#poly ally

[imaginarylungfish]

while i am pretty sure i'm monogamous by nature, i'm glad i experimented with different relationship styles. being part of the poly community helped me unlearn a bunch of useless social norms. it taught me so much about how to be a better friend and communicator as well as how to heal from codependency. that's invaluable.

#polyamory #poly #queer poly #poly ally #queer poly ally #ethical non monogamy #non monogamy #monogamy #healing codependency #healing toxic monogamy #alternative relationships #relationship anarchy

[irisesinyoureyes]

tw: mention of sa (only mention, no details)

i made @mylilacmoon at the end of 2020, after a bad breakup (the person i was dating told me they fell for their coworker/were poly and left me to date the other person even though they never mentioned wanting to be poly before then). i made another blog this year and wanted to merge the blogs into one account, so that's why i've re-blogged all of these posts.

since 2020, i healed from my physical chronic illnesses (chronic fatigue syndrome, postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, and mast cell activation syndrome). dm me if you want any info on how i did that btw. i "re-entered" society, started climbing again, realized i am autistic, and started working in the outdoor education field!

i also dated and broke up with another person. we were together for about a year and a half and lived together for a month. we started as an open relationship (because i had done some research and wanted to try that relationship style out). we defined our relationship as monogam-ish (meaning, it was us as primary, but we also had strong queerplatonic relationships). but the same thing happened: they fell in love with their coworker! they wanted to keep dating, but they completely disregarded me and only wanted to spend an hour together each week (while seeing their "girlfriend" every day). it was so weird. they explicitly said they were not polyamorous, just wanted an open relationship in order to have freedom to keep their queerplatonic partnerships (which, same). i had to break up with them--i was not being treated well (more on that later).

i learned a lot about relationships through this experience. i like relationship anarchy. i like non-hierarchical monogamy. i also feel very uncomfortable being polysexual. i think polyamorous people are great and that relationship structure can definitely work with good communication skills! i believe both monogamy and polyamory work and are 100% valid. i don't like compulsory, toxic monogamy, though.

i also learned how codependent i really am. i am currently working through this with my therapist. it's been such a freeing process to realize everyone takes care of themself so i don't have to.

i still miss my most recent ex (we broke up in march of this year 2023). it ended on a bad note (dishonesty, crossing boundaries, and quite honestly SA). i am healing. i am recovering. i miss them and never want to see them again. i hope they're well and they are able to see the harm they caused, but they need to do that away from me.

so anyway, i think i want this blog to be more about my codependency recovery. but we'll see what path i take. thanks for following along!

#breakup #heartbreak #codependency #recovering codependent #recovering codependency #poly ally #polyamory ally #relationship anarchy #non-hierarchical monogamy #chronic fatigue syndrome #postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome #mast cell activation syndrome #relationships #relationship structure #relationship structures

[j0ss-4rt]

cant wait for the finale

#this was drawn before the recent ep #hunter ally and tess are poly icons ok #total drama #disventure camp #my art #disventure camp aiden #disventure camp james #disventure camp riya #rosa maria solos ok

[marchtomydrums]

You're Safe Little One

Cordelia Goode x Ally Mayfair x Wilhelmina Enable x reader (mother/daughter)

“What are we going to do?!” Zoe shouts looking down at Madison who is passed out on the bathroom floor.

“I’m going to have to call my mom.” You sighed reaching for your phone.

“Are you insane?!” Zoe shouts grabbing your phone.

“Cordelia will be so pissed, and Mina might kill us all.”

“I know that’s why I’m calling Ally!” You yelled at her snatching your phone back.

Zoe rolls her eyes “You think Ally isn’t going to tell them?”

“She will tell them but at least she won’t freak out on me until tomorrow. Plus we need to get out of here those guys Madison met are giving me the creeps. And I’m feeling dizzy, I think they drugged us, Zoe.”

“What do you mean?”

“I don’t know something just doesn’t feel right. I’m calling Ally.”

Zoe nods as she goes back to Madison to check on her. Meanwhile, you waited for Ally to pick up breathing heavily as the phone rang.

“Hey, honey.” She answers.

“Ally.”

“What’s wrong love?” She asked.

Damn, how did she know just by your voice? You think to yourself.

“Can you please pick me, Zoe, and Madison up? I know you’ll be mad but we’re at this party and there are some guys here and they’re giving me bad vibes. And they gave us drinks but Ally I don’t feel good. Something is wrong. And Mads is passed out and I can’t wake her up.”

