#tw grooming ment

[thecatspasta]

Asks I get abt jonelias on my confessions blog are so weird istg

'Jmart toxicity is the same level as jonelias toxicity' 'If you hate jonelias you think gay ppl are inherently sexual'

Guys. Guys Jonah manipulated and groomed Jon. Guys thats why ppl hate it. POOR COMMUNICATION AND A BAD SITUATION ISNT THE SAME AS GROOMING SOMEONE JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY

#i think jonelias can be rly interesting but what the hell ppl are so weird abt it #anyways #tw grooming ment #tw manipulation ment #jonelias #tma #the magnus archives #garlic breath #jon sims #jonah magnus

[trolls-confessions]

context for the lownote teacher asks btw if ur curious

nooooot gonna post the explanation the lownote stuff anon sent cause i think its goes way too into detail abt the events than whats necessary but like basic rundown for anyone curious is theres a user on ao3 whos been flooding the tags with fics abt lownote jones being an ex teacher and a groomer, ive got them muted and i dont wanna read em for obvious reasons so idk what happens beyond that nor do I wanna

#Tw grooming ment #Lownote jones #Context for the other stuff

[wcamino-confessions]

I am this close to snapping it’s been 10 days and counting and my groomer is STILL ON THE PLATFORM the LT member who CONTACTED M E FIRST SAID THEY WERE “wrapping it up” THAT WAS FIVE DAYS AGO HES STILL HERE ON THE AMINO THEY MADE THE AMINO PRIVATE AS SOON AS THE BOTS FLOODED A PUBLIC CHAT BUT THEY WANNA TAKE THEIR SWEET TIKE WITH THIS OR ARE THEY TOKNA IGNORE IT

#grooming mention

#tw grooming ment #thank you for including the trigger tag in your ask #<- mod dawn

[mugzymiik]

Dear @/constanthungr:

[TWS IN THE TAGS]

I don't care if you see this or not. In fact, I kind of hope you don't.

Do you have ANY idea how hard it was for me to "throw away" our friendship of 6 years because I realized you were a groomer, and an abuser? Do you know how utterly numb I felt after I completely cut contact with you?

Towards the end of our friendship? I'm gonna be fully honest here: I was scared. I was absolutely TERRIFIED of you. Every time I saw your icon in my pings, I had to resist the urge to fucking vomit.

You were unpredictable.

I had a chat with a friend of yours (whose name I will not disclose, for privacy reasons) a while back– they told me about how badly you treated them.

I felt like a fucking couple's counselor for you and all of your partner(s) of the time.

I LOVED you. I would have KILLED for you.

MANY times had I BEGGED my mom to let me stay up late, because I knew your depressing thoughts got BAD at night.

On Christmas, the very day I cut ties with you, I spent my OWN money– the money that I received for MYself THAT SAME FUCKING DAY, that I could have used on MYself– to buy you that game on Steam. I didn't receive ANYTHING in return– and I didn't EXPECT anything in return.

And yet, you have the AUDACITY to call me "a fake friend".

Let me do you one better.

That very Christmas, my blood pressure SPIKED. My hands were TREMBLING as I brought my cursor up to that goddamn "Block" button. The very second I clicked, my mind was a MESS as I scrambled to leave EVERY. SINGLE. MUTUAL. SERVER.

I didn't know if you'd come after me– I was SCARED.

I could go ON and ON and FUCKING ON with this. But I won't, because I have to go to school soon. Just hear this:

What was once my "older brother I never had"?

A man who is now completely and utterly dead to me.

I hope you rot.

-Mugs

(PS: It sounds EXTREMELY icky for an adult to say "I'd say "minors DNI" but my best bud [hey, that was me! Wow!] is 16". Just for future reference. :])

#tw grooming ment #tw abuse ment #tw emetophobia ment #heavy vent

[skautism]

man remember that episode of ppg where buttercup got groomed by a teenager. and then there was a later episode where said teenager and his friends got put in their first grade class. what the fuck?

