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corelle-vairel · 1 month
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I had this idea, so here it is
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foodiewithdahoodie · 5 months
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I remember taking a Human Sexuality Class, where a lot of the students thought it was going to be Sex Ed 2.0 because we saw the syllabus have topics like porn, cultural importance of procreation, and other things that had my peers giggling and expectant.
Only for our teacher to actually teach us consent and how it can go beyond the bedroom/dating, that there are different categories of rape and how the victim/survivor is never at fault, we studied serial predators and read up on how they viewed themselves as not committing actual traumatizing crimes to people/that they truly found themselves innocent after hurting others intentionally, we learned how mechanical and unsexy it is to film porn, that some porn stars are athletes with all the stamina they have, studied porn addictions and how they can rewire the brain with the visuals, we focused on how every sexuality queer or not had to fight for their sexual rights to be humanized (are still fighting to this day), we learned how promiscuity wasn't that big of a deal in ancient times with women and how it didn't "devalue" the woman, we learned about boundaries and how to uphold them, and learned how to make sex less of a taboo so more people can feel comfortable being tested for STDs/STIs on our campus and feel comfortable in their desires and body, we learned that reading erotica is very different from watching it and that they showed porn movies in the movie theaters completed with a strip show or sex show in between film showings.
It was all so informative deconstructing every stigma and myth about sex and by the end of it, most people came out with a new perspective on how they treated sex and shame and factual evidence. It was really teaching us personhood, about honoring your bodily autonomy, and that you can always change your mind even after you said "yes" and your partner should respect your decision. It saddened me that this class was only an elective and not mandatory. A lot of repressed people I took it with felt more confident in their own skin that semester.
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xx-slug-xx · 8 months
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//tw- mentions of pedophilia, csem, csa, and lolicon
Guys, please please please don’t use the term CSEM to refer to fictional pornographic drawings that involve fictional characters who are depicted as minors
I can’t believe I have to say this, but I’ve seen too many people, just in the past 24 hours, use the term to describe porn that someone drew
Holy shit, lolicon and the like is not CSEM, CSAM, or CP just because a hypothetical and fictional minor is involved in the art. Those terms are specifically used when talking about real sexual abuse cases involving real-world minors.
Fiction cannot be CSEM because it doesn’t involve the direct sexual exploitation and abuse of a real minor! The creation of these pieces of media do not involve the direct harm of a real minor!
Just say “lolicon” or “fictional porn involving fictional minors”. Just use something, ANYTHING, that isn’t used to specifically identify real life abuse materials! Please just don’t use a term that has this much seriousness attached to it as a means of labeling fictional content that you don’t like, even if it triggers you!
You being uncomfortable doesn’t justify the misuse of a term that is used to directly describe abuse, and it makes real victims of CSEM feel like shit when you label some random anime girl as a “victim” right next to them. Because, get this, when you label something fictional as CSEM, CSAM, or CP, you are inherently insinuating that there is a victim involved in the creation of this media, which is inherently untrue with fiction. STOP DOING THIS!!!
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theevilanonblog · 23 days
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Reminder to call your state reps and tell them to vote no to bills such as KOSA, EARN IT, and STOP CSAM. Far from protecting vulnerable people, these bills will erode and eventually destroy what little privacy we have on the net. EARN IT is especially dangerous.
Please go to badinternetbills.com and look for their call scripts. They will help you get in touch with your reps.
EDIT: I read through the text of the EARN IT act and, just like every bill that has good or useful aspects (I too would like CSAM to be scrubbed from the net), the encryption clauses are what give me pause. The really sad thing is a lot of these bills do have good parts! If the EARN IT act was not targeting encryption, I would not be talking about it. But it is.
So I want to encourage everyone to look at the actual texts of the bills. They are dense and hard to understand, but there are sites that can break down what the text means.
