#sex too but that's expected

[confusedpandabear]

Chapters: 13/? ~ Chapter 11: “Yukata” Fandom: Free! Rating: Mature Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Matsuoka Gou/Nanase Haruka, Matsuoka Gou & Nanase Haruka, Nanase Haruka/Yazaki Aki, Nanase Haruka & Yazaki Aki, Matsuoka Gou/Mikoshiba Seijuurou Characters: Matsuoka Gou, Nanase Haruka, Mikoshiba Seijuurou, Yazaki Aki, Tachibana Makoto, Hazuki Nagisa, Ryuugazaki Rei Additional Tags: Friends With Benefits, Rating: M, Smut, Fluff and Smut, Idiots in Love, Angst, Pining, Porn with Feelings, Porn With Plot, Denial of Feelings, Adding tags as I go along for the suspense, No beta we die like Rei almost did in the ocean that one time

  Summary: When Gou comes to him for a very unique favour, Haru finds it difficult to say no. They agree to keep things between them and in the realms of "just friends," but Haru is leaving for Tokyo after graduation, and feelings just ruin everything, don't they?

#panda fiction #harugou #nanase haruka #matsuoka gou #glowsticks #free! #haru x gou #shit's going down #one of my fave chapters to write because there's an actual plot lol #sex too but that's expected

[knifearo]

like it's honestly kind of ridiculous at this point

#worst quality meme i've ever made in my life but i had to get this image out of my head and onto the internet #anyway. looks at tax brackets. looks at nuclear family. looks at heteronormativity. #looks at social expectation of partnering. looks at divorce rate. looks at unhappy marriages. #looks at friends abandoning friends for new romantic relationships. looks at 'just friends' and 'more than friends'. #looks at the societal association between morality and love. looks at anti-sex sentiments. looks at— #and it stole my lunch money too #amatonormativity #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #aspec #talking

[erwinsvow]

an idea… rafe and shy reader having sex for the first time

everything's overwhelming with rafe, but this is particularly so. you thought you were completely ready for it, from the way you had handled everything else so well. in fact, rafe was the one taking things at the slowest pace possible, trying to make sure he didn’t pressure you into something you weren’t ready for.

you didn’t like it—thought he was trying to be something he’s not. he’s gentle with you but never like this, never to this extent. it must be a big deal then, sleeping with rafe, giving him your virginity, you finally decide, if he’s acting so differently about it.

in fact, you think you’ve been ready to give it up since you first started dating him. rafe brings it out of you, coaxes a different side of you out with gentle words and soft touches. you’re going mad over it. you can’t count the amount of times you’ve crawled into his lap at any given opportunity, anywhere the two of you are alone—his truck, the couch in your living room and at tannyhill, the hidden booth at the country club. you’re begging for it, not sure how much more obvious you can get.

you finally decide tonight’s the night—following a nice dinner with the two of you. you had spent extra long getting dressed up, a pretty white lingerie set on underneath your blue dress, all done up for rafe. finally back at tannyhill, entire body vibrating and tingling with excitement, you don’t wait another moment, crawling into rafe’s lap and kissing him hard. you take off your dress and rafe stops just for a second to take in how forward you’re being.

“hey,” he finally breathes against your lips, pulling away. “c’mon, you’re not ready for this.” 

“yes i am!” you whine, impatient and horny, feeling rafe get hard underneath you. you want him to be able to do all the things you know he wants to do, want them done to you. “i am, i am-” and you lean back to kiss him, ending up pinned underneath him before long.

he knows you’re not, but he plays along. you’re so wet already he doesn’t have to do much, but he makes you cum all over his fingers anyways, hoping it’ll satiate you.

“please, rafe,” you moan against his mouth, pushing in for another needy kiss. “wan’ it inside. please.” and he does know you, knows everything about you, but even he can’t resist when you say things like that.

you watch with big eyes while he lines himself up with your wet hole, hovering over you. you think you’re so ready, that three of rafe’s fingers inside you should be comparable to what you’re about to feel, that you’re more than prepared. your eyes squeeze shut when rafe pushes inside, all the air leaving your lungs. you try to moan out but it’s more of a gasp than anything else, one that rafe swallows into a kiss. 

your eyes get watery—it’s just habit. it hurts, too, because rafe is so much bigger than you expected. you bite your cheek, looking up at rafe through teary eyes and clasping a hand over your mouth—you don’t want to admit that he was right. 