#rzr speaks #tw grooming ment

[comfycozycrossfox]

literally why do i care about what i post here only like 2 irls follow me here and 1 is chronically not on tumblr and the other just vibes . what is wrong with me. anyway.

i have been so fucking caught in ptsd nonsense bullshit for like a week straight and i’m so tired of it and it’s the most frustrating because i just don’t even fucking know what to do about it. Yknow? I just like have to operate and MOVE and START COLLEGE in the middle of re-remembering shit that i repressed for a REASONNNN . and ✨learning new shit about my groomers but that’s a different story✨ and it’s just like. it feels like a deep dread in the pit of my chest all of the time and i don’t know where to put it. i’ve just been smoking as much as possible so i can sleep halfway decently. i don’t know. i feel like i need to scream but i can’t. i want to talk about it but i don’t want to freak people out. i need to cry but i haven’t been able to in weeks.

it’s fine i’m literally fine 🙄✌️ thriving living my best life

#vent #tw vent #grooming ment #ptsd #tw grooming ment #might just start venting on tumblr . lolz

[starrygender]

hearing people talk about grooming doesnt necessarily trigger me (full-on super effective instant breakdown triggers dont really exist for me), but it does make my heart race, so now i have to hope i didnt just... completely forget/ block out that i may have been groomed (or worse), and that might be what causes a bunch of my mental perish.

#grooming ment tw #grooming ment #tw grooming ment #grooming mention tw #grooming mention #tw grooming mention #vent tw #vent #tw vent #not genda #shiver talks #shiver personal

[tottallytoby]

they drink together often

#uh #i think their dynamic is very ‘the bride n her ugly groom’ coded if ya get me #raridash #mlp #my art #my little pony #rarity #rainbow dash #drug…mention #tw drugs #drug ment tw

[idiot-mushroom]

was going through it last week

#was gunna make a sideblog but realized I wasn’t a pussy #vent art #vent tw #vent cw #vent comic #my art shit #my comic #vomit tw #vomit cw #throwing up tw #throwing up mention #throwing up cw #grooming ment tw #grooming mention #grooming cw #grooming tw #violence tw #violence cw #gore trigger warning #cw gore #child abuse #child abuse tw #emotional abuse #emotional neglect #abuse tw #abuse cw

[heartofaspen]

god every time i think about the dsmp it’s like. there’s no worse way it could’ve ended. because not only did the ending fuck over the smaller creators and set up a narrative justifying an abuser’s actions, the guy who controls the entire server got exposed as a literal groomer. like what the fuck. i hate dream and i hate that the dsmp couldn’t end as the beautiful thing we all loved.

#talkin #dsmp #critical #tw dream. #tw grooming ment. #yeah i hate dream. dream likers fuck off like genuinely

[antiradqueer]

Prats made a borderline ripoff of kandiqueer (awooqueer) and,, it is vile and horrible, I cant even type it all out because it's disgusting, it supports "minors in kink" and fucking abolishing the age of consent

[pt: vile, abolishing the age of consent /end pt]

it is just a ripoff really, not even borderline, i only saw it today doing the carrd stuff

heres what i wrote for the carrd, its kinda a TL;DR on the label

Awooqueer, code : 🌈🐺🍼

"Biting those who say that they are getting groomed by radqueers"

RQ "Youth lib" centered, ProPara, Pro TransIDs, Pro Transramcoa or Transnazi.

