#just never engage with anything from it'

[fluentisonus]

another thing that bothers me about people insisting translation can never communicate the original with the implication that it's therefore not worthwhile is like. what's the end result of that? you never read anything from places that don't speak the languages you do? you let the perfect be the enemy of the good & seal yourself into a narrow cultural bubble because you've decided it's not possible for ideas & stories to cross language barriers?

#idk I just find that mindset baffling. 'we can never truly understand xyz other language unless we learn it (& I won't probably) so I'll #just never engage with anything from it' #<- incredibly fast way to never expose yourself to any new ideas of viewpoints #thoughts #like there ARE bad translations out there but you can't let that make you too scared to ever read any #translation

[j-ellyfish]

People who engage in the Hetalia fandom while openly disliking the source material and even Himaruya himself sound kinda like hypocrites to me. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but please stay away from me, this kind of mindset truly annoys me and makes me uncomfortable. Am I gatekeeping? No, not really, I just believe that being a fan of something should mean, you know, being a fan and liking the source material at the very least. It should be like, the lowest the bar can get. Below that, there's not being a fan.

#if you live in your own delusion and your friends' fanon that's cool but I just can't bring myself to consider you a fan and #respect any of your opinions on the characters and anything else related to that #because really how can you have opinions on something you barely touch because 'ew canon am I right guys'??? #idk I just don't understand this behavior and it makes me uncomfortable #I've been seeing this '''trend''' for quite a few years and it irks me so much #I too have some criticism of some parts of canon but spitting in the plate where I'm eating?? Nah that'd be so stupid and hypocritical #if you hate it so much then don't leech off hetalia tags #idk #you guys do you but still I will never understand nor support it #ary spoke #ofc I'm not talking about people who are new to it and are testing the waters with fanon content before actually watching/reading the sourc #material - I'm talking about the people who actively refuse to consume the source and openly hate on it and have done so for years while #still somehow engaging in the fandom and even getting mad when the most common portrayal of characters is you know CANON LEANING and #not mirroring their valid but understandably niche opinions that most often come from an interpretation of fanon #hence at least twice as far away from canon #I don't seek drama or anything please do not pick fights I just needed to get this off my chest

[shrugsinchinese]

Sketches for the BTMTMIM series by @raetttriestowrite and UntoldDepths <3 

#the old guard #assassin's creed #Never engaged with anything AC related until this crossover series invaded my life #I actually found this while scrolling through the booker tag #I believe that desmond should be able to blow up all of capitalism actually #I'm like 30% sure that's the goal of the AC tbh #based on osmosis from other artists I follow #I've only really seen the lesbian valkyrie art which is nice #just scrolled through the wiki just to see how many assassins there are and wow that'sa lotta assassins assassinating out there

[hadesknockedupintheunderworld]

You know, I'm glad that some of us take the step to embrace things that we like even if they're "cringe" or "objectively bad"

But perhaps we could take the next step forward and embrace the idea of reading into books/shows/movies/etc even if they don't seem deep. Perhaps we could understand that the two kinds of media aren't either "shallow and meaningless so you're weird and brainrotted to read into it" or "incredibly and profoundly deep in every way so if you don't analyze every single angle of the thing then you're brainrotted". Some media is deeper than others, but all I propose is that no matter how deep it seems it's acceptable to dig into the thing and take the media seriously instead of just assuming that because of ____ thing (such as target audience or how cringe it is) the media not deep and will never be deep and everything good about it happened on accident.

#fandom wank #i just be ramblin #I'm not putting this in any tags #I'm just frustrated that Sonic Prime is going to be remembered by the bulk of its fanbase/people who watched it as a shallow stupid badly #written kid's show where the only thing good about it that we can even consider was created on purpose and is deep is Sonadow #I'm frustrated that when people learned that sometimes the death note creators did things because it was cool and not because they were #planning for it to be some great symbolism that so many people jumped from 'death note is a masterpiece and every bit of it is meticulously #thought out the curtains are never blue' to 'pack it up guys! the curtains are just blue! Everything good about death note like that #profound relationship I like and the neat symbolism completely happened by accident and Ohba sucks as a writer otherwise' #I'm frustrated when I see people talk about 'a kid's show' as if it's not gonna be deep at all or written well *because #it's a kid's show and then turn around and complain that said show sucks and isn't deep at all (even if that's how they're choosing to look #at it and they could see the care put into the story if they didn't go into it assuming that it will be lesser and shallow and dumb based on #what it is) #I guess it's also just getting me on this random Wednesday the idea that the bulk of one's viewers determine the legacy of a piece of media‚ #no matter how close or far away they are from painting the media as it actually is or tries to bw #It's also just bleak (especially from a manga/anime standpoint) that if your work is considered profound and intellectual‚ then any reveal #of something not being deep is grounds for people to completely swap how they think of your work and how they see you as a writer #And any work that's considered 'not actually that deep' from the getgo ends up with people only engaging with it seriously saying stuff like #'I know nothing about it is purposeful or deep but I like it' #and just ends up with prevailing opinion putting down anything percieved as 'good' or 'profound' about the work as a complete fluke

