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gay-otlc · 6 hours
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maruciana bestie era.. 👀
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gay-otlc · 8 hours
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Why does it seem that online so many transhets are trusucm or even radmeds?
I don't know why it seems that way to you, because I have yet to find any actual evidence that transhets are more likely to be be truscum than any other kind of trans person!
The KFF/Washington Post Trans Survey found that out of 515 trans people, 29% did not consider their sexual orientation to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, or queer. It's possible that asexual/aromantic people who don't consider their orientation to be queer are included in this number, but in my experience most aspec people I know would consider themselves to be queer, so it's a rough estimate of the proportion of straight trans people.
I haven't found any official studies on sexuality demographics for truscum in particular, but I found a few informal polls conducted on r/truscum that we're going to work with for now.
One poll of 976 people had 240 people who identified as either straight men or straight women, which is 24.6%. The poll didn't differentiate between cishet and transhet, but as r/truscum is a majority trans subreddit, this proportion is likely pretty representative of the trans truscum on that subreddit. (If anything, the proportion is possibly lower, since trans people are significantly less likely to be straight than cis people.)
Another poll of 582 people had 165 people who identified as FTM straight or MTF straight, which is 28.4%.
Finally, someone took a demographics survey of r/truscum users that had 352 responses, and reported that 14.5% of users were heterosexual (so about 51 users).
I haven't bothered to test for any sort of statistical significance and I'm not sure reddit polls are reliable enough for that, but the data does seem to indicate that transhets are more likely than the general trans population to be truscum, considering every estimate for the proportion of transhets on r/truscum has been lower than the proportion of transhets in general.
I'm not sure why your preconceived notions of transhets doesn't match up with the data, but it might be worth reconsidering the way you perceive us.
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gay-otlc · 8 hours
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a few years ago at (catholic) school I overheard someone say “jesus!” out of frustration, probably about homework. to which the teacher in the room at the time said “don’t bring him into this” which is simultaneously the most and least catholic response to that I can imagine. I think about that at least once a week.
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gay-otlc · 9 hours
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FROG SAMEACH
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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Obsessed with lovers and piners calling the object of their affections their best friend. Like yessss blur the lines between platonic and romantic love. show how important they are to you in a multifaceted way. Cover up your feelings with another kind of love that is just as true. One type of love does not negate the other and but tragedy can rip both out from under you single handedly, and it will hurt so much more that way. Losing a friend and a lover. Gaining both and not needing any labels for what they are. Using labels but having it be so much more than a title. Were they friends before they were lovers? Or were they lovers whose friendship grew inside of their love? Unclear! Who cares!
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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ok i need to talk abt this moment bc it like got me chocked up thinking abt it
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this is a moment in book 1 where tiergan takes sophie out to the humans, having a little heart to heart and sophie doesnt know tiergan is involved with the black swan yet
and she asks him if the black swan are the bad guys
now, i want you to think about tiergan in this moment for a second. he is part of the collective, he knows whats at stake here, not just for the world but for him and his family. his best friend, the father of his son sacrificed everything for sophie and he knows that if they arent able to get her on their side that he will be gone forever. if they cant get her to not only belive that the black swan is good, but to want to help there is no way to heal prentice, no way to bring his family back together, if sophie decides that she doesnt want to help them he will never see him again, wylie will never see his father again.
and with all that it would be so easy for him to try and convince her on the goodness of the organisation, in fact for all the people undercover around her to try and feed her the black swans ideology, but they dont. he doesnt. despite everything that they have risked and everything they could lose he doesnt. he lets her decide and i dont know why this hit so hard for me for some reason bc like yeah i know they always say she has and always has had a choice, and its kinda difficult to trust that with all the things that have happened but yea, she does have a choice. in every moment that mattered she had a choice.
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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straight trans guys & aro trans guys solidarity. weird that my whole life I've been expected to be into dudes and now that I'm a guy the lgbts also want me to be into dudes or else they don't really think of me as one of them
and while I'm not attracted to anybody and straight trans dudes are attracted to women, i feel like we're in the same boat here. too queer for the straights and too straight for the queers
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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My contribution to the Passover shitposting
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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i love tcock and strap as much as the next tranny but y'all gotta be more comfortable w people having bottom dysphoria and wanting bottom surgery. including phallo. like why can't we have the same excitement we have for top surgery? why is it that whenever someone talks about wanting a cock there's this pressure to come to Any Conclusion other than phallo. & being genderqueer it especially sucks because it makes phallo seem like smth that's only done by super cis passing binary guys (esp het guys). sorry maybe i don't want to suffer in my dysphoria for no reason! maybe having a phallo cock can be silly and fun and desirable. if a trans person says they want a dick and your first response is "oh but you can just use a strap–" maybe stop. and ask why you have mentally decided that getting a penis is functionally impossible.
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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call me moses. um. call her. um wait. call me moses the way her bush speaks to me
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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Due to the Assyrian-Greeks’ attempt to destroy the menorah, they caused millions of menorahs to be lit around the world each year from now on instead.
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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Every year I remember that passover + vaguely disordered eating is a bad fucking combination
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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People really need to start getting their transmasc centred activism from transmascs, instead of going, “okay I’ve learned about transfem experiences, so obviously I know about transmasc experiences; they’re just the opposite!”
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gay-otlc · 2 days
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princess prettypants
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gay-otlc · 3 days
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If cats knew what sin was they wouldn’t even care
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gay-otlc · 3 days
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Aromantic awareness week!!!!
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