#what even is gender

[sparklemaia]

me, after finishing a big project: u get to draw urself as a hobbit, as a treat

#gender #nonbinary #genderqueer #hobbit #lgbtq #queer #journal comic #autobio comic #hobbitcore #cottagecore #gender euphoria #what even is gender #disasters and other genders #i applied to comics school y'all

[the-cosmic-creature]

whats it called when i resonate with the idea of being a “woman” because i was raised a girl and i still am attached to my womanhood in a weird way, but i dont like the binary idea of girl/boy and i do not like she/her used for me? am i just a demigirl? nonbinary but in a complicated way? agender? idfk

#what even is gender #nonbinary #not a girl but not a boy either #a secret third thing #they them #demigirl #demigender #genderqueer #agender #trans

[jewishcissiekj]

looked in the mirror and went "hey girl I mean he". that is some food for thought.

#not even anything to do with gender but maybe... #what even is gender #this isn't a gender crisis not even a pronouns crisis #it's a pronouns question #i'm looking for the answer

[eldrytchcryptid]

He/him but only in the way old Victorian scientists would refer to a creature as "he is in the form of a man," though they have no other explanations as he is incomprehensible, and when questioned on it the creature has no concern about it, and would rather they stop prodding him with their strange scientific instruments and let him go back to the wilderness or he will start biting hands off.

#gender #he/him #trans #transgender #trans man #enby? #idk at this point #what even is gender

[witchkittymeow]

Ms Finch?

#heh #uhh uhh uhhh uh uh uhh uhh uhh #drawtectives #oops #hey hey listen hey look #im going to fandom jail #favourite #ik some of yall will not be normal about this #like me :) #what even is gender #just looks like he grew his hair out idc #eugene finch #what would even be the genderbent name #eugenia #nope #euthanize me

[sapphicsigh]

Been feeling really dyshoric recently, and it's so incredibly frustrating. Like I want to start wearing a binder but

1. If a sports bra is too tight, I feel Iike I'm constricted, and then that makes me feel like I'm having an asthma attack

2. I don't have $40-$65 to spend on a binder

I just need to head to the thirft store to see if I can get some clothes that better suit me, but clothes shopping is so emotionally draining. I just don't have the spoons.

AND ANOTHER THING! what is considered "masculine" and what is considered "feminine" is so fucking arbitrary like...fuck you society for creating the concept of gender. I HATE YOU.

Commiserate with me plz

Or

Practical advice/tips would be welcomed

#lesbian #what even is gender #gender presentation #why yes i do have sensory issues how did u guess? #lesbian fashion #spiraling #depression spiral #today on tumblr #lgbtq #queer #cis people #cis people have no fucking clue how hard it is #cis is a slur #lol

[thingsiwannareblog]

Gender is like religion to me:

I used to have one, and I was pretty into it in my youth, but over the years it and I grew apart and while I do miss that sense of belonging, none of the available options ring true for me.

#gender #religion #identity #what even is gender #gender confusion #gender questioning #lapsed catholic #lapsed woman

[insouciantsapphic]

The overwhelming urge to be a man 🫠

#what even is gender #genderfluid #genderqueer #transmasc #but also no I’m fine as a girl #but to be a man!!!!

[donuts4evry1]

thanks... college

#What even is gender #reblog #mun rambles

[lesbianforregulusblack]

Level 1 was realizing that I like women

Level 2 was realizing that I don't like men

Level 3 was realizing that while I still like women, I only like them romantically

Boss Level is figuring out my gender

#tell me someone relates to this #gender crisis is a bitch #i don't like this game #but i also do #lgbtq #asexual #lesbian #what even is gender

[wtfamidoing-andrade]

Ok if tiktok, tumblr, pinterest and overall all my social medias could PLEASE STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE ME IM AUTISTIC?!!! I ALREADY HAVE ADHD AND GAY ITS ALREADY HARD ASF STOP

#how do tags even work #adhd #thanks for coming to my ted talk #please stop #im not autistic i swear #my doctors told me so #please i already live hardcore mode here in brazil dont do that #but like.. am i actually? #or i’ll cry #ill cry #already crying #queer and punk #what even is gender #what even is neurodivergency #im done tryna understand the way my head works

[the-cosmic-creature]

gender is so complicated why do i relate to so many identities under the trans umbrella? genderfluid, nonbinary, genderqueer, agender… im just genderfuck at this point

#what even is gender #genderfluid #nonbinary #genderqueer #agender #trans #genderfuck

[lexstellaris]

fuck it i'm in a he/they/she mood idek anymore

#pronouns #gender stuff #idk #*throws hands up* #what even is gender #fucked if i know

[thoughtlessthinkythoughts]

Weird gender reflection time.

Okay, you know how allergies can be weird? Like, for some people, if they are allergic to something, they've always been allergic. Some people always knew they were allergic; for others it took a while to figure out what was causing the reaction.

But for other people, allergies develop over time. You might be fine eating something as a kid, but it makes you feel sick as an adult.

All of this is to say, I've kind of developed an allergy or food intolerance to being gendered. Used to eat it just fine, but now if you try to feed me too much gender it just kind of makes me feel fatigued and sick. And unfortunately, it's on every single social interaction "ingredients list" and there is never a warning label.

#nonbinary #agender #what even is gender #I don't know #but I think I'm allergic #what is tumblr for if not forcing my weird middle of the night metaphors on other people

[noise-misato-3-twink-eater]

Not me after literally crying in happiness over someone using my chosen name in a work email: maybe im faking being trans idk i could just be confused

#what even is gender #fuck dude #DNI #just Dysphoria talking

[chaoticneuralnet]

It's like they diagnosed me with woman but they never even did any tests

#queer #gender? i hardly know her #what even is gender #404 gender not found #It's like woman-lite but not a woman #It's giving Janet from The Good Place #not a girl #not a guy #only girl when I sleep and when I dream #But then I wake up and suddenly not a girl #mom says it's my turn on the gender so whichever one of you fuckers took it has to give it back now #genderqueer #question mark?