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hamdun888 · 6 months

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Such a beautiful description by James Blanchard Cisneros which applies so greatly to my bride Darlene (Doc) Dahlborg in life and in her role for Dahlborg HealthCARING Leadership Group, LLC (DHLG) as Chief Joy Officer … “… when you feel joy, you become a beacon of joy for others. Joy, as an expression of Love, is an aspect of our eternal essence and nature. The joyous state is our true Home. Joy…

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#CJO #Darlene Dahlborg #healthCARING #joy #Lead Serve Love #lead with love #love is the force multiplier #the way #unconditional love

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bonefall · 29 days

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I personally like Thunder's prosthetic. Explained it to my friend (who does use a mobility device, a cane and wheelchair, and listens to me rant and infodump about BB) and they agreed, it's important to know that not every person needs what someone wants to give them. It's another example of "bad ableist person does a thing that hurts a disabled person because they are bad and ableist".

Clear Sky got Jagged Peak killed and would have killed Sunlit Frost! He would absolutely force his disabled son to be "normal" and present it like a privilege. "I wouldn't do this for anyone else, it's special, why don't you want to be helped?"

Thunder Storm should toss it in Clear Sky's face. (I would say toss it into the river but we do not pollute waterways in this house)

Thank you for telling me this, and tell your friend I'm thanking them too! If they have anything else to add please forward what they have to say

Since BB!DOTC tackles some of the heaviest topics in the entire series because its canon equivalent is so dark, I think very carefully about what I do here and how I show it. I take feedback on its sensitive aspects very seriously. If I'm understanding the criticism properly, it's that I should avoid stigmatizing prosthetics by making sure Thunder Storm's not the only one with it-- which he's not! And I'll add even more.

I don't want to avoid something only because it's uncomfortable if the topic is important, and my portrayal is respectful. Ableism IS uncomfortable! There are some situations where a prosthetic is not wanted! I think the rejection of this particular one is both a good opportunity to show a type of ableism and ALSO is very fitting for the characters.

In BB!Clear Sky's mind, the villain, he's fixing an old mistake. He can't admit that he got Jagged Peak killed or take REAL accountability for it (though he will, occasionally, apologize insincerely), but deep in his bones, he knows what he did was cruel. He'll never tell anyone this because he doesn't really cognate it himself, but Thunder Storm NEEDS to take his gift.

If Thunder doesn't take it, it blows a hole in his newest story. You see, throwing Jagged Peak out was All That Could Have Been Done back then. It was a Tragedy and he simply Made A Hard Choice. He regrets it very much, But You Have To Understand.

But now? Now? Well, behold. Look at what he's accomplished since the tragic death of his little brother. His cats are well-fed, cared for, and stable enough to make such incredible advancements. If only Jagged Peak had been able to hold on longer, if only he could be here now, I could fix him.

Just like I can (MAKE YOU JUST LIKE ME) fix you.

"Everything I've ever done is for Jagged Peak. For Fluttering Wing. For you." Thunder Sky is SPECIAL, but if he rejects any gift, tries to turn down the "privileges" offered to him, in an instant that becomes ungratefulness and arrogance. He both forces him to be special, and then leverages it against him if it's rejected. "Spoiled brat, doesn't appreciate what I've worked so hard to give him."

It all goes back to him and his own guilt. He can NEVER be wrong. He can't accept his family doesn't have to be "normal" or reflect his own ability. He won't see himself as a bully, let alone a murderer. It was never about his son's comfort or finding out what Thunder Storm wants or needs, it was about his own ego.

...All that said I'm still taking feedback if there's anything else I should keep in mind, or if anyone has a counter point, especially if you also have experience here.

(In the interest of having a link trail for posterity, here's the critique/call for feedback this is in response to)

#ALSO also I will take suggestions on other characters who should have prosthetics #Sunlit makes sense and it will make a really nice character moment later for him to have one built #There's also an amputee in RiverClan few people talk about called Stonestream #I can give him one and bump him up into a bigger character. In BB he is the sibling of Willowshine #BB!DOTC #better bones au #Also just as a side note... I love writing BB!Skystar. My ire for the character comes from his redemption arc so I feel like I get to--#--write the character I WANTED to see #Same with Bramble in other BB arcs #cw ableism #tw ableism #ableism #They're fascinating in that they always have to see themselves as the victim or the hero #They believe every lie they tell.#If you ever catch them in a contradiction they will still try to find some way to turn it on you and YOUR lack of understanding.#Interestingly both of them are ableist. Sky's is just more obvious because he's LOUDLY bigoted.#But BB!Bramble is *notably* less close to Jay for a very sad and very subtle reason.#Jay just doesn't serve his ego like the others do until much later in his life.#unfortunately most bigotry is like that.#the type you have a hard time calling out because it's a deniable bias. the constant gaslighting of being part of a marginalized group #Maybe I need to address the criticism by adding a character with a prosthetic to THIS arc even earlier #Problem is that like... Thunder's small merc group is already full of disabled characters and their THING is forming in response to ableism #OH maybe I'll put someone in the Forest Cat group which is lead by Slash?#I need to finish that last book and then gather up all the cats for sorting into allegiances