Pro Incest, Pro MIK, Pro the abolition of the age of consent and age of majority, Pro MSM/MMP/CP, Pro "sexual education to being of any age.", Supports relationships between adults and minors, Pro conatct necro and zoo, Proship/Darkship, Pro cannibalism, "Intrage over chronoage", Pro "assisted suicide" and s/h, Anti Recovery, "Anti puritan"

and its very similar counterpart

Werequeer, code : 🌕🐺 / 🌌🐺

RQ "Youth lib", ProPara, Pro TransIDs, Pro Incest, Pro MIK, Pro the abolition of the age of consent and age of majority, Pro MSM/MMP/CP, Pro "sexual education to being of any age.", Pro Incest, Pro conatct necro and zoo, Proship, Pro cannibalism, "Intrage over chronoage", Pro "assisted suicide" and s/h, Anti Recovery, "Anti puritan"

#mod mew #anti radqueer #anti kandiqueer #anti awooqueer #tw s/h mention #tw sui mention #tw suicide mention #tw grooming mention #tw ramcoa mention #tw nazi ment #tw nazi mention #ask to tag #tw sa mention #tw child abuse

[butchdykekondraki]

oh noes! da scawy anti i making fun of meee!!!!! kill yourself baby girl. i'm so fucking glad you got groomed, hope that girly had a good time with you. <3

#tw grooming ment #tw grooming mention #tw rape #tw csa #tw csa mention #[axel] #in case you guys were uh. wondering why we dont really. like. proshippers. #< besides the fact we were groomed by them seventeen times #< ...and then got raped by one of them #uhm yeah ^_^ #slay. i guess. /neg

[batmanshole]

its all "no one has ever been actually harmed because of proship fanfiction" until i point out that i was groomed into thinking these relationships were normal at age 12 BY THAT KIND OF FANFIC. and then subsequently got groomed again several times over. and then its all "well that's just you it's not indicative of a larger problem" are you shitting my dick.

#grooming ment #ask to tag #proship tw #SORRY IM MADDD

[journal-3]

i just saw a post that was like ‘bill cipher is a groomer’ and it made me laugh so hard i fucking gagged. THEY WERE COMPLETELY SERIOUS TOO

#gravity falls #bill cipher #grooming ment #grooming tw

[greenapplebling]

Cursed thought but it popped up in my head that Jamil reminds me of those teen girls that are groomed told that they're "so mature for their age" so they get full of themselves and then they grow up and realize that no. they weren't mature at all

#yami rambles #twst #twisted wonderland #jamil viper #scarabia #grooming ment tw #grooming mention #cursed post #disney twisted wonderland #disney twst

[nick-close]

I’ve seen multiple times disliking scary being compared to misogyny and I don’t know how to express the fact that disliking a character who intentionally betrays her friends multiple times, belittles other people’s problems, who’s biggest struggle has been her mom finding a loving husband, who acts like that’s the most traumatizing thing that’s happened to anybody in the party, is perfectly reasonable.

Scary is being groomed and I understand that manipulation, I think it’s awesome storytelling. A really good chance for character growth. But she also read the journal with everybody else. She’s seen how her friends react. She intentionally HID who she was calling from her friends because she KNEW they’d disagree fundamentally. And as a woman who is a big woman fan, I think it’s important to have women who suck in media! And Scary sucks lmao.

That doesn’t even mean I don’t like her being in the show- I think she brings a lot to it and when I separate her from how she’s been acting? I love her and the party together I think they’re amazing. But I. Think we need to remember if someone doesn’t like our fav and talks about it, it doesn’t need to be horrible. We can just disagree. You can support women’s wrongs, I hope u do! Some people don’t <3

#this isn’t at anyone I’ve genuinely seen a few people do this and I didn’t wanna reblog someone’s post to shove my opinion into theirs #and look like I’m pickin a fight with anyone #I wanted the space to express this #promise I’m not trying to vague anyone and I mean #my opinion isn’t dnd all yk #I swear I actually like scary but just not in the podcast lmao #I love her dynamic with the group she’s chill #she’s just also making me scream sometimes #dndads #dungeons and daddies #dndads s2 #dndads spoilers #dndads negativity #scary negativity #dungeons and daddies negativity #dndads discourse #grooming ment #grooming mention #grooming ment tw #grooming cw #grooming tw