#just had to get that off my chest

[weaselle]

listen. There's a whole mentality shift that needs to happen culture wide here, from the schools to the public infrastructure to pet ownership to the justice system

The proper response to your dog doing a natural behavior you dislike (digging/barking/protecting etc) it to give them an appropriate time and place to engage in that behavior

The proper response to skateboarders damaging infrastructure is to build more and better skate parks, or build skate elements into the public infrastructure on purpose.

The proper response to homeless people sleeping on park benches is to build them houses.

you see how there's like, a commonality at play here?

The proper response to a disruption is to address the root of the disruption directly, not somehow attack the disruption itself -

you don't invent a muffler by swinging a bat at the engine noise, you don't relieve your hunger by punching yourself in the stomach, you don't resolve public unrest by sending armed men to control them and you don't prevent homeless people using bus shelters as a roof by removing the bus shelters.

a whole ass shift in a basic mindset, i'm tellin' you. We need it.

#just had to get that off my chest

[demilypyro]

The fact is that most “crossdressing boy” mangas we have nowadays can trace their lineage back to Stop Hibari-Kun (1982) which carried the same general premise of the male lead being confused by an amab love interest who dresses as a woman, but critically also had the context of Hibari explicitly being a trans woman who hid this fact from her peers. This gave her a real, grounded reason to be the way she is.

Without the love interest being trans, the modern crossdressing boy trope just functions entirely on make-belief scenarios of a guy just randomly deciding to come to school as a girl one day while skirting around the obvious trans implications with little more than a “nuh-uh he’s still male because I said so”, and once you recognize that’s what’s going on it becomes hard to see most crossdressing boys in media as little more than a kind of tourist version of attraction to trans women, letting cis readers live out a fantasy of trans sexuality without ever having to engage with the reality of the problems real trans people face. We saw this in action recently with the confirmation that Bridget from Guilty Gear is canonically a transgender woman: a lot of people were outraged at the idea of not being able to have sexual fantasies about her without acknowledging that she was transgender.

#just had to get that off my chest #anyway i should start my stream

[musicsauce]

Does anyone else sometimes cry whilst realizing how deep their love for Nick and Charlie is and are just absolutely mindblown that a person could feel SO MUCH and SO DEEPLY for two fictional characters? I've never felt this before, to this level. I've never cried through so many fanfics from feeling actual heartbreak and pain to unparalleled joy, having such an attachment to them emotionally. Their love is just one of the most beautiful and pure things I've ever seen or felt. I feel like I'll never be able to adequately describe how much they mean to me. I don't have kids, but I think it's like that kind of love. Like I would go to the ends of the earth to protect them because they are that precious. No one is allowed to hurt them, so I will defend them with my life. Alice creates magic out of that beautiful, brilliant brain of theirs, and I will be forever grateful, so so grateful, that she shares it with the world. What a gift. ❤️

#thanks for reading #just had to get that off my chest #heartstopper #charlie spring #nick nelson #nick and charlie #alice oseman #in my feels

[420jimmyuso]

WHATEVER !!!! WHATEVER !!!! FINNDAMIAN I WILL KMS.

#wwe #the judgment day #wwe raw #finn balor #damian priest #monday night raw #the judgment day wwe #tjd #damian priest x finn balor #finn balor x damian priest #i am gnawing at the bars of my enclosure #its so serious #to me #i am so glad they are back #we are so back #me and who #btw #just had to get that off my chest

[bimbobaggins69]

I love being blocked by the shitty people in this fandom 👏🏻

I just wanna say truly, deeply from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry to any writers who took up writing because of a writer they admired just to get shit on, ignored or treated like they weren’t good enough to be in the ‘writers click’ or whatever the fuck that shit it is in this fandom; I know bc I experienced that first hand when I started and it’s a lonely feeling. I hope if anyone is or ever does feel that way, that you know you will always have a friend and supporter in me, I’m not here to act like I’m better than you, we are all equals and are just trying to do something we love… I see y’all and I love y’all 🖤

#just had to get that off my chest #💋

[aneatlittlelemon]

I’m late to getting around to watching the newest episode of fantasy high but let me just say, seeing Buddy gave me such deep and uncomfortable feelings for no reason other than the fact he looks exactly like a missionary from the Mormon church which I grew up in

So basically, thanks Brennen I hate it :)

#dimension 20 #fantasy high #fantasy high junior year #fhjy #buddy dawn #ratgrinders #I grew up in a cult and seeing missionaries who are so happy to spread that cult makes me so umcomfy and I wasn’t prepared to face that #not in a dnd campaign anyway #might delete later #just had to get that off my chest

[risingsoleil]

Spy x Family's newest chapter gave me major Linzin vibes 🥺🥺🥺

Imagine Linzin dancing together at Varrick's wedding, and they just overshadow everyone. They're not together (yet 👀) but their bodies still know how to move with grace and elegance. The world disappears around them as they dance again and it feels like they're teenagers.

Nothing matters except this very moment and that no matter has happened...no matter what will happen...they love each other.

Lin was nervous that she would trip up, but Tenzin just guides her through the easier movements. All eyes are on them and they forget that this is a wedding. They forget that Varrick and Zhu Li are the newlyweds...they forget that Tenzin is married to someone else.