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mostlyfate · 5 months

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Love Me, Love My Voice 很想很想你 · 2023, dir. Sha Wei Qi

#love me love my voice #cdrama #cdramaedit #cdramasource #asiandramasource #dailyasiandramas #很想很想你 #tan jianci #zhou ye #lovemelovemyvoiceedit #lmlmvedit #lmlmv: 1.12 #.gif #they are really soo sweet 🤧#and the tension leading up to their first kiss was so good 😭#then them serving insane chemistry with those kiss scenes in the latest eps has me 🫣#i've honestly tried giffing their scenes multiple times but i cant get them to look nice so i've given up every time #except for this set 🥲

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justaz · 2 months

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listen. my guilty pleasure is those merthur fics where merlin is handed over to foreign lords and they get violent and then arthur finds out and goes apeshit. love it. so fun. but what i think is so funny is that like,,, merlin would punch back. maybe not realistically, maybe he’d restrain himself, but spiritually merlin is throwing hands. i just think its funny bc in like all the fics ive read merlin is the personification of 🥺 over it

#in my heart #merlin takes the punch like a champ before turning around and swinging on the bitch #the lord threatens to report him to the king and (depending on who is leading camelot) merlin has two reactions #uthers reign!merlin: yeah go tell everybody that you got ur shit rocked by a serving boy. go cry like a little bitch to mommy.#im sure theyll love that. youll make a lot of friends like that. no one will think ur weak in the slightest #and then #arthur’s reign!merlin: trust me when i say this - ur getting off easy. if u tell arthur what u did he’ll kill u himself.#take the punch and go. we’re even #TEEHEE 🤭🤭#GET HIS ASS MERLIN #but im also a fan of protective arthur and hurt merlin so no complaints from me #just a silly thought #just bc merlin is CONSTANTLY taking care of arthur. and yeah arthur takes care of merlin (usually in more subtle ways)#but its still fun to see him absolutely lose his shit and protect whats his #bbc merlin #merlin emrys #arthur pendragon #merthur

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dirtytransmasc · 8 months

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" advice him to Wed laena " yeah like coryls would choose rhae*nyra illegitimate brats over his true blooded grandkids 😭💀

honestly yeah. if he had true blood on the throne through Laena, he would refuse to allow Rhaenyra to be the heir with her bastards, when his true grandchildren could proceed his daughter and his daughters children, so on and so forth. he only supports her in the show because it's the only way to get his name anywhere near the throne even if the boys are illegitimate.

the war would probably end a lot quicker and a lot messier for Rhaenyra and her children had Viserys married Laena, she would have stood no chance. I don't even think she could have any part of the realm on her side, no matter their oaths to her, because Viserys and Laena's children would have a much stronger claim.

#also their would be no chance for Rhaenyra to put her bastards on the driftmark throne #cause she totally tried to steal that from baela and rhaena #at least viserys marrying alicent gave her a chance at winning. marrying laena would lead to her getting crushed in mere moments #rhaenyra targaryen #laena velaryon #viserys targaryen #hotd #house of the dragon #I need a tag that stands between anti and pro Rhaenyra/team black #cause I don't *hate* them. they can be interesting as characters and play interesting part to the story. but I don't love them #lukewarm feelings about Rhaenyra/team black #I'll settle for #anti team black #anti rhaenyra targaryen #just to keep *those* fans away from me #I love when *those* fans are so delusional their terrible takes and concepts only serve to further damn their girl #it makes me giggle just a tad

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inquisitor-apologist · 9 months

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Honestly I think the Kenobi show should’ve just. Been about Reva. She was the strongest part of the show, and I think that the narrative would’ve been a lot better if we got her full back story and perspective. Obi-Wan could’ve still been there, but Reva really should’ve been the main character

