viraldragonrider

[viraldragonrider]

I had a professor in college who used to start solving every problem with the same dialogue.

Proff: What’s the first step to solving any problem? Class: Don’t panic. Proff: And why is that? Class: Because we know more than we think we do.

I think about that a lot tbh. It didn’t occur to me until much later that he meant for us to apply that dialogue outside of the classroom to any problem. Because we always know more than we think we do. We are all an amalgam of random information that ends up being relevant with surprising frequency.

[viraldragonrider]

So I upgraded my car, I did have a 17 plated 4x4 that was quite expensive to run and I didn't really need a car that big so as I had some money put aside I bought a new 24 plated hybrid. It's so much cheaper to fill with fuel, etc. apart from the fact that in the last 2 weeks I have had to spend out nearly £500 on new tyres because of the potholes on my route to work 😭😭

#car #money #so much #hate this #not exactly an upgrade

[viraldragonrider]

There are some days at work where it's just draining to do anything.

I've been trying to find the common factor and it seems to be when my supervisor is in and gives us common sense orders. Like things we would be doing anyway but for some reason she feels the need to tell us to do them.

#work #workplace woes #my work #vdr #viraldragonrider #mental health #draining

[viraldragonrider]

God I wish this was something I could do

who needs proper head support when you've got a dragon

#how to train your dragon #httyd #toothless #hiccup horrendous haddock iii #reblog #amazing art #dragons #i wish #my dream

[viraldragonrider]

[viraldragonrider]

4 more days until I'm off work for 2 weeks and I am buzzing!! Just making a to-do list so I definitely get everything done because I will inevitably leave it all to the last minute and therefore forget something.

In face I'm 99% certain I will forget something anyway even with the list

#vdr #viraldragonrider #I'm forgetting something #to do list #to do #holiday #countdown #I'll forget #ADHD #anxiety #forgetful #need a list and I'll still fuck up

[viraldragonrider]

[viraldragonrider]

Things friends can't do according to allos!

(these are all things I have been told with 100% sincerity, and not stuff that I myself believe.)

Give each other meaningful gifts

Pay attention to the others likes and dislikes

Look at one another in a 'certain way' (???)

Match clothes or accessories

Hold hands for 'too long' (???)

Hug for 'too long' or hug 'too close' (???)

Cuddle because it's 'too intimate'

Not want to pull away during a hug or holding hands

Lean onto the other emotionally and physically

Smile in one another's presence

Laugh at each others jokes

Give genuine advice

Text each other 'good morning' 'good evening' 'good night' 'happy birthday' 'happy new years' 'merry Christmas' etc, etc

Ask how the others doing

I'll add more once I think of things I've forgotten

[viraldragonrider]

#background noise is so comforting #and nicer then what my head can dream up #inside my heads an annoying place #vdr #viraldragonrider #anxi4ty #anxiety

[viraldragonrider]

Spicy nice 😂😂😂

#vdr #viraldragonrider #dog #dogs #spicy #nice #spicy nice #brighten your day #pick me up

[viraldragonrider]

Need this right now, thanks Tumblr 🙏🏼

We all go through cycles of struggle and growth! Even if you are having a hard time, your season to bloom will soon be back.🌸🌱

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#vdr #viraldragonrider #needed this #this #self help #anxi4ty

[viraldragonrider]

It's the assumption that I don't want any kind of romance that really gets me.

I would LOVE nothing more than all the cutesy cuddly bits of a relationship but couldn't care less about the sex.

I read a lot of smut so I'm not totally opposed to it but at the same time I know I could go through life quite happily if I never lost my virginity.

For this reason I think I am Demisexual, I think I would be more open to a sexual relationship with someone I had an emotional connection with. But I suppose there's no way of testing that theory until I actually have that emotional connection with someone 😅

#international asexuality day #asexual #vdr #viraldragonrider #asexuality #demisexual

[viraldragonrider]

Nothing is harder to get the last dreggs of it out then marmite.

#marmite #so hard #prove me wrong #prove me otherwise #that last little bit #is such a bitch

[viraldragonrider]

Good description! Say it louder for the idiots in the back!

#asexual #asexuality #aspec #international asexuality day #lgbtqia #queer #pride #queer community

[viraldragonrider]

Something I’m learning is that you’ll never change the minds of people who are committed to misunderstanding you. And it isn’t worth my energy.

#this #absolutely this #you're not worth the effort #not worth it #dont waste your time #just be yourself

[viraldragonrider]

Happy International Asexuality Day to my fellow aces!!

#asexual #asexuality #international asexuality day #aspec #acespec #ace positivity #ace pride

[viraldragonrider]

Reblog so I can find later

How to hack your happy hormones??

DOPAMINE (The Reward Chemical)

• Eating Food

• Achieving a Goal

• Complete a Task

• Self-Care Activities

OXYTOCIN (The Love Hormone)

• Socializing

• Physical Touch

• Petting Animals

• Helping Others

ENDORPHINS (The Painkiller)

• Exercising

• Listen to Music

• Watch a Movie

• Laughter

SEROTONIN (The Mood Stabilizers)

• Sun Exposure

• Be with Nature

• Mindfulness

• Meditation

#happy #happiness #happy hormones #quotes #life #mood #current mood #self help #selfhelp #mental health #mental illness #self care #self love #anxiety #reblog for later #reblog