#neutral butch

[imoanurparentsnames]

tag yourselves!

alt text: two-way grid of sapphic outfits with three options on each side. top side says lawful, neutral, chaotic. left side says butch, androgynous, femme. lawful butch says suit jackets, neatly ironed button-ups, ties, and bow ties. neutral butch says flannels, men's jeans, tennis shoes, combat boots. chaotic butch says hawaiian shirts, khaki shorts, beat up sneakers. lawful androgynous says patterned button-downs, mom jeans, lots of hats. neutral androgynous says cute patterned socks, snapbacks, skinny jeans. chaotic androgynous says so many hoodies, boxer briefs, usually in pajamas. chaotic femme says neat blouses, swing dresses, pencil skirts, heels of any length. neutral femme says circle skirts, beanies, berets, ballet flats. chaotic femme says heart-shaped sunglasses, crop tops, lace on everything, cute lingerie. end of alt text.

#imoanurparentsnames #lgbt #queer #butch #femme #fem #masc #lesbian #sapphic #bisexual #pansexual #bisexual sapphic #wlw #nblw #nblnb #wlnb #stolen from an anti men blog #lawful butch #neutral butch #chaotic butch #chaotic androgynous #lawful androgynous #neutral androgynous #chaotic femme #lawful femme #neutral femme

[jetsi]

Most fucked up chocolate i have ever seen

[rainymoodlet]

this is the police- the sim is too hot, i repeat- (arizona sutton, she/they)

#ts4 #ts4 screenshots #ts4 horse ranch #ts4 cas #alt title: reddit help - i think i accidentally made my dream butch partner in the sims???? #i LOVE... big arms #sim: arizona #;cinextras #my cinnamon girl~ #(gender neutral fdhdj) #kmik is still here to stay i'm just having a wee creative break before editing on wednesday~ #arizona lived in belladonna cove for years working as a shop mechanic before moving to chestnut ridge #they were actually going to be my gameplay sim until this... literal very moment #bc i thought up a boyfriend for don and not this absolute heart-stealer #minorly bc i can't pair another hot ass genderless sim with an OLD MAN djfhs #my self-insertdom regardless fdhjf #i love u all i give Big Smorch #so now they are TOWNIE BESTIE YAYYY

[antidotefortheawkward-art]

妖族七大圣 Seven Great Sages of Yao Kind

[ID: A character line-up of the Seven Great Sages, left-to-right by seniority status and accompanied by their king title in seal script. They are all dressed in varying levels of armor in an overall red-orange-yellow color palette. Bull Demon King has one hand on his hip and the other hand holding half of a skull with two fingers up like a wine bowl. Jiao Demon King has one hand on his hip with the other on the hilt of his sword. Peng Demon King is standing, wings not folded but not outstretched, with his hands in mudra positions. Lion-Camel King is smiling with his eyes closed, one paw hooked onto his belt and the other resting within his off-the-shoulder outer shirt. Macaque King is standing with hook swords in each of his hands. Golden Snub-nosed King is leaning against a wolf's teeth staff. Sun Wukong is standing, arm slightly up and head tilted down, his staff held behind him. End ID]

#my art #journey to the west #jttw #xiyouji #sun wukong #monkey king #character design #hanfu #visual development #bull demon king #jiao demon king #peng demon king #lion-camel king #macaque king #golden snub-nosed king #JUST FYI my jiao demon king macaque king and golden snub-nosed king are all girls #king was a gender neutral title and ancient chinese used the same pronoun for everyone (他 or 佢 depending on region) #using he/him for them in english because that gn pronoun is now translated as he/him and also They Are Butch Icons #ourgh i was gonna post this alongside Erlang Shen's Seven Sages too but alas his is not getting done anytime soon #but it will come eventually #also i knoWWW they did seniority by how physically big they were isnt of their actual senioritiy #but you cant give me a dragon and expect me to not make them tall and lanky #so im gonna say their humanoid forms are not reflective and that Bull Demon's bull form is bigger than Jiao Demon's dragon form

[yuribeam]

I need to see some transition timelines from fat transmascs / nonbinary folks / others on low dose testosterone aiming for androgyny

#help me beat the internalized gendered fatphobia back with a stick pretty please #ok to rb #trans #transgender #nonbinary #ftm #transmasc #transmasculine #microdosing #transition #transition timeline #transition goals #low t #low testosterone #androgynous #androgyne #neutrois #gender neutral #genderqueer #butch #butches on t #testosterone #hrt #hormone replacement therapy #my posts

[count-nicula]

genuinely hate whoever came up w the lie that being hairy disqualifies you from being femme

#like girl... so many ppl seem to think the only way to be a femme guy is to be a hairless twink and a fat hairy woman is automatically butch #like have u never met a masc boyish twink or a hairy queen #have u never met a hairy femme or a butch who prefers to shave or manscape whatever term they prefer #shut up and slap some chest hair on that badboy (gender neutral) #masculinity and femininity and androgyny are all great and not determined by hair level so to shave or not to shave is a whole new question

[uncanny-tranny]

I think the thing that really has curbed my fear of aging is being around older folk and feeling nothing but this... awe, and this sense of feeling so Inexperienced compared to them (and not because they're belittling or infantilizing me, but because they have so much life they have lived).

