#roasting aphobes

[roasting-aphobes]

#what are even pronouns #are they just used for us because we feel like we have the need to label ourselfs? #lgbtq #queer #nonbinary #trans #transgender #agender #bigender #trigender #trans woman #trans man #genderfluid #pride #roasting-aphobes post #roasting aphobes #🦖 #I want some Golden Grahams

[dustified]

while this acephobe was being unnecessarily acephobic, i was learning how to use the block button

#[[ i see we're roasting aphobes today ]] #[[ this is the only contribution i have. thank u i'll be here all night ]] #𝗅𝖾𝗍'𝗌 𝖻𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗌𝗍𝗂𝖼 [ ooc ]

[aroacespeccult]

Me when I randomly think about my family and finally understand they were toxic to me and it affected my whole life:

...

#no thoughts head empty #toxic parents #roasting aphobes post #i want some golden grahams #lgbtq community #🐱‍🐉

[kuruk]

someone with the url "roasting aphobes" makes pronouns poll with separate options for she/theys and he/theys and even zee/zed gets its own but nothing for the she/hims tjey can't even comprehend us

[macyqwrites]

Why don’t you roast Cassandane 🤢 so that Darcy will stop simping so hard?

cassandane really thought she’d have a simple path to becoming queen by marrying the most mentally ill prince in the entire world. “my husband is so cringe why is he bad at everything” my brother in christ you knew what he was like and you married him anyway. why are you surprised. maybe if she were simply nice to him they could actually communicate about anything but noooooo she’s just gonna keep bullying him and cucking him. but also somehow his swagless looks and cringefail personality kind of captivated her which is even more embarrassing for her when darcy is RIGHT THERE. sorry girlie queenship can’t save you from the aphobe blocklist.

#i love to pick cassandane’s brain but she’s on very thin ice #princess cassandane

[a-space-for-aspec]

dear aphobes:

go back to your fallopian tubes :)

#ace pride #aro pride #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aspec representation #aphobia #aphobic #internalized aphobia #lgbtqa #roast #acespec #arospec #aroallo #alloace

[artists-2021]

ARTISTS 2021 INTRODUCTIONS, POLICES AND CAMPAIGN PLAN

Hello hello! This is the official blog for the ARTISTS2021 mcytblr elections party!

Our members consist of:

Izzy( @daaziscoolbesties ) as President

Sunny( @sunny-is-in-the-void ) as Vice President

and Asher( @thenonbinarycryptid ) as Treasure(Keeper of the Cookies)

Here are our polices and reasons to support us!

-Everyone will be LGBTQ+. If you really don't want to be, that's fine, but it's highly encouraged

-Asher will give everyone who supports us as many virtual cookies as you please

-We will legalize tax fraud

-Izzy will personally hunt down Bitch Shartman and roast him over an open fire. It'll be a public event for all of mcytblr to witness if they wish

-Other parties have talked about giving Ghostbur a gun, but we raise you this: Give Niki Nihachu a gun. And, if we're feeling spicy, give her a gallon of gasoline and some matches

-We will open up submissions here on our blog for you to send in your mcytblr art for us to post and help give you clout in return for you supporting us

-We're all really hot so you should vote for us

-We're also all extremely talented artists

-We aren't DSMP centered!! We also actively enjoy Hermitcraft and 3rd Life SMP, unlike how I'm sure some people are just using those names for votes

-We're all asexual icons, so we can't be distracted from election matters with horniness

-We will sacrifice Dream to the Boatem Hole

-We will give Grian and Mumbo the rights to swear

-We'll bring Grumbot back

-Homophobes, transphobes, aphobes, racists, terfs, exclusionists, etc will be burned at the stake

-We will outlaw anyone who says "oH eM gEe Is ThAt A rAnBoO rEfErEnCe" to anything and everything that's black & white, especially when they say it to smaller streamers who are literally just vibing and don't want to be compared to people

-We will also outlaw people who says "DNF???" or "HEATWAVES???" every time they see anything blue and green

-Amogus is outlawed

-We will Wilbur-ify your closet so you can have style

-And at the same time we will hunt down Wilbur the evil reddit man for hurting Ghostbur

-We support smaller streamers, specifically those of TownyTTV (orangepup_, OneBiteAidan, turtlefountain, N3PCHU, and impishEvil, just to name a few(all on Twitch)) and a lot of the ones just mentioned also make great art. Artists supporting artists amirite?

