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transmascpetewentz · 4 months

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Defining Some Terms

Because I get asked a lot of questions that have to do with people misunderstanding my words, I felt like I should make a post that defines some commonly used words on this blog. I won't be copy-pasting any of these from Google, I will be using my own words because I am the one using them on my personal platform.

Please keep in mind that because I am a random person on Tumblr, I do not have the best grasp on academic language, and it isn't my intention to use this language as if I was doing it in an academic context. Also, this list is in alphabetical order. I will add more terms to the list as needed.

Intersectionality: Intersectionality is the main guiding principle in all of my activism. This is the idea that society places people in positions where they can be privileged, oppressed, and/or exempted from certain types of oppression in a variety of contexts. That includes people who may appear to be privileged (for example, men) having that privilege contribute to their oppression (such as gay men, trans men, and men of color). The idea that maleness is a coherent factor in oppression that does more than just exempt one from misogyny is not implying in any way that all men as a class are oppressed by all or most women as a class.

Neo-radfeminism: Short for neo-radical feminism, also known by some as "trans inclusionary radical feminism." Essentially, neo-radfeminism is the brand of "intersectional feminism" which reinforces colonialist cisheteropatriarchal ideas of gender essentialism, particularly a very clear (nonexistent) line between the categories of male and female. Like all other radfeminism, this ideology abandons marginalized men in favor of female/lesbian separatist spaces. This ideology hurts queer men, men of color, and nonbinary people, among other groups.

Transandrophobia: I have used multiple different definitions for this word, and I will admit that I am not consistent with it, but all of my use cases fall under the umbrella of the specific type of oppression that trans men face due to our trans maleness. This does not imply in any way that trans women as a class oppress the class of trans men, despite what people strawmanning may have led you to think. Trans men face several specific kinds of transphobia, misogyny, and patriarchy that intersect to create a spectrum of experiences of trans men that differ by race, background, sexuality, etc.

Transfeminism: The branch of intersectional feminism that focuses specifically on the intersection of trans liberation and women's liberation. Unlike a lot of others, my transfeminism does not focus solely on trans women, but also trans men, nonbinary people, and intersex people who are oppressed by misogyny and benefit from having their voices included in feminist discourse. In particular, I reject neo-radfeminist takes on transfeminism and wish to move my advocacy into focusing on experiences that are often ignored or erased by a lot of the mainstream transfeminist movement.

#wentz.txt #housekeeping #long post

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losergendered · 9 months

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!! NOT A REQUEST !!

I saw you're a total drama fan,, do you have any headcanons? I like seeing other folks headcanons ^__^ /nf

oh you KNOW I DO BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im probably gonna make a followup post like. actually making the icons but. yes here they are (its just the gen 1 cast cause. theyre the best. and also i havent seen roti or pahkitew or the reboot)

Ezekiel is a genderqueer transmasc bisexual and uses he/they!

Sadie is a biaesthetic lesbian, Katie is a transfem omni lesbian, and they're dating!

Eva is an acespec demiplatonic unlabeled sapphic! She's also Sephardic!(one of my fave random hcs is that all of team escope is jewish but from different disporas :D)

Noah is a Mizrahi gnc gay guy! (ik that sometimes people consider mizrahi to be a subterm of sephardic but im making the distinction lol)

Izzy is an Ashkenazi genderfucked abrosexual aroace demihuman xenogirl who uses any pronouns!

Justin is a flamboric cupiospec arospec gay guy!

Beth is a nonbinary weirdgirlpunk bi lesbian who uses they/she!

Owen is. well i'll be so real with you i dont really care about him (IM SORRY OWEN FANS. I JUST DIDNT LIKE HIS JOKES VERY MUCH. his friendship w noah was cute tho) but like. literally i interpret him as canonically bisexual. like he was literally so in love with justin like that wasnt even subtext that just. was a fact

Geoff i also lowkey dont care about (SORRY) but i also find him bisexual. hes so in love with bridgette and hes so in love with brody. two hands <3

Bridgette doesn't label her sexuality, but has had feelings for multiple genders before!

DJ is questioning his sexuality, but thinks that he's somewhere on the aroace spectrum! He also considers himself a cisgender demiboy!

Leshawna is a bipan girl, and her girlboyfriend, Harold, is a bigender transfem genderqueer genderfluid bisexual boygirl!

Lindsay is a bi straight lesbian, and her partner, Tyler, is a cusper straight lesbian transfem boy who switches between identifying as a cishet man and a trans butch lesbian and uses he/she pronouns! (also this is because i like both headcanons for her lmao)

Trent is an ace bisexual with an aesthetic lean towards girls and a romantic lean towards boys! He leans more towards the cis man side of the gender spectrum, but likes to get a little funky with it u know. like he listens to arctic monkeys. u know.

Gwen is a bi lesbian/shadowlesbian trans girl who defaults to she/her, but doesn't mind neopronouns! Also gwourtney is real to me

Cody is a bisexual trans guy!

Sierra is an intersex trisfem paradoxibinary arospec bordersexual first-quarter/third-quarter neaptide mspec lesbian who prefers she/her, but also likes they/them and neos!

Duncan is a bisexual guy with a preference for girls! also i am still a duncney believer. who else still part of duncney nation in 2023.

Blaineley is an aphrodite bi lesbian and shes dating ME SHES DATING ME SHES MY WIFE ILY MS STACEY ANDREWS OHALLORAN. i actually made a whole oc to ship her with lmao. i guess i can include that um shes dating jules who's a lesbian and is my oc <3

Heather is a bisexual girl with a preference for girls and she's dating Alejandro, who is also bisexual! their romance was cute argue with the wall

Courtney is a bisexual girl and she's also a cit <3

Chris and Chef are both gay men and are married! gay wrongs

uhh random other hcs i have for non gen 1 chcs are bi trans girl kitty, bi straight emma, uh that little swagless kid from rr who competed with his dad uh hes a trans boy, jo is a butch bisexual girlboy & is dating brick, a gnc bisexual man, scott is bisexual and dating courtney, sam is a nonbinary bigender transfem straight lesbian who uses all pronouns & is dating dakota who is a bi trans girl, um that one dude who had the name reveal is ofc trans, svetlana is a transgender bi lesbian, vito is hypersexual and bi, uh my hcs for mal are. long so keep an eye out for a mogai-headcanons post in a few months, shawn (?? is that his name) is a transhet guy and is dating jasmine (??? i do not know these chcs at ALL) who is bisexual.

