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DESEXUALIZE BOOBS

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u guys know sexuality gender and the way u feel attraction can change right. u know you can put labels on and off right. nothing is solid swim a little if you like etc

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why do people care so much about what you do to or with your body like. I have to live here you don't? It literally doesn't even affect you chill lol

#my body my choice #trans #body postivity #personal autonomy forever #body autonomy #bodily autonomy #fat positive #this includes ppl w biid too #literally whatever you wanna do with your body. If it makes it easier to live in go for it

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You're an Empire Darkest of Empires

(inspo song)

#disco elysium #fandom #comic

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lmao god, english upper class people... I was reading Mathilda, and there's all these monologues about the protagonist going insane from loneliness and not knowing how to act when she finally strikes up a friendship again; she has retired to a cottage in the woods and is essentially in hiding. All this time we're given the impression that she is utterly alone in that cottage. Much woe about the completeness of her loneliness. and then.

what do you mean your servant ...? in your cottage in the woods where you were so utterly alone? that one?

#frankenstein #fandom #loneliness

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#disco elysium #fandom #funny

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do you have a similar website/link for t? i cant find any D:

unfortunately because T is a controlled substance in a lot of places, there's less sources for it and what I said abt feminizing hrt being low legal risk to buy doesn't apply to T. talking about it is also censored a lot more online. I had a couple links for T but they both don't work anymore. might look around and will reblog with more info if I find any, or if anyone seeing this has good sources/advice here feel free to add it.

#transgender #transmaculine #diy hrt #trans issues #trans #trans resources #resources #I cannot vouch for the truth or safety of this but.

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Revqueer, the Revolutionary Queer

"Revqueer" is the shortened form of the terms "revolution" and "queer." The code is simple;

Radical acceptance of all queer identities. We are all queer. We are a community. A family. Division between us will be used against us. We are stronger together and always have been.

Zero tolerance for abuse in any form. No matter the relationship, be it familial, romantic, platonic, or otherwise undefined. There is no room to harbour abusers or abuse apologists.

Otherwise the revolutionary queer is defined by their own merits. Their opinions are their own and their actions are their own.

Revqueer was coined by @cisgenderqueerdyke in response to growing division within the queer community as a statement on unity and togetherness.

#being queer #queer community #queer identity

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friends to lovers is amazing obviously but I also want more stories about friends who were dating or having sex and find it isn’t working for them and they just go right back to being friends. maybe a little break from each other to adjust or get over the person, but ultimately the friendship prevails. obviously being demi, friends to lovers is my only choice for dating and I do love how I can relate to it but there’s a certain anxiety that comes from only ever being able to date your friends, that if you ever go for it romantically/sexually, you are risking the friendship if things don’t work out. There are loads of other ways to lose friends, but it’s pretty common to not stay friends with people you’ve had relationships with, and we have basically no media representation of healthy, purely-platonic relationships between exes. And I really want that.

#aro things #aro #aromantic positivity #aromantic #yeah I want more dynamics like this So Bad #romance is boring

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Skip Google for Research

As Google has worked to overtake the internet, its search algorithm has not just gotten worse.  It has been designed to prioritize advertisers and popular pages often times excluding pages and content that better matches your search terms 

As a writer in need of information for my stories, I find this unacceptable.  As a proponent of availability of information so the populace can actually educate itself, it is unforgivable.

Below is a concise list of useful research sites compiled by Edward Clark over on Facebook. I was familiar with some, but not all of these.

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Google is so powerful that it “hides” other search systems from us. We just don’t know the existence of most of them. Meanwhile, there are still a huge number of excellent searchers in the world who specialize in books, science, other smart information. Keep a list of sites you never heard of.

www.refseek.com - Academic Resource Search. More than a billion sources: encyclopedia, monographies, magazines.

www.worldcat.org - a search for the contents of 20 thousand worldwide libraries. Find out where lies the nearest rare book you need.

https://link.springer.com - access to more than 10 million scientific documents: books, articles, research protocols.

www.bioline.org.br is a library of scientific bioscience journals published in developing countries.

http://repec.org - volunteers from 102 countries have collected almost 4 million publications on economics and related science.

www.science.gov is an American state search engine on 2200+ scientific sites. More than 200 million articles are indexed.

www.pdfdrive.com is the largest website for free download of books in PDF format. Claiming over 225 million names.

www.base-search.net is one of the most powerful researches on academic studies texts. More than 100 million scientific documents, 70% of them are free

#internet resources #resources #research #research resources

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Good morning to aromantic kinksters, polyamorous aromantics, aromantic doms, aromantic subs, aromantics in long term sexual partnerships, aromantics who enjoy casual hookups, hypersexual aromantics, and all aromantics who have been stereotyped as manipulative or heartless for having sexual relationships

#aroallo #aromantic positivity #aromantic allosexual #aromantic

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I couldn’t sleep until I drew this

#hamlet #fandom #funny

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reading hamlet live updates: (method of reading: aloud, for the first time, with my 8 year old sister who cannot pronounce half the words or understand what's going on.)

you're laughing. they used the funeral pork as the wedding meal and you're laughing.

ophelia really said: thanks laertes <3 if you're mad about me having more of a sex life than you go cry to dad about it and stop bothering me <33

I love how ghosty hamlet daddy got a limited time to spend with the living and he spent half of it describing how the poison he got dumped in his ear turned his blood to chunks.

ooh idk why but it's giving me jane austen vibes with the "discredit my son's name but only a little bit"

wow king + queen just got their (adopted) child paid friends. how loving <3

POLONIUS;;; he's funny. but in a weird creepy old man way funny? I picture him looking like a less slovenly denethor (from LOTR), which is weird. "brevity is the soul of wit" is my favorite quote so far, however. and love how straight after that he goes into the whole "yo son crazy" speech.

hamlet's crazy really comes out with polonius, but not gonna lie this is where I start to like his character the most. ya boy's funny that's all I'm gonna say

"The world's grown honest." "Then doomsday's near." EPIC

I love all of Hamlet's interactions with people so far. the snark is on full blast and he keeps trying to have philosophical discussions that don't work out.