“c’mon kid, give it up. y’not ready for this, i know you,” rafe says, leaning in close to your ear to whisper it quietly. he’s not even half-way inside you.

“i-i can take it,” you hiccup. you hate disappointing rafe.

and it’s not that he doesn’t want to—he does, desperately so, wants to fuck you within an inch of your sanity every time you walk into a room and look at him with your shy eyes and sweet smile. he wants to break you, wants you cumming on his dick until there’s nothing left in your head, no shyness left in your heart. but he wants it when you’re ready for it, not like this.

it only takes another minute, you finally admit you’re not ready, and rafe pulls out of you. you feel like crying, terribly sad and dejected, wishing you could just be normal for rafe for once, be what he wants. 

“stop,” he says, wiping away a stray tear. his arm rests over your stomach, trying to get you to lighten up. “when you’re ready for it, i’ll fuck you until you can’t think. s’just not today, kid.”

you finally agree when he says that, getting over it because you know without a doubt in your mind—rafe knows you better than you know yourself.

#omg what a lovely lovely prompt thank you babe <3 #this may not be what you were expecting #to me the very first time they have sex its too much for shy reader so it doesn't actually happen happen... but it is still the first time #i rlly wanted to write something like what you guys would expect but i really felt like this is more real of their relationship lol #anyways <3 i hope you like it! #rafe cameron #rafe cameron x reader #shy reader

[angryducktimemachine]

I think what I personally really enjoy about AroAce Rudyard is that I know, in my heart, that he would not ONCE spend a single thought thinking he was broken. This man is fully convinced everyone else is just being unnecessarily weird, which really resonates with me, who also spend like 22 years of his life not even considering the possibility that there's something "wrong" with me and that everyone else is simply a little overdramatic over love and sex.

#i know it's a different experience for everyone but besides like one or two little 'oh god this will affect my adult life' realizations that #i only had once i REALIZED i was aro and even then that was less a 'this is problem with me' and more a 'this is a problem because of other #people's expectations #anyway Rudyard Funn i love you sgdhsgshdh #love looses #rudyard funn #wooden overcoats #i think if like Georgie tried to explain being aro or ace to him he'd dismiss it too #he'd be like that's ridiculous georgie #he might think about it some more later tho #who knows #younger me thought he was simply a better person for not being silly about love and sex like #and that's very Rudyard #(and i have since grown and realized that I'm not a better person I'm just aroace)

[ganondoodle]

fondly remembering when someone said to me i should "just stick to drawing men" bc i obviously suck at drawing women like im not some weird agender something with a weird relationship to gender and its performance altogether that has been drawing nothing but either also agender monster creatures or just drawing characters how i want and not actually care what gender they look and if i do draw women 100% intentionally draw them with a more 'masculine' look to them, which in most cases really just means "not a blown out of proportions sex doll" or extremely traditional feminine, and not bc i cant actually draw them however that person imagined women should look

#ganondoodles talks #random #this isnt to say that drawing characters like a blown out of proportions sex doll is necessarily bad #you do you #but trying to police my art no one payed me for #is like #you are saying that too ME?? the weird monster usually either strong man build or fat character artist???? #edit: they also argued alot before i got too annoyed about it and blocked them so like #who are you #i think i will just stick to drawing how i do #ngkjfrndkbnkjd #very random but i just thought of that again and find it kinda funny in retrospect #guy was following me for a good while too #like ... what do you expect lol

[winepresswrath]

Darla/Angelus is also great because the show has a competing designated OTP and they exist to serve as contrast and hateful competition to THE ship. they are soulless monsters even by the standards of soulless monsters, they literally make the other soulless monsters go "yikes... your relationship seems not good maybe." but they love each other so fucking much. the writers can't help it. they are constantly trying to find their way back to each other. the way she hits him over a head with a shovel and leaves him to an angry mob while he tries to say he doesn't mind dying if it's with her AND the way they coo about it to each other afterwards. the way she takes him back against her better judgement because she missed him so so much but then kicks him out again later because he still can't be who she needs him to be. that's just how they say i love you.