[livelist]

Okay because clearly I am still upset about this.

April 23:

To Spn Con Audience: “By show of force: how many of you would consider yourself introverts?" How many extroverts? And how many bisexuals?” “I’m all three.”

April 25:

“I want to deeply apologize for misspeaking this weekend...“My clumsy intention was to wave off actually discussing my sexuality, but I badly fumbled that and [I] understand that was seen as me coming out as bisexual.”

THIS DOES NOT MAKE SENSE. Misha did not need to "wave off actually discussing [his] sexuality." He brought it up himself. He is literally just speaking at a podium, and of his own accord, announces that he is Extroverted, Introverted, and Bisexual. That is a pre-planned, pre-written statement if I have EVER heard one!!! Literally like... bisexual doesn't even make sense in that list? Its clearly a joke so he can come out in a funny way?

Like what argments even exist that can possibly explain what he meant if not "he is Extroverted, Introverted, and Bisexual"? Do you think he just stupidly thought bisexual was a word for both extroverted and introverted? Because that seems fucking impossible!!!

Why would bisexuals be in that list? Also, hes asking the crowd, meaning he literally does not need to say that he is ANY of them!! The whole and only point of asking was so that he could announce that he was bisexual!!! That is the only reason to do this little song and dance audience interaction in the first place!!

I mean, its not like he asked "How many straights? How many gays? How many bisexuals?" And then he felt weird and said "I’m all three!" That could sound more like a natural conversation topic that ended with him making an awkward joke that he thought was nonsense and actually made him sound bisexual. But he obviously did not say or intend to say that, I’m just writing fucking fanfiction to try and make any of this make sense!

Like seriously, there is no way to interpret the actions of April 23 than an authentic coming out of a bisexual actor. I cannot fathom any other interpretation. It is not a mis-speak? What was he trying to say if not that? Please, give me any crazy theory you have, I’m begging, because I have nothing.

And that brings me to April 25.

I really don't see how to interpret the combination of these actions as anything other than biphobic. Either one (1.), he thought it was appropriate to joke about coming out as bisexual, and pretend that it was real for two days, or two (2.), his statement on April 25 was a lie, he did mean to come out, and was forced, by either internalized or externalized biphobia, back into the closet.

1., I think, is overtly biphobic, because intentionally deceiving people into thinking you have come out for multiple days, using that to gain attention and therefore money, making coming out and bisexuality seem like the butt of a joke, like.

Fuck I’m just feeling again how fucking CONFUSING this shit is! There is no logical way to interpret it!!!

Occam's Razor honestly, 1. Doesn't make sense its too weird and confusing for his statement on April 23 to be a joke, lie, or misspeak.... it doesn't compute...

2. Internalized or externalized biphobia forced him back into the closet.

Honestly this is the only thing that actually makes any sense to me. Whatever has been forcing/convincing him to stay in the closet for decades forced/convinced him to walk it back (poorly).

I honestly honestly hate to do this because I really try to take people at their word as much as possible. I give people the benefit of the doubt. And ESPECIALLY when it comes to sexuality. I really believe that we must defer to what they call themselves, because even if they will change their minds one day, I believe that questioning them or invalidating how they define themselves in the moment does more harm than good. Or, in simpler terms, I think that people getting constantly questioned about their sexuality usually makes it harder for them to figure it out themselves.

But also. This is a middle aged man, a public and loud supporter of queer people, and he knows he not only has a specific presence within that community, he knows what his fans *think* about his sexuality. (Whether or not the fans are problematic for that is a matter for a different time.) So forgive me if I feel I should hold him to a higher standard when he makes statements regarding his sexuality.