#linzin #just had to get that off my chest #y'all wanna add to this? 👀

[holywhorror]

hello. i have a pretty cunt. thank you, that is all.

#bd/sm blog #bd/sm community #bd/sm brat #bd/sm kink #rough kink #for your information #just had to get that off my chest #mine

[faecaptainofdreams]

Piss off. It’s been teased for years, fans got played when the TTG movie came out, and when the little crap show was at its most popular, Tara and the other VA’s mocked fans of the OG show and made us feel like shit. They were more immature than the now-adults who they once entertained as kids. It’s embarrassing.

Love the OG show, love their work then. But since Trump first got in office people have been uncontrollably showing how stupid they are on public platforms, like some sort of disease. Tara’s a shitbag. “Look how nice i am by acknowledging the fans of the real show 🥺” god, give me a break. You literally held up middle fingers at us and laughed that we were upset that a fantastic show was “rebooted” as fart, poop, creepy sex jokes, and eye-assaulting color tones worse than you’d see in Little Einstein baby videos.

Just let Teen Titans the cartoon die in peace please. Stop cock teasing and pretending to give a shit about its fans.

#teen titans #i’m sorry #but not really #tara strong #just had to get that off my chest #probably gonna get hate but whatever #DC fandom is toxic af anyway

[uselessnocturnal]

i just think- that maybe- perhaps- if i may dare say- please don’t come at me guns ablazing- the pacing for the pjo show could be improved

#pjo show crit #i feel like the stakes are not as- stakesy #maybe it’s just me though #but the fight scenes just aren’t that exciting for me? #i plunge to my death is my Favourite tlt chapter and a lot of that stems from the silliness of why they went up in the first place #to echidna being quietly unsettling with her dog #to grover being anxious af because of the heights thing and percy being quietly supportive with his jelly beans #to the momentary relatable panic when you can’t all fit in the lift #and that very rapid devolvement into realising that Oh Shit Monster #AND BREAKING THAT TENSION WITH THE ANTEATER LINE #and the fight scenes and how he was panicking and she was taunting him with the ‘why have faith in the gods?’ #the Dread when he hits the collar and the burning pain of the unexpected sting #TO THE VERY LAST LINE WHERE HE JUMPS OUT AND PRAYS TO POSEIDON #anywyas #just had to get that off my chest

[incorectpercyjackson]

Leo: I’m saving my brain for special occasions. If i use it every day it’ll get dirty

#incorrect percy jackson quotes #incorrect quotes #incorrect percy jackson and the olympians quotes #incorrect greek mythology #incorrect heroes of olympus quotes #king leo #incorrect leo valdez #incorrect leo #leo #leo valdez #Valdez #He isn't stupid tho #He's very intelligent!!! #Sorry #just had to get that off my chest #Those quotes always make him appear stupid but he really isn't

[justxellia]

I would like to say that putting a pay wall on this new shit. IS.THE.DUMBEST.FUCKING THING I've ever seen.

Like your main audience is like teens and up who likely can't afford to spent 5$ a month. Like they could have put like an add free option as a pay wall. But this just stupid.

Anyway I think this decision will be watchers downfall if it isn't fixed. Because this is just forcing years old fans to pay for your content that was free before. You could have played around with members or a patreon, but nOoOoo strait to streaming service.

I hope a pirating site posts anyway. Because I was fine with the idea of a website but forcing us to pay draws the line. Fuck you.

Have the day you deserve, Watcher.

#watcher #shane madej #wtf #why #just had to get that off my chest #paywall it really #ryan bergara #community my ass

[420jimmyuso]

god forbid a man be a bit silly … god😒

#wwe #wwe raw #the judgment day #finn balor #monday night raw #raw #rhea ripley #free him he did nothing wrong #unrelated but finn looks so good in a hoodie #just had to get that off my chest #jds “what abt..” n pointing to finn like finn isnt the reason hes IN tjd 😒 #i hate him so bad

[scavengerssuccotash]

I don’t see how you find this man unattractive? Babes where?!

#anyway #jeremy renner #he’s hot #this was a thirst post #just had to get that off my chest #yeah yeah beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that

[bionicle-ramblings]

I forgot that Takua has crippling loneliness...

Now I'm realizing why I latch onto him, Vakama, and Jaller so much, aside from familiarity

Takua because I can relate to being introverted but still having SO MUCH to say to people and, again, feeling lonely even with people who care about me

Vakama because I can relate to having anxiety and putting so much pressure on myself that it can honestly make me run into a wall

Jaller I think it's because of the "particular" way he is, being the type that is very "by the book" and also because I can understand wanting to be cautious, though that tends to become irrational worry

Idk, it's that realization that just somewhat made me skid to a halt, like have an, "Oh, shit, hold on," moment

Idk, not much of a rambly post, but it's something I had to get off my chest really quick because I hope getting it out helps me more than anything, so I'm not thinking about it more than I should

#bionicle #ramblings #possible vent #vakama #takua #jaller #why is these three? #just had to get that off my chest #I'll be back to regularly programmed stuff I promise

[crobody]

ARF ARF BARK BARK BARK BARK ARF RUFF BARK BARK BARK WOOF WOOF WOOF ARF RUFF BARK BARK

#just had to get that off my chest