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sbelikeswords · 1 year

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I'M LEGALLY SOPHIE NOW!!! CAN I GET A W??? I've been working on this for three years now. Covid, procrastination, emotional exhaustion, and frustration over dealing with bureaucracy held me back for quite some time. As well, from an anarchist perspective, I don't recognize the state's authority to tell me what my own name is. I am Sophie, regardless of what an official looking piece of paper says. But at the same time, it feels nice to not have to have *that* conversation anymore. I've been working hard to get roadblocks out of my way for the last few months, and this is a big one! 2023 is going to be a great year.

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sapphoandthecity · 4 days

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Season One: The Prologue

My experience with women first began with growing up around my mom, my grandmother, my mother’s 3 sisters and my closest cousin. Then I was enrolled into an all girl’s catholic school for grade school, and then to another all girl’s catholic school for highschool. Consistently being surrounded by women and also unsupervised during the age of the internet, there’s no surprise I turned out how i am — a queer girl’s girl who obsesses over her female relationships, be it platonic, filial or in the rare occasion, romantic.

Perhaps you wonder about the title of this soon-to-be buzzing blog: Sappho and the City. One sleepless night, I had been binge watching the hit TV show of a similar name, Sex and the City and it got me inspired to talk about relationships too. If Carrie knew men, I knew women. It also dawned on me just how entertaining my own encounters with women were. As rare as my love life had been, each chapter of it was as exciting as a new episode of Carrie’s life. Not to mention, I have three girlfriends of my own, constantly there and consistently getting updated with the whirl and organized mess of my young adult life. The only thing missing were rounds and rounds of cosmopolitans.

Yes, there is a big difference between Carrie and I. She’s 35 (at least by season 4); I’m approaching 21. She’s a columnist. I'm a fashion student in college. She’s in the city that never sleeps, New York; I’m in New York, Cubao. She’s got a shopping addiction, I also have a shopping addiction. Only, I can’t afford Blahniks. But I find myself resonating more with her than any of the other girls in the cast. Drawn to share morsels of my own womanly intuition and wisdom, I decided to try my hand at her work with my own little twist.

So why Sappho? She’s a famous Greek poet known for her lyrical hymns about loving women and to put it simply, I am a queer woman talking about my relationships with women. To be specific, a femme lesbian sharing her discoveries as she traverses the bumpy roads of girlhood, loving women and cultivating lasting relationships with them. From the first blush of romance, to sapphic heartbreaks all the way to co dependent homoerotic female friendships a la Bunny by Mona Awad, I’ll write about it all.

I may have no Mr. Big in his Armani suits, or Aiden with his masculine, American charm to talk about. But I do have a laptop and stories to share about the highs and lows of being a young 20-something year old girl who loves women.

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kay-tee-wilson · 2 years

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Sometimes I think it takes the most courage to be alone. To watch everyone around you finding their person and living the life you dream of. Accepting that maybe you won’t ever have that. But instead of settling for someone who won’t love you like you love, you learn to find the comfort in moments with friends that turned into family. In places you got to see because there’s a lot of people out there that DO love you. You may not think you’re where you should be, but I promise you’ll look back and smile at how much you’ve overcome. You’re doing great, Future you ❤️ Photo credit: @rumbo.visuals 📷 #staystrong #doinggreat #doingyourbest #wlwdating #singlewlw #ledollarbean #ledollarbeansoftiktok #tiktokqueers #tiktokqueer #queer #queergirls #samelove #loveislove #beyourself #beyou #loveishard #lesbiansoftiktok #queergirl #girlswholikegirls #girlswholovegirls #girlswhokissgirls #lgbt #lgbtlove #lgbtq🌈 #samelove🌈 #gaygirl #gaygirlsofinstagram #gaygirls🌈 #gaygirlgang🌈 #gaygirlgang (at Uinta-Wasatch-Cache National Forest) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cgaj7QjtF1y/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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maggiethecatchatterley · 1 year

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I'm a #rainbow 🏳️‍🌈 #lgbtq🌈 #queer #unicorni #davidbrownie #shesarainbow #rock #70s #vintagestuff #lgbtqpride #queergirl #pride #arcobaleno🌈 #lgbtqrights #onedayatatime #woman #rights #tabledecor #study #books #readingaddict #loveislove #freedomofchoice 💌☕♀💪☮ https://www.instagram.com/p/ClR3TmuLUd0va9bPFw2od5n6mWPzINp9DYIbvE0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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evoreos · 2 years