But this isn't a high standard.

The incredibly low bar he couldn't manage to cross?

Don't authentically come out and then take it back two days later

I didn't even think I had to make a fucking bar for that!!!

It's genuinely so hard to even wrap my mind around what the fuck happened here! What is he claiming happened? "Misspeak"?!?!

Okay. I’m sorry. It's so hard to be clear on this issue because it just genuinely doesn't make sense. But I hope I made it a slightly bit more clear why it doesn't make sense? And seriously, I need answers. At least give me a better lie so I can sleep better at night.

I would really care so little if he was bisexual if it wasnt for the fact that he SAID HE WAS ffs I’m out I hope he and his wife and kids are very happy

#I have not watched or posted or cared about Misha or spn in over a decade #other than this confusing catastrophe #like ive never watched anything from Dream but if he did this #id be pissed off too #and he doesnt have the age or history of misha #sorry for bringing up dream he just popped into my mind as a modern tumblr example #anyway #yeah its just the incredibly confusing nature of this captivates me #I saw another post about this and so many feelings were brought up I guess I had to make a post about it #please engage with me about this but please be nice #misha collins #misha collins bisexual #misha collins sexuality #biphobia #biphobic #bisexual #sexuality

[aroaessidhe]

2023 reads

The Girls Are Never Gone

a girl does a summer internship with the historical society cleaning up an old estate where a girl died 30 years ago, so she can investigate it for her ghost-hunting podcast

she’s a skeptic who privately thinks she’ll be able to find evidence of non-supernatural, but weird things start happening to her and the other two girls in the house

spooky lake & creepy dolls

bisexual diabetic MC with a service dog, f/f

#The Girls Are Never Gone #sarah glenn marsh #this is. fine. #it’s like. not creepy until maybe 70% imo #why is she releasing episodes of her podcast every few days….even when she hasn’t discovered anything particularly? #is it not much more realistic for people to finish doing these things and form it into a coherent narrative before releasing episodes #Like that wouldn't have worked for the plot but it stood out to me #If it was one of those things where her personality and influencer-vibes is the main draw that would be feasable #but I didn't really get that feel from the two podcast excerpts we got. #Taking out some of the random stuff slowing the first half and putting bits of the podcast in the actual narrative so we got the feel for w #might have made things more interesting. And put more tension between her paranormal podcasting persona and real life skepticism #don't love stuff that engages with true crime fans without actively critiquing it. Like this doesn't get super deep into that. idk #I did laugh when they see the older lady putting salt around the door and question it & shes like 'it uh works for the boys on supernatural #ajshgfhajgf #anyway it was ok i just think it could have been better! #sapphic books #bisexual books #aroaessidhe 2023 reads

[saucy-mesothelioma]

Had Watcher paywalled all of their travel shows completely due to the high production costs, I'd have been perfectly fine with that as long as the plebs could watch ads to get a delayed access to the rest of their content for free. I don't understand what made them think that alienating the casual viewers and their international supporters was the way to go. I honestly wish I could unlearn all the shit I learned about Steven's church and the people he platforms. There's the naive part of me that wants to see the boys bounce back. I'm so conflicted about this whole ordeal. What made them believe this was a good idea? I don't get it.

Yeah, I agree completely. That whole decision still feels so out of left-field because there were basically no hints or warnings to it. And yeah, I get this was their "surprise", but this is the kind of thing you have to at the very least tease and not just drop it out of the blue. I don't know too much about the Steven controversies because 1) I don't care to know because this whole thing has already added a strain on my mental health and 2) I won't lie, I'm only here for the Ghoul Boys since I've loved them since their BuzzFeed Unsolved days. As I said before, I absolutely understand wanting more creative freedom and not having to deal with all of the trouble that can come from ads, but this was the completely wrong way to go about it. Not just for us as fans, but also just as a business decision. All I can really hope for is that they'll learn a lesson from this, as naive that sounds.

#this whole situation feels almost like a bad joke #like it should have just straight up not happened #even though we've got an apology and a compromise I'm still gonna take a break from all of the watcher stuff on Tumblr and probably YouTube #I've never liked participating in shit like this; I just like to say my piece and hit the bricks #I'm not mentally stable enough to actually engage in debate or anything like that #watcher #watcher entertainment #asks #answered asks

[merakiui]

omg getting tag teamed by trey and cater while drunk in these tags !! your brain is massive as always 🫶🫶

also cater getting serious orz i never knew i needed mean(er) cater in my life but i'll 100% be brainrotting about that for the forseeable future!!!