Often you will read through a bunch of stuff that seems reasonable or even good and the BAM something very out of pocket, but it's one vague line. That's a foot in the door. Another concern I have with the EARN IT act is that in my opinion it does not define CSAM to a sufficient degree. And as much as I don't really want to read what it means, it has to be defined clearly. It's vague in the bill. Visual? Text? Audio? It only says "obvious" and that is worrying. Would the novel Lolita, for instance, which is a misunderstood but ultimately important book about the dangerous and sick minds of those who commit CSA, be considered that? Where is the line drawn?
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catboymoments · 2 months
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cw for talk about sa/csa
Reading some of @nerves-nebula’s posts about writing sexual trauma made me wanna attempt at being more blatant regarding stuff my ocs went thru so here’s !! A thing with Kay el being a self proclaimed master of repression. No visuals of it, just talk
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thefemalejoker42069 · 8 months
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okay this is gonna be a bit of a long rant (with some SA and CSA mentions so pls don’t read if that will be too much for you rn) but I’ve been thinking a lot about the “male loneliness epidemic” lately and I have some Thoughts ™
we live in very isolating, depressing and scary times. we live in a hyper-individualistic capitalist hellscape that seems to punish people who need community support. and I truly believe that we as humans should try to help each other out in the ways that we are able to.
but I lose 100% of my empathy for lonely depressed men when they start using their own personal issues as an excuse to peddle ideologies that advocate for rape, pedophilia, child marriage, sexual slavery, and even murder of women and girls. I don’t fucking care how sad you are, if you advocate for other humans beings to be subjected to the cruelest treatment possible then you either need to get serious help or die (and not take anyone with you when you do).
you do not have a fucking paramount on suffering. you are not the only ones who experience loneliness. I know you think women get to just pick and choose whichever romantic partner/friends we want, but that is false, and also being seen as nothing but a sex object by men is so incredibly isolating too. that’s not real love and connection, that’s only being valued for what we can provide for men. so many people feel so alone and it genuinely is a big problem.
I was raised in an extremely misogynistic cult that preaches that grown men are not responsible for anything they do to little girls bc “they’re wired that way.” I had very bad things happen to me before I was even old enough to realize what it meant. and you know what the excuse always is? “well it happened to him when he was younger too so he can’t help that he does it to you.” I learned very early that male suffering is viewed as more important than the suffering they inflict on innocent people. and despite going through this, despite seeing nearly every woman in my life go through something similar, despite all of this, I still would never ever sympathize with any ideology that preaches rape, slavery, sex trafficking, pedophilia, white supremacy, etc. and that doesn’t make me some super hero, it makes me a mildly normal person.
so no, nobody “pushed” you into your evil ideologies, nobody made you do that. if true suffering at the hands of the opposite sex is really the root cause of inceldom then almost every single woman I know would be the most insane incel you’d ever meet in your entire life. but they’re not, even though many of them are lonely and long for true companionship, none of them feel so angry and entitled to it that they want to murder and rape men or little boys. not a single one. the root cause of inceldom is, and always has been, male entitlement. men who were raised to believe the world and every woman in it exists to serve them in some way, but then grew up and realized that actually nobody is owed sex and you don’t get to force women to marry you and have kids, because we are human beings who deserve to be happy too. and this makes them so mad that they start thinking it’s okay to do whatever they want to whoever they want, because after all, nobody on planet earth could ever suffer as much as incels do when a woman tells them no.
I’m fucking sick of it. stop saying “they pushed me to this” and start taking even an ounce of accountability for your deranged, entitled mindset.
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traumatizeddfox · 1 year
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All of Charlie’s art in Dee Made a Smut film has always fascinated me. But today I want to focuses on a couple that really stood out to me and why I think they help teach the message of the episode.
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This painting shows a woman with dirty blonde hair and a halo ripping out a man’s heart while he’s wearing The Boy footie pajamas from Nightman. I think when Charlie painted this, he intended it to be him and the Waitress—she ripped his heart out when she rejected him after his play but he still sees her as an angel.
