Being 25yo and enjoying a "fandom" filled with so much needless drama is so weird, cause like, have people lost the ability to critically enjoy media?
Can people not think for themselves anymore? Hello?? You literally do not have to fight wars over this shit. Sit the fuck back and police your own experience and exposure to said media, it's literally in your hands. Don't like a certain part of it? Cool, cause exposing yourself to said part is completely optional, watch the parts you like instead!
It's okay to enjoy a CC and still keep them at arm's length, honestly it's healthier, you don't need to make them your whole entire life and fight their battles for them, they'll never even know you did that.
Believe it or not you're also in charge of your own exposure to drama within the community, don't want to see it? Don't seek it out. Simple as. Most of it is pointless aggression, for the sake of aggression and with no real life significance when you actually look at it, and it's so easy to avoid.
It really upsets me when people treat being within a certain fandom as something that would make them like, dirty??? Cause if you enjoy that fandom in a normal and healthy way no one is gonna bat an eye dude, that fandom isn't you, you are your own person, so unless you make it your whole identity no one is gonna fucking shun you for it.
Enjoy media critically. Think for yourself. Be in charge of your own experience.
OKAY. So. I’ve been listening to this lady because she is. Well she’s pretty down to earth about her codependency and her toxic traits. Like she’s just 100% genuine and doesn’t feel like someone who is just giving that sorta condescending sorta stuff. She feels like a friend who is like ‘hey. stop that shit.’
Ok, I have to go again bc I don’t think you quite get HOW MUCH I ADORE YOU!!! Not only are you super sweet and always have a kind word to say about your friends, but you lift people up and you make me so happy! 🥰
anonymously tell me how you feel about me. i can’t reply, i just have to read it and post it.
Fuck it. I think Dock and Alastor can sew (well, Dock somewhat obviously cuz doctor)
Alastor had a little silver coloured thimble. Dock doesn't bother. Alastor likes making "don't sew your fingers to the material" jokes. What he does not know is that Dock did that once on accident and didn't even notice for a minute afterwards.
i know i have just reblogged a bunch of Loki posts because the 1st episode made me emotional but you know what? i want this for myself. analysing every frame and making up theories is fun and all, i had it with sherlock and then stranger things, but now i’m going to watch the show for myself and think about it whatever i want to and even if i don’t get like 80% of what’s happening i am cool with that. idk why it feels freeing
people really be trying to act like a court of public opinion is actually a court of law where they can’t convict without reasonable doubt like dude sometimes you just have to be honest with yourself and admit ur fave is an abuser based on anecdotal evidence so we can all relax