#my personal faves are noah alejandro heather courtney blaineley cody sierra harold and lindsay!!#bro this just devolved into me dropping my td opinions. lmao.#long post #oh also unlisted relationships i enjoy are alenoah aletyler trody beth/lindsay and bridgette/courtney!! and probably more #enjoy those random non gen 1 hcs i have never actually watched any of their seasons <3 #any total trauma readers in the audience tonight? i was on my period and about to move out and i was rereading it #and heathers part made me ugly cry. anyway #thank you anon i LOVE YOU i love yousomuch. i am so so so so deep into the td hyperfixation right now #andis headcanons #save #<- so i can come back and make the edits #asks

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elysianstarl1ght · 1 year

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IN HONOR OF PRIDE MONTH... TF2 QUEER HCS!

OKAY some of these are unpopular..... dont yell at me pls... this is just personal stuff and i respect all other lgbtqia hcs!! ... OTHER THAN THE WEIRD ONES THAT I DONT THINK I NEED TO SPECIFY

(white ones are across both teams, red is for RED specific, blue is for BLU specific)

DEFENSE

HEAVY : bigender, gay, he/she (no pref) (debating transfem RED heavy)

DEMO : nonbinary transmasc, omniromantic, polyamorous, they/he (preferably used interchangably) (in a relationship with solly and engie)

ENGIE : nonbinary transmasc, bisexual polyamorous, they/he (they/them pref, doesnt mind he/him occasionally) (in a relationship with solly and demo)

OFFENSE

SOLLY : transfem woman, lesbian (or pansexual, haven't decided) polyamorous, she/her (doesn't mind he/him) transmasc man, aroace gay, he/it (he/him pref)

PYRO : intersex transmasc, pansexual, he/they/it (no pref + doesn't mind she/her) intersex transfem, panromantic she/they/it (pref she/it + doesn't mind he/him)

SCOUT : transmasc (questioning demiboy or transman), asexual biromantic, he/they (pref changes) (debating transfem BLU scout)

SUPPORT

SNIPER : transmasc man, achillean, he/him

SPY : genderfluid bisexual (fem lean), he/she (pref changes) transmasc biromantic (not ace just prefers biromantic) (male lean) he/they (no pref)

MEDIC : demiboy, gay, he/xe/it (no pref [gets rlly excited when people use its neos though])

OTHER

MS. PAULING : transfem, sapphic lesbian, she/they/fae (she/her pref. never brought up using fae/faers to the mercs, only admin knows)

SOME MORE HCS BELOW THE LINE IF YOURE INTERESTED!

medic doesnt use the gay or demiboy flag, he just uses the rainbow flag.

if anyone that isn't his team asks his sexuality/gender he just says he's "unlabeled" and tells them he uses he/it.

soldier, zhanna, demo, and engie are in a polyam relationship. demo, engie and solly are dating eachother whereas zhanna is only dating solly.

i still dont have zhanna pride hcs im sorry... i havent read the comics yet.. i will when i read them i promise

solly put off coming out as transfem to zhanna for ages but when she finally did zhanna was SO accepting... adjusted so fast to her new pronouns

solly literally had no idea being trans was an option. and it made so much sense when she found out. scout mentioned to the team he's transmasc as like an off comment and solly was just like "THATS AN OPTION?" /pos

scout and pauling are childhood friends and they make jokes about switching genders

when scout finally got the courage to actually tell pauling he had feelings for her she was like... "scout... Scout im a lesbian" 'wAIT YOU ARE? oh im so sorry i didn't know, i hope i didn't make you uncom-' "YOU DIDNT KNOW? i had so many crushes on girls how did you not know???"

scout stayed up at night trying to figure out his gender + sexuality FOR YEARS. (he still doesnt have it figured out.)

anyway ive got more but im tired so ill just reblog with more stuff later... anyway HAPPY PRIDE MONTH <3

#team fortress 2 #tf2 sniper #tf2 scout #tf2 ms pauling #tf2 spy #tf2 medic #tf2 pyro #tf2 demoman #tf2 soldier #happy pride 🌈

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mourningmogaicrew · 2 years

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hi!!! I saw u mention agabpunk before? is there anymore info u have to elaborate on it? would it include being an agab but choosing to identify as a different agab (not just gender but AGAB bc u reject the one u had) or wanting to not have an agab or have it revealed to people? Honestly interests me so much I have a lot of feelings on it and would love to see more terms related to these concepts .. bc I want to id as a different agab and also agables and don’t want people to know or assume mine at all

OHnim sorry for asking I didn’t realize asks were closed I wasn’t trying to request anything btw

Even though coining requests are closed it's still okay to request information about something!

AGABpunk is a label I made up a couple months ago to match other labels like dyspunk or amatopunk. Basically going against social norms and radically accepting things.

It was just one word idea I came up with (along with AGABqueer, AntiGAB, AGABf*ck, etc) to describe people who reject being defined by something they were labeled as decades ago.

I've had a couple people say neoassignments/AGAB-rejecting terms could fit under AGAB non-conforming, and that's true! But I wanted a more specific term to describe the movement in general. The original ask (here) was less "I don't conform to the AMAB/AFAB binary" and more "I am intentionally going against that binary, I don't like the normalization of that binary, etc".

It's kind of like the difference between gender non-conforming and terms like genderpunk, genderf*ck, or gender piracy. They're much more active (loud? rebellious? queer, even? I don't know a good word for it).

People have been playing around with this concept for a very long time, with jokes and sayings like: "I was assigned trans at birth" "not amab or afab but a secret, new third thing" (slur warning ->) "I'm actually afag" "not amab/afab, I'm aPerson" "I wasn't amab or afab, I was a baby". I have heard all of those and more and figured that making neo terms was just the next level of that.

And here are some terms that you may be interested in anon:

-AGABless: not identifying with an AGAB.

-A?AB: viewing your AGAB as irrelevant, or not wanting to tell it to others.

-SAGAB: self-assigning your sex/gender.

-AXEAB: assigned xenogender at birth. The link goes to the archived assigned kenochoric at birth (AKAB) coining but if you scroll down you'll see AXEAB too.