#me back on my blorbo bullshit #i love her so much and she would’ve worked so much better as the main character #we could’ve actually seen how she survived order 66 after the temple massacre and how that caused her to fall to the dark side #leading to her joining the inquisitorius #we could’ve seen her grappling with serving the empire that killed and is killing her people to get revenge #we could’ve dived into her parallels with Anakin #would you burn the galaxy for the ones you loved? would you destroy everything you set out to do for revenge? would you kill your people to #get justice for them?#we could have seen her fall slowly towards becoming Anakin #pretending and rationalizing her way through the empire until she’s indistinguishable from them #hunting the Jedi as an inquisitor and saying it’s because they failed her #at what point do you hide yourself deep enough in the empire that you become it #all leading to Obi wan #her plan to lure him out using innocents paralleled with Vader #and then that final choice with Luke would’ve been so much more impactful #god I love Reva #star wars #kenobi series #kenobi show #star wars kenobi #reva star wars #reva sevander #inquisitor reva

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01432853 · 10 months

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The Love by Hypnotic (2019) - EP 20

I don't want to hear his name. But I want to thank him. He let me know..that this world isn't worth it. Love is even more absurd.

#love by hypnotic #the love by hypnotic #cdramaedit #asiandramanet #cdramasource #dailyasiandramas #asiandramasource #cdrama #asiandramaedit #mer gifs #you know this drama i am only watching cause of a mdl challenge and it's so dumb but i love his devotion to her #when i'm not fast forwarding thru #although i can't stand her lmao #but the main lead cp serves with kisses all the time so i can't complain #¯\_ (ツ)_/¯

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kittenbased · 1 year

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You're just the same as Woojoo for-- I don't want to be the same. – call it love (2023)

#call it love #kdramas #kdrama edits #kdrama gifs #sung joon #kim ye won #yoon jun x hae sung #his face when he realized he was calling haesung instead of woojoo is fucking PRICELESS lmao #also bold of him to leave his bff there sobbing just to run like a puppy to her sister #LIKE???#all went without her noticing while still thinking she's second in his heart #downright textbook romance #can't believe i'm being served good fucking food shipping 2nd lead cp #*mine #*otp: how am i gonna handle her by myself

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forestofsprites · 13 days

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and if i start talking about larry trainor & castiel angel of the lord and meg masters (demon) & rita farr and dean winchester & cliff steele and dorothy & jack of doom patrol renown

#i think perhaps jimmy novak and larry trainor would be great locked in a room together #have u ever been possessed by a celestial being. have u ever felt chained to a comet. have u ever had ur autonomy stripped by some Guy #who decided to meddle in ur life w the promise of betterment. have u ever been weird abt the dudes possessing you (yes)#as for rita and meg i'm not calling them parallels i'm pointing at comic rita or early tv series rita and saying meg would find #her amazing hot and wistfully pedantic and fussy . i NEED them together. perhaps i need to write them together #now dean and cliff. HELLO ?!?!? okay so obvious parallels in the car and booze and ladies department whateva let me draw you to cliff's #morrison run admission that he is not a man but a robot or its equivalency in the show!!!!!!! his complete revolution in gender identity #and understandings of masculinity. a body that serves death that leads to brutal murders and yet is so tender in its love #HELLO???? DEAN AND CLIFF ON A MISSION TOGETHER. please #as for castiel and larry i mean come on. theyre grandpas. theyre gay. theyve got their emotional support coats. they zap.#they fear they ruined families. larry was experimented on castiel was lobotomized. theyre both very weird #spn and doom thoughts

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wyllsravengard · 1 month

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john in rdr1 is so special to me i feel crazuyzuzyszy

#z.gen #rdr1 john is just . so .#like hes like the best of himself embodied and hes so unbelievably duty bound to abi #he loves her so much. and he goes against everything for her and jack. the progression of stupid deadbeat #to worlds most loving and dedicated husband makes me sick #and it makes me feel so unwell that john in rdr1 isnt like arthur.#arthur is a good man. to me it makes sense that he is canonically intended to be moral and upright #mary linton even says so #but i dont think thats true for john. i dont think john is 'moral' as much as he is dutiful #nothing is his concern other than his wife and son and i loveeee that about him so much #i know a lot of people find this to be a fault and surely if you like more heroic characters arthur is much closer to it #but john is so. he is so.#theres something about the way he does anything to protect them that makes me weak #its not self serving like dutch nor is it moral like arthur #everything is for them. everything. every single thing.#he embodies in such a way that it makes me unwell. hes so morally gray but for them? he'd do anything and he does #i just . love how john is bound by duty and not morality #hes not particularly remorseful or good or upright #but he is painfully dutifully. to me because i think thats what he took from the sort of life arthur lead #even though i think arthurs goodness was truer. i think john realized that he isnt arthur #but he became the sort of man he could be and became someone who always paid his debts #and did whatever it took protect what he believes is family. whats important to him #when i think about how deeply his love is tied with loyalty and duty i just get sooo insane. like you dont even get it #and rdr1 john is soooo protective and kind to women and sooo hateful to men which helps #i think rdr2 john is so hateable but rdr1 john is like the most perfect man to ever exist and appeals to me #on a personal level more than arthur. like i just cant stop thinking about him #hes so like. attractive hngfmgkjdf #i can hardly play the game its sooo distracting to listen to him