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Sitting poses.😜 #sittingpose #asiangirl #greekgirl #queergirl #neurospicy #genderfluid #shortblondehair #sittingpretty #greecestagram #greece #fy #filipina #fypシ #fypage #foryoupage (at Gialova) https://www.instagram.com/p/CghMRGXst1Z/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#sittingpose #asiangirl #greekgirl #queergirl #neurospicy #genderfluid #shortblondehair #sittingpretty #greecestagram #greece #fy #filipina #fypシ #fypage #foryoupage

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l-cantaloupe · 1 year

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Mon topping this entire episode has me wheezing 🤧

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blurrycow · 11 months

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GO FORTH AND BE GAY MY LOVELY CHILDREN!!! 🌈🗡️🏳️‍🌈

#lgbt #pride #pride month #LETS GOOOOO #im waiting for my hot queergirl summer

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yonpote · 4 months

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Can we just take a moment to appreciate Phil's looks? I know dan is thought of as the more conventionally attractive one, but Phil has SUCH a unique bone structure that makes him really striking. His facial features are so sharp and angular. Especially those CHEEKBONES damn. He also has such a great body and he's really tall. I think in another life he could be a successful high fashion model. Also I wish he knew how to light his face in videos to accentuate his features. The lighting and angle he uses often flattens them. He always looks good when Dan does the lighting and camera work bc he knows Phil's best features. Yes I'm passionate enough about this to tell you off anon on my main blog lmao. like that man is gorgeous and anyone who can't see it just has boring tastes

YESSSS but also. like youre so right but also listen bro is still very much conventionally attractive like dont get it twisted he's still a white european man and absolutely has eurocentric beauty standard features lol. i genuinely hate comparing the two's looks cuz they're both conventionally attractive but also very pretty in differing ways. honestly i think a lot of the "dan is the cuter one" shit was just his babyface LOL more teens willing to have a crush on a guy who looks like a teenager 😭 ive actually seen a few ppl suggest he's aged poorly? which is absolutely insane like no he just. looks like a 30 year old man now.. which if youre like 19 it's perfectly understandable to not find that as attractive as babyface boy but yknow!

regardless theyre somehow both conventionally hot but also queergirl weirdgirl hot

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resaresa · 6 months

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where r the cool queergirl discords

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imakemywings · 1 year

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Got this new shirt at Target today

I think with cargo pants and Docs it’s going to make a great queergirl summer look

#rambling #I did NOT mean to buy anything but I was so quickly seduced by the things???#felt like the spirit of my mom possessed me #''oh this is cute oh that could look good oh this fake plant is definitely something I need''

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necronominomnom · 11 months

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Pride Month: My Personal Story

How I discovered my identity as a queer woman. #LGBT #pridemonth2023 #pridemonth #LGBTQIA #queer #queergirls #panromantic #loveislove #lovewins #dontsayDeSantis

June is “LGBTQ+ Awareness and Pride Month.” This is often shown by “Rainbow Capitalism” (a phrase that means corporations put out “Pride” themed items as a way to drive profits off the backs of people who identify as “LGBT+”), the stale arguments on Twitter around “Kink at Pride” and now “Is Polyamory part of the LGBT+?” Disclaimer: This post will touch in serious subjects such as bullying,…

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#blog #blogging #content creation #content creator #mental health