#press says btvs #the thing i appreciate about buffy/angel the shows and the ship #is that it really does set up a designated otp. and like i would argue that for a time at least it succeeds!! who isn't #being sent to hell right alongside angel at the end of season two? #but everyone is having too much fun even in early seasons to just pick a ship and stick to it. they really say you're going to love so many #people in so many ways. sometimes you'll be in denial about it or the way you loved them will feel gross or demeaning or small in hindsight #but like. you're gonna love a lot of people. you're going to have a community. you will also have sex with a lot of people #probably. #the overlap between these two categories will be a source of much conversation on the internet #incidentally thank u to the comic strip goofus and gallant for perfectly exemplifying a particular kind of morality play and having a fun #little name. your contributions to online discourse should never be discounted #da is not the goofus to ba's gallant but you kind of expect it to be going in #anyway i'm so glad they decided to expand their family/polycule #even if the mixed metaphors got my tumblr temporarily suspended like i cannot stress how much they mixed those metaphors IN THE TEXT #I DIDN'T DO THAT. drusilla did that. Darla also did that a little

[nailgunstigmata]

probably a controversial post but maybe the problem with modern macden is that if dennis asked mac to punch him in the face mac would be like omg noo 🥺🥺🥺 i couldnt…. whereas if early seasons dennis asked mac to punch him in the face mac would be like okay? punch time 😋 and then clock him as hard as he can right on the nose

#dennis the kind of guy where if he asks u to punch him he wants to be punched for sure #theres also the acceptable solution of being like no i dont want to do that. i think he would respect that too if mac didnt do it because #he thinks its weird and possibly a sex thing doesnt want to have anything to do with #(it is kinda a sex thing but not as much as u might expect)

[patrice-bergerons]

I'm not sure where exactly I am going with this yet but I want to write a janto fic in which, due to the effect of something alien or other, Ianto is banned from having sex for a 1-3 month period lest he die.

And set it in early season 2, when Jack just came back and they have sorted of started to go on proper dates but everything they've done has always ended up with them shagging.

Like take away their primary love language at a point in time where this budding thing between them is so tentative and new and see where they go from there, you know what I mean?

#torchwood #janto #fic ideas #like jack suddenly wanting to spend zero time with ianto #and ianto thinks yeah should have figured it WAS just sex 😔 #whereas jack is thinking any time we do anything we end up on top of each other naked #and i can't be the reason ianto gets hurt #PLUS he really wants ianto and him to be more #he has missed ianto so much #but he ... cannot verbalise any of this #and like. making dinner in someone's kitchen and watching a movie #with no expectation of sex feels TOO intimate #it's something he doesn't know how to navigate #hhhhhh #anyway back to work

[forbiddennhoney]

lets hear it for the femmes who have strong boundaries re: eating ppl out but will gag themselves on all forms of cock without a second thought 🥰

this post is about lesbian sex

#personal #ok to reblog #i do enjoy eating ppl out to be fair! #i just prefer cock whether its silicone or bio < 3 #this is also why i say I'm predominantly femme4butch #and not only femme4butch #cause im really femme4dyke-cock #also i am 100% using the femme4[blank] format as a cruising communication i hope yall know that #dating life is different and still predominantly leans femme4butch but thats a byproduct of the ppl i attract most #eating ppl out is a like ..... i gotta really trust u act #but when i feel ready & if whoever im with likes that.......... its dinner time baby #i just struggle with ppl expecting things from me sexually as a whole and eating ppl out is one of those really charged actions for me #bc of the expectation that bc i am a lesbian i want to eat pussy 24/7 #(if ur an adult autistic PDA and reading these tags: does this show up in ur sex life too??? im so curious)

[prince-of-goths]

bitches be like 'uhm, men aren't policed for their feelings' and then belittle them for their feelings and whine about men opening up to them