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hamdun888 · 10 months

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Love is the Force Multiplier

There are currently many tools, tactics, frameworks, approaches, strategies, and more in play throughout healthcare designed to improve outcomes and achieve the entirety or various aspects of the quintuple aim: + Patient Experience+ Clinical Outcomes+ Lower Costs+ Clinician Well-being+ Health Equity And yet… – Nationally there has been no improvement in patient experience since 2016 (with a…

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#DHLG #healthCARING #Lead Serve Love #lead with love #love centered care #love is the force multiplier

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kitkat-the-muffin · 9 months

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I really hated hsmtmts season 2 (for a variety of reasons, ramble in the tags) so I never saw seasons 3 or 4

Is it worth revisiting or is it too big a mess?

#if you’re curious tho the reasons I hated the season was cause of unnecessary love drama and poor pacing and writing decisions #like love drama is fine but a lot of it was unimportant and unimpactful and most couples set up eventually broke up #and while that’s realistic it also serves no narrative purpose if the characters don’t grow from it #I hope to hear from fans that maybe they DO grow from it in seasons 3 and 4 but I wouldn’t know because I stopped after 2 #and the reason I stopped after 2 is because there was absolutely no follow up on so many plot points #i wanted to see the rival school’s performance! But they opt to ‘tell’ instead of ‘show’ what happened and the stakes immediately drop #I guess I was just disappointed that everything in the season seemed to not matter in the end #idk how to express that properly without coming off as a hater. I loved season 1 apart from the ending where the leads get back together #but that’s cause I prefer to see characters grow from their mistakes rather than backtrack #i knew they’d break up again in season 2 but I think it just wasn’t handled well because it undermines the s1 finale #if they had the strength to remain apart they wouldn’t have gone through the heartbreak twice #and the writers didn’t acknowledge that when they could’ve #hsmtmts #high school musical the musical the series

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leatherbookmark · 4 months

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welp. rip of/md but i can't say i didn't expect this to happen

#shrimp thoughts #hmmm how to put it #s1 ended on a kindasorta cliffhanger slash open ending and unless the crew already knew from the start they would most likely get renewed #doing it was p much a leap of faith. and s2 ended like it did probably because they weren't sure they get renewed again #it's lukewarm enough to serve as an ehhh if you say so capital e Ending but at the same time works if you want to pick it up for a #potential s3. but precisely because this ending is so meh a s3 is not like... super necessary because you can go oh well the leads #got their happy ending and the other guys are on a boat! this is very community and representation!#and i mean again even if they did get a s3 i wouldn't really be interested in watching it because s2 has shown me it's not really the #same thing i fell in love with. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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cathymee · 9 months

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promised myself that i'm gonna fix up my notes from last sy so i can share it with upcoming humss students but i also keep going 'but what's the point'

#there were already so many from years ago who have posted and shared theirs #except theirs weren't as detailed; just the general summary for each topic #and mine are more detailed and i'm also contemplating translating them to tagalog #like this could serve as y'know. notes they could refer to to prepare themselves for the upcoming topics they'd tackle #but also...would i be robbing them of the experience to learn things on the pace their own teachers are setting?#in my own experience i only sought notes in the first few weeks of classes to ease myself into each subs and to learn what i'd be-#getting myself into #but i had fun just anticipating the upcoming topics without knowing anything about them #idk...is this just the result of me constantly mourning the state of the educational system in terms of the garbage curriculum and the-#general unpreparedness of most youths in choosing their tracks especially after the setback that the pandemic has brought on that are still #not given attention to by this garbage administration #combine that with the study of humanities & social science being looked down/underestimated by most filipinos #no wonder they're picking the stupidest and useless politicians & public servants. no wonder they're not paying much attention to the-#credentials of people they're electing to lead the country. ngayon letche-letche HGGSGAHSHAJS #anyway so many of the humss students i know chose careers that aren't consistent with their track and it's sad to see. sayang 2 years my-#loves :')#sigh......gonna do it now anyway #brain be very scattered rn. hate that <3 #catdrain #rambles #non fandom

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winepresswrath · 1 year

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I got extremely sick and watched all of love between fairy and devil in a miserable haze and I've gotta say 1) bodyswapping at its finest 2) with slight tweaks the idiot ball did not need to be passed around so much/at all 3) the fuckup little brother industrial complex still has me in its grasp but this time I've gotta give it up for the shifufucker. they really nailed the miserable oblivion of quasi-incestuous all consuming devotion & that's not even my thing. Good job team!