“Where are you?”

“I can send you my location. We are all three locked in the bathroom. But ally..please hurry. And please don’t bring Mom and Momma. I know you guys will be mad but I don’t feel comfortable here.” You tell her.

“I’ll be right there,” Ally says hanging up the phone. You let out a breath of relief as you ended the phone call.

“So we’re good?” Zoe asked.

“Yeah. Ally’s cool. We will be fine.” You said giving her a small smile as you tried to center yourself.

It was not fine an hour later you felt worse and then you heard the door slam open and instantly you knew.

“Y/n y/m/n y/l/n!!!” The voice echoed throughout the house.

“Fuck.” You mumbled unlocking the bathroom door to see Cordelia, Mina, and Ally standing there.

“Ally.” You whined.

“Don’t blame her you know better!” Cordelia shouts. Looking over she sees Madison lying on the ground.

“Shit Madison.” She sighs walking towards her and leaving you with Ally and Mina.

“Did those boys hurt you?” Mina asked looking over at the group of young boys.

“No ma’am. I just got a weird vibe from them so I called Ally to bring us home.”

“Well I’m proud of you for that but I’m also extremely disappointed in you. Not only for drinking but for calling Ally and putting her in an impossible position.”

“I know.” You whispered bowing your head.

“You and Zoe go to the car. We will be there in a few.” She says.

You and Zoe nod your heads as you walk past her towards the car. Walking past Ally you stopped and whispered “I’m sorry Al.”

Ally nods as you walked past her sighing a bit as she watches Mina and Cordelia yell at the group of boys. Once Cordelia was able to lift Madison she walked to the car putting her in the back seat. Before they can leave Ally stops the older women.

“Listen I know she’s in trouble and she could have gotten hurt but let’s try to remember that they’re just teenagers before we make any decisions.”

“What’s your point?” Mina asked.

“My point is go back and remember what it was like to be 15. When I was her age I never would have called my parents. No matter what was going on. I didn’t trust them enough. All I’m saying is cut her some slack, please. She knew something was wrong and she called.”

“She called you!” Mina shouts.

“And maybe you should ask yourself why!” Ally shouts back.

“Because she thought you would lie to us. Because you’re the cool parent.” Mina scoffs.

“She knew I would tell you both eventually. She called me because she knew I would come no questions asked.” Ally says.

Cordelia sighs” She’s right Mina. We can both be a little hard on her. We expect a lot from y/n.”

Mina sighs “Clearly not hard enough. Look where we are. She could have been hurt!”

“Yes, but she called before it got that far. So maybe Ally is right, she should be cut some slack.”

“Let’s go home,” Mina mumbled walking to the car.

The ride home was spent in silence. The three women each had thoughts running around their minds. Madison and Zoe were passed out but you couldn’t sleep. Maybe it was the drugs or your anxiety but you couldn’t close your eyes.

Once you reached the academy Zoe and Madison wake up enough to walk to their rooms with the help of Myrtle and Misty. You stayed behind because you knew the night was nowhere near over for you. The three women sighed a breath of relief before heading straight into the living room.

“Y/n come here,” Cordelia calls out. You sighed walking into the room.

The three of them were sitting on the couch. Cordelia opens her arms out to you. “Come here, honey.”

You nod as you sit in her lap and she wraps her arms around you.

“Are you okay?”

You shake your head no. After everything that happened tonight, you finally broke once you realized you were safe.

“I’m sorry. I know I shouldn’t have gone to that party. But it was fine at first until they gave us the drinks. The boys kept looking at us and asking if we were okay but I knew something was wrong. The room was spinning and once I realized Madison passed out I told Zoe I was calling Ally. I knew Ally would tell you guys but I didn’t want you to come and see me like that. I just wanted to come home. I’m sorry Mom.” You said crying into her shoulder.

“It’s alright baby you’re home now. You’re safe.” Cordelia says softly.

“I know I disappointed all of you. I’m so sorry.” You cried.

“Honey, you're young things like this happen. But I am very proud of you for calling me.” Ally says with a smile.

You returned the smile to her as you looked over at Mina. The thought of disappointing any of your moms was hard for you but especially when it came to the redhead.

“Momma... I…I’m sorry. I know you expect more from me and I let you down. I’ll do better I promise.” You tell her looking down at your feet feeling ashamed for letting her down.