[also trey changing the flavor of his own shots in the original drunk reader post. he's so mean >:o!! (i love him still)]

Yes!!! Just two kind and helpful upperclassmen helping you when you’re drunk. <3 aren’t they so sweet?

Serious Cater is always so fun to think about. I love the idea of him dropping his outgoing, extroverted side and becoming more colder or less cheerful when you’re drunk because you’re too intoxicated to realize the shift, so you won’t ask any questions if his tone isn’t what you’re used to. It’s such a shock to hear him sound anything less than cheery, but I think it’s so good to think about. orz I love a serious Cater who doesn’t have to keep up any masks when you’re drunk.

Trey is so sneaky. (๑•̀ㅁ•́๑) !!!! His UM is very useful during drinking games because he can trick you into drinking more simply by changing the taste so it will go down easier. And you would not expect him to do such a thing because he has such a kind face and he is so patient and sweet. But it is exactly that type you have to watch out for!! (I also love him despite his mischievous behavior hehe.)

#twisted chit chat #h2o2-and-baking-soda #oh!!! being tag-teamed by the housewarden + vice housewarden duos while you are drunk... #with trey and riddle it is essentially trey easing a very embarrassed and inexperienced riddle into sex #while assuring him that you will like it and so will riddle so he shouldn't worry and should just move his hips more #so that your mouth takes trey deeper #with azul and jade it's a competition to see who is better at railing you dumb and filling you the most #leona and ruggie is also a competition of sorts #but it's more so leona proving he can wring the most orgasms out of you without putting in too much effort #vil and rook is just the most nasty sex you will ever have #vil can be as filthy as he wants because you're too drunk so you won't remember if he looked anything less than beautiful during it #and rook will always be there to hype him up and say he's beautiful no matter what <3 so it's a very good time for everyone #kalim and jamil... also very messy sex so many positions because kalim can never settle on one for long enough #kalim's making you drink more while jamil's pounding into you from behind <3 he holds the glass to your lips and praises you so sweetly #malleus and lilia are fun because i think they also might engage in a little rivalry over who can make you feel the best >:) #i think they will also dote on you the entire time #you're on the brink of overstimulation and tears are in your eyes but they will both smile down at you and coo so sweetly #telling you you're doing well and that you are so good for them

[vehemourn]

eye am so demotivated to post anything in the world. is it worth it anymore

#sorry this is crazy but i just like... there is such a massive wall to posting anything of mine anymore #mentally #i am exhausted from Trying to engage with online communities my entire life. working really hard to build it up. and its all being Taken fr #m me #i need 2 know at least someone gives a fuck about seeing my art like... i just.. cant really do it anymore #it feels like vehemourn might be a dying era #i hope i can engage more with art communities irl but. whre i live there are none #this WAS my community #why did it have to be torn down over and over again #destroyed by people who have NEVER given a fuck about art. i am sad #delete later

[cureblogging]

Gonna say something potentially controversial:

I think Heartcatch suffers from the Up phenomenon in that people remember it as an excellent, if not flawless masterpiece when it actually has One (1) excellent, if not flawless moment in the beginning and is otherwise nothing special.

#pretty cure #babs' musings #precure: heartcatch #i remember sitting there watching 4 episodes at a time and asking myself “so when does it get as Great as people say” #i admire how different it is in tone and style to other seasons. it really stands out in that regard! #but that doesn't make it automatically better (or worse) than other seasons #it was funnier. #but the story? really underwhelming imo #the only notable part about the plot was the very first scene that set the intrigue and mystery of Yuri's character #but what they deliver on that front was extremely disappointing for me #and all the other characters get pretty mid arcs as well #Tsubomi has anxiety about not being good at anything. nothing comes of that besides one or two insults from the villains. #Itsuki has to crossdress in order to continue the family business because her brother has vague illness #that's never confronted in any satisfying way. it just sorta fades away once she decides she likes being a girl #Erika's insecurity regarding her sister is honestly the most engaging of these arcs and that's because I have a little sister #I suppose I set my expectations too high for that season. but people call it The Best Precure Season when it's not even in my top 3 so far #and that's kinda concerning for me going forward #suite is also proving to be a huge bore for me. extremely artificial season going through the motions of the franchise #Hummy... save me. Hummy. Save me Hummy #I really don't want to struggle through 13 more unremarkable seasons in the hopes of recapturing the magic of Futari Wa and Fresh #argh. i hate not liking things #sorry for the rant in the tags.