But doesn’t it also kind of look like Dee and Dennis? Especially with the messy makeup on the woman, the way the man’s face looks like it can have facial hair or be clean shaven depending on how you look at it. In this scene where the painting is shown, Dee is confronting Dennis with his trauma, showing everyone his bloody ripped out heart and acting like she’s doing him a kindness (killing him while seeing herself as an angel). Also super interesting in hindsight when you consider that in DTAMHD Dennis fantasizes about eating a bloody heart to sooth himself, taking the trauma back into his own body in a sense.
Let’s look at some more.
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A painting of dogs barking (at a human shape maybe? Hard to tell) and a rat covered in blood. To Charlie, I again think these are pretty straightforwardly about his life—he was illustrating Cricket’s dog orgy and the rats he bashes at Paddy’s.
But in the scene they’re framing Dennis, who is in the middle of trying to make excuses for the CSA he suffered. He’s trapped like a rat who’s being bashed, he wants to scream and howl like those dogs but he can’t. And the dog orgy is literally Cricket being assaulted by dogs and then playing it off casually so that’s also a pretty obvious parallel.
In this scene Dennis also explains that he thinks good art is just whatever the “right” people say is good art. Because he’s never been able to connect with his feelings due to his trauma, Dennis has always had a hard time connecting with art on a personal level (in sharp contrast to Frank, who sees himself in art depicting WWII so deeply he has an out of body experience). Like most things in life, Dennis only sees art for its social and commercial value, not as a way to feel connection. That’s why he’s so dismissive of all art that isn’t porn, because porn at least has an obvious tangible use. But even then, even then, when he tries to make “artistic” porn, his mind immediately (subconsciously) tries to express his trauma, using art to express his deepest wounds in a way he isn’t even aware of. And I think Dee sees that and tries to help him through her own interpretation of his art, continuing the metaphorical conversation he started, but she’s also petty, and bitter about him mocking her art at the beginning of the episode, so she does it in a way that’s vicious and public. Art can hurt you, make you think about things you don’t want to, and Dennis hates that. He doesn’t see the emotional connection he could make with Charlie’s art or Dee’s or even his own because he won’t let himself.
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littlefaeella · 1 month
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the some of the funniest antis in my humble opinion are the ones who will just see the word proshipper and immediately start thinking about real life children being sexually abused and then project those thoughts onto you
like, if you want to side-eye anyone for potentially being a pedophile, look in the mirror buddy. YOU are the one thinking about real kids experiencing abuse, I'M just thinking of hot old men, hot young men, ugly rancid bastard men, furry men, more men, and about what i want to eat as little snack in the next fifteen minutes
like, i don't think antis who do this are actually pedophiles 90% of the time, i think they're just too paranoid about pedophiles being everywhere and out to hurt the kids and their brain turns shadows into monsters, i just think it's funny in a pathetic sort of way that they think of real csa and can't imagine that we aren't too—but in a bad, evil, perverted way when in reality, we aren't even thinking about it all
it's just... if you're the one thinking it, point the finger of baseless accusations at yourself first. how are you going think about real kids being raped and molested and then accuses us of being the pedophiles over fictional (fake) crap? most of the proshippers i've met and or seen around aren't even into extreme underage stuff (not that it's even comparable to csa, but you get the point). it's so strange and ridiculous that i can't help but find it funny and disgusting and pathetic all at once
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mental-illness-bingo · 8 months
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A long time ago, as a toddler, I screamed in my head for someone, anyone to help me. To make it stop hurting. To let me be free.
A man with wings like lambskin, large clawed hands, deep gray skin, and eyes like nothing I had ever seen in my couple of years stood in front of me inside of my head - what I didn't yet know was the headspace - took my small frame into his arms and said "you'll need to toughen up". That scared me more than anything.
"I don't want to be tough. I want to be small and fragile and naïve. I'm supposed to be that right now, I think. I think I would like to be soft forever."
"Okay," he said, amazing me by being a man respecting my no "then I will be tough for you."
Without hesitation, he took the form of someone my age and he lives my life for me, allowing me safety inside of the head with the alters I know are safe to be around. No more outside interaction I don't explicity choose - and he tells me if it's safe or not when I do decide to.
He has taken the risk out of people. He has allowed me the privilege of love and interaction without giving up security or the childish belief that the world can be good.