“Little one look at me please,” Mina calls out.

Lifting your head slowly you make eye contact with her.

“When Ally told me what was going on I was so angry. I went there with every intention of yelling at you and causing a scene. And yes I was disappointed. But more than anything I was scared. Scared that something had or was going to happen to my little girl. I felt out of control and that scared me. Because I never want you to get to hurt. The thought of those boys hurting you frightened me. I know I’m hard on you. And I know that you worry that you’re letting me down. But that is far from the truth. You make me so happy and so proud to call myself your mother. And tonight I was extremely proud of you. Not only for calling for help but for taking care of Madison and Zoe and keeping the three of you safe until we got there. I love you sweetheart and I just want to always keep you safe that’s all. “

“I know. But still, I’m sorry Momma.”

“I know dear. Come here.” She says opening her arms out to you.

You crawled into her lap laying your head on her shoulder as you cried. The three women sat in silence as you cried. Each thanking the gods that you were safe but also thinking about what could have happened if they hadn’t gotten there in time.

“Momma I don’t feel good.” You whispered.

“How much did you drink?”

“Only one. I swear. I feel sleepy. “

“It's the drugs,” Ally states looking at the other women.

“They drugged them for sure. We all know Madison is a heavy drinker and she was out cold. Zoe mentioned Madison only had two drinks. Those boys had an agenda for sure.”

“ They’re lucky I didn’t kill them.” Mina growls.

“Agreed. But for now, let’s focus on the girls. I’ll have Myrtle and Misty stay with Zoe and Madison and we will take y/n to our room for the night. “ Cordelia says.

“Sounds like a plan,” Ally says standing up.

“Let me carry her Mina,” Ally says taking you out of the redhead's lap.

You groaned trying to focus on Ally but your eyes were too heavy.

“Ally?” You questioned.

“I’ve got you sweet girl. Everything is okay.” She cooed carrying you upstairs to their bedroom.

Once Cordelia and Mina checked on the other girls the three women laid down in bed with you. They watched over you as you slept peacefully.

“Some many things could have happened tonight.” Mina sighed caressing your cheek.

“True. But she’s safe now and that is all that matters.” Cordelia whispered.

“I know but..”

“Mina,” Ally calls out to her holding her hand tightly.

“She’s safe love. She’s alright.”

Mina nods her head as she bends down to kiss your forehead.

“You’re safe little one.”

#writing #fiction #television #wlw #poly representation #cordelia goode x reader #ally mayfair x reader #wilhelmina venable x reader #mother/daughter relationship #mothers #zoe benson #madison montgomery #ahs coven #ahs apocalypse #ahs cult

[fools-justice]

I tried to get this done by the end of pride, but obviously that didn’t happen. Happy belated pride, and happy birthday to Ryuji!

#persona 5 #persona 5 royal #persona 5 strikers #atlusfaithful #phantom thieves #atlus #ryuann #annshiho #poly thieves #pride 2023 #ryuji sakamoto #ann takamaki #shihoann #shiho suzui #pansexual #bisexual #lgbtq ally #persona 5 tactica #happy birthday

[blenderenvy]

Did they confirm that the whole Scooby gang is a poly group or smtn????

#scooby doo #Gay #Queer #Lesbian #poly couple #polyamory #Gang #fred x shaggy #velma scooby doo #Lesbian Velma #velma dinkley #Daphne #Shaggy #Mystery Inc #velma x daphne #daphne x fred #Scooby is an ally #Velma

[pandavalkyrie]

The only people who don't belong at pride are cops and bigots. Anyone willing to pick up a rock to defend us from those two are welcome. And anyone saying otherwise is actually one of the previous two.

#Kinksters aces allies family friends people with neopronouns degens weirdos looky loos bi curious girlies poly dudes and freaks #You belong here #More than ever we need to be united and in the largest numbers possible

[polyamorousmood]

I’m tired of having to explain that if my partner’s not distressed by it and is in fact happy for me, I’m not doing wrong by them? Is that such a weird stance to have?

#polyamory #polyam #poly memes #no disrespect to swingers and other ethical casual sex havers y'all are our friends and allies #polyamorousmood original post

[goldandlights]

In full support of having cake and eating it, too;

gay!Faramir and bi!Eowyn marriage of convenience, orchestrated by Eomer who's like

"You, lord Faramir, need a wife to give you an heir and not mind the besotted looks you send our King. My dear sister needs a man who won't constrain her to house and hearth or mind the company she keeps. You should talk."

