer, Mark Henry Pollard, pushed back against some of the initial narrative: Mr. Popov is not Muslim, Mr. Pollard said.

“He’s Christian,” he said in a phone interview. “Somehow they got it confused, he’s not a Muslim. I could understand if there were other friends that were, but he was the only person arrested.”

Right after Mr. Sibley was stabbed, Mr. Ullah tried to chase down the attacker.

“I’m Muslim myself,” said Mr. Ullah, who immigrated from Pakistan. “When I saw them dancing, I was laughing too, but I wasn’t making fun of them. Everyone has their own perspective, gay, transgender. We have gay people in our countries as well. You don’t make fun of them. They don’t say anything to you. They aren’t making fun of you.”

Sayeda Haider, 23, arrived at the gas station shortly after the stabbing and found Mr. Sibley’s friends weeping. She comforted them and told them she hoped their friend’s killer would be caught.

Days later, Ms. Haider, who is Muslim, said she had reflected on the possibility that someone used her religion to justify an act of violence.

“It can’t be because of religion, because we dance,” she said. “We are strict, but we’ll dance at parties.”

In Islam, as in many religions, there are extremists who reject L.G.B.T.Q. people, she said, but she said that she had been raised to let people live their lives as they choose.

“We also came here because of freedom, because of the rights, so let other people have their rights too,” she said.

Soniya Ali, executive director of the Muslim Community Center, who also spoke at the news conference on Saturday, said it was not a “surprise or a shock” that the narrative that the person who killed Mr. Sibley was Muslim spread in the news media. Ms. Ali said she had neither experienced or witnessed any backlash from the gay community since Mr. Sibley’s killing.

She said she spoke on Saturday to show support for the L.G.B.T.Q. community in New York City, who she said were the first ones to reach out after former President Donald J. Trump instituted a travel ban soon after taking office barring visitors from six predominantly Muslim countries from entering the United States.

What’s important now, she said, is making sure that the focus remains on the tragedy of Mr. Sibley’s “senseless murder.”

“He was murdered. It was a hate crime,” she said. “That’s the gist of it.”

For Beckenbaur Hamilton, 51, a neighbor and friend of Mr. Sibley, the attacker’s religion is not important.

“That part isn’t even relevant,” said Mr. Hamilton, who is gay. “It doesn’t matter if he is Christian, Muslim, Jewish. If a person takes a person’s life he should be held accountable.”

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Nous sommes à la recherche de Jessica Lewilton.

- Soeur jumelle de Jeremy Lewilton

- Membre fondateur du scooby

- Loup-garou

JEREMY ET JESSICA LEWILTON !! ARRÊTEZ TOUT DE SUITE DE COURIR PARTOUT DANS LA MAISON !

Cette phrase que les parents de Jeremy et Jessica ne cessaient de répéter est celle qui résume le mieux l'enfance de cette magnifique jeune femme à la chevelure dorée. Jessica est né à Sunnydale un 29 mai par une journée ensoleillée et chaude, mais elle n'était pas la seule à pointer le bout de son nez dans ce nouveau monde. Jessica était accompagné d'un frère, un jumeau. Durant l'enfance, Jessica était une gamine très réservée, calme, passionnée de musique et d'arts contrairement à son frère qui était un gamin assez turbulent, toujours à la recherche d'actions et de rêves à accomplir. Ils avaient 5 ans, lorsque les premiers signes de lycanthropie sont apparus. Rapidement, ils ont compris qu'ils étaient différents. Ils ont compris pourquoi leurs parents ne voulaient pas qu'ils aient d'amis. Durant toute leur enfance, ils ont été séparés du monde extérieur, des humains qu'on juge comment étant normaux.