#you can just say you're overwhelmed. ok. that's valid. you don't need this bs. #keep the venting in the therapy because that vile shit really shouldn't be immortalized #male loneliness #not everyone is your ex #grass is always greener it isn't rosy here either #stop fighting #feminism #radical feminism #you are no better than the alleged misogynists you complain about #you too are repaying your bitterness into the world and refusing to take responsibility for the cruelty you utter #writing essays in the tags #also sort of a vent. lmao. #just because he wants sex doesn't mean he doesn't view you as a person or want genuine human connection #oh? you're “not his therapist”? well he's not yours either but you still expect him to listen and treat you like a human. #my god they've put a paywall behind human connection now too #you're right. women aren't responsible for men's problems #but you are

[red-dyed-sarumane]

i need people to start paying me for every time they tell me "oh but ur arts so good ur wasting ur talent u need to do it professionally" wrong i need to do art to draw beautiful characters that not a single other person cares about while feeding every ounce of love i have into my work or to convey thoughts & feelings beyond words and to even think of doing otherwise is to deny my own nature "oh but u can do what u want and then sell it" why is everything about money to you why cant u just enjoy things at what point in ur life did u forget how to have fun

#i hate that this stance is also seen as childish #like i have a full time job & often have mandatory overtime i have income already #if u need to to make ends meet then thats different do what u can to help urself live as comfortably as possible #but holy fuck pleasure as an adult is not limited to sex & money & watching tv #besides u know not a single one of the people who say this are willing to actually pay what the arts worth #its like 'well not me but other people would love it!' yeah okay u know a lot of other people are going to see the #over $100 price tag and go 'i like it but not that much! other people however' like just shut up. honestly. be quiet. #if i speed ran my art and low balled myself to a $15/hour rate the lowest would still be like $120 #which is not worth it AT ALL bc i just paid MORE to sit on my ass & look at eggs #and. again. is underselling myself for both experience & time. but people think $80 full body comms are too expensive #do u think im so stupid to not expect to get scammed when even 'easy' things are over $100 #but no ur right why would i have fun with something when i could instead cause myself infinite stress over it perfect thanks #do not give me advice about doing comms i do not want to do comms #if u see me doing comms im in a very dire situation. like thats a last resort for me.

[blueish-bird]

Denji is either:

a. willing to sacrifice his own comfort/barriers in order to save his loved ones (bummer interpretation, makes me sad)

b. deconstructing his comphet (more enjoyable interpretation; happy pride month!)

#csm spoilers #csm 132 #csm part 2 spoilers #love how Yoshida wasn’t even fazed by it jfgkf #Denji’s like: ok. I want sex. so that means everyone else wants it too. this guy is definitely gay so I can try to gain some control here. #and Yoshida is in fact gay. but there are larger forces at work or whatever so he’s got other priorities #so far part 2 Denji has been projecting his horniness/desperation for sex onto his peers and his peers Not reciprocating or relating At All #and part of that might just be bc in part 1 he was actively pursued by his peers and older women — with the goal of using/controlling him #which became what he was used to I’m guessing. but now that’s gone. he probably found some (unhealthy) satisfaction/validation in that attn #so now he’s recalibrating and trying to reconcile his previous experiences/expectations (where he was treated inappropriately) #with being a more ‘normal’ teenager #my csm thoughts #my csm meta #meposting

[doxytoy]

Trans women are like the backbone of Tumblr’s nsft community. Not just in the sexual sense, but in creating welcoming environments with clear communication. They talk about their interests. reblog art, share important info about kink safety. and help carve out a safe space for other trans people to explore their sexuality in a safe environment where they don’t have to worry that their attraction is predatory or “too weird”. It’s wonderful seeing trans women so present and comfortable sharing their desires here!

Thank you Trans Women 💗

#Seriously! #As a genderfluid creature I knew I would be safe here because of how many trans women are active in the community #It’s genuinely wonderful #And another thing I love about it is all these women feel comfortable enough here to share silly jokes and all the video games they love #It made me feel so much less intimidated stepping into things bc it was like “Oh I like those things too!” #“It’s okay if I’m awkward or goofy here because no one expects me to be 100% infallibly seductive all the time- #People will welcome these parts of me as well” #Thank you trans women #Trans Women #T4T #T4T Nsft #Trans #You all deserve $6900 for the disrespect this hellsite shows you #This goes double for sex workers btw!! #My Post #Positivity

[awkward-teabag]

One of the things I love about Baulder's Gate 3 is the companions aren't just archetypes who exist to fill out the roster and be familiar to players so they don't have to think too hard about it, they're actual characters and often have something about them that's opposite of the archetype they're closest to.

