it's quite frustrating when you work up the courage to tell someone you have DID, but they hit you with "well, *i've* never noticed you switch" or "to me you're always the same person".
i think those statements are so misinformed to how DID (most often) presents. there are some things to note when observing DID from the outside:
not all cases of DID are overt. overt refers to your symptoms, switches & differences between alters being obvious to people from the outside. overt DID is less common than its counterpart *covert* (more secretive) DID. in covert DID, symptoms may be less noticeable from the outside, & that may lead to difficulty being diagnosed.
masking. masking is the ability some people possess to pretend to be someone/something that they are not. in DID, alters who are not the host part may mask as the host part to feel safe, undetectable, or simply out of instinct. before discovery of the system, this may be a subconscious effort; after discovery of the system, this may be purposeful in order to hide alter differences from others, for any reason.
complexity of identity. let us imagine that the host in a system is an ambivert - not quite introverted, & not quite extroverted. this host switches out, in front of their friend group, & a social part or other extroverted & friendly alter takes their place. their friends assume that they are just in a "friendlier mood", while in reality this person has switched. meanwhile this alter has a completely different set of interests, identity, & such, but since it is not brought up in conversation, the friend group does not suspect their friend has switched between separated self-states. identity is complex, & alters are (often, not always) able to feel & express a large range of emotions, depending in their mood. this can make it harder to tell the difference between an alter being in a strange mood, & a whole new part fronting!
so, next time you meet someone with DID, believe them. not all of our experiences are visible!
edit: "DID" here can also be replaced with OSDD1, P-DID or UDD, but i just used DID because that's my specific experience.
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this is suuuch a stretch but now that the wonderland sekai has a confirmed ocean and islands i ALMOST want them to accidentally sail into the empty sekai’s body of water and freak out.
if that’s even possible in the lore. idk i haven’t read a good portion of the vsinger events where they talk about the lore soooo
but like… think about it. after they finish the first round of world link events for all the units i have NO idea what they’re going to do with that event type. coincidentally the vsinger wl (estimated for august) is in line with the 4th anni, and it sort of makes sense that the sekais could potentially connect and lots of stuff happens before 5th anni (usually a good milestone if i’m going off bandori). the only good scenario i have in mind is yk… GROUP SHUFFLES! SEKAI COLLISIONS OR SOME SHIT!! MULTI GROUP COVERS which i know they said they weren’t going to do unless for special occasions but like??
and also im aware that pjsk as it is is actually doing pretty well without doing group shuffle covers and stuff like bandori (by this i mean like the general election special songs like catastrophe banquet) and each of the groups don’t actually NEED that connection with the other groups… but come on. it’d be neat.
*noclips through the floor*
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what's ur skincare routine <3
ah !! funny you say that but i just started incorporating new products into mine and have some new stuff coming in to use !! but rn its this:
purito from seoul green cleansing oil (mostly night time, recently mornings as well)
cosrx good morning ph cleanser (day and night)
cosrx aha/bha clarifying treatment toner (day and night)
cosrx bha blackhead power liquid (day and night)
Paula’s choice 2% bha gel exfoliant (night times 3 times a week)
numbuz:in number 3 serum (day and night)
beauty of joseon glow deep serum (day and night)
the ordinary niacinamide 10% (day and night)
axis y dark spot correcting glow serum (day and night)
beauty of joseon red bean water gel moisturiser (day and night)
beauty of joseon relief sun: rice + probiotics spf50 sunscreen (day time only)
some extras that im using right now are:
- the ordinary aha/bha peeling solution mask but only 2-3 times a week (but this depends bc i have another face mask i like to use)
- axis-y mugwort pore clarifying wash off clay mask again only 2-3 times a week but i alternate with the ordinary mask !! so i do face masks at least 3 times a week and switch between the two !!!
also i have combination skin with texture/hyperpigmentation so !! i try to tailor my routine to that and dont mix the products im not supposed to !!
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there's something about the rhetoric around AI art that loudly declares it "obviously soulless" "heartless" "lacking life" "mocking life" and other such phrases that deeply rubs me the wrong way. especially when people say "I can just tell". no, you can't. I'm sorry, but you can't. human beings do not have some sort of 'spiritsense' that lets you know when something has been crafted by another human; if you thought the art was made by a human, you would not perceive it as "soulless" etc, because you don't have a sense for that. there is no human sense that gives you that data. I understand what people are trying to say but it twigs far too close to that sensitive spot of people saying they can "just tell" someone's a sociopath or otherwise 'less than' to them, because they're perceived as missing some essential 'human' quality.
what you are perceiving is not "soullessness" it is simply machine-generated art. calling it "heartless" etc is making a value judgement which you are technically allowed to do but it's not some innate property of the art in front of you; it's a value projected onto it because you know it wasn't made by a human. okay? okay.
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WHAT FUCKING PART OF HIS HAIR IS NATURAL
this is a serious point of contention in my life right now cause its never stated that yuuji has two different natural hair colors, yet most people go for the pink as being his natural color. is he dying his undercut brown ? are we forgetting he has an undercut ? how is he maintaining whichever roots he must maintain during these times or is his hair just looking like really fucked up neapolitan ice cream
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I just feel like if I ever had a kid I would speak to them in Spanish first and have them become fluent in it first because they would always get an opportunity to learn/speak English 🤒
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If you were truly an abandoned project like you say. You wouldn't care so much. Even in your comic you mention you being worse for "the next person" you already are thinking of another person. That's not a bad thing. You're young. And by God you have some fire in you. I hope you become happier with yourself. I hope good things happen to you and the people around you will cheer for it. -💛🦭
thank u... im actually flopping between it rn... though i know i dont have the actual power to decide to be done with it, bc life is full of unexpected events, and i am young, but my line of thinking was, well because it would be so much more of a hassle for a next person, its best to just remove that hassle from the "market" completely lol...
but its out of my hands in either direction. i already wasnt expecting much as just the one time was such a rarity. now its just made the whole ordeal much much more difficult for all parties...aroo...anyway thanks again
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kinda give up running around for people who don’t want me. roleplay has been stressing me recently because i care too much about what people think of me. from this point on i’m gonna try stop that, i’m not here to be anyone’s dog, if you want to write with me you got me but if you don’t then you don’t. no need to pretend & act otherwise.
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