OH he's bisexual

"My lord, I have news to tell you--" "mY lOrD i HaVe NeWs To TeLl yOuuu"

ooh he sneaky sneaky. great plan u theater nerd (affectionate)

catch me shuffling off that mortal coil

GET THEE TO A NUNNERY;;;;; 😱😱😱😱 don't know quite what to feel about this scene yet but I feel like hamlet knew that the king and polonius were there so that makes it 10x funnier

not hamlet telling the actors how to do their job

"Here, sweet lord, at your service." I SEE YOU HORATIO

Wormwood, wormwood.

how DRAMATIC <3 hamlet really said "I'LL TURN INTO A PIPE IF YOU WANNA PLAY ME THAT BAD"

hamlet: darn he just prayed he won't be going to h-e-double hockey sticks if I kill 'im now the king at that very moment: hOW do I PRAY uhhhh MURDER MOST FOUL no that's not right ummm aaaa

wait a second hamlet WHO are you keeping in your heart's core? your heart of hearts, so to speak?

AND THEY WERE SCHOOL FELLOWS

HOW NOW? A RAT??

hamlet has no idea how to use a sword does he.

hamlet: *thrusts rapier wildly through big ol tapestry* polonius, aforementioned rat: oop he got me *falls and dies* hamlet: huh. what

does he just. carry around two pictures of his dead dad and his uncle in the random chance that he's in a broom closet with his mother so he can be like; DO YOU HAVE EYES. YOU MARRIED AN UGLY MAN DO YOU HAVE EYES

act 4.2 is the best thing that shakespeare has ever written fight me

PIRATES

where did the pirates go

I wish that Ophelia's death had happened on stage, but also the way that Gertrude described her death is just w o w. it reads almost like poetry, what with all the flower mentions and the imagery, and it's so so beautiful and really sad.

horatio and hamlet are just having a date in the graveyard huh? how romantic

WHY does this 'clown' keep throwing bones. how does he know whose bones they are. do they have lil stickers on them

part 1/?

#hamlet #fandom

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Ace Attorney 4, 5, and 6 + troubled birds

#ace attorney #fandom #troubled birds #quotes #funny

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it actually sucks that conversations around corrective rape here are just radfems and terfs using it to support aphobia or transphobia, it seriously feels like my trauma is just used as argumentative point

#corrective rape #anti terf #anti radfem #vent in tags #vent #trauma posting #funnily enough I was raped in a bathroom by a cis guy #transphobes are stupid #like c'mon nobody is gonna pretend to be a woman to get into the woman's restroom #they'll just go in when nobody's watching it's easier #meanwhile I'm afab and I've been yelled at for using the women's room multiple times #so congrats terfs you made it worse!

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one of the things about having an unstable parent is that it can so easily ruin your future. you want to get out, but getting out takes having agency. it takes the resume and the grades and the stellar community service history.

but you have to choose your battles. you know if you sign up for an after-school activity, it'll be okay for a while, so long as the activity is parent-approved and god-fearing. over time, like all things, it will become an argument (i can't keep carting your ass to these things) or a weapon (talk to me like that again, see if you get to go to practice). sometimes, if you love the thing, it's worth it. but you also know better than to love something: that's how they get you. if you ever actually want something, it will always be the center of their attention. they will never stop threatening you with it. telling you of course i'm a good parent, i came to all of those stupid events.

you learn to balance yourself perfectly. you can either have a social life or you can have hobbies. both of these things will be under constant scrutiny. you spend too much time with her, you should be at home with family is equally paired with you're acting like this because you're addicted to what's on that goddamn screen. you cannot ever actually win, so everything falls within a barter system that you calculate before entering: do you want to learn how to drive? if so, you'll need to give up asking for a new laptop, even though yours died. maybe you can work on a computer at the library. of course, that would mean you'd be allowed to go to the library, which would mean something else has to bleed. nothing ever actually comes free.

and that bitter, horrible irony: you could be literally following their orders and it still isn't pretty. they tell you to get a job; they hate that your job keeps you late and gives you access to actual money. they tell you to do better in school; they say no child of mine needs a tutor. they want you to stop being so morose, don't you know there are people who are really suffering - but they revile the idea you might actually need therapy.

you didn't survive that fall the way other people would. you've seen other people scramble and get their way out, however they could. maybe you were made too-soft: the answer didn't come to you easily. it wasn't quick. it was brutal and nasty. some people even asked you why didn't you just work hard and escape during school? and you felt your head spinning. why didn't you? (they control your financial aid. they control your loan status. they love having that kind of thing). maybe in another life you got diagnosed sooner and got the meds you needed to actually focus and got attention from the right teachers who helped you clear hurdles to get up out of here - but for now? here?

the effort of trying. the effort of not-dying. that kind of effort was absolutely agonizing.

#me #trauma #family trauma #emotional abuse #controlling behavior #parental abuse #father mention #mother mention

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What makes us human is the Nintendo 3DS

#internet resources #resources #for later #explore later #3ds hacking