#its the mommy issues for me

[deadharvester]

Everyone in the realms watching Death pretend hes a soulless, heartless bastard:

#darksiders #darksiders 2 #darksiders death #horseman death #fuckin dumbass #get some therapy #its the mommy issues for me

[crimeschild]

the barbie (2023) experience as an afab non binary person is just [reconnecting with your femininity and love for pink bc you couldnt when u were younger bc being too girly will get u made fun of] [feeling guilt bc u dont identify with being a girl but girlhood is so inherently beautiful and magical and no experience is truly like it] [healing the inner child in you by allowing yourself to enjoy dolls and pink and maximalism] [unapologetically letting yourself wear pink and be stereotypically girly in a society where being non binary means you have to be presenting androgynous 24/7] [getting your grown-up heart shattered and then put back together again by your inner child using sparkly glue over and over in the span of two hours] [realizing that no matter what you do you have somewhat experienced girlhood and it shaped you to be the person you are today and you will never get to erase that experience or truly disconnect yourself from it] [appreciating and understanding your mother in a way that you thought wasnt possible without experiecing motherhood]

#my brain has permanently been altered by the barbie movie #ALSO THE MOMMY ISSUES IN THE MOVIE GOD FUCKING DAMN #when barbie said that the old woman is beautiful it makes me not fear getting old anymore #it's just all this time i feel so guilty like nothing but guilt when i present myself as femme and act all feminine but then identify with #being enby #and when i vocally advocate for feminism and all that but theres a little voice in my head going #but youre not a part of that club anymore you left them #BUT I KNOW ITS NOT WITHIN MY CONTROL BC I DONT HAVE CONTROL OF MY GENDER AND HOW I FEEL ABOUT IT #barbie #barbie movie #barbie 2023 #ken #margot robbie #ryan gosling #mine #queer #woah 1k????? #1k #2k

[realbeefman]

stacy is sooo interesting because she's in love with house but knows that they will never ever be able to have a healthy, stable, sane relationship because they're too similar so. she finds house-lite instead and marries him and. essentially moves on with her life! and is successful in this because she's a moderately well-adjusted person!

wilson, in contrast, never manages to escape the inevitable, in spite of his best efforts to find a house-lite of his very own, because he's an absolute fucking freak and ends up glued to house to the bitter. bitter end

#yeah im too sleepy to revise this. UNFILTERED posting wooahh #some may b shocked but i do actually read thru most of my posts several times to make sure i didnt accidentally write mein kampfe 2 #recently ive come to the realization that i am in fact not an incredibly chill person #and that the constant paranoia and fear in which i live my life is actually PROBABLY a symptom of severe anxiety #like damn. ive always known that im pretty prone to depression but ive preetty much always been aware of that #my mom is a chronic depressive so i know the symptoms i know the signs i have a pretty good arsenal of healthy coping mechanisms #UNFORTUNATELY mommy's mental health problems did not help her not abuse me as a child #so i ended up being a terribly anxious kid who was constantly being screamed at and told i was overreacting (because i was. because i had #a severe anxiety problem that was making me react irrationally.) to everything all the time #which is you know. it is VERY difficult to deal with a mental health problem when you arent aware you have a problem! #its incredible how much. better. my life has gotten since i figured this out and started actively trying to work out what triggers it #and being able to like. realize 'oookay. there is an Issue here and it needs to be overcome' #instead of just beating on myself constantly for not being able to do things without feeling sick or getting breathing problems! #anyways. trauma dumping in tags is over now! #house md #hilson #greg house #james wilson #stacy warner

[murk888]

Aro 👉👈

I DIDN'T HAVE MY TWILIGHT STAGE IN TIME, OKAY?!? Now I watch the films while dying from laughter most of the time, their faces I can't-

MICHAEL SHEEN >>>>> 🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐

#i liked frollo and snape what did i/you expect.. #GUYS. GUYS. HEAR ME OUT- #sketch #art #digital art #artists on tumblr #twilight #twilight saga #volturi #aro volturi #michael sheen #one word about me having father issues and i will fucking kill everyone in the room and then myself #jk i know i have them☠️ #mommy issues too #bruh #sorry spamton lovers #its human time #or vampire time? #кровосися короче #hahahaaa i will suck your di- blood i mean blood #drawing characters who are extremely rarely liked #again #it happens every time i swear #spamton is the exception #he's popular and liked by lots of people fr #true big shot indeed #no but real Aro is nuts tbh #everyone who I like is!☠️ so I just change their characters to my own liking (and suddenly everyone becomes psychologically healthy hmmm) #be cringe be free #have a nice day everyone