I'll never, ever say thank you enough times even if I used the breath of the entire world for the next million years.
My host saved my life, my sanity, and maybe even saved the system some trauma by being better at handling the situation, sure.
But most importantly, he saved my innocence. And he didn't even know me yet.
So dear host, when I say I love you and you are the best "brother" I could ever ask for, please don't look at me with those confused eyes. Don't shrug away and hide your demonic wings from me because they are the same ones that you wrapped around me when I was broken and believed I was beyond repair.
Your claws have never ever scratched my skin because unlike every other man, you have always been careful not to hurt me, yet you make it seem effortless. You make me wonder how careless everyone else must have been if you so easily avoid causing any harm at all.
You don't have to be embarrassed of the smell of fire in your breath or your "unnatural" eyes. These have been my comforts for as long as I have had any. That firey smell filled my lungs as you breathed life into a husk of a girl; a tattered doll. Those eyes showed me love larger than any cruelty I had experienced, as impossible as that seemed.
My dear brother, you may be a demon but you are ten times the good any man on Earth could ever be.
I did not know a man could hold me without thoughts and hands and other things under my clothes. I did not know I could feel loved by a man in an entirely platonic and familial way without being in denial of their true thoughts. I did not know safety and a man could exist in the same room.
These things that make you "evil" are the only good I know. The pieces of you that you hate are the exact parts that made you different enough to trust.
Please don't hurt yourself in the process of making yourself appear small and human for me. Human is exactly what I was afraid of. What you think will make me run and hide are the only reasons I didn't back then.
I would never, ever want you to hide even a single one of them.
Be yourself as you are, my gentle host, because that is the version of you that saved me. To me, that is the best of you.
But whoever you are, I love you and am grateful to you and those run deeper than any hurt I have ever experienced. Thank you for showing me something could be larger than the pain.
-B
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foodiewithdahoodie · 8 months
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The tragedy of Will Byers is that he was already a tortured soul without the dangerous supernatural plotline. Vecna and the Upside Down just exacerbated Will's issues. He was different before he became zombie boy, the possession, the kidnapping. He was never gonna fit in and be normal and he knew that waaay before Snow Ball and before everyone got lovey dovey coupled up.
Even taking Will's sexuality out of the equation, Lonnie is an abuser. Abusers don't need much of an excuse to exercise abuse. Even if Will wasn't gay, it wouldn't matter, people like Lonnie would've found an excuse to do Will harm just because he simply can.
And even now, when most thought the MindFlayer was this eldritch dimensional horror, it still turns out that it wasn't fantastical monsters haunting Will. It was the very realistic follies of men (Lonnie, Brenner, Vecna - who all played their roles) that has Will suffering the brunt of their actions and all Will did was be innocent.
S5 giving Will a happy ending should've never been questioned. It should've been expected.
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charmac · 10 months
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The fact that the whole fucking house was decorated for Uncle Jack's birthday but Charlie, at 46, didn't even know he was over 40 seriously fucks me up.
More than the reveal in Shoots, where we find out he didn't know, and kinda have to deduce that the Gang never celebrate his birthday (or anyone's, really), now we're shown that birthdays do have some substance in Charlie's life via his family, but only for Uncle Jack, his abuser, and not him.
(Also, to point out, Shoots is sequentially after Cursed, and so we should be seeing Uncle Jack have a big party and then getting hit with the 'Charlie didn't know he was well over 40 years old' moment)
And holy shit if that reveal can't fuck you up immediately, sure, but christ, looking deeper. We know Bonnie has some care for Charlie, an actual obsession with keeping him alive and worried about his safety, she loves him, but her love is fractured and distant and fucked up. And of fucking course that's Uncle Jack's fault, from the beginning and continuing to stay rooted there in Bonnie's life, contributing to the insane emotional distance Charlie and Bonnie have always had.