Le 23 octobre 2014, par un soir de pluie où l'on entend que ces gouttes qui percutent notre pare-brise. Les parents des jumeaux ont perdu le contrôle de leur véhicule sur la route entre Los Angeles et Sunnydale. Ce soir-là, les adolescents étaient entrain d'écouter un film sur Netflix, lorsqu'une dame des services sociaux est venu cogner à leur porte pour leur annoncer que leurs parents étaient décédés dans un accident de voiture. Les jumeaux qui avaient été habitués à être enfermés, dans les quatre murs de leur maison depuis toujours étaient maintenant des orphelins placés sous la responsabilité des services sociaux qui ne comprenaient pas pourquoi ces enfants n'étaient pas dans une institution scolaire régulière et gouvernementale. Après des évaluations psychologiques et d'autres tests sur leurs états de santé, l'intervenante responsable du dossier Lewilton autorisa le placement de ces jeunes dans une famille d'accueil et l'inscription des jumeaux au lycée de Sunnydale. Durant toute leur adolescence, Jeremy et Jessica Lewilton ont dû contrôler leur pouvoir afin de ne faire de mal à personne. Ils se sont soutenus dans l'adversité sans jamais reparler de cette nuit-là. Jeremy s'est plongé dans le sport pour oublier les souffrances de son enfance tandis que Jessica s'est plongée dans les livres et les bouquins. Encore aujourd'hui, ils ont de la difficulté à communiquer ce qu'ils ont ressenti cette nuit-là. Ils évitent de parler de leur enfance ou de leurs parents, ils préfèrent vivre dans le moment présent pour oublier la douleur du passé.

Durant toutes ces années au lycée, Jessica a essayé d'empêcher Jeremy de tomber dans la dépression. Elle savait trop bien que son jumeau ne supporterait pas de vivre avec la mort de leurs parents. Elle croyait être la seule à pouvoir redonner l'envie de vivre à son frère. C'est avec les années qu'elle comprit que Jeremy avait perdu une partie de son âme le soir de l'accident. Lorsqu'il s'éloigne d'elle durant leur première année à l'Université de Sunnydale, Jessica en profite pour commencer à vivre sa vie.

Aujourd'hui, elle profite au maximum de sa beauté, de son intelligence et de ses droits de future avocate. Elle ne peut s'empêcher de penser au bien-être de son jumeau lorsqu'elle le regarde vivre une vie qui n'est pas la sienne. Elle aimerait que son frère redevienne, celui avec qui elle parlait des plus beaux garçons du lycée. Bien avant que toute cette histoire d'image ne prenne toute la place. Bien avant que son frère n'officialise son couple avec sa meilleure amie Grace Lorentis.

Nous sommes en 2023, un nouveau chapitre de la vie de Jessica Lewilton commence. Une troisième année à étudier le droit à l'Université de Sunnydale en Californie. Jessica entame cette nouvelle année avec une boule à la gorge. Ce stress de voir sa meilleure amie réduite en larme par nul autre que son frère jumeau dont elle veut le bonheur plus que tout au monde. Jessica pourrait l'ouvrir et dire à Grace pourquoi Jeremy n'est pas l'étalon qui vient enivrer les nuits dont elle rêve, mais elle préfère protéger son jumeau. Toute cette histoire d'image a tellement pris d'ampleur pour lui et pour sa carrière que Jessica ne veut pas tout détruire et tourner le couteau dans sa plaie qui est encore trop douloureuse pour en ajouter une couche. Elle préfère vivre avec le secret de son jumeau qui la ronge de l'intérieur.

Cette année la route de Jessica croisera celle d'une nouvelle arrivée. Elle se rapprochera de @Ciara Danvert qui deviendra très importante dans sa vie. Une grande amie pour qui elle sera prête à se battre contre les forces du mal qui ont tué ses parents. C'est aussi durant cette enquête qu'elle fera la rencontre de @Valentin Duport en qui elle verra un confident qui pourrait changer la vie de son frère. Ils créeront ensemble le nouveau scooby. Jessica et les scoobies feront la rencontre des enfants de l'ancienne génération de Sunnydale qui se joindront au groupe afin de lutter contre la reine des enfers @Béatrice Lowell et son plan machiavélique d'ouvrir la bouche de l'enfer pour apporter l'apocalypse sur Terre.

Étant d’une famille de loups de sang pur, Jessica croit à la vie et à la mort, elle ne croit pas qu’il peut y avoir quelque chose entre les deux. Donc elle ne se doute pas que son père, Nathaniel Lewilton est toujours en vie et qu'il essaie de communiquer avec elle.

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