[starswallowingsea]

god i hate living with my parents. "We're doing this for you. You need to get a job that can pay for your insurance because when you turn 26 you're getting dropped off of ours." I know this. I have known this since I was 16 and it has been looming over my head. I happen to like my summer job though and unfortunately it's hard to find winter seasonal work in a similar field and it's not like the parks are looking for more full time people. I'd love to be the second person in our costuming department just making clothes and helping out with that full time but unfortunately its not in the fucking budget to do that and keep me on as an interpreter. I might see if I can get in there for a winter job and find an apartment though just because living with my parents makes me want to constantly blow something up or throw something. I hate this stupid country and I hate how my parents don't seem to see that I'm just so fucking lost and drowning and I hate that I feel like I can't talk to them about this because they'll just talk down to me instead of trying to help me.

#shay speaks #vent // #eugh i just. they had a 'talk' with me earlier bc i'm 'making a fool of myself at church' #bc i refuse to participate beyond sitting and standing and moving as i need to #like i do not care if i look stupid i genuinely do not give a fuck what people think of me at church #i think they're worried people are gonna start looking down on them bc i'm not participating anymore #i never want anything to do with catholicism ever again please just let me live #i can engage with it at work from an educational and historical lens but i hate hate hate having to go to mass #god. i'm gonna probably see if any of my coworkers this summer are willing to help me out with off season stuff bc im just suffering rn #as soon as i get on my own phone plan i'm just going to block my parents atp i do not want to talk to them ever again #not for a while at least

[starsweepers]

this is going to sound like complaining given the recent context of my brainrot, but it's merely meant to be an observation/thought i had recently. i saw that "be proud of your ocs" post going around and it's not wrong at all. ocs deserve a bit of extra love for being people's own creations, pure and loved. developed and crafted by people who haven't gotten their stories out into the known where everyone can have the context and invest in the story. it's hard to make an oc and hard to get people invested in them who aren't willing to do the basic reading. but another type of character that is almost as tricky to play? lesser known canons. whether they be side characters that were ultimately very little used in the story or whether their canon is just a story very little people have interest in. because the problem with these types of characters is you have a world to build from and you're running with it, but people have even less of a drive to engage because they have the excuse of "well, i have no interest in the canon so why would i bother to read." at least with fandomless ocs, people need to take the time to even read about the character before they know if they want to engage. small time canon characters are often rebuked simply because of the canon they're from is something others don't have the interest in, and that diminishes the interest to read about the character and even try. this isn't always the case, of course, but i've got a few of these sorts of characters on my roster and sometimes i feel its harder to get interactions with them over my ocs. it's just another hazard of trying to sell your love and muse to others. people just tend to forget the struggle because we act like all canons get a pass when this isn't the case. anyways, the long and the short of my thought here is it's good to remember to support your friends' beloved characters. it feels great to learn about a muse they're fond of no matter your interest in their story if they're an oc or their canon if they have it. writing is just fun, and the reading about all these blorbos is part of it.

#500% just me thinking aloud right now not trying to like #demand attention i promise #if anything it's a good reminder for myself too! #to always like and engage with my friends' muses #&&. ooc ( the queen sunshine princess ) #reading about a canon character will never #force you to ACTUALLY engage with the media they're from

[jofiah]

Seeing all these TF2 72hr jam entries getting shared around and thinking woah... these people can do in 72 hours what I struggle do over several weeks, and it all looks so good :x

#i dunno #i guess i also feel a lot of envy just from them being active in the community y'know #i've always just been an outsider to the larger community and never engaged #also. i have no fuckin time to do anything #it's already the 18th so there's no chance of me getting a halloween map ready in time. #sigh

[wereh0gz]

Y'know I think I'm starting to truly understand the kids who just didn't do anything in class during middle and high school. As someone who used to be a gifted kid and never really got it. Fucking hell