-We propose Hermitcraft-themed days of the week: Mumbo Jumbo Monday, Tango Tuesday, Welsknight Wednesday, Grian is Terrific Thursday, FalseSymmetry Friday, GoodTimesWithScar Saturday, and StressMonster Sunday

-Members of dsmptwt will be rounded up and if they cannot prove they aren't problematic we will hunt them for sport

-Izzy owns a plague doctor mask and not one, but TWO crowns, and that seems like some good reasoning

-Everyone gets arson rights

-The national anthem will be Bananaphone by Raffi

Our ask box is open so if you have any debate questions or need more explanation or clarification on a specific policy, feel free to send them in! We hope you consider supporting us, and we'll see you at the polls!

#mcytblr elections #artists2021 #dream smp #hermitcraft

[quill-and-chalk]

Hedging around the question of whether or not you are a trans woman or a transmisogyny exempt person really highlights how inappropriate it is for you to compare aphobes and whoever else to TERFS. Even knowingthose people are wrong, it is transmisogynistic to compare the exclusion of other groups to TERFism

Bruh let’s assume for a moment you are not a TERF. Why do I have to tell you by gender assigned at birth? I said I was non-binary but perceived as female by the majority of the population. I experience forms of trans misogyny, yes. Though this ask brings up the important issue that instead just taking my post, which you seem to only disagree with on the fact that I compared exclusionist to TERFs, and then tried to use this as a way to reveal something personal about myself to ‘prove’ myself. This person tried to pressure me into revealing my AGAB when it’s obvious TERFs are trying to figure that out so they can misgender me or use it to attack me (because it’s TERFs)

I’m having a fun time on here starting discourse with TERFs, I mean seriously Im just having a fun time roasting them and I really don’t care what they say to me. But don’t you dare try to get me or other people to reveal things about themselves because YOU want to know something. Seriously this just makes you a shitty human.

#don’t come into my TERF bullying hours with this shit #it’s rude #you ain’t cool and you ain’t funny #I don’t owe ANY of my personal info to you

[transrevolutions]

just got an aphobe on one of my posts like w. what are you doing here. fuck off-

need me to roast them?

[roasting-aphobes]

*Obvious Neurodivergent Trait*

Me: Everyone does/feels this! There's no oportunity that I'm neurodivergent...

*In my second appointment of therapy*

Doctor: You know I usually don't make diagnoses-

Me: Oh shit--

#and then i thought #oh shit #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #actually autistic #actually bpd #actually disabled #autism #actually adhd #adhd #therapy #delete later maybe #autistic memes #adhd memes #bpd meme #neurodiverse memes #roasting aphobes #roasting-aphobes post #I want some Golden Grahams #🦖

[stim-a-heck]

roasting marshmallow

(source)

please dont interact if: dd/lg, cg/l, etc; truscum, transmed, terf; reg, aphobe, exclusionist

please dont remove the caption or source

#gif #mine #hot knife #knife #food #white #brown #squishy #smoke

[biteitwhenitssoft]

i was gonna put this under a read more but im fired up and apparently ready for the discourse even though im not going to be the second i actually post it lmao. and as a disclaimer cuz of my last opinionated post: i know this probably sounds angry. thats cuz im kinda angry. people get like that sometimes and make posts that sound angry to vent. and then people hop onto the post saying i shouldnt be angry. im not trying to insult any one person, im not trying to hurt anyone, its only anger for the situation slipping through. try to read and not think im angry at you, i just want you to be angry with me.

anyway lets go.

i have unfollowed a lot of aphobes. ive broken 3+ year long mutuals cuz they posted like, 2 aphobic things. im clearly not here to see aphobes on my dash and im not very tolerant of aphobic posts lmao. but ive also unfollowed a lot of people- aces included- who arent aphobes and could never be, because of aphobic things theyve posted.