[razberrypuck]

fucked up that dropping gillion off for his training was done as unceremoniously as it was btw. it wasn't some grand goodbye, they didn't do anything special that day for their little boy -- it was just gillion and his father. his sister, his mother, his grandfather, they weren't there. it was just gillion, his father, and a quiet, possibly several day long trip to the capital. it was just gillion and his father at the steps of the palace, just his father that saw the big smile on his face, heard the little boy's promises of telling them everything when he got home. no one had even bothered explaining what was going on to him. he had to figure it out on his own, when papa never came back.

#obviously gill has /loads/ of mommy AND daddy issues #but i think the simple fact that it was reed and reed alone that brought him to the palace #is why his daddy issues are SO prevalent #like hes called SO many people “papa” (as opposed to “mom”; which hes only /really/ used for aster and lunadeyus) #and its just. auauaaggdhghg #he doesnt necessarily think about falyn and reed as his own parents anymore; he asks edyn about their wellbeing like she isnt his sister #(referring to them as “The parents” rather than “Our parents”) #but hes so desperate for that parental connection. he always has been. #and it makes me. emotional. #i want to meet his parents. i want HIM to meet his parents. #i want him to have the opportunity to build a relationship with them #or to find some kind of closure; at the very least. #jrwi riptide #jrwi #jrwi show #just roll with it #gillion tidestrider #jrwi gillion

[kamboree]

Vriska

#Vriska Serket #Homestuck #drawing #digital art #my art #sketch #art #Vriska #fanart #homestuck fanart #drew this a little while ago and im really happy with it. its super silly and cartoonish it reminds me of my old artstyle #i didnt like vriskas character when i first read homestck but i see her appeal now #shawty with the mommy issues like i get it

[dirtytransmasc]

Alicent and Aegon are so Virgin Mary and Jesus coded, in a sick and twisted way that it barely makes sense, but at the same time just... does.

a mother and her child born damned from the start, yet she loved him to her core, accepting her fate, accepting she would lose him and then herself.

she carried him, birthed him, raised him, loved him, devoted her very being to him... she lost him, grieved him, lost her mind in his absence. the gods her only respite, yet, when she needed them most, when she needed them to protect her son, her baby, her reason for being, where were they?

#the catholic guilt and angst is getting to me #the mommy issues I used to project on The Mother Mary are now being projected onto Alicent #Aegon and Jesus are literally the same person but also not and they parallel one another perfectly but its also an insult to say they do #two side of the same coin??? #two sons damned by their fathers two mothers damned by their sons both only having each other #maybe #I don't know anymore #it just feels right in my gut #and I'm so tired and just feeling... things... and this post was born #aegon ii targaryen #aegon targaryen #alicent hightower #pro alicent hightower #pro team green #hotd #house of the dragon #tw religion #tw religious themes #tw religious imagery

[anxiouspotatorants]

I’m done being friendly here’s an aggressive reminder that Jess and Lane should’ve become besties and stayed besties throughout the seasons

#you cannot tell me they wouldn’t have bonded HARD over more than music and Rory #which is already a strong foundation on its own btw #the mommy issues?? #the not knowing what to do with their adult lives?? #the loving of arts that they didn’t know could love them back??? #where are my Jess and Lane bestie adventures ASP where ARE THEY #gilmore girls #jess mariano #lane kim #lane x jess #but platonic #audio junkies #the potato rants in the tags

[b0ttl3d-up-st4rs]

I just feel such an incredible sense of grief when I look at people who have a good relationship with their parents.