Plus some terms I've made up:

-A_AB: assigned nothing at birth. When you think that you weren't really assigned a gender/sex at birth, you were just a baby that the doctor looked at and wrote things down for. After all, things like recorded weight (and name, if you're trans) also become practically irrelevant as you develop into a person.

-A[]AB (or A⬛︎AB): AGAB-redacted. Refusing to tell people who don't need to know your AGAB, and feeling like it's an invasive question. This especially goes for nonbinary people who are constantly being asked "but which one were you born as?".

-ÆAB: assigned gender/neogender/xenogender at birth. For anyone with a weird gender, or multiple of them, who wants to say that they've always been that gender in a nontraditional way. Kind of like MtM/FtF for binary trans people. The name has the "e" from gender and I combined it with the A. AAAB and AKAB can potentially fall under this.

-AGABvoid: kind of like AGABless and inspired by gendervoid. Why won't you tell people your AGAB? Why don't you have a connection to it? Because it's missing, that's why! You've somehow lost it. (This was written in a very joke-y way but feel free to actually use this term)

It could also be possible I guess to identify with multiple, conflicting, or all AGABs (panAGAB???). For example I know some intersex people will call themself both AMAB and AFAB but perisex people can also do that.

#kind of a long post. oops #mourn says stuff #ask #agabpunk #agab non conforming #assigned nothing at birth #agab redacted #agabvoid #agabless #a?ab #aeab #æab #neoassignment #assigned xenogender at birth #assigned neogender at birth #assigned kenochoric at birth #mogai #mogai coining #f slur tw

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the-crystalized-cosmos · 3 months

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Welcome to The Crystalized Cosmos

[PT: Welcome to The Crystalized Cosmos /end PT]

This is a place for us to coin terms, share our wordmojis, as well as just kinda do our own thing. Everything will be tagged, so if you don't want to see one of those, feel free to block that tag. Most of the terms we use are easily found upon googling, but feel free to ask what something means! General Heads up that we are not consistent! We may post several things at once, then nothing for a week. Energy varies, we'll be back soon enough.

There's a lot more under the cut, including a general "About Us" section, BYF/DNI, how we handle various accessibility features, and a general overview of our tagging system. Fair Warning it is long, but sectioned to help against some of the visual overwhelmingness.

Pronouns and general info can be found on our pronouns.cc (link). All terms and flags are free to use by anyone. Anyone can make an alt flag/synonym for our term. Please just give us credit for the original coining.

[ID: A thin light red line. /End ID]

About Us

[PT: About us /End PT]

We're a system primarily made up of 2 side systems and a large sparsystem, and a second sparsystem. We're a mediple mixed origin specutien system, however specifics differ between sisasystems. Our overall host (and main blog keeper) is Zev, who has been frontstuck most of our life. Overall we're trans nonbinary genderfluid, aspec omni, and polyamorous, though obviously this differs by headmate. We're also intersex.

We are both neurodivergent and physically disabled in several ways. This includes Autism and ADHD, Multiple Personality Disorders, RSD, a Tic Disorder, Breathing Problems, and more. We are currently a nearly full time cane user (full time when not home, part time at home), and are a part time AAC user due to speech and typing ability loss episodes.

More info on individual blog keepers can be found at on our pronouns.cc (link), but it is a huge wip currently, so be warned.

[ID: A thin light yellow line. /End ID]

BYF: (Before You Follow)

[PT: BYF: (Before You Follow) /End PT]

Our "Before You Follow" list is a list of our identities/beliefs that may make you want to not interact with us, however we have no rules around any interactions revolving things on this list.

We are bodily a minor

We are not comfortable using Tulpa for our created headmates in any way, however do not care if someone else uses it.

There will probably be cussing on this page. It will be tagged, but you've been warned.

We reclaim slurs, a lot. We, collectively and as individuals, find them important to our identity. They will be tagged, but not TW or CW.

[ID: A thin light green line. /End ID]

DNI/DNF: (Do Not Interact/Do Not Follow)

[PT: DNI/DNF: (Do Not Interact/Do Not Follow) /End PT]

Anti Endos, Sysmeds

Anyone fine with sharing anti-endo rhetoric/post into spaces that are supposed to be safe spaces for endos. We're fine if you interact (comment, reblog, etc), but don't want you following. An exception is wikis and archive blogs. This rule is loose, and we are more lenient on it, but trust our personal moderation for us best.

Anti Mspec Monos (bi lesbian, omni turian, etc)

Anti Lesboys, Turigirls, etc

Don't believe being any form of Aspec or Intersex is inherently queer on its own.

Anti Xeno- or otherwise Neo- genders, Anti Neopronouns or other form of Pronoun Nonconformity (She/Her Gays, He/Him Nonbinary, etc)

Believe non-physical disabilities belong in cripple punk (I will not debate what counts as physically disabled. If you use the label physically disabled, you can be a part of cripple punk, if you do not, you are not a part of it).

Radqueer/TransID (TransID in the Radqueer way specifically, not from the communities they stole terms from)

Generally a bigot (Homophobic, Transphobic, Racist, Ableist, you get the point)

We reserve the right to block whoever we want for any reason we want (and do), and encourage you to do the same.

[ID: A thin light blue line. /End ID]

Accessibility

[PT: Accessibility /End PT]

Plain Text:

Plain text is text that a screen reader can read without breaking, and in Tumblr is needed for everything that is not regular text (like this), a list format, and indented text.

We add plain text in the following format you've seen throughout this post which is [PT: example /End PT]. We also make it indented for easier visual separation.

"Why do you bother using formats if you have to write plain text?"

We mostly use plain text for Header formats. This is because headers help us not get visually overwhelmed when reading our posts, and make it easier for us to read.

Image Descriptions:

An Image Description is a text describing what an image looks like. We will primarily do these for flags, emojis, and dividers as we don't plan to post any other pictures (but will describe all images we post).

Image Descriptions follow the format you've seen in this post, and look like the following [ID: example /End ID], and are indented for easy visual separation.

"Why don't you use alt text?"

We don't use alt text for a few reasons! 1: it commonly breaks on tumblr, while in-post IDs don't. 2: we actually find them inaccessible! While we don't need them for most posts, images with a lot of words are inaccessible to us, as we cannot highlight to keep track of words, and cannot read it otherwise. Alt text is not highlightable! So it is just as inaccessible to us as the image itself for us.