(Little Elboron still grows up well-loved though. Brought along to whever his parents go instead of left with a wet nurse, he can ride before he can walk and has disrupted many a council meeting with his happy babbling.)

#wild poly Gondor is now firmly my headcanon #bi!Aragorn and demi!Arwen had an open relationship from before some of the others were born #King Eomer is the much-burdened het of the group #read a bunch of fics where it's a Thing that Rohan is pro-lgbt while Gondor isn't #so Eomer I imagine as an ally in the way of publicly going #isn't it a SHAME King Elessar that some in your kingdom are so close-minded as to deny their fellow people the happiness of a loving union #and Aragorn is like YES I am DEEPLY SADDENED that SOME MEMBERS OF THE COUNCIL would still hold to such ANCIENT and OPPRESSIVE views #he's King side-eye #i will jump any and all hoops to make sure Aragorn/Faramir can make love without being bothered by unnecssary realism #thoughts

[ddlcpoly]

Day 7: Allies

Sayori: My favorite game is Kirby Star Allies cuz it’s cute and fun!

MC: Also because you like kissing us in game when we play co-op.

Sayori: That too.

#ddlc #ddlc poly #ddlc sayori #ddlc monika #doki doki literature club #couldn’t think of anything for allies lol #the first thing I thought of was Kirby Star Allie’s #cuz I’m a nintendo dork #so I said fuck it #this is probably funny

[genderstarbucks]

Straight

Mspec Straight | Bi Straight | Poly/ply Straight

Pan Straight | Omni Straight | Abro Straight

Villainpunk, also known as evilpunk, is a punk subculture dedicated to the reclamation of demonization, a rejection of the social norm of goodness, taking pride in identities that carry a stigma. It can be shortened to vilpunk.

#villianpunk #vilpunk #evilpunk #straight ally #straight #mspec straight #bi straight #poly straight #ply straight #pan straight #omni straight #abro straight #needs id

[allycryz]

Rarepair Week Day 1

A Place to Mend

Haurchefant x Urianger, Short fiction.

Haurchefant makes a friend. Rarepair Week Prompt 1: Meet Cute - Standalone prequel to Sweetest Libation

[Read on Ao3]

#xivrarepairweek #haurchefant x urianger #haurchefant greystone #urianger augurelt #everyone is poly #nerys eluned #ally writes

[marchtomydrums]

Lesson Learned

Cordelia Goode x Wilhemina Venable x Ally Mayfair x Reader (mother/ daughter)

“Come on y/n just do it!” Maddison shouts at you getting impatient.

“Chill Mads if she doesn't want to do it she doesn't have to,” Queenie says.

Zoe nods as she looks at you “Don't do it y/n those things are bad for you anyways.”

Maddison rolls her eyes “You guys are such babies. It's fine. All of the older girls smoke. “

“So you do what everyone else does?” Queenie snips back.

“I'm sorry who is the cool one in this group?” Maddison asked.

“Not you!” Queenie says.

The three girls go into a frenzy of arguing back and forth as you held the rolled-up cigarette in between your fingers. It couldn't be that bad you thought to yourself.

You placed the cigarette in between your lips and you lit the end watching the first clouds of smoke roll out.

It really was like a smoke signal making all of the girls go quiet and look toward you.

Maddison smirked “Finally someone with some balls. Now inhale.” she says.

You did as she said breathing in deeply feeling the smoke fill up your lungs and blowing it out quickly.

You choke on the smoke getting caught in your chest causing you to cough loudly.

“Jesus this is awful,” you said coughing in between your words.

“You’ll get used to it,” Madison shrugs as she inhales smoothly and blows out rings of smoke toward Zoe.

“Y/n Y/M/n what on earth are you doing?!” you hear a voice shout behind you.

“Oh shit,” Queenie whispers.

You slowly turned around finding brown eyes glaring at you.

“Ally...I”

“Do you know how dangerous these things are? What they can do to your health?” she asked snatching the cigarette from you and putting it out.

“Give it to me Madison and the rest of whatever you have,” she says holding her hand out.

“You're not my mother. “ the blonde chuckles.

“She's not. But I am your supreme and I'm telling you to hand it over. Now.” Cordelia says walking up behind you.