#ramblings #neg #gee idk maybe when things are hard and explained in ways that are uninteresting and difficult to understand ppl won't want to participate! #who would've thought! #i always had some sympathy for ppl who struggled in school even when they seemed 'lazy' or whatever #but like i never truly got it bc to me most of that stuff was easy! #classes were engaging enough for me and usually easy enough to understand! #i was at a point where i had over a 4.0 gpa when i graduated which is SUPPOSED to mean i'm smart right?? #WRONG #I DID WHAT TO ME WAS THE BARE MINIMUM FOR MOST THINGS #I DIDN'T EVEN STUDY EVER BC NOTHING EVER STUCK THAT WAY #IT WAS ALL JUST A GAME OF MEMORIZATION #AND BARELY ANYTHING I LEARNED FROM MY CLASSES STUCK AFTER A COUPLE MONTHS OF NOT GOING TO SCHOOL #ALL I EVER DID WAS GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS #Y'KNOW SOMETIMES IT REALLY IS GOOD TO QUIT WHILE YOU'RE AHEAD HUH #SHOULD'VE JUST DONE THAT INSTEAD OF GOING THROUGH THIS SHIT #GOD I AM SO FUCKING TIRED. I DON'T WANT TO THINK ANYMORE #i am. so tempted. to just not do any of my work #but if my mom finds out i will never hear the end of it #i want to sleep. i want to sleep and stop thinking abt this. so so bad

[eirian]

sometimes i see my follower count and it kind of baffles me. b/c like. i'll be str8 up, i have 11.3k followers on main. and yknow what? it feels almost exactly the same as having 3k on twitter in terms of engagement (which is to say i dont get a ton of engagement on any of my stuff unless i post something that really hits a certain audience, like danny phantom), and i think the reason for that is that a REALLY LARGE PORTION of my tumblr followers are not active anymore or are just bots

not complaining abt the active followers i do have btw! i love each and every one of u and i appreciate ur support so much. but its also weird to think about how 11k followers on tumblr doesnt feel as impressive as 11k followers on twitter, or in my case it doesnt feel as impressive as just 3k followers on twitter lol

#i hope i dont sound ungrateful or anything. just something ive observed #remember when 11k followers on tumblr was like holy shit level of popular #i am not popular on tumblr LMAO #unless i am so detached from how people see me on here and i actually Am popular idk. i dont feel it at all #LIKE. idk. this isnt a very good metric for popularity but i never get any hatemail. like. ever. when i only had like idk 5k followers i #got a lot more negative messages than i do at 11k #not that i WANT hatemail. but it just feels like something i associate with popularity yknow #but ya. i dont get a ton of engagement on my art on either platform as well as messages unless i literally beg for them #crazy how platforms differ in such a way

[ranger-kellyn]

i said it on my swiftie blog last but fuck it i'll say it here too bc i woke up still annoyed about it:

for a website that does a ton of bitching and moaning about media literacy and and saying all this "you all clearly didn't pay attention in high school english", funny how suddenly none of y'all know what a fucking metaphor is.

of course taylor wasn't literally raised in an asylum! the public eye is the inescapable asylum!

i think about all the genuinely shitty and harmful things i've said and done across all my nearly 30 years. i have said and done some awful shit, because i am an incredibly fallible person who was raised by incredibly fallible parents and relatives, raised in a fallible community (things i literally had ZERO choice in) and surrounded by incredibly fallible friends. i have hung around some horrible people who said and did horrible things.

if i had to learn everything i've learned all while under a microscope from the public-- yeah! i'd go fucking insane! i wouldn't last ten seconds in that!!

and i really reckon you wouldn't, either, because the unfortunately reality is we're all fallible. most of us just have the luxury of being complete nobodies

#i'm not saying anyone has to LIKE the album #i'm not even saying everyone HAS to listen to the album i really don't care and honestly i'm glad we're weeding out some of the normies #but the way some of y'all act like you've never said or done ANYTHING shitty in your life #idk maybe i'm too forgiving bc ever since i was 13 i've just been existing from one mental health crisis to the next #also it does continue to be LAUGHABLE at how little self control some of y'all have #like it's so fucking easy to ignore the artists bands and celebs i hate or don't like #y'all probably don't even know who that list includes apart from the obv musk and bezos bc i waste no brain space on any of them #anyways it's probably time for another small tumblr break because THIS asylum regularly drives me insane lmao #i get being a hater can be fun now and again but at what point are you doing nothing but engaging in being a hater as a form of self harm #trust me: #surrounding yourself with nothing but other haters and negativity actively makes you see and think the world is worse than it already is #been there #like one of my psych professors would say: cathartic behaviours are only helpful up to a point. they can quickly become a form of self har