#mlm trans

[gay-otlc]

A take I've noticed among some (not all, not even most, just some) mlm transmascs is the idea that straight transmascs have privilege over them. They acknowledge straight transmascs don't have it easy since we still face transandrophobia, but believe trans + gay is automatically more oppressed than trans + straight.

It might seem like straight transmascs have straight privilege, but we really don't. For one thing, transphobes don't see us as straight. They see us as lesbians. Straight privilege is meaningless if we're not recognized as straight, you know?

For another thing, even if we are seen as straight in spaces where trans people are recognized as their gender, that's not always a privilege. Being straight and queer in queer spaces can be incredibly alienating (an experience we have in common with heteroromantic aces & heterosexual aros).

Also, in these kinds of spaces, the main thing I've experienced as a straight trans man has been the way other queer people will treat me like I'm dangerous to them because I'm a straight man, or like I've betrayed the community by joining the oppressor. Similar to the men-are-evil rhetoric that trans men of all sexualities face, but with a bonus anti-transhet twist. It's not that all men are evil, it's that straight men are evil.

So it might seem like mlm transmascs have the privilege of not being targeted by their fellow queers who think straight men are evil, but that's not a privilege. If this antimasculist rhetoric is only targeting straight men, this is because they (however subconsciously) see gay men as less male than straight men. This is a common component of homophobia against cis men as well. And although this often causes other queer people to see mlm transmascs as less of a threat than straight transmascs, it comes at the expense of being denied access to manhood, a painful experience for many transmascs.

The point I'm trying to make with all these words is that transandrophobia will affect transmascs differently depending on their sexuality, but we all experience transandrophobia and neither of us are really privileged over the other. We should avoid invalidating the other group's oppression, which some members of both groups are guilty of.

#god i spent like an hour trying to word this right #talking about transandrophobia is like walking on fucking eggshells i tell you #transandrophobia #transhet #mlm trans

[pansyboybloom]

shout out to every gay man whose orientation is closely tied to their gender and whose gender is closely tied to their orientation. your relationship with your masculinity and your gayness is as beautiful as it is unique

#mlm #gay #lgbt #lgbtq #queer #trans #trans male #mlm trans #trans mlm #t4t mlm #mlm t4t

[the-one-eyed-seer]

Trans men with long hair my beloved ❤️

#ftm #trans man #trans positivity #ftm mlm #mlm trans #having long hair as a trans man is scary but I love it #I am also gay for men with long hair

[nerdy-mlm]

fantasizing about cannibalism isn't enough, i need someone to rip me open and call me a prettu boy

#mlm #mlm thoughts #nblm #mlnb #yearning #soft thoughts #t4t mlm #gay #mlm positivity #mlm yearning #trans mlm #mlm trans #cannibalism #romantic cannibalism

[count-horror-xx]

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMNNNNNNN

Who said this man Could be so fine

#id let him ***** me while we **** ***** then ******** as we ******** ****** while calling me ****** ***** ******** #the lost boys 1987 #the lost boys #dwayne the lost boys #dwayne tlb #tlb 1987 #gay panic #gay male #gay #gay punk #mlm thoughts #mlm post #mlm trans #mlm #trans mlm #im so fucking gay #gay thoughts

[justaqueersthoughts]

I need a boy to sing "good old-fashioned lover boy" and over time watch it get progressively harder to hit the high notes because of T. Voice cracks, lower voices, messy singing, yet we're having the time of our lives.

#t4t #mlm #t4t yearning #mlm yearning #trans mlm #transmasc #mlm t4t #mlm trans #mlm things #mlm thoughts #mlm and nblm only #ftm t4t #t4t sfw

[milocelium]

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Update: surgery is only a few days away, any extra money to help out with food and travel expenses is greatly appreciated! Check my page for commission info as well !

#milos art tag #trans #transgender #trans man #trans male #trans ftm #ftm #ftm surgery #transmasc #transmasculine #trans mlm #mlm trans #trans help #trans fund #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer resources #trans resources #queer artist #trans donations

[mlmcore]

My weakness combo is when a pretty boy maintains eye contact with me and starts smiling softly. That will instantly get me overly flustered to the point where I will break eye contact because of how much I'm blushing

#mlm thoughts #t4t mlm #mlm #nblm thoughts #mlm yearning #nblm yearning #ftm mlm #mlm love #mlm sfw #mlm positivity #trans mlm #mlm things #mlm textpost #mlm pining #mlm longing #mlm blog #mlm trans #nblm post #nblm love #nblm textpost #nblm #nblm longing #t4t nblm #nblm things #nblm blog #nblm concept #nblm positivity #queer #gay #nb

[offdutyhimbo]

Hello to all the little gay people in my phone

OF // Wishlist // help fund my wheelchair

#mine #me #trans #transgender #trans masc #trans guy #trans men #ftm trans #trans nsft #non binary #non binary finery #nonbinary #gay #mlm #mlm trans

[sarcastic-salem]

I really wish more people talked about the problems that effect bisexual men. Like it pisses me off so much that people are angry because Loki Odinson had a thing for Sylvie after coming out as bi.