Dividers and Headers:

As mentioned, and as you have likely noticed, we use both dividers and headers a lot in our posts. While we understand this isn't the most accessible to screen readers, we tend to get very visually overwhelmed when looking at long posts without separation. Headers and Dividers make finding parts of a post fast, easy, and mean we can read back our own posts. But as stated we always transcribe these for screen readers, and keep it simple too avoid overwhelming everyone.

TQs:

This is a section we will add to, once we've decided how we plan to handle this.

However, some of us do have involuntary TQs, and it causes us the same pain to translate in the moment as it does trying to force a not scribal headmate to type. It doesn't work.

They are allowed to make posts here. This is not debatable. We are currently trying to figure out the best accessibility option on posts, that doesn't require completely erasing their TQs, as that is a part of them and deserves as much recognition as a member not being able to talk or type.

These posts will be tagged, and we understand sometimes access needs are incompatible. However, if you will be pissy about this, get out. We will not debate the validity of what you think members "can" do, or "should" do.

[ID: A thin light purple line. /End ID]

Tagging Format

[PT: Tagging Format /End PT]

This is not a comprehensive list of common tags on post, but just general guide to how we tag stuff.

Poster:

Each post will be signed by who posted it with a dash (-) after the hashtag and before the name (ex: #-Zev). If multiple folks post together, each name will be separate (ex: #-Scribs #-Adrian). You may also see roles if it's from just most or all of the folks who have that role (ex: #-NPD Holders).

Along with this, you may see #-Translator for some folks who cannot type on their own. We wont put who the translator was as to keep the focus on who created the post, whether they typed it or not.

We also tag reblogs as #-Reblog and add the member who reposted it (so if Zev reblogs something, you'll see both #-Reblog and #-Zev)

Accessibility Tags:

We tag posts as either #Has PT or #Needs PT if they have or need plain text respectively. Same with #Has ID or #Needs ID.

We will tag any posts we suspect of being eyestrain-y as #Eyestrain. This helps us immensely, and helps a lot of others too. However despite being heavily affected, we may miss something. If you find something eyestrain-y that we do not tag, please either send us an ask or message us! Preferably with the link.

We also plan to tag any posts with a non screen reader safe Typing Quirk as #TQ and #No PT.

We will not be posting any videos with jump scares or flashing lights, and therefore do not have tags for them.

Please let us know if we need to tag anything else for accessibility!

Slurs and Cussing:

We will not tag usage of slurs with a TW or CW. We will instead tag them as #Reclaimed Slur as well as the slur itself like #Cripple.

We do not tag individual cuss words, nor do we tag these as a TW or CW, but just tag them in general as #Cussing.

Creations:

We plan on coining terms (as well as flags to go with most if not all the flags), as well as wordmojis (emojis of words) that we use for communication. While we don't actively advertise requests, we are willing to at least contemplate requests (and very likely to do it for wordmojis, terms take more energy).

We will tag terms as #Terms, flags as #Flags, wordmojis as #Wordmojis and #Custom Emoji. They will also be tagged as other things related to it (so queer centered wordmojis will be tagged as #queer wordmojis and what the actual words are such as #lesbian wordmojis).

However #Terms, #Flags, and #Wordmojis are good things to search if you're looking for something here!

Other Things To Look Out For:

This blog will likely have bug talk, and bug pics, tagged as #Bugs #TW Bugs #Bug Talk and #Bugs #TW Bugs #Bug Pics respectively.

We are also likely to posts Vents (#Venting), and Complaints (#Complaining) so feel free to block that if you want. (Vent is more heavy than complaints, complaints tend to be little things that annoy us).

We also tag especially system/plurality focused posts as #Pro Endo and #Endo Safe.

Again, this is not an exhaustive list, but might help some folks better filter content.

#Intro Post #Pinned #Long Post

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jamlabs · 2 years

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to celebrate bridget’s transgendersm I’m making a list of my gg gender headcanons

Sol Badguy is a nonbinary man. Gender takes too much work so he just stopped. Epitome of appearance and pronouns do not equal gender (still uses he/him exclusively)

Axl is a transman to me.

Baiken is canon agender but also gender apathetic. Don’t care didnt ask

Faust is goofysillygender . it’s a doctor! It’s a doctor :]

Like all gears Justice was formerly nonbinary / was beyond gender but specifically chose to become female. So transwoman

Testament is canon nonbinary and agender. they/them exclusively

Zato-1 is nonbinary (cis man > nonbinary specifically). uses he/they. Eddie is. Eddie. whatevers going on with that dude is a gender in and of itself

Anji is genderqueer, just kind of goes along with the flow of whatever.

Dizzy is intersex.

Venom’s gender is tied very deeply to his sexuality, he’s a gay man

Bridget is a canon trans woman!

I-no is genderqueer and also a slut (important part of her gender.)

Robo-ky is technically assigned male due to being a robot version of ky BUT is male in such a specific way that it doesn’t reflect Ky at all. like you look at him and you go yeah that’s a guy or a dude but will never think of him as a man

Slayer is a transman and his wife Sharon is a transwoman. t4t bi4bi rights. Slayer also probably uses archaic pronouns just to for the fun of it

Zappa has so much pathetic tboy swag. him being a system via possession is not reflective of his own gender identity. each ghost has their own gender that is totally separate from his

Dr Paradigm: gear, nonbinary. They/he plus probably any neos that catch their fancy

Izuna is a yokai and has genders humans wouldn’t get in a million years. he/they for human convenience

Sin is genderfucked due to being raised by Sol. Never learned traditional gender roles so does whatever he wants.

Valentine is an artificially created woman. Girl but a “too perfectly exhibiting female gender roles and presentation” way.

Answer is a secretary and genderfluid. (He/She/They)

Elpehelt is an artificially created woman and is perfectly content with that.

Ramlethal is an artificially created woman and is discovering if she likes that or not. Questioning.

Jack-O is artificially created to resemble Aria. Cis.

Kum Haehyun is so transcoded its barely even reaching (forced to live as a man and greatest fear is living as a man forever)

Giovanna is intrinsically tied with Rei. Has some wolf/beast related neopronouns and her gender is Girlbeast.