It really helped me to realize that when I am their age, there will be a fresh-faced adult who looks at me the way I look at my elders. It really assures me to know that there is a possibility I will be that immortal, too.

#positivity #pro aging #'anti-aging' is propaganda btw and aging is neutral at worst #yes i'm still thinking about the butch from earlier today #man. i feel so much affinity toward butches but it always feels weird to express

[lastoneout]

god I wish I could look more masc without cutting all my hair off

#I want to look like......idk #more gender neutral than I do rn #but I look so feminine it's impossible to fucking escape #and I don't want to not be a girl #I want to be idk butch-ish I guess #I want to straddle the line #but I am just so round and cute and I have hips for days #I have to try really hard to not look like a girl #and eventually that just becomes uncomfortable #like I do dress a lot like the trans guys I know and I still just #I look like a girl #idk man

[teethingpuppywritings]

you get home and hear me whining your name. you can tell I'm humping something with my clothes on because you can hear my carabiner clinking rhythmically. I'm such a dumb little butch puppy I couldn't wait to take my jeans off... or for you to come back

#butch puppy #butch sub #puppy #puppy sub #t4t nsft #ftm nsft #ftm sub #t4t ns/fw #trans nsft #gender neutral dom #trans masc nsft #teethingpuppywritings

[sunkern-plus]

not enbian as in "nonbinary as a singular third gender who presents androgynously/neutrally who desires other nonbinary people who do the same", but enbian as in "nonbinary person with a weird outherine xenine gender who loves the whole spectrum of nonbinary people"

#nblnb #nln #enbian #basically: all variations of nonbinary people are open to me (as long as youre 23+ years of age) #no matter if youre a gender hoarder with trillions and trillions of obscure genders you believe only you use #or if youre the stereotypical neutrois person with a stereotypically gender neutral presentatiom #or if youre a maverique pandrogyne with a deliberately fucky presentation #or if youre genderfuck/other political genders like anarchogender and display your nonbinariness through punk fashion and body mods #or if youre a nonbinary trans woman who feels alienated by the transfem community because youre butch or dont desire a slim feminine look #or if youre a nonbinary trans man and feel alienated from the trans man community because you want to look like a fat drag queen #basically: all nonbinary people all over this spectrum are. ahem. dating material to me #and thats not even the extent of all the kinds of nonbinary people im into bc nonbinary is a diverse experience

[girlboyburger]

Its-using animals club!

Alas i feel your pain, especially when someone's go-to response is "isn't using it/its dehumanizing?"

right. like. it doesn't matter if you think it's dehumanizing. it's what i want to be called, and like my name, you'll call me by it / its or we will not be having further conversation.

to me, personally, that's like. kind of a huge part of the appeal? full respect to those living in the "it can be a moment, it can be the mountains or the sunset" because, me too! but also a massive appeal to it / its is i can easily sum my gender up as some kinda boygirlthing. it/its he/she. like an animal you don't know the gender of.

#i know i already rambled about it in the tags of the of post so i wont ramble too much more but #my realtionship with my gender is funky and has been a very very very VERY long road #but at the end of that road ive realized that. labels (for me) are overrated. theyve always kinda mean what they mean to the person using #them. and give a vauge understanding of what they mean to the person hearing those labels #like. i don't consider myself nonbinary. i *AM* binary to some degree #i also wouldnt consider myself trans fem or trans masc. i'm trans. i'm pretty often seen as both or either. so ah. if the shoe fits. #i'm wearing them with ripped shorts and a collar #not to mention leaning fem or masc or neutral for me is tied heavily to my relationship with others. #if i'm with a girl i fancy myself more of a butch and if i'm with a guy i fancy myself more of a bear (✨) #<- (that's a special lil fem twist. imagine i flipped my hair or smthn) #but. that's a whole other can of worms and i've already lied and started rambling in the tags #i love you queer. if no label got my back i know queer got my back. #ask #cryptidchiroptera