A bisexual man being in a relationship with a woman does not make them less bisexual. It does not invalidate his bisexuality. It does not make him straight.

It doesn’t make Loki’s coming out performative — it means that in this arc the bisexual character Loki happens to like a woman.

And he’s still bisexual.

If you can’t grasp that then you’re either biphobic or fetishizing mlm relationships, hate to tell ya🤷🏻

#lgbt #lgbt community #queer community #mlm #bisexual #bisexual men #nblm #mlm trans #pansexual #bi men #bi men exist #loki #marvel loki #loki odinson #loki laufeyson #marvel mcu #marvel comics #mcu #marvel cinematic universe #marvel disney+ #thor movies #loki show #loki series #loki tv #loki disney+ #tom hiddleston #owen wilson #sylvie laufeyson #sylki #biphopia

[thatweirdguyinthebushes]

short i did for a workshop on queer identity

#writing #mlm #gay #mlm trans #f slur tw #poetry #short poetry #snippet #men loving men

[pansyboybloom]

i need everyone to think about guystrap as often as possible. i want you to be thinking of hot men and their straps 24/7. i need yall to be constantly thinking of trans men and their straps. this is vital to my existence. you want a man and his strap so bad

#nsft #trans nsft #mlm trans #ftm nsft

[catboylm]

I can’t believe how, no matter the amount of time passed with you in my life, I’m still thrilled to be yours <3

(BB)

#nblm yearning #gay mlm #gnc gay #mlnb yearning #trans mlm #bi mlm #gay nblm #soft nblm #nblm post #transmasc mlm #mlm trans #mlm textpost #bb

[sp4cedoutdog]

INTRO POST

~ MINORS, TERFS, HOMOPHOBES, TRANSPHOBES ECT DNI, AGELESS BIOS WILL BE BLOCKED ~

hiii im sam :33

im a slutty little pup

im a switch!! usually a sub though

pre-hrt, trans, he/they, t4t (typically), 20 years old, mlm

KINKS:

petplay, free use (receiving or giving), somno, forced orgasms, training, bondage, praise, degradation, overstim, edging, dumbification, humping, orgasm denial, knives, pussy eating, breeding

NO'S:

scat, diapers, vomit, raceplay, detrans, beastiality

#puppyheat #cnc k!nk #breeding k1nk #ftm nsft #ftm free use #ftm pet #ftm puppy #ftm bottom #t4t petpl@y #t4t sub #mlm nsft #mlm trans #mlm ns/fw #gay nsft

[count-horror-xx]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH Y'ALL ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

And since it's pride month I want to shout out to all my trans brothers, sisters, and siblings! I hope all:

Trans people of color (y'all are literally the most important part and the backbone of the entire queer community)

Aro/ace trans people (we're valid as fuck no matter what asshole says we're not part of the queer community we are)

Omnisexual trans people (even though you're extremely underrepresented in the community you're absolutely valid)

Autistic and Disabled trans people (our queerness is just as valid as abled bodied/neurotypical queer people)

Trans people who don't pass (don't pressure yourself to make yourself feel like you need to "pass" in order to be considered a "real" man/woman by cis people. You're exactly what you identified as)

Trans people in the closet (I hope you get to a point in your life where you're comfortable enough to be your most genuine and happiest self)

And all of the trans community I hope you have a great pride month. And if you're in a bad situation I hope you get out soon and i hope you stay safe, and get the support and acceptance you deserve.

Cis people please support your trans friends/partners/family and give them a safe space. And try to educate yourselves on trans people.

Also to the rest of the queer community happy pride month!!!

#trans #transgender #nonbinary #transmasc #transmasculine #transfem #transfemme #trans poc #trans women of color #trans man #trans male #trans women #trans female #autistic trans #aroace #transmasc lesbian #mlm trans #trans wlw #trans t4t #gay #mlm #trans masc #trans pride #trans rights #pride #queer pride #lgbt pride #pride month #lgbtq #gay pride

[milocelium]

i want a hug i want to lay on someone’s lap i want to rest my head on someone’s chest i want to play with your hair i want to hold your hand and caress your skin with my thumb i want our legs to get tangled together i want to feel your arm draped over me i want to fall asleep to your heartbeats

#i’m so fucking lonely and touch starved bro #i am in yearning mode 100 #mlm #trans #trans mlm #trans ftm #nblm #mlm text #mlm trans #trans boy