Goldlewis is cis but the greatest ally of all time. will drone strike a TERF for free.

Happy Chaos is WTFgender. It uses any/all pronouns and wants people to mix it up. literally just here to have a good time

Nagoriyuki is inherently fruity by virtue of being a vampire but considers himself cis.

If not mentioned just assume either I haven’t hit them with my transgender beam yet or that they’re cis

#guilty gear #j speaks #no one has to agree with me but im right in my brain.

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fictiveheavy-systim · 2 years

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DNI LIST ( ꈍᴗꈍ).｡*♡

Here's our full DNI! We block those who fall under this criteria when we find them (either before they find us or whenever they disregard our boundaries). Some of these are big things, and some are personal things that we're uncomfortable seeing. Thank you in advance for reading through this and respecting our boundaries.

System List ;

Non-traumagenic systems and those who support/interact with them (including demo systems and western tulpas), those who use the terms 'sysmed' or 'traumascum', those who don't believe in system accountability, those who believe persecutors are bad people, those who use the term 'malicitor' (not including those who reclaim it for themselves), anti-fictives, believe in system hopping, believe that systems must have the end goal of final fusion, believe introjects can pick their source, blame introjects for their sources

-philes ;

Pedophiles, DDLG and variants, ageplay, sexual age regression, zoophiles, pro-contact, neutral-contact, trans-age, trans-species, paraphiles (not including those who are in therapy), pro-shippers, anti-antis, MAPs, NOMAPs, radqueer, or anyone neutral or in support of these things, or interact with people who are

Ableist ;

Thinspo/pro-ED/pro-ana, support Autism Speaks or NEXTAUTISM, support eugenics, trans-abled (excluding those with BIID), trans-autism, trans-adhd, believe in narcissistic abuse, romanticize mental illness, romanticize self-harm, demonize mental illnesses, infantilize mental illnesses, fakeclaimer, reality-checker, support subreddits such as r/fakedisordercringe or r/didcringe, believe roleplaying disorders you do not have is acceptable, believe autism has a cure

Anti-queer ;

Anti-queer, terf, radfem, trumeds/truscum/transmeds, nonbinary exclus, intersex exclus, pan exclus, bi exclus, against gender nonconformity, against pronoun nonconformity, "super-[label]"s, those who are against the split attraction model, "drop the T", aspec exclus, anti-mogai, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns (including anti-nounself and anti-emojiself), anti-microlabels, anti-neurogenders, call queer relationships "sin" (including in fandom spaces), support the Don't Say Gay bill in Florida, "gender critical", "a is for ally"s, purposefully misgender people without their consent

Racist/Xenophobic/Antisemitic ;

Anti-BLM, ALM, white lives matter, blue lives matter, pro-cop, anti-acab, believe in reverse racism, believe in white oppression, trans race (not including adoptees), islamophobic, believe in black-washing, anti-stop asian hate, believe poc cannot cosplay white characters, Nazi/Neo-Nazi/Nazi sympathizer, holocaust denier, believe alters in white systems can be a poc

Miscellaneous ;

Support NFTs, cryptbro, SWERF, classist, anti-selfdx, anti-furries, anti-scalies, believe in cringe culture, anti-harm reduction, send or endorse anon hate, believe in Christian oppression, blogs with the sole purpose of bullying/harassing others, those who bring religion into unwanted spaces, support missionaries, believe in art style theft, anti-property is theft, know us IRL

DNI for comfort reasons ;

NSFW/18+/Minors DNI blogs, singlets under the age of 13, blogs with Harry Potter, TBATF, Your Boyfriend, Yandere Sim, or Aphmau content (not including blogs that have had those things in the past due to requests), anyone who tags NSFW fandom content under the main tags for that fandom, roleplay blogs, Christianity-centered blogs, blank blogs (default avatar, default name, default desc, default header- anything that makes you look like a bot. Bots obviously won't read this, this is more an announcement to people with those blogs that I block em). Endo neutral systems listen up: all I ask is that if you interact with endos do not reblog our posts. Otherwise, feel free to interact.

Thank you for reading!!

I especially appreciate it with how long this one is (๑•﹏•)

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starry-skies-116 · 1 year

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Had major dysphoric episodes in the shower and at school about being intersex and multigender (trans, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender spectrum, xenogender, nonbinary, librafeminine, and transmasc using neos). And to top it all off, people poked fun at me when I tried to go into the gender neutral restroom at school... and some random bitch commented on my facial hair?? Like excuse me??

So I decided to make my OC Sona in Gacha Club, aka what I want to look like. There's the trans and enby bracelet, and I decided to keep my facial hair and thick ass sideburns. Curly hair is something I'm keeping in my masc haircut, and the purple and pink stand for aroace agender colors.

My primary name is still Starr btw!!

I still go by all neos, but primary neos so far are ‘star/stars/starself’, ‘co/con/stell/stells/constellself’, ‘lu/lun/luns/lunas/lunaself’, ‘xey/xeir/xem/xemself’, ‘cloud/clouds/cloudself’, ‘cy/cyb/cyber/cybself’, ‘dream/dreamself (not THAT dream)’, ‘cel/cer/celeself’, ‘ve/ven/venusself/venself’, and ‘sweet/sweets/sweetself’. More will be added as I collect them-

I’m adding ‘he’ to my pronouns, and ‘it’s’ is also acceptable I guess. Still keeping she in my list of pronouns, but I ain’t a girl no more.

And another thing, there’s my Mum again asking me to wax my legs and facial hair so I can be ‘more feminine’. Nooooo those were the one of the things on my body that actually give me euphoria I don’t wanna be feminine-

Some people like “You can’t be Hindu and LGBTQIA+” like baby let people do whatever they wanna do with their identity and just grant them rights and goods and services regardless of who or what they identify as and what their needs and wants are, like- is that so hard?? /sarc but also semi-genq

Why do I have to be AFAB ilke I’m intersex too why dajaldjf or not breatge

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xxx-r4tg0bl1n-xxx · 2 months

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Hey can we like, stop judging trans people?

I'm not just saying this for terfs or other ignorant cis people, but for those of us in the community as well. When someone comes out as trans, we shouldn't expect them to conform to an image of transness that we have in our heads. Everyone's gender journey is personal, and really, it's none of anyone else's business.