Madison rolls her eyes as she hands over the pack she got this morning.

“You guys are ridiculous,” she complained.

“Thank you. Now all of you go to your rooms.” Cordelia shouts.

The girls quickly move past the two women heading inside. You tried to hide in the middle of them hoping to escape when you feel a hand on your shoulder pulling you back.

“Not you,” Ally says pulling you towards her.

You sighed as you watched the girls escape to their rooms. It was times like these that you wished you weren't the daughter of the supreme.

“Y/n what were you thinking?” Cordelia asked.

“I'm sorry. Madison said it wasn't a big deal. I was just trying it.”

“You know better than to listen to Madison,” Ally says.

“I know.”

“And you know how I feel about smoking,” Cordelia adds.

“But you let the older girls...”

“The older girls are just that older. They're all old enough to buy them and old enough to make their own choices. It's not a choice that I like but I can't stop them. As long as they follow the rules about keeping it outside and cleaned up that's all I can ask of them.”

“Y/n it's not a habit you want. It's nasty for your health. It makes you smell and it's extremely addicting. “ Ally adds.

“I'm sorry,” you mumbled looking down.

“Honey I know it's hard growing up and you're going to want to try things. But some things aren't worth trying. I promise you aren't missing out when it comes to these.” Cordelia says shaking the box of cigarettes.

“I know. It tastes gross and it made me cough really bad. I won't do it again.”

Your mothers smile “Good!” they both say in unison.

“But... We still have to tell Momma and I don't think she's going to let you off so easily,” Cordelia says.

Your eyes grow wide as you shake your head. “No Mom, please. Please don't tell Momma. She will kill me and Madison.”

“You know we don't keep secrets from one another.”

“I know but...please,” you begged as tears pricked your eyes.

“ I’m sorry sweetheart but you know how this works. The three of us don't hide things from one another and we all make decisions together. We will talk to her and go from there.” Cordelia says as she kisses your forehead.

Cordelia walks back into the house leaving you and Ally outside.

“Well get a good look at me Al. I’ll be dead soon.” you cried.

Ally chuckles as she shakes her head pulling you into her arms for a hug.

“Oh sweets you're not going to die. She loves you too much to kill you. Now Madison on the other hand....”

“Ally!”

She laughs “ I'm kidding. We will talk to her sweets okay? But please promise me you won't smoke again. I love you too much to lose you. “

“I promise Al. “

“Good. I love you, sweets,” she says with a smile.

“I love you too.”

“Y/n Y/M/n!!!” you hear your redhead mother scream from inside.

“Ahh man,” you whined.

Ally chuckles as she lops her arm in yours.

“Come on sweets.”

“I'm never listening to Madison again.” you groaned as Ally all but dragged you into the house.

#writing #fiction #television #poly representation #cordelia goode x reader #ahs coven #ahs apocalypse #ahs cult #ally mayfair richards #cordelia goode #wilhelmina venable x reader #madison montgomery #zoe benson #queenie

[mistralonyxarisen]

a small reminder...

Sex and Gender are not binary - they are bimodal. Many things we experience are not discrete - they are gradients. Love, Friendship, Sexuality, Experience, Connection… All of them are spectrum, hue, and overlapping beautiful chaos. Labels can be useful, but they are not absolutes… Variety, Experimentation, Exploration, Outliers always exist. People may fill different needs and spaces in your life. Your path is not the same as others and vice versa. You are beautiful. When lost, seek solace, peace, and community. And when in doubt - be kind.

#pride #ally #poly #lgbtqia #aromantic #aro #ace #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #trans #nonbinary #pansexual #genderfluid #and all the other beautiful shades of you

[cthoniccompanion]

I WAS hellbent on romancing karlach

and then I started getting to know shadowheart

and then I met wyll

#allie plays bg3 #girl help i cannot choose #i love wyll and also i love the paladin/warlock romance potential ig #but shadowheart..... #she's so cute #is poly an option???

[ghcstcd]

Rping with friends is great because in one universe, Graves Burner is in relationships with Asmodeus and Beelzebub, and Alundra calls them her uncle and aunt. However, she's aware that they're her father's lovers.

#Allie learned early that Poly is an option #then there's another universe where Graves is dating a fellow psychopomp and a deity of nature (Deidre and Aeleus) #Graves gets all the hotties :/ #can't believe he's dating my wife