by that i mean they reblogged and laughed at posts about ace people going too far in things (like including themselves on a gay or trans post when it probably wasnt appropriate and getting roasted by other commenters, things like that.) posts where they point out and bring all attention to an ace person who messed up, who took something too far, said something a little inappropriate to the situation, maybe something a little insensitive to other sexualities struggles, things that certainly arent great but are easily fixed through gentle guidance. posts that laugh at and mock these people. that belittle them and frame them in an ever growing picture of a “”“classic ‘wanna be oppressed’ ace kid.””” ive unfollowed people who arent and could never be aphobic because while they didnt post that they hate ace people or think they arent lgbt, they really like perpetuating the ideas of the people who do?

when you reblog, laugh at, and mock an ace person who has made a mistake, and the joke is funny because they are ace, you are purposefully adding negativity onto the ace label. the more these posts go around, reblogged by people who think “well its not aphobic! its just this one person who happened to be ace!!!” the more you shit on other peoples views of asexuality, and the easier it becomes for them to justify being aphobic. do you understand? you love ace people, love to support the idea that theyre lgbt sure, but then you turn around and help the people who hate them, exclude them, threaten them, want them gone, by laughing with them, by sharing in their mirth at the expense of what you assume to be just one ace person, but what actually becomes the entire community. and thats not even touching on the fact that with your excuses of not intending to affect the whole community you still think its ok to make fun of someone who made an honest mistake like that instead of educating them on what they did and why they shouldnt have. anyway.

this kind of shit ruins our fight. stomps on everything the ace community is striving for, works for. and it also ruins innocence of ignorance. something that to someone who hasnt experienced a bunch of aphobia would see as just a little mistake, an accidental overview, easily fixed, is actually purposefully aphboic. was made by someone actively trying to exclude ace people but effectively hid it under most peoples ignorance of the problem.

an example is this post:

honestly? this could be excused as just ignorance. someone wanted to make a cute little chart cuz it honestly looks like it effectively simplifies things and includes everyone cuz it doesnt use actual labels! only when you think harder do you realize it excludes ace people (and intersex people?) a quick woops from op and a little bubble added to the side, easy fix! honest mistake right? no harm intended?

but when youre constantly seeing exclustions posts, constantly experiencing this shitty fight for recognition, constantly exposed to the underhanded tactics people will use to hate without getting in trouble, you see it and recognize immediately that it was intended to exclude ace people. it was literally made only to say that ace people arent lgbt. made only to be a “fuck you.”

this happens with anything and everything. suddenly benefit of the doubt doesnt exist anymore, mistakes cant be made anymore, and people who reblog “innocent” posts that mock ace people cant be trusted anymore. because innocent posts mocking ace people dont exist. they are created and enforced and supported by aphobes and exclusionists. ace people and allies who reblog those kinds of posts under the guise of being able to admit their flaws, or because “the people in those posts deserve to be mocked, theyre not part of the ace community I’M in, i’m one of the sane ones, this person is just crazy/stupid” is kinda of laughably the same as girls who only hang with guys cuz theyre “not like other girls, im a cool sane girl, unlike those bitches.” they only serve to further segregate women and pit them against each other which is exactly what sexists want. what keeps them in power. literally the same thing applies to the ace situation. you are not different from the ace on that post, that is your ally, your cousin, your sibling in this community. if you think they messed up and youre better than them somehow then your role should be to show that you know better, that youre a role model they should emulate and copy, that what you do is right. you should NOT cross over to where aphobes and exclusionists stand and laugh with them.

lastly, this isn’t meant to be like, a callout to the specific people ive unfollowed for these reasons, more like a wake up call to the people who honestly, innocently, didnt know. please understand what im trying to say here and stop putting that garbage on my dash. its not “””woke,””” its not keeping it real, its not admitting your faults, it is and has only ever been helping aphobes separate the community. it only ever helps to hurt people. please see and understand that youre hurting people.