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sbelikeswords · 1 year

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Queers will say ACAB, and in the very next breath try to police other queers' identities. It's exhausting. . Discourse seems to be a constant "crabs in a bucket mentality" about what part of the community we throw under the bus. . Are he/him lesbians valid? Can you call yourself a bi lesbian? Is it femboy erasure to come out as trans? Do xenogenders count as trans? Is it okay for trans men to like their breasts? Are you allowed to use it/its pronouns? . Y'all, have you never heard of solidarity? . "Queer" is a categorization that defies categorization, and identities within that are often messy. Let the people in our community express themselves in whatever way feels right to them, and don't give them any grief about it. . Because if that he/him bi lesbian fights fascism, he is doing more to improve material conditions for us all than any of the liberal queers engaging in d i s c o u r s e on Twitter about whether or not that's a valid identity. . Do I get these identities? No. But I also don't get trans men because my entire experience with masculinity was wishing I didn't have to perform it. I don't get straight trans women either, because men ain't my cup of tea. But what I *do* get is that queer rights are under attack, and we'll all suffer as a result. . I'm proud to stand shoulder to shoulder with my fellow queers to defend all our rights, regardless of how they identify. . You should be too . . . . . #transbeauty #transwomen #transgirls #transgirlsrock #transgendergirl #transgenders #transgenderpride🌈 #transgenderfemale #transgenderwomen #transgenderawareness #transgendercommunity #transwriter #writersofig #writersofinstagram #writersden #queerlove #queerwomen #queerfemme #queergirl #questioninggender #lgbtaccount #lgbtq2s #queerwriters #transwomanofinstagram #transwoman #questioningmygender #transwriters #transgirlsarerealgirls #transmotivation (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn2UNk_OEFT/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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quetzalboutique · 2 years

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Posted @withregram • @quetzalboutique You see we’re born, born to be alive!

A small throwback and recap of the 1st year anniversary celebration of @thequeermercado, OUR favorite event of the month and the one where you can find us month to month right here in our hometown #eastlosangeles!

A family-friendly, safe, secure, loving space created by our allies @mexichiccrafts @inthemakingla @casadelarquez and @iamryanmontez where our community flourishes and thrives! A space to be alive!!!

It isn’t just a market, it’s a vibe! Don’t forget every 3rd Saturday of the month at the corner of Cesar Chavez and Humphreys avenue at the @hildasolisla Hilda Solis Learning academy! Your one-stop shop for all kinds of amazing things from cosmetics to fleas, art and everything in between. Not to mention an outstanding display of queer talent! Featured here @thecornerhouselb + @mariachiarcoiris who fired up the house with excellent performances. Tlazocamati! Thank you very mucho y hasta la next time!

#supportqueerartists #queerart #borntobealive #queerstyle #queersofinstagram #gayfashion #losangelesgay #lesbiansofinstgram #gaystagram #gaypride #gaylife #gaylasvegas #gaysanfrancisco #gaysandiego #lgbtowned #lgbtoutdoors #queerbusinesses #queermemes #queergirls #transisbeautiful #transvisibility #nonbinary #twospirit #indigequeer #indigiqueer #transpride #xochipilli

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kay-tee-wilson · 2 years

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Question is, are we laughing because I may or not be wearing pants? 😂 Photo credit: @rumbo.visuals 📸 #silverlakeutah #buddies #friends #newfriends #ledollarbean #ledollarbeansoftiktok #tiktokqueers #tiktokqueer #queer #queergirls #samelove #loveislove #beyourself #beyou #loveishard #lesbiansoftiktok #queergirl #girlswholikegirls #girlswholovegirls #girlswhokissgirls #lgbt #lgbtlove #lgbtq🌈 #samelove🌈 #gaygirl #gaygirlsofinstagram #gaygirls🌈 #gaygirlgang🌈 #gaygirlgang #utahgays (at Silver Lake) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgFt3fDPwcf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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maggiethecatchatterley · 2 years

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#happypridemonth🌈 #lgbtq🌈 #queer #stophate #stopfascism #stopomofobia #lgbtqcommunity #lgbt #gay #lesbian #transgender #asexuality #queerpride #queerasfolk #tlword #lgbtqrights #humanrights #pride #bornthisway #pridemonth2022 #pridemonth #rainbow #overtherainbow #iconic #stonewall #queergirl #queercinema #queerbook #middlesex #lgbtfamily (presso Galleria Alberto Sordi) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeywKGQrghp2m1Y98lCsnh0G8urykNqGbDUkyQ0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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evoreos · 2 years

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Showing of my nails🤪 #queergirl #queerart #asiangirl #greekgirl #greecestagram #greece🇬🇷 #colorfulnails #genderfluid #positivevibes #fy #fypage #foryou #portraitphotography #neurospicy #audhd #asd #adhd (at Gialova) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgjezXuMZK8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#queergirl #queerart #asiangirl #greekgirl #greecestagram #greece🇬🇷#colorfulnails #genderfluid #positivevibes #fy #fypage #foryou #portraitphotography #neurospicy #audhd #asd #adhd

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