Astarion? Sure he's the sexy vampire, but he's also about boundaries and getting permission before biting anyone (minus that first time).

Gale? He's a wizarding prodigy with a massive hubris but is also fine, even eager, to be the camp cook.

Halsin? The quiet dude you meet along the way who is very much into nature and reserved at first, then he relaxes and you learn he's the horniest motherfucker around and down for pretty much anything.

Wyll? He's a living legend in his own time and someone even experienced soldiers are at least wary of, but he doesn't have an ego about it and can separate that from who he is as a person.

Jaheira? She plays up her age and experience and pokes fun at herself and the expectation that she must know more because she's seen and done more than most, but she's content to stepping aside and letting someone else take the lead and doesn't take insult to it.

Karlach? Knows she can take on what the hells throw at her and relishes a good fight, but is the biggest advocate for mental health and to rely on others and/or take a break if needed.

Lae'zel? A born and bred warrior who knows nothing else and doesn't shy away from violence, but her long-suppressed empathy and curiosity starts coming out when she no longer has outside forces dictating who she must be.

Shadowheart? Reverses the "bubbly cleric" trope but instead of sticking to Hot Topic Cleric™, she has to fight the urge to care about and connect with others.

It would have been easy to stick with the first half because those are familiar archetypes and tropes, but it would have rendered them flat as characters. The additions give them depth.

And BG3 is so much better for it.

#didn't bring up minsc because he comes in so late #and i haven't gotten minthara #you could write a whole thing about astarion vs halsin in terms of horniness and sex #the characters are such it would be pretty easy to spot copycats too #not in terms of archetypes because those are bog standard #but because of what was added #and most people couldn't file off those serial numbers and have no one the wiser #which i fully expect to happen as studios try to copy bg3 without knowing why it clicked with people #i give it a year before [bg3 character] from wish takes the industry by storm #especially the ones that are easier to simplify on the surface #baldurs gate 3 #bg3

[chamerionwrites]

Niche personal pet peeve possibly but art that's technically accomplished but wherein every human being portrayed is stunningly Conventionally Attractive TM makes me want to claw my face off just to add some interest to the viewing experience. Why do you want to live in an uncanny valley of Sameface Syndrome but WORSE because it's hundreds of faces and not a one has a crooked nose or an asymmetrical eyebrow. Why do you want to live in an everyone is beautiful and no one is horny Hollywood movie except WORSE because at least the magic of high definition still shows us crow's feet. Why do you want to feed your eyeballs a steady diet of nothing but creme brulee

#tell us how you really feel chamerion lol #not even making a statement about body image or whatever here (although that too) it's literally just SO boring #it is the aesthetic equivalent of a tab a slot b sex scene that's supposed to be hot but is instead utterly soulless #it's like not only being asked to drink all your meals through a straw #but ALSO expected to consider this a desirable wish fulfillment fantasy of eating #it's not!!! where is the texture!!!!! #rant over #my posts #art things #beauty

[desperatepleasures]

tbh am very fond of the acespec zoro I've created in my mind who is willing to have sex if and only if it is nasty and kinky

#this is Not a character I'd expected to project onto but here we are #oh zosan kink scenario that lives in my brain we're really in it now #here's the thing he doesnt know he's ace he just thinks sex is overrated and everyone else is being stupid about it #he absolutely does not know that asexuality is a thing he's just like. sex is boring why am i the only person who understands this. oh well #and gives it no further thought bc he's not about to waste his precious few brain cells on unpacking this #like there is a 0% chance of him figuring it out on his own bc he does not care #he's too busy being Swords Guy there is no room left for him to think about sex #......and then i get to make him find a thing that Does work for him hehehe #anyway! I've hardly known this blorbo but I've already headcanoned him into oblivion #like i needed another emotional support sword guy to project kinks onto. sigh #one piece tag