[opossum-dyke]

Sewing feels subversive and queer to me but I don't quite have the words to articulate why

#trans #genderqueer #nonbinary #queer #subversive #trans masc #genderqueer dyke #genderqueer butch #genderqueer lesbian #all hobbies should be gender-neutral and everyone should subvert that expectation :) #Aqueertalksqueerly

[toastsnaffler]

in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns- #that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭 #to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space #like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use- #to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol) #to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum- #or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else #other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh #to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn #i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding #and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt #unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world... #its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow #and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while.. #anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation #abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol #and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever #and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress #i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters..... #altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes #like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up #a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl #ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs #im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌 #another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo #.diaries #zzzzz

[dumbdomb]

Read my pinned post before you interact: like, reblog, reply, dm, ask, or follow. Must be over eighteen years of age to interact. 18+ only.

i keep thinking about forcemasc tboy or dyke altar servers. like joking around before setting up for mass. stealing so many tender glances at each other while working together. going through the motions until their hand brushes against yours. feeling so bored on a slow day and getting so much energy from their presence that you just want to hurry and clean up so you can hang out. spending every week looking forward to being around them again... but the more time you spend together, the more you begin to notice changes. the small boost in confidence, not remembering the last time you wore foundation or a push-up bra, trying new cologne just bc they said it'd smell good on you, feeling way more comfortable with them than anyone else... they just seem to get it, like they understand you in a way no one else has even tried. they're always encouraging you to relax and go after whatever goals you confess you've been thinking about. they're actually a really positive and healthy influence in your life, and they make you feel grounded, safe, and secure. it's weird how closely you've bonded together over the past... (wow, has it been that long already?!)... reflecting on your life when you first met until now, you realize how much of an impact they've had in who you're becoming. you're looking forward to every new day... and having to wear a dress for the last holiday mass didn't feel like part of your future. it feels like who you were - and not who are now. you find yourself wanting more advice from them, to dress like them, to be more like them in every way. they seem really proud to know you're interested in what they have to share with you, like their eyes light up every time you ask them about things most of your friends or family don't care for. showing them some stupid fashion trend your favourite actor's wearing has them asking questions, showing interest in whatever means something to you. no one else does that! but they're right there to suggest you try it next week, and they'll even bring something for you to wear so you won't have to buy anything new.

Read my pinned before you interact! 18+ only.

#the friend thing #forcemasc #force masc #autoandrophilia #transmasc nsft #mlm nsft #dyke nsft #intersex nsft #gender neutral nsft #gay nsft #bi nsft #sapphic nsft #butch nsft #blasphemy kink #queer nsft #domb brain

[aroaessidhe]

2023 reads / storygraph

Moonlight Love and Witchcraft

urban fantasy slice of life

romance between a vampire musician, their werewolf bartender girlfriend, and a young witch who shows up in town with her sister while on the run from their witch community

very little plot, she/they nonbinary MC, ace MC, bi MC

#Moonlight Love and Witchcraft #aroaessidhe 2023 reads #Well. first up this is so fucking long. #I was mostly enjoying it but by the second half my patience was wearing thin. #Like it very much says on the tin that this is 0 plot just cute romance but it’s so repetitive? #There’s a few interesting background plot threads at times but it basically just turns into cuddling and going on dates and cuddling a… #LOVE a 200yo beefy butch ace werewolf swordswoman who’s a big softie. #Logan I’m mostly neutral about they’re interesting enough up until the point she starts getting interested in Nemo….. #who. she’s 24 but reads more like a 15yo than the actual 15yo lmao. #I feel like there is a way to write a bubbly hyper character without them being so insufferably juvenile? tried my hardest but yeah nah #I simply just do not buy either of the others having romantic feelings about her lmao. and considering that's 90% of the plot.... #anyway I have a few more paragraphs of thoughts that are at the storygraph link above #I did only read this because it had an ace character & kinda expected it was gonna be something like this. glad the ace character was the #only character I liked I guess #sapphic books #asexual books

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Butch MTN Pride Flag

Butch: slang for unfeminine and gender-nonconforming masc individuals within the queer and LGBTQIAPN+ communities.

MTN/MTX/MTNB or M2N/M2X/M2NB: transitioning or moving from male to neutrois/neutral/non-binary/neither male or female or X-sex.

#nonbinary #butch #mtn #mtnb #mtx #m2x #m2n #transneutral #transneu #lgbtqiapn+ #queer #trans #neutrois #gender neutral #x-sex #unfeminine #unfem #defem #defeminine #neu #genders #neogender #mod ap #mogai flags #pride #m2b