Honestly, I used to hate on other trans people too. It wasn't healthy, and the environment I was in at the time was very damaging for me and my image of myself. I thought microlabels and neo pronouns were fake, that the people who used them were trying to get attention, and making the rest of us look bad. I know now how awful that mindset is, and I thank the powers that be that I grew out of it.

Truly, none of us are to blame, I realized that. We didn't ask to be under a spotlight representing the trans community. Unfortunately, that's how the world around us sees it. The second we are out, we are judged by how well we conform or nonconform. Even before that, we are judged, called names, made fun of for being different.

Let trans mascs be as masc or fem as they want to. Let trans fems be as fem or masc as they want to. Let nonbinaries, bigenders, intersex, or otherwise genderqueers be whoever they want to be. There's enough hate and judgement in this dumb son of a bitch world, just let us be happy. And for the love of everything, don't judge others because they don't conform to YOUR expectations.

Thank you, all who took the time to read. Unless you're a terf, then fuck you and get your priorities straight. Love to all my trans siblings 💜 you are not alone, I promise.

#This one goes out to my brother #transgender #trans rights or trans will fight #trans #transphobia #cw transphobia

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irrelevant13 · 3 years

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My unpopular LGBT opinions

since my blog is discourse/trans related I thought I would share some of my “hot takes”

1. Neo pronouns are inherently transphobic and ablest: I'm just going to link my post about them because its a lot to get into right here. https://irrelevant13.tumblr.com/post/653907281869750272/neopronouns

2. Demi genders are not real: you cannot be “partially one gender” thats not how that works

3. Nonbinary is a valid gender identity: as long as you have dysphoria and are not invading other peoples spaces (lesbians, trans mens, etc) you’re valid imo.

4. Pronouns = Gender: If they don’t equal gender then why is it called “misgendering” when you call a transwoman “he” or a transman “her”? Pronouns are used as lazy nouns to describe people. If the average person is describing a man they’re going to say “he”

5. Gender is not a social construct: male, female, nb, are genders. These are not social constructs. Gender roles, how you express your gender, etc, are social constructs.

6. He/Him lesbians are not valid: Gender = pronouns. He/Him are male pronouns. Lesbians are women that like other women. By using a male pronoun and identifying as a lesbian you are contradicting yourself.

7. Nonbinary lesbians are not valid: lesbian = a woman who loves and is interested in women. There are labels for woman loving NB people. trans people do not need to be changing the definition of lesbian that is literally what TERFS are afraid of. And its completely unnecessary.

8. Micro-lables are unnecessary

9. the LGBTQIA+ Wiki is trash and should be deleted: there's so much fucking misinformation on there

10. The acronym is LGBT

11. Asexual is not a valid sexuality: its a preference and should not be included in the lgbt community because its not the same as being gay or trans.

12. KINK DOES NOT BELONG AT PRIDE: I understand there's a history. But kink related things do not need to be ANYWHERE near minors and pride is an event for all LGBT people. INCLUDING minors. Im probably going to make a whole post about this as well because there's a lot more to discuss about it.

13. dysphoria is NEEDED to be trans: this shouldn't even be a hot take or a fucking debate. saying dysphoria is not needed is transphobic and so fucking invalidating. saying dysphoria is not needed to be trans is implying being trans is a choice, which it is not. i'm going to make a whole blog post about why the “you need euphoria!!” argument is flawed because its a lot to get into here.

14. pansexual is invalid, transphobic and biphobic: pansexual is the worst sexuality in my opinion. i’m going to have to make it its own post because there is WAY too much to get into that it wont fit here.

15. genital preferences are not transphobic: and saying they are is weird. if a lesbian does not like male genital's she should not be forced to say she wouldn't mind dating a transwoman. same with gay men and straight people. people cannot help their preferences and they shouldn't be shamed or deemed evil for them (within reason of course)

16. if a lesbian does not want to date a transwoman, its not transphobic. and if a gay man does not want to date a transman, its not transphobic: this is really just repeating the last point but it really annoys me when people call other people “transphobic” for their preferences.

17. the Q word is a slur: and cishets using it rubs me the wrong way.

18. Intersex people should not be lumped into the LGBT community: Being intersex is not like being trans or gay. If you feel otherwise I’d love to hear your take on this.

19. polyamorous should not be considered part of the lgbt community: being in a relationship with multiple people is different from being trans or gay. Poly in itself is not part of the community in my opinion but there can be lgbt people that are polyamorous.

20. The “inclusive flag” is hideous and pointless: I’m talking about the one with the intersex flag in it. the normal inclusive flag is just plain unnecessary. Trans and POC were already included in the LGBT community we didn’t need a whole new flag to “include” us. (by us I mean trans people, I’m obviously not speaking about POC considering the fact I’m very white) I guess I’m open to hear arguments regarding the purpose of the inclusive flag though.

21: Calling the gay man flag “the toothpaste flag” is homophobic: I’ve ONLY seen people refer to the flag as the toothpaste flag in a negative way and I think its rather homophobic but I haven't seen many people talk about it.

22: Biphobia is so normalized in the LGBT community and not enough people are talking about it: Seriously this also warrants its own blog post.

23: transmedicalism is not harmful and is needed: this is going to be one of the more unpopular opinions but transmedicalism is not harmful. also cis transmeds are very cool.

24: “experimenting” with hormones is harmful and is NOT the way to figure out your gender identity: this shouldn't have to be said but if you aren't sure if you want to transition don't take horomones to figure it out. the affects of testosterone are often irreversible.

I’m sure i’m forgetting some but these are the big ones I guess. Also, when I make the blogs for the opinions I said I would make blogs for, I’ll make sure I link them.

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iggy-x-lucien · 4 years

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Introduction

Witch: Ignacio ”Iggy” “Nacho” Valdez - They/Them, It/Its, He/Him, She/Her

Concubus (gender neutral incubus/succubus): Lucien “Lucy” - It/Its, They/Them, He/Him, She/Her

Part actual Satanic Witchcraft practice and polytheistic Devil Worship, part queer romance paranormal shitposting ARG. Everything posted (not reblogged) should be taken with a side of skepticism. Kernels of Gnosis are wrapped up in Myth and Narrative. Names of individuals, both embodied and disembodied, had their name changed when mentioned. Events may have not transpired exactly as they are depicted. Makes use of “Glitch in the Matrix” and similar theories, such as “The Backrooms,” as a backbone of some cosmological worldbuilding in tandem with Gnosticism. Theological views, paradigms, and paracosms used here are meant to further the story, not necessarily actual beliefs or outlooks.

