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butch-reidentified · 2 months
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what he says: "there's a male loneliness epidemic"
what I hear: "there's a 'increasing numbers of women and girls setting boundaries and making it harder for me to find a victim companion' epidemic"
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thefemalejoker42069 · 9 months
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once again I am saying that the belief that there is a profound Male Loneliness that is so much deeper than anything women are capable of feeling is part of why so many women are giving up on trying to form connections with them. you can’t constantly imply that women have neurotic baby brains incapable of feeling real human emotion and then seriously still wonder why it’s difficult for us to want to be around you. major loneliness is a human emotion, it does not belong to either sex, and this idea that women get constant praise as soon as we leave the house therefore we don’t know what it’s like to be lonely is fucking delusional. so many of us are deeply lonely too, but guess what? it’s not called a loneliness epidemic for us, we’re just called crazy cat ladies who don’t have any worth as people.
you do not own loneliness and suffering, nobody does, and thinking you’re the only ones who feel the way you do is further contributing to your emotional isolation.
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prince-of-goths · 2 months
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'women aren't responsible for male loneliness' sure but i think the fact that you in particular can't say a positive thing about a man and only publicly talk about how much they annoy you has a lot to do with the self-confidence issues that root at this loneliness
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animentality · 13 days
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hermajestyimher · 1 month
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There is a crisis of masculinity and effemination of men in the West that needs to be talked about.
This is not a red pill post or endorsement of that toxic ideology, as I believe the lack of focus on that subject has given bad actors the space they needed to take over those topics to push their own misogynistic agendas. Instead, I want to touch upon this perspective from a more holistic approach: I believe the way of life and the current state of the Western world is helping to create a generation of men who are timid, weak, who can't control their emotions or used their own strengths in a healthy manner to be propelled forward. That, in turn, is affecting us Gen Z women because it means the pool of suitable mates is extremely scarce, which is why so many women are choosing to be single than with bad company.
Nowhere is this more evident than the place I live in, Canada. I've seen how over the past 8 years men here have gone from being outgoing, to being reserved and to begin to show feelings of envy towards women and the feminine. We see this in their newfound sassy ways, their need to "humble" very beautiful women instead of feeling proud to be with one, their unwillingness to provide and take charge in certain situations, their constant need for validation from other men (even at the expense of the appreciation from women, see the "simp" culture), and their constant need to compete with women and not other men.
Western men desperately need healthy masculine roles that they can learn from, because when there is that vacuum, it is filled by people who exploit the issue. Women will always have each other and generally stronger communities to fall on, and we are rightfully reaching a place where we don't need men to survive. Men stepping out of this bizarre effeminate phase will be crucial if they want to settle down with a good woman and live a life of meaning. If they refuse to do so and choose to double down in their baddie energy, don't be surprised when the "male loneliness epidemic" intensifies and they end up reaching their middle-aged even more alone and unfulfilled.
It's not a woman's job to fix a man. Still, we would certainly appreciate it for the well-being of our interpersonal relationships if they could improve and tap into a healthy, masculine role.
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classycookiexo · 26 days
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mandyfem · 22 days
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poop-division · 7 months
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rapeculturerealities · 8 months
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The “Male Loneliness Epidemic” Does Not Exist | by Jude Ellison S. Doyle | Sep, 2023 | Medium
There are certainly things I can appreciate about all the recent coverage of the “male loneliness epidemic.” There are good things about the work being done in its name. Some of it is what feminists have been asking men to do for ages: Learning to process emotions in conversation with other men, instead of forcing women to do all their feeling for them, or talking openly about their trauma.
Nonetheless, “male loneliness,” the media phenomenon, is unsatisfactory. Even well-meaning pundits tend to cook their statistics and muddle their premises in a way that is ultimately misleading at best. For one thing: If you look at the actual numbers, the “male loneliness epidemic” does not exist.
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smalltowndoll · 1 month
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Just say you're obsessed with me already ♡♡♡ look at all this attention, I know I'm pretty but my goodness! @fademotion I'm sorry but I'm taken, you have to find someone else to harass and degrade 😘
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melancholypilled · 6 months
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Being an unnatractive and fat woman is the ultimate blackpill. Incels will claim that ugly men have it harder in life when in reality, the only area they struggle in it’s dating, and even then, it’s easier than women.
No, being ugly as a woman pervades every aspect of your life.
If you’re an intellectual or politically active, your appearance will be attacked rather than your argument, this happens both on social media and in real life.
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On a more sensitive note, unattractive women are less likely to be believed if sexually assaulted as opposed to conventially attractive women.
And for things I can attest to personally as an ugly woman:
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men always claim that “women never experience loneliness because they can have relationships at any time”
1. relationships aren’t the solution to everything, women aren’t subhumans motivated purely by sex
2. I have not once in my entire life been asked out, and have only had sexual advances made towards me when I was 14. Thankfully i’m asexual, but even if i wasn’t, this lack of attention still hurts my self esteem
Because we have absolutely zero “value” in our looks, we have to overcompensate for this immensely, and it’s not easy to be intelligent or likable, so I, along with many other women in my situation have no close friends at all, and have an extremely difficult time making friends who truly care.
You see ugly men on media all the time, when is the last time you’ve seen a fat or ugly woman in a movie, TV show, as a singer or in an ad? Maybe once or twice?
So no, don’t ever fucking say that women always have it easier than men, because you will never understand the plight that ugly women face.
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tumbler-polls · 3 months
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femcels-anonymous · 8 months
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the "male loneliness epidemic" has got to be the funniest thing ive ever heard. like the thought of men being so lonely that they simply have no choice but to become misogynistic incels and hurt women is really such a perfect demonstration of men being all the things they claim are attributes of women: erractic, emotional, illogical, overly sensitive etc
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yjposting · 8 months
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Someone's gotta acknowledge the men
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animentality · 3 months
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classycookiexo · 9 days
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Definitely, they yearn for male validation more than anything
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