Like Charlie's upbringing was so fucked up and broken and she failed so miserably protecting him as a kid that she's now stuck in this cycle of viewing Charlie as the 'idea' of a son, obsessing over his protection and his safety, but not viewing him as a real person outside of that. He's an idea of something she failed to protect and now must protect in her mind, but his actual existence is a wash, and continues to be every time Uncle Jack is back, every time he drives Charlie away.
Charlie lost his dad, and he continues to go to his mom, trying, to build something back, but he can't mend their relationship because Uncle Jack continues to stay rooted, his reality takes precedence over Charlie's in Bonnies mind, and she's trapped catering to him, fucked up by their history, continuing to blur through, and Charlie's still trying to push through. But Uncle Jack is always there.
I hope he fucking kills that man.
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joshgrobanspussy · 4 months
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anyways shout out to recovering radqueers. shout out to anti contact harmful paraphiles. shout out to the women who tell girls if a man’s following them, shout out to fathers chasing down catcallers with fists, the world is not all evil .
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redtail-lol · 9 months
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EXTREME CONTENT WARNING: CSA AND RADQUEERS (it gets bad.)
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This is genuinely the most disgusting thing radqueers have claimed to be. This is such a slap in the face for real survivors. Everything else was shitty, but this is a new level of absolutely depraved. You WANT to go through a horrific and deeply traumatic event? You FEEL LIKE you should have been abused as a child? Really? Get help, you've certainly got underlying, unaddressed problems. You can't just identify as someone who went through CSA because you think that you should've
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gwainestarroyco · 10 months
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salty dog, good egg, what you saw was what you got
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ineffectualdemon · 9 months
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I feel like there is confusion over what is alleged and what is confirmed in the Colleen Ballinger situation
Especially if you haven't been down this rabbit hole for weeks now so I'll explain for those who want to know what the hell is going on
Now my bias is that I believe the victims but I am not a court of law so when I say alleged I do not mean I don't believe them just that it isn't as hard evidence
So I'm going to break it up into what we know is fact, either because confessed to doing it or we have video evidence, and whar is alleged because we only have the victims word or screenshots which we know can be faked
TW: grooming and sexualisation of children and mentions of implied CSA (of a fictional character for that last one but still)
What is fact:
Video Evidence:
Spreading a 16 year olds legs as wide as she could on stage while the teenager was wearing a short dress and therefore exposing her body in a way that made the victim very uncomfortable
Putting snacks down the front of her trousers and then getting young boys to reach into the trousers
And ongoing "bit" about how "Miranda's" (her character) uncle molests her. Like not innuendo its really overt and not okay. Especially for a child audience which she knows she has
A really uncomfortable and weird joke about teen girls and "leaking"
Calling girls on stage to talk about how they are "porn"
A really weird video of her inserting a tampon in her mouth
Lots of racist shit that was or currently is up on her channels
Animal cruelty - not just the dog story. There are a lot of videos of her being horrible to her cats
Offering to send her underwear to a 13 year old Adam even when she acknowledges the parents would be upset
Stuff she confessed to in her "apology" videos:
Talking to her underage fans in group chats
Oversharing in those group chats
Getting ideas from Adam (a minor at the time) for her channels
Sending a 13 year old her underwear like WHAT THE FUCK! Her "defense" is he asked for it! She offered and he took her up on it because he was a huge fan! And he was fucking 13!
Alleged:
(Again- I believe the victims. Their stories are too similar and their screenshots corroborate each other. I'm just saying alleged because screenshots are not the best evidence by themselves in a court of law. I am not a court of law so I can say I believe the victims)
The exact content of the group chats including sexual content sent mostly to and about Adam
Whether or not she sent Trisha Paytas' 18+ content to others without Trisha's knowledge or consent to make fun of Trisha
Including to someone who was a minor at the time
How much work she was getting Adam to do for her
The conversation her brother had with an underage fan
Her best friend Kory abusing Johnny and her allowing it
Her behind the scenes treatment of the lady who worked on her netflix show and her general racism irl
Her mocking and bullying her own fans
Her encouragement and insistence that they keep the chats private and and a secret from the victims parents
That's what we know at the moment
I think even with what we have of the hard evidence this woman should be kept away from kids but that's my opinion
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