#vent #emotional abuse #emotional neglect #actually abused #cptsd #abusive parents #me when my mom is emotionally abusive and my dad is emotionally neglectful #like why has my mom deadass attempted to gaslight me and my dad is just an npc #bro doesnt speak unless spoken to or if its necessary to the plot #mommy issues #daddy issues

[jet-apologistmybadhomies]

am i toxic for this? maybe. but the Moment someone makes a Katara Talks too much about her mom joke or even complain about it? they're blockkkkeddd. like i will Not talk to u anymore i know all i needed to know about u

#avatar the last airbender #atla #Katara #atla kya #kataras mom #Kataras Mommy issues #katara supremacy #its Not even a funny joke #makes me roll my eyes everytime #u aint a real Katara fan if u do tbh #sorry i DO make the rules

[mikakuna]

nobody understands how important catholic jason todd is to me

#and i mean as a current catholic #just because it resonates so hardddd #i have so many fucking thoughts about catholic jason todd :( #its so dear to me #for me religion is my own relationship with god and it has nothing to do with literally anyone else #trauma led me to my faith and i like to think it would jason #and also exploring jason as a queer catholic YES #urnghhhh #so many thoughts.... so many... #jason having daddy issues leading him to god the father #and him having mommy issues leading him to being a hardcore mother mary worshipper #we are the same!

[leounderseas]

Rant I had with my friend that I thought was important since I'm on Tumblr and I can be more open with my opinions than in other places

#if youre curious #my marge headcanon is that hes 26 #30 at MOST #hes young and stupid i feel like that is very very relevant to his character writing and it would be so different if he was in his 40s #or something #he also fled from his clan at like #14 #so hes been doing shit on his own by himself for 12 years now IN MY HEAD #with no parental guidance #this guy has hella mommy issues #also i have to specify #please don't kill me #i know tumblr isnt as hostile to headcanons and opinions than twitter or instagram but please have mercy #i have a family #its 3 cats and two dogs and my mom #royal margarine cookie #cookie run kingdom #crk

[yooniesim]

Not the antiblack, transphobic troll blog doing a classic dirty delete... Can't delete dumbassery love, that stays on the internet forever 😂

Dumbass already forgot the teen life stage exists, misgendered me in a random post showing both they ass cheeks, doubled down about it with a classic "he/she/it whatever they are", made fun of a black person's black sim's lips being "too big" while randomly hyping up a black sim made by a white simmer, posted 90% black sims making fun of their features while reblogging posts w/black celebrities like ice cube and Rihanna (probably the only black ppl they know) to add to their lil act, said "i don't only make fun of blacks" and blocked when confronted about it (soooo obvious), which was all pretty boring and expected and not worth acknowledging... but then they deleted all of that cos the big bad honest troll blog got no spine! which has me fucking rolling HELP 🤣

How ya gonna act like the voice of the ppl and delete all your bad takes? Didja get too many mean asks about them, baby boy? 🥺 can't stand by all ur meaningless dick swinging? feeling insecure about having no comeback skills on top of that? 🥺 every time someone bucks up at you you do a delete and stop acknowledging them and its so damn funny for someone pretending to be so hard and real. I mean I knew you were gonna mention me once you saw I said you have no skills, I was waiting to see what you'd come up with, but I didn't expect it to be this weak... imagine being a troll and taking obvious bait 🤭 just to confirm u got no talent. soooo sorry 😂

So much for "honesty" 😢

#ceci speaks #nonsims #text #delete later #not some of yall rallying around an obvious bigot pretending to be black #just say u want an excuse to talk about ppl sims instead of making it a civil rights issue #id respect u more if u did #but got theres nothing worse than a weak troll that got no skills #still aint gonna mention ur name bc i know its driving u wild not to get the free advertisement #you might as well stop deleting cos screenshots are forever sweetheart #sorry to address a troll yall but all this deleting is tickling me so bad #'it feels so good to be honest!!! im having a blast!!! really!! im so cool someone believe me!!!' #*deletes everything they say the minute they get backlash* #😂😂😂 #these 20 year old minors aint never gonna learn the game #if ya get mentioned dw that lil bitch babie will delete it within 24 hrs #before mommy checks they internet history #🤣🤣🤣 #i know i preach about not feeding trolls but yall got NOTHING to worry about with this one #im sorry love but some ppl got it and some dont... and u dont

[lil-gae-disaster]

TW: ABUSE

You know what really infuriates me? How media has 90% of the population (at least western population) convinced that abusers are always those angry people that get physical and shout profanities at the victim as soon as they step through the door to the room.

