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ionomycin · 3 months
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vintagecamping · 7 months
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A man struggles to get himself out of his collapsed tent.
Sandtoft, England
1980
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tau1tvec · 2 months
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Reminder you’re allowed to get bored of games. You’re allowed to put games down, and pick up other games for a while. You’re allowed to get burnt out from grinding, hell skip grinding all together and just cheat if you’re able. What I’m saying is, some games are commitments, you don’t have to play it like everyone else plays it, and just bc you don’t finish it within a week like everyone else, doesn’t mean you don’t think it’s good. So long as you enjoy the time you do spend in it, that’s all that matters, and you can’t enjoy yourself if you’re pushing or forcing yourself through it.
Social media has put so much extra added baggage onto games, and I just want to remind you that games, like all media, are for your own enjoyment first and foremost.
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Wei Wuxian might actually be my favourite depiction of an adult interacting with unrelated kids that I’ve ever seen in fiction. He reminds me of the adults I look back on fondly from when I was growing up, and of the adult I want to be when interacting with teens through work etc.
He’s fun and silly and teases them, but knows when to step up as the adult in the situation and be responsible.
His degrees of closeness to them are appropriate; closer to the ones who are “his kids” (ie Jin Ling as his nephew and Sizhui eventually as his son), and friendly but not excessively so with the others.
He actively watches out for the kids and protects them from danger, but also gives them practical advice and opportunities to spread their own wings and exercise their own abilities.
He impresses upon them that they don’t need to achieve the things their fathers and uncles had by their age: he was there, he knows those tales of glory are rooted in blood and suffering, and he works to free the juniors from the pressure to hold themselves up to that shallow veneer of triumph as a standard.
He even occasionally drops good relationship advice even before he and Lan Wangji get their shit together: the bit in Yi City where he refuses to waste time on the whole “I won’t leave without you!” thing and instead tells the kids essentially, “No. I trust him, and I have to do what I need to do, and leave him to do what he needs to do,” really sticks with me.
Anyway...rambling, but yeah. I love him, and I love that he’s sometimes a disaster but he is so good at switching to Adulting Mode as needed. Also there’s definitely some very bittersweet thoughts to be had about the fact that, aside from his brief sweet memories of his parents, Yanli was definitely the one who taught him how to be a caretaker. And now, he gets to use what she taught him to watch over her son.
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kyxworld · 21 days
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What i see common in all questions is how, most treat being aware as states. Let me elaborate, it’s very subtle some think the more they’re aware they’ll “see” it with their senses. there’s so much focus on the senses, experiencing it with the senses. this just implies you didn’t experience it, as soon as you became aware, so you created a separation by “waiting” for it appear in the illusion or seeing it with your senses. go deeper than that, don’t use senses as a validation, they’re illusory. your true nature as “ ” is far greater than that. There’s nothing wrong to experience what you want, by all means do so, but you’re so focused on “changing” “senses” “waiting for it change”.
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mmarggsstuff · 11 months
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bpd culture is avoiding drugs and substances not for any moral reason but because you know if you ever tried them you would just end up filling another criteria on the dsm-v
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hellcifrogs · 1 year
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For anyone blissfully unaware it is officially summer over here and SO HOT! So for warm up I tried to cool down by giving the girls outfits to match my city's hell like weather :')
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chilledagridolce27 · 6 months
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no because why is elemental the literal embodiment of the absolute PRESSURE 1st & 2nd gen migrant kids face? the overwhelming reality of the unfathomable and tremendous sacrifice your parents made to give you the opportunities they never had...the weight of all that expectation to not only succeed but to succeed excellently because you are the culmination of generations of hopes and dreams, of blood, sweat and tears... The hopelessness of wondering how you could EVER pay back that kind of sacrifice and loss? the desperate need to be strong and do it anyway? The frantic desire to never disappoint, to never be the reason they regret it all... The constant internal struggle between your dreams and their legacy, your desires vs weight of their sacrifice, your future vs their past?? The burden of having to carry all of that and hating yourself for hating it because how could you spit in the face of all that sacrifice???! Why can't you just be grateful??!!
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notbeingnoticed · 25 days
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canisalbus · 10 months
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rubs my face on your art in the hope of absorbing your skill, which is a normal thing to want
I'm happy to hear my art is facial absorption worthy!
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Nick googling "best lgbt movies" to have a movie night with his mom is the sweetest and dumbest thing. darling boy, you gonna regret that sm 😫 but also, it will be hilarious if the way he comes out is by making his dearest mother watch "but I'm a cheerleader" lmaoooooo
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ovaruling · 8 months
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i know beggars cant be choosers but most of the ppl discussing invasive cosmetic surgery have not actually had it and i rly wish i could find more of us (who have been thru it) who were vocally against it so that we could actually talk abt our experiences whenever someone goes “um akshually cosmetic surgery is fine when xyz” bc they’re always an internet philosopher and nothing more. i need to find fellow survivors of BBLs and tummy tucks who have had their lives ruined and are angry idk idk
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loveshotzz · 7 days
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CALL THE FUCKING POLICE 🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘🆘
I’m gonna faint
I WANT TO CUT HIS TUMMY OPEN SO I CAN LIVE IN THERE
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You’re about to go on a journey down your first keery rabbit hole my sweet angel. I hope you survived the night!!!
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lillikoifish · 5 months
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Katara bristling at Zuko touching her to save her, girl, yall didnt date stop talking to him like hes ur ex.
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