#long post #ace discourse #opinion #i know it probably sounds angry but #please look past that and see the real messages #thank you #let me know if i should tag it as something else #like if you want to block the post/have it blacklisted #so you dont see it

[ajasgf]

Hi just wanted to say thanks for you being brave enough to tell people that cishet aro/ace are not lgbt. I've personally had arguments with people irl about it but i wouldn't say it on tumnlr cause i dont want my gay ass to get roasted so anyway thanks boo have a happy pride (also your fics are the stuff of legends keep at it)

thank you. i just don’t care at this point. put me on the aphobe blocklist. talk shit about me. i don’t care. not only have i seen my sexuality erased entirely, i have also seen far too many cishet aro/aces telling lgbt people to not show pda at pride because it makes them uncomfortable. fuck you. stop. i’ll be a gatekeeper. i don’t care. stop being blatantly homophobic towards the community you want to be a part of. we are not a party. we are not toys. we are people who have been killed for our love. it is not my job to accept the STRAIGHT people who adamantly oppose my love. i am a fucking lesbian and that’s more important than the fragile feelings of cishet people. 

lgbt aces? i love you. you’re welcome here. you are not the problem.

and, no. i don’t think all aces are disgusting people who perpetuate these ideals. however, their community is not the same as my own. my community is not open to everyone.

#asks

[akathofalltrades]

An Ace Story

About two months ago now, I stopped identifying as LGBT+

Perhaps I should start at the beginning.

I have two excellent friends who join me, three musketeers style, on the “complaining about the straights” rants that we are all susceptible to now and then. One is bi, the other is gay, both are male. And other than the periodic urge to get to talk to another queer woman, everything was just peachy.

Then came the big event that I’d been waiting for: a party at the house of such a queer woman, with opportunities to meet new people from all across the LGBT+ community. Only my gay friend could make it, the musketeers were split up, but that’s acceptable. I spent the evening chilling out, nursing my single drink, and eating all the roasted pistachios I could get my hands on.

Late in the evening, as people tend to do, we ended up sat on the balcony discussing LGBT+ issues. Another friend of mine came out as bisexual, we talked about plans for Pride, and representation in film was discussed. Then my gay friend turns around to me and asks me to explain why cis aces deserve to be in the LGBT+ community because “they don’t experience homophobia or transphobia”.

I spent almost an hour explaining to him how acephobia is a real thing, how I have to psyche myself up to go into the ace tag on tumblr, and how it’s a death sentence to even touch the comments section on every other website that mentions asexuality. How we’re treated as broken or ill, how I had to explain to my therapist what asexuality was only to have them ask “do you want me to fix that?”. How, even when we’re portrayed in media, we’re made out to be psychopaths, or are just written out completely.

And his response? “I still don’t think you should be in the community though. Have you ever experience a hate crime? I have.”

Somehow, screaming “You’re being aphobic right now and you don’t even see it!” didn’t seem to be a solution, so I gave up. He spent the rest of the evening monologuing at length about the book he was reading on the AIDs crisis.

When I got home that night, I realised that I couldn’t be a part of the LGBT+ community any more, not if they weren’t willing to accept me; to fight for me in the same way that I was willing to fight for them. I was heartbroken. I sobbed and sobbed and spent the next week feeling hollow. I felt like a piece of my identity had died, and I spent every hour mourning it. Even when I reached out, and acquaintance after acquaintance reassured me that I was, indeed, a part of this community, it was too late.

I’m still asexual down to my bones, and more romantically attracted to women than men, but I’m not LGBT+ any more.

#kat speaks #writing #ace awareness week #asexual #asexuality #lgbt+ #lgbtq+ #okay so this is a bit of a rant #but I feel like this is something I need to share

[dare-i-say-asexual]

me and my friend were roasting a guy and asking him what different sexualities were and she's listing 14 different ace identities and I'm like... stop it and someone said they weren't LGBT and she called them aphobes I'm losing it

I’m losing my fucking mind

#mod w #answered #high time #mogai hell stories

[justsomeantifas]

literally I was pointing out terf and aphobe bullshit but sure twist it into some made-up hate fest over TS. unless you're hoarding hate messages, I haven't seen a single note or ask roasting you. you asked to be made aware if you reblogged from a terf, I let you know and provided what info I could fit in this box instead of dropping a source-less allegation - which you normally ask for anyway - but skewer me alive for trying to oblige. fuck me bc aphobes made shit so extra, per usual.

If you have an issue with a post, the thing that would be most helpful is if you can link us to the post in question, especially if it’s from our own blog. You can submit a link as well, if that’s easier, since sending an ask with a link isn’t always reliable. But just randomly yelling at us, and then not providing any helpful information by way of what it is we did exactly isn’t very constructive.

- Mod A

#anonymous #asks