Not a place for minors! 18+ only! This is a safe space for sex workers, trans femmes, enbies, aspec, and intersexed individuals. Neo-Nazis, SWERFs, TERFs, and other such harmful, hate filled exclusionary groups are not welcome here. Hate mail will be deleted. I will not hesitate to block.

Contains NSFW content, including Exophilia and Teratophilia. May contain triggering content, such as mentions of self harm, death, gore, BDSM, and dysphoria. Part of this project is to vent, reclaim, and explore past traumas in a healthy manner, woven into story, in order to heal from hurt. My experiences might not be 1:1 with yours. Your understanding might not be the same as mine. If you think you might find this blog offensive, please leave instead of engaging with malicious intent. I will not apologize for being myself.

Althuman (Otherkin/Therian), Spirit-Spousing, Astral Adventures.

About Author: 21+, Mixed & Multiracial. Middle child. Queer, Trans*, Nonbinary/Genderfluid (chiefly demigenders - demiboy/demigirl - and agender/gendervoid). Traumagenic Multiple. Alternative, Punk, Goth, and Emo fashion. I enjoy living in an edgy witchy aesthetic not because I’m a LARPer, but because I find it empowering to be in and I feel attractive in it.

Ask Me stuff here [×]

As of right now, I'd prefer things to help speed along the narrative. Questions in regards to actual magic might be responded to with half-truths, within the context of the fictitious setting, so just be aware. I know most ARGs don’t admit to being such. I’m just here to be weird and witchy.

#iggy #lucien #demon boyfriend #exophilia #terato #author speaks #iggyxlucien

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radical-love-outreach · 4 years

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Looking For Mods/Contributers!

If you are an a trans individual who regularly addresses anti-trans discourse online (or would like to), an ex-terf, or in general any person who's life journey has carried them all the way from transphobic beliefs to trans allyship or activism - please consider applying!

-What is our mission?

To provided a space specifically for de-radicalization and for education on the every day reality of trans identity and issues. We want to create a place where questions can be answered and connections can be made. A place that is a refuge from the toxic echo chamber that can be radfem discourse, where hate and misinformation is perpetuated... Our idea is similar in tone to Life After Hate which provides similar spaces for the de-radicalization of white nationalists.

- What is your role?

We are all born ignorant and will remain ignorant in many areas until the day we leave this world. However! That just means we are perpetual Learners.

Your role as a mod is to guide that learning process as it pertains to trans identity and lgbt+ activism.

You will help answer questions, comments, and messages addressed to our group's blog. However, no mod will be made to answer a question, comment, or message that they do not wish to.

As may be expected - fascilitating a page filled with "discourse" will likely mean many comments (and etc.) that are written unkindly or with inflammatory purpose. Each mod will have the chance to address any one of these comments should they like to... And should no one like to, that particular person will simply have their question or comment ignored until they can re-phrase it less antagonistically. As mods, you are human beings volunteering your time and emotional energy - and as such you will only ever be asked to expend as much as you are willing.

- Time Commitment?

Only as much as you would like. Because of the emotional nature of outreach we prefer quality over quantity. Please do not feel that applying will require you to exhaust yourself or your patience. You are free to tackle comments and questions anytime you are charged and ready to go!

- Requirements?

There are no experience requirements. If you've never tried engaging with people over lgbt+ topics, discourse, or outreach - that's okay! What we need are people capable of tackling heated debates with necessary candor and information. We hope all our mods have different backgrounds so as to tackle the issues presented from multiple perspectives.

However, for the purposes of not "thowing" other identities "under the bus" in order to try and make complicated truths more simple we are asking that each mod be supportive (not necessarily knowlegeable) of:

Lgbtqia+ / Mogai identities

Gender Non-dysphoric and Euphoric experiences

Neo-pronouns and singular they

Nonbinary identities, including indiginous divisions of gender

Aspec (ace and aromantic identities) (which, yes, is included with the first bulletin but just needs to be re-enphasized)

Intersex folk both trans and cis.

As well as understand that language and labels are complex, and people's relationships to them are complex - and people's internal experiences are complex... In the process of trying to break down the main barriers to transphobia we wish to do so hollistically and without excluding other queer people's lives.

What we need most is a mod with an open mind willing to ask questions about terms or labels they may not understand without making assumptions and escalating personal ire against their peers. (As that's how a lot of transphobes got to where they are to begin with - by grudges maintained by assumption). We are looking to be a cooperative, philosophical, and gentle group. ❤

Please reblog to help get our project out there and consider applying!

(Update: please apply via commenting on this post. Or if you are shy you can still send us an Ask. Thank you!)

#ex terf #ex radfem #transpositivity #mods wanted #trans activism #gender liberation #lgbt+#lgbt blog #anti-gatekeeping #lgbt outreach #trans questions #lgbt questions #radical love #intersectional feminism

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torturedpoetemotions · 4 years

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Do y'all remember how MOGAI (Marginalized Orientations, Genders Alignments, and Intersex) was developed specifically to provide a fully inclusive umbrella term for the queer community that wasn't a reclaimed slur and didn’t have roots in pathologizing us (like SGA)? That was literally the logic and purpose behind it.

Do y'all remember how it never fully gained traction and quickly fell out of use because TERFs and truscum used it like an insult to make fun of basically everyone who didn’t fall under L, G, or B (but especially nonbinary and non-dysphoric trans folks and, later, ace and aro folks)?

Or how their use of it as an insult spilled over into MRAs, red pillers, incels, and "anti-SJW" (aka "pro-apathetic acceptance of oppression and bigotry at best, active neo-Nazi at worst"), and later even MAGA circles?

(Thereby revealing how overlapped all those ideologies already really are, but that's another post.)

Because I remember that shit and I get freshly fucking full of rage about it whenever I see the “queer is a slur” disc horse start coming across my dash again. But I get especially riled when I see someone start in with “if only we had a term that was inclusive AND wasn’t a reclaimed slur!”