Especially it's infuriating because I am a victim of abuse. Have I been slapped as a child? Of course. Did my parents stop as soon as I could comprehend what was happening? Yes. I am grateful that they did, but this also left some severe damage on my psyche. Did they shout profanities at me? No. Did they give me degrading nicknames like comparing me to an inanimate object whenever I (a CHILD) was being stupid? Yes. Did this also leave damage that will need decades to repair. Was I sheltered from stuff my peers weren't? Yes. Was I (/am i) reprimanded for showing my human emotions? Yes. Am I being denied rest after 8 days stress? Of course.

It's not fair that media has manipulated the majority of people that what I and many, many others have to go through isn't abuse. Yes, physical abuse exists, but so does psychological and emotional. And there isn't just physical abuse. This invalidates many others experiences. I am still not 100% of the time absolutely 100% sure I'm abused because I, too, have been taught abuse is mainly physical. And other individuals don't even realize they're being abused until they have spent a considerable amount of time in a healthy environment. Like I did. It took my friends for me to realize I'm being abused by my mother.

Stop displaying abuse only as THE ONE kind. There are many. All have to be shown equally for people to set them as equal because all is equally bad.

And stop displaying abusers as those 24/7 horrible people that aren't capable of love. In my experience, abusers are very well of being civil/loving their victims. I have a fairly good relationship with my mother. Who is my abuser. Is this relationship between us (familial back off weirdos) healthy? No absolutely not. Do I still cherish those moments? He'll yes. Abusers are people with a story and a personality and, most importantly, most of the time at least, in my experience, a heart.

Thanks for coming to my talk.

#help #tw abuse #child abuse #mommy issues #ted talks #real talk #this is important #very much so #For me and other victims #representation matters #Even in cases of abuse #Be it from a spouse partner or family member #Its diverse #not just one #Kind #And #not the good kind #spread awareness

[phoenix-drop-guard]

Been absolutely dead in the mornings and afternoons, I did not know taking care of a child would be this difficult.

Zoeys working on helping during the day and I take night shift. You would think aphmau would take morning shift for her new son.

But no, she's off finding out if this kids has a mother.

#minecraft diaries #outsider pov #aphblr #aphmau #mcd zoey #look #aphmaus great and all #but some of her decisions make me wander why we let her be lord #like this #idk #maybe its just me with mommy and daddy issues

[r-biter]

az for the character bingo. your relationship w him fascinates me

Put gently, i need him dead, but he IS like the most interestingly weird person in the IC likely.

#like him and rhys are neck and neck #i can graph his parental issues directly onto his issues with illyrians #smth smth its Really Weird that when describing his childhood they bring up his step mother specifically #when everything points to her likely not making any of the actual major decisions about his childhood #like resenting her makes sense dont get me wrong but azriels father not beinf their first thought in that scenario says smth #smth smth azriel projects his stepmother onto all illyrian women barring like a couple #and it has led to him resenting them and doing nothing to stop the system that hurt his mother #while also reviling the men for that exact system #and he cant really stop doing this without ultimately engaging with the fact that hes a bystander to their struggles despite his power #and therefore not much better then the men if at all #also his mommy issues manifest as him being really weird about the women hes attracted to #he projects the same vulnerability of his mother onto every women weve seen him be attracted to #and it results in him trying to stop them from doing reckless shit he doesnt stop others from doing #like ppl reduce his weirdness around elain as him being weird about her specifically but hes like that in acomaf towards mor too #which makes absolutely no sense because Mor has been Actively A Warrior the same amount of time #basically what im saying is this man needs therapy and also to be as far from every woman and illyrian possible #i do like cazriel but its specifically because its like. toxic x toxic #like okay cw for stealthing in the tags (insane sentence ik) #and the general lack of consent implied #there is a reason ive written like cazriel mpreg where they both keep poking condoms but dont tell each other #(i am aware that sentence is insane) #and its because i dont think either of these men are as they are currently capable of being normal #and are both specifically the way they are because they fear being abandoned in some way #cassian acts the way he does towards rhys because he fears some level of abandonment #azriel refuses to properly express his feelings in any romantic context because he fears abandonment #like im not gonna rawdog ppl who interpret him pleasantly cause like i see where theyre coming from #the bad just reallly outways the good #also im still mad he called elaine the third #i need him dead for that specifically