We had one. We did. Created specifically for that reason and rejected by exclusionist bigot fuckwits for exactly that reason. And if you come up with a new one, they will try to do the same goddamn thing again, because it was never about anything being a slur. It was the inclusivity they hated.

The only question is whether we as a community will let them, or whether we will recognize their insidious bullshit for what it is and reject it.

#mogai #terfs ruin everything #queer #lizawords

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hybridmlments · 5 years

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Types of monster guys I love:

Disabled monster guys, the ones with cerebral palsy, fibromyalgia, Crohn’s disease, and everything else. The Deaf/HoH monster guys. The ones who can make words and sing with their hands. The blind and visually impaired ones. ones who can’t adapt to the lesser human world so have to use mobility aids, medications, or whatever else.

Neurodivergent monster guys. The autistic ones whose interest grows exponentially into something greater than what anyone else can manage. The psychotic ones who manage to deal with so much on a daily basis. The DID/OSDD systems who have so many sharing one body. The monster guys with severe moods, the traumatised ones who are still scared - it’s okay, it doesn’t make you less of a monster.

Trans monster guys, whether your binary or nonbinary, whether you have multiple genders or none, whether you have a “strange identity” like stargender or monstergender, whether your dysphoria is horrific or nonexistent. You have a gender more brilliant than the mundane can imagine, and your pronouns are wonderful whether standard, neo or something else. It’s okay if you have to make them up, language is so limiting.

Gay, bi, arospec, acespec, bi, pan, poly, or whatever orientation they want to identify as monster guys. Attraction, or lack there of, is difficult and confusing - mundanes don’t understand it really, they just pretend to.

Intersex monster guys, whether their body was left alone or not. Your body is yours, it’s correct and handsome, or beautiful if you prefer that. Mundanes don’t understand anything outside of their binary, and they are lesser for it.

And any monster guys I left out. You’re all marvellous you monstrous darlings.

#monster boy #monster mlm #monster #monsterkin #voidkin #mogai #queer #aesthetic #mlm positivity #mlm post #disabled mlm #autistic mlm

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fromfiction · 7 years

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on the subject of identity and my gender

Some of you may have noticed I have edited my ‘about me’ page a bit in the last couple days.

This may come as a shock to some of you who have only seen my carefully cropped photos of myself online, and know that I use he/him pronouns.

I don’t pass as a male.

I don’t pass at all.

I may dress in a stereotypically masculine way. I may speak in a stereotypically masculine way. I act in what is often considered to be a stereotypically masculine way. But none of that matters.

I’m short, I’m very fat, I have a high voice, and I have extremely large breasts. Even when I’m wearing a binder, I have visible, obvious breasts.

In my every day, irl meatspace interactions, I am perceived and interacted with, and related to as, a short, fat woman.

Not only that but I am almost constantly in the company of my delightful longtime, visibly feminine girlfriend/fiancée.

So, in my everyday life, out and about I am used to consistently being read as, and related to as a lesbian. As the kind of short, fat, plaid wearing, kind of ugly looking lesbian that’s the butt of homophobic jokes about lesbians.

My fiancée and I are read as and related to as lesbians in every social setting. And I’m pretty comfortable with that, despite the fact that it very honestly sometimes puts us in social or physical peril. Hell, my girlfriend identifies as a lesbian.

So imagine my shock, when I, a person who lives their life perceived as a lesbian, and describes themselves publicly online as nonbinary trans-masculine, am called out and given shit for describing myself as ‘butch’.

This is just bizarre to me as a writer because ‘butch’ just seems like the natural adjective to describe someone like me. Someone short, with a buzz cut, plaid shirt, combat boots, and obvious breasts.

But that adjective is, I was told, only for lesbians and some people took issue with a bisexual identified, masculine nonbinary person in a relationship with a lesbian, using that term.

So I stopped using it. I’m not looking to offend people or get into fights. I’m getting too old for that.

But here’s the thing. While my gender identity has broadly speaking been fairly stable, that is a consistent-to-me experience, since I was a kid, it is very hard to describe to people in concrete language terms, and I go back and forth about how to describe and understand it even for myself. For a while I thought about living as a man. Then I discovered genderqueer and that seemed right for a while.

Listen, if I was 16 right now, instead of 31, I would probably have a gender six words long and a set of neo-pronouns. But I have too little energy, and maybe sadly am too set in my ways by now for that.

But I’ve been thinking about that. I’ve been thinking about what labels are important to me, and how I relate to myself, and how I want to describe myself.

Lets run down the facts.

I have a body with many stereotypically female physical traits such as breasts and a vagina, and I relate to them personally as female body part.

I was raised in a very misogynistic environment which impacted my view of women in ways I’m still processing and getting over.

I have pretty severe PCOS, which some would argue puts me on the intersex spectrum.

Due to PCOS I have a beard and elevated testosterone levels

I have continual, severe body dysphoria

Some of that dysphoria is almost certainly related to my kintypes, given that I remember having a human ‘male’ body as Ken, an alien ‘intersex’ biology as Vriska, and no physical sex as Pearl. So… yeah.

No lie, if I got my Christmas wish body from Santa it would involve breasts, a vagina, and some kind of penis. Possibly non human standard. But nobody’s running around with penis giving rays, so that’s a pipe dream.

So that’s what’s been swirling around in my head all these months, and I’ve been trying to make sense of it. All in all, I don’t feel like I identify as male. I identify more as a masculine-traited female. Which I suppose, comes back to non-binary. I identify as a manly woman. Perhaps the pokemon evolved form of a tomboy. My gender could be described as ‘a middle-aged Peppermint Patty working in a mechanic shop’.

When it comes to labels, man and male just don’t describe me the way I identify, or the way I am seen and want to be seen. Butch does, though. So yeah.

So that’s where I am right now. I’m not going to be referring to myself as a trans man, or trans masculine for the foreseeable future. I don’t know what pronouns I’m going to be using. You can just use whatever for me for right now until I get that sorted out.

Anyone who has any advice on that, or any of this, I’d be happy to hear from by ask or private message. I’m really useless at this kind of thing, as I think this whole damn post shows.

#gender #transgender #identity #nonbinary #genderqueer #questioning #